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Parenting has changed a lot since we were kids. Who else remembers Blockbuster night and who would never dream of letting their kids get away with the same crap we got away with as kids?
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@whydoyoucaresomuchdude
@whydoyoucaresomuchdude Год назад
This just needed a “no you can’t have cake for breakfast…. Eat your poptart” vs “here are your organic free range eggs with micro greens and avocado toast sweetie” type moment lol 😂
@amaracrow0501
@amaracrow0501 Год назад
Omg! Lmao. My ex husbands mom says that! 😂
@tasmeenbaker9912
@tasmeenbaker9912 Год назад
I'd rather have avocado toast than pop tarts for breakfast
@debgordon6542
@debgordon6542 Год назад
My mom still pushes cake and Coke for breakfast :-)
@imzadi83fanvids7
@imzadi83fanvids7 Год назад
OMG So true. Or like "No cookies for breakfast, eat some Fruit Loops." LOL And they wonder why we are sugar addicts, lol. Breakfast for me was a doughnut and a Sunny D.
@debgordon6542
@debgordon6542 Год назад
@@imzadi83fanvids7 Yep, you're right. Lol
@mindfullydissociated
@mindfullydissociated Год назад
as a 90s kid, you unlocked a forgotten memory about listening to the movie showings on the phone 🤣 and when you MISS THE TIME and have to listen to it again 😭
@nancy4980
@nancy4980 Год назад
So true!
@teleriferchnyfain
@teleriferchnyfain Год назад
OMG I will remember the horror of that every time I get hold of one of those miserable’voice recognition’ AIs 😮 Not sure which is worse
@pwallace5359
@pwallace5359 Год назад
I had forgotten all about that😂.
@misslayer999
@misslayer999 Год назад
OMG it just played and I thought the exact same thing. I totally forgot.
@eringrey9297
@eringrey9297 Год назад
💯
@rachelmiller4949
@rachelmiller4949 Год назад
I was raised in the 80’s by a boomer mom w/ anxiety. So going to the drainpipe w/ Jennifer M would have never flown with her, but going to the drainpipe w/ my older brother to meet Jennifer M was all good 😂
@evil1by1
@evil1by1 Год назад
I legit laughed at that..that was absolutely my mom. We completely believed in flocking as a defense.
@shawnanapier845
@shawnanapier845 Год назад
😂same!
@susanbartlett3421
@susanbartlett3421 Год назад
I had a friend whose mother was extremely overprotective and knew that my Daddy was super strict. Any time she wanted to go anywhere, she told her Mom that my Dad was letting me go.
@mialemon6186
@mialemon6186 Год назад
My mother had wicked anxiety and I was never allowed to leave the yard. So many other kids made fun of me lmao. My dad though? "Don't die in the woods, it'll be annoying to get your body. Come home before dark." I much preferred my dad, I spent so much time running around in the woods and playing with my cousins that lived on the other side. Kids these days all raised like my mum tried to do are being cheated.
@s.s.9149
@s.s.9149 Год назад
You lucky! Same situation for me and my twin sister (1981), except... we are the oldest, so we didn't have anyone to go with us. We couldn't go anywhere without a parent until we were 18. My mom was positive that something horrible would happen to one of us.
@jordanisbadnews
@jordanisbadnews Год назад
I'm 32 and definitely fall into the millennial parenting group, but holy God did boomer mom take me back to my mom witnessing a violent bike accident (I less than gracefully slid down a gravel hill with my bike on top of me.) And no joke, her reaction was "Is any of that blood coming from your mouth? Are your teeth still in? Okay, come get a box of bandaids, you're fine." Which she yelled full volume from the top of the hill.
@gusmonster59
@gusmonster59 Год назад
Neosporin and a band-aid. You'll be fine.
@jordanisbadnews
@jordanisbadnews Год назад
@@gusmonster59 👌
@rainbomg
@rainbomg Год назад
Right?! I legit broke my foot doing a front hurdler and my dad borrowed a set of crutches from the neighbors and gave me an ace bandage. I was in 9th grade and the crutches were an adult man’s, so they were way too tall. Worst month ever!
@aphillyate1
@aphillyate1 Год назад
Mom was trying not to alarm you any more. If she would've freaked out, you would've been moreso. 😃
@sherried4219
@sherried4219 Год назад
lmao
@ladyfeonyx1822
@ladyfeonyx1822 Год назад
I was having flash backs every time you switched to 20 century mom. Only thing missing was "I'll give you something to cry about" or "are you dying...no.. then go back outside, you're fine".
@harlemosborne744
@harlemosborne744 Год назад
"Is it broken, bleeding, busted or out of socket?....... No? ....... Okay, walk it off, you're fine." 😂🤣
@ladyfeonyx1822
@ladyfeonyx1822 Год назад
@@harlemosborne744 Yep, heard that a time or two also. Lol
@harlemosborne744
@harlemosborne744 Год назад
@@ladyfeonyx1822 I was brought back to the older memories when "19th Century Gwenna" showed up, because my grandmother ACTUALLY looked like that. 🤣😂
@brendacarlton48
@brendacarlton48 Год назад
I think y'all are a bit confused. The "older" mom was 20th century and the younger one was 21st century. Remember, the centuries are always one ahead of us. 1900-2000 is 20th century and 2000-2100 is 21st century. As a Boomer non-mother I find the comparisons funny and the Millennials are weird.😂
@ladyfeonyx1822
@ladyfeonyx1822 Год назад
@@brendacarlton48 well as a gen x daughter and mother. I remember my boomer mom saying that to me so... mind your own.
@murphy81775
@murphy81775 Год назад
I was born in 75. Honestly, I think the "free range" aspect of Boomer parenting wasn't all bad... I learned a lot of independence and self-reliance that way.
@amandaconley644
@amandaconley644 Год назад
78...I was born in '78 and I totally freakin agree!! I have a 10 and 8 yr olds and they have no idea how to do ANYTHING by themselves! I know I did it to them and I kick myself everyday. I loved going outside after breakfast and not coming home til dinner at 830pn in summer....now that is absolutely unheard of! I miss those days and the days of kids with some independence!
@jolenethiessen357
@jolenethiessen357 Год назад
Same! Born in 77 and it irritates me that my kids refuse to do things fie themselves even with my encouragement. It's more than parenting styles at work.
@jetta.silence6356
@jetta.silence6356 Год назад
SAME! Born in 76! Saturday morning cartoons and then out the door to go call on my friends. We hung out at the green box( hydro electrical thingy,i dunno we didnt care).I never had kids cuz i cant. And i see all these coddled,teens and kids and im like "ew gross!"
@murphy81775
@murphy81775 Год назад
The thing is - if parents today handled things the way our parents did, they would be crucified! Everyone is sooo paranoid and judgmental now. It’s frustrating. And yes, it 100% affects (impairs!) the kids as a result.
