Can a husband take his wife's phone away if she miss-behaves on social media? 

@@LazyPepe2359??

Absolutely

I am woman and agree 100%

How is this done? I have no idea.

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@Borsalino Kizaru What for?

@Borsalino Kizaru No

Who said she's asking or even letting him know? Deception bro.

@@Freedom4PalestineEndZioNazism True

That’s because they are women themselves that’s how I see them period

@@mymuslimthoughts6903 a wife uploading her pics when she has a husband is wrong. Especially if its tabarujj. How would she feel if her husband started paying another woman’s rent, utilities and her insurance? Men show their commitment by providing and protecting you, all you have to do is maintain fidelity... If he’s putting a roof over your head, protecting you, providing financial security, food etc. and you can’t even *not* post a picture of yourself online... Losing hope for marriage day by day... may Allah guide us all.

@@mymuslimthoughts6903 Men out there can become tempted, especially if she's wearing full-fledged make-up. You might think that "Oh, I'm just sending it to my female friends" but you can get scammed and that "friend" of yours can show it to everyone, or maybe someone might look into her screen.

@@mymuslimthoughts6903 uploading photos showing Tabarruj without hijab is haram, and for every guy that sees it when it gets shared she's incurring sin, this has been pretty much established, you might want to also look up the sins of tabarruj too.

@@mymuslimthoughts6903 She IS doing something inappropriate, neglecting a command from Allah and publicly sinning showing her awrah and doing tabarruj, it's not about what you and I deem a turn on or not. it's about what the Deen states as haram

@@mymuslimthoughts6903 Bro Tabarruj is a major sin and women who make a display of their beauty facially and/or physically will not even smell the fragrance of jannah.its a characteristic of the people of Hell and it expels the mercy of Allah until you repent and stop the sin

Yep, that's the way to be. The dangers of tabaruj are severe and the consequences. Enough of these dayooths also who legitimise everything through 'logic' and are happy seeing their women getting lusted after

@berryboi bro I don't agree with you that when it comes to posting on social media that it has ro go both ways. Posting nonsense is another thing, I am talking about the pictures, the man can do it but not the woemon.

@@mohammedwarsame6974 I think your may have gotten the wrong impression. I was being specific on women posting their lifestyle or unnecessarily showing themselves online. The part when I said "goes both ways" is referring to indecent social media activities when I said "they don't respect the meaning of hijab". So it's mainly about the post on social media that clearly goes against the mannerism of a muslim (man or woman). It's sad cuz some brothers think they can do any n everything online cuz I am a man. So yeah, I was referring to nonsense post in general. I think I had to make myself clear. Man and woman can have a social media presence somehow but we all have to be cautious of our social media activities. What we do with it is what matters. Personally, I won't even want any of my women folk even showing their faces online. Our society is too messed up already

@@berryboi1574 nailed it bro, my muslimah family friends are married and they are very respectful with themselves and cautious about what they post online. They are also not very addicted to posting. But they talk to me through messages. Idk how it is for men 🤷‍♀️ but from one Muslim woman to another, I have so much respect for them because they don’t even let themselves indulge in that desire.

@@haya4228 Well, that’s the way it should be. Smart people know this is not downgrading or oppressing women but rather helping them. I believe and adhere to shutting down the potential of fitna from its roots. Some men are to be blamed at time cuz they facilitate their women to do it or they are simply silent about it when they notice their family indulging in such. We can talk to ppl online with proper manners, no problem. When it comes to public post of any sort, we gotta be more mindful of our contents. As for the exchange of anything online between male n female, we gotta be *extremely* careful in this case. When it’s just between guys, it’s usually straight forward stuff ( from my experience at least )

