Brett Reacts To "If Teen GIRLS Were 100% Honest" 

Yeah, I gotta agree. The boys one felt so genuine. This feels like they're saying what they're expected to say.

I felt that the boys were more anonymous too. They were answering as individual boys. The women constantly were like “I’m gay, I’m Hispanic, I’m a minority”. Like needing people to know what label they fall under

Brett, I can tell you, turning on porn in the living room in front of the guys isn't a "guy thing to do", that's pretty damn weird.

*Boys being brutally honest:* "I am terrified of death." *Girls being brutally honest:* _(giggles)_

The latina teen mentioning that “I have to do housework if my mom dies and my brother doesn’t” I’m pretty sure that the brother was told my the father that if the father passed away he’s responsible for putting food on the table and supporting his family through hard work

Pretty sure Brett shared more about her opinions and experiences than these girls did 😂

Brett, as a boy let me tell you, it is REALLY weird to turn on porn in the living room, most guys don’t do that

The girls weren't as honest as the boys. The girls almost immediately went into a social mode with each other.

The boys got asked pointed questions with mature responses, the girls got asked softball questions in the sense they catered to the woke victim mentality!

I think the biggest problem with this one might just be that Jazmin was allowed to speak to literally every single question and occupy most of the allotted time despite having literally nothing to say.

I think one of the reasons for the differences between the boys' conversation and the girls' is because the guys aren't typically "allowed" to voice their opinions/feelings on important topics, so they've actually thought deeply about all of these issues. Girls are supposedly free to speak their mind and share their feelings, and many of them do, but to the detriment of never actually doing any self-examination. In the end, they speak about these topics on a more shallow level because they've never had the need to do some serious thinking about any of it. That being said, I also think it's very difficult for most women to be totally raw and real with each other, because if you have the "wrong" opinion, it's taken as a personal attack. Men tend to be much more open-minded and can disagree with each other and not have their whole friendship be threatened.

I think the girls kinda came at this like an argument, like “I need to share what I feel so people can change their minds and be educated by my experience!” Whereas the boys were just like “Ya that hurt and I never get to talk like this.” And actually had a meaningful conversation.

Yes, I treated my son and daughters differently to a degree. Mostly because of how sensitive my daughters were compared to my son. However, I made sure to have my daughters watch me when I was working on the car and building things (my son too of course). I also set a good example for my son by doing dishes and other chores as well a lot of the cooking (i was the better cook lol) so my son and daughters knew that sharing in chores in a two-income family is NOT just for women. My daughter just texted me last night so proud of the shelving system she built for her garage... from raw components, not a kit. She said "thanks dad". Made me so proud and it's good to know some of my lessons stuck.

I am noticing how the teen boys seemed to have more mature responses to the questions. Also the girls are so much more affected by the woke.

I think they didn't open up is because they're scared of being judged by the girls around them. Although they were told that they were in a safe space, that could have kept them from really opening up. When I was a kid, I was going through a lot of stuff that no kid should have gone through and I was in group counseling. I was scared to open up in group because of being looked at weird or judged about what I went through. The only time I ever opened up was when I had one on one with the counselor.

Questions they should ask: Do you get looked down on if you want a traditional family with traditional roles? Do you get pressure to fit in with the latest trends? Do people pressure you to change your sex/gender? Have you ever considered harming yourself? Do people ever look down on you for expressing conservative views or your faith? Do you stay quiet to fit in with the crowd even though it goes against your beliefs? Do you ever think that people are trying to control you by using your emotions against your best interests?

I am kinda bummed. I thought the panel of boys was extremely compelling, and the answers they gave were thoughtful and deeply personal. Also, they had a wide variety of experiences that gave different perspectives, and each of them seemed to have their head on straight. Not a single one of these girls said a damn thing that shows they are an individual person, or that they take any sort of responsibility for their own lives or experiences. They all, each of them, made themselves out to be this helpless victim of society and showed no awareness of the world they are living in.

