Elizabeth has brought 7 of her bridesmaids dress shopping, and all of them are in a sorority together apart from the brides childhood best friend, Leah. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
Like some people don’t even talk to people they went to high school with. Then all of a sudden you make “cooler” Friends and think you are better then the person you grew up with 🙄🙄
@@bgdhfytgy135 we'll miss ahegao face it don't matter u don't treat a person that way no matter what especially if that person has been their for u it's absolutely disgusting behaviour now I wonder who the fetus is with that immature comment
@@ifoundhisjams4075 its not disgusting? Especially if both are doing it. But if you're talking about how they were treating the childhood friend then yes absolutely disgusting.
I was best friends with this one girl since 4th grade and she always had new "best friends". I'm not the type of person to say my friends cant have friends, but she would drop me every few months when another random girl came into her life. No doubt if I were still friends with her the same exact shit would be happening to me like the childhood friend in this episode. Sometimes people don't reward loyalty with the same so you have to let them go 🤷🏽♀️
It broke my heart how Leah carried herself. You could tell she just felt small and like she stood out from the whole group. She kept her head down the entire time and her tail tucked😭❤️. Personally she was one of the prettiest girls in the group! And her personality was amazing. I feel bad for her having to be best friends with a girl who’s friends are such cruel people to her.
Leah deserves to go get better friends. That “yuck” comment was so unnecessary and the fact that it was the SAME DRESS that the thinner girl was just wearing?? Their personalities are yuck
@@adhelorly2389 right?! I would've straight up left and said "Fuck you, you skanks deserve each other". You don't go to a dress fitting to be insulted.
Friend the others arnt her friends they her friends friends and for the bride to do that to her childhood friend was wrong like some of my friends dont particularly like eachother but i tell them tk rein it in or leave coz they both my friends and i would like my friends to get a long they dknt have to like eachother but at least pretend when im there😅
This happened to me. One of my best friends had 9 bridesmaids, and there were only 2 of us who werent in her sorority. They didn’t talk to me at all and then “accidentally” included us in a text group where they were talking crap about me after I helped the bride find the other bridesmaid their dresses because myself and the other non-sorority friend were the ONLY ones who ordered their bridesmaid dress on time and the color the bride wanted/purchased flowers and decor around, was discontinued. 3 months before the wedding, I spent 4 hours calling various stores trying to find them dresses in the correct size and color while keeping the bride calm and they had the nerve to be pissed that I was doing something the MOH should have been doing. NO YALL DONT GET TO BE PISSED AT ME. WE ALL HAD 5 MONTHS TO ORDER THE DRESSES, MAYBE IF THE MOH HAD ORDERED HER DRESS ON TIME THE BRIDE WOULD HAVE ASKED HER TO HELP. Sorry for this rant lol I’m still salty.
Lori saying 'she wants to slug 'em' just cracked me up. I think we could all relate. Bride will regret this one day when all her sorority sisters have buzzed off from her life and her best friend is still there.
If only Lori and the team could evict that obnoxious bride and her sorority sisters out of the store while the cameras are rolling! That would be GOLD x
why were they putting leah in the “bad” dresses literally the entire time and calling her fat when the bride is the same size/bigger then leah makes no sense
@@RandomSwiftie13 sorority sisters basically go through college together and form bonds that are supposed to last after to help find jobs and be adult friends. Finding adult friends is harder in the US since coworkers can be friendly outside of work but you normally don't disclose anything too personal like problems to keep things at work smooth with your boss (say you got hungover once and you recap a story from a while ago, you get sick and call out, they make a joke about it to the manager). Childhood friends don't normally last from people moving away for different colleges and work. See how she has one old friend and 6 sorority sisters.
Oh my god noticing how leahs self confidence plummeting after just the first dress because of the other girls comments is so heart breaking. You can see she was uncomfortable at first but she was trying to be happy and excited by forcing a smile but after the first dress and those comments any hope of getting a fake smile out was gone. My goodness I really hope Leah watched this clip and realized she deserves people who don’t put her down to pick themselves up.
