Most young people do and seeing how college wamen avoid responsibility I'm not surprised bill said it best on a podcast bit w Nia. " Every woman is a hero in their stories" he's spot on on that one
@@dannyvalvoda8213 He's obviously not cool with it. He can tamp it down as much as he can, but it's going to continue to bother him. If he's not cool with it now, he's never going to be. Girl needs to find someone else and not mention the cheating.
Holy shit her partner shared some heavy personal stuff and she just shared that like it's something to laugh about. Meanwhile she expresses no regrets about being a cheater
That has to be a troll. I think he pushed his luck with the whole cop and n word thing. I doubt any cop has ever been fired for dropping the n word ever
her: my boyfriend is not "alpha male" the boyfriend: has a great job, sense of humor, owns a house in a classy neighborhood, has money, doesn't have kids, loves her despite her past.
You forgot "doesn't care what other people think " if all that doesn't qualify as alpha male, then I hope the guy finds someone else. From the way this sounds, the girl is with him for convenience.
Women seem to always want the men that dont want them, or cant commit to them. They cant feel anything unless theyre on fire with passion. Good men just get used. Is what it is.
The comments about his family were unnecessary she is trying to make it look like he might have problems and deflect from the fact that she was a cheater.
@@ChillAssTurtle Ya but it's common knowledge that women do it WAAAAAAAAAY more than men and everyone knows it and thank you for proving me right by deflecting to the fact that sometimes men do it. You literally just did the thing that I was saying that women do.
@@luminous6969 sometimes..? Really bro youre out here like ayy girl whats your credit score ;) can you fix a toilet? You good at knitting lol no you go from shes hot to me to oh cool she also happens to be this or that...stop lyin nerd youre unattractive and thats your problem not mine
Dunno man, the boyfriend is right to be on guard around her now. Using the excuse of marrying too young as justification to cheat says she hasn't matured (especially since she clearly has the victim mentality & the whole "my fertile years are ending"). Unless she proves otherwise, the boyfriend is right to question her.
Her saying that said everything you need to know. She wants to have a baby with pretty much anyone that'll have her and is worried that this guy won't stick around, or at the very least, not want to be around her and take care of the baby on his own.
The only thing she did was explain why she would cheat on his current partner too 🤣 "he's not an alpha and his family has issues" she only justified herself. Also, the guy she described is totally an alpha, if she cheats i hope he remains strong and find himself someone who love and respect him
@@renoirrandy7241you kidding me? The guy had 2/3 of his family taken from him by tragedy and remained resilient, became successful and independent, he has his life sorted out. That's far more you can say about most people. Besides all that about being alpha is BS anyways, but still, he has a lot of positive traits that people usually find atractive (notice how much she talked about his family instead of him, so chances are she doesn't have much to complain and she's just into those cliché "alpha" bros)
@@thebigvega4415 I'm not referring to the guy specifically. I'm just point out having money doesn't make one an alpha. I know lots of guys with money that their wives/ women control them and don't respect them. You do realise I never said if he is or isn't an alpha.
These modern women always try their hardest to justify their bad behavior and avoid all accountability for making bad decisions. Accountability to women is like chocolate to dogs. It's their one weakness.
I’ve had some friends that cheated, and after the first time they found it easy to do it again. It’s like they break a mental barrier after crossing that line
It shows that the person's morality alone does not prevent them from cheating. They don't honor their commitments. They are recreational use only. All of them.
If you cheat and your partner forgives you, you should be grateful you even got to stay. This chick is deluding herself into thinking she deserved better than she has, when she really deserves to be treated worse.
How about some context relative to the issue from her here? She gave plenty of details that don't matter about her bf's family to drag him, but neglected to explain the reason for the cheating. Or how he came to "find out," like it's none of his bizness, even tho he's in a relationship that could lead to marriage, and her cheating again. More important to the story - Why she didn't reveal it sooner? Is she sorry she did it? Does she realize that type of behavior can never be justified and reflects weak character, no matter the "reason" for doing it? Or is it all about her bf's sensitivity and his inability to "accept her for who she is?" A wise man once gave some advice I'd offer to the boyfriend in this situation to help him understand he's got a partner with potential to cheat - "Uh, well, you know - You get what you pay for, sweetheart."
