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She divorced me after a few days! Divorce culture amongst women 

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Women ask for divorce more often these days. Why?
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@unknowninvisible2519
@unknowninvisible2519 3 года назад
Once a guy ask an old couple who have been together for ages, he said: "how did you manage to stay together for so long?" One of them replied: "because we were born in a time where if something is broken, we try to fix it"
@12345678956824
@12345678956824 3 года назад
Instead of throwing it away
@mlindalina1
@mlindalina1 3 года назад
@@12345678956824 or replacing it through amazon prime
@12345678956824
@12345678956824 3 года назад
@@mlindalina1 mmmh hmm!
@theogsa5371
@theogsa5371 2 года назад
Also there was one more, where the man said he promised his wife in their wedding night where if they got upset/mad they would go to a different room to avoid an argument, and they did just that they never had an single argument in their entire life.
@muslimah3006
@muslimah3006 Год назад
There was one couple I read about, they had come to an agreement to not use the word 'divorce' as a threat. Whenever they disagreed, or had an argument, they both tried to solve it, not just one sided efforts from the husband or wife. Efforts from both sides. And they're married for more than 25 years now Ma Sha Allah!! Thats how it should be!!
@ikr2377
@ikr2377 3 года назад
I was in an arranged marriage to a man who told me on the first night of our marriage he didn't want me. I told my parents to get me away from him they insisted I live with him and make him happy so he could grow to learn to love me. 27 years later he still didn't grow to love me. But the relationship became so toxic he harmed me in so many ways and my kids and I have lost 27 years of my life. I think an early divorce would have been so much better I wouldn't have lost decades
@alphafish4756
@alphafish4756 3 года назад
I’m so sorry 😔 hope you’re in a better place now. May Allah reward for enduring and may Allah deal with him accordingly.
@alphafish4756
@alphafish4756 3 года назад
Mynameis Mine you are right this would be faskh but easier said than done when you have toxic culture of honor surrounding you that feed on women’s suffering.
@ikr2377
@ikr2377 3 года назад
@Mynameis Mine Salam, I did say no, before/ straight after the marriage and every opportunity I got in-between but I had no choice. As I said in. My initial comment they arranged the marriage and they told me I had to live with him and after my marriage they said to carry on living with him despite the fact he clearly stated he didn't want me. I even got a council flat and they wouldn't let me live in my own place nor would they let me work in the girl school and made me leave that part time job. I wasn't allowed to return to college. The only options I had at 17 year old was to marry him or end up in a black bag in the canal. As stipulated by my big brother. It was not because I was a bad girl but simply because I was born a girl. I was quiet, and God fearing person. But nevertheless I was born a girl and the honourable thing was in my culture to marry me off. After marriage the only option I got had was to live with him or if he gave me a divorce I would then be forced to to marry a 60 year old man. For a 17 year old girl those were not really options.
@purplebear445
@purplebear445 3 года назад
My dad tried to push me into a marriage like that too. I had to really stand up for myself
@purplebear445
@purplebear445 3 года назад
@@ikr2377 if i was u i would run away and get u own place and start a new life on ur own and dont tell ur family of your whereabouts. Tbh islamically u can do that and u wil also be glad to know that cuz it was a forced marriage ur nikkah isnt valid so u dont even require a divorce. Just run away and dont look back
@amazingamx1255
@amazingamx1255 3 года назад
this guy really need to get more views
@cornelius2993
@cornelius2993 3 года назад
Brother not guy
@iimiboy
@iimiboy 3 года назад
It's not about views, the corrupt will always have a bigger following and those on haqq will always be a minority
@iimiboy
@iimiboy 3 года назад
@Send Newds and some prophets will have only a few believers and some will have no one who believed in them
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад
@@iimiboy In sha Allah the truth will grow!