There is 0% chance that all of these girls are being 100% honest.

I'm Hispanic. Raised and living in Mexico till this day. I've always thought my parents raised equally my brother, 3 sisters and me (we've been on karate, hunting, camping, climbing, setting fires, fixing mechanical things) HOWEVER I just realized that my sister's and I were the ones to do the domestic chores with my mom... But then I remembered: wait a second ... My brother was the one to take out the garbage because it was the nasty choir, cut the grass (with scissors, not machine) in the sun at 86°f and other tough choirs so.. I think we the girls were the lucky ones. Also... They always bought us more and nicest things than him. I guess we did have a difference in gender treatment after all haha

For guys, it's basically taboo to talk about your feelings and emotions, and trying to talk with other people about rough spots usually goes nowhere. Girls are always chatting about their emotions, and about what they're feeling and going through, so that's probably why the guys used their one opportunity to truly open up to actually do so. The girls felt it was another midnight group therapy with their friends.

Sometimes talking to my gen z friend feels like talking to an internet chat room. Everything she has to say is almost word-for-word something I've read a thousand times on the internet. That's why i make am effort to read classic old books and try to give myself a wide education. I'm terrified of sounding like these girls who can't have a thought other than one that was put into their heads

as a teenage guy, I’m at the point where all this superficial talk has become the first thing to look for when dating. It’s so commonplace now and it’s incredibly frustrating because it generally means I can’t be genuine with you because you can’t be genuine with me. It also seems like they are the type of people who just regurgitate information without really inputting their own thoughts and beliefs which is another red flag

I was born with Autism and every time I go to the doctors they even question my diagnosis process. Every time I take a mental health quizzes just so they feel confident with my Autism diagnosis. It’s so annoying how popular it is to have a mental disorder.. it like brings down the harsh aspects/reality of living with it everyday. It’s not cool but it’s who I am so I have learn to embrace it.

My god, hearing a girl as pretty as Brett saying she had insecurities about her looks to the point where she considered plastic surgery is horrible. Social media truly is destroying young women.

The boys questions probed subjects that guys don't normally talk about in public. The girls were asked to talk about the same subjects girls talk about all the time (other than the porn one). "Are You treated differently as a girl?" That's one of their favorite subjects.

I think the questions they asked the girls in this video were so surface level and what women actually talk about all the time online. They asked if the girls like their appearance as if that isn't a question that ladies think about quite often and compare themselves to others. Even the equality question doesn't seem taboo or controversial because we see it all the time online. At least with the guys they asked them questions that aren't trending on social media

Just stumbled upon this channel couple hours ago on the recommended section. And this has to be one of the very few channels that ive watched several 20min+ videos on. The videos ive watched so far so amazing and i agree with so much of it.

I think you hit the nail on the head: the boys were craving this space to talk about what's been weighing them down, while the girls were taking it lightly and didn't put as much weight on this opportunity. I think that's because girls are much more emotionally open with their friends/peers, and thus have that outlet, while a lot of boys don't feel comfortable sharing their vulnerabilities with their friends due to fear of judgement (have you heard how teen/young adult boys talk to each other? it's honestly shocking how mean/judgmental/etc. they can be, just casually, without meaning harm). Overall, I don't think boys/men get nearly the same emotional support from their peers as women do (mainly because they are afraid to open up because there is a high possibility of judgement/backlash).

I agree, it seemed like these girls were so well rehearsed on the “social script” of how we are supposed to feel and how we are supposed to respond that they couldn’t be entirely truthful and didn’t even know that they weren’t being truthful. Honest and well intended disagreement is imperative to society and what the world needs in order to realign its self but everyone is so afraid to offend someone or be shouted down that they don’t even try to share or have a different thought. It’s why we are having the kinds of problems we are having today.