its not a 'politically' incorrect topic, muslim women sending nudes is unheard of, and those who flaunt themselves on social media are actually sadly quite sort after by muslim men, if the problem exists, taking away someone's phone doesn't deal with the problem at large anyhow, that is a problem of lack of iman and fear of Allah which won't be resolved by a husband behaving in the manner suggested will it! No it will infact inflame the situation since we have already established that this sort of sister, i.e one who sends nudes, or flaunts herself on social media doesn't fear Allah.... so what kind of idiot thinks she will take lightly to you taking away her phone which may also be her property purchased by herself? Men in this situation need to be wiser, wisdom would already be something a man in this situation would be struggling with which to have married such a sister in the first place, if this is the life she is living this WON'T be here only issue, so why did you marry such a woman? these conversations do seem tinged in misogny to be honest, and are just creating fitnah, muslim woman who sends nudes? how did you manage to marry a whore? muslim women flaunting themselves on social media, well you didn't marry a practising muslim so now what? beat your chest and say I am man obey me, they don't obey Allah what chance do you think you have?

I feel most sorry for the western women. They are stuck in stubborn arrogance defending indoctrination detrimental to their soul. In less words, they don’t know what is good for them. I have come to the conclusion that the idea that men and women are exactly the same but for some body parts is an erroneous belief that most are holding on to.

That’s like saying why can’t the government see ur texts if ur not doing anything wrong? It’s just privacy

What has to be so private between a husband and wife who should live with each other as best of friends.. ..the problem here arises when two spouses don't consider each other as best buddies but are free and open with their respective male / female friends... Anyways there's no point in arguing here..

But Maan, we can't trust anybody. Not even our self's.

@@mohammedsalmanshaikh4041 I don’t share everything with my best friends so even if we are best friends inshallah I won’t feel comfortable with that

@Ismail Na I’m good thanks especially if I can’t do the same

The pandemic of our time and reason for dissatisfaction in marriage and potentially marriage

That’s a part reason but it’s also important because some men love to use these narratives to spiritually abuse their spouses, and it happens.

@@trpmuslim4614 i agree with the part of gabriel being apologetic to these disgusting people who try to twist islam. Instead of apologising or giving disclaimers it is better to hit the topic on the head and tell anyone who disagrees that this is revalation from the most high and it is proven to be so with objective tangible proofs, ur outside opinions and world views dont matter. I think we all need to have this kind of attitude and that advice is to me first then anyone who reads this. Lets be proud muslims. May Allah make us those who have pride in our religion and its practice amiin

@@trpmuslim4614 Just to clarify i dont mean be intolerant because tolerance is apart of islam but i meant that for the insincere or offensive people toward islam who are its clear enemy. Also people in the west who still have this slave master mentality of "if we dont do it then u are backwards or medival" which is batil to being with because we can prove our religion is from the only diety worthy of worship in truth, due to their being proofs as clear and objective as 1+1=2. And since the creator knows everything than what he legislates is objective and your man made values are subjective and change with the winds. So for those arrogant people they need to be scoffed and and told "who are you and who made these values that u are coming with and how are they objective when they change with the weather"? Muslims need to be on the offensive with these types of people, idealogically that is 😀. But only if they try to impose themselves upon you from a belief perspective. Was just clarifying i didnt want people to think I was some khariji guy telling muslims to get in peoples faces and start berading them😂. Barakallahu feek

Attention is womens sex. They will pick validation over sex anyday.

I wrote this comment before he mentioned that a woman took nudes to send to another man. I meant divorce her as soon as she starts putting any awrah on display for non-mahram and let her know from beforehand that that's what will happen, actually maybe convince her to ask for khula' so I get my mahr back too, or part of it.

@@nazmulhussain8282 BRUHH if it goes as far as nude DIVORCE HER ASAP SHE'S A CHEATER WTF

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: Zayd ibn Thaabit said: The husband is the master (sayyid) according to the Book of Allaah, and he recited the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “They both found her lord [sayyid] (i.e. her husband) at the door” [Yoosuf 12:25] ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab said: “Marriage is slavery, so be careful with regard to whom you give your daughter for enslavement.” In al-Tirmidhi and elsewhere it is narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I urge you to treat women well, for they are prisoners with you.”

