ugh, I'm a chronic blusher. It happens when any attention is put on me. I just accept it and keep talking! I just hate when people point it out. thanks for this video!
My way of kind of working around this is by exposing myself. I often talk to various people and sometimes put myself in embarrassing situations and manage to pull it off and laugh. Constantly putting yourself out there no longer makes you prone to embarrassment. Of course, I myself, am still able to get embarrassed and turn red; however, it ever so rarely happens. When it happens I’ve gotten confident enough to not care. If someone brings it up then I’d approach them. It’s only embarrassing if you allow it to be embarrassing. Don’t let other people bug you over it. You’re beautiful and I’m sure your little red face is still cute. You people do your best to stay strong and safe. Keep your goals in mind and don’t let anyone control who you are or can be. All the best
I think that all the people who understand should all get together and have a company. Then no one will ever say, OMG your face is SO red to us ever again...
Accept it. I turn red, so what? It's just what happens. I am ok with it. Oh, look over there....Change your own focus to something outside yourself and let happen whatever happens. You can even give it a name and talk to it. "Hello, here you are again my friend. Stay a while and then off with you." It works so well. Pretty soon only acknowledging that this friend is here, is enough to make him disappear.
Yas this is a real struggle! I loved that you speaking out about such a simple topic that people do not talk about that much❤ it's really important to developp our public speaking skills ❤
Thank you for those smart tips! I used to blushing or loosing my breath when I was doing presentations or public reading in high school. Now, I have no issue talking in front of a crowd, sometimes over 100. It got better as I was getting more and more experience, and one day it was just gone.
I am a blusher and working on it. The only reason anyone blushes is a lack of self confidence..thinking someone else's opinion of you is better than yours...feeling unsure and uncertain but you can work on issues of self worth...I'm almost there!
Don't think of other people's credentials or opinions as more worthy your own. But most of all, think of your bushing as an old trusted friend. Accept him. He is a part of you. Don't fight him off. Just let him be with you but in the background. Tell him that and he will do exactly that. But he needs to know that he is loved. Soon, he will not even make an appearance. Then you can focus on the outside surroundings and he won't bother you at all.
I used to struggle really bad with my face turning red every time any attention was on me. And although it still happens to me when I have attention, I just ignore it. I always remember that no matter what I do everyone will forget in about a day or less. And I know this advice sounds terrible and everyone says it, but it truly is the best option. My face has been turning red from 4th grade all the way to today which now I’m in 11th grade.
@@eastside0434 I’m so sorry to hear that because I do know how it feels to be teased and literally bullied for it, but I think maybe your problem is that the idea of your face turning red has taken over your entire mind. Like no matter what you are about to do you stop and think about your face turning red, which causes it to definitely turn red.
