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The kiss is such a key moment on a date, so I'm happy to share these insights with you, and I hope they help you out. If you want to see exactly what I do on actual dates, check out toddoda.com
Please make a video about how a male worker should approach to his female worker who he likes and what he should talk about, and how he should talk to her.
just keep in mind that, even though the kiss is important, you can have sex without having the kiss at all. if she is giving you signs that she likes you and helping/making easy to escalate, don't be hesitate to do something because there is no kiss.
When she looks at your lips! Look straight in her soul and say come here. Getting her to listen to you is how you know. Kiss her when she does. Then pull back " Whoa this is fast" that will lower her anxiety. Next time you kiss be in your final destination.
GOAT. I hope I can meet you in person and shake your hand one day, thank you for your generosity in sharing your art. In terms of content requests, I've been curios to see you you break down other coaches and styles, in Russian PU community threre are things like kissing girls 10 seconds into the set, escalating to sex at your place by leaving her in the room, taking off her clothes, coming back to her, and fucking around with her saying "there are no naked people here, you're tripping girl", mind blowing moves like that that are outside of your game model, they truly do work in a big way, so given that you've said you'll be searching for the rest of your life for what's possible in game and widening your horizon this is gonna be a new challenge and a point of interest for you to break down. Once again, thank you for your work, appreciate it.
Another obvious signal from her in my limited experience is she will be close to you and will glance at your lips. Thats rather obvious but sometimes you miss it. Generally the lean in os a good sign.
Hey Todd, Thanks for this interesting video. You did a great job. BTW, you look like Kurt Douglas. That's definitely a compliment. Just look at who he married. lol
I think part of the 'phase shift' is also allowing the energy to slow down...to help create a moment that is more intimate and focused on 'just us'...and then go for the kiss. Any thoughts?
Can you discuss some techniques in regard to inner circle game? I find myself teasing and making women in my friend group positively emotionally reactive, but am a bit intimidated to make man-woman statements and escalate when our friends are present and I’m struggling to isolate. I find myself leaving after fun late nights feeling like I missed an opportunity.
Good idea, friends can be a massive barrier. Would like to know Todd's thoughts on this. Imo isolation is indeed a must and if not, then getting her number/snapchat and asking her out for eventual isolation. Use the flirty group interaction as a springboard for the message "hey honestly I was really vibing with you the other night, how would you feel about grabbing drinks sometime just the two of us". Another good trick is to make her qualify by acting as if you had her in the friendzone and now she might be getting out "hey so I was really vibing with you the other night, and it was weird bc you were always my friend so I never really thought of you in that way before. But I find myself being attracted to you" etc
Todd already made videos about this topic, go back and you'll find it, anyway me too I struggled a lot with this because it looks awkward, but I understood that it is awkward only if you feel it, I mean it all starts in your mind, just say what you want to say and do what you want to do without thinking what other people could think about you, in the beginning you will make a lot of mistakes because you will be uncalibrated, but as long as you practice, and as long as you feel comfortable with yourself and with the situation you get used to it, you learn how to do it and you adjust your behavior to the situation, but essentially what you have to do when her friends are around is exactly the same thing you have to do it when her friends are not around, you have just to convince yourself that there is nothing different and you must show a higher level of confidence, but the techniques are the same, you are intimidated because you feel the fear that you can be judged by her friends, so adjust your perception of yourself, eliminate fear, shyness and awkwardness and then the techniques are exactly the same
Hey todd i need your input here. I had a proposition to this girl on our first date that we should kiss (just a little) right away before the date even starts into a conversation, she said yes, and the date from then on made us WAY more relaxed and it went great… we had sex on the second date. Never done it again though…
@asktoddv - Little off topic but could you tell me, what should be done if you get silence off a shit test response on text. And how long before you should message again. Thanks in advance!
So hard to keep eye contact since I have fat bags under my eyes. Only in darker environments I fell less insecure about it… gonna wait until the summer for an operation. Hopefully it helps
@@aloncwolonc8402 well he mentioned he was a state champion, if I remember correctly. I don't think it's possible to make it all the way to state champion without getting a rank.
I was forever too man, I remember my first kiss didn’t happen necessarily because I made it happen, but because the situation just lended itself so well to a kiss. Even though you may have never done it before, you’ll know when you’re supposed to, trust. Especially if you properly follow Todd’s advice. And when that moment comes, if you’re still too nervous don’t be afraid to straight up ask “can I kiss you?” Or some variation of that. If you’ve been gaming properly and the girl likes you you’ll either get a “yes” (which means kiss her) or a “maybe” / “I don’t know” (which also means kiss her).
