Bride Regrets Buying Dress That She Doesn't Like But Her Mum Loved | Say Yes To The Dress UK 

I feel bad for the first mom because she didn't even know her daughter didn't like the dress to begin with. She should have said she didn't like it when she was there to shop and kept trying on the style she wanted.

It’s so strange how obsessed the mothers are with what their daughters are wearing- my mum would love anything that I put on lol

For a person that's single, it's rather shocking how much I binge on SYTTD. 🙈

i felt bad for the first mom, she felt guilty.. it's honestly not her fault.

If my mum said I looked „too fat“ and that she would „cry if I walked down the aisle in that“ my mum would not come to the wedding.

She can't really blame her mother for getting a dress she didn't like. She didn't force her credit card out of her wallet to pay for the dress. She should've said something in the first place.

"I bought it because of you." No. Your mother didn't physically hold you down. You're a big girl, take accountability.

The first bride is gonna have kids with her husband and then say "I didn't want them I had them because of you" 😂😒

“Do you forgive mummy?” ......Excuse me... She must have meant: “Do you forgive yourself for buying something you don’t even like?” Leave the sweet mother alone.. The only thing she did is love a gown!

That poor Mother, how was she to know that you didn't like the dress? Grow up and accept responsibility!

Trying to act like her mother is the whole reason she picked that dress when obviously she could have picked any dress and her mom would have been just as happy for her

The first bride is so inmature. How can you blame someone else for your choice. Who are you going to blame when you stress with your husband. The second mom should be smacked! How do you talk to your daughter like that? All in the name of truth? I hope I never stoop that low in talking to my daughter,ever

The one that didn’t like the dress, that one is on you girl. You can’t blame your mom for that.

2nd bride must have had quite a childhood with that mom 😬

First bride is awful, she doesn’t seem to have a problem saying what she thinks, she should have spoken up in the first place instead of making her mum feel bad

The poor friend looked sooo uncomfortable in the confessionals with the second mom lol

The Irish mother picked a winner with that last dress, her daughter looked stunning in it.

The second mom was so rude and disrespectful

the first bride could have ruined the day for the poor mum, the disappointment she must have felt! What was the point of buying a dress for the mum, to later hurt her with how unhappy u r with ur pick!?

Why you would buy it if you don't love it???? Her mom didn't ever answer back.....looks like she is just putting blame on her mother

"I'll cry if you walk down they aisle in that dress" Even though she redeemed her self in the end I would have lost it with my mom had she said that. I would probably have responded 'No worries Mom, no one will see you since you won't be there". I detest these bullying mothers who are either trying to relive their own wedding experience, playing dess up with the daughter for the last time, or just basically making the wedding all about them. That is why I am a strong advoate of the bride paying for her own dress and getting what makes her happy. I had a similar experience with my mom but it concerned my glasses. My parents retired a few states away and I went to visit them after about a 6 month absence. My mom was delighted to see me but hated the frames of my glasses. We have an excellent relationship, so I let it pass other than to tell her that I was sorry she felt that way because I liked them. But she wouldn't drop the subject to the point towards the end of my visit she said that when I returned for my next visit she hoped that she wouldn't be seeing those frames. I assured her she need not worry because she wouldn't be seeing them again. I was looking her straight in the eye and she got the point: I wouldn't be returning anytime soon. Her face fell and she apologized profusely. BTW I was in my 30's and the frames were typical of the style at that time, so they weren't outrageous. I should also say that she brought up the subject during the entire week long visit to the point that dad told her to stop and that if sll she had to complain about her daughter was her choice in frames for her glassess she really didn't have any complaints worth mentioning.

wow look at the first bride, blaming her mother for not being able to make her own decisions... im sure she had plenty of time to cancel her decision before they made the dress. also, the alterations were not even that big but she went from "i hate these dress" to "i literally pictured the dress like this"

My Mom loved my dress so much. When she remarried . She wore it . BUT ,, being a second wedding and being the awesome person she was. To match her fall theme. we soaked it in plain , non sugered Orange koolaide. It turned out AWESOME !! More like a soft peachy orange. Then after that , WE cut it up and made beautiful torn Rag Dolls . witch i gave away for Christmas !

Why on God's green earth would you agree to a dress you didn't love?

Did not care much for Mom of the second bride, but she was right about the dress, it was the best one for the bride.

When did David Emanuel switch his role? From a wedding dress designer and consultant to a narrator on the show.

