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BITTERSWEET LOVE STORIES of Japanese girls and boys 

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Love in Japan is not always that easy. Here are some bittersweet love scenarios that really happened to girls and boys in Japan.
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@xxwallzxx4509
@xxwallzxx4509 5 лет назад
That man literally said that he got slapped so hard he lost hearing.. 😲
@malazafrica8520
@malazafrica8520 5 лет назад
XxWallzxX well, he got an apology letter that was full of sorries lol
@MirIsAwesome
@MirIsAwesome 5 лет назад
drop an F for karate boy, thats so sad omg
@shirin8609
@shirin8609 5 лет назад
lol nope, he got a sorry letter and he was happy so it's all good :P
@hulavux8145
@hulavux8145 4 года назад
Shirin oh no, that’s not it. It’s the girl he liked liked the other friend that is sad
@copymizer
@copymizer 5 лет назад
big up to cathy cat, she's such a good interviewer, really engaging and natural with those she interviews
@Skitty235
@Skitty235 5 лет назад
i have a long love story but its... long and hard to write out, if i manage to have the guts to post it then this comment will be up there was a boy i really liked in my first year of high school, i was in a new town so i didnt know anyone. i met him a few weeks after school started and we ended up being in our last two classes together, so we would walk to our last class together which made my tender little heart explode. we had our PE class together, hes the nerdy type so he wasnt the best at sports but i used to just watch him and daydream (aaaaaaa embarrassing) i think the best part was during the swim unit portion of PE, ive always been pretty poor so i never had a towel or even flip flops, i used to beg my friends to borrow their towels but they were usually pretty picky about it. but one day it was really cold and no one was sharing their towel with me that day.. suddenly i felt something trying to be wrapped around me, it was the boy trying to wrap his tshirt around my shoulders, he gave up and shyly told me to put on the tshirt, my heart melted. he even gave me his socks so i didnt have to walk all the way to the girls locker room on the gravel (the girls locker room was much further away than the boys)... anyways at the end of the school year i never confessed my love to him and i moved to a different state... BUT i moved back. and he was still there. we had a year of just hanging out and being friends, then in my senior year i couldnt take it anymore and i wanted to ask him out. my friend gave me a cookie and made me promise i would ask him out that day.. i didnt. so the next day i went to her house and her and my other friend gave me the option of asking him out over text then and there or making me go to school looking as embarrassing as possible. stakes were high and my heart rate was higher but i hit send on the text "hey i was wondering, do you want to go on a date this saturday?" the anxiety was killing me, but it was all worth it in the end as i got the text back; "sure" so yeah we went on a date and we dated for a few years and we're now engaged, moral of the story: dreams can come true
@honya9901
@honya9901 5 лет назад
Skitty235 omg I am so happy for you , this is so nice 😭
@motionista
@motionista 5 лет назад
Oh my God be happy together guys!!! I am so happy reading this story!
@ageguyera
@ageguyera 5 лет назад
I couldn’t stop smiling throughout this one. So many sweet little stories! ☺️
@demef758
@demef758 5 лет назад
8:08 Boyfriend-girlfriend who didn't talk for 5-6 months. Hell, that's not a love relationship, that's marriage!
