I would love to hear his first impression on basically all of these he could find. Then I'd love to have him think over it for a while and come back to each one. His definition of demisexual had me laughing for a long long time.
@@youtubeepicuser4209 Haha, "exactly" may have been an exaggeration. Even an extremely beautiful woman can turn me off with a personality I don't like and I don't really expect people to be likeable.
@@youtubeepicuser4209 sexually attracted and actually being comfortable enough to have sex with them are two different things. I can see a girl at the gym who’s hot but if I miraculously ended up in a bed with her I personally wouldn’t be able to bang them until I knew I was comfortable around them. That’s me anyways, nothing against others who don’t live the way I do.
I can't believe how long that email was. Just dealbreaker after dealbreaker and when I think she's done, she keeps going. Scary how much being in the middle of something fucks with the decision making ability of an otherwise rational person.
Exactly. it's a combination of him satisfying all of his urges and the power and control he has over the girls. I know someone like this and they do genuinely laugh about it.
if one person in the couple wants to be "polyamorous" and the other wants to be monogamous.....the best thing they can do is break up. because it wont work. the "polyamorous" one WILL cheat and blame the other person for it.
Also, I've seen women demand that the relationship become "open" or they'll leave their partner. Sorry, but it's not consensual if you have to coerce your partner like that. You're literally just telling them, "here's the deal, honey. I'm going to cheat on you, and if you complain about it, I'm dumping you." Then they have a the fucking NERVE to accuse their boyfriend of being insecure. Gee, I wonder why???
you can also have a relationship dynamic where the poly person lives a poly lifestyle and the mono person doesn't. nothing inherently undoable about that.
C'mon...how many of you out there literally laughed out loud, along with throwing in some "What the fuck?!"s after hearing every stupid excuse/reason the boyfriend kept giving this woman?😆
Ladies listening/relating to this one, IT IS NOT LOVE YOU FEEL. Stop now, go no further. Listen to everyone telling you what they see, it is the truth. You’re addicted to a codependent cycle of self sabotage and pain. You WILL regret staying and you will hate how it will change you. Love yourself, baby girl. LEAVE.
@@basedbarackobama Well, he literally had to google these terms so yeah he’s ignorant to them. Ignorance isn’t always an insult, it just mean they don’t know something
@@chilloutlawolf8622 I don't know about "way more good relationships than bad". I'd say maybe 10% of long term relationships are good. The rest are fucking miserable and either lazy, stuck (don't want to lose all their shit or lose access to their kids), or financially dependent.
Polyamorous person here. Bill is right, as usual. A main point of being polyamorous is HONESTY. You say what your about before you even approach the subject of a relationship. If the other person isn’t on board, you move on so they can find a relationship that makes them happy and gives they want out of it. That guy’s a douche.
Right. Big red flag when he described polyamory as "maybe we could have a threesome" this guy just learned a word and tried to use it to excuse shitty behavior.
Sometimes I think I really need advice on stuff. And then I just think about Billy Boyo reading my email and the play becomes clear as day, without actually needing him to read it. His advice is so sound and I’m glad his voice lives in my head rent free as a source of stoic, detached honesty.
Poly relationships. "I just love to be loved and to give love to others". More like "I can't emotionally or sexually commit to anyone in my life. You are all tools to make me feel better about myself even if I don't admit it to myself" That's what I've noticed with my poly friends at least
Exactly the same as monogamy. Only difference is that in monogamy you have only one tool to satisfy all emotional and sexual needs. Yes, you can pretend that monogamy is a special and more "sacred" form of a connection, but truth is that people enter monogamous (as well as other forms of) relationships mostly not because of that other "special" person, but because of themselves. Because of their desires to form a family, their desire the abolish the fear of loneliness, fear of growing old and dying alone, lack of intimacy, lack of sex and so on and so on... As if "monogamous commitment" is the hardest form of all and polygamous people are taking the easy route. What a joke. While I agree that every relationship is hard, hardest thing by far is to be continuously alone. I know we'd all like that monogamous relationships remain an image that is "divine & sacred" in our minds and that we are better and more stable people than those who believe otherwise, but in the end... we are all taking the easy route because of our fears and insecurities. I am a monogamous person, not a polygamous and I just really really don't like to pretend that my life's philosophy is morally better. Only reason why monogamy is objectively better is because of kids. When people don't want kids, then it simply doesn't matter. They can do whatever they want, and I am not better than them.
@@ThePathOfDawn Monogamy is objectively more superior than polyamory in the fact that the former is actually virtuous. A relationship is a huge undertaking. Sure, simply fucking around is easy but that's not really a "relationship". That's simply you banging everything that moves with the assurance that all the other people involved will still allow you to get some, perhaps in another month or so. With monogomy you are basically expecting/providing the biggest slice of one's life and time, outside work, own personal life, and family - the basic necessity to create and maintain an actually meaningful connection with another person. Lots of one-on-one relationships are already faulty with one or both parties lacking in time and effort. That's only gonna get exacerbated by having multiple relationships.
Reagan was President until January of 1989. So the 90s, the 00s, and the teens are like three decades, with a little extra on each end, Bill is roughly correct. Six since Reagan are Bush, Clinton, W, Obama, Trump, Biden.