@trina7274
@trina7274 Год назад
Same!!! I totally agree with all you guys!! I came in kicking and screaming in the summer of ‘69…. And I’m here to Tell ya, If I couldn’t eat a certain food or drink from a cup myself, by the age of 18 months old…. Oh well…Then I’d have to go hungry until I could figure it out… I was raised on my grandparents farm…. Lots of Hard work but also very hard play too… if I got my share of the chores done (everyone participated in the farm chores) … I was free to run wild with my cousins…(whom lived on the same plot of land). And yes…. There were times we almost died (not even joking in the slightest)…. But we came out of the dust cloud alive…. Sometimes limping …..or with a bone or two broken… (or a fractured skull 😐) but we lived to see another day…. (Oh the stories I have to tell!!) I came home to an empty house from a very young age… made myself ramen and fried potatoes all the time, just about every school day…at only age 8…. (Fried potatoes, made in a cast iron skillet, is still one of my favorite foods to this day!! ❤️💕) Fried potatoes cooked in a heavy cast iron skillet, cooked on a wood stove…. Was my very first thing I ever learned to cook!! Complete with lighting and stoking the fire, myself…my grandmother cooked on that wood stove until the day she died, in 2005…. At the age of 89. It was the way she cooked her whole life, she knew no different.. When it was my turn to raise children, I most definitely did NOT let them operate the stove alone at only age 8…(many, many times I burned myself badly when little)…. But by the age of 10 or so….. you want ramen or Mac and cheese for snack? You can make that your self!! It’s good for kids to learn to do things on the home stead…. So they aren’t total ding dings when they leave our nest 😜🤪 My granny was always so, so wise!! She used to say to my husband and I “remember, you’re not raising them to be children, you’re raising them to be successful adults”… it helps as a parent to think of it that way….it really puts it in perspective …. The total humanity of a child (for lack of a better description) Sending love to all my Gen-X brothers and sisters 💕❤️🙏🏼
@i.cant.sleep.anymore
@i.cant.sleep.anymore Год назад
I love everything about the boomer mom's wig, outfit, and glasses. So spot on and cute 😂
@JustActNormal
@JustActNormal Год назад
Boomer mom literally looked just like my mom. Only thing missing was a wine cooler
@LG-lk5es
@LG-lk5es Год назад
And a cig. Def missing the cigarette 😂
@Jill4ChrisRedfeild
@Jill4ChrisRedfeild Год назад
Legit she looks just like my mum did when she was young, it's amazing! All she needed is a cigarette in her hand lol
@catya3668
@catya3668 Год назад
and her landline phone!
@traceybanks3525
@traceybanks3525 Год назад
@@LG-lk5es yesssss
@brittanyneiswinger3561
@brittanyneiswinger3561 Год назад
She killed me with the organice chicken breaststroke, $27 a pound lol 😆
@claireashley427
@claireashley427 Год назад
Organice chicken breastroke!🤣🤣 Gotta love spell check! This one made me laugh!😝❤
@jeannenadreau5393
@jeannenadreau5393 Год назад
*kalenich* 🤣
@Lillybabe84
@Lillybabe84 Год назад
And it was on sale!
@brittanyneiswinger3561
@brittanyneiswinger3561 Год назад
@@Lillybabe84 🤣🤣🤣
@brittanyneiswinger3561
@brittanyneiswinger3561 Год назад
@@claireashley427 bhahaha I didn't even realize the stupid phone did that. I'm gonna write that one down lol 😆 😂 🤣
@chloenightingale
@chloenightingale Год назад
This is so true. I had the strictest parents on the block and was still allowed to go play by the river and my mom talked on the rotary phone allllll day.
@chloenightingale
@chloenightingale Год назад
Oh, and we also had a pulse dial phone all the way into the 90s!
@amandafreeman2563
@amandafreeman2563 Год назад
@@chloenightingale I remember ALL those old phones. I even have the classic loud ringtones on my smart modern day phone
@11Renee11
@11Renee11 Год назад
Did anyone else have the clear phone with the coiled wire?
@chloenightingale
@chloenightingale Год назад
@@11Renee11 My friend did! It looked so cool!
@christysdeals4u
@christysdeals4u Год назад
right!
@jennoq1311
@jennoq1311 Год назад
I forgot all about calling to get the movie times! Moms would be killer mad about the Blockbuster tape not being rewound when it was time to return them, so happy when your parents finally bought the separate rewinder 📼
@MidnightSonnet
@MidnightSonnet Год назад
Those rapid rewind machines were amazing and so friggin loud 😆
@stephanienonyabeezwax1288
@stephanienonyabeezwax1288 Год назад
Omgosh. Listening for movie times brought back memories lol 😂. I’m 31, and I tell my 4 yr old “if you’re dirty, you had fun, go make mud”.
@shespeex8413
@shespeex8413 Год назад
This resonates so deeply with me. When I moved to Delaware, I learned as a new mom that it is illegal to let my children play outside in our own yard without me being physically present outside. No washing dishes at the sink, looking out my open window to supervise- only outside. Guess what the magic age is? 8. Until they’re 8 years old!!! But walking to school at 5 is fine. 😂
@suzettekath9860
@suzettekath9860 Год назад
But if you end up being targeted by cps. Can't until the kid is 18 to let them play outside with no parental supervision. And that the parent has to be outside at the same time. Minnesotan here. Part of the paranoia has truth in various cases, is that some kids have been snatched by pedos while mom was in the house. One happened in Perth, Australia. Another one was in Hawaii. Some died at the hands of their kidnappers, at least one ended up giving her captor at least two kids. One kid found out that his 'parents' were in reality his paternal grandparents. Who had kidnapped him from his mother's custody.
@clemdane
@clemdane Год назад
Wow, that is nuts. They need a "Free Range parenting bill" like the ones recently passed in Utah, Oklahoma, and Texas.
@btkshortie2836
@btkshortie2836 Год назад
Talk about ptsd of the childhood. 😂 '90's kids just runnin around everywhere barefoot, drinking from garden hoses, eating HH and On'Cor meals every night... Good times, man! 😂
@YTStarGazer
@YTStarGazer Год назад
I was born in 2003, my brother was 1991, parents raised me the same as they raised him. Street lights on you came home, drinking from the garden hose was much quicker than coming inside, flip phone till I was 14, It’s crazy seeing the difference in how others grew up from the same time. Tbh I feel like kids rn are so much worse off than those born less than 10 years from each other.