Lol wtf

She can stop, but it is better for her, that her husband to decrease or monitor what she is doing the social media, by her permission. I respect your opinion.

I agree women shouldn't have access to internet without the household supervision

@@TopG20073 double standard only a man can use social media while the wife cant use the phone of their husband

Don't be sorry. What you said is nothing but truth.

Yes doing eyebrows or removing hair from the eyebrows is haram and is forbidden by the scholars, I believe the prophet peace be upon him forbidden this act.

For a woman you can lightly groom your eyebrows as long as you dont change the natural brow or shape. For example if I don't clean my eyebrows i will look like a man (which is also haram for a woman to look like a man), so i pluck only the middle and very outside hairs, keeping my natural shape. Women have to remove some hair lol otherwise it wont look nice. Allah knows best thats all i will say. Ps. I agree with women shouldn't be gossiping though, i personally find this super annoying and dont take part.

@@Eleidig007 well thats forbidden to do, the scholars agree you can pluck the middle since its not part of the eyebrow, but plucking the hairs is not allowed.

@@Eleidig007 There is a sahih hadith that states the woman who plucks her eyebrows is cursed. Even if you are keeping the natural shape you are still going against the warning. I've also read 'some' scholars say that plucking between the brows is ok but is it really worth the risk? I would leave them alone to be on the safe side. I doubt you would look like a man lol

Agreed, or have a joint account if some platforms are just necessary for news or business

@@mymuslimthoughts6903 You are incorrect. Read Surah An-Nur - Chapter 24 Verse 31, Allah orders Muslim women to wear hijab as well as to not adorn themselves or beautify themselves in any way in front of non-mahram men. There is no disagreement among the scholars that a woman wearing makeup in front of non mahram men is impermissible because this is part of adornment.

@@mymuslimthoughts6903 However to beautify it in front of your husband is totally legit.

@Fyoutube yes Where is your proof that light make up is allowed? Share the fatwa. If you research that you will find it is unanimous that make up no matter the amount is forbidden in front of non mahram men. www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/129259/a-woman-wearing-light-make-up-when-going-out-of-her-house

@Fyoutube yes May Allah reward you for the warning. I used to believe light makeup was allowed too, but once I really studied it I learned the truth and I immediately feared Allah and stopped, Alhamdulillah. May Allah guide us all and keep us on the straight path.

@@mymuslimthoughts6903 You're very open minded though aren't you. So open minded your brain fell out. I bet you're also Pakistani. Lol So what about what he said is insecure and do you contest his statement from an Islamic point of view?

I am not Pakistani fyi

@@alghurraba I can smell ignorance miles away Husband is the authority Get over it

@@mymuslimthoughts6903 you do know that in Islam a man has to be obeyed Vice versa doesn't work

@@OnePunchMuslim leave these women Really scared for the future generation, how will good men find spouses who will obey them??

Dont take a divorce so easy, also not in words and speech! The shaitan love the divorce and Allah swt. love his believer whos fight to be standful! Allah swt. loves Love, loves us as a family. Its ever worth to fight im his dunya. Divorce is a big thing! Even if we see this often today,sad.Divorce is mostly not a sulution

What’s if she is interested in same sex? Qaume Lut exist Audhubillah

I'm pretty sure that verse was misinterpreted or incorrectly translated..

@@peshwak9575 So, Zaid Ibn Thaabit (RA), the man who was given the responsibility to write down Qur'an by the Prophet pbuh misinterpreted the verses??

How can you treat well when you keep her fully covered in 50 c. You dont allow her out alone for once. You dont let her start youtube channel

@@peshwak9575 I didn't do a thing. I quoted Zayd Ibn Thaabit (RA). Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: Zayd ibn Thaabit said: The husband is the master (sayyid) according to the Book of Allaah, and he recited the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “They both found her lord [sayyid] (i.e. her husband) at the door” [Yoosuf 12:25] ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab said: “Marriage is slavery, so be careful with regard to whom you give your daughter for enslavement.” In al-Tirmidhi and elsewhere it is narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I urge you to treat women well, for they are prisoners with you.”

