Her dad started breakdancing 7 years after the divorce.. and after providing 2million & the house to the kids along with 12thousand a month in support.. WTF..
And still kept visiting the kids and taking them out a bunch. Divorce happens, it sucks. But her phrasing it the way she did is so disingenuous and pretty much just straight up lying.
And his wife had her lawyers investigate his clients, bombing his business and destroying his income. Then she moved states with the kids, knowing that he could not afford to follow them for years after paying that insane amount and having no income. Yet he abandoned them…
@@TazyBaby And her "medical bills" he didn't pay for was counseling in college after a breakup. This guy has admitted that 70% of the divorce was his fault but he sacrificed his fidelity for his family. This young woman has been brain washed by the mom and will NEVER understand her dads reasoning or situation.
“Providing” is a strange way of saying “lost in the divorce after a judge determined his financial obligations to the kids he was - in his own words - ‘there for one day, and the next he wasn’t.’” Nobody gives their ex wife 2 million dollars and a house out of the goodness of their heart.
*Deadbeat dad qualifications:* ✓ $2 million in divorce settlement ✓ $18k/month in child support ✓ Medical insurance ✓ Out-of-pocket medical bill payments ✓ $600k in college funds ✓ $5000 to get her set up in LA ✓ Co-sign lease for her apartment ✓ $2500 for her car ✓ $250/week allowance when she was unemployed ✓ Refuse to pay for "grief counseling" after a breakup
And can break dance at the age of 65, and be really good at break dancing, that is something that is very impressive, this dude just pulled out madddd receipts and said nah don't bully my daughter, top tier dad
So for all of us who’s dads left to get milk or cigarettes and never came back, now we know the primal urge to breakdance kicked in before they could make it to the store and they danced right of our lives. Finally closure
Ah yes because money = love he gave that money because he legally had to not out of the goodness of his heart. Also they quite literally mention medical bills and assuming that this is a issue in the entire family regarding health no shit They lose tons of money. No not “spoiled rich kid behavior” that money most likely went to good use its just hard to keep it steady.
@@powerfullpummel6417 hard to keep 18K a month??? if anything it looks like the money wasn't put to good use, if she still needs him to pay for her therapy, and if she hates him and he abandoned her why was she asking for money even recently?
Out of this situation, its crazy how they just don't point to the mom. He's being considerate for her, and Maddie just seems to have her on a pedestal to not even conceive that maybe the present parent didn't do jack for parenting.
It’s common in divorced households for the parents to pit their children against their former spouses. This is probably a case of one parent simply poisoning the well.
If your dad pays alimony to me that's the bare minimum (Which is completely fine). If he wants to help more then sure but you can't complain when he is paying what the court ordered him to pay.
@@nickwilliams5967 I think this also has a lot to do with the culture in California. If you genuinely believe we live in a patriarchy and men are r@ping everything. Then all of the contempt and entitlement suddenly makes sense. They are taught to be toxic in that state. Take the gender pay gap. It reflects the fact men work longer hours to contribute to their families. Yet they twist that sacrifice into something to be resentful over "The wage gap". Yet in the U.S. healthcare is up to 30% of your compensation. Businesses in the U.S. spend 2x as much on women's healthcare. Yet your job gives it to both genders as if they are the same. Meaning men are being forced to subsidize the healthcare of their female coworkers. Yet no one ever taught us to be bitter or resentful about it. We just accept that it is the way it is because women need the help.
@@user-dc2zh2il3w The thing is, most women don't think all men are horrible people, it's an exaggeration. Plus, there are many situations where men still hold much more power over women, (albeit things are much more equal now and in some situations lopsided) mostly due to stereotyping of male/female behaviors. (Women being less "logical" and therefore their opinions matter less) Women (in general) don't just attack any man over wage gap issues, it's going to be those in power. As for Healthcare, businesses spend more on women's Healthcare (mostly due to pregnancy), which has led to problems where many will simply not hire someone for a job because they are pregnant or have the chance of becoming pregnant (hence why you can't ask if someone is expecting to start a family in job applications) There's also that yes, many (again, not close to all) do use these to be bitter and resentful towards women, and I'd imagine more would be if stuff like the Healthcare facts were more well known. Hell, even facts get muddied in the waters and get turned into mistruths a lot. There's a lot of things both genders are taught to hate about the other and it gets amplified tenfold by the internet, who love to generalize about groups of people. (Women doing manual labor and men doing childcare gets a looot of people from both genders saying crazy things.) It seems like looking at things case-by-case is just impossible for a lot of people. Truth is, just like the daughter and the dad, people just spend way too much time listening to the craziest stuff on the internet and it's affecting everyone's perception on things. The daughter seems like she just wants clout and lied about her dad (her dad provided decent evidence to show she was lying tbh), and her mom might have also been lying to her too. The dad seems to go off the rails towards the end about "school indoctrination to woke ideologies" when most of the time it's just kids hearing about stuff from the internet or a single misinterpreted headline of a single school that gets blown out of proportion. A class will talk about sexism in historical terms and it gets twisted as "woke" despite being part of the curriculum for decades because people who dont go to school hear some rando go crazy about it. Both these people just need to go to therapy to talk it out but instead put it on the internet for the world to see. It's just a "please log off" situation, nobody here is really likeable (especially if the racism story for the dad is true.)