@tasmeenbaker9912
@tasmeenbaker9912 Год назад
I wish I was a 90's kid
@shoeshoplabor9945
@shoeshoplabor9945 Год назад
Your screen name......um I'm 61 so the BTK kinda freeks me a little. Just sayin
@btkshortie2836
@btkshortie2836 Год назад
Unfortunate initials. My dad didn't even know until I pointed it out a couple months ago
@sarahphillips8884
@sarahphillips8884 Год назад
Yes! One time my friend and I just sat on the bus to see where it would end up lol. Parents nowadays need to chill
@sillynacannada6718
@sillynacannada6718 Год назад
My mom died in 2019, This brought back great memories of going to our version of "drain pipe". "JUST BE HOME WHEN THE STREET LIGHTS TURN ON". The only critique I have, is the lack of muting the phone with the hand over the receiver. Also, the time you knew you were in trouble was when your mom hollered both your first and middle name. Damn neighbor saw you messing about and tattled.
@margaretgarana911
@margaretgarana911 Год назад
The village is full of narcs
@ameliaannhouck2670
@ameliaannhouck2670 Год назад
MY MOTHER DID THE SAME THING TO MY BROTHERS AND ME AND WE WERE FREE RANGE , AND NEVER SAY YOU ARE BORED, TO THIS DAY I NEVER SAY I AM BORED AS MOTHER COMES TO MIND, BORED? WELL LET ME SEE IF I CAN FIX THAT PROBLEM SO WE LEARNED TO NEVER SAY WE WERE BORED !
@shannontaylor2640
@shannontaylor2640 4 месяца назад
The old drunk guy across the street narced on me to my mum when I went inside another neighbour's house (that wasn't known too well) after wiping out on my bike. She saw it and took me inside to clean up my gashed open elbow and knee. I was in SO much trouble when she learned of my decision. Let's just say I wasn't allowed to ride my bike to the corner before having to turn around anymore. I had to turn around at the tree 3 houses before the nice lady's house. 🤕🙄
@MorganMakesThings
@MorganMakesThings Год назад
This perfectly reflects my own experiences growing from a working-class Millennial child into a middle-class Millennial parent. It's kind of heart-warming on top of being hilarious.
@Strangedream
@Strangedream Год назад
I didn't realize that I was so cliche!!! I am guilty of almost every example of millennial parenting. All the stuff millennial mom said in this video sounds so crazy coming out of someone else's mouth. This was spot on. As for Boomer mom, that was pretty much accurate as well. Man have times changed. It makes me wonder if we are too paranoid to actually enjoy anything ever.
@lbatemon1158
@lbatemon1158 Год назад
For me, it's the judgement from my peers that gets me acting like millennial Mom.
@gailbrezinka9766
@gailbrezinka9766 Год назад
I think it's the times, it was safer back in the day, I don't think your paranoid. The town I now live in was safe in the 80's, but by the middle 90"s not so much. In our quiet neighborhood there was a van driving around and the 2 guys inside would try talking to the kids riding their bikes or walking. We're off the main road and everyone has 2-3acres. It was scary the police were called all the time and they would patrol, we all found out that the exact same van has been spotted 30 miles away. No, I don't think you can be to careful. ❤️
@pinkiesvlogs2
@pinkiesvlogs2 Год назад
Lifes for the living...born in 62 and was blessed with a freedom in childhood i wish i could give to my grandkids now...we cant. Its just too crazy out there. I think if i could give a couple nuggets of wisdom it would be, give em some rein. theyre smarter and more resilient than you think and youre a better mom than you believe. If you get em to adulthood..fairly stable and with some selfesteem in tact, ya did a fine job.
@angelataylor5241
@angelataylor5241 Год назад
@@gailbrezinka9766 those bad things were happening back then too. Kids were not listened to as much back then.
@ednakravitz2738
@ednakravitz2738 Год назад
Hahaha literally felt the same way
@kimeverhart6253
@kimeverhart6253 Год назад
I’m 63 and raised my 4 children in the 80’s and 90’s…oh, this brought back some wonderful memories!!! I have 10 grandchildren now and I so worry about the world they live in🥺. I just love and support them ( and their parents 🥰) as much as I possibly can! ♥️ Thanks for making us all smile on a daily basis…and for all the gentle parenting information. It’s beautiful!💖
@dogguy8603
@dogguy8603 Год назад
I think whats worse is now parents can be arrested for "abandonment" for letting kids say walk to the store or park
@x.0.x.
@x.0.x. Год назад
God bless you and your family! ❤
@CiarbyBlueBookworm
@CiarbyBlueBookworm Год назад
Im 100% sure my mum had that exact denim blouse in the 90's, LOVE IT!!
@juliestrickland7754
@juliestrickland7754 Год назад
Omg! Brought back my childhood in a HUGE way!!! Loved it!!!! It's amazing we are all still alive! I'm 52 and I feel bad for kids today. They miss sooo much!
@rainbomg
@rainbomg Год назад
I wonder if grandparents or just older generations in general maybe had the same laments about us (millennials) when we were kids? Like, feeling as if we were missing out on quintessential kid experiences or possibly being corrupted by technology? I do remember video games being a big deal. But now I do feel like some of the foundational and formative life experience is being missed, things that help us figure out how to interact with the world and other people and how to be social- like nowadays everybody thinks they “have anxiety” even though they haven’t been formally diagnosed and likely are just mislabeling stress. And the absolute worst thing to do for anxiety is to retreat further into isolation or avoidant patterns. I heard a lady say that kids today have all the world’s knowledge, every answer to every question at their fingertips. But they lack the life experience to understand it and apply it. So they sometimes miss out on important talks with mom and dad about things that they just read about online and have now internalized as something harmful instead. It’s wild out here man
@randygivens8421
@randygivens8421 Год назад
You got that right. Alive and mostly well😂😂
@Cynthea_Lee
@Cynthea_Lee Год назад
I am Gen X ( I think... born in 72), I raised my kids the same way I was... I got the dirty looks for it too... did not care then or now. Dirt had minerals, home when the street lights come on, and I'm not paying an arm and a leg for some fancy chicken, and greens. Youngest is 19, oldest is 30 all 5 are alive and doing fine, some better than the ones that had the parents shaking their heads at me. Mine learned to think outside the box, and figure things out without coming to a parent to fix it. None of them were allowed Cell phones until they got old enough to pay for it themselves. They spent more time outside, but yes they have home computers and game systems... but there were 5 kids and 2 adults that shared those eletronics... so life did NOT revolve around them.
@juliestrickland7754
@juliestrickland7754 Год назад
@@Cynthea_Lee amen sister. Your kids were raised right!
@rthorofthehillppl
@rthorofthehillppl Год назад
Damn. That phone call to hear the movie times takes me back
@mimidavis2686
@mimidavis2686 Год назад
Aaaah, the good ol’ days of parenting. Brought back so many memories of raising my three girls. My youngest decided to run away. All I said to her was “fine as long as you don’t cross the street “. I also threatened with “if you get hurt doing that I’m gonna whip your a$$!” They grew up great and love talking about their childhood. Kids today don’t have those kinds of memories.