@Nobody-yx8og
@Nobody-yx8og 3 года назад
8:29, This one is sooooooo cute! 🥰 I have a cute memory with waving hands in it but it doesn't include love. When I was in primary school, I was a kinda dumb and naive girl that I sometimes waved at people who I didn't know when I was going to school by bus. As a child, I thought this would cheer them up 😅 One day, I waved at an old man who seems sad, he noticed me, we waved hands to each other and smiled. Then weeks or months after, I had a bad day and was feeling really bad. I raised my head and looked outside of the bus's window. And, guess what? That old man was waving at me with a big smile on his face! I suddenly felt so happy and waved back at him excitedly. It has been like 8-9 years since that time and I still remember this sweet memory. I hope that old man is doing great and fine, right now 🙏🏻💕We couldn't talk and won't have a chance to talk or meet in the future but I will be grateful to him always for his sweet thoughts of cheering me up that day 😊✨
@charlottevalentine9430
@charlottevalentine9430 5 лет назад
I'll share you my story. First of all, I'm a person who hardly fall in love with someone or something. But when I do, I really do. I was close to this one guy and I like him, but I'm shy and awkward so I don't really tell my actual feeling (plus i might be wrong too about my own feeling) At one day, I accidentally said my feeling to him, then he replied to me "It's gonna be a lie if I said i don't like you". So there we got together for quite a time (over 3 years). Before the New Year, i know that something is off from him, but I don't want to say anything because I respect him and I don't want him to know that I'm jealous (I want him to be free to do anything he likes). I acted like there never be any problem with anything, I just want to trust him. After New Year, we just talk and play games like usual but with less time spent since he seems to be busy with his own thing and since I just started my first day of my job, I get really busy as well. Then in Valentine day, I asked him "What do you want for valentine?". He said 'Nothing'. I asked "Why?" and he said "I can't accept anything from you anymore. I'm looking at someone" That day I don't know what I feel. No tears but my heart feel clutching and my mind is blank. Completely blank. I just read his text with no specific reaction, just froze there looking at my phone. Then he said things that basically say: he already thought about it since I was looking for job. He feels bad leaving me during that moment, so he stayed. But now since I already have a job, he won't feel that bad about it. We broke up that day, but there's no fight or anything like the typical break-up drama. I apologized and he did too. Then I told him that he is a great guy and I hope he stays like that and be happy with the new person. I never contacted him anymore after that. In the next night I just cried and finally realized that I'm actually in love and wish that he stays, yet it was all too late so I endured the pain, tell myself that I'm grateful that it happened so I have more motivation to become a strong independent woman from now on and also to be more careful on trusting someone.
@honya9901
@honya9901 5 лет назад
Charlotte Valentine you are so strong ! Stay the way you are and the right person will come at the right time
@소네미오
@소네미오 3 года назад
It's been 2 yrs... I wonder how are you now?
@rahulthapamagar1714
@rahulthapamagar1714 3 года назад
I didn't even read it but damn dude write little bit short no need to write full essay
@hana7334
@hana7334 5 лет назад
Ooof that story of the Karate guy was rough. As for me I thought I always liked this guy in my class since 5th grade but never had the courage to confess. However over time we became friends and then in 8th grade when I hung out with him and other friends we finally confessed to each other. BUT when we were actually together as much as I tried I felt nothing for him and broke up after around 2 weeks only. We kinda remained friends afterwards until we graduated and never talked with each other again. haha..
@raing8208
@raing8208 3 года назад
oh...... ;-;
@akmorf6609
@akmorf6609 5 лет назад
Sweet innocent stories. Yeah that was a very nice video. I think it felt the way it felt especially because it was Japanese girls who were telling those stories. You know, with that unique polite-sweet-reserved-shy kinda way they have. Even if it was an hour long, i'd pleasantly watch it.
@azzura7089
@azzura7089 5 лет назад
The first story just like anime and manga.. definitely bitterweet love. 🤣🤣🤣 I feel bad for him
@AJ17_
@AJ17_ 5 лет назад
When I was in high school, I had a crush on a guy who was in some of my classes. But he didn't seem to be the type who would've gone for someone like me, so I never told him, but wer were friends in school. Many years later, we came across each other on Facebook and while we were chatting, catching up with each other on messenger, I fessed up I had a crush on him back then. He got a little embarrassed and was surprised and we had a good laugh about it.
