BLACK MEN NEED TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT WE DID TO BLACK WOMEN 

it good black men are taking a second look at their black women. good job man keep it up.

You the truth brother🖤

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@The Truth correction pls BW don't have low self esteem but, rather we proud to be that beautiful strong black woman which even makes the WM to appreciate us.

@TurquoisePurpleSky 17 am not desperate or sth just happy that our BM have done their homework well and just realized what losing to the WM so it better for them to have a second look.

That's so true

Lmao don’t fall for any of this. If he really wanted a BW he’d already be with one.

@@ajahd4698 yeah I called playing the game just to trap some of bw

Even if he was “simping” …... he’s saying what most BW are thinking, and most BM need to hear.

I have only been in relationships with black women. Never slept with a white woman. After the last relationship I was in I decided to stay single and work on myself and some goals I have for myself. I’m who I say I am for real and I stand on everything I say in these videos. Ain’t no cap in my rap.

@PhoenixRiseSun We always have to be stoic like we don’t have feelings. It starts with self-love because when you value yourself you will see through the disrespect and not tolerate it.

I concur.

Agreed. Its not for no reason

@PhoenixRiseSun STOP...thats you lowering yourself to men who dont see the real value in you. Do you know, that you dont HAVE TO TRY to be feminine. When the right man is around he PROVIDES the coverage you NEED so that you can relax and work from your feminine energy instead of surviving with your masculine. The fact that YOU feel like you have to try and be more feminine, is your body telling you that you dont feel protected..you dont fully trust..so you can not get to comfortable and you must remain on guard..just in case the other shoe falls. You should NOT have to shrink yourself, so that a man will see you and recognize your worth.. In reality the fact that you ARE able to utilize both energies is really a plus. Oya was the BEST warrior, because of her femininity and ability to jump between the energies. Shango(her Husband) respected her ability and was secure enough in his energy, that he was willing to let her lead when he saw that would be the best way to obtain a victory for the both of them. Balance = equally yoked So whatever situation you're dealing with. That one is NOT for you. Yours is levels above that.

@@nezzytoyou767 Beautifully said👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Angry Lil boys

I've learned over the years that "simp" means "everything that I wish I was". Just like women can get jealous over other women, men do the same to other men. When a not so attractive woman sees a beautiful woman with a banging body, she may become insecure and think to herself, "She thinks she's all that". Men do the same, except with a different flavor. I've seen real, honest, hard working, women respecting, moral keeping, community loving men get called "simps" by low life boys. This is internal hatred because he recognizes the king in the man he wishes to become but instead of him admitting that, he'd rather insult him by calling him out of his name. When low life boys see other boys that resemble themselves, they feel at ease and are within their comfort zone so they sing the other low lives praises. These are often the only praises they ever recieve so it makes them feel more of a man. They will never admit their insecurities, not to real men, not to their peers, not even to themselves. When you overstand psychology, you will overstand why real men are attacked. The low lives are jealous and instead of them asking the men they they wish to become for advice, they'd rather attack them because it's easier to insult than to work on yourself. I could go on and on but hopefully you get my drift. The word "simp" was meant to be an insult, sorta like "nerd" but it is indeed a compliment. "Simps" are everything they wish they could be but they are too afraid to admit it.

@@IAMGROOT4EVA Beautifully articulated. Praise King.

Man boys

He's a simp because he's pandering for views (like Derrick Jaxn) instead of telling you the truth. Bw only watch content that fits their narrative... let's see where that gets you 😏

FACTS!

Faxxxx!!!!!

THIS!!!!!!!

Exactly! They wanna act like BW are the issue but fail to look at themselves AT ALL like not even a little bit. Instead of them to better themselves, they wanna pretend as if BW's reaction to their lack of good leadership is the issue 🤣💀

@@Laura-sg6ss the delusion

I agree. When a man comes into your life you’re supposed to come up. Same way when you come into a man’s life he’s suppose to come up. It’s a two way street. Nobody should feel like they’re lacking in the relationship. If they are, they might as well be single.

@@TheShumakeWay 💯%

@@TheShumakeWay I just found your channel and I love your content and I support you 🙏🏽✊🏼❤️

Why do people (in this case Black Men and Women) have such great hindsight when society is on the brink of collapse. See all them godly folk God sent your path that you ignored, now you wanna cry in the comments because you got worldly results. How y'all operating outside the will of God and expect BLESSED results. Unbelievable! Repent turn to God and live the purpose he has for you. Stop crying about what the WORLD 🌎 is doing. You ain't be living Holy ya whole adult life but want God's blessings. No ma'am, no sir it don't work like that. Out here crying and complaining. You was supposed to separate from the world ALONG time ago. Yes I'm talking you Miss. Yes this is for you sir!