@inquiz-ahteev
@inquiz-ahteev Год назад
As a boomer who is raising teen grandkids🤪 You are so dialed into both generations 😎 Thank you for the trip down memory lane ❤️
@jaggirl
@jaggirl Год назад
I'm not looking forward to my 2 baby granddaughters being teenagers. Oh the stress..🤔 And I'm not raising them, their parents are..lol
@srvntlilly
@srvntlilly Год назад
Oh my goodness! I admire you so much. Having raised one generation of kids already, and now raising another, in this insane world we live in now. I love my grandkids, but I don't think I could start all over again. God bless you and you're in my prayers.❤
@pollypocket2282
@pollypocket2282 Год назад
Omg… I forgot we had to call to listen to movie times… thanks for the memories! You nailed it! PS… We had a van but I always wanted a station wagon so I could sit in the back back!
@Loveless2010A1
@Loveless2010A1 Год назад
Your "boomer" mom is wearing one of my mom's (nearly) exact outfits, with a very similar wig! Love this so much!
@HaleiwaGirl808
@HaleiwaGirl808 Год назад
As a 45-year-old woman, this is so accurate it’s scary LMFAO I love it!
@katiesandin7905
@katiesandin7905 Год назад
I too am 45 and yessss haha soo true!
@HaleiwaGirl808
@HaleiwaGirl808 Год назад
@@katiesandin7905 My dad actually had a whistle that I could hear like three blocks away and I knew if I heard that whistle I better get my ass home! Lol it’s sad how times have changed
@katiesandin7905
@katiesandin7905 Год назад
@@HaleiwaGirl808 hahaha. Yep! And your friends parents could even keep you line at their house if need be but nowadays you feel like you can hardly discipline your own kids but I agree, I miss the freedom that not every move we make was watched. Glad I grew up when I did :)
@HaleiwaGirl808
@HaleiwaGirl808 Год назад
@@katiesandin7905 Amen! Me too!
@Indite_Biden
@Indite_Biden Год назад
Same!
@mechi20
@mechi20 Год назад
Oh wow, the "Friday/Saturday" Blockbuster trips, those were good times right there. 😂😂😂
@traceyhanley287
@traceyhanley287 Год назад
This was hilarious! I was born in 1970 and you hit the mark! Great job!
@TammyTravelsTheWorld
@TammyTravelsTheWorld Год назад
1970 here too. I died at "The Drainpipe" bc we actually played in a construction site and wrote on the huge pipes with what we called "red rocks" and made "forts".
@corymiller536
@corymiller536 Год назад
People born in the 70s didn't have Boomer parents, The silent generation raise you guys, Boomer only raise millennials
@ChanaRo613
@ChanaRo613 Год назад
Thank G-d I was able to raise my kids pretty much the way I was raised...a significant amount more parental oversight than I had growing up, but NOTHING like the absolute insane helicopter parenting of today!!! My kids ran around barefoot, drank from hoses, climbed trees, ate dirt, who knows what else. Good times!
@sqiudy-catmedland1421
@sqiudy-catmedland1421 Год назад
The clown bit got me, they scared the hell out of me a couple years ago
@teelesynclair5902
@teelesynclair5902 Год назад
I'm from Glasgow in Scotland and it was 'Maggie Murphy' whom we feared as kids. She was meant to be a child minder who murdered kids. Every kid my age, like born before 1997 knows exactly who she was. My mum drove me to a scary abandoned house and told me that was Maggies house and if I kept my 💩 up that's where I'd end up 😆
@sqiudy-catmedland1421
@sqiudy-catmedland1421 Год назад
@@teelesynclair5902 a parents favourite tool is harmless fear🤣
@teelesynclair5902
@teelesynclair5902 Год назад
@@sqiudy-catmedland1421 haha true
@jessg2382
@jessg2382 Год назад
Oh my god- I’m not a mom, but I feel like I’m emotionally f*d up enough that I find your parenting style to help me manage my feelings and choices, lol! (even for the littles!) I was born in ‘82, and your 20th century parent was so dead-on! The Moviefone!🤣🤣🤣
@jessg2382
@jessg2382 Год назад
@Tanif's Tasty Tips YES!! And they’d have the TV schedule too! It feels like ages ago!!
@gailbrezinka9766
@gailbrezinka9766 Год назад
Jess G, oh honey welcome to being human, we are all a little F* ed up, that's why we're here laughing and sharing and discovering we're a lot alike in one way or another. 💕💖❤️🙏😂🤣🤣
@shawn_anigans
@shawn_anigans Год назад
I am an elder millennial, who waited until I was 28 to have my first and only child. This video is like simultaneously watching your childhood, and the person I turned into. 😂
@kellec5951
@kellec5951 Год назад
Girl you are a RIOT! I have never laughed so hard in my life! So on point and I can relate with the mothering from both eras! I've raised four kids and I'm now a Nana and I shared this video with all of them! I just hit subscribe and if there was a Love button!! Keep on with this! You're so very talented ❤️🤣😂
@franklinstephen3268
@franklinstephen3268 Год назад
Hello 👋how are you doing?
@May-or-May-not
@May-or-May-not Год назад
Haha, this is great. Our parents would let us loose at the start of the day and gather the survivors at the end. My students today have these smart watches on their wrists and calls home for the most minor inconvenience. Sometimes I just want to tell them to sort it the fukk out themselves.
@jessg2382
@jessg2382 Год назад
My mom had an old ship bell that literally rang in the summer when dinner time was before dusk. Otherwise it was home by dusk, and no riding my bike on peoples’ lawns.
@katiesandin7905
@katiesandin7905 Год назад
No shit right?! Good stuff.
@heatherborojevic4591
@heatherborojevic4591 Год назад
Hahaha my mom literally had the same rule of the street lamps on
@jaggirl
@jaggirl Год назад
Same. My whole neighbourhood grew up the same. Fun times.
@evil1by1
@evil1by1 Год назад
@@jessg2382 omfg my mom had a ship bell on pole she would bang to call us in.
@ashleyblansett2755
@ashleyblansett2755 Год назад
You nailed the 80’s Mom to a T!! Omg!! All the Jennifer names..😂😂😂
@WlfToboe
@WlfToboe Год назад
Oh man, the phone call to get the movie start times really brought back memories of when I was a wee child that I completely forgot about haha
@jatzygirl3120
@jatzygirl3120 Год назад
Oh my stars. The curly hair and glasses took me back. You must have so much fun making these videos. I bet the bloopers are beyond hilarious 😂
@pleasantpeasantmedia
@pleasantpeasantmedia Год назад
Yes they are. I think we are going to start adding about a minute of gag reels at the end of some of these, or I might do a blooper compilation
@Kate-oz2hf
@Kate-oz2hf Год назад
Pretty sure my mom had those glasses...and that hair. But we weren't paying for the video store. We borrowed our vhs tapes from the library. 😄
@wruffato31
@wruffato31 Год назад
i was born in 74. i was the epitome of a latchkey kid. my mom was single and worked all day long. got myself up and to school at six years old by myself. good days ;)
@maevemaiden
@maevemaiden Год назад
Omg this was a trip down memory lane and so hilarious 😂 We used to call the back of our station wagon the “way back” lol. Our house always had ho hos and pop tarts of course! In addition to dirt, we also ate playdoh, crayons and chalk and definitely drank water out of the garden hose🤣
@Cillana
@Cillana 10 месяцев назад
We weren't allowed to ride in the back back of the truck. Can't use the excuse of not enough room with bench seats. If we shared seat belts in the back we could squeeze more than 3 kids back there. I always sat in the front between my parents (yes, there was a middle seatbelt) trying to dodge the stick shift with my knees because I got carsick in the back.