Ah yes the classic “I’m a lesbian and my brothers trans.” Tells me everything I need to know about her upbringing

Brett saying girls are catty is a heavy understatement and plenty of them get increasingly catty with age.

I wish more women had the intellect that you have Brett. It is so refreshing and so attractive for someone to critically think, be able to talk about their feelings, and have a great outlook on life the way you do.

The girls: Yeah. My ex was toxic. I had no hand to play, lol. The guys: There is a billion dollar porn industry that profits off of my loneliness and isolation and this is the first time I can actually talk about it without that industry telling the public to treat me as an outcast for doing so.

"You're automatically like a housemaid or a cook" Sounds like someone doesn't want to do their chores and now sees it as the patriarchy.

As a 15 year old boy I’m honestly impressed and surprised that the boy version of these videos was more genuine and in-depth than the girl version. In my opinion.

The red flags were there: 1) The shallow answers 2) The hypocritical attitude towards looks ("It's more what's underneath" yeah right 🙄) 3)The ignorance of male responsibilities. 4)The victim attitude. We're dealing with a panel of narcissistic embryonic feminists. I don't like to blame others but I think it's women who are responsible for male/female relations going down the drain. Edit: one of them was a genuine victim, nothing against her, her experience sounded horrible.

When she said that “now everyone just wants to be fat. I don’t know what’s gonna come next” I just started laughing.😂 People are insane.🤦‍♀️

Not only have we already reached equality for women, I'd argue we've spilled over into the territory where men have fewer rights when you look at things like DEI, divorce laws, custody and alimony, and public sentiment

Argument: “gender equality is possible in my lifetime” “Alex”: *disagree* Alex’s Answer: “when I have kids I am going to tell them to be anything, or anyone they want to me.” Me: “What?!?! How is this relevant at all to the discussion?!?” Producers: “Omg that was perrrfect” -_- I’m just more disappointed that there was nothing thought provoking about the video itself… thank you for the reaction it made it worth while

Yeah the questions they asked these girls weren’t as bad and embarrassing as the questions they asked the boys they went pretty easy on the girls with these questions that they asked them.

