Black Love Live | How Do You Know They're 'The One'? 

Facts

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ALL. OF. THEM.

I'm with you! I like all of the couples but for me Sterling and Ryan are the best! 😊

It’s the other way around for me!!! Didn’t know there was like a documentary/TV show LOL

Yeeeessss!!!! This resonated with me as well!!!

I totally agree

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You no like?!?!?

@@striving1 fair enough, it was educative

ctfuuuuu right.

Haha 😂 I think he just wanted to make the type of relationship clear rather than say something ambiguous like “be together or “go out” or whateva. You gotta know what type of relationship you want and find someone with the same wants and then MAYBE it’ll workout 😂

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I hate you for this 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yea...he was annoying 😂

Me too

I understand your perspective. But the eras were drastically different. Our grandparents and beyond stayed together so long out of necessity. Today is different considering women not being tool's. But about equal with men.

@N So. Ive been married 4 9 yrs, not long. It has been a STRUGGLE! But n my opinion: 1. Dont act off emotion ie dont speak on it immediately (unless u can do it nicely!) 2. Look at ur own discrepancies/ acknowledge ur not perfect 3. Do the pros/cons list, separately. When time is right, discuss, if it got left,break, 4. Give them time while gently reminding along the way! Good luck!

@@mariabarner7177 I totally agree with you

Compromise is key

first you have to figure out for yourself what your deal breakers are, if the other person's shortcomings, as you mentioned, are not deal breakers then you can learn to live with them. but never try to change someone or expect them to change, you have to love and be in a relationship for who they are in the present, if not that will only lead to resentment and frustration. i would suggest looking up the gottman method, esther perel and jillian turecki.

I kno for a fact Tommy told us how he knew

Arianna Nealyi I think in another video she mentions she’s almost a year out from having the twins. Unless I missed another announcement

Don't let yourself/mind get stuck there.. start looking at things from the outside in, in an empathetic way. People are complicated and everyone's trying to figure life out. There's an upside and downside to being human/to human nature, just focusing on the ugly distorts your outlook. When we think of our own lives and experiences, and the lives and experiences of the people we know intimately, it allows you to understand what the rest of the world must be going through also. There are so, so many people in the world, its hard for me to believe a good number of us are not worthy and not striving to be our best selves. It seems like when we focus on what mainstream promotes, and we focus on the "craziness" we see on social media, it distorts our real life understanding of what it is to be human. Think of what you value in life, think of the character and life you want to live, set your goals, and focus on all of those things. When you meet people, know what you're looking for and what you value, so that when you see the opposite of it, you know not to engage. We're not seeing the person in people anymore.. even if you meet someone who is the opposite of what you value, they're still a person whose at a certain place in their walk.. they're not THAT forever, unless they choose to be.

I don't see that.

Devale is good people.

Lol, naw, they’re actually a really cool family. Check them out on IG 🙂

He was leaning away, like he didn't want to be near her

I think they used that "the one" phrase because that's the first question. But as you listen, their answers don't imply that they believe in that concept.

Goggle it 🤷🏾‍♀️

Your whole comment is venomous. You might wanna delete

@Dear Brave🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

I see where you are coming from but I think your comment ignores the history of black peoples and their love, specifically in the US. I don’t think anyone would disagree with what you’ve said, we shouldn’t base the idea of love on skin colour but you must acknowledge that there was a time when this love was demonised and punished because of its skin colour. So I hear you but I don’t think your comment looks at this series and it’s work holistically. Just look at how many comments they are in the channel saying that they did not know that healthy love existed between two ‘black’ people, that is a problem! And it has various causes and I think this is just one attempt solve that problem 🤷🏽‍♀️

🤐 please

Then why did you land here? There was no clickbait in the caption.

Shalita H I didn’t hear any