I mean, she decided to run her dad through the mud in a public tiktok video. She says she was portraying this as some whimsical story, but no way is it "whismsical" when you claim that your dad abandoned you, your siblings and your mother. There's no way that that doesn't just paint him as a despicable dirt bag, and yet she ran with it. Gotta chase the clout, huh?
Yeah true or not she's painting a picture of a not whimsical story. Also there's no way she doesn't know her dad will response. Old fuck is a crypto bro of course he's gonna be online.
He still is a scumbag this man doesn’t love his daughter and is literally trying to use her for clout as well. I do think she should have told the 100% truth if she knew it but the thing is in her perspective it was abandonment and she was a child at the time meaning that her view on it is very VERY different from the two grown adults. We as humans also quite literally rewrite our memories when we remember things. Its suffice to say that she very well could have thought she was telling the truth.
@@powerfullpummel6417 well you see the problem is her making it public, whether she thought it was truth or not. It is actually a very private matter that she decided to make everyone's business for no reason other than getting attention. This is really something she should have discussed with him to clear it out, to understand why he did what he did, found out his side of the story, etc. No, instead she goes "this man abandoned us in order to pursue breakdancing, also he would never pay for my medical bills". Make her own dad look like a deadbeat good-for-nothing scumbag to the public eye. Legally speaking, that's enough to sue her for defamation, public humiliation and what have you. Not that he would or should do it, but legally he could, so be mindful of what you spew around when you really shouldn't.
@@powerfullpummel6417what's he supposed to do? Just take the slander on the chin and have the Public think he is a piece of shit? Honestly, I don't think he really had another choice but to defend himself.
@@powerfullpummel6417he said he received a bunch of comments calling him a deadbeat dad and stuff. which could impact his reputation and possibly business too. I'm sorry but he has the right to defend himself. The daughter should not have brought any private family information to the public. she is an adult and know how the internet works she herself is a content creator and knows how the internet can be and still did it anyways. also did you not see the family videos? they literally hung out from childhood to adulthood she is definitively not telling the whole story. I dunno if she is lying or something, but we don't have enough in formation to judge either of them. so don't diss on the dad or the daughter for all we know maybe they are working together on this lil charade.
I choose to believe that he really did leave to become some kind of breakdancing monk in the mountains, but he was forced to make up a realistic story in order to keep the secret breakdancing society hidden.
Anymore of this breakdancing and his daughter is gonna claim to hearing his bones turn to powder and is having to haul him around in a bucket, like some sorta distressed Mollusk.😳
@@txmbrs To be fair, in the United States, there are some treatments that can you run you a debt of hundreds of thousands, even over a million. It depends a lot on what the medical condition was.
@@naosou921The dad stated in the video it was for therapy. Why he wouldn’t pay it was wild, but I wouldn’t necessarily classify therapy as “medical bills” when complaining about it online.
@@TheJasonmanguy And maybe he is telling the true. Or maybe he is lying. At the end of the day, it is domestic drama and we can't know who is telling the truth and who isn't. We should just laugh at the ridiculous situation instead of trying to take sides for strangers in a situation that we have no real context or evidence for.
The wife also had the dad put in jail after receiving millions because she wanted another 100k.. he detailed it in a further follow up. Dude paid millions to his family - and his family has him put in jail and dissed online.. smh
Imagine paying 5 Million dollars to ensure your children's future only for them to grow up and hate you for paying 5 Million dollars to ensure their future.
