Bride's Mum Has Taken Control Of All Her Wedding Planning | Say Yes To The Dress: The Big Day 

There's something quite obscene about spending $15k on wedding invites!

Expensive does not mean elegant or classy

All things aside, her mum tried her best to please her with all the duties she was tasked, but that bratty as feck tantrum at the end was unwarranted, yuck.

The way I see it the mom didnt really. "Dictate" she basically gave the daughter what she wanted up until the end.

Love how it's trying to set up the mom as a controlling Mozilla, when she's literally done everything so her daughter can do well in school. Maybe plan better if you don't want your exams to be right before your wedding. And then out of left field our "sweet and helpless" bride goes full bridezilla.

The cost alone of the invitations is my entire wedding budget lol

If that lehenga is anywhere near the quoted “$7500” she just got bluffed SO BAD! 😂 You’d get better lehengas at Rs. 7500 tbh!

The bride allowed her mother to organise her wedding but throws a fit when she doesn't like something? Okay... Why not just wait another half year so you can help plan the wedding? Just saying..

As an Indian myself, there was absolutely nothing traditional about this entire video, EXCEPT the task of an overcaring mother taking charge of her daughter's outfits.

Firstly, that last outfit was not a saree by any means! And the price of the Hindu ceremony dress is way too much! You can buy such dress at 300$-400$ in India (although there are much better options available).

First of all that's not what a saree looks like!!

Oh the mum is so great - she should be appreciated by her daughter

Hey I am from India...and the last outfit...she can get way better sari...and what she is wearing doesn't look line one tbh..2nd outfit can also have been done better...both the outfits she chose doesn't look good..there are many beautiful bridal lehengas over here..

To each its own. Don't like any of the gowns, not even Indian ones. Mom's taste is not very refined. I've seen Indian wedding gowns that are sooooooo stunning.

Sabyasachi would die seeing these outfits. And the price was outrageous

I’ll get hate for this but.... The wedding Dress looks like my Sisters Quinceañera Dress....

Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa! Hold up! Did I see a $15k price tag for their invitations?! That's insane! You can put that towards a car or a house!

Lots of rhinestones and showing skin doesn't necessarily mean expensive or sexy

The lehenga, the saree and the jewelry suck. Hideous! There are many many stores of Indian designers in the US. They look loaded, they could have very well gone for a Sabyasachi.

Stupid to spend that much money

Obviously money cant buy style

Choked on my food when I saw the prices for the invitations. Holy fuck.

As far as I could see. neither had any taste. The wedding dress was a corset with an organza flower skirt. The wedding decor looked like a bottle of Pepto-bismal exploded. The lehenga looked cheap, and sorry, not a sari. I don't think either won any prizes for filial or maternal love. Spending ridiculous amounts of money isn't love.

if she's not gonna appreciate what her mother did for her and just acting like a spoil kid tell her to prepare the WHOLE wedding by herself

Sorry, but that lengha (crop top and skirt) looks so bad. I don't understand the purpose of that weird off color belt on it. That last outfit was definitely was not a sari. Both of the looks are so outdated and cheap looking tbh, i don't get how she went all the way to India and came back with this costume looking nonsense. With that budget she could've easily gone to a top Indian designer. Everything she got is so tacky.

What’s a rude and ungrateful daughter. It would be so stressful trying to plan an entire wedding for someone else down the the dresses just for them to be upset by a single thing.

That is not a saree, that is not what a saree looks like.

For all the people defending what the girl did, lashing out at her mom, stop. Her mom took her all the way to India, picked out all these pretty custom made dresses, AND did all of her wedding planning, which is what SHE was supposed to do. And she made the invitations for her, which would probably take a LOT out of her moms pockets. Not to mention the dresses and decor she bought for the wedding. And the flight to India. If this woman, this FULL GROWN WOMAN, is going to complain over ONE dress, she doesn't deserve all this hard work her mum has done for her.

I can't believe that lehenga costs 7500$ 😂😂 there are much better lehengas out there for much less and that's not a saree!

The bride is absolutely gorgeous. I hope she had a wonderful wedding and that the couple is living in bliss. 🖤🖤🖤

It's an attempt to make her daughter's day perfect but she incorporated herself alot into it

Both are so removed from reality by money that neither are concentrating nor concerned with the reason they are there. “Mom, I told you to get something rhinestone studded!” I’d have walked away at that point.