Hi. Some (at times, brutally) honest answers from a 20 year old girl. 1. Every now and again I watch porn. Maybe a few times every other month. It really stems from wanting physical affection and it never satisfies me. I always end up exasperated and moderately disgusted lol. When I had a lot of girl friends, we would talk about it pretty frequently. We were just kind of boy crazy and wanted to share what we knew with each other. As I got older, I didn’t feel too comfortable talking about things like that with others. 2. In women, I just find it unfeminine. Similar to Brett, I have dark hair and quite a lot of it. I don’t like how my arm hair and maybe a few strands of hair around my face look but I really don’t care enough to shave it. As for everything else, more than anything I keep it shaved for comfort. In men, I quite like it. 3. I don’t like the way I look right now. When I weigh a bit less, I don’t think I look horrible but I’m also not particularly confident. My family has always told me I’m beautiful and so did my friends (when I had them) but….what else are they going to say?Being a sick kid most of my life, I wasn’t in school very often and so I’ve never really had a guy call me pretty or even really show interest in me and unfortunately that has effected my confidence quite a bit. 4. I’m sure in a way they do/did. When my father was alive, he was a lot more protective of me than my older brother (almost scarily so). I recall a time in which I was in the car with him and he just all the sudden got very angry and proclaimed, “If any boy ever hurts you, I will kill him and bury him six feet deep.” Or something like that. I got very uncomfortable and he looked at me and reiterated that he was dead serious. I honest to God don’t doubt that he was. But, we’re pretty sure he was also bipolar so….who knows? On the other end of the way my father treated me, he was (and I never use this word lightly) pretty sexist and kind of looked down upon my mother and I in a way that we were only good for the small things and couldn’t possibly have an opinion that mattered. I don’t like to talk about my father too much cuz he was a very complicated fellow so I’ll leave him at that. As for my mother, I’ve never noticed too much of a difference between the way she treats my brother and I. 5. I’ve never been in a relationship at all. The closest example of a yes I have for this was when I was super into multiplayer games. I had kind of gathered this group of guys that weren’t totally horrible to me and having them was better than playing with randoms. This was also shortly after my father had passed so I was rather lonely. They had always started out sort of flirtatious (as is par for the course when you’re a girl gamer lol) but as time went on they got increasingly more vulgar and flat out odd. Asking me questions out of the blue such as, “How tight is your pussy? Like, as tight as this doorway?”, or the ever entertaining, “If I drove 20 hours to come see you, would you have sex with me?” Really thought provoking stuff. And I always just kind of ignored it or laughed it off because I wanted to have friends. They also liked to make fun of every little aspect of me and demand that I play a certain way and then got angry when I did what they wanted. I suppose you could say that a lot of gamers are like this but nevertheless it hurt my feelings and I was in a fragile mental state at the time. Time passed on with more of the same and I grew tired of it, would get angry and then leave to play by myself. That was pretty much the end of that. Doesn’t quite fit into the brackets of the questions but oh well. 6. Gender equality is more than possible, as it already exists in the U.S. That’s all I have to say about that. 7. This is mostly wherein the brutal honesty mentioned at the start lies. I would love to be straight up fully honest with someone other than my family about who and how I am, but I’m afraid it would scare people off. Truth is, I’m a severely depressed, chronically ill 20 year old who has horrible daddy issues, childhood trauma and trust issues for days. Every normal question you would think to ask someone to get to know them is one that will make me anxiously scramble for a not horrible answer (which I suppose scramble implies anxiously but whatever). I’ve also had the pleasure of watching my father die, had my entire life and sense of being ripped away from me and been alone most of my life. So, I don’t know that I can be honest about who I am sometimes. Anyways, that was the brutal honesty. I’m done now. P.S. Thanks for all the nice comments. Reading this back, I can definitely sense my own exhaustion by the end of my answers. So, while I wouldn’t say it was necessarily difficult to write, it’s definitely a product of thoughts that I don’t unveil very often and it’s very reassuring to see people being so kind and relating. :)

100% agree with what you said about mental health. Everyone has something. I was diagnosed with social anxiety, but if it didn’t affect my life I wouldn’t even bother getting diagnosed. Because then it wouldn’t matter. I’m on meds and it has helped. Luckily. But at a certain time I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to live anymore. Getting anxiety just thinking.about speaking to a person made me feel like I was embarrassing and weird and no one would ever want to be with me. And then now I see people saying “oh I think I have it because I’m afraid of presenting in class” like if you are struggling. Obviously the right thing is to get help. But don’t say you have something just for attention. No one outside TikTok or social media thinks it’s cool to be mentally I’ll.

I've observed something similar with the girls not going as deep. At the Bible Camp I work at we have a night where we split up the guys and girls and let them ask questions anonymous. The guys ask really deep, seriously questions and you could here a pin drop in that room. From what I've heard from the girls side, they ask more superficial questions and half of them don't want to be there.

Just discovered Brett a couple days ago and I'm already hooked. I love how sure she is of herself. She knows herself really well. Lots of energy and much to say.

Those girls were cherry-picked for their beliefs. That's why the conversation went the way it did. It was a joke.

Wow I'm so glad my friend told me about your channel. You have opened my eyes to a lot of concepts none of my friends even talk about. I feel like now I can understand how hard it can be for men today, in this climate. And I actually feel ten times more empowered watching your videos than watching a feminist video...

Because as Males, if we complain we are basically told to shut up and deal. No emotions can be shown and definitely no weakness. Women can say anything and they are comforted. Men crave to share our thoughts and emotions. Would love to see grown men do this, unedited. I am sure we would break a lot of people’s hearts just hearing everything we hold in

Honestly, can't blame the girls. They just answer what they are asked. I went to see the comments section of the video and most people say that the questions for the girls are very different compared to the boys and yeah, I kinda agree. Like, they ask the boys about their opinion on feminism or if they fear death but ask the girls shallow topic like body hairs? I think they should have ask the same questions to see how different each gender answers

It's hard to believe Brett would be insecure about her physical appearance in any way...she is extraordinarily beautiful.