@iimiboy
@iimiboy 3 года назад
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 in sha Allah but most people hate the truth Akhi
@mohammedsalmanshaikh4041
@mohammedsalmanshaikh4041 3 года назад
I would like to mention here that my parents alhamdulillah by the grace of Allah have been with together for the past 37 years now Alhamdulillah.. strongly bonded... During older times i have seen couples staying together in marriage putting their utmost efforts...Its this is today's fast forward world we see divorces are increasing at a rapid pace... couples have just lost patience with each other... To have a successful marital relationship it requires compromisation patience and lots of efforts from both sides... You have to ignore the shortcomings of ur life partner and appreciate the the good things which they bring to the table....now a days u see couples sharing lovee dovee pics on social media and within six months you get to hear they are divorced boom .. May Allah give us some patience and perseverance to handle our marital relationships ameen...
@mohammedsalmanshaikh4041
@mohammedsalmanshaikh4041 3 года назад
@Black Roses i didn't share any pics brother...its those people who do this ..i just pointed out ☺️
@cinna_sultan
@cinna_sultan 3 года назад
I agree, this is the point. Imagine divorcing over what your wife appears to be. Disgusting nature.
@ibrahimqamar9844
@ibrahimqamar9844 3 года назад
May Allah swa keep us happy within our marriages, and give us patience aameen, i hope and pray everyones marriage lasts forever aameen🤲🤲🤗
@theogsa5371
@theogsa5371 2 года назад
@@cinna_sultan agreed
@user-user-user-user.
@user-user-user-user. 3 года назад
Our respective societies are going crazy ☹️
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
Effect of western influence.
@cornelius2993
@cornelius2993 3 года назад
And abandoning the Qur'an and Sunnah
@user-user-user-user.
@user-user-user-user. 3 года назад
@@juxtapositionMS It’s not just western influence. That is part of it, but not all of it.
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
@@user-user-user-user. What more could you add?
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад
@@juxtapositionMS Can you see Cornelius's comment!
@bajaboardukesk8858
@bajaboardukesk8858 3 года назад
Birmingham Islamic council didn’t even want to hear my side, they said give khula or it will be done without me, I pleaded to save my marriage but unfortunately money talks and they didn’t want to hear anything. Choose a women who fears Allah and in sha Allah life will be easier
@aabiryani8433
@aabiryani8433 3 года назад
If you don't mind me asking akhi Why did the wife want a divorce What was her reason
@bajaboardukesk8858
@bajaboardukesk8858 3 года назад
I have no idea akhi, I accepted her khula then she wanted to remarry but I refused, the reason behind it is unknown to me, any little argument over text resulted in her wanting divorce, we never argued in person, I look at it as a test, We all have our trials
@blueflame3531
@blueflame3531 3 года назад
At least you said no. You showed your teeth. Had you said let's try again, who knows what would have happened.
@emma647
@emma647 3 года назад
@@bajaboardukesk8858 That isn't true, because when the sister files for divorce her reasons are written on the divorce that is issued to the man to sign, also if you accped your ex's khlua, you are divorced after the iddah and she can remarry without your permission as you are divorced and her further marriage is nothing to do with you? what are you talking about?
@bajaboardukesk8858
@bajaboardukesk8858 3 года назад
She wanted to remarry me and I refused, if she wants to remarry then that has nothing to do with me now accept that she doesn’t let me see my child and the thought of someone else bringing him up, well I’d rather not say how that makes me feel
@eatBurger123
@eatBurger123 3 года назад
Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” They said, “Why, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “Because of their ingratitude (kufr).” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allah?” He said, “They are ungrateful to their companions (husbands) and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from you.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1052)
@letsniqab
@letsniqab 3 года назад
Saheeh! BarakAllah feek!
@WasifSikder
@WasifSikder 3 года назад
@Name X this is bukhari 1052. There are shorter hadith in bukhari as well sunnah.com/bukhari:1052 In sunnah.com I searched up "women hell" and found both long and short sahih hadith
@eatBurger123
@eatBurger123 3 года назад
@HugHug H preach brother
@aishkaa7087
@aishkaa7087 3 года назад
Divorce is always difficult. But this guy is lucky that she asked for a divorce before she got pregnant. That would be way more complicated when kids involved. May be it's his luck and he'll meet a better fit.
@mehmet20003
@mehmet20003 2 года назад
Sister there is no luck. Nothing happens without the will of Allah so you shoudnt say luck.