He even paid for the lease on her house and paid half for her car once she moved out. He just didn't pay for a therapist after she broke up with her boyfriend. I know I wouldn't. Not because I don't believe therapy helps, but because a break up is definitely not something that needs therapy. Also she spent way more time with her dad than I have with mine and I wouldn't call my dad a runaway. Like her dad my dad paid for child support each month and I got to see him for 4 weeks total each year. 2 weeks in the summer in Switzerland where I was born and he lives and 2 weeks in Sweden where my mother moved with us after the divorce. This dad clearly cares for his daughter. Obviously he's clearly leans a bit much on the right side politically (both sides if leaned on too much is just headache inducing imo. Both have valid problems, but the ones that lean too much sees non existing problems and think of extreme methods. Now he does not use extreme methods as far as I'm aware, but saying therapy is "woke" (a word that has lost it's meaning) is definitely a problem that isn't there. Therapy does cost too much and current education especially with how jobs work today is a total scam though.), but he has done nothing wrong when it comes to raising her. Like she said in her second response they only met once every 2 months like that's much more than I met my dad. And I still love him and my mum. It's clear that like he said her mother badmouthed him (which I don't understand. Just get a divorce and move on. You don't become enemies all of a sudden: my mum and dad still remained friends afterwards. Damn people today really uses the word trauma for anything that they didn't like growing up and for anything that makes them sad seeks therapy. What happened to seeking therapy only for deep rooted issues that won't go away with time unless you get proffesionall help. I might become a therapist cause damn I could solve these issues for them and make bank doing it.
@@TheYodelingViking You clearly have no idea what therapy is or how it works. You do not get to determine whether someone needs therapy enough or not- I really don't understand why you think it's such a bad thing for someone to reach out for help with something going on in their life. Which, by the way, break ups absolutely can be a reason for therapy and you don't need to have "deep rooted issues" to seek therapy. You seem like an old ass man stuck in the past. It doesn't do anyone good to bury issues they have and allowing it to build up and overwhelm them because there's apparently something wrong with seeking help with processing your emotions just because you think their reasoning isn't good enough. You'd be a terrible therapist if you don't even understand what trauma actually is or what it can be.
While she was needing therapy bills for her breakup, I was paying for my cancer treatments at 26. I was literally dying and my still married parents told me to figure it out for myself. They also had me pay for my education. I guess they traumatized me into being an adult
“While you were having premarital sex, I was studying the art of breakdancing” “While you were becoming an androgynous leftist, I was studying the art of breakdancing” “While you were having mental breakdowns, was studying the art of breakdancing” “While you were telling fables on TikTok for clout, I was studying the art of breakdancing”
9:15 This entire tweet makes it hard to believe her cause in the same video she said he visits and takes them out to dinners but less than 25 seconds later say he was a *completely* absent father. Completely absent but still close enough to text and talk to you and even close enough to call for money. She's cosplaying as a trauma victim for laughs and it's insulting to the real ones
You know that there's more to being a father than taking your daughter out for dinner 2-3 times a year? If that's really society's idea of how a father has to function, it's no wonder why so many of them don't man up
@@solidway you mean like taking them on vacation constantly keeping up with their day to day lives asking how their day was through messages attending graduation wishing them a happy birthday and always being there when they want to spend time but not forcing them to aka all the things he lists in his video
@@solidwayI mean he has mad pictures of his kids with him in it at different points of their life. If you’re playing contrarian you gotta come harder than that.
@@solidway You are the embodiment of his argument about patriarchy etc. lol. "No wonder why so many of them don't man up????" like what the actual fuck do you really think this problem is all about man??? like holy fuck dude. Let's not forget that almost in all situations custody of the children will always fall to the mother but yeah lets just say the father don't man up. I can't imagine how people around you can listen to your stupidity.
@@marlondavis9450 Honestly it's become harder and harder to tell in this video which people are trying to play contrarians just for the sake of argument and which people are just plain stupid and actually think what they're typing out in their comments 😂
This was a whole lot of "he said she said" but something that stands out to me as really weird is her claiming he completely abandoned them, was never around, and wasn't ever a father to her. So if that's their relationship, why on earth would she ask him for medical assistance? I can't wrap my head around how those two things can coexist.
Yeah it’s funny no one is talking about the mother who literally took millions of dollars from him and apparently won’t even help her daughter with her medical bills in college. She’s the real villain in this story.
