Candace, a black woman, has a biracial child to a white man, Andrew, who admits to being a racist. He says he would never claim a biracial child. - interracial relationships
I hate that Montel kept saying "YOUR A STEP DAD"!!! PISSES me off like step dad's mean nothing n shouldn't have rights, my husband raised my daughter since she was 11 months old, he's changed her diapers, potty trained her, helped her with homework, kissed her boo boos, took her to Disney land n vacations, concerts, paid for her dress n limo for prom, supported her financially thru HS n College, and what, that means nothing bc he's a step dad????? He's the only dad she knows, try telling her that...
yeah, that made me feel some kinda way. STEP DADS are the ONLY dads some folks get, and for Montel to belittle his role like that really tore me up. I can't believe he would do that to that man! He obviously is more man that the last one, and didn't turn his back on those beautifully babies just bc he didn't conceive them.... i think Montel did that bc he is a father and can't imagine any other man taking his place & fathering his children.
I agree! It's already hard to compete with a male gender. But, besides that we have to compete with every other female race.Its sad how people think of us beautiful blk queens.Just because a couple of bad apples from the tree. Every race has a couple of bad people though! So I really don't get it! God bless you sir, for your honest comment!!
sabrina wellington Black women are beautiful and strong. They know the underlying truth but for some reason we are judged by videos or ratchet t.v, when we are all individuals.
Stealth Irony WTF, are you slow? She had a child with someone who was/still is a White Supremacist..even after she knew about him and his past, she still messed around with him! I'm not "hating", I am just stating the obvious here that yes, she clearly does have low self esteem. I would never give a White Supremacist the time of the day...even if he used to be one, because chances are those thoughts still linger; and the guy in the video just proved my point. Andrew tried to change, but he went back to his old ways and he wouldn't even compromise his views to be in his child's life. AND AFTER ALL OF THAT, the woman in the video is happy and relieved that Andrew is the father...first of fucking all, why on earth would she be content with a White Supremacist being the biological father of her child? She ought to be feeling embarrassed and ashamed about the fact that she slept around with a White Supremacist...which she clearly doesn't feel that way! In fact, she looked overall proud about it. Which is why I believe that she has low self esteem. Not only that, but she is obviously a modern day bedwench!
Sabrina Gomez My mother has very high self-esteem, thank you very much! She's loves herself, her husband, and all her children. Andrew is an idiot. Everyone makes mistakes. STOP judging people. You sound very ignorant calling my mother a modern day bedwench. Usually when people talk about someone the things they say about that person they believe about themselves. Thank you Stealth Irony for what you said. And anyone else who has something to say can say it to me. Thank you and God bless you. :)
+samana1fromsomalia No , i get where Montel was coming from , and he explains that. Committing the Racist Andrew to paying for that child, makes him face the consequence, and possibly in time try and make him accept his child. Plus , tim taking responsibility, doesnt teach that Racist any lesson.
He was very insulting , just step dad!!! that man is that babys Father, apart from providing for that baby he was there, physically present to love that baby, but I can kind of understand where Montels coming from it has nothing to with the ability of the man being able to provide, it has to do with the fact that the baby will be much better off, the well being of the baby should be first priority period.
I don't get why she would sleep with someone who is racist towards black people. I don't why he slept with a black woman if he is racist towards black people.
ask yourself this : if the white guy truly hated black people , why would he not only sleep with a black woman once , but then ' shack up ' with her ? . the answer is : that he wasn't a ' racist ' , just a ' race separatist ' . granted , he's not a very good ' race separatist ' if he's knocking up black women . in fact he's bloody awful at it lol .
Eugenia Hubbard she is super insecure !! If a man is blatantly telling you he was racist past or present why would you sleep with him? Also, still dating only white men obviously . That is super self hate and insecurity.. she needs to get her mind right
If it's HIS child he's worse than racist for being unable to love his very own child. A man unable to love his own child is no man at all regardless of any racial mix! ♣
i think she was happy about her child in general i really dont think she likes that "scumbag" who wouldnt love their child though? this man is sick to deny the truth that sits right in front of him i can only pray for ignorant people however...