@@Yahkeam You ain’t talking to me you talking to your damn self foo you ain’t holier then tho .. you better go take your meds

I was also, thinking damn his skin is flawless 😃😃😃.

Honestlyyy

BIG FACTS!

And the smile

Hey ladies why don't u leave your drinks 🍷around him

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Correct!

Woman don’t need to fall in line the should be beside you

@@notasaint8855 that’s a fact,, but the men need to step up and be leaders. That’s what I mean. Thanks 🙏🏾

Providing men have authority over women and women submitting to men’s authority because responsibility without authority is slavery.

And we love y'all too❤👊🏾

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HalleluYAH!!!

Thank you sweetie 😘

Love you too! 🤧🤴🏿❤️ we don’t hear this enough..

What happen to choice chose one life style then complain is wrong

Narcissistic people are really good at covering up the demon behind the mask. You only get the just of things when it’s to late and by that time your in deeper than you want to be.

Good commentsl

You just described how the majority of black women think, what black woman you know ever took accountability

@@Iknowyoumadnow Me, I can admit when I'm wrong because it was enforced into me.

I'm with you on that. That having a 'piece of man' logic is played.

@Ally Wilson Eggs Actly. I was a nurse for 25 years. We all die alone.

@Ally Wilson this is too good!! 🤣😂❤

gross

Being with any man doesn't guarantee you won't die alone. These days he might be the cause of your death.

@Tea Biscuits we hate what you've become... there's a difference

Women don’t respect gentleman until their old and used up. They were chasing after the bad boys, now they’re upset with the world. That love will get you killed.

🎯 Exactly!

Yesss it’s so fucking weird like they literally are competing with us for lust and attention

@Bassmann that sounds like a personal problem for those folks. Y’all can’t tell us how much love and support to give one another. ALOT of work goes into undoing damage and keeping further damage from happening. Y’all just hate to see us celebrated in such a big light that’s y’all own problem.

Awww gurl!! I'm happy he did that👏🏾👏🏾🖤 at least you could heal a little and not feel like you're the crazy one or something. Keep healing! Keep going! Love you🔴⚫🟢💯

so if only one out of the men that treated you badly apologized, that means whatever the rest did to you, most probably felt that you deserved it!? my Ex told me that all her Ex's turned violent towards her at the end and guess what the same thing almost happened to me... if i was dating you Nikki and you told me this, well im gone with the quickness because it seems you dont know who the problem is?

@@coolrunnings1936 so people acting violent is her fault? They had no self control, that's what the issue is and I'm sorry but, your Ex's issue and Nikki's are not the same so why are you applying the 2 together and pretending its the same👀💀 just don't comment.

@@Laura-sg6ss what are you talking about? they are the same issue!? being violent towards their partners!? Ask yourself why would a man be violent towards a women? ok say hes the problem and he has issues! so it seems to me that all the men she chose has these same problems? no! that doesn't make no sense at all.. so if shes such a nice person and does everything right! you telling me that not one, not two but multiple men was violent towards her but oh its not her fault she just picked the wrong guys... ok keep telling yourself that! birds flock together and Laura what energy you put out, comes right back to you. so your 'oh at least you could heal' means nothing if the cycle continues.

@@coolrunnings1936 mate 🤣💀 your phrasing was terrible, you basically said what is it about her thats wrong, thats attacking her character, picking the wrong guys is not a *character* flaw. Also lest we forget how many guys sell girls dreams and then act brand new later on so thats why I say it aint the same situation. And she said for treating her the way he did !! She said nothing about VIOLENCE so what are you on?? You can honestly sit here and say that what happened with your ex was the same as what happened with Nicki?? How the hell do you know? And yes she CAN heal because she had a man be sincere and admit where he went WRONG. That allows you to heal because u don't think you're the crazy one. I said that to her SPECIFIC situation with the SPECIFIC man who apologised. Unlike you who's talking broadly.

No pandering to women and telling them what they wanna hear it “simping”.

@@basilwaheed6055 I personally feel as if he should hold both sides accountable. I do feel as if men shouldn’t lead from behind. At the same time, with the way things are today, it’s going to be harder if a man who doesn’t have much to offer can lead a woman who already has her stuff together. Then you have women who don’t have her stuff together and tries to down a man who does. It’s like a double edged sword. It’s like no one wants to build together anymore. Everyone wants a ready made person so it makes things harder.

