Haley is planning on having 11 bridesmaids and 4 'honorary' bridesmaids at her wedding, but can't decide on whether they should all wear the same dress or not. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
to be fair bride made a class system.................just don't. Just pick 2-5 bridesmaids and stop. Why would u want a mass of people in the same dress !
I’m playing devil’s advocate but I def agree with you. But I think (speaking from personal experience) the other bridesmaids were angry/butthurt over the fact that they barely just know or the bride may have recently met the “honorary bridesmaid”. I know it’s shady and catty but trust me it stings to know the girl you’ve known since grade school would choose a person you just recently met/barely know to be a bridesmaid.
@@4uKokoro by the way they were trynna choose for the bride and not really caring for her opinion also glaring (the yellow dress girl) Its just not that hard to see why Liz is the honorary bridesmaid. (Only judging by what I've seen)
The one with Glasses & the one in Yellow were Bully's. Plain & Simple. What's worse is that their even both so Arrogant & Entitled that they don't even really hide their bullying, with their comments, Snide & rude remarks, eye rolling & talking about her to one another or the bride, like she's not there. Basically saying if the bride chooses a dress that she was wearing, they wouldn't wear that. Who says that out loud so direct? & I 100% Believe that they have probably Bullied people like that for most of their lives, since school. Horrible woman. That other woman should have been maid of honor, let alone an actual bridesmaid.
“No one has that many close friends” because the one talking wasn’t one.. she was being a horrible friend, if the bride loves the dress and wants them all in the same dress, then that’s how it should be!
My thing is it doesn’t help this whole anger situation of the bridesmaids as a whole. To split them up in the categories like that. When everybody the same dress, you just might as will call them all bridesmaids. Not this honorary bridesmaid is bullshit. If I was cast cast second second tier like that, I wouldn’t want to be in her wedding that’s just me. I’m not saying what any of the bridesmaids did was right. But it’s feels like mean girls stuff to split them into categories like that.
Yes, the Honorary bridesmaid was the only sweet one. Damn, you can practically see the hackles raised and the fur flying and hear the hissing! Raawwwrrrrr! Pfffffft! 🐈🐈🐈 Someone get her “friends” some catnip!
I was a “junior bridesmaid” in my cousin’s wedding ONLY because my little sister and I were soooo much younger than the rest of the bridesmaids and yet older than the flower girls. That made sense.
See that makes sense. It surprises me how one person could give 11 of her friends around the same age bridesmaids but 4 of them not bridesmaids for no reason
Not only was the “honorary bridesmaid” the only one actually concerned about what the bride wanted and therefore the only one who deserved to be a bridesmaid...but she ate all those girls up with every single dress she tried on. Those girls are not pretty on the inside, or the out.
Holy moly, the “honorary bridesmaid” was the only one that had the bride and the bride’s feelings in mind! The girl in the lime green/yellow was just awful. Poor bride.
Jade Jean I know right, I can't even believe that those girls have the guts to do that to the girl who thought of them as her friends, and gave them such a great honour for her wedding
How they immediately look at her like "don't pick that dress" when she decides, so salty. If you don't want to wear it, don't be a fricking bridesmaid idiot. Smh, they need to show some respect.
You are absolutely right girl. They will surely appreciate the idea and love you more for it. Im an indian from malaysia so as ya'll probably already know indian weddings are colourful.. like really COLOURFUL...lol I didnt want my bridesmaid to all wear the same designed saree of the same colour like an uniform. I wanted them to have some individuality. So i bought the needed number of sarees of the same basic design but with little variation of the crystal patterns and of different tones within the pink-purple pallete - lightest being peach, darkest being purple and everything else in between. Everyone got their fav/preferred colours and i let them get their own saree blouses any design they pleased as long as it was gold. My bridesmaids were/are angels. They didnt make any fuss at all and helped me ALOT during the wedding day. My childhood bestie since 7years old is a chinese girl and she wore the saree too. My only sister who is 8 years younger than me...she was my maid of honor and the most important person in my life after my parents. We've always been partners in crime..lol She wanted to wear a stunning pink+tiffany blue bordered lengha to stamd out as the special one and i happily agreed. Yea the group picture was not "aestheticly synched" because of the odd lengha among all the sarees but who cares because i LOVE my sister and she did ALOT of work for my wedding. She deserves to feel special out of anyone else. The group pictures turned out beautiful and unique eventhough it wasnt tradionally "perfect". People these days care more for aesthetics rather than the importance and value of the person (friend/sibling) themselves. Kinda sad really. Happiness doesnt come from everything being perfect...atleast not for me and im guessing you too :)
I really think that's the best. People have different dresses that look good on them. Bridesmaids get to spend a ton of money on a dress that can look hideous on them. And people at the wedding are going to notice who looks good in the bridesmaid dresses and who doesn't
This is what I did. One of my girls already had a black dress that she wore, another borrowed from a family member and the others bought from a thrift shop. They were beautiful.