@Taikaru
@Taikaru 4 года назад
I befriended a Japanese gal in Final Fantasy XI (MMO). I was all about level grinding and gear acquisition, but she taught to take a moment to just enjoy the scenery, good company and chatting. I really had no romantic ideas at first, just a ton of curiosity about Japan and the language, and we taught each other and met almost every day. After a few months she started saying really warm things like how happy she was to have met me, sending romantic songs etc. So I told her I hoped to visit Japan someday and it would be fun to know someone there, and would love to meet if she liked. She said she had to go away over Christmas where she couldn't play the game for a few weeks, but couldn't wait to see me again. I took it at face value and I remember waiting up late (due to time difference) every night for weeks after she was to return, cleaning the house and studying while leaving PlayOnline on so I didn't miss a message when she got back. But she never did. I sent a few messages and an email. Then later saw her alts online... so seems like I got ghosted! Still not sure what happened to this day... my reading of the situation was that she was the one pushing in a more romantic direction, so I always wonder what happened. If I scared her off by suggesting we meet, or said something wrong, she thought our age gap was too big (sounded like she was older than I was,) or life just took us in different directions. But in any case the four or months we spent together are some of my fondest memories, and for years after I irrationally felt a little unfaithful talking to other girls even in real life. I always hear stories of folks who met their spouses online, but alas, seems it wasn't for us. I really liked her though!
@xFolkvangr
@xFolkvangr 3 года назад
Probably my favorite video of the channel.
@ardalla535
@ardalla535 5 лет назад
Cathy, you have a huge talent for doing this kind of thing. You should have your own TV show.
@jessicahang9018
@jessicahang9018 5 лет назад
Plot twist, the girl who's crush confessed was actually the boy who lost his hearing! If only...
@JamesWilliams-eu5mn
@JamesWilliams-eu5mn 5 лет назад
True love is hard to find but when you find it you have to hold on with both hands. In my experience if you can find someone to love you at your worst then that's someone to cherish.
@gackhuhn4868
@gackhuhn4868 4 года назад
I read a lot of interesting stories in those comments sadly i have nothing to share i just failed multiple times. But i learned from my mistakes and i made a lot. It helped me improving my personality and helped me to overcome my childish understanding of love. Im glad i found this out when i was 15 and not 25. Just remember if you fail you haven’t actually failed. You have only actually failed if you repeat your mistakes over and over again.
@wintermist7971
@wintermist7971 5 лет назад
when i was in highschool i tried to confess to a girl that i liked and got rejected, and in university i had a crush in my classmate and approach her but when i was so close to confess she back with her ex, so i didnt confess to her in the end. and i find my old crush when i was 14 years old in facebook, and have a little chat for a months, in the end i confess to her from chat but never got the replied until now. so thats it no sweet just bitter lol. its been 5 years since i last falling in love with someone, now even when i start to fall in love that love quickly vanish because i was afraid maybe it will end the same thing again in the end, i know i have weak mentality and tried to improve that, but i cannot get over it until now, its start to worse when my parent divorce i started to afraid of people and became shut in until now. but i try to change and start going outside lately, i realize that i was very awkward and cannot talk and stare in the eyes of people i talk to. i tried my best and start to talk alot of people now :')
@gawahamster7608
@gawahamster7608 5 лет назад
When I was little, family and friends in the neighborhood would play pretend. I pretended to get married to this one guy. He would bring me little flowers. When we rode the bus we held hands across the aisle since it was separated from boys and girls. He eventually moved lol.
