Bribes Don't Work - The Real Way to Get Kids to Clean Their Rooms

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Bribes don't work. If you want to know the real way to get kids to clean their rooms, it comes down to a community. Everybody wants to belong to a community. And kids love structure and schedules.
Angela Brown, The House Cleaning Guru, says cleaning is easy when it's routine. Create a cleaning system and family cleaning projects. This goes beyond chores for kids. It's teaching kids responsibility and accountability.
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@AskAngelaBrown 3 года назад

Take a peek at this playlist of similar videos we made on kids & family cleaning. More fabulous info. ru-vid.com/group/PLh1fKdNH3piS6A1IhjF2Ij7gEwBG7VEVS

@RebelAlliance42 5 лет назад

Yes, I love this so much! It starts as soon as they're old enough to bend down and pick an object up and drop it. Boom, there's an opportunity to make a game of posting the toys in the toybox before dinner! It's fun! I did it with them for probably about a year or so, until they were able to do it themselves. It flows from there... 3 years old they can pick up toys and their clothes. 4 years old, rubbish, 5 years, they can learn to pull a quilt onto their beds and arrange their pillow... by 6 years old they're tidying their entire bedroom, one step at a time, and dusting/wiping surfaces! It can take a few more years before they do it all in one step, by about 8-9 years old they can vacuum. If my youngest, 8yrs, with global developmental delays (4yrs in development), can do it (I still sit on his bed and talk him through the steps), any kid can ❤ I get him to do everything for himself, including showering and changing himself (home and school) and he is so confident and proud! 😊❤ this summer he just suddenly started swimming and in the last week he's suddenly started writing his name! (Shameless mummy brag) 😄❤❤

@aliciacrawford5278 Год назад

THANK YOU for being the only video to pop up with an honest & tested method of how to actually get your children to clean their messes. I've been watching video after video of people talking about their rooms being their "safe place" , lead by example, using nice phrases and incentives and everything else under the sun. I've tried it all and NONE of it works. We need a simplified routine, and I see that now ! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!

@AskAngelaBrown Год назад

Thanks for watching. I learned a lot about getting kids to clean their rooms from watching my folks raise 19 kids. They were consistent in their methods and every one of us kids left home knowing how to clean, and with a work ethic that transcends household chores. Children also want to live in a clean space because it feels safe and less chaotic. 🤗

@rf7788 3 года назад

Can I get an example checklist 😬😂 seriously though

@AskAngelaBrown Год назад

askahousecleaner.com/worksheets-house-cleaning-business/

@jackie7796 Год назад

Thank you! You're an amazing teacher! You don't know how much I needed this

@AskAngelaBrown Год назад

Jackie, I am so glad you liked the video. 😊

@IleanaH2022 2 года назад

I really enjoyed this video!!! Thank you!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 года назад

I'm so glad you did! Thanks for dropping me a line. :-)

@tuscandreams9861 2 года назад

Thank you!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 года назад

You're welcome! And thank you for watching the video. 🙂

@HumanLanguageByHumans Год назад

You are a Godsend. I watched your video when I was giving up. Thank you.

@AskAngelaBrown Год назад

You are so welcome, thanks for watching! I hope the tips help...good luck! You got this momma!

@HumanLanguageByHumans Год назад

@@AskAngelaBrown 🤠💖

@anniehernandezlovee Год назад

I have a child with adhd and oppositional defiant disorder. She is 10 years old. I seen the video and I truly feel I have tried those methods she don’t care. Any suggestions for kids with her dx

@AskAngelaBrown Год назад

Hi. I am sure that parenting a child with ADHD and Oppositional Defiant Disorder can be challenging, and it's clear that you're doing your best to support your child. ☺ It can take time to find the right approach that works. I'm not qualified to offer you any specific advice but I am sending heartfelt wishes 💙that with love, understanding, and persistence, you can make a positive difference in your child's life. I am so happy you took the time to watch. Please take care. 🤗

@TheCatquillen 2 года назад

Angela, my adult sons still live with my husband and me. I am disgusted by their space. Things are financially rough to get out on your own. They both work and pay rent, utilities, and food. However, one lives in our upstairs bonus room. The other lives in our basement. What can I do with adult sons?

@AskAngelaBrown 2 года назад

Cathy, Have your two sons considered getting a place together?