@crestm1384
@crestm1384 Год назад
Lol this brought back so many memories. I'm a child of the 80's. When I went out to play it was whose house and be home before dark. I think if my parents knew half the things we got up to they would have had a heart attack. Ahh the freedom of the 80's. Lol and the movie hotline for the theater. Every weekend. Omg if you missed for the movie you wanted because someone chose a bad moment to try and talk to you you had to hang up and call back just to listen to it all again or listen to the whole thing until it repeated.
@margaretgarana911
@margaretgarana911 Год назад
I was thinking about missing your movie time or if you coughed and missed it!😤
@winterlynn9012
@winterlynn9012 Год назад
I remember we used the "movie hotline" occasionally, but looking up movie times in the newspaper was quicker plus I remember in the same section would be brief review/synopsis of the movies and a 5 star rating system,( 5 stars was excellent, 1 star was poor) my mom had a friend who would refuse to see a movie if the newspaper reviews gave it lower than 3 stars, lol. I remember arguing with her because I wanted to see Problem Child and she kept saying "But it only has ONE star!!" As if a 5 year old would give a crap about what movie critics thought 😂
@pi_beta7306
@pi_beta7306 Год назад
Or the imminent explosion when your parents got the phone bill and realized you jacked up 900 bucks on those phone party lines 😂
@skjarvis110
@skjarvis110 Год назад
You forgot "So what did you learn?" When they were told repeatedly NOT to do things that can end up in pain (such as me falling out of a tree and thus resulting in two different yet both failed, surgeries) and "Why you crying? Oh really? Keep crying and I'll give you something to cry about!" Completely spot on though, and funny af! My kids still did hear the "What did we learn?" question, bc like me, didn't ever listen to reason. Luckily none of them died or were seriously injured. However they could have been raised better had I learned sooner that being a red faced screaming mother like mine was before me, never ever helped the situation. Now that I'm older I know this. Sadly not soon enough in my opinion. If I could go back and change things, the constant screaming and yelling would be one of the big ones I would have changed, and I would have also changed the spanking thing as well. Rarely spanked my daughters but my son was spanked often. It didnt do much but make him madder. It wasn't until he got older that I realized that there were other ways to discipline him than spanking. Such as no computer for a week etc. Although gentle parenting wouldn't have fully worked on my kids I think it would have helped a lot. I have so many regrets on how I parented my kids. I tell parents now that a willful, and angry child is often a child who needs more positive interactions and less negative ones. I see this especially in a few of my friends kids who, whenever I come by want to literally come live with me. Because they get attention, and interaction and positive reinforcement. All things I didn't know how to do as a young mother. I love your channel bc it really does help give a different perspective on child rearing. A perspective that wasn't available to me when I was raising my children. I raised mine the way I was raised, and it was not acceptable. Looking back, I feel as if I failed my kids bc I failed to see or take the time to realize they deserved to have a mom who was patient and kind, not angry and resentful. I have a way better relationship with my kids now, but I won't lie, they need and have been in counseling, and its completely my fault.
@maddiekain7728
@maddiekain7728 Год назад
All we can do is be better than the last generation. And when we make mistakes, we allow our children to see us hold ourselves accountable. They have to understand that while we're imperfect and broken in our own ways, we can grow and change, and we love them infinitely. It teaches them that they can also grow and change, and they'll know what not to do with their own kids. 😅 Also, I think I say "what have we learned" like twice a day, at least. My daughter inherited my insistence on learning everything the hard way.
@marymarkham2929
@marymarkham2929 Год назад
​@@maddiekain7728 could not have said it better!
@Glassgothgirl
@Glassgothgirl Год назад
I feel this, though I don't have kids yet. My parents were also the red-faced-yelling-spankers and had I been a parent younger I would have definitely followed in their footsteps. I'm grateful to still be childless so I can have time to learn and do better in this respect. Reading accounts from parents like you who grew and changed helps hopeful future parents like me a lot. Thank you.
@skjarvis110
@skjarvis110 Год назад
@@Glassgothgirl when ever you do have kids, remember that they have feelings too. I remember growing up thinking my parents hated me. Between the yelling, screaming and being spanked for every tiny infraction... I had some serious baggage that I carried into adulthood. I think how they treated me in a way, conditioned me to be fine with the abusive relationships I got into as an adult. And in turn, I let my upbringing affect how I treated my own kids. I am thankful that two of my three have forgiven me and that we are close now. My youngest has not. I don't blame her to be honest. I can only hope some day she will find it in her heart to forgive me and want a relationship with me. Until then I have respected her request for NC and although its difficult, I have to allow her to heal in her own way. If me not being around helps her be happy and successful, then as long as she's happy I'm OK with that.
@skjarvis110
@skjarvis110 Год назад
@@maddiekain7728 thank you for your kind words. Yes, all we can do is be better than the last generation. I've discovered humor also helps alleviate some of the more stressful situations in parenting. My kids are 23, almost 21 and almost 19. I enjoy being their mom but there have been times when my oldest has made me wanna just check myself into a padded room. He was stubborn, and equally so as an adult. But, I love that about him now. His tenacity has really helped him lately, especially with some of his health issues he had crop up on him. He has Hashimotos Disease and tires easily. Plus has chronic pain as well. He and I have learned that sarcasm is the only way we can deal with each other when we're on each others nerves. Lol! I wouldnt trade him or his sisters for the world. Despite my parenting, they have grown up to be amazing adults and I am proud to be their mom.
@lucid_dreams420
@lucid_dreams420 Год назад
So happy when a scene filmed in the kitchen came on. I LOVE THE DECOR!! Looking like a cool Brenda from Stranger Things with your tats. ❣️
@brendaokuda2158
@brendaokuda2158 Год назад
So funny & OH! so TRUE!!!! I'm a 20th century mom & of course my grandchildren are being raised by 21st century moms. I'm slowly, but surely learning to keep my mouth shut. ROFL
@franklinstephen3268
@franklinstephen3268 Год назад
Hello how are you doing?