I LOOVE HOW LIZ WAS LOOKING PRETTY IN EVERY DRESS SHE WORE. Her genuine smile and care for the bride really shows that having a pretty personality is what makes you shine more and damn shes already prettiest out of the entire bunch, no wonder they were all pissed
Get rid of the bridesmaids and make the honorary bridesmaid the *only bridesmaid* None of the other girls care enough for the bride to put the bs aside
Can we just take a moment to give the honorary bridesmaid a round of applause as she was the only one who cared enough about the brides feelings she should of been maid of honour 👏👏👏👏👌
Exactly - don't insult my favourite animal in the world! Wolves are the most loyal and will always put the alpha first. I'd say the little honorary bridesmaid was the real wolf, who put her alpha (the bride) first and showed the only loyalty. The others were damn HYENAS!
1. I'm starting to think that the honorary bridesmaids concept was not the ACTUAL bride's idea. The honorary bridesmaid seems like a sweet person. She is so gorgeous! She truly steals the show💗
I find it so weird, even now, watching this later. Like, hello? The reason why there were honorary bridesmaids was not that she liked or preferred the bridesmaids that weren't honorary more or anything like that. It was for the evenness, but these bridesmaids are taking this so-called 'hierarchy' of bridesmaids way too far.
Heck if the bride wants you to wear a dress with dots all over it, wear the damn dress! It’s her wedding HONOR HER for her special occasion! Blessings and Peace ✝️❤️
KT Fox well you know they were probably all invited maybe she was the only one out of the four that could make it that didn’t have to work or something like that
I looove this bride. she kind of stood for the honorary bride. And surprisingly liz looked beautiful in all the dresses i think dats wat the party was jealous about.
Having honorary bridesmaids is so stupid. If you don’t have enough groomsmen then you’re going to have to cut your wedding party down. It’s more insulting to have an honorary bridesmaid than to not be one at all. Because you’re saying to your friend “you’re not as important to me as the other bridesmaids”.
Being South African, this whole concept of honorary bridesmaids is foreign to me. Like just ask your brothers and cousins to fill in the extra spots for the groomsmen. All this drama is so unnecessary. Why hurt your friends like that?
"I kinda feel like I'm being attacked" ”But I just try to let it go, I don't want Haley to be stressed right now." Me: THAT is why she's the honorary one and you guys are NOT.
DIEt-Coke I think you’re a little confused. it’s sorta like “honorable” mentions. She’s not an “official” bridesmaid like the others, but she’s still included. The title means she’s below the other bridesmaids which makes this even worse. She should be the maid of honor, not an honorable mention.
@@michelleholloway601 wait, seriously? Oh, now it makes sense why she said they think they're higher up than her. But yeah, she should just be the maid of honour.
@@michelleholloway601 honestly though, thanks for being nice about it and explaining it instead of just calling me retarded. ( Like a lot of people would've done. -w-)
This is why I told my bridesmaids the kind of color range they should go for, and they all picked out their own dresses. They looked incredible and they all felt beautiful. I had bridesmaids from 5’2” to 6’0” and a range of body types. I was not about to find one dress to compliment them all lol
“I tend to be a people pleaser” same lol I say what they want to hear and code switch too much ;-; no one will know what I would like to normally do...no one will know
Exactly. Maybe she wanted honorary bridesmaids so her other friends would be included and not miss out on being there. Idk why the actual bridesmaids felt so entitled on being "crowned" bridesmaids. Like, you're all her friends, why be bitches about it?
I’ve always known “honorary” to be a younger family member you want to include. Someone who’s too old to be a flower girl or ring bearer, but too young to stand up with the bridal party.
