CAMILLA DOESN’T WANT TO BE PREGNANT ANYMORE?🤰🏼 // IVF Q&A 

Yes! ❤❤ And anyone who says they "don't understand", or "don't get it": we see Men prioritize their careers in heterosexual relationships All The Time. If someone truly doesn't get it, then they need to ask if they would still have an issue if she was a man (and then take several seats while they do some self reflection and process why)

Also they *just* had a baby! Learning how to live your lives with a new tiny human takes a while.

​@@tazziplissken And I think a big part of it is her seeing her partner's experience and adjusting her expectations to the reality of the situation, which is actually super responsible imo. I think a lot of people have this picture in their heads of what pregnancy/parenthood is gonna look like for them before they have kids, and things rarely go according to that plan. Not necessarily badly, it's just different from how you thought it'd be, and you gotta adjust. Yeah, you may have planned for the dirty diapers and other more obvious less pleasant parts of parenthood, but didn't realize how much morning sickness could knock you out or logistically think about how hard it would be to be pregnant with a small child at home while working on the next steps in your career. Better to plan ahead and say maybe not right now than get yourself in a situation where you're physically drained, emotionally burnt out, and regretting the choices that led to that.

But the older you get the harder it gets to get pregnant. Us women have a biological clock we just do. So no we cannot wait forever and there is never really a right or perfect time but you can wait too late. I thought my opinion she should have a child first if she wants one because she is older. But maybe she still will later. I hope she has a girl. From what I understand this is Camilla child not Julie's? I might be wrong but from what someone told me they were going to get pregnant with each others kid and birth each others kid?

@@ravenc4912 better no children and a happy life than too many children and resentment

Love this You guys are our favourite lesbians Absolutely gorgeous you to ❤️

New tagline?!

I’m a shell 😭

*your

Exactly this!

That is so sweet and brave of you.. Thank you much ❤❤

Ur disgrace woman 😂

noooo don't do that, save some for yourself, you may regret it one day.

@@moonsigil .......sweety....like what!?

@@BowieTheOctoBear Yes?

Es verdad. La que cria es la madre 👵

is his name fry? aww that's cute

we have similar one in Brasil "pai é quem cria" which can mean "dad/parent is the one who raises", and I think thats really beautiful

@@sleepdeprivedjuiceboxno lol, it’s a nickname

@@Katzzukey ah I only know the Nik name sunny . my bad lol

That's a super cool title to hold. Much respect for the sacrifices you made.

I actually have so much respect for you and your friend

I think it's awesome your friend, Sharon, was the first. Were you the second or somewhere further down the line? Do you have contact with the child(ren) or parents that you carried for? I think it is an incredible gift. Also, I've always been curious if the babies get any of your DNA because your blood flows through them. I hope that doesn't sound like a dumb question. I'm truly curious. Thanks so much for answering any questions! ❤ 😊

The world's first IVF baby, Louise Brown, was born in England in 1978, and she was not carried by a surrogate.

I'm not a fan of anything that turns women into a commodity.

This just made me cry, such beautiful words ❤

@@nikkibevan91 That comment made me cry too. Beautiful❤❤

I love how your outlook is positive and you just radiate strong golden energy.

Same ❤❤

You will, but don't settle for any less. If you change your mind and want children, you can, in a number of ways. ❤

Yeah seeing queer joy is so so healing

Absolutely!! I'm pregnant with baby #3 and definitely do not know who I am right now 😭😭 it's so hard when all of your attention is on your Littles.

So true! One month into this new adventure!

YES. Why is it even a thing to go 'back to pre-pregnancy body / normal'? This is the new normal. Be healthy and happy in your new body. Even if you don't go though pregnancy and even if you are male, your body will change during your life - possibly slower, but you will change. That's supposed to happen. That happens when you live a life. And it is a wonderful.

I have a friend of a friend lesbian couple that had a child. One became pregnant by donor. The other woman of the couple felt a lot like Camilla. Where am I in this equation? When a hetero couple have a baby, both of them are part of the baby. But you two did it. By having Julie carry Camilla's fertilized egg, you two did it! Both of you are part of Sunny. Just like a hetero couple. I think this is HUGE. You will figure it out Camilla. Bless you three. ❤

My little girl is 5 months old. I'm just starting to accept that my body is forever different. That's ok 😊

@@gemmathiel8228beautiful words 😢❤

rightttt me too

Agreed

Same. I’m deaf. It’s hard enough getting accurate captions with the CC buttons. Camilla and Julie are so inclusive and I love it. Especially because I know from experience how much extra work adding in captions is

yeah I was gonna comment this on the last long haul vid because how helpful and inclusive is that, they’re good people

totally ! i like that there’s a black outline on the white text too ! it makes it easier to read as someone with dyslexia in comparison to just white text.

as a bi teen, these two are my comfort couple 😭 i see them as THE golden standard for my future wlw relationships

I love that!

this is such a good simile of how becoming a parent changes relationships

Very well said, thank you for that.