@andros_cortez Год назад

I'm still not gonna clean my room. Parents already tried this. As a teenager's POV: it doesn't work on me, at least.

@AskAngelaBrown Год назад

Yet here you are watching this. Why? 😍👏🤗

@andros_cortez Год назад

@@AskAngelaBrown I'm just messing with you fam😁

@perryh.5306 Год назад

I'm already my sisters slave by choice. She is 13 and I'm 15. I do ALL of her chores and let her take all the credit so she gets paid for them. I clean up ALL of her messes. When she does something wrong, I take blame for it so she dont get in trouble. I do all of her homework so she can do what she wants to do! I never argue with her! When we are both home....I wait on her hand and foot....she never has to lift a finger!

@AskAngelaBrown Год назад

Wow! Does your sister show appreciation for all the stuff you do for her?

@perryh.5306 Год назад

@@AskAngelaBrown yes she does! She is a great sister! Very kind and sweet!

@brettpatterson1945 5 месяцев назад

When you inspect the checklist, what do you do if it’s not done? Consequence?

@AskAngelaBrown 5 месяцев назад

If items on the cleaning checklist aren't completed during inspection, we typically address it through additional training or corrective measures to ensure everyone meets the checklist standards moving forward

@wandasusanbrown300 5 лет назад

I taught my 4 sons as toddlers to clea and pick-up their mess. Plus, as they grew had a reward system that involved various charts, grab bags, treasure chest, etc.. WB#Sponcollagizer7

@AskAngelaBrown Год назад

That’s great! You are a wonderful mom. Thanks so much for sharing. 🤗

@farahthestar4525 Год назад

How do you teach your little sister to clean

@AskAngelaBrown Год назад

Little sisters, (I know this from working 30 years in people's homes and watching sisters interact, and from being a little sister myself to two older sisters, and from being the big sister to 4 younger sisters) little sisters watch their older sisters interact with situations and people. And they look for clues. If the older sister hates cleaning, and whines while doing it, the younger sister will often do the same. If however the older sister races to clean the house, begs for the vacuum, takes dibs on washing the dishes - the younger sister will fight to "get a turn" at washing them as well. I'm going to make you a video on this to explain how it all works - but it is one of the best magic tricks ever. EXCELLENT QUESTION.

@mothersslave8199 2 года назад

Unless a kid has been caught doing something wrong in his room (like smoking) it should be his private space. He should not have to make the bed unless HE wants it made up. Even a dog needs some space of it's own. And since it is the parent's fault that the kid needs a place to live in the first place, he does not owe anything for living in the house.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 года назад

Interesting parenting concepts right there. Thanks for sharing.

@mothersslave8199 2 года назад

@@AskAngelaBrown Well I mean when the kid gets into his early teens, and starts to want some privacy.

@mothersslave8199 2 года назад

@@AskAngelaBrown Why do you think the kid owes you something for living in your house when it is YOUR FAULT that he needs a place to live in the first place? Forcing your kids to work for room or board was against the law in one state, I think it was Maryland, a long time ago. I don't know about now, but that should be against the law.

@DeDona1 2 года назад

@@mothersslave8199 when a child is old enough they ought to clean their room and their messes they create. Are you a troll?

@victoriamayberry7656 2 года назад

I totally agree with you. Kids don’t owe there parents for being born. And in my state I legally have to provide these kids with food, clothing, and a place to lay their heads. While my kids don’t owe me for being born, I do not OWE them either. I don’t owe them $500 gaming systems. I don’t owe them nor am I legally bond to provide $150 pair of shoes, nor that cell phone they have in their hands at all times. I don’t owe them expensive prom clothes or cars or makeup. Heck I don’t even owe them internet. Every morning I HAVE to go into my teenagers room and wake them up for school. Usually several times , why should I have to take the real risk of falling over something in their room because they can’t seem to wake themselves up with an alarm clock and if they don’t go to school I go to jail. I have never charged my children with room and board. If they want a wake up service then they will provide me with safe passage so that I don’t fall and break a bone. If my kids want clean clothes service they will get them to the hamper, if they want a cell phone, gaming system, new Nikes, a trip to the “cool” clothing boutique. Then they will provide a service of chores because no one gets something for nothing. They are not owed the extras nor are they entitled to them. Everyone has to work for what they want.