25:02 classic uncle moment

It's so sad that these kids want to fit in so bad that they're willing to chop off body parts, inject substances, and other crazy things. I enjoyed being different and implore my kids to be that way. We homeschool, but their relatives are having a "woke" effect on them. I pray for all kids.

As a latina young woman myself, i see the value of being taught how to do house work and cooking. It builds discipline as well. I wish these women would experience what living in a communist country is like, maybe they’d appreciate this country a little more

That girl talking about the burden of housework reminded me of my childhood. Around the age of 10 my dad explained that if there was a war I'd be drafted against my will and if I tried to flee I'd be a coward and would get arrested. I'm fine to exchange that for housework 😂

Ive been watching this channel for a while and i never thought anything about her nose i really love it 😊

The guys were dealing with complications of reality while the girls were confused about reality.

I really appreciated the person who brought up PCOS; as someone who has it, I can say it is very difficult to accept what I look like. No one talks about this disease and I’m so glad someone did, because as silly as it is it’s comforting to know someone else feels the same way I do about my body while having that issue.

I see abusive and toxic thrown around a lot. I struggle with it because of the abuse I did face and I realize that abuse doesn't always look the same...but I really do struggle to relate to those who say they were abused because their fella got upset about their only fans while I literally wouldn't be here if I didn't have a firearm. He was awful. Violent. Broke into my house. Assaulted me. I know my case was extreme. I still can't relate to a lot of these "toxic and abuse" claims.

To the girl who said her mother told her she would need to take care of the house if anything happened, I can promise that the father has had a similar conversation and expectation with the brother about paying the mortgage.

It’s interesting how many of them had to highlight their sexuality and/or race in what is supposed to be a relatively blind discussion. They could’ve discussed their home lives without that.

Something we need to teach young women is that things that they are wildly insecure about are rarely noticed by other people. Example being Brett's nose never crossed my mind as being abnormal or ugly in anyway.

They don't wanna be treated differently from boys but literally at the same time they got questions that they have heard all the time online and the media unlike boys who were asked uncomfortable questions

Brett makes me want to be a better man. She's such a rare breed in today's day and age, and I want to be someone worthy of her time and energy.

I love how honest you are. You are amazing!

I just found out that Brett is early 20’s. Which is VERY surprising for me because I always thought she was on the cusp of 30 based on how she acts (very mature). That said, I do live in Cali where 30yo’s act like 18yo’s.

Would’ve loved the toxic relationship question for the boys. I feel the questions were asked to fit an agenda

As a twelve-year-old female I have survived multiple suicide attempts the number of trans teens in my school is Sicking most girls in my school have lost their breasts and are being told that it's not hormones. It's sad.

It's such an awful time for young people. The intolerance of society, the complete destruction of individuality, fit in, comply, if it doesn't work you need therapy. There's nothing wrong with all the kids, it's the society they are in that is completely ruined. It's great that your voice is out there Brett.

interesting how they chose which questions to ask each group, would have been nice to see them ask some of the same questions to both boys and girls to see if issues we associate more with one gender are actually affecting that group more.

I found it interesting that most of the girls who watched porn didn't view it as a bad thing, just shameful. In the guys video, the majority of guys linked a lot of their problems back to porn.

24 minutes in was the most honest and in depth answer that any of these ladies gave. and that is both incredibly brave on her part and sad that these ladies were not more honest and in depth with their answers.

I recently came across your channel and love your honesty and views on "political" topics. As a 23 year old women, I do not agree with a lot of views of people my age and generation. Seeing you be real and not sugar coat your feelings and opinions makes me feel better and more confident to be true to myself.