I swear after watching some of these episodes that I kinda want to open up my own dress store and if any idiots like this come in, kick them out. I know I wouldn't make much money but it would make me feel a lot better, I don't think I could ever work in a place like this, see stuff going on like this and not want to drag the women out by their hair or tell them exactly what I think about them.
To be honest tho the dress leah had didnt really bring out her beauty it wasnt the dress for her BUT they shouldnt have said it like that theh could have said i dont think its the right one i liked the dress the first girl was wearing and honestly leahs was plainer than that one but she was probably embarrassed and sort of lashed out.
Props to Lori, Ashley, and the consulting staff for being the champions of this episode. Your collective empathy prevented a toxic situation from negatively spiralling further down and transformed it into something productive and uplifting.
The bride was horrible for saying “yuck” after the whole dress swap. The friend brought up the strength to insert herself into a group that she clearly wasn’t part of just to make the bride happy. While the bride herself didn’t care to go the extra mile.
I definitely agree with what you're saying but I know about how the behind the scenes work on that stuff and that probably wasn't her first reaction they probably prompted her to give a stronger more negative response
Oh,it was the bride that said that?well that just down right awful!How can you bully your childhood best friend just because you're around you "sisters"(that,judging from how these girls act,probably will turn right around and talk bad about you)
I have no idea how that poor woman stood there and took that. I would've stepped down as a bridesmaid and maybe even not go to the wedding at all. Just because you've been friends for a long time doesn't mean they're always going to be the same person and good for you. I seriously hope she's surrounded by better people now. Ashley is literally a godsend for trying to help Leah feel better and make it through.
HELL NO. Childhood friend or not, I would have walked tf out. Don’t nobody deserve to be treated that way. She deserves better. Leah you can come to my wedding and we’ll all be nice to you
THE BRIDE IS HORRIBLE. SAYING “yuck” WHEN LEAH CAME OUT IN THE SAME DRESS SHE JUST LOVED ON SOMEONE ELSE IS SO HORRIBLE. POOR LEAH DESERVES SM BETTER. LEAH IS TO GOOD FOR THE BRIDE. ITS SUCH A TOXIC FRIENDSHIP
I feel like the bride is just trying to be “popular” in the sorority by making Samie the maid of honor ( who I would assume is pretty popular in the group ). This is honestly her trying to fit in by discarding and humiliating Lia. Such a toxic bad friend.
Natures Jewel exactly , it’s always the loud obnoxious with the fake “confidence “ that’s always the most miserable and hateful . They all know it and prob shit talk her all the time
Omfg when the bride said “I can relate” when she’s over there like yuck and giggling.and when Leah said I’m tired of trying on dresses with these people oo that made me ache for her 🥺
If I was Leah I probably would have just walked back to the change rooms because I felt really bad for her when the bride legit loved the dress and then hated it again once she saw it on her. Like I wouldn’t want to stand in front of them feeling like no matter what they will hate it on me. I would have had a go at them once she left to go try on the third dress cause they are the worst.
Leah honey, the bride is not your friend. No friend would put you in a position like this. You are absolutely gorgeous the way you are. Who says Yuck?! What a horrible human being. Do me a favor, punch them next time you see them. They deserve it.
To me Leah looked so beautiful compared to the other girls. She should have been the one getting married she’s got a beautiful personality and she’s pretty. But with them other girls I can’t say the same.
When the bride said "yuck" and the sorority sisters laughed at Leah, I wanted to smack every single one of those mean girls. Awful. The bride doesn't deserve Leah. At all.
You can clearly see how hurt and insecure Leah was throughout the whole thing, not just because she wasn't maid of honour, but also at the comments directed at her from the other sorority sisters. Honestly, I feel for Leah. She seems like such a nice person and for her to be treated like that, and the bride not even step in to defend her must have hurt like hell.