@@kyleyoung317 I mean, if you do the math, hes pretty spot on. Not exactly. It would be about 4.8 mill he paid if you include the initial 2 mill. But I personally believe him over her simply because she went from saying he left to breakdance to he left and immediately got remarried. You're 5 when whatever happened happened and you have 2 different stories. Everything he said seemed valid and the only thing you have to assume is the money and she didn't deny it. She said she doesn't know. Meaning her mom clearly did have that kind of money whether using it or not. Otherwise she'd have said it was a lie because that's too much money to not be able to notice. Unless her mom saved it all. But if she did and didn't pay for her health stuff with it, she's even worse
my favorite part of the vid is when she gets really mad and says "did nobody fact check my follower count!?!?" ... girl did you fact check how much money your dad gave you before talking in the first place?
Yea the dad saying that felt fairly innocuous to me, like he was conflating engagement with followers. Her post went viral so there were millions of people viewing and commenting on it. But it's the one thing she can point to and say "hah you're absolutely wrong" while also being completely unbothered by ignorantly dragging her dad across TT.
They both seem to be they're exaggerating because they're emotional. He's showing pictures and videos but we don't know how often the time was spent. It could've been a few hours and that would feel like the parent is barely there for a kid. Kids don't think there should be a "schedule" to be with parents
Exactly. She KNOWS she was completely in the wrong because the only comeback she could come up with "they got my sub count wrong." Like girl you are focusing on the smallest sub plot to avoid accountability 😂
@@lawrencelawrence8553 I don't think he can prove that he was heavily involved in raising her, but he *absolutely* proved that she was lying about him being a deadbeat dad who didn't financially support her or her sisters at all. Since we know for a fact that she lied about those initially, it makes me much more suspicious about all her other claims, since she has shown that she will lie for victimhood clout online.
I can’t remember what it’s called but it’s a logical fallacy where you latch onto some irrelevant mistake once you begin losing an argument. The point of the argument was “my dad was neglectful and abandoned me.” The dad proved through text message receipts and family videos/photos that he did indeed have a presence in her life, he just simply wasn’t living in the same house due to a divorce. At this point, she has already lost the argument. She made a claim, and the dad proved that said claim was objectively false. However, the dad also exaggerated her follower count, and was wrong on this point. So the daughter switches gears and instead attacks the fact the said she millions of followers. The argument is no longer about whether or not he was neglectful. But since the argument started out like that, she’s hoping that by proving he lied about her follower count, that means he loses the argument, therefore she wins, thus proving he was indeed neglectful. Basically, she lied, realized her dad had proof what she said was lies, so now she’s switching gears in an attempt to win the argument, because if she does so then less logical people will interpret it as “she won the follower count argument, therefore she is right and he is neglectful.” She’s just trying to save face after being outed as dishonest and, in a way, manipulative of her fans.
Yeah like i get the impression he wasnt as involved as he could have or even SHOULD have been, but theres a difference between that and "walked out on us and never looked back". Also huge agree, this really feels like the type of thing they really should have had the chance to hash out in therapy and not online.
Odds are just as likely he was forced out by the ex, and she did a good job of convincing the children that their dad hates them and abandoned them when that wasn't what happened. A fairly common occurance in divorce.
@@PurpleAquasMonkey Thing is we also don't know the terms of custody. Just as likely that he was not around as much as he should be (however you quantify that) he might just not have been allowed to. Even without court order custody splits the fact they lived with their mother meant she was the one that controlled when and if he got time with them simply by refusing or allowing him near their house.
13:45 "I'm learning so much about this family" Too much, even. Something that terrifies me about the current times is that anything (no matter how private you think it is) can be turned into international drama at any time.
That's what terrifies me too. She made a story time to her 70.000 followers how she has daddy issues because of an absent father who chose his breakdancing career over his kids. That's it. Now millions of people on the internet are imposing a false narrative on her so that she fits into the stereotype of an ungrateful, left-liberal feminist Tik Tok influencer who apparently stands for everything that is evil in this world.
@@solidway She will be ok, she has a good dad. I think in a way it humanizes both people. We are so used to seeing just the surface on social media that can be canned, packaged and marketed. Here we got a nuanced view and a reminder that families and divorces are complicated and it is possible for two people being a victim of a situation without one of them being a "bad guy". There doesn't always need to be a villian for people to have hurt feelings and trauma. Good men can fall short of their children's expectations, good women can place blame where it probably shouldn't. That doesn't mean these people are bad, that doesn't make the hurt feelings less real. It is a shame it had to be so public, but maybe people can learn from this and there is a silver lining. I agree however that those shouting about the woke mind virus on one side and those shouting about all men bad from the other side are not helping nor is this the appropriate subject to engage in culture warring. This is about family, perspective and a traumatic situation.