@sadiamohamed15
@sadiamohamed15 Год назад
She could be pregnant may be that what makes her nervous. He should take a break, leave the house wait for few months. One night if Alaah give she can I have seen it
@TheMrpalid
@TheMrpalid 2 года назад
Sad. People expecting perfection when they are far from it.
@share2211
@share2211 3 года назад
I was divorced before Waleema because we weren’t too keen on making Waleema extravagant. It would have hurt their heritage and family honour it seems.
@GreenGc8
@GreenGc8 3 года назад
SubhanAllah may Allah grant you better!
@share2211
@share2211 3 года назад
@@GreenGc8 Jazak Allah Kair akhi/ukhti. May Allah grant us all the rewards for our ibadah! Barak Allah Feekum
@GreenGc8
@GreenGc8 3 года назад
@@share2211 Ameen
@ColonelFluffles
@ColonelFluffles 3 года назад
@@share2211 You're a man. Respect. She belongs to the streets.
@share2211
@share2211 3 года назад
@@ColonelFluffles Thank you brother
@ColonelFluffles
@ColonelFluffles 3 года назад
"divorce culture amongst women" Damn man, that's so true nowadays. Jeez...
@thatpakiguy3445
@thatpakiguy3445 2 года назад
Dont say "Jeez" because its short for "Jesus" i.e. calling upon Esa Alyhissalam which christians do, in other words, its shirk, the biggest of all sins
@muhammadrayyanjaved8334
@muhammadrayyanjaved8334 2 года назад
@@thatpakiguy3445 Thanks for the info. I didn't know that.
@anselmglen8170
@anselmglen8170 2 года назад
Yes some women do get divorced for the wrong reason but a majority of the time it’s because women don’t want to be in a abusive relationship Majority of the time men need to be educated and I’m so happy your doing this
@muslimah3006
@muslimah3006 Год назад
True!! One of the most important thing a man and a woman must have is equal efforts. If they aren't compatible, but both of them are willing to work on it, In Sha Allah it will work. But most of the times unfortunately thats not the case. Either the man is too stubborn to put efforts and change himself or the woman is too stubborn to make sacrifices or change some things and they go straight to the option of divorce. May Allah make it easy for us!! Ameen
@Borz.0011
@Borz.0011 10 месяцев назад
Ngl you saying most women divorce because of an abusive relationship is not something compatible with what most women actually divorce for nowadays I don’t deny that happens but still lol it’s not cuz it’s majority oppression.
@maryammirza2776
@maryammirza2776 3 года назад
When ever divorce happens, the reason is always because of a third person and that could be anyone..
@shabinanaaz7581
@shabinanaaz7581 3 года назад
Something like that has recently happened around me .... it's awful
@ColonelFluffles
@ColonelFluffles 3 года назад
You mean shaytaan (albeit in human form)
@shafiullahnoory2268
@shafiullahnoory2268 2 года назад
Not always.
@drfarheenkhan81
@drfarheenkhan81 3 года назад
One more thing that people generally neglect or *chose to neglect* in marriage issues is the role of shaitan, hasad/nazar/ayn and sihr. People try not to go to the path of *Ruqya* as they lack the conviction that these things could have an effect on them in these modern days ! Where as the reality is these things are now a days affecting marriages *more than ever!* But the shaitan deludes people to not to even think in this direction that these things can affect them although we have strong evidences from hadeeth that ayn exist, sihr affects... and there are strong evidences from the experience of raqis that lover jinns can posses a man or women and can create hindrances and severe issues in their marital lives. May Allaah guide us all to know and identify our real enemy *the shaitan* as Allaah says in the Quran that *shaitan is your enemy so take him as your enemy* and may Allaah give us the ability to equip ourselves to fight with him with the Quran, regular prayers and adhkar. There are very good lectures on RU-vid on this topic by Ustadh Mohammad Tim Humble.
@redicon9027
@redicon9027 3 года назад
You are right
@cornelius2993
@cornelius2993 3 года назад
What is "hasad/nazar/ayn" ? JazakAllah chairan
@unknowninvisible2519
@unknowninvisible2519 3 года назад
@@cornelius2993 "hasad" is jealousy, "ayn" is evil eye. The other one I don't understand, perhaps if I see the arabia text to it I could translate it.