I'm with you all. I would have said something along the lines of I have a good idea; how about 6 attendants is plenty. Friend, you are obviously moving on in your life. You aren't obligated to have me up there just because, so thanks for the invitation, but I've decided this whole thing isn't for me. Best of luck in your chosen life. Bye.
The bride is horrible as well. She would love one dress until her friend put it on then it was "gross" and they all laughed at her. I would have straight up left.
If I was the bride in that situation and I didn’t think that it looked good on her, I’d tell her but not in such a mean way. Something like “it’s not as flattering for you as it could be. Let’s find something that makes all of you look more beautiful than you already are.” I wouldn’t want anyone to feel left out because of their body type or size, and surely there’s a dress style out there that looks good on all of them.
I just want to give Leah a huge hug and tell her that her body is perfect and that she looks gorgeous. Poor girl, no one deserves to be treated like they treated Leah, especially when Leah was the brides CHILDHOOD friend. Those girls don't deserve to be around a genuine kind person like Leah.
That bride was no friend to Leah. I think Leah needs to open her eyes and realize that times have changed and Elizabeth is not who she used to be. Leah needs to move on from that toxic relationship.
I'm just shocked at the way they're treating the bride's friend! My Sorors would NEVER treat ANYONE like that! Those women are so toxic and they give sororities a bad rep. I promise, good groups of friends and organizations would never be like this. Wow, this is so upsetting!!!
To me, it’s like this bride was a ‘loser’ in high school with Leah & after going to college suddenly fell in with the ‘cool’ girls & forgot her bff. Idk I get that vibe...sad really.
I got that vibe too. Now to fit in she bullies the same people she used to hang out with. It’s only a matter of time before those sorority bitches turn on her. When they start bullying her, she will come running back to Leah.
Firebenderkitty3, as a person who did this back in 6th grade to a friend that was quite dear to me, believe me she’ll regret it soon. Not because of those annoying sorority bitches, but because of the guilt. At least as much as I did. I was honestly so surprised it took me so long to realize that I put myself into such a trash situation, and surrounded myself with such trash people. I remember the asshole telling me “You were so popular and nice until you started to hang out with [insert friends name], like seriously she’s just so disgusting. What a waste.” and “You know I heard [insert friends name] said that she things you’re stupid and that your mom’s a [--]” But like their whole group was a WHOLE new level of toxic. I’m glad I stopped hanging out with them at the end of 6th grade. I found myself a friend that I cherish deeply and although she might be “unpopular” or a “loner” or whatever stupid names people call her, I’ve learned to never let go of friends like that, since you rarely find anyone that legitimately cares about you. I’m trying to find her social media or something to at least apologize. I know it won’t change anything, and that she probably doesn’t even remember me, but the search goes on! Wow ok guess I just had to throw my life story out to everyone. tl:dr: she’ll (REALLY) regret what she did to Leah soon. And a life lesson I experienced.
I don't think it was the brides fault, I think how she explained about how Sammy is in school and easier to work with makes sense but she could have told Leah before and made it less of a suprise
Nia watson Being easier to work with doesn’t mean you can treat your friends like shit. She is a high school class bully and a big bitch to her friend. If she is a true friend she would have the same relationship with her regardless of if they are in the same college or not. Don’t make excuses for bitches
Gosh she's so sweet to be so accommodating despite how terrible they made her feel. Bride included. What a shit friend. Who could watch and even laugh when their best friend is bullied by these so called sisters? Toxic as shit.