@@solidway I haven't seen anyone but you bring politics into this. I could care less about politics and my parents are divorced these are my qualifications to say that what this girl did was incredibly cruel and she has made no effort to properly address what she did and therefor isn't going to learn everything she can from this mistake. Pretty weird when you make things that have nothing to do with politics political though.
@@solidway you said it right there, she made a post about it to her 70,000 followers, 70,000 people with probably many other connections. Tik tok has never been private to just your followers. She did this to herself by just vocalizing her life to all of those people. Everyone makes a conscious decision to be in medias light. Don’t post if you don’t want comments or reactions. This is exactly why I don’t have socials. Someone could take a video of me eating my own shit and nobody would have a clue who I am.
@@solidway "She made a story time to her 70.000 followers how she has daddy issues because of an absent father who chose his breakdancing career over his kids. That's it." Yes, all she did was drag some dudes reputation through the mud as a child abandoner using lies. That's it. She's the real victim here. "false narrative" We can all see the videos. This isn't being selectively edited by a news agency. It's not being imposed, it's out there in the open. It'll die down after a week, and they can deal with their relationship however they do it on their own. She'll cope with her 15 minutes of infamy.
As a kid I was forced to take breakdancing classes, so as an expert in the field I can say that abandoning your family to breakdance is the best way to get into the industry
In the 1970s when I was in "junior high" now called middle school, I had to take ballroom dancing class! I also had to wear white gloves and black patent leather shoes. Not a good look over 6 years of age.
i love how in her response to her dads response. she was just FUMEING lol she was so salty and trying to be hateful. she did a complete 180 in personality from her first original tiktok lol. its wild how butt hurt she is when he dropped millions on her. if her mother didnt give any of the money to her, than thats not HIS fault
I noticed that too lol. The dad seemed pretty chill and laidback in his first reply and took pains to say he wasn't attacking her. But if you listen to her, it would seem unhinged.
Not surprising. All her followers now know she’s a spoiled rich girl instead of the damaged, victim, regular person she claims. How many people nowadays do you see who come from rich families but just pretend like they had the worst upbringing imaginable.
Yeah given that weird unnecessary rant about woke, leftist... blah blah... nothing of value taught in schools but propaganda ... blah blah... bullsh*t. That was pure rage bait to get the magats in on this.
Further plot twist: This whole situation even being brought up is just another scripted piece of distraction while people get left in the dark by the upper echelon of society as to what's going on in the world.
I wonder how long it will take to start making money in this profession... Also--just going to shamelessly plug--I'm hoping some of you might like the music I make too :)
You're not ready for marriage if those are your priorities. And don't think for a second just because you've abandoned your family that you're in the clear. If your ex-wife and her beautiful teenage daughter are suffering because of your decision, and she invites a guy like me into her life, you'll be getting a visit at the ice cream parlor to discuss the situation.
you really don't seem to understand how a broken family with an absent father works. my dad showed up once a year max & he always acted like "the cool dad", joking, laughing, buying stuff etc. - that doesn't change the fact that he doesn't know a single thing about me, didn't participate in raising me at all etc. and a holiday picture doesn't mean shit. you realize faking a smile for pictures is... well... a thing people do. right?
@@tezix5172 He gave them millions of dollars and paid for their housing, food, education, etc. That’s the complete opposite of “absent”. And again, you don’t meet up with people you hate to take happy pictures with them. They’re all full grown adults with zero obligation to do anything with him, yet they all do. You’re just wrong.
@@FBZOMBlES again - the times i've seen people pretending to like each other, talk, spend time together, take pictures etc... you're actually delusional if you think this doesn't happen lol. also throwing money at your kid doesn't replace actual parenting.
Cant wait for season 2 when they stream their family therapy session, under the condition that her dad can communicate his feeling with interpretive breakdancing.
And it all ended well, with the family explaining it was just a publicity stunt to their new show (daughter is a Hollywood screenwriter, right?). Up on CBS on fridays 9/8c.