That last pink dress was gorgeous that girl is crazy. I would love to wear it.

This daughter is a ungrateful brat. She knew her Mother would look after everything and she still had the audacity to treat her with such disrespect. Phew, if she can find a husband there's hope for everybody.

The cost of the invitations alone is my whole wedding's budget

On one hand the mom went all the way to India for her daughter's wedding and she went bratty On the other hand the mother pretty much gave her no choice in deciding for HER own wedding

Wow your MOMs wedding was beautiful 😂

3:12 was waiting for I hate it, the bottom of the dress sort of looks like the chair covers just a different pink. PMSL 😂

For Indian dresses there r so many posh designers who does such elegant ethnics Sabyasachi,Shyamal and bhumika etc Nd they wud HV make perfect pieces in such a good budget

Anyone thinking the mother “worked so hard” is missing what’s truly going on. The mother’s control issues are abhorrent! She planned every detail while her daughter took exams & left NOTHING for her daughter. Hell, she couldn’t even fully give her daughter the satisfaction of how stunning she looked in her dress....I have ZERO doubt the only reason was that the daughter picked it herself going against mommy dearest. The wedding planner eluded to the mom being a nightmare, albeit in a nice way, since she was on camera. Make NO mistake that how the daughter acted at the end is NOTHING compared to how this mother acts when she doesn’t get to have control. Bottom line is the mother is 100% responsible for spoiling her daughter incessantly & thus, she now has to deal with the problems she’s created. $15K+ on invitations people throw away? What a ridiculously frivolous, utter waste of money & a vapid display of wealth 🤮.

There is nothing worse than a spoiled child. Who spends $15K on wedding invitations?

OMG I'd give anything for a Mom like that who'd take the reigns...she should kiss her feet!! That Mom did fantastic!! She's lucky she didn't have to PAY A WEDDING PLANNER!!

Mom tried her best, she just should have hired a professional wedding planner. Felt more like a quince or a sweet sixteen, not a wedding. Her daughter is a bit of a brat.

I watched this episode and let me tell you, Sheena is a beautiful person! She was studying to become a doctor, her fiance was in the middle of his residency in california, and not gonna lie it was beautiful to see an indian/hindu wedding. I literally have no complaints about Sheena or her fiance. Mom could be overbearing but the wedding was beautiful in the end.

The cost of their invitations is what I spent on my dress, my entire wedding, my honeymoon, my first five years of marriage...

Those invitations cost more than everything for my entire wedding. 🙃

15 grand on invitations.....that people are gonna toss in the trash...smh.

They spent more on invitations than we did on our whole wedding and honeymoon put together

$7500 !!!!! Does it include plane ticket? R u kidding? She specifically went to India and for what!!!

As an Indian, I just found this embarrassing :/ Even on a much smaller budget, you can get such elegant looking outfits, these all looked so costume-y and tacky

I don't think Mom really liked the dress!

The pattern on the two piece with the crop top, looks like a carpet

I'm just wondering who is paying for the wedding if the mum is paying almost $16k on invitations.

Wow, always remember that every day and opportunity is a blessing.

I will never ever comprehend the logic of spending that much money for one night That much money spent over one night is unexplainable

My whole wedding is going to cost less than her invitations !!!

Over the top expenses. I'm not thrilled, but I hope the bride had a grand wedding and a better marriage.

*I'm a spoiled brat and this is my expensive wedding*

Adjusted for inflation, her invitations alone cost almost double what my whole wedding cost. I wonder what the florist's bill will look like?

This is the least relatable thing I've ever seen.

Feel sorry for the groom.... RUN!!!!!!!!

I like everything. Mom did a great job.

If the daughter freaks out like that if something doesn't go the way she wants it, it makes sense that the mom is picky and over the top with the planning, but mom made her that way too.

Those invitations alone are nearly quadruple my budget.

I am not surprised to see how Indian weddings really are and how privileged Indian kids are because they are literally pampered.

I don't really feel that bad for the bride. If she was interested in doing something for the wedding she would have spoken up before it was all finished. I think she's perfectly happy with having her mom do it all. It's a good thing they fit together well.