This is just awful we dont really have sorority sisters in the UK this is why 😡😡😡 it's just groups of girls with given right to bully!! shame on them shame on the bride for letting it happen shocked and disgusted by the behaviour of someone who thinks she is ready to be married and still acts like that 🙈🙈🙈🤦♀️
I am Irish girl from the punk scene that got not only friends but sisters of the soul who graduated sorority in Florida. They have been my most stable and consistent love and support. They are the most beautiful souls I’ve ever met and to see this behaviour from THESE girls makes me even more grateful that I have my two girly girls in my life even more because THIS is a horrible representation for what those houses stand for from what I’ve heard…holy dang
This is why for my future wedding I'm just gonna let my bridesmaids pick their own dresses, just within the same color scheme 😂, so I don't have to deal with any drama between my friends lmao
The bride could have two maids of honor. When Leah said, even in a cutaway, that the last thing the bride needed problems for, and how committed to the bride's happiness Leah was, it's so obvious she should have been maid of honor!
Like wtf she should understand Leah the most like would she feel confident if she wore that too? Her personality makes me say yuck that’s a fake friend.
My thoughts exactly. I think when the bride said "I can relate to Leah more than my sorority sisters" she meant because she herself is a big(ger) girl but she just didn't want to say that on camera. Lol 😄 🤦🏻♀️
sometimes people change and you refuse to accept that they have changed,so you cling to the good memories you had hopping that those times will return.
dumbed down yeah and eventually most of the time some people find their way out and realize those people aren’t right anymore it sucks but it can happen 😕
When she said "yuck" I felt for this girl, like she was putting up with the sorority girls for her friend and then her friend goes and reacts like that?! I am glad she actually spoke up at that point because that was not okay.
I hate these people who be like “I’m the maid of honor so I am more important than everyone else” Mrs Raccoon eyes needs to back off. I checked this comment 7 months later, thanks for the 5.3k likes
That is literally so disgusting that she treated her like that bestfriend just because she is your made of honor doesn’t mean you treat her differently from the PERSON WHO WAS LITERALLY THERE FOR YOU FOR YOUR WHOLE LIFE
If the bride said “yuck” like that I would just leave. I’d leave the store and the bridal party. No way would I be paying for a dress, for bachelorette weekend shit, and all other sorts of stuff for a bride/“friend” that treats me like that
I would bow out gracefully after agreeing to everything the bride wanted. I wouldn't accept being treated like that and my "friend" allowing it to continue.
I think she was "yuck"ing at the dress, not Leah IN the dress. It was a very different style than the one she chose, but that doesn't mean the bride wasn't being a coward when it came to her sorority beating down her childhood friend. She said to the CAMERA that she felt bad and knew the sorority was being mean, but she didn't do anything to stop them.
Bride: "I look into Leah's eyes and I see that she's kinda hurting... Blah blah.... I can relate to Leah" BRUHHHHH WHERE WAS ALL THAT WHEN SHE SAID "YUCK". Leah deserves a better friend that knows her value. Bunch of mean girls.
For real! Her ass had me so mad. 6th grade friend and you let these rude snobby bitches treat her like that. Im a thick girl I would've told her why dont your fat ass try on the dress n see how it looks on you! Fake ass friend. She just added Leah in probably bc her parents suggested she doesn't leave her out.
I would have said “Imagine being me, getting laughed at, obviously you would do something. So find yourself a new bridesmaid and a new friend, bye BICTH.”lol I know I spelt it wrong)
Leah is the brutally honest understanding supportive best friend. Sami is the smug annoyed and mean best friend. Leah gets put as the bad one but Sami is really the one that deserves to be laughed at like that.
Yeah. . . Plus, I feel like the second dress looked just as good on Leah as the first girl. She may have a different aesthetic than the sorority "friends" of the bride, but she's still pretty. And she's the nicest person there-although that is admittedly a low bar.
That she laughed at her childhood friend and made fun of her, let the girls insult her. She is a bad friend and did not deserve to even have her as a bridesmaid. That girl deserves a better friend than that bully of a bride.
This how my ‘best friend’ treated me without realising im the best friend she gonna get. Stopped talking to her about 2 weeks ago to see if she would make an effort, she hasn’t.