The fact the mom didn’t set up a mini trust for them (allegedly- I have no idea, just assuming because if her saying she had medical bills) shows she didn’t focus on investing - the kids had a nice lifestyle and she may have made them think there was more money to get
I've seen that many many times, actually... the dad gives a lot of money but the children aren't aware, everything "feels" provided for by the mother only and she makes sure that's the narrative, and whenever there's a financial hurdle it's "go ask your dad, if he loves you he should give you stuff, he never does anything for you so maybe about time and you see that I have no money and I always do everything blabla...". There's no consideration of where the money is going what is happening and obviously the children are not aware and it's not their fault but that's how in the end some father who are not garbage get "hated" by some of their children because of narratives created by the mother and since they're not here to defend themselves all the time well... Obviously it's not always the case, deadbeat dads exist, but it's not always as it seems...
A lot of people share their trauma on the internet to find people with similar experiences and it can make them and viewers feel less alone. But she absolutely shouldn't have made his identity so obvious given he's famous and it was obv going to cause issues
@@Cenentury0941I think that the mother and daughter’s perspective are largely the same. I’d even go as far as to say that the daughter is spewing complaints that aren’t even hers but rather her mom’s influence. She is the caretaker after all.
The fact she was somehow unaware of her mother raking in millions - $18,000 is insane and their lifestyle would've reflected that.... unless her mother hid that fact from her. Yikes.
Its called a lie. Y'all are so gullible believing the cryptobro, elon simp and confirmed liar. He's a "used car salesman", he'll say anything to sell you his bs
The mother clearly hated the father more than she loved her kids. You see this shit way too often where one parent will poison the kid against the other parent just because they broke up or had a divorce. It's pathetic.
@@pinkkfloydd I experienced that the other way around, I always loved my mother more but my dad won custody and he wouldn't let me live with her because he hated her
I get the complaints about him not being in her life as much as he probably should have been, but complaining about tuition? The dad said he put in like 300k+ into all his gets college funds(4 kids = $ 1.2 million). Plus, mom got 5m out of the divorce. Where did that money go?
@@Julienna I think if it were a lie, the girl would have immediately called it out, but all she mentioned was the dad not being present / him not paying for her things AFTER she was an adult.
@@bayardkyyako7427 you really think that bitch is gonna be like, 'ummm, I don't get into finacial stuff~~~' if he actually did not pay what he said he paid? She's literally a Hollywood screenwriter LMFAO
Good for him for responding...sounds like Maddie either made up some lies or mom told Maddie some lies. More likely the former since she claimed he left to breakdance and that happened almost a decade after the divorce.
Hey that's new age of Social Media baby. Everything is content if you got a good drama story. Whatever happen dont expose yourself online or else it can never go away. And theres danger. Now this age: post anything and everything. Like what? we did huge 360 i tell you. Plus I wasnt apart of the meeting. To expose everything. Lol. But yeah i feel u. Same no reason at all.
@@xxx0ox0or maybe he just sucks as a father, which is obvious. she couldve been as neutral as possible, but if he only sees his kids once a month ofc theyre going to feel abandoned. but well, men are notoriously deadbeat dads.
You sound salty, most kids are gonna dislike one of their parents after divorce and it's statistically most often the father who leaves. Of course the dad is gonna think they were in the right, the kids aren't going to see it that way@xxx0ox0
The daughter seems to be blaming her dad for anything, and when he corrected it she changed the story. It went from him abandoning them to her lying more.
Yep and then her entire argument devolved into "I don't have a million followers so everything they say is false" couldn't even discredit what her dad said.
They both kinda suck. This dad is still an absolute mess and neglectful while she is very clearly still harboring resentment towards him for his failures as a parent that makes her not see things clearly. Hell this dad literally invalidates the mental health of his daughter for the most batshit insane reasons showing zero affection for her feelings and likely he doesnt have the full story on WHY she needed therapy.
@@powerfullpummel6417 i think the issue is why is she still asking him for personal expenses when its clear that he already gave them a lot of money. Its just my speculation but it seems thar the dad loves her daughter very much and the reason he didn't gave her any money is cause he thinks she doesn't need any therapy (which is likely) and just lied to gave her some space. Also from her story it seems that she always qsk her for money and this is one of the few or only time he rejected.