@@peshwak9575 You should fear Allah SWT. Do you even know who Zayd ibn Thaabit was? And who told you Allaah is the only Lord? Allaah SWT is the Lord of all lords, the King of all Kings.

No? Lol what logic this is, if you want to do that always suspecting and keeping your man from being in peace so you can get talaq

@@botbeamer My point is, no party should be suspecting each other. But if this is going to happen, then both parties should share the same right of taking the phone away, not only the man should be able do this. In my relationship I dont have the need to look through his phone and neither does he.

@@Tassycrafty You should not care about him looking through your phone, and he should not be worried neither if you are innocent, so where is the problem? But women will always be looking for better man it's just like that, men are not same as women.

@@botbeamer i know that. That is why I am saying we do not do this. In response to the video I was just saying if he is advising the men to take the phone away, I was saying the woman can do that too. But you are absolutely right. If one is innocent then this is not an issue at all. Thanks for your input.

@@Tassycrafty Gabriel said yeah if she had real proof

Islam says NO 😂😂😂😂 or at least this 'alpha' guy here ..but he can do it accodlrding to the sunnahs of the Prophet (pi** be upon him) 💩💩💩💩

To you too

khair mubarak

Khair mubarak.

You should advise him . IAlso you should work together to solving the problems. Then if It doesn't work out ,ask for divorce.

You advise him first, and remind him of Taqwa (Allah fearing). If he didn't stop tell his father or his mother, if he didn't stop, you have two options either you get divorce because he's Fasiq (lecherous) or have patience and ehtsab to Allah (a reward from Allah). And dua'a to Allah guide him, that's very important.

@Fyoutube yes maybe he needs a second wife

@@raghebalkayyali6609 maybe he just needs to fear Allah

@@emma647 look at my first reply

Wow talk about double standards. Men making excuses for men being lewd Verily, the Muslims (those who submit to Allah in Islam) men and women, the believers men and women (who believe in Islamic Monotheism), the men and the women who are obedient (to Allah), the men and women who are truthful (in their speech and deeds), the men and the women who are patient (in performing all the duties which Allah has ordered and in abstaining from all that Allah has forbidden), the men and the women who are humble (before their Lord Allah), the men and the women who give Sadaqat (i.e. Zakat, and alms, etc.), the men and the women who observe Saum (fast) (the obligatory fasting during the month of Ramadan, and the optional Nawafil fasting), the men and the women who guard their chastity ...... Ahzab:35

But we have to behave our self's

3:08

@Russ2Tentative chill

3:08 But she doesn't have the right to take away her husband’s phone. Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: Zayd ibn Thaabit said: The husband is the master (sayyid) according to the Book of Allaah, and he recited the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “They both found her lord [sayyid] (i.e. her husband) at the door” [Yoosuf 12:25] ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab said: “Marriage is slavery, so be careful with regard to whom you give your daughter for enslavement.” In al-Tirmidhi and elsewhere it is narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I urge you to treat women well, for they are prisoners with you.”

@@jubairomar2676 true

Who narrated this story??

Islam is not about stories that sound beautiful We take our deem from authentic sources.

@precizion I was suggesting an action for HER, not for HIM!

@precizion gotcha!!! How old are you, son? Sorry, play your game away from me. Thank you

@precizion Thank you for explanation, Here we use Gotcha to mean, I cornered you, I caught you, or I proved you wrong.

@precizion No problem at all, and thank you for your politeness, may Allah guide us to always be better, ameen,

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: Zayd ibn Thaabit said: The husband is the master (sayyid) according to the Book of Allaah, and he recited the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “They both found her lord [sayyid] (i.e. her husband) at the door” [Yoosuf 12:25] ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab said: “Marriage is slavery, so be careful with regard to whom you give your daughter for enslavement.” In al-Tirmidhi and elsewhere it is narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I urge you to treat women well, for they are prisoners with you.”