@@Sophassofa sweetie sometimes they text cuz they don't have anyone else, like once they find someone else she might ghost you again, like talking to you when shes free or want something, maybe I'm wrong, but better be careful sis
Leah- props to you for even agreeing to continue to stand next to them in the same room. You are beyond gorgeous!! Hold that beautiful chin up sis!!!♥️
"Yeuch. Yuck. No." And i wouldve left right there. Without a word. I wouldnt go to that horrible persons wedding. The friendship would end right then and there.
I mean i dont know if should take offense to tht or not but i wont cause im in 8th grade middle school and we like to goof around a lot but we would never do tht to one another and sometimes we can get opinionated and personaly i just think its wrong they did tht to her.
In my opinion Leah looked better than the rest of the girls. I didn't even realise that she was a bit bigger than the rest of them, until they pointed it out.
This reminds me of when my cousin got married. All her friends were the typical small town southern Baptist MLM moms. The bachelorette weekend was miserable, the last night we were there I pretended to be sick so I didn’t have to go out with them. It wasn’t a very nice thing to do but I just couldn’t handle them any longer.
The bride is that one friend that will be nice to you when the “popular” girls aren’t around and when they are around they will treat you like they don’t even know you
When the bride actually what she thought the fake expression of concern was so horrible you could just see that she's been influenced by her sorority sisters because at the end of the day she's only known those girls a few years tops, while Leah has known her for more than a decade and some change. Leah is here trying to show support for her childhood friend but yet that same type of love, respect, human decency isn't being reciprocated. They making her feel bad about her body when thick thighs saves lives period!!!!
@@adrianareyes7300 She said she chose the sorority friend as a MOH because they were going to school together and she would be closer to help with planning.
“what do you think of leah’s dress?” girl: *”yuck”* *they talk about how nice the other girls dress is* leah: “it’s a bit plain looking to me” same girl: “i wish leah would just keep her comments to herself” _yup, because that’s completely fair_
@@anabellemullen7845 yeah well they all "loved" the first dress when it was on the Kennedy chick but when leah put it on they all (even the bride who is supposed to be leahs best friend) turned on it immediately saying yuck and laughing at her. Sounds like shitty friends to me
What's disgusting is these are the sorority sisters who are in a low-tier house. Instead of welcoming sweet Leah, they treat her like the girls in the houses that rejected them a bid.
The friend could have stepped in. This reminds me why I ended up having more malefriends. My girlfriends always dumped me when they were dating. It was their group/sorority and there was no space for my single behind... unless they had a fight or broke up with their boyfriends. Then, they would remember me so they had company to party... until the next boyfriend. I learned fast to avoid friendships with most of my kind. Leah was beautiful in the purple dress. She only lacks confidence. She was looking down most of the time. I guess this was not the first time it happened.
I love how these people act like they’re so cool while filming and just end up embarrassing themselves once the episode is aired 😂 everybody here is stanning Leah and hating on everyone else 😂 and let’s be real, Leah deserves it.
and that finger snapping bullshit was so annoying and lame - to me it was just one more thing they could throw in leah's face to let her know she wasnt really part of the group
the fact that these girls felt confident and comfortable bullying this girl on TV that is aired nationally really says something. It's disgusting to see the bride act like that, if someone let alone my BEST FRIEND said 'yuck' when I walked out the dressing room I would probably cry. Her face was just defeted and when she sighed and looked down my heart broke. no one needs to be treated like that these girls are vicious and idc if your the bride it doesn't give you the right to treat someone like that. I've watched this video on repeat a seeing the consulatants face and all the girls laughing makes me feel sick. I hope those girls saw this on TV and we're embarrassed and ashamed of what they did, I wouldnt marry someone after I saw them act like this, and to top it all off when they said "she doesn't like our sorority stuff" it's OMG so annoying like ofc she doesn't she was just bullied on national TV and when these vultures show her one crumb off kindness she's supposed to act like everythings fine LIKE NO. It just grinds my gears. such bitches
I live in Europe and this episode has been aired twice now, plus it’s on “demand” so it’s safe to say that America and parts of Europe has now seen their utterly disgusting behaviour.