Deadbeat dad qualifications: ✓ $2 million in divorce settlement ✓ $18k/month in child support ✓ Medical insurance ✓ Out-of-pocket medical bill payments ✓ $600k in college funds ✓ $5000 to get her set up in LA ✓ Co-sign lease for her apartment ✓ $2500 for her car ✓ $250/week allowance when she was unemployed ✓ Refuse to pay for "grief counseling" after a breakup
If y'all got 5 million dollars plus tens of thousands of dollars per month...that DOES cover your college, Healthcare, new car, new house, and probably anything else you want in life. Either manage your money better or tell your mom to.
but even after that, he put money down for her a car and put money towards a place of her own. he did what he was responsible for and even gave more after
@@nesciusplayground $5 million plus $18 per month in child support AND alimony. So yeah, either she or they both need to learn to manage their money better.. Lol maybe you need to learn to listen?
Alimony is usually paid for a limited time period. She may have had medical issues after the alimony payments had ended. Also, alimony is money meant for the ex-spouse to use, child support is what the children are supposed to get
@@i10i60 also you said alimony for ex-spouse and child support for children. If she's saying her dad doesn't care about her, why cant the mum tale a bit of her 15k and support them without the dad needing to send another 15k for child support? There's no excuse, that's just a spoilt kid's rambling. 15k is the equivalent of some people's 3+yrs salary(google if you think im bullshitting). And they get that per month. Even just the first 3yrs is enough to make the mom and kids self sufficient if well planned. But nah....they got a human piggy bank.
@privateName419 Heads up for people who don't understand that alimony and child support structures vary among states, times, and individual cases. Whatever deductions you came up with may be wildly off. Again, Alimony is paid for a limited time. We don't know if the mother was still receiving any payments from the father at the time the daughter claims she had these medical issues. Why are we blindly believing the father and dunking on the daughter when neither have provided evidence for any claims? You don't even know if the father paid the mother any amount. You also don't know if the mother spent the money she received on her children. The mother may have been withholding the money.
@@i10i60 He said he paid a total of 5 Million. Which if true is enough for her and her mom to not work for life. Most people who say their dad left them mean 1st that their dad is far away sometimes even in an entirely different country and 2nd that they receive no money from them. What's the point of a dad who sends you happy birthdays without a single gift. At least her dad sent a t-shirt birthday gift or not. They are also set for life thanks to him. That's more then what the average dad does for his family and she can still complain. In the response she said she doesn't know the financial situation and doesn't refute it. Meaning it's likely true.
This is crazy. My dad I never knew, he left me at 3-5 months old and I've never had any convo with him, and she's saying her dad is "completely absent father" when he was visiting on a yearly basis wtf
Plus she could have visited any time and he clearly is not uninterested in their lives. My father who lived in the same house was more absent than her dad.
I whole heartedly believe this is a very well put together Father/Daughter collab to increase their social media presence. She is a Hollywood screen writer after all. Pretty smart if you ask me.
not really subjective when you factor in that he's 66 and most americans who are 66 can't even make it to the bathroom without pulling some muscle and being in agonizing pain all day
“You don’t have to abandon your corporeal belongings to pursue breakdancing” And that, Charlie is why you will never be a true breakdancer no matter how powerful you may be. You lack the vision to see a world graced by breakdancing one can only achieve through total dedication of not only body and soul, but life itself
Deadbeat dad qualifications: ✓ $2 million in divorce settlement ✓ $18k/month in child support ✓ Medical insurance ✓ Out-of-pocket medical bill payments ✓ $600k in college funds ✓ $5000 to get her set up in LA ✓ Co-sign lease for her apartment ✓ $2500 for her car ✓ $250/week allowance when she was unemployed ✓ Refuse to pay for "grief counseling" after a breakup The daughter is definitely lying.
Just played it on x2 to double check. Not sure why I was expecting it to be anything other than x4. Thing is I'm used to watching videos on x16 speed with video speed controller for work, so at this point x4 seems like slow motion to me.
This went from family drama about breakdancing to bashing “woke leftist” therapy and gender ideology…I don’t know what just happened The comments have descended into idiotic madness, please don’t read it’ll make you lose hope for humanity.
Imagine saying "HE REFUSED TO PAY MY MEDICAL BILLS" Not mentioning that said 'medical bills' are for an adult getting therapy because their boyfriend broke up with them... I can see why he doesn't like 'Woke Leftists'
I was on the guys side untill it turned out he was an ass too lmao. "elon advises against [sending your children to school]!" like ahhhh, now the shirts make sense.
Imagine saying "HE REFUSED TO PAY MY MEDICAL BILLS" Not mentioning that said 'medical bills' are for an adult getting therapy because their boyfriend broke up with them.