Honestly she needs to break up and move on, she doesn’t really love him. She basically says it in her words she wants break up but her child years are coming to a close. She is only with him for children not for love. Its not fair to him and its not fair to herself! But from what it sounds like too she is looking for problems that aren’t there in the relationship and while looking for a out. Which says a lot from her past cheating and now looking leave her current relationship it means she can’t stay in healthy relationships. If she doesn’t address it, eventually she’ll be 60 and been 100 relationships that have failed because she can’t be happy in any of them.
Advice for people who cheated. Your only option is to be up-front about it from the start. They will find out and it will ruin things. Your only chance it to be accountable for your past. It sucks cause first 3 months you have to justify why things are different now and how it wont happen again but people eventually realize they preferred to hear it from you rather than finding out themselves 6 months in.
In my opinion, a cheater doesn’t always have to be a cheater for life, but if they get away with it with their current partner or they are forgiven by their current partner for cheating on them they will do it again.
As a Wise man once said: "the best predictor of a future behavior is past behavior" She cheated in the past, there is a high chance that she'll cheat again.
We "mathematician/engineering types" may appear strange, but we are real. That man may need to consider finding a mate that is more his type. He may not be an "alpha-male," but nerds are cool, if you can keep up with their thinking. Of course, some are mad. As a metaphor, when designing an amplifier, there are tradeoffs. Do you want more gain or more bandwidth? Some brilliant people are born with the gain, and less bandwidth; they should be avoided because they can be crazy. Bill, you are hilarious! Thank you for brightening my day.
I know this video is old because Bale breaking Liverpool's fans hearts is from years ago, but this lady needs to understand that even if she ends it with this guy the next one is going to do the same thing, you cheated on you HUSBAND, you SWORE to be loyal, every guy is going to have that in the back of their mind lmao. It's called actions and consequences
Did my brother write this? He likes dating grandmas, thinks he’s a scientist because he knows that high fructose corn syrup is bad for you, and has serious mommy issues. (different mothers) The answer is no, I am not black.
Was her watching “Murder She Wrote” annoying to that kid? Lol! Jk I’m older than her but that sounds like an insurmountable age gap especially for a man dating an older woman.
LOL ima say a lot of dads need that book the first step should be not to abandon your daughter or kids in general not to hurt them where they can’t even think of you without being sick and upset. You think this would be common sense but ig not
That type of mentality makes people paranoid about others their past. Would you be fine being with someone that you think you love but if you knew about their past you would be unable to even be friends with them? I'm genuinely curious
I know the comments are so quick to jump on the "cheater" but homie needs to get over that. Walking on eggshells just makes everyone miserable so either leave or get over it jeez stop being a pussy. Seems like she wont cheat on him but behavior like this helps drive both men and women to cheat in the first place. Either LEAVE or GET OVER IT
Husband admitted he cheated on his wife in the past: he was honest and it was years ago! She needs to get over it! Wife/gf admits she cheated in a different relationship: (this comment section)
The mistake here is even touching a woman aged 30 or over. The only exception to this is if she was like 20 when you first had her, and you continue to touch her 10 years later. Washed up, passed around.
Let the punishment fit the crime. Your ex-husband divorced you. That should be the punishment. This parole officer attitude by this guy is weak. He's trying to get over on you for something that only affects him positively. He would have never met you if you didn't screw things up with your ex. He should count his blessings and stop playing the victim.
She left out a lot of context. She shared plenty of personal details about him to make him sound damaged. Yet she neglected to explain herself for cheating, which is fundamentally the issue here. Also how did the current guy come to "find out" about the cheating, from her or someone else? More importantly: is she even sorry? She never said so. Does she understand how her behavior reflects on her character and impacts the people around her? Again, she wrote nothing about that. So how am I supposed to know that she learned anything from her past? Shouldn't he try to figure out if she's going to be faithful and accountable? Does the guy deserve time to size these things up before marrying her? That level of trust isn't earned overnight. Or is this always going to be about his inadequacies, his sensitivity and his inability to "accept her"? For sure, he should be able to make a decision and act on it. But in the meantime, she's clouding the issue by emasculating him and trying to browbeat him into marriage. Why advertise him as "not an alpha male"? That's a really weird way to describe a man you supposedly love. Why share all his family trauma? It doesn't seem relevant, he sounds successful and well adjusted. The fly in the ointment is her cheating. Maybe if she takes ownership and gives him reassurance, they'll be able to move past it. Instead, she seems inclined to blame him for her own transgressions.
a masculine woman she need to find a loser to fit her , the guy is good for being a man not letting himself get overpowered by taking her back after she hit him like that , he should have slapped her then broke up it would have being better teach her a lesson about what will happen when you offend a guy