I saw the consultant rolled her eyes at the bride when she said yuck the second time. I thick she realized that the appointment was more about bullying Leah than actually getting a dress. Sad because Leah seems like a genuine person, the only one in that group.
That’s so true like how could they do that to her, especially her “best friend” aka the BRIDE, and the maid of honor is so bitchy and saying stuff like “I’m going to have to step in bc I’m the maid of honor” like shut up
The bride is the the type of person who changes their personality, to fit in with the popular crowd. They also make fun of, or abandon the friend that has always been there for them.
@@rustictexas2576 I dont know what sorority they were in but in mine, we'd snap our fingers during meetings instead of clapping because it's quieter. I'm assuming they do something similar.
Erin Smith I can see that. I know they probably play it up for the show but that was just obnoxious. Like they were trying to be original or copy legally blonde I’m not sure. Most sororities I know are snobbish cliques that are a waste of time. Maybe there are some ok ones out there but lol I’m good 🤷♀️
@@rustictexas2576 it is definitely obnoxious, I agree. I won't even try and defend that behavior either. It's not something that's supposed to happen outside of a formal meeting and I have a problem with shoving your social affiliations in peoples faces like that. It's just gross to me. Anyway, I thought you were asking a question, now I realize it was more of a rhetorical statement instead.
It’s like the bride is so not confident among her sorority friends, so she’s putting down the person who’s the closest to her so much to just boost her own confidence 🙄 shame
I imagined myself in Leah's situation and felt so insecure. Like picture yourself walking out with a dress only to br laughed at and called "yuck". These girls should be ashamed.
I’m glad Leah mentioned how everyone liked it until she put it on, she indirectly called them out for being bullies. I would have dropped out of that wedding so quick.
The bride seems like one of those girls that was never popular, but then somehow finds herself falling in with the 'cool girls' and makes fun of others so that she HERSELF isn't the one that is picked on. The sorority sisters are brats and not true friends.
Yeah, it's shocking how they change sides and faces. Just had to cut off a 9 year friendship with my previous "bff" due to similar reasons. One cannot just go on accepting the negativity.
It's the bride's fault, she should be ashamed of herself for doing that to a friend of hers since childhood. Sorority or not the bride should've minimized her negative comments.
Yeah, everyone was so mean to her. Not only did the bride say how she felt the dress looked “yuck” since it was on her, the other girls just started laughing at her. And the worst part is the not once did the bride stick up for her childhood friend or apologize for what she was doing
@@ME-ou5wl If the bride was truly her friend, she'd have stood up for her and not allow others to bully her. The bride is a bully, herself, as she was in on all the laughter.
Idk why but I’m literally crying over how toxic this bride is with her “sorority sisters” they think they’re better than her but they aren’t. Leah is the only real one and the bride doesn’t even deserve to be friends with her. Don’t be toxic.
Eddie Kaspbrak deserved better Probably because you relate to Leah. I know I do. I wish she told the bride that she’s not going to continue their friendship anymore, and left the appointment.
Yup. Plus the bride is going to make her spend a tonne of money to wear that dress and be with those awful people.Leah needs to walk away. They are horrible ppl.
Yeah, unfortunately this does happens you think you are very close to a friend but when they meet someone else who they think is “cooler” or more popular they abandon you or treat you like crap. This has happened to me with one friend and it was so hurtful, I was in my early twenties when it happened and I didn’t really understand it at the time, but my good friend started treating me different when a new friend entered her life. It was bizarre because I didn’t do anything wrong she just didn’t really want be friends anymore. I feel so bad for Leah my heart really goes out to you. I bet you that these sorority girls will a probably leave her hanging one of these days and Leah will be the only one by her side. Hopefully she looks back and sees how she really treated her and regrets it.
I had the exact situation as a bridesmaid in my favorite cousins wedding. All the others were her sorority sisters, and they were very snooty acting towards me. However, I'm the don't give a F type, and was happy to help make my cousins day.