I now know why the two girls were acting like wolves. Every dress Liz tried on was beautiful on her. She’s one of those rare girls that whatever dress she wear will flatter her. They’re jealous and don’t want Liz to outshine them, but what they didn’t realize was that Liz outshined them anyways by just trying on the dresses and pleasing the bride and not wanting to cause her stress.
Despite the intense negativity shown here, I’m super proud of the bride announcing that A. They were all going to wear the same dress and B. That she didn’t want to see any more dresses/she found it. The girl wearing it I feel was equally blown away/proud/happy with the victory hands hahah. Sidebar, I’d 100% be short two bridesmaids after this appointment. 👀 just sayin.
They mad cause that the second one Liz wore was gorgeous so when she said that goes to honorary bridesmaids and the other one goes to them they got salty.
@@meganhead927 nah at that point the disrespectful ones should just not be in the wedding 💀 they do not care about the bride at all and only care about how they look
@Hi, Nice To Meet You I'm a bit confused with your comment. Why would Liz deserve to be honorary and not an official/regular bridesmaid? As someone here worded it, honorary bridesmaid is like honorable mention, a status that is below the regular bridesmaid. I think Liz should just be a bridesmaid and the bride should just do away with creating this hierarchy.
The bride chose to have honorary bridesmaids because there was an uneven number of groomsmen vs bridesmaids. I think that she should’ve had them all bridesmaids, and have a pattern when walking down the aisle (such as a bridesmaid + groomsman followed by a groomsman with a bridesmaid on each arm, and so on, or something similar) or just cut some of the bridesmaids out.
Right! Also, it's HER wedding, they should be trying to please her - not the other way around. That's why I love Liz so much ( she actually cares about the bride and her feelings. )
@@elleiske5884 I'm not denying that, but you have 15 girls there that all have their own tastes and opinions. You CANNOT please every single one of them. All you can try to do is get them to agree to settle for something.
@@h.stryker5519 I agree with everything you have said however my point was that she a brilliant person to care for others opinions stay safe and have a great day!
Kick those two "wolves" out and put the honorary in as a real bridesmaid. She was the only one listening and standing up for the bride besides the consultants! Glad she finally put her foot down and told everyone they're wearing the same dress and it's the one that she wants them to wear.
Those other bridesmaids are so petty and childish the way that they're so jealous of the honorary bridesmaid. And can we take a second to appreciate how sweet the honorary bridesmaid is? She's so soft-spoken and all she cares about is the bride's opinions and feelings.
Seems she’s confused at which friends care about her and the ones that just care about themselves. Someone who wasn’t a official bridesmaid cared more about the bride than anyone else smh
Omg the purple halter style chiffon gown Liz was wearing was beautiful 😍 I can’t believe she didn’t pick that one. She should have made the other two giving her a hard time wear the ugliest dresses lol
I swear people be wanting friends sooo bad that they don’t even notice when they fake af. Like it’s your wedding, they shouldn’t be making stank faces and questioning everything about it. Then look like they bout to throw a temper tantrum if they don’t get they way.
Times have changed since I was in weddings. The bride just picked one out on her own, and said here you go. And we smiled and wore it, even if we didn't care for it. Because it is their DAY!!
every time I watch these shows I always think "who would be a bridesmaid at my wedding?" and I only came up with 4 people😂 I don't know how this woman had 15 bridesmaids
Maybe a part of her bridesmaids are sister/cousin/SIL etc. That way you'd only have a few friends there? Although looking at these people even some of her close friends are not real friends.
I'm having 3 and a junior bridesmaid.. My mum is my Maid of Honour, My best friend and my sister in law are my bridesmaids And then my 16 year old step sister will be my junior bridesmaid. Some people may find it weird me having my mum as my MOH.. but to me it just made sense. Shes the closest woman in my life.
It’s not a good idea to have two classes of bridesmaids. It’s a set up for people feeling ranked by the bride. Have specific roles and functions for people. Maybe have some do readings at the ceremony, Have friends with great voices sing a song. Ask people to keep divorced parents occupied and not causing tension or assign a great aunt/uncle or grandparent someone who will look out for them. Choose people to do things based on strengths and recognize their efforts in your program.