Brett should do her own version of this, I would love to see that. I know her questions would be much better than these.

I find it interesting that the guys didn't feel the need to talk about race but the girls kept mentioning it..."I don't wanna be white" "as a Hispanic female"...also the comment about the birthmark to me I think things like that make ppl interesting and in many cases more attractive

Would like to see the DW make their own version of this. I bet it would be a big hit.

I'd be interested to see one of these where the men and women are asked the same questions. It would be very interesting to see the side by side diffences in views between genders.

Anyone else think Brett has a gorgeous nose that suits her perfectly?! I was so shocked to hear she was self conscious about it!! I'm so pleased she overcame it rather than changed it. She's a stunner.

Lol it’s funny how she considers having to clean up her own house and cooking such a big thing when the father would’ve absolutely made his son know that he would have to devote the rest of his life to not only protecting his family physically but also financially in every aspect

I was in a toxic relationship during high school, and it took me so long to realize that it was actually toxic and not just a wrong fit. My circumstances were the fact that we had actually engaged in a physical relationship and he had verbally abused me in many ways. He would say "there's another side of me, there's a demon in me" and I thought that I would help him with his burden so I told him to "let me talk to his demon". That shit messed me up in so many ways, he hit me, he sexually abused me, he verbally abused me everyday. He would cuss me out and shove me in school, I was like his punching bag. I stopped eating around him because I wanted to be his perfect girl that was skinny and would die for him, at one point I had become so depressed that I even thought about ending it. I finally had an out of body experience and saw myself after he had cussed me out and shoved me in the school hallway, I saw myself and thought that this, what he was doing to me and what I was allowing him to do was NOT okay. I prayed, I got my answer, and I broke up with him the next day. I told everyone not to date him, told everyone that he was a psychopath and that he was not deserving of love at this point in his life and I told him that he needed to get his shit together and to never do what he did to me to anyone else. I literally had nightmares YEARS after our relationship and self-diagnosed myself with slight PTSD due to hallucinations of him and nightmares, also the fact that I was terrified to date for quite a while, and I've been working on myself ever since💕 It pisses me off when girls will straight up tell me to my face that they've had toxic relationships because they didn't get called beautiful everyday or some shit like that.

Ngl I’m insecure about hair on my body, but… I became slightly less insecure when I noticed that one of the girls I kinda looked up to in my school extremely hairy arms, is barely recognizable if your not paying attention cause she has blonde hair and pale skin but I won’t lie it made me feel more comfortable keeping the little but dark hair on my arms

Anyone else weirded out why they immediately assumed that the body hair question was about them? From a guys perspective, if you asked me that question I would assume you are asking about who I’m attracted to, not me.

I agree with brett that the term "toxic" has been definitely overused. As a person who has been stalked and cyberbullied by a guy who had a weird obsession with me, seeing it thrown around so easily makes me think about which word I should use to describe what happened to me

With the question "Do your parent treat you differently because of your gender?", I'd like to saw my perspective. I was the only girl with 2 brothers (mainly living with one through most of my life), so there alot of roles I did have to take on since my mother was main provider in our family and worked 60-90 hour jobs through my childhood. While yes I cooked, cleaned, and did laundry, my brothers had much more pressure to do more manual jobs and learn survival life skills than I had to. My younger brother was forced through Boy Scouts (start to finish crammed in 3 years) while I was allowed to come and watch and even do some events if I wanted to. He was obligated to help the neighbor's cattle farm during summer once he reached of age to drive a truck. All I was expected to do was some housework and caring for our indoor pets while my brother cared for the outdoor pets. We were semi-close so if we got sick, we took the responsible of the other since both of our parents were always working or asleep, but even then, I wasn't expected to do hard labor since I was a female. I, for one, think my brother had more pressure and expectation on him as a son than I had being my family's cook and maid.