@@jubairomar2676 are these hadiths legit?? I haven't heard of them before. I think only sahee-bukhari and sahee-muslim are authentic hadiths.

Brother Abu in the house!

@@trpmuslim4614 no they don’t Muslim men have a lot to learn from the prophet saw not redpill bs

@@trpmuslim4614 so redpill movement is okay? Two sides of the same coin u better keep same energy

@AnonK the woman is the man's responsibility and Allah gave him authority over her.. If she's committing wrong with it, he has the right to confiscate it

@@trpmuslim4614 Your profile name is vague.

@Fyoutube yes not exactly

I don't understanding the point of the comment. What are you trying to say?

So you can do what you want?

@@botbeamer you assumed that i am doing something “bad” ! you are so comfortable guys with thinking that way and judging people

@@arabicwomannamedsahar1114 Did you ever try find out if he’s doing anything Haram? Are you involved in haram in any any way? Such as affairs or homosexuality?

What do you mean

Irrelevant. This is one of the ways you if you’ve been infected by feminism and wester ideologies.

First look in the mirror. As I said earlier, there will always be someone who is going to point out like "what if men do such and such things?" when talked about issues related to women. Instead of reflecting upon what is being taught in the video they will come here just to point finger. This is what is called arrogance.

@@abdula16 have respect for the comment you ignorant person . It is not just feminists who have an issue with the brother spreading his Eastern European views on women .

"Not all women" "Works Both Ways" "Same goes for men" "Double Standards" "Who are you to judge" "All 5 fingers are not the same" "Only God can judge" Signed : Feminists 😂😂😂

@@mohammed_salafislam664 no brother, his views are from Qur'an and sunnah. Eastern Europeons don't share these values that Ustaad is promoting

It’s not feminists who have issue with this . I do . My brothers do . My family do . My wife’s family do. My cousins do. None of us our feminist.

@Fyoutube yes feed me ? I feed myself , I don’t have a disability . If you meant does my wife cook for me then yes she does. We cook for each other . We often cook together . Alahamulliah.

@Fyoutube yes this is a personal question but yes - she is happy and that makes me happy . And because I’m happy she is happy . I don’t need to be demanding on her as she knows her deen , she is very religious and she also works . I’m very happy .

@@mohammed_salafislam664 what is your issue with what he is saying? Is what he saying going against quran or authentic sunnah? You never said why lol . Hes only speaking of sharia and islam. If U do things differently then thats on U.

@Fyoutube yes It's his fault for choosing one in the first place.

Husband is the authority Even though they are partners Husband has an authority

Islam men have a greater degree of responsibility over the women than that of women over men. It follows that the rights owned to the wife are unnegotiable. Thus, leadership (and the role of protector/guardian) does not thus imply any sort of inequality or dictatorship, also it implies no superiority or advantage before the law, since men are obligated to give their wives ‘kind treatment and companionship (this right of the wife is strongly emphasized by the Qur'an the Prophet ). The Qur'an states: O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may take away part of the dower [money given by the husband to the wife for the marriage contract] ye have given them, except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing, and God brings about through it a great deal of good. ( Qu’ran An-nisa 19) Prophet Muhammad. (saw) said: The best of you is the best to his family and I am the best among you to my family. [Ibn Hibban] The most perfect believers are the best in conduct and best of you are those who are best to their wives. (Ibn-Hanbal, No. 7396) Islam further emphasizes the importance of taking counsel and mutual agreement in family decisions. The Qur'an gives us an example: "...If they (husband wife) desire to wean the child by mutual consent and (after) consultation, there is no blame on them..." (Qur'an 2: 233). Men should remember that they are obligated to be just and fair to their wives ( in this way they must exercise their role as protector/leader/guardian): "Allah commands justice, the doing Of good, and liberality to kith And kin, and He forbids All shameful deeds, and injustice And rebellion: He instructs you, That ye may receive admonition. (The Noble Quran, 16:90)"