Montez is out of line to tell this upright an is the Stepdad. He is a Great Dad. And I am proud of this young Man stepping up. Montez is just tripping because he use to act like his biracial stripper former Wife was aStripper. She was blessed to have a great Man that had her back. Shame on you to say that Man is just a Stepdad and he is stepping up. God bless this couple and children always.
It's so sad. She will get older and find out her father wanted nothing to do with her. Kids internalize that stuff…that sense of abandonment, not being "enough" for her father to love her. Stories like this break my heart.
Sarah Norment you saying that made me think of my friend & she never opened up to me about her dad leaving her and now i get an idea of how she might feel :( ugh .
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1Black Nation of Brave Hearts Conglomerate Oh we will! But don't act like black men would do any differently. What race of men is the most absent? Oh yeah, that's right. Blacks
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You must have a deep hatred for yourself and people that look like you. You must also pledge to destroy the black community Black man, let these agents rot.
Henry McDaniel Racism is more of a construct of financial power than emotional feelings and in my opinion we often mistake the two. We need to stop caring what white people think and build our community. The key concept that the Nation of Islam most strongly supports is economic empowerment for black people.
vidguy In my definition of racism you must have power to effect change on another group on a system level. I think bigotry is closer to this story. Thanks for the insight.
I used to work with this white woman who had 2 little boys by 2 different black men. While she was pregnant with the second one she said in a very loud voice. That if the baby she was carrying turned out to be a girl she would shave the babies head. True example of how they can love the sex but hate the people. Just sickening.
Perimiter Music So why punish the child by shaving her head?...base on the decision the mother made by having a baby by a balck guy? You sound fucking stupid!!!!
I'm all for interracial dating, but really? What woman in her right mind would get involved with a man who dislikes her own people? To me, that shows a tremendous lack of self respect. Was she so desperate for a white partner that she would suspend logic and sacrifice her integrity as a human being to be with him? Situations like these show the darker side of interracial dating, where people are dating interracially, not for love, but because they don't particularly like themselves. She's loving on all these abusive and foul men, because she hasn't learned to love herself yet.
***** wow i heard this from another. Confirmation. Wow, your critical thinking is powerful.' I cannot get mad at you. The only thing i could say is, i understand you're opinion but, don't have to agree with it;💭
+Bree oh,wow.' '(My mind wonders) All i can say is, we see and hear what is on screen. Off screen is an other different scenario founded as a true interracial love story.'😶💎😏💭
+lola bigcups I didn't hear anything about him, but she was arrested twice: once for solicitation and once for welfare fraud. The baby is being raised in foster care.
I feel so very sorry for the little girl....A father who wouldnt want her for the colour of her skin...She's going to be all kinds of messed up when she's older.
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Angela .M I didn't say that being gay was worse, I'm saying that people seem to think that inter-racial relationships are wrong but same sex ones are not. These are people of the same society that 10 -15 years ago who thought homosexuality was unacceptable.
I hope one day society will accept all love because love is love and in the end we are all human beings who deserve the rights of others no matter what their sexuality, race, or gender is.
I hope that little girl grew up to be a beautiful fashion model with a seven digit paycheck. Would serve him right to see the daughter he dissed become fabulous. It's happened before.
Ha, not sure. I think I just got really upset seeing her in a situation like that when I watched the vid, so was the only thing I could think of at the time to say. Girls that age should realize what they still have time to do with their lives. Of course, first comes to mind Iman, and Tyra Banks, but there are many more great role models absolutely. I just googled 'black fashion models', and oh, my. Lot of really pretty ladies. Lot of competition, but the fun is in the trying.
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wow, update so Andrew is no longer racist (which he never truly was to begin with), he's actually married to a black woman lol. He still really has no relationship with his daughter but that's by his own choice. All of you people saying ignorant things about me a person you don't even know, I will pray for you. Just because my hair looked the way it did I'm a B-word really, it's hair guys (I am not my hair... in the words of India.Arie). Two: why do you call someone in an interracial relationship self-hating? Why do people call people they don't even know names? I'm not a female dog, I'm a Child of God, a wife and mother. The ignorance in these posts seriously hurts me to my soul. Thank you to those who only spoke about the negativity of Andrews actions towards his child. People crack me up with this whole separatism theory. Just because other people are racist doesn't mean I need to be as well. I've dated men of color, and white men, and Hispanic men. My husband is white (Tim), and that's just the way it is. I'm so glad my heart sees no color just the heart of a person, I represent The Almighty Yahweh, I don't care about the color of someone's skin Love is love. Like I said I'll pray for all of you hateful people.