@@arleneaugustahair8393 i disagree some. I think a lot of black women don’t respect black men and bw are perpetual victims. That’s my opinion my ability to lead shouldn’t have to do with how much money i have.

@@basilwaheed6055 Oh please ! Quit talking about how BW don't respect BM when a whole lot of you do nothing but degrade and stereotype BW constantly and pretty much ALL BW at that !!

It is being weak

Don't listen to this simp.. go see kevin samuels and thank me later

We need more black men like the guy in this video and you, Trevor. God bless!

@@tonyalston4838 just so u know tony, ain’t no black woman want you if this is your mentality. been seeing your comments everywhere and you are embarrassing yourself. let go of your pride and open your eyes

Were you not aware of how we felt, or how bad it was? Honestly, i avoided a lot of low vibrational people, so until the kevin samuels video, i had no clue of the black manosphere and tiktok literally just bashing black women.

@@LisaSoulLevelHealing We are all raised differently i can for sure tell you there are ALOT of issues bm go through that you as a bw didnt even think about tho its right infront of you. thats why videos like this are made to make awareness cos we are all in our own bubble.

So all the young bm and bw don't matter?

Speak only for yourself.

As long as there are men like him that can teach their sons how to love themselves and black women, there's hope.

Tressa Williams funniest comment ever LOL!!!!!!

Facts! Over it.

Decent Righteous God-fearing white ppl aren't looking to be elevated above others. That's a racist who thinks they deserve to be treated better simply bcz skin! GOD made all colors because he wanted to! I don't criticize people who choose outside their race because I have done the same in my younger years but as I get older and become closer to God reading the Bible, I realize that we have been tampering with God's creation and if he wanted everyone the same color he would have made us all the same color to begin with. I've stumbled across this guy's channel and it's not something I would normally listen to but it is refreshing to hear someone defending black women because it is a known fact that black women have been labeled as angry but since I have always had friends of every race and my own great-grandmother was black, I am fully aware that if you treat people like garbage they will eventually start defending themselves which is what happened to black women! They did not deserve any of that most black women I know are God-fearing Church going hard working honest and would be your best friend and faithful so I think it's very sad and a testament of the sheer ignorance of black men for letting black women be treated like they do. My dad was protective of me and so were both of my brothers so I was not open to being in a relationship with a man who did not offer at least that level of care because I was taught that I deserved it but a lot of black women will accept less because they want to remain true to their heritage by marrying a black man but it seems that they end up getting some punk boy who mistreats them and then society demonizes the woman because she's a single mother! It really is the lack of accountability on the part of black men that has caused all the problems in the black community! Then the cycle just gets repeated generation after generation because that black boy that's being raised by an angry woman never learns how to be a solid faithful God-fearing black man all he learns is that men are punks and so he just goes out and continues the same generational curse and that single black mom becomes grandma to a single black mom! It's tragic and I'm so thankful that this guy is making videos that I pray will bless his community I would absolutely love to see black families in America stay together where little kids have a dad at home who loves mom and they get to have a normal family for the first time in generations!

A very good subject thank you for tackling the situation I was always against the way these things were . Thank you.

Amen❤️🙏

Why do people (in this case Black Men and Women) have such great hindsight when society is on the brink of collapse. See all them godly folk God sent your path that you ignored, now you wanna cry in the comments because you got worldly results. How y'all operating outside the will of God and expect BLESSED results. Unbelievable! Repent turn to God and live the purpose he has for you. Stop crying about what the WORLD 🌎 is doing. You ain't be living Holy ya whole adult life but want God's blessings. No ma'am, no sir it don't work like that. Out here crying and complaining. You was supposed to separate from the world ALONG time ago. Yes I'm talking you Miss. Yes this is for you sir!

@BW Stop Giving Birth To Your Enemy now that seems more realistic as to why he's pandering for bw support

@BW Stop Giving Birth To Your Enemy where he admit that at?

Exactly

I agree. This’s stupid!

i agree! its too late!

If it's too late. Then why are you here? This is for the ones that it's not too late for.

Right.. I ain’t falling for it. Still opening my options anyway

Preach

Fr

The truth.

Well nothing why you ask?

That explains a lot...

It’s sad that’s even a question... but I’ll wait on the answer.