10:07 just wanna put something out there. he has 0 obligation to pay for anything for her when shes an adult in college. that includes medical bills. did her mom pay for anything? doesnt seem like it
I have a feeling the mother is gaslighting the daughter and keeping the real amount of money from her daughter. If her daughter really can't see that 2 million and 18 GODDAMN THOUSAND a month is not wealthy then she's fucking delusional.
Lesson from an English teacher. Foreshadowing is when you get a clue early in a story that hints at how the story is going to develop later on. In this case, the breakdancing dad wearing a bitcoin shirt was a huge clue on where his story was going to shift later on.
The real foreshadowing was that he had an ad company so that is why he is making multiple videos about this topic and is ok with her defamatory videos against him. It’s hard to imagine a person who worked in the ad industry wouldn’t be constantly trying to make money.
18:35 Not to mention he did say "I gave her mother 5 mill for the kids bills" and her reply to that was "I won't get into the nitty-gritty of the economical part", basically confirming that he did gave her mother 5 mill
@@MisterNightfish Hey, she is white, blonde, from a wealthy family, statistically likely to be straight, and wants to succeed as a Hollywood writer. If she is not a victim of patriarchal oppression, at least, she'll be booted and replaced by the first minority representative that walks across the street.
@@AnyMEmdqbro threw in all the buzzwords, like just say she’s rich don’t go on about the patriarchy. Plus the patriarchy means man controlled society her mom and her have 6 million putting them in the top 1%, so what does male privilege that have to do with literally anything (and on top of it all it was the dad who made the money lmao)
@@tiy4301 still had no hand in raising her. Like he might have not contributed the least out of all deadbeat parents, but giving money because you have to doesn't mean you weren't an absent father.
He has shown as much evidence as possible with the new response and people would still rather believe a spoiled teenager saying she was abandoned and ignore the any and all evidence that shows that just isn’t true. 2024 in a fucking nutshell
The thing is, he would and should have evidence since he's the parent. It's not like she would be documenting the time they spend together since she's the kid. It's basically about her feelings and clearly showing that even with videos and messages, she still feels like he wasn't there enough. Like her saying he left them to breakdance sounds like something her mom's side of the family would "joke" about him and she actually believed it
@@lawrencelawrence8553 Oh please, she didnt even deny that she reached to her father many time for money. Your "her feeling" is totally bullshit, clearly a spoil brat whom was told "believe all woman" and victimize herself for clout
@@phamquanghien7062 yes and he didn't deny that he didn't give it to her. He said he gave through her mother via alimony and child support. You're being a little exaggerated and extreme with that last sentence because I'm just being objective. Neither side is correct. He clearly felt she had some merit since he felt the need to defend himself even which clearly means something was off in their relationship. If he was in her life as much as he claims, she wouldn't feel that way AND she would have at least some of his personality traits. He mentioned something about therapy turning women against men which gives you insight into how he views women in general, his daughter included
@@lawrencelawrence8553 Neither side is correct is what bullshitter said after their side of story have no evidence. Of course the brat isnt correct with nothing on table, but better bring other down too. You too, is a liar, twist his word into "didnt give", and "gave throught child support". She is in her 20s, graduated, so child support my ass. She begged him for money to chase hollywood dream and he gave her, then she bite the hand that feeds.
Bro he was paying 18k a montu child support and gave her mom 2 million to cover them. She should be mad at her mom for obviously STEALING her child support.
@@rob9726 It is a crime to misappropriate child support for use on your own lavish lifestyle. He should have been taking her back to family court every year to make her account for every penny spent, which is his right to do.
The mother receives money automatically from the fathers paycheck. The mother then doesn't have to prove how, when, or where she uses that money. She could easily use the money on herself and after the children turn 18 refuse to give those children any saved money from the child support. I grew up in a household where I experienced this first hand. My mother received child support and constantly complained about having no money to provide for me. Her gross addiction on gambling, cigarettes, going to bars was certainly financed thru that child support. So yes, that is EXACTLY how it can end up. There is ZERO accountability towards mothers to use the money in a way to benefit the child for present and future. All that is expected is "bare minimum livable conditions." @@rob9726
It's DreakDancing Bad, if you don't conserve the world's consonants everything goes to shit.....You thought buying vowels on Wheel of Fortune was bad, buying consonants will be the new name of the game now stfu and be quiet.....real shit ahead of 'us 'ere