What a spoiled brat! "Sheesh Mom! I know you have spent huge amounts of time and $$ on me without me contributing at all... but waaaaaaaa!" Sell her diamonds and give the $ to a charity. The Justice of the Peace and blue jeans are perfect for her.

From what I understood, the gown is to be worn after the wedding, at the reception. It's not a wedding dress, it doesn't have to be white, no Indian bride wears white to their wedding anyways. A simple looking lehenga can cost more if the stones are real... I also sense that the Mom wanted to fashion a lot of the wedding details herself, she seems super creative, and I do agree the Lehenga could have been designed better, but it still is beautiful. Everyone who is critical of the daughter, please do note that she praised her mother for the wedding card, the lehenga, and did seem appreciative of her efforts in general. One more thing, often Indians talk much more forcefully than Americans, and that outburst isn't as big of a deal as it's made out to be.... that wasn't a proper saree... so I see how she would feel kind of thrown off. And as for all these comments about having no taste, at least no one found anything bad to say about the decorations her mom had put together... yet I don't see anyone praising the decor specifically. Bit unfair don't you think ??? I do agree about the 15000 Dollar wedding invites though... such a waste!!!

My whole wedding will cost less than her invitations

the dress honestly in my opinion looked more like a 15 dress but it looked good on her and if that’s her dream dress then im happy for her

Why do people spend excessive amounts on a wedding instead of using the money for living after a wedding? Have a good ole bbq and have fun while saving a bunch of money.

Her invitations cost more than my whole wedding!!!!

“I told you to get...” Daughter definitely not appreciating mum.

And I've been feeling guilty about my $400 for invites 😂

That bratty response at the end was totally uncalled for. Hell if my mom spent even half or a quarter of the price of her money on my wedding day, I would be so thankful and appreciative of everything she did for me. I mean damn... Suck it up sister for a few hours and wear the damn thing. Sheesh

indian/pak wedding clothing is soo stunning it’s BEAUTIFUL like it’s just flavour her dresses were not it

I already feel sorry for the groom!!

I love, love that first dress.

She definitely got scammed paying that much for the lehenga, even the heavy Sabyasachi and Manish Malhotra lehengas would cost less and be 100x better

Literally expensive wedding ✴️🎉😓

Bride def needed a gratitude attitude adjustment.

I’m not even Indian and I know that last dress is not a sari.

I imagine the bride would be camouflaged by wearing pink to the reception among all the pink decor.

I feel sorry for the groom. Hope he knows what a spoiled, arrogant child he is marrying

The last outfit literally looked the best 😂

I want to meet her Mother. She is really great at planning. Look how beautiful her invitations are. The Mother can help me with my wedding.

She’s not the only bride to have no input into her invitations or wedding planning. When I got married years ago, my parents picked everything from the invitations to the date, the venue, the food, and even the dress. My folks picked a main dish that neither my husband nor the best man would eat, a vegetable to which I’m allergic, and overruled our choice of wedding cake flavor. Literally the only thing we agreed upon was the open bar!

What was that thing that they were calling a saree?that was definitely not a saree.

Can we all say…SPOILED and UNGRATEFUL when it isn’t exactly what she wants. Maybe she should have scheduled her wedding so she could be a part of the planning.

All I can think about are the millions of people from their own country that are living in the worst conditions possible and to see them spend that kind of money in a wedding...its disgusting.

Has anyone considered the cost of mailing these invitations? This is far more than a stamp or two this is going to cost hundreds of dollars to mail to guests.

That girl's eyebrows!! Oh NO.

I'm sorry to say that but... that dress is SO UGLY. I can't be the only one who thinks that. Also, regarding the third outfit, that is not a sari.

Will never understand this overload of pink. Makes me sick

There are working people in the USA who are struggling to survive on less than $15,000 a year and this is what they spent on wedding invitations. Makes me sick.

My eyes bugged out of my head when I saw 15,600$ for invitations

The dramatic "Indian Intended" music kills me.

her invitations costed $15,600....girl why

Seems like she could’ve taken control early on but chose to be lazy and let her mom take over only to wake up a month before the wedding thinking now is the time to do something. And to add insult to injury she blames her mom for her laziness.

The custom made Indian outfit is beautiful. I'm from India and your sari is beautiful. Your mom is right that's how saris look like.