In a situation like this every person should get separated like in a court room that way answers arent fed off of each other but since theyre all in a room everyone is afraid to be 100% honest this goes with the boys too.

I agree Brett. The teen boys also seemed way more eloquent in verbalizing their emotions and circumstances. Ironic, since we're always told girls mature and acquire verbal skills faster than boys....

The Hispanic girl doesn't realize if her dad dies her brother needs to take care of her mom. It goes both ways.

I wish they’d asked them similar questions to the guys or found woman that would actually be more open. I felt like the guys were quite honest and deep but all of these were surface level answers. I would love to see Brett produce her own versions of this video concept!

2:01 HUH??? ON THE TV???

About guys watching porn together as a group activity: I’ve never been comfortable watching it with others as I always believe it’s a more personal and intimate activity.

Your last few comments on this Bret were really interesting in regards to it being hard to find female friends. It's something I talk with about my husband often and something I'm insecure about, wondering, "am I doing something wrong?" All the while trying to find other women who actually want to have a real friendship, that isn't just this surface level nonsense. It's been a lifelong issue and for a while even if it seems like I FINALLY meet some; then somehow, I'm not worth it enough to be kept in a friend lineup. It's a question I pose often and regularly to my mom, and my husband, and other guy friends, just to make sure that I'm not excluding myself from the equation. That I'm not the problem too, and I'm at a loss. To put anything else in perspective: my oldest friend (a friendship of 20 years) is a guy, and most of the others are guys, he's basically my brother at this point. My HUSBAND, while we were dating was the first and only person to ever refer to me as his best friend FIRST. Which was something that still shocks and surprises me every day. Heck even in a different way, most of my friends being great guys (all single), I regularly keep on the lookout for any girl that would be good enough for them or would get along with them. I know no one to do even that. So regardless, I do find what you say very interesting, and encouraging to know: It's not just me~ :|

Coming from GenX, my parents always raised us up that the women did the "household" stuff, and the men did the outside or fixing the house stuff. As a father of two wonderful young ladies, I've raised them to do the work that they wanna do and to do the other stuff that NEEDS to be done even when they don't want, lol They both prefer the outside and mechanic type work, but when it comes to the "household" stuff, I try to help them do it as I can. (none of us like it, but we get done what needs to be done"

Boys: "Do you cry in front of someone else" Girls: "Do you like body hair?"

The body image question hit me hard. I have thick scars on my stomach from a lot on surgeries when i was 5yrs old. They warped the shape, so i never showed off my belly or wore bikinis. I was terrified to have a man i liked to see it and be grossed out. I'm lucky my now husband took such care to make me feel beautiful and still does.

I love how everyone said sorry to Alex after talking about the SA as a child. Breaks my heart. I love you Brett you have such an amazing and inspiring mindset.

"Oh, I don't like the way I look" Proceeds to share 100 pictures a day on Instagram of her posing in front of a mirror.

A big difference in the videos is that the girls are less open I think because they don't really feel the need there is literally comfortable spaces everywhere for young woman to speak but so much less for the men. Therefore they have a lot more to express they don't get to on a regular basis.

Idk about Latino culture "victim blaming" women when it comes to SA. Our first reaction is always "who the fuck did it?". We're very family oriented and are quick to fight for each other, so I'm not sure I agree with that.

It’s comforting to know someone as attractive and successful as Brett has insecurities too

Women are social creatures. Men are independent creatures. When you talk a lot, your words have less value. When you don't talk much, your words have weight. That is the difference between a woman's honesty and a man's.

The difference between the one with the boys being honest and the girls being honest is that the boys you can tell that they are telling the truth. Meanwhile, I’m not even 2 and a half minutes in and they’re already laughing. That tells you that they’re not serious.

The thing you said about raising a girl, is absolutely on point. And I think this is one of the main issue in our society. Parents treat girls like some object (just trying to convey my emotion) and then it stays with them for their whole life. And we are watching the consequences now