Don't take notice of the haters hun - many of them are just trying to spread hate because their lives are miserable. You conducted yourself very well on the show. Good luck raising your daughter - she is beautiful.
I second Jessica. Ignore the ignorance. You notice all these absurd comments on here and none of them had the guts to reply with any of that garbage directly to your comment. Don't let that type of cowardice hurt you sweetie. Hate-filled people who feel the burning urge to spread their hate and discontent about are nothing but weak-minded cowards and should be treated as such, as if they are not even there.... :)
I don't understand all of the comments on how black people and interracial relationships are horrible. It's a preference! I have an Asian boyfriend. Thats the type of guy i like. As long as your significant other treats you right, helps provide, things like that, it should be absolutely no problem what their complexion is.
Chey T You are such a racist idiot. She definitely has a point. Actually the black makes it beautiful. White,black. Hispanic black, Asian Black.White asian looks like drownsyndrome. Black is the common beauty denominator thank you.
I like the step dad ,his point of view is honest u can't trust that child with a racist he can hurt her ,Montel needs to stop telling the guy he's the step dad and give him kudos for all he's doing ,keep up the good work I call u" the dad "
The baby should be about 13 now. I wonder what she thought when she saw this clip? I truly hope he changed his ways and became a part of her life. White men like him make me sad to be white myself. How could you turn away from such a precious little girl with your own blood running through her veins?
Montel was out of his mind when he said "Your JUST a step dad" how can you downgrade that title there are so many step dads that are better than the real dad will ever be and raise the child and would kill for them too, Montel is a good guy but c'mon that was a bit rude considering the fact that the real father left as soon as he found out she was even pregnant, while this guy stood around
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I'm reading the comments and it's funny how many comments begin or feature the words "I am a white man/woman". Just comment; we don't care about your skin color...
Well, now he's on national television, so everyone will know it's his child, regardless of whether he wants to 'claim' the child or not. She best *claim* some child support checks. His reputation has been tarnished.
Not all white people are racists, one night I met a German guy at the club , we were drunk and I slept over his place, everything happened. I fell pregnant , he actually told me not to abort because for the beautiful love we made, he is a happy a child came from it.he decided to know me better,he became my best friend and after 14months , we got married .
this comment is laughable, a cavebeast knocks you up and you think its not racist because it married you?, lots of racist cavebeasts have mixed up kids, it means absolutely nothing.
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He gonna regret that decision not to be in his child life. Also if he change his mind to see her one day...the important things are gone Like the first steps, the first word...even the first pee ☺ The peasure to be called "Daddy"....those are precious moments! One day he cries to lose those little but powerful memories and regret it until he lays in a grave! I made the same decision like him...I wasnt around my kid these times. I can never forgive me for these. My son is little yeah...but I never saw him walking for the first time or hear his first word. Anyways I wish I could go back in time to slap my younger self to yell at him TO NOT MAKE THAT MISTAKE!!!
I was almost in a similar situation ,a few years ago.Am an African and I met a racist white guy that advised me to date from his daughters.I declined his offer and his daughters loved me,but after sometime,i realized that,i was going to be in hot soup,if I had married from his family.I know his true colours now.
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Jaya Goodman Just by the looks. Your blood veins and your meat have caucasian aswell, regardless what you consider yourself. If it wasn't for who ever that white ancestor that they had, they wouldn't exist today.
I would be afraid to have s confessed hater be in the life of my child. It could be part of his plot to endanger her life or possibly kill her. I wish I could get update on this episode.
I'm afraid for her and the kids ! Poor babies have a dumb ass for a mother. A crazy man is the farther. If he don't SNAP and kill them, one of his crazy friends might do it.