@preston6676
@preston6676 Год назад
The 3 day rental shelf.....DEAD. This isn't satire...this is documented history kiddos! 🤣🤣
@teganrafferty2624
@teganrafferty2624 Год назад
Love from South Africa! I'm subscribing right now! I have 2 autistic children. Peranting is hard! But after watching your videos reminds me to have fun with them as well as teach them. You are fantastic!!
@KOKO-uu7yd
@KOKO-uu7yd Год назад
Hey there! Autistic (ASD) son, ASD father (mine and my kid's daddy), possibly ASD me (but diagnosis just doesn't seem worth it for me at 50) ALL ADHD (me, 2 kids, their dad MY dad, etc etc....) and my kid's asd/adhd dad crashed early, and is now able to "dad" better - from a distance, just in time to teach kiddo to drive 😅😅 I've learned TONS, from so many perspectives. I'm in the USA (we're not all crazy, honest!!) but would love to be of support or help if I can!!! A thought to share - You are right, parenting is HARD. My son's therapist had this to say though.... "'Special needs child' is wrong. It should be 'More needs than ANY one or two individuals can HOPE to fulfill" - helped me feel a bit better about what I could NOT seem to do, and focus on what I COULD. Take care of yourself, too! A hard thing for me to learn, is that everything in my children's home and life is only better, if they have a happy Mommy!
@LisetteZ3
@LisetteZ3 Год назад
Autistic son here. We can do this Tegan! 💪💪💪
@donnaradonski2470
@donnaradonski2470 Год назад
You may also like a channel called “Fathering Autism”.
@suzettekath9860
@suzettekath9860 Год назад
Heya there. Autistic mom with a daughter who is autistic as well here. At least today compared to when I grew up. There is much more understanding these days. My kid is a teen and I'm a boomer.
@suzettekath9860
@suzettekath9860 Год назад
@@KOKO-uu7yd It is worth the time to get checked out. Since AS is genetic.
@ani4evr1124
@ani4evr1124 Год назад
I’m hoping you’ll make a series out of this, as the comments are amazing so far! And I miss the back back sit.. 🥺 we need to bring it back!
@KovuJenkai
@KovuJenkai 10 месяцев назад
Not only should we bring it back...We should bring it *back* back ;)
@tamaralainez7554
@tamaralainez7554 Год назад
🙋‍♀️ "Just buy it, don't tell Dad" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 We use a spinning wheel app to pick movies.❤️🤣🤣🤣 I can also be old school mom too. 🤣🤣
@lita6982
@lita6982 Год назад
Loved it! I was waiting for "why are you drinking from the hose?" 🤣
@AIXITstageleft
@AIXITstageleft Год назад
The koolaiad, hamburger helper, tater tots, hohos with cannned peaches...omg did everyone eat the same in the 70s & 80s?
@sleekoduck
@sleekoduck Год назад
Actually, we ate a lot of Chef Boyardee and frozen TV dinners in my family. So I would answer yes.
@tarynpratt9779
@tarynpratt9779 Год назад
I remember fighting over riding in the back back of the wagon 😅😅. I'm the modern mom now with a dash of hippie
@roadrunnercrazy
@roadrunnercrazy Год назад
Yep! We fought over the "back back" too.🤣
@AmyEugene
@AmyEugene Год назад
They should've been having pork chops covered in cream of mushroom soup, minute rice and fruit cocktail from a can for dinner. I remember a lot of dinners where everything was pretty much the same color, except the maraschino cherries in the fruit cocktail. I WISH I could've had Ho-Ho's for dessert growing up! We weren't rich like that lol!
@wendyduncan9084
@wendyduncan9084 Год назад
You forgot to drink out of the garden hose while you ate dirt. Lol. I do think we had a much more free experience. We could fail, fall out of a tree, push a brother off the dock in February. That last one did get me seriously spanked. In fairness the water was 50 degrees and his lips turned blue from the cold. Lesson learned.
@Krista_Rose7
@Krista_Rose7 Год назад
ah, the good ol' back-back. We never had a car with a back-back, so it was my favorite part of going places with friends!
@lesliemartin4537
@lesliemartin4537 Год назад
We called it the way back and it was the best spot in the car.
@tracyingram6377
@tracyingram6377 Год назад
“The good can of peaches!” That took me back
@christinanewcomb1718
@christinanewcomb1718 Год назад
My 70 year mother in law always has a can of fruit in a bowl every dinner
@Undercaffinated
@Undercaffinated Год назад
😂 The 30ft long phone cord so mom could go all over the house and it was like a maze climbing under and over the cord
@ashleyblansett2755
@ashleyblansett2755 Год назад
Lol!! You brought some memories!! I had a friend whose mom looked so much like the 80’s mom, and she would make a whole spread of hamburger helper, canned peas, mashed potatoes n gravy, Mac n cheese, cornbread. She said they were poor and food was their only entertainment. I’d be eating so good over there, than we all watched wrestling.
@jsanns
@jsanns Год назад
“Be home when the street lights come on.” I better be nowhere near coming in the house unless I’m on fire, something is broken, or someone is dragging my corps. #genx
@earthhippie
@earthhippie Год назад
My mom is a boomer, sister is gen x and I am millennial. This is going to be interesting.
@echatt93
@echatt93 Год назад
My mom is gen x, I'm Millennial, and my sister is gen Z. That's gonna be a wild ride lolol
@sleekoduck
@sleekoduck Год назад
OP born in early 1980s, second post born in early 1990s. My nephew and niece are a couple years apart, he's a millennial and she's a Z. Their mom is a boomer. I'm X.
@littlechristy36
@littlechristy36 Год назад
So true. I was born in the 70's and as a child we had no worries of anything. I drank from the water hose, ate seeded grapes and watermelon, hitched hiked to places because no one was a stranger, got stung by bees and took the stinger out ourselves and put some baking soda paste on it. Nowadays kids don't know what outside is. Times sure have changed.
@sleekoduck
@sleekoduck Год назад
Oh lordy that baking soda paste. I grew up in Texas and Florida so I was a mosquito magnet, I spent my childhood covered in it, totally forgot about that.
@kerrytakashi12
@kerrytakashi12 Год назад
Yes getting water hose water. Most times it would be lukewarm and I would be expecting it. But there were times I would grab a neighbor’s hose after they recently did yard work. The water would be so cold my brain would freeze and stars would appear.
@dezmauldin8600
@dezmauldin8600 Год назад
Missing "don't come in until the street lights come on" 🤣 our childhoods were so much more fun.
@RoronoaEmi
@RoronoaEmi Год назад
Love your videos. Early 90s baby and my folks were definitely somewhere in the middle. If I went anywhere with friends, they had to know all about it. And my mom was a total helicopter parent for my grades. But as long as I was outside, they were chill. All the bad things in their minds came from (and still does) technology. Nevermind the fact that my mother was far more prolific in her use of social media than I ever was. 😅
@Jawbone671
@Jawbone671 Год назад
Wow this was so true. The good ole blockbuster days!