That "polygamous" guy sounds like my sister's ex husband. He constantly gaslighted her (Though now he says she was the one who gaslighted him) and cheated on her during their marriage. Once she found out he was cheating he tried to convince her they could repair the relationship but all the while kept on cheating on her. He just got more open about it and tried to convince my sister she just had to do better to repair the relationship. When the women he was cheating with "broke up" with him, he even blamed my sister on it. They got a divorce, luckily, but the guy tries to make everything as difficult as possible. Especially with their children.
A polyamorous relationship with 2 wife’s would suck so much. 3 would be awesome. 4+ would be the dream. If it was 2 I think they would either gang up on you or would be constantly competing/fighting. 3 they would probably hang up on 1 girl which would men you’re constantly need to listen and comfort that wife. 4. They can be mean to one but another can comfort them too. Enough females to sufficiently regulate themselves. This might happen at five. I’m not sure. (Don’t take this post to serious)
I don’t know about you, but I always assumed that not having sex with anyone else was automatically implied when people got together unless explicitly stated otherwise.
Yeahhhhhh!!!! Toooooollll!!!! When I heard that coming up in the background I thought my Spotify was playing, I’m 18 but I was brought up with the right fucking music.
@@SecondHandShaun really? never heard him talk about it. I don't even think he's diagnosed. There's a episode where Nia mentions that he might have ADD. Not that he has it and is taking meds. Also, that stuff kills creativity. Highly doubt he takes it... it would detract from his comedy
Side note: Bill‘s ADD came in strong in this clip. Then the clip was clipped at just the most impossible time point. Interspersed with 5 ads, this upload was a not so smooth experience -.-
Glad to hear you're Tool fan, you should check out the live drum cam video of Danny Carey doing"Pneuma" he is amazing and I know you are a fan of great drumming.
There seems to be a new word invented every day. I can't keep up with it. So I'm saving all my money for when l get sued for saying something l don't even know.
@@JohnDoe-zh6cp Dramatic, ok John Doe. I've already been sued and lost. So obviously you are not taking this seriously. If you think I'm talking out of my ass, reply back and I will tell you. You better bet your ass you need too watch what comes out of your pie hole, you most certainly can and will get sued. There are people that are just nasty people( not referring to you) that are sue happy. And in my case, it was , well we will just say unjust.
@@JohnDoe-zh6cp Mr. Doe, I live in America, the home of the brave and free, used to be. What I got sued for was nothing more then freedom of speech, which is slipping away here at an alarming rate. I should have repealed it, but I am one of the few here that works hard and doesn't want any free hand outs. Are you an American, because if you are you would know this country is under attack. As soon as comedians start to get introubled for what they say, it will be over. And it's already starting. If you must know what I was sued over, eliton me, which part of the world are you from.
Gdamnit Google! I listen to the first 1:33 of this and you shoot me an ad about "polyamorous relationships"? I'm closer to buying a Pixel than I am to becoming a swinger.
When someone tells me they're in a "Polyamorous relationship" I just laugh and say, "Oh, so you aren't in a real relationship. Gotcha." Then I walk away.
@@hokagedlo6133 my son made up an animal called arcynthecriftinochisny. Its got 4 necks and procreates trisexually. We gonna include that in the biology class too?
yeah these aren't red flags. This is looking out the winow of the plane and seeing that the wings are gone, the fuselage in on fire and, and aliens are coming aboard and you are like "hmmm, should I bail out?"
Polyamorous relationship basically is when those people that want to sleep around, get together and decide to cheat on each other. You know, those people that are in a "relationship", but are prone to flirt and cheat on their partner, basically, you got two or more of those, they stumble upon each other, and then they get together and decide to cheat on each other, which is good, cause they are segregating themselves from normal people that dont like cheating. Except that every once in a while, one of them starts coming to their senses, but they are still unaware why, so then they fight amongst each other cause they feel betrayed.
I'm Demi, and I honestly can't fully process the idea of people being sexually attracted to each other from first glance. I mean, I know it happens, but I just don't have the frame of reference to understand how that feels. But then I get hard thinking about cuddling on a couch with a lover to watch a movie and I remember that I'm the weirdo here, lol.
So is it just that experiential idea that attracts you? Is it through interaction that you gain attraction or? I find it hard to process that like you would my mentality towards woman I guess. When I see a woman I instantly can tell if I am attracted or not. When you see a person you just see that, a person, but at what point do you think about “cuddling” and is it respective on one individual, do you have a person in mind? I think it’s normal to not think of an individual in the terms you set without a few interactions. However I guess I could tell instantly if that person is even applicable for me to possibly have that type of thought at some later point.. in some cases Ik instantly I would “hit” simply due to physical attraction via on the eye test.
The only thing weird about it is that you think it needs a label. People should value a relationship more than s3x. The label demisexual is just holding you back from meeting like minded people.
@@sawderf741 no sex is an important aspect of any healthy relationship, if a partner in a relationship has a problem with that, it's time to move on and find someone who feels the same as you do. No point in trying to manipulate or justify anything, just move on.
@@lelmath That's an amazingly stupid reply, even more so than the original comment - which is impressive. "Why would someone call themself a plumber? can't they just go about their individual business and avoid labels?" Makes no sense. Yet you somehow turn it into a practice in groupthink propaganda while trying to criticize other people for blindly engaging in "community". Pot, kettle.