"I'm never cocky about being right" IS being cocky. Irish mum was being mean, cruel, bitchy until she got her way. I fear she is going to butt in on the marriage.

“I don’t like it, mum picked it” “I love it, I’VE made the right decision”

what's the deal with "making the mum's feel like it's their day too" ? they already had their day, it's the current bride's turn now

She has no one to blame but herself for buying a dress she didn't want. She shouldn't keep blaming her mom and guilt-tripping her.

One can express an opinion, but in a kind way.

I will never understand the obsession with having mom's approval on the most important dress of their life. If my mom hated a dress I fell in love with I'd just tell her "sucks to be you then, this is my dress."

When my daughter and I went shopping for her wedding dress, I wanted her to love it. There was no clashing of opinions. Some of the dresses made my heart sink. But she quickly discarded those. When she put on the right one we looked at each other and we knew it was THE DRESS. What a lovely experience.

Why does this show feature the staff dragging the dresses through the showroom floor? Even if the floors are immaculate it can’t be good for any beading or other embellishments.

that momma shouldn't have to feel guilty for her actions 🥰 your a good mom

I hate it when they stack stories like this - you get into one story, then get cut off :(

Mom: "Put her in a big meringue dress and keep her covered up." Also mom: "Too much frou frou, put her in a fishtail." This woman is aggravating AF.

Regarding bride nr.2: It is truly amazing, how the one and the same human figure looks absolutely different in three different frocks.

Oh, that second mom. I'm having flashbacks to my years as a wedding coordinator. UGH

Other people: say yes to the dress Me: say yes to the drama

"I am pretty hard to please." Oh come on you are not getting married!!

I feel like the producers may have encourage the first bride to use Mum as a scapegoat. She wouldn’t have bought that dress if she didn’t know they could make the alterations.

Second mom said , ''I like '' more than hundred times. It seems she's looking for something that she likes. Her face it self tells everything.

Why is that woman cleaning the floor with that dress? 😂 2:46

I thought the one who regretted her dress choice was being kind of ridiculous about the dress at first, but when I saw it after all her adjustments, I realized she had been so right! Gorgeous!

I never knew there was a crinoline that could turn a dress into a mermaid style! The straps will be easy to add, and it’s a big improvement!

I wonder if the Irish bride would’ve still liked the third dress if she’d known first that her mama picked it out. 🤔 Good job to the consultant for not saying anything beforehand!

When it comes to choosing your own wedding dress, follow your heart not any one else's💫~

I feel like when it comes to buying a wedding dress, you should get the one that you love and feel the most beautiful and confident in, you shouldn't get a dress that your family and friends love but you hate, because at the end of the day, it's your wedding and not theirs.

She will never ever ever be allowed to live it down. Mom picked the perfect one.

I would have loved to have seen the entire episode....no cutting of scenes or anything because as soon as the bride said, " I bought the dress because of you..." And the mom doesn't respond back..at all. Says a lot about their relationship...

I dont think she has to blame her mom Maybe her mom thought its perfect and even she didnt tell, she didnt like it..

I hate when moms do “ i want this, but i want, but i like it “ 🤦🏻‍♀️ Stop it please..its your girl wedding, if she loves it dont go with bad words..go with the flow ! I just bought my wedding dress and my mom said to the dresser when she asked her what she wants “ its my daughter wedding, whatever she loves i will love it too “ and the dresser was yasss mom! 😱👏🏼🤣

I don't understand these mothers who like to tell their daughters what dress to wear they're not the one getting married and they're not the one wearing the dress

I know everyone sees the second mom as mean, but coming from a family with extremely avoidant people, I wish that my mom was in touch with her feelings enough to tell me when she doesn't like things. It's so refreshing to not be forced to interpret odd body language and lack of enthusiasm to know if I look terrible in something.

The first mum is so sweet

I’m addicted to this show and RU-vid in general

My mom always told me “someone is going to be mad.. would you rather it be them or you” With that being said, I would never buy a dress I didn’t like just to satisfy someone else. Hope she grew a back bone

When will these mothers get it in their heads that it is the BRIDES day, not theirs

Love people that believes they have “high standards”. Lol

How can someone talk to their precious daughter like that? 😭

Wow it’s amazing how those few simple changes totally upgraded the dress. And the Irish moms pick was really outstanding, it *was* simple, great pick

"I bought it because my mum liked it." Wise up. You could have said at the time.

"I feel beautiful." Great, because you are gorgeous! 🥰

Episodes like this make me remember how much I love my mom

That bride's budget for her dress is my budget for my wedding.