@tiamelancholyjeoncockity
@tiamelancholyjeoncockity 3 года назад
watching this reminded me of myself and I got a wave of nostalgia washing over me, it’s that warm cold salty feeling 😭
@just_anne8756
@just_anne8756 5 лет назад
I can feel the bitter sweet loooove those were so good
@MrRishik123
@MrRishik123 5 лет назад
that first story had me in tears of laughter
@kamakura9722
@kamakura9722 Год назад
My story: I failed misearably with my first crush and for the next 2 years with other girls, until I was advised to get a grip from a proffesional: they advised not to approach girls until I live by myself since I didn't notice my toxic environment at home was secretly sabotaging my love life. I did just that, I moved out after Covid and met a girl, when I went to Japan for a month. My failure with my first crush 5 years ago paid off since I figured I just had to do the total opposite! 😇 🙏🏻
@xtam
@xtam 5 лет назад
Subscribed Again :3 thenks for bringing new topics again :3 🔥
@feistymind4915
@feistymind4915 4 года назад
The director seemed very interested keeps popping up with question xd
@deadlifewonderland3889
@deadlifewonderland3889 5 лет назад
The girl to 3:34 is shy. So cute kawai desu!!!😍😍🗣🗣💘💘
@rozengrace7841
@rozengrace7841 4 года назад
That guy with the "Palace" title on his shirt he screams "second male lead" in a drama like-
@SimulationEvolve
@SimulationEvolve 5 лет назад
7:50... Just like when I had a crush on a girl.. I told her my feelings on Facebook (I knew she had a boyfriend I just wanted to get it off my chest) and she seemed pretty happy (She told me her boyfriend broke up with her that same day, I had no bloody idea) but I could never talk to her irl because I used to be really shy (I also rarely spoke in school until I was 15, they nicknamed me "Silent Sam") and she always had a crowd of people with her so I usually just smiled as I walked passed her or had very minimal conversation when passing her.. she got mad at me I assume for not talking to her irl. She was also trying to get with my friend who hated her and then she lost her shit with me when he turned her down I think I'm still blocked on her Facebook and I'm 20 now ( this was when I was 13/14) xD
@eonniesama9126
@eonniesama9126 5 лет назад
I can totally relate with girl who dated in silence and broke up with silence.. Err.. You get what i mean pretty sure.. 😂
@ShallowQuill03
@ShallowQuill03 5 лет назад
me too :(
@eonniesama9126
@eonniesama9126 5 лет назад
@@ShallowQuill03 aw.. Let's not be sad
@gakkibear
@gakkibear 5 лет назад
I dated someone in hs... but we barely get to do anything what most couples do bc a.) were broke, b.) house 2hrs apart, c.) his aunt (whos taking care of him, bc his mom is in the US that time) did not like me bc I was an interferance to his studies. d.) for some reason it never crossed my mind. I was just happy to see/be w/him at school. after 2yrs, he had to go to chicago and after a few months, I moved to canada. we promised to see each other but.. its been 10yrs and we still havent met. haha he was very sweet and cheesy...smart and a great singer. we've dated diff people since then, but he was really the best one
@abaadil8343
@abaadil8343 5 лет назад
I used to love a girl in primary school too, she knew how I felt about her she was literally only waiting for me to confess but I never said anything and nothing happened between us and up to today I still wonder what would've happened if I told her how I felt.
@kennyp482
@kennyp482 2 года назад
Well my story: had a girl I liked in my second to last year of high school. Asked her out, she declined, asked her out AGAIN after a while, said yes. However we didn't get to date because of our busy lives. Fast forward to my last year of high school, we became friends and she said she still liked me and still liked her but dunno why I hesitated and said we were better off as friends. Fast forward a few months prior to graduation, she started dating this other dude, and I was really heartbroken when I found out. No one to blame but myself haha 😅
@raing8208
@raing8208 3 года назад
omg, I never confessed because I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend or date lol..
@nananoname3089
@nananoname3089 2 года назад
My first love from 6th grade hahaha we dated for some months then.. broke up.. dated again 2 years later.. all very modest and mostly sweetly hanging out not doing many very lovey dovey things :D he turned out to be gay xD whoops. But we're still friends and it's just kinda sweet how... like we both felt loved and appreciated back then? Guess it was more platonic for him though:D but it's fiiiine such a sweet guy still
@0_DefaulT_0
@0_DefaulT_0 5 лет назад
Oh sh... am I the only one here who has not any of these stories?.. *forever alone in his 20s*
@ines4982
@ines4982 4 года назад
Cathy Cat you are SO CUTE!!! You look like an anime girl!!