I DON'T agree with Montel. He's not "just a stepfather". A father is a father. A father is someone who loves and takes care of a child. It's best to have a real man in that child's life.
This is funny to me because it is surprising how often this happens. I have a black mother and white father. There was a group of guys when I was a teen who would go out of their way to stalk me and call me racial slurs..but a week later would blow up my phone trying to get in my pants
That's really sad she must don't know anything about her history and on top of that she must not care anything about her history what had happened to her ancestors to this day there are people like that now always trying to love the enemy.👹
This woman has no shame - to think that you go on public tv to say you had a baby with a RACIST!!! - wow! How low can you go in having no respect for yourself, no pride and no self esteem. I pity that child who is better off not having that lowlife in her life who will only have negative thoughts towards her.
People need to stop being so judgmental about blk or other races. Every particular person is different. Every race is unique.Don't judge a whole race based upon one or two bad people.Would you disregard a whole field of corn just because one or two of them or bad?No you would throw out the bad ones and keep seeking for good ones!
Yeah you right! Y’all forget about your Ancestors being kidnapped from Africa and brought to these shores on The Good Ship Jesus! Because some of them are good!! Now y’all HEAR??
As Andrew matures he will want to relate to his daughter, despite the viewpoint he currently holds. He will regret the time lost with his child. One can never make up that loss of time - only lament it.
my now ex was the same way he came off cool..then when he got comfortable...he was happy to controlling then he came at me on some racist type shit...then said he didn't mean it and now wants a baby...but after u said that u think im coming back...then said his friends are racist...and some of his family..but invited me on a family fishing trip...ughhhhh
It's irritating how she's smiling the whole time. You don't know if your baby daddy is your husband's or the racist guy that you had a fling with and you're happy? Then, the racist guy turns out being the father and he makes it clear that he doesn't want to be there and you're all smiles?
😕Maybe she was smiling because she felt happy that she wouldn't have to deal with him with his racist ways and belief's, since he didn't want to be involved in the child's life..... 😞Or perhaps she could be dumb as a box of rocks. Either or, she needs therapy.
He needs to sign over his rights to the other guy there and have the guy adopt the child, since he is so adamant that he wants to support that baby, let him. Plus that baby doesn't' need to grow up knowing its father is racist!
They are partially staged. My friend drew went to maury with his babys mom they went there got paid got a hotel room provided and they just hyped up the situation to be alot more than what it was. So its half real but exaggerated
Shaena Copeland That's the audience side of the story. There's been rumours for ages that even the so-called guests were amateur type actors who'd just been summoned for one gig. which would explain why some of these situations are downright ridiculous and why they escalate so quick. with the audience' fake crowd reactions.
Cassie Francois I'M A YOUNG BLACK MAN AND I TRULY APOLOGIZE THAT THEY MAKE YOU FEEL THAT WAY!! BUT I KNOW I LOVE BLACK WOMEN AND COULDN'T SEE MYSELF IN THIS WORLD WITHOUT THEM- THIS ISN'T OUT OF LUST BUT OUT OF TRUE LOVE, I SAY THESE THINGS- JUST KNOW U ARE APPRECIATED
Why is Montel trying to put down the guy raising the kid by say "your a step-dad, your just the step-dad" Uh no he's the dad who's taking care of the child
It happens all the time in all races,by both sexes-black guys/white girls, white guys/black girls, other races. Ever watch that 70s show "ALL IN THE FAMILY" -Archie Bunker ? Archie,a white Man, had a race name for everyone.Including his white son-in-law,who was Polish. Archie,called him "Meathead" in regards to Polish Sausage. Also called him a Polock. It just isn't a color thing.
What an absolute prat that racist is. I'm white and have half filipino half white twins and I'm so proud of them and love them so much. He will grow up one day
@crayonscribble Thank you for posting this video of my parents. I am happy to say that my father is in my life and he's no longer racist, he's even married to a black woman now. My mom and stepdad are still together and I have an amazing family.
demon in disguise he only datez black women...thats a red flag so he probally also hates black men and the fact you got a blonde weave is a fuethwr red flag
