Bride Can’t Get Mum On Board With Her Pink Dress Dreams! | Say Yes To The Dress 

It is kind of understandable, though. The mother has been visualizing her daughter in her wedding dress since she was born; the mother-in-law has no such preconceived notions.

@@s.susanmarandi9080 it's not understandable at all. You shouldn't have those kinds of expectations that don't impact you or your child in any way. Having expectations to the point of your child feeling unaccepted for having likes and dislikes and preferences is just overbearing.

@@SunBeeSmokedit’s always 9000x easier to accept someone else’s kids life decisions rather than your own kid. If the kid down the block wants to dress as a furry to high school it’s fine. If mine does it he’s gonna get a whooping.

It is because they are not their mothers. A mother will always be particular about her child that doesn't mean she won't support her child. There is an obvious bond between this mother and child

@@Vincenty90That is so true! My cousin had a baby out of wedlock, had a shotgun wedding and dropped out of college and my mom was so supportive. But if it was me, she would have killed me. Those are all things my mom does not expect from me.

yeah, the proposal???! wonderful people who love her!

Good for you. I cannot get why all these mothers care so much!

Honestly whats the point in bringing your mother to an appointment if you dont value her opinion or if she isnt honest with you(in a nice manner)

You are a considerate, wise mom. Your daughter is blessed to have you.

Thank you!

Because it’s about the spectacle of the wedding and it could be the mom’s didn’t get the wedding of their dreams or want to relive.

​@@jeswainston still doesn't give you pass to ruin your dauther experience.

@@morganablackwater2017 I never said it did. Where did I say that? I was explaining. Yeesh. Calm down.

Yeah I totally understand the psychology of what’s driving the desire. What I don’t understand is how they can think it’s ok to prioritise their own needs over their child’s.

@@jeswainston i didn't get the wedding of my dreams and i can honestly say that when/if my daughter gets married, i will be singularly obsessed with making sure she gets the wedding of HER dreams, not mine. will i let her know if something looks tacky or clashes? sure. will i help her find a way to achieve HER vision and inject HER taste in a way that still looks classy, like randy did with this bride? absolutely. THAT is my job as her mother.

Yes!!! That delicate pink floral dress was completely stunning and feminine and gorgeous!!!

Beautiful floral dress. Stunning. Best choice

My sister chose a pink dress. It wasn't super dark pink or anything. It was blush, but my mom loved it and so did everyone else and no one said a word.

I thought the same! So disrespectful

That was the mother-in-law not the mother who said it.

I thought I was the only one who caught that.

She meant that it it would have been a second wedding a different color dress would be more acceptable.

@@OpheliaSeesno. It was the brides mother that said it.

I don't like it. It reminds me of wallpaper

For a 2009 style, yes. That's when this was filmed.

I loved it. It was unique, extremely pretty, very feminine...totally looked fantastic on her and didn't overwhelm her either.

@@jb67122004 not 2009

But how does that dress fit in with the desired theme, it's pastel, $600 over budget and somewhat wishy washy? The dream was to match the decorative boxes from the engagement. The bride seems to be so easily distracted with her budget, style choices etc Her mother is aware of this, knows her best and can see this. Strong willed does not equate maturity here.

Well said! Love that! 💕

Well said.

Couldn’t agree more

Well, she did, so I'm not sure why you're shouting, lol?

My mother bought and mailed my wedding dress sight unseen. My wedding was all about them. They (mom and dad) I was finishing up my masters degree and graduated and got married the next weekend. They did a beautiful job and at 500 people we cleaned up in the gifts department. It never bothered me. Not once. I was grateful. I am just not that girl who dreamed of a wedding. I dreamed of flying jets

That is why she should go alone or at most with one person who is supportive.

It depends on who's paying for the dress. If a mom is paying, then she gets a vote. Since Tiffany is paying for it herself, her mom's opinion is only as important as Tiffany gives it.

​@moniqueengleman873 that is very bizarre, but I understand some people really don't give a flying f*** about their wedding and the details. After all, it's the marriage that counts! (Not choosing your own dress is really messed up though! imo)

To be fair, in this case, she wanted something specific. And this episode is from over 15 years ago so there weren’t a lot of options outside of a white traditional gown.

Exactly!!!!

she already asked and she agreed

Well sometimes ya don’t always get what you want

Problem is, when you want something outside of the box or what is normal off the rack, you should expect that it is going to cost you. So in my opinion, she got off lucky with only $600 more that what she stated. And for a look as special as that, it was worth it.

She wanted the symbolism she raised her with, nothing wrong with that. Only if she had forced it, but she eventually was won over. Mom seemed pretty young herself, maybe not still with Dad and thinking ahead.

These are old episodes maybe 2012. At that time, it wasn’t that common colored wedding dresses. Of course, anybody should marry as they please, they just want to go to the right place.

Supply and demand. They have only so much space and a huge majority of their customers want white or ivory. Sometimes it might be better to go to a formalwear store.

It would be impossible and impractical for a bridal salon to try and anticipate all the various colors brides might want. They'd have to have salons the size of an Amazon warehouse to house dresses that would have bridal appeal for all of, what? Two months, max?

I saw that episode, and the bride and the dress were gorgeous!

They can always go to a non-bridal salon with ball gowns and evening dresses

It's gorgeous but it doesn't fit the leopard/hot pink theme, I think, it's more like a formal China pattern. I love the floofiness of the first one!

If you want different you either pay a LOT or you do it yourself... That is a fact

This was filmed 15 years ago, 2009. They both likely have half a dozen kids each, and are long, long ago over their wedding dresses!

@@jb6712Yup, my sister in law rented hers 23 years ago and no longer remembers her wedding dress. The wedding dress is not as important as people make it to be.

FYI 2013

Exactly! Gave the feels like she never grew past her sweet sixteen party that she might’ve wanted.. it’s okay to want to bring your dreams alive on your special day, but they’ve gotta have your other half IN the imagination, IN the wedding..

They told her before she decided to try it on. Not like she was blindsided

Her choice.

Sameeee it was so cute

White is for purity and virginity.

Precisely! And in the UK, they often live together so long, their kids are out of high school by the time the couple decides to get married...and the ridiculous brides still insist on wearing expensive white gowns. This was filmed 15 years ago, 2009.

My late mom never let me go until she passed away.

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj I am so very sorry that you had to wait so long ♥️

@@gracegoodenough5895Thanks but I miss my mom a lot and I was her only daughter of 7 boys and we were very close. But she was overbearing and over protective which hurt me a lot.

MIL was invited. This is all scripted for the most part anyway. As for my kiddo, I don’t care what she wears if she gets married as I know she will look beautiful and I will cry.

I totally agree!

That MIL is trouble. Tiffany... you've been warned.

I feel like she’s just trying to put her vision into words that make it easier to picture. And I also think that everyone puts too much pressure on brides to do the conventional thing rather than what they want

@@Rat-qj1te that’s true. Yeah

Weddings don't need to be mature at all.

I actually like the first pink one the most.

nothing wrong about liking cheetah print and pink…