@drusmith3480
@drusmith3480 5 лет назад
🌹Every Rose Has It's Thorn.💔
@dani.dth9019
@dani.dth9019 3 года назад
just pick it up after cutting it with scissors smh
@MikeIsCanadian
@MikeIsCanadian 4 года назад
8:30 is cute.
@caltoncoffietran787
@caltoncoffietran787 5 лет назад
Hello friend in other side of world. Now in Australia 🇦🇺 12.30am, am eating dinner before sleep. Nite nite🌙⭐️
@moussasuwwan8623
@moussasuwwan8623 5 лет назад
First love is the best love, yet, some times, it could turn out to be a sour one…..Traumatic failure. And, we say in Arabic: (مـــــــا الـــــــــــحـــــــــــب إلا لــــلـــــحـــــــبــــــــيــــــــب الأوّلِ) : 最初の恋人のために愛が残っている Nice video, pretty Japanese women… They deserve to be loved.
@gakkibear
@gakkibear 5 лет назад
I also used to play w this neighbor we had at my grandma's! He was half Japanese/half Filipino... he was younger than me and a total living tsundere. I have no idea where he is now... his name is very common......
@echidnatsukiremuru7217
@echidnatsukiremuru7217 5 лет назад
So you used to have crush on him?
@myu2740
@myu2740 4 года назад
so many crushes that never got fulfilled... in primary school there was this guy I liked and he said he liked me. but I was really awkward and didnt know what to do so it just ended with a mutual confession. when I grew older of course there were guys I fell for, but all of them were closer to other girls so I just didnt do anything and let it pass... cheers to being FA
@mehdi6205
@mehdi6205 5 лет назад
Hi, I love your videos! I know this is probably too much to ask, but Japanese subtitles would be very helpful; especially for language learners, deaf / heard of hearing. ありがとうございます!
@georgeescamilla2988
@georgeescamilla2988 5 лет назад
Bitter sweet for me is to have met this Japanese girl in a game and started chatting on the Line app. The thing is that there is a "no love" clause in her contract and she pushed me away after saying she liked and then said we can meet after she graduated. Kinda felt like nourin when the reality burst the dream bubble. IF POSSIBLE, I would like to go when she is having the graduation celebration on stage and appear like in the dream. I would be meeting her in person for the first time. (SKE48)
@georgeescamilla2988
@georgeescamilla2988 5 лет назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-cl-xDCxIHA8.html
@danshakuimo
@danshakuimo 4 года назад
wait is this real lol
@georgeescamilla2988
@georgeescamilla2988 4 года назад
@@danshakuimo yes, she is real.
@DriedPlank
@DriedPlank 4 года назад
That letter the first dude talked about reminds me of Suzuha from Steins Gate.
@Trace7173
@Trace7173 5 лет назад
I met this Japanese singer at a live house 4 years ago. We only knew each other from Twitter and she also was online friends with my brother who is a former romance novel cover model. I went to her show and we were having a great time with some light flirting and I started thinking she may actually like me and not my brother. Then she points at me and says "your brother, very handsome" I was crushed! Then she asked me if I could buy her concert tickets for an upcoming show. I thought this would be a great way to get to know her so I agreed. I went back to my hotel and found out this concert was still months away and I would be back home by then. So, as always I am the beta male provider while my brother was the one she wanted!
@Prototype9871
@Prototype9871 4 года назад
It’s Mr. MVP SIMP
@vitorh3568
@vitorh3568 5 лет назад
5:52 hahahaha xD
@takingashu01
@takingashu01 2 года назад
The first guys, atleast let her know about how you feel
@cccccc9929
@cccccc9929 3 года назад
When I was 10, I had a girlfriend who was 2 years younger. We were around a half-year together and then I dumped her. For a week she went to my home and was crying and said she wants to be together with me. Then she moved to another location in our town. After 3 to 4 years later I met her at a swimming bath and she asked me if we wanna come again together. I said yes, but on the date she didn't come, and I didn't knew her telephone-number. I thought that was her revenge at that time. Around one year later my brother met her in the shopping district. Actually her grandmother died on that day. I wish the best of luck in her life!