Catie, respectfully, fuck your parents! I was raised by very religious folks and my experience is that they're notoriously poor at parenting and helping their kids at navigating the storms of life. I am a parent and I model my parenting style on my gay friends as they are the BEST parents i know! I feel like those who have gone through and weathered hard times become the most compassionate, gentle and kind parents. I hope that you will find your chosen family and your person who you can build a life you love with and create a family overflowing in joy and love.

Sending you all my love 💝💝

2017 I got my heart broken. I thought I'd never find love. Then 2019, my soulmate found me. Love will find you .I was also 32 in 2019. Love has no age or time limit. Love will find you.

Leave enough time between babies, they need time to fully be babies and toddlers without sharing.

i agree 🥹

it is absolutely different having two mums as opposed to a mum and dad, as intended by God and nature. you're logically and scientifically wrong in saying that and promoting this

​@@maisie1120They're scientifically correct. You have the right to your religious beliefs, but you have ZERO right to try to force them on someone else. You cannot use them to shame or hate on others. You enjoy your beliefs, I'll enjoy mine.

​@@maisie1120you're a terrible person. DD

oh piss off why are you even watching these videos if you are going to be a twat@@maisie1120

Have you experienced growing up with two mums or two dads@@maisie1120 ? Science and logic are not on your side in this, there are thousands of examples of same gender relationships in nature. You're entitled to your opinion, but don't try to use terms you don't understand to support your beliefs.

Considering that most of their followers are international (especially North-American) I would assume that her app will be available internationally :)

Hi there, another Canadian here (originally from Victoria, living in Winterpeg for the last 6 years). It's always fun to connect with another one of the 40 million! Have a wonderful 2024, and beyond. ✌️ 🫶 and Joy ❄️🇨🇦❄️!

@@louisejohnson6057 You as well!! I’m from Edmonton, AB. You have a lovely 2024 and on too! 😊 💛 🤟🏼

As someone with crap hearing I’ve got to say ditto. Too many creators forget about those who can’t hear or see as well as most

I love that they do this, too! I have hearing damage and tinnitus, so I watch pretty much everything with captions and too many RU-vid videos don't even have the option of captions.

yes!! your motherhood is fully valid and so is camilla's.

i am from a mixed family, and my dad passed when i was very young. we don’t know his side of the family well, so i grew up without a lot of the culture, and being asked “are you adopted?” even though i was not. it took me a very long time to feel apart of my family bc we didn’t look alike. not saying you have to look alike to be a family, but it does have an impact mentally, i can attest to that.

If a child knows from birth that they were adopted they have a much lower likelihood of feeling out of place.I picked my baby boy’s parents and we have an open adoption. He is now an adult and he is completely fine , happy and thriving.

Sadly, it will probably help them socially in the long run. They can be as supportive and amazing mums as they want, bullies can get mean. Not looking like your part of your family is a very easy thing to use to bully someone. Regardless of the trials he faces I’m sure his mums have his back

@@cheyennetetrault3213They live in a country that doesn’t tolerate that kind of behavior.

@@charisselinnell-morton4137 bullies exist everywhere. I was just trying to agree that yes it is sometimes important look and feel like you belong in your family.

You're a legend man thank you

Thank you

@@S_J_banana you're welcome

omg tysmmmm

Thank you

I'm so glad you finally have a daughter now and can enjoy motherhood. It's OK to not feel connection even with bio kids. Happened to me with my first baby. It was planned pregnancy and I was waiting for years to be a mom. And then finally I am pregnant. And I feel nothing. I didn't believe I was pregnant at all. I had many symptoms, I saw ultrasound pictures and still my brain couldn't believe that I was about to have my baby. Even after he was born I felt like I'm babysitting somebody else's kid. Like any minute now his real parents are gonna come in and take him. I think it took me 2 years to realise that my son is MY son. Brains work in weird way sometimes. You finally have that you want and you can't enjoy it because you don't believe your wish came true. I wish you and your daughter all the best :)

🥺 huge respect and love to both you mothers❤❤

Same.

I'm straight as well and this is the cutest couple on RU-vid 😊

Agreed. Cutest couple ever. Straight or gay, RU-vid or not. They are just so so lovely❤❤

I thought I was straight when I started following these two 😂 turns out I'm bi lmfao

​@@hashtagmateohh so social media turns u bi ? 🙄

It's not pink 😂😂😂

Wrong it is pink its purple in the start

​@@AbmafatimaI went to comments to make sure it wasn't me.😂

I thought it was pink too! Is it not??

@@ashleyallen9967 In the thumbnail she is wearing pink.She is wearing purple in the video.I didn't notice the thumbnail at first,that's why people are getting confused.