@TariQ-nx3uz
@TariQ-nx3uz 3 года назад
You are simply lost.
@braveheart8318
@braveheart8318 3 года назад
This is nothing but a diversion from taking responsibility of your actions, blame everything in jins. A lot of people are making money with this business.
@mohammedsalmanshaikh4041
@mohammedsalmanshaikh4041 3 года назад
Exactly... Divorce is the last resort...First of all if there are issues between husband and wife and in that case wife leaves the husband's home ...its better to involve two arbitrators from both parties...both must be relatives and not immediate family members...many marriage issues get solved when elders get involved and guide the couples correctly not only saving the marriage but also save the future of innocent child ( if born out of wedlock) ...cuz any children do not deserve to be deprived from the love of any of the parent....may Allah give barakah in our marriages ameen
@saifhussain8472
@saifhussain8472 3 года назад
Allah yejzaak al5eir for talking about this. One prominent Shaikh here advised a sister to seek divorce by hearing just her side of the story. The husband didn't even know his wife had gone to seek advice from the Shaikh and was told she should seek a divorce. There was also a child involved, not just the couple. When the brother told us, he was in agony at why another man would do this, let alone a Shaikh. Men can be rational and leave emotions on the side much more so than women. But alas, the current 'trend' is to give more power to women eh.
@Aquacrystal78
@Aquacrystal78 3 года назад
@Black Roses I think she just acted on advice of sheikh for khuala then.She thought the Sheikh thinks her concern is valid. Because the one whose suppose to ask for reason is the Sheikh and give consequent advice.
@jubairomar2676
@jubairomar2676 3 года назад
@@Aquacrystal78 Sorry, the sheikh is wrong. He has to hear from both party before coming to that conclusion. The woman has to seek khula from husband first and then if he rejects it, only then can she go to the sheikh and the sheikh must hear from both parties before giving his verdict.
@miss_S
@miss_S 3 года назад
Maybe her parents forced her into marriage... And so many times women do say that they dont want to get married to someone but they are pressurized
@ikr2377
@ikr2377 3 года назад
I think if she senced they were not compatible she didn't want to spend her life in a relationship that would turn toxic for both and then divorce after decades.
@ujabali6470
@ujabali6470 3 года назад
I think this is a unique situation, as this sister has suffered from trauma which is affecting her. She should have told her mahram she can't get married yet and seek treatment to get over her past trauma. If however this wasn't possible, then she should have discussed it with her husband to be beforehand, which obviously is a very sensitive topic. If he was willing to still marry and help her seek treatment and be patient, this would be amazing. He would be prepared and she will trust him. However, this didn't happen....she still could have told him after marriage rather than jumping out of marriage. It is extremely sad. Hope they both recover ameen.
@akbarnauabi5437
@akbarnauabi5437 3 года назад
Most probably she is possessed by devils,shaitans.
@Thebestoneever_
@Thebestoneever_ 3 года назад
It’s so sad man. This world will especially now people are changing so quick.
@aldeen9190
@aldeen9190 3 года назад
That is why I m not going to marry
@Thebestoneever_
@Thebestoneever_ 3 года назад
@@aldeen9190 if you want to, Then you should but choose wisely and be prepared for anything that happens later on. So if you get married, have full trust in Allah even if marriage works out or not.
@cinna_sultan
@cinna_sultan 3 года назад
@@aldeen9190 You never know 🤷‍♂️
@aldeen9190
@aldeen9190 3 года назад
@@cinna_sultan Yes but if you dont play soccer you will not score a goal
@Thebestoneever_
@Thebestoneever_ 3 года назад
@@aldeen9190 Yes you can score a goal if the goalie is new
@Repentancejourney
@Repentancejourney 3 года назад
Yes you can get divorce if you are not happy. Also with regards to marrying multiple womens the spouses should discuss the matter thoroughly before nakkah is conducted. So there is no confusion later
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
not following the religion yet lecturing who should do what.