@kimeverhart6253
@kimeverhart6253 Год назад
I loved taking my kids to Blockbusters!! 🥰
@nicoledaniels817
@nicoledaniels817 Год назад
“You can ride in the back back” OMG the memories of my mom’s light blue station wagon!!!😂😂😂😂💜♥️❤️🥰
@writerinprogress
@writerinprogress Год назад
As a Gen X kid born in the 1970s, this brought back so many memories! I now have a teenage son who has his own front door key but NEVER has the slightest urge to just go out and do his own thing for the day... and it baffles the heck out of me.
@Izzy-cp8yt
@Izzy-cp8yt Год назад
I had the weirdest mix of these growing up. I could have hostess cakes and hang out with friends at the nearby park until the streetlights came on, but I couldn't listen to much of the same music as them or watch the same shows. I was expected to call when I got to a friend's house and before I left (if I wasn't being given a ride), but I grew up not being allowed to play with bratz dolls and when I was older it was a fight to be allowed to *go* anywhere with a friend if their parent wasn't going to be with us the entire time. And I couldn't have most social media until I was 18. It created some very weird situations and issues growing up lol
@robinsantana4653
@robinsantana4653 Год назад
Why does this resonate with me so much?!! OMG!! Born in ‘84 and yup stayed outside all day!!
@franklinstephen3268
@franklinstephen3268 Год назад
Hello 👋how are you doing?
@janetd443
@janetd443 Год назад
"Clowns and Isis..." LOL
@joylynirvin8690
@joylynirvin8690 Год назад
This is exactly how my mom raised me in the 90’s! It’s amazing how different things are!
@lestatsluv317
@lestatsluv317 Год назад
Lmao See, I am a Millennial but I grew up very poor in the 90's so neither the parenting nor the decor was any different than the 80's....or the 60's for that matter. 😂 A perfect example is car seats. There "wasn't enough room" in my bio mom's car for my seat plus one for my baby brother so she just stopped putting in me in one when he was born. I was two months away from two. Or riding in the front seat. From age three I was put in the passenger seat ... and sometimes I had a seat belt on. 😂 Could you imagine that today? How the hell did any of us survive? Lmao
@rmrsgirl
@rmrsgirl Год назад
I needed cheering up - this did the trick 🙏❤️ thank you so much
@SheilaisOffensive
@SheilaisOffensive Год назад
Born in 82. I'm definitely a mix of both raising my kids. My kids are literally baffled when I tell them my mom didn't know where I was or what I was doing from the time I left to the time I got home. I couldn't use the excuse that I didn't know the time because my phone died or I lost my watch, because the street lights coming on was my get your ass home alarm. 🤣
@FallenAngelEnemy
@FallenAngelEnemy Год назад
That was my child hood 🤣🤣🤣 getting sent out the house after breakfast and being told to watch out for strangers and come home when the street lights come on 🤣
@lindseycamp1233
@lindseycamp1233 Год назад
I am also the mom that buys the movies and says “don’t tell dad” 😂
@pi_beta7306
@pi_beta7306 Год назад
😆
@sleekoduck
@sleekoduck Год назад
🙌🏼
@jenntheamazon
@jenntheamazon Год назад
Oh man. The "Jennifer" sketch killed me. I am one of those Jennifer's. We are EVERYWHERE.
@teelakovacs208
@teelakovacs208 Год назад
I was lucky enough to have really great friendships with Jenn/Jennifer's, so feel proud! Multiple Sarahs, Heathers and Amys too actually now that I think about it 🤙
@katl1489
@katl1489 Год назад
I remember making up a whole Jennifer A. when I would stay the night over at my boyfriends house...
@andreae464
@andreae464 Год назад
Watching you listen to the recording of the movie times was so great. Wow the memories flooded in. Thank you
@LBBEE-xl8qj
@LBBEE-xl8qj Год назад
I remember my mom shoving us outside in the summer and locking the door! She left food on the porch and we had to be home when the sun touched the horizon.
@madisonm.4535
@madisonm.4535 Год назад
I'm 19 I don't quite understand why I watch some of these videos seeing as I don't plan to use this knowledge for a long time if ever, but you seem like such a lovely person and I like your energy, so I do. Your videos are fun to watch even if with half of them I probably won't be using this information for a long time. Still helpful though.
@whitneyjameson1849
@whitneyjameson1849 Год назад
Same except I'm 23 lol
@gailbrezinka9766
@gailbrezinka9766 Год назад
Knowledge is power❤️ and this knowledge is also funny and packed full of memories 😂
@sleekoduck
@sleekoduck Год назад
Madison, my mom used to tell me stories about her childhood in the 1930s and being a young lady in the 1950s all the time ad nauseam. She was older when she had me. She's gone now and I realize I have a treasure trove of information about a generation that is gone now. I could write some books or do a vlog. So yeah, it's useful.
@krystalkerns1294
@krystalkerns1294 Год назад
Omfg you are just the best. Such an accurate and real view of parenting. It’s sad how different it is now
@reflexxuns767
@reflexxuns767 Год назад
I love this 😀! I was born in 1957. We had a black and white TV and NO phone in our house until I was 9 yrs. old! Such different times.
@susanharrah3462
@susanharrah3462 Год назад
do you remember party lines? where my gramma lived she had a party line.
@reflexxuns767
@reflexxuns767 Год назад
@@susanharrah3462 LOL! Yes, I do!
@susanharrah3462
@susanharrah3462 Год назад
@@reflexxuns767 those were the good times. riding on the tractor with my grandpa while we did haying on a summer day stopping for lunch for coolaid and egg salad sandwiches.
@tujuannamayo6675
@tujuannamayo6675 Год назад
This was so on point. 😆. The Blockbuster 3 day was LIFE baby!!!!
@chelsea-t
@chelsea-t Год назад
Not even a parent but I love this channel! Gwenna you are golden!!
@franklinstephen3268
@franklinstephen3268 Год назад
Hello how are you doing?
@desireed817
@desireed817 Год назад
I love this !! 80s baby here and this is so accurate ! Makes me miss being a kid .. I am very over bearing with my kids . This video taught me I need to chill out some . Us 80s and 90s kids turned out fine !!! 😁
@thehermitscove7942
@thehermitscove7942 Год назад
Your kids are so lucky to have you as a parent. Words aren't enough to thank you for sharing your life online. It really has helped me be a better parent.
@brookekuhlmann8021
@brookekuhlmann8021 Год назад
Laws have mercy!! I about pissed my pants 😂watching this!! You are soooo on point with all these!! Don’t stop doing what your doing girl, love it!!