If there is a dispute between a couple which goes to court, the judge would say the husband is the man of the house and it is his obligation to provide. He would not say this to the wife. It is not her obligation. Therefore, the ‘degree’ that men have is not a position or a rank to show off about, but a burden, and indeed a degree of servitude. It is a duty, and a weight on the man’s shoulders, that he must work to provide for his family. The ayah is thus describing the degree of responsibility. Misunderstanding daraja Unfortunately many people have extrapolated that men are better or superior to women from the ayah ‘But men have a degree (daraja) over them.’ Yet, the ayah is not saying that- it linked the daraja to spending not to superiority. It says in the ayah clearly in Surah Hujarat that ‘the best among you are those who are more mindful of Allah Almighty’. The ones who have the most taqwa. No one becomes automatically better because of their gender. There is no reference anywhere that men are closer to Allah Almighty because they are men.

In any organisation or country, we always need a decision maker to provide the direction and to take charge of it. Similarly the family unit needs a head, the one where the buck stops. Of course the head should take decisions with mutual understanding and discussion always with respect. But after the discussions, if the husband and wife do not agree, how do they move forward? If the head takes a decision which is not haram and not harmful, the family have to follow it.

What a silly question! Is that even a topic of discussion??

_It was narrated that Abu Bakrah said: "Allah protected me with something that I heard from the Messenger of Allah [SAW]. When Chosroes died, he said: 'Whom have they appointed as his successor?' They said: 'His daughter.' _*_He said: 'No people will ever prosper who entrust their leadership to a woman.”_* Sunan an-Nasa'i 5388

@@Urbro_meast I know this Hadith, I am not talking weather is good or not for a woman being a leader but I am talking about taking a woman’s phone who is in the leadership position or a woman who is at the position in which she demands to use her phone highly in her job.

@@idrisaabdillahibpxkijykbs4162 I know, I just put the Hadīth for people who think that a woman is allowed to rule over her people .

Don't worry, these women don't have time for Insta nonsense

@Ismail When I start seeing Surahs and Hadeeth reguarding all theese things. Then I will believe them, Until then I am a Servant to Allah SWT.

@Moo Miller it is deeply misogynistic and goes against the Quran and Hadeeth. What I see is a deeply angry man with a forum for his anger, and I continue to pray for him that Allah soften his heart

@@whiteweaver3716 lol the husband is to be obeyed taking a phone isnt something haram especially if she is using it for haram. Misogynistic 😂 the man is in charge he is to be obeyed.

Very well said .

Again you are forgetting the point that man has the authority and the right Both do NOT have the same right in this matter

"rather the married couple is a team" Wrong, marriage is a slavery and the husband is the sayyid/master. Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: Zayd ibn Thaabit said: The husband is the master (sayyid) according to the Book of Allaah, and he recited the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “They both found her lord [sayyid] (i.e. her husband) at the door” [Yoosuf 12:25] ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab said: “Marriage is slavery, so be careful with regard to whom you give your daughter for enslavement.” In al-Tirmidhi and elsewhere it is narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I urge you to treat women well, for they are prisoners with you.”

What you waffled has nothing to do with Islam.

If a husband takes your phone or commands you to not use smart phones, that is in no way, shape or form an "abuse his level of power". //"Gabriel there are many noble and relgious brothers but who are very unintelligent- this will pave the way for them"// Men are "intelligent" enough to be your Wali or your Sayyid. And as for women, the Noble Prophet pbuh described them as "deficient in intelligence"

I guess you wanted a 2 second video of him saying "YES".

@@captainpotato3769 I mean clip could have been as long it is, he just didn’t have to auger coated and pretty much say the same thing throughout the entire video

@AnonK lol bruh? it’s like you have no clue. I hope you’re like 12 or younger

@AnonK bruh, did you even watch the video?

@@abdula16 He didn't sugar-coat at all. Are you an 🐜? He brought multiple related issues at once.

Could be feminists too

@@ibnamanot True

Faxs

Then your the the issue that bro Gabriel is talking about....

You don't decide whether your husband is "misbehaving". Your husband is your Sayyid.