This is why ignoring your own needs and just trying to please others is often a bad idea. One can still say no yet be kind. Did a couple little alterations really make her go from disliking it to loving it?

I am addicted to this so much

If I were that sales lady, my tongue would be bleeding from biting. Like "Mom, you already had your own wedding, right?"

The second mum was harsh as hell... but she did pick by far the most flattering dress on the bride. Hope the bride doesn't love it any less after knowing her mum picked it :')

The second dress was gorgeous, I loved the shape and the off the shoulder lace

The second girl looked BOMB in that 2nd long sleeved dress ❤

well to be fair that first dress from the second bride was not fair on her figure, she was pretty and curvy, mom was right to hate it I think.

I remember one time my mom offered to cut my hair, and when i accepted, i absolutely hated what she’d done to it. I know my mom tried her best and i made her feel bad, i apologized about blowing up and we moved on. Thats the best you can do in a situation like that.

I’m married 36 years and I intentionally did not take my mother to buy my wedding gown all those years again and I would stand by that decision today you’ve got a remember people have their own motivations their own opinions and most people don’t know how to keep it to themselves especially parents go buy your wedding dress buy the one you like ignore any naysayers.

Mothers should not be askedd what THEY want on a day like this. They had their day. And their likes and dislikes are not the same as the Bride. No person is the same , whether theyr ur blood or not. Bridal shops shouldnt give Mothers a choice invthis matter. Moms can view their opinions if asked and also be respectfull in how they say what. Its rubbish that Moms make this day so difficult for the Brides.

The dress the mother chose for her was stunning!! 😊😊

HOW can a mother say such hurtful things to their daughters on such an important day in their lives together?

My little sister's buying her wedding dress next month. I'm so excited!😊

that second dress on hailey was absolutely STUNNING. i don't normally like sleeves on dresses but WOW

Never buy a dress just because your mom likes it. She's not the one wearing it.

This show should be called Nightmare Mother's of the Bride!

I love the changes that were made to the dress of the young lady whose mum chose it - looked so lovely x

Glad everything worked out for the brides. 💚💚

The second mother 🙄 My husband is from N Ireland and I have noticed that the N Irish folk tend to be blunt! My m-i-l was very blunt! I actually prefer people to be straight up and honest, but have to admit that mum was pushing it!

Hayley and her mom were on the same team, even though they didn't know it. Together they created a stunning dress. Nikita and her mother were adversarial, but they didn't know it. Together/separately they picked a dress that hopefully the bride will Love. That's about it. Happy marriages, ladies.

Both brides look amazing in their final choices 💖👏🌹

The mom and daughter are such sweeties ❤️

These mother's seem to forget it's the bride's day not hers.

I am always so shocked with some of these Mothers! I thought I'd never be a bride, but I found my Prince Charming a month before lockdown this year, so it's been a different style of dating etc. Anyway we are engaged and I hope to go wedding dress shopping next year..... I know my Mum will be happy as long as I am, we are so close that she knows all of my body hang ups, and she would honestly tell me if she felt certain areas weren't flattering, but she would do it in a kind and honest way. I don't know if some of these mothers are asked to play up for the cameras, or are just rude, but they can ruin so much for a bride! X

"i think i'll cry if you walk down the aisle in that" 😆

After these type of episodes i alway feel more grateful for my mom ♡

I went dress shopping on my own first, narrowed it down, then took a friend for input. Lol Made my choice on my own because I didn't want the stress of conflicting opinions and approval. Was fun and easy

The Mothers knew best....but the second one didn't need to be bitchy. Luckily both daughters were calm and positive 🤭

In the end mom knows the best 😊 both looked good in what their mum's picked. Be grateful for having mum's who would point out to you if something is wrong not for you and be their for you when you need her the most. Cheers to mum's around the world 💕

That first mum was so sweet!

She is being a brat towards her Mom. Her Mom feels terrible. She did not have to buy it.

My mom wouldn't care what I wear. She would just be so shocked that I'm actually getting married lol 😂. My grandmother tho😖, oh she loves opinions and I wouldn't dare let her go to a dress consultation.

So beautiful both brides!!BLESSINGS

It would cost more to do that kind of drastic alterations than to buy a whole new dress. Ballgown to fishtail is huge. I don't know the prices here, but a simple seam in the States altered is about $53...I mean a hem or taken in...much less gutting the dress and re-designing it.