Yes! Hi EQ 👍🏼🫶🏼

A trans friend said to me once that he felt gifted to be a man and to have the possibility of giving birth PS: Not saying this is relatable to you I just thought it was beautiful and I had never thought of it that way before, embrace who you are and trust what you believe in♥

Best of luck to you and your partner! 💜

glückwunsch

Congratulations! Stay positive...❤

Yayyyy🎉🎉🎉 Sooo happy that you are cancer-free!!!!!🎉❤❤🎉 CONGRATULATIONS, LOVE!!! I’m also soooo happy for you that everything for IVF was covered by insurance, except the fee to store your embryos🎉🎉 I wish health insurance in the US covered IVF. It’s the ONLY reason I’m not a mommy😭💔 Too expensive to pay outta pocket!!! I have PCOS, but also I have a Hypoplastic uterus (my uterus never grew and is the size of a newborn baby girls uterus💔💔). So, both my chances of getting and staying pregnant is less than 25%!!!!! So I have over a 75% chance of never getting pregnant and over 75% chance not being able to stay pregnant, especially to term at least til baby is viable, and losing our baby…especially in the 2nd and 3rd trimesters!!!!! So my bff has said for 20yrs that she’d be my surrogate (which is also more money, on top of just the “normal” IVF, which that already is too expensive in the US (I’m now 40, with 1 angel baby up in Heaven 👼🏼). So I’m a mommy with no earthbound children💔😭 The pain of losing my son, via missed miscarriage, is HORRIBLE‼️‼️😭😭💔 It’s been 4yrs since we lost our baby boy, Karter, and the pain is still SOO RAW AND REAL, like it happened yesterday!!!! I’m thinking now about getting a bank loan, so that my hubby and I can have a child that’s the both of ours. My hubby has a child from a previous relationship, (AKA my Bonus Son). But since he’s a teenager, I’m definitely not viewed as “mom”. From the research I’ve done, it’s around $40K US dollars, to do IVF (that’s with my BFF’s surrogacy too). I’m disabled, so idk how the hell I’d pay that loan back, with my disability check as my only income…and trust me when I say IT ISN’T MUCH!! When I reached adulthood, life certainly took a turn that I just never expected, AT ALL. I NEVER ONCE expected that I wouldn’t ever be a momma. IT BREAKS MY HEART EVERY DAY‼️💔💔😱😖😫😭

@@ashleyallen9967 Oh no Ashley it breaks my heart reading this ☹️♥️ Thinking of you and hoping that all somehow works out for you. Can‘t imagine going through all this 🥺

@@mutzl9082 You’re very sweet. Thank you so much. We have been hoping for the best outcome, but because we know the stats, we kind of expect the worst. It would truly be a miracle if we are able to have a baby.

Yep. Second adolescence is a thing even if you’re not partnered or a parent! I feel like I’m going through it right now. There’s even a book about it.

@@jasy5288cool beans 👍 you sound like you’re a really nice person lol

If you don't mind me asking, what made you do it? Is the money an incentive? How much do you get paid? What makes you feel so strongly about it? I had a brief little thought about doing it at some point, but I never seriously considered it. Then I read about the process and it really hit me that you're putting yourself and your body through a lot of pain and effort. On top of that, money is not allowed to change hands in my country, so people who do it here do it solely out of the goodness of their heart. I'm truly not that good a person, I'd have to get paid six figures to do it, at least. Part of the reason I feel this way if probably that I don't actually want children, so I don't feel that strongly about other people's ability to have them. I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Unfortunately a lot of people say it takes 6 weeks to heal postpartum, that's just for tissue to heal, then comes the functional healing. Totally normal to not feel "back to normal" for 6 months or longer. If you want guidance on the postpartum journey, you might want to look into pelvic physical therapy, we guide people through pregnancy/postpartum and help them reach their goals

OMG yes!y baby is just about to turn one and it honestly I feel like I JUST now don't feel "postpartum" anymore, and I'm not even back to where I was prepregnancy. Everyone's bodies are different and it might not take this long for everyone, but I think we have to normalize how long it takes.

Yeah, it took 9 months to lose the pregnancy weight and now at 11 months my body is starting to feel normal. Still a bit a aches but it's getting there.

It's been 25 years. I have long given up the idea of ever "bouncing back" lol.

It's not only fine and normal, but it makes your life SO MUCH EASIER. Give your body a chance to heal. And gives yourself a chance to enjoy the child you have.

Camille needs to remember in adoption both parents need to navigate the same situation. They're going to be great parents and as they get more in the swing of things it will all feel right.

the taylor reference!!

A fellow swiftieeeeee!!!!

The reference!!!!!! 🫶🫶🫶 I love finding other queer swifties.

@@Em_theDino13 omg, we should start a queer swiftie club

@@Em_theDino13 🫶🫶🫶

My niece and nephew were both possible through IUI ❤

It seems a lot of people don't give thought to this when deciding to use a donor. A lot of adopted and donor conceived people like to find out their biological parents. Sonny is lucky he will have the option if he wants

It's so true! 😊