You are sick in the head

She will divorce him without a second thought 💀

@@omaribnalahmed5967 good for him then. Save himself some headache. Lol

@@z3ngz how is he sick?

Sulayman ibn ‘Amr ibn Al Ahwas said: “My father narrated to me that he witnessed the farewell Hajj with Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam). So he thanked and praised Allah and he reminded and gave admonition. He mentioned a story in his narration and he (Nabi sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said: “And indeed I order you to be good to the women, for they are but captives with you, over whom you have no power than that, except if they come with manifest evil behavior. *If they do that, then abandon their beds and beat them with a beating that is not harmful.* And if they obey you then you have no cause against them. Indeed you have rights over your women, and your women have rights over you. As for your rights over your women, then they must not allow anyone whom you dislike to treat on your bedding (furniture), nor to admit anyone in your home those you dislike. And their rights over you are that you treat them well in clothing them and feeding them.” (Sunan Tirmidhi, Hadith: 1163 and Sunan Ibn Majah, Hadith: 1851

What?

@@MohammedAlSharif2002 yes it's prohibited the husband can sue her wife

@@blueblink2238 I’m living in a Arab country and my parents are both Arabs, and I’ve never heard of this.

@@MohammedAlSharif2002 where in Arab countries?

@@blueblink2238 Saudi Arabia

Step: 1 Warn her Step: 2 forsake her in bed Step: 3 hit her Step: 4 Get the family involved for arbitration. You can divorce her if things go south.

@@JubairIbnOmarHamza i personally would not use any type of violence even if it is using a napkin and smacking her with it. However there must be more specific things to do. For example, I wanted to tel her father about this stalker guy that keeps bothering her. I also think that if we sat down and discussed with each other about deleting men and women off each others social media, it would help to begin with. She was a righteous woman in general so she didn’t have any on instagram or anything besides whatsapp. And in whatsapp she wouldn’t talk with anybody as far as i know. I already know these steps but thank you

@@Gihad97 I thought you wanted Islamic advice. Hence why my comment.

@@Gihad97 I agree with you. You two can sit together and have it solved.

@@JubairIbnOmarHamza the stricking verse has its meaning.. الضرب has a lot of meanings..

The day you will be able to pee standing!

@@botbeamer my man

If he’s doing something wrong then take it away but be careful with that kinda action

​@@Ricestlovercause in al islaaaam hes allowed to beat you close to death i guess 😂🤮

I feel sorry for your parents

@@ifazalambhuyan3066 nice answer Mashallah

I feel sorry for you.

Same bruh.

Hope he doesn't have like 4

No

No

Sulayman ibn ‘Amr ibn Al Ahwas said: “My father narrated to me that he witnessed the farewell Hajj with Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam). So he thanked and praised Allah and he reminded and gave admonition. He mentioned a story in his narration and he (Nabi sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said: “And indeed I order you to be good to the women, for they are but captives with you, over whom you have no power than that, except if they come with manifest evil behavior. If they do that, then abandon their beds and beat them with a beating that is not harmful. And if they obey you then you have no cause against them. Indeed you have rights over your women, and your women have rights over you. As for your rights over your women, then they must not allow anyone whom you dislike to treat on your bedding (furniture), nor to admit anyone in your home those you dislike. And their rights over you are that you treat them well in clothing them and feeding them.” (Sunan Tirmidhi, Hadith: 1163 and Sunan Ibn Majah, Hadith: 1851)

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: Zayd ibn Thaabit said: The husband is the master (sayyid) according to the Book of Allaah, and he recited the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “They both found her lord [sayyid] (i.e. her husband) at the door” [Yoosuf 12:25] ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab said: “Marriage is slavery, so be careful with regard to whom you give your daughter for enslavement.” In al-Tirmidhi and elsewhere it is narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I urge you to treat women well, for they are prisoners with you.”

@@jubairomar2676 treating her well involves protecting her from sins... Take her phone if she's misbehaving online... There's nothing better you can do for her in that moment