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That engagement dilemma is also super embarrassing. Like it makes you look goofy that he still has that up. I'd be upset that I wasn't told, and I'd be hell embarrassed by the whole thing.
Last year was mine and my ex’s first Christmas/NYE together. We also had the same dilemma of what to do on NYE as we wanted to spend with both our friends, we actually met up the day before then spent NYE separately with friends! We’re not together anymore but I don’t regret that decision at all as the friend I spent it with would have been alone as she was single at the time - boyfriends come and go but friends are there forever
Me and my boyfriend started dating in the September, made it official in November and then we spent New Year together. We never even discussed it, it was just a given. Surely if you are really into each other you will be desperate to spend time together. We have just spent out 5th NYE together btw 😊
18:26 - her friends are single and going on a single night out it doesn’t matter about how long they’ve been friends etc and water the friendship. It’s New Year’s Eve go on the trip with your partner and let your single friends go out together as single friends, your not single. If you want to go out another time with them that’s fine but not when they’ve labelled it as a single trip too.
In exactly the same dilemma with NYE story. I spent Christmas Eve night and Boxing Day with my mates Spent Christmas Day with the girlfriend My mates are having a house party for NYE but my girlfriend doesn’t want to go as she doesn’t really know any of the girls… Who do I let down?
There’s only one way that she’ll get to know the girls and if it’s going to be a long term relationship it is so nice to get along with your spouses friends and partners so try and give her some reassurance that you’ll be there at the party too
I’m going to my boyfriends mates for a house party so if you want this relationship to be something long term I would bring her along and just assure her you will be by her side until she’s comfortable and settled at the party - getting to know people in your life will be a huge benefit to your relationship as a whole
It depends on her anxiety levels, I was in this position last year but my anxiety was very high as I’ve never met any partners friends before. We had also only been together a month. We both agreed to spend time together during the day then spend NYE separately with friends. We broke up the following May but I found meeting friends easier in smaller doses than in a big group!! If she’s quite outgoing invite her to the party but if she’s quite anxious I wouldn’t push it, either help her meet your friends in the lead up or spend time with your friends on NYE then see her separately ❤ at the end of the day not all relationships last forever but your friends will be there for a long time!!