@ayeshapyesha7301
@ayeshapyesha7301 3 года назад
Ugh you brothers and your pride. The replies to this woman, your sister in Islam, regardless of her being covered or not are disgusting. Fear Allah before falling into faasiq by following Islam outwardly but having a harsh character. Rasool (saw) would never ever have spoken to a sister the way you both just spoke to her. He would have advised her gently and with genuine concern. May Allah protect other females from men such as yourself until you have straightened what is broken inside of you. Ameen.
@qt354
@qt354 3 года назад
@@ayeshapyesha7301 why would you supporther in sinning? they were entitled to correct herattitude. what makes you justified to say to them "Ugh you brothers and your pride" ??? you need to apologize to them
@qt354
@qt354 3 года назад
@@ayeshapyesha7301 Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said: "There will be in the last of my 'Ummah' (Muslim Nation), scantily dressed women, the hair on the top of their heads like a camel’s hump. Curse them, for verily they are cursed." In another version, he (PBUH) said: "… scantily dressed women, who go astray and make others go astray; they will not enter Paradise nor smell its fragrance, although it can be smelled from afar." [At-Tabarani, Muslim]. you re ignorant of islam, educate yourself before you speak. you:"The replies to this woman, your sister in Islam, regardless of her being covered or not are disgusting. Fear Allah before falling into faasiq by following Islam outwardly but having a harsh character. " was the prophet disgusting ? didnt he fear Allah ? or was he falling into faasiq? only following islam outwardly but having harsh character ??
@qt354
@qt354 3 года назад
@@ayeshapyesha7301 you:"Ugh you brothers and your pride" what did they do that you consider pride?? their comments were valid and correct, all they said was : "not following the religion yet lecturing who should do what." "a man doesn't need to discus polygyny, put on a jilbab, take the makeup off and take ur videos down before lecturing others" what was wrong with their statements? both of their statements were correct, rather your comment is what indicates your fragile ego. dont be so emotional, its clear you are egotistic, but dont display that to others
@kjy05
@kjy05 11 месяцев назад
Amazing work brother may Allah reward you❤
@aishkaa7087
@aishkaa7087 3 года назад
They might be some intimate issues which she and he didn't want to say. My distant relative got divorced after one month of the marriage without any explanation. He refused to explain. When people from her family came to ask his family what has happened they said they didn't know because he didn't explain to them too. However his sister wanted to say smth but her mother but cut off. They still don't know what's happened and the girl is keeping quite as well. I came to my own conclusion since I knew her better.She had a reactive bladder I think it's called anurez. She never said to me anything but this is my guess. And I personally can understand why he and his family kept quite. Sometimes divorce is better especially at this early stage when there are no kids and they didn't get used to each other. May be it's Allah's. Better now than keep some resentment for years.
@ColonelFluffles
@ColonelFluffles 3 года назад
Wait... So they got divorced because she had a reactive bladder? What does that even mean?
@centric145
@centric145 2 года назад
They don t need to explain anything for nobody
@aishkaa7087
@aishkaa7087 2 года назад
@@ColonelFluffles I believe yes.
@alpharays5768
@alpharays5768 2 года назад
@@LazyPepe2359 why didn’t she tell him of her issues before getting married!. I would I divorce her to!. It’s like an infertile man marrying a woman without telling her he’s infertile!.
@Ricestlover
@Ricestlover 2 года назад
If she has a health issue that causes bed wetting then he should have helped her out tbh. Girls might not tell a potential husband before marriage but will tell him after marriage. Any man should be respectful and try to help her and get her treated. Don’t just divorce her and kick her out.
@kitt7477
@kitt7477 2 года назад
That’s why divorce is in the hands of men. Women often get emotional and can easy pronounce divorce, not because she wants to permanently leave her husband, but just to get immediate space. If this brother really understood his role, he would have refused her divorce as he as a right to. If she really wanted to leave then she can seek hola and leave after a month of eida. (Of course men do it too, but that’s wrong too.)