@Brendallynn77
@Brendallynn77 Год назад
This triggered me lol 😆 thanks for the reminder that I need therapy. In all seriousness, thank you, I love you, your parenting style and your ability to bring humor to the darker subjects of being a mom
@ah5721
@ah5721 Год назад
Omg the 80/90s mom is how I grew up 😲. Nailed it ! And I'm turning into my mama 🤦‍♀️minus the spanking and yelling.
@Bobs922
@Bobs922 Год назад
Same lol
@angel_existential
@angel_existential Год назад
I miss so much being a kid in the 90's. I remember being outside all day with the kids in the neighborhood during the summer. As long as I checked in every couple hours, I was free range. We might be more technologically advanced, but it was at a cost that we will never get back.
@cassandramcxxxx9558
@cassandramcxxxx9558 Год назад
I love her RU-vid shorts I ran across. Absolutely hilarious and relatable. Always get my dose of laughs from her. Thank you.
@theheartofthehome326
@theheartofthehome326 Год назад
About kid #3..to #4.. (I have 5 kids)... I became more of the Boomer mom.. I'm 33. I have learned after being a mom for 11 years and having this many kiddos, that kids are happier and more respectful when they have safe freedom and independence, and their immune systems get stronger when they play in dirt, or even crawl around on the grocery store floor, and my bank account can't feed my family well enough or bellies to filling, with organic and whatever food.. and hey I can't afford to purchase a family movie night if I'm buying organic food..
@elizrebezilmadommdo1662
@elizrebezilmadommdo1662 Год назад
Freedom is great, I agree. Personally, I find that we all need to make sure we find a balance. Kids who grew up with parents who are too lenient and provide too much freedom can end up with entitlement issues and tend to not respect rules or boundaries. We all want happy and confident kids, but we also need to set boundaries and provide structures and rules so these kids are also considerate and well-behaved.
@spudnut00
@spudnut00 Год назад
I have kids in two generations. During the sixties, I was the 'permissive' mother because I didn't spank my kids but rather had conversations with them about why they weren't allowed to do dangerous/stupid/or harmful things. I also 'listened' to them. They were not permitted to back talk or to shirk responsibility. They were relatively easy to raise and we were as happy as a single, poverty stricken mom with five kids could be, I suppose. While raising my last kid, born in 1980 (who actually led me to this site!), I was the Strict Mom. I raised her the same as her siblings but with a more watchful eye. She was still expected to be responsible and respectful. By then, most of her peers were screaming/swearing at their parents, demanding everything that wasn't nailed down, and just generally being a pain in the pants. For the early part of her childhood, my last kid did not want to have friends her own age and preferred the company of adults. I'm SO glad I'm no longer raising children. The job appears to be more difficult than ever.
@spudnut00
@spudnut00 Год назад
@@aster_01718 Yes. The last child of mine (to whom I referred) first noticed the abysmal family dynamics of another family when she was allowed to visit the home of her first boyfriend. She was fourteen. She came home and said something to the effect of, "I feel shell shocked. No one uses manners, no one 'asks': they just shout 'commands', no one helps each other, they yell and swear and belittle one another ~ even the parents treat each other *and* their kids like this." My whole life has been about kids ~ my own six and then I was a family day care provider and then a nanny. Kids will live up or down to 'expectations'. Kids who were well behaved for me put their parents through hell because the parents (I believe) didn't 'hear' their children. Really small things matter, in the big picture. I once asked a family to reconsider the couple they'd named as guardians for their kids, in the event the kids became orphaned. I knew this other couple and I liked them but they were terribly ineffective parents who were not attuned to the needs of their *own* children, much less someone else's children. They bought their kids every electronic device under the sun and installed them in the kid's bedrooms so they would seldom even interact with their own kids. I agree with you about kids acting out in public. Unless they have special needs, that behavior is on the parents. I used to take my five stairstep kids with me everyplace I went. The oldest was seven when I became a single mom. Not once did any of my kids ever 'act up' because they knew nothing good would come of it. I can't even tell you how many people told me my kids were always welcome because they were always respectful and always behaved themselves. And they still managed to have a good time, following the rules of whatever home/venue they were visiting.
@spudnut00
@spudnut00 Год назад
@@aster_01718 I think we may have a misunderstanding. I certainly didn't mean to imply that special needs children are 'bad' children. I have two special needs kids, myself. What I meant was: if a child who, let's say, can't bear to be touched (I have a grandchild like this) and someone accidentally bumps into that child, causing a loud/violent reaction ~ that behavior needs to be 'acceptable' because the child cannot help it, just as a blind child might accidentally knock over a display. I'm not sure how you interpreted my words to mean 'special needs children are 'bad'.' As I said, two of my own kids were special needs and one of my daughters has adopted many special needs kids ~ some of whom have serious behavioral problems, due to having been born with drugs in their system and/or having been so severely abused, their brains/bodies may never recover. I have to disagree with you if you're saying severely traumatized children are 'not much different' from other kids. I am fully aware that those with disabilities are looked down upon. My heart broke every time someone called my daughter a 'retard'. That same daughter also became mentally ill in her late teens and between her very low IQ and her mental illness, she was a handful. So, no ~ her acting out was not my fault. Nor was it her's. And she was very much 'different', despite my best efforts.
@spudnut00
@spudnut00 Год назад
@@aster_01718 I'm glad we better understand each other.
@sstudley82
@sstudley82 Год назад
Your YT shorts of this drew me in!!my childhood and present all in one video!! Hysterical!!
@lbatemon1158
@lbatemon1158 Год назад
"nothing off the 3-days shelf" 😂🤣😂 I remember those days!!
@elainehardyman4694
@elainehardyman4694 Год назад
20th century mom reminded me of my dad and Are you bleeding? Is your arm falling off? Are you dying?.. you're good.. LOL
@melster48
@melster48 Год назад
I’m 61 and this may be the most relatable video I’ve ever watched. 😂 You are hilarious!!
@brittanyneiswinger3561
@brittanyneiswinger3561 Год назад
Bahahaha!!! The customer service representative is so on point! Lol
@charmedlibra927
@charmedlibra927 Год назад
The "Eeeew yakkieeee!" Part gets me every time!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@viviancabrera3863
@viviancabrera3863 Год назад
Definitely going down in the books under “best video ever!” I loved it and related to it all. I’m stuck in the middle on how I grew up and how I’m raising my littlest now. You’re a genius!
@baconedwards2317
@baconedwards2317 Год назад
Legit truth on the Jennifer's!!! Everyone was named Jennifer in the 70s. They walked into the nursery and said this half Jennifer and this half Jason. Lol
@csea725
@csea725 Год назад
Bahahahaha I totally forgot about the movie times!!! Also calling popcorn for the exact time, and the tv channel guide 😂
@loishilliard1
@loishilliard1 Год назад
This is exactly what I need! Thank you so much. So right on!
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