@Nurse Mocha yeah right.. black women make up more of the spneding dollar than black men, yall buy out of black ocmmunity all the time, black men we at the bottom of the barrel but yall act like there aint a whole entire system in place to keep us employed in the prison system or dead. Btw .. if yall hate us so bad.. why yall dont just leave ? And go get a Jake lol

Babies...that they don't provide for!

You will. They are out there

Girlfriend That’s NEVER gonna happen cause Society is Too far Gone & Too TOXIC to Trust anyone anymore but yourself.

@@GABRIELADAWSON I hate to hear that. I’m still hopeful.

@Mimi We do exist. We just get rejected for being lame 🤣🤣🤣

I won’t. Thank you ❤️

Thank you 🙏🏽

There are more commonly known point of views from BM, this isn’t the one. This is the exception, that boosts the egos of women. Most men do not agree or think like this. Which is why so many other women (and not men) are agreeing with these viewpoints.

@@ryanmcdaniels5014 It’s just that BM never speak about issues like this (as far as I’m concerned) so it’s refreshing to see BM just event giving their opinions

Thank you

I like how you said that because it implies that we are human first, before the color of our skin

@@kimblack9962 Always a man first b. Our consciousness doesn't have a colour

@@deeperman1321 oh you have a sharp mind.. I can tell 👏🏾

The good women as well.

@@bluejay9968 true true

Why are you ignoring your logic. When he over does it, it means he's pandering. It's just a matter of time till women start sending him money. I thought about making money by doing these videos as well at one point, to make $$$.

Tips and Tricks lmao stfu n go on he’s not pandering his voice don’t even got emotion sounds like your hater ass need notes

@@Kreeplifeinc 😂

@@tipsandtricks6071 nonblack men be pandering. I think he is genuine.

@@TinyyTinkerbell We said the same about D Jax. Now look back at it and think.

@The Truth he used her as an example as to why he will not date another one again

Ain’t that the truth! In your opinion what do you think did it?

I appreciate that. I don’t know them, but if they’re like minded individuals it might be a good conversation to be had.

Why you have a problem with the divestment movement? He literally said in the previous video that black men don’t value us. So the best thing is go where you are appreciated not tolerated. It’s either dating out or doing what Kevin Samuel said, die alone. And no it doesn’t mean to go to a white man. There are other races out there.

Yes! PLEASE talk with Chrissie. She is the intellectual Queen when it comes to these convos. IMHO.

@@gorgeousenergy6269 I'm saying I don't like the fact that divestment is necessary for us. It's not like we have a Choice tho. Black men and black women have gotten so bad and seem to hate each other so much, that u literally would die alone if u didn't divest. I asked my mom and she said we've been having this beef since her generation, probably before. it's a Shame an 80 year old dude like Kevin is keeping this going and a young guy like this is the one doing his part to better it.

Yall really trynna change Bw minds , like why wouldnt he collab with other men ?? , wouldn't that make more sense .... See you want BW to see ONE BM taking accountability and for popular channels who promote dating out to change their tune.... 😂

It happens over time. We just have to do our work and grow.

Thank you so much 🙏🏽

When a womans fed up, there ain't nothing you can do about it....

@@darrylbrumfield7659 simp

Hes trash. Kevin Samuels is the real hero

@@tonyalston4838 the way you are on Kevin's nuts is crazy! Are you a groupie or is he paying you? 😂

Thank you!

Thank you 🙏🏽

You gotta stop coddling BM and fighting for BM. They need to stand up and do the right thing.

Take a back seat with what you said.

Both black. Men and women need take responsibility

@@Onyxoko I’m not coddling bm never have I’m saying shouldn’t blame everything

Their are things to work on for both sides for sure. But I think women take criticism from women better than they do from a man and vice versa.

It is not rare. We aren't out here with it pasted on our foreheads.

I said the Lord removed the scales from his eyes. I pray some young black men open their eyes..

Speaking about it does more than not saying anything at all. At least he is trying.

Amen👏👏

Im so glad I seen thsi comment.. because all black women ive seen on this video overlooked our plight of being worked against each other

It is time you start dating out

@@fredrickgrant7552 why?

It is a relative term, which means it depends on the person's perspective. That is your perspective so it is not a determinant definition.

@@ericjordan6059 So what is the determinant definition?

@@rebecca4829 ... That her perspecive is not a decisive factor of what a SIMP may, or may not, be.

@@ericjordan6059 That's not my question. What is the determinant definition of the word simp?

@@rebecca4829 ... There is none. It is a relative term, meaning it depends on a person's perspective. It is like cold, warm, hot. There is no definitive indication on when cold turns warm and warm transitions to hot. It is relative.