@honya9901
@honya9901 5 лет назад
Ok so when i was 12 i had a crush on the guy that bullied me , and he always fat shamed me and said i was ugly so i went through some tough times and I lost a lot of weight and became pretty I guess , i am 16 now and we still talk , 6 months ago he said that he regretted what he did back then and he really had changed and he is kind to me , we are friends now i guess
@cccccc9929
@cccccc9929 3 года назад
That's a good thing. My brother was bullied in school by some school mates which went so far that he had to go to the hospital (he was kicked down from the stairways). He redid the whole year in another class, luckily the new school mates became his friends. Around ten years later one person who bullied him apologized. My brother was really pissed about these people who bullied him, but this person had courage and he forgave him.
@acmelbourne
@acmelbourne 5 лет назад
Where's the translations so we can follow the story
@thebirbspam7769
@thebirbspam7769 5 лет назад
The first story is just like anime 😂😂
@Mecks089
@Mecks089 5 лет назад
I rarely leave comments like this, but damn those fishnet stockings were sexy as hell at the end, and Cathy isn't even my type.
@Mecks089
@Mecks089 5 лет назад
Why do you keep this charade going? You're not with her, you don't know her. Why would you think telling me here what she should, or should not to wear makes it seem like you are with her? Cut this act out, it's disturbing and uncalled for.
@Snowlily01
@Snowlily01 4 года назад
is nobody going to talk abt that guy dancing in the back fr attention? 0:32
@cyclonicleo
@cyclonicleo 5 лет назад
Awww sad but adorable at the same time. I just went and watched your Draw My Life video too.... some people are dicks!
@user-rr7im5og7k
@user-rr7im5og7k 5 лет назад
3:58 so beautiful girl,,omg
@MR-yk5xh
@MR-yk5xh 5 лет назад
5:45 Twice Wake Me Up
@TikiShootah
@TikiShootah 5 лет назад
That lady wanted herself a man, that can take a karate chop! Lol
@vincenzom9600
@vincenzom9600 5 лет назад
Geiles Video!
@anime1lol646
@anime1lol646 5 лет назад
*You should make a video on asking Japanese people if they would have a baby with a foreigner*
@kaiwansiao
@kaiwansiao 5 лет назад
wake me up
@ichigohimesama6427
@ichigohimesama6427 5 лет назад
kaiwansiao WAKE ME UP INSIDE !!!
@Prototype9871
@Prototype9871 4 года назад
Can’t wake up
@xxwallzxx4509
@xxwallzxx4509 5 лет назад
Well they did it.. After countless months of making Chowder (our guinea pig) suffer. They finally killed her after she was half dead last night. Its one of many animals they have killed from this house. They like to do ut when they spaz out or to get reactions. Or even when they are pissed off. So they killed her last night. They also said that their next victims is the turtles. Also Chinchilla. So as they kill our animals (family members) one by one. We have to still take the abuse and wait while trying to survive ourselves. Please spread word and thank you.
@piotrb8434
@piotrb8434 5 лет назад
Who are "they"? And why do they kill animals?
@丽王-g1w
@丽王-g1w 5 лет назад
Cute but a little bit cringy.
@soonersciencenerd383
@soonersciencenerd383 2 года назад
i have NO story from school. nothing but studying, bullying, and homework. but, since i'm out of school for 30+ yrs, watched so much anime, read lot of manga, watched a lot of YT, i'm writing a cupid story about a student that was suggested to goto (cupid) academy, by (yuri) classmates that rejected him years ago. he has the hots for 2 teachers, and the rest is smut, RomCom.
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