@jacksonroad9263
@jacksonroad9263 3 года назад
Brother who does your thumbnail😂😂
@amazingamx1255
@amazingamx1255 3 года назад
i like that about him, he doesn't do clickbait. the downside being he gets less views
@seekfactsnotfiction9056
@seekfactsnotfiction9056 3 года назад
You can see no editing no thumbnail no thinktank! Sincerity is more important. May Allah bless his work with sincere viewers
@jacksonroad9263
@jacksonroad9263 3 года назад
@@amazingamx1255 agree
@jacksonroad9263
@jacksonroad9263 3 года назад
@@seekfactsnotfiction9056 indeed
@saleemakbar4335
@saleemakbar4335 3 года назад
Great advice Jazakhallahkhairun , people too eager to use divorce as a quick fix and not willing to work to resolve issues. Also good to see that you are not starting sentences using the the word Disclaimer.
@lM-zr5vu
@lM-zr5vu 3 года назад
It's an injustice that men are forced to give talaaq when it's the female who wants the divorce. A woman can secretly organize a second husband, and she can force a man to give a talaaq and she will keep his mehr and get another mehr from husband number two. This is an injustice, may Allah guide us, and reward us for our mistreatment.
@yasinfazley8313
@yasinfazley8313 3 года назад
People need to realise relationships are not easy, it takes work and effort, if you give up at the first argument, then you aren't ready for marriage, there will be points in your relationship where you don't want to speak to each other, but you have to build yourslef up and work thins out, people aren't perfect, why don't people understand that. I'm not married, but when I do (inshallah), I'm gonna be ready for the trials and tribulations that may happen along the way, my future wife may have a certain attitude that I don't like, that doesn't mean I'm gonna divorce her, she's not perfect, I'm not prefect too. (Applies to both men and women) (Of course IF it gets to a point where divorce is NECESSARY then ok, but I would still be reluctant, because of the effects of that)
@a7mad9999999
@a7mad9999999 3 года назад
this is gonna push more men to not get married
@khaledhd2055
@khaledhd2055 3 года назад
And push men and women to become 🌈
@cheddmt8365
@cheddmt8365 3 года назад
This is another reason why you will see more women want to get married but not enough men. Men don't want to sabotage themselves again for women who have been psychologically brainwashed by the ridiculous standards of modern, western-influenced society.
@ZakuZuko
@ZakuZuko 3 года назад
What do you mean that hadith is not authentic? Need more clarification because i hear this from alot of scholars.
@efazsiddiqi454
@efazsiddiqi454 3 года назад
Hadees are (Akkbar wahid) they are not like Quran or sunnha, tawatur. Thye are coming from one source and scholars has done allot of work to find out if that source was legit. They look for if narrator was mentally stable, good character, doesn’t lie. How many version of that story is out there. Nothing was written and compiling got done after 100 years. We have so many fabricated hadees, weak once and contradictory to quran and sunnha. That’s a whole new area and people has done so much work. Past 1300 years and still doing it. I have very little knowledge allha knows better.
@ZakuZuko
@ZakuZuko 3 года назад
@Black Roses thank you. Just need clarification thats all.
@dt6336
@dt6336 3 года назад
@Black Roses shaykh al-Rayyis said it aswell? I have no opinion on this; just stating
@TheMegaaya
@TheMegaaya 3 года назад
Right Brother ,her in Denmark divorce among what so called imams become a bussiness ,it costs 1500 kr for divorce ,for those imams if the couple conseil ,he will gain no money, vice versa if they divorce he will be paid 1500 krone.
@younesbenaddi4721
@younesbenaddi4721 3 года назад
Subhan Allah, may Allah make it easy for you
@TheMegaaya
@TheMegaaya 3 года назад
@@younesbenaddi4721 thanks brother Thanks to Allah and to be Muslim.
@hamzahmenshawi5991
@hamzahmenshawi5991 3 года назад
should the ex-wife give the mahr back to her former husband if she chooses to divorce him I mean it's only right if she gave back everything she got from her ex-husband especially when she divorced him after a few days!!??
@aishkaa7087
@aishkaa7087 3 года назад
Of course she has to give it back in the situation described in the video. In other cases it depends. Depends on the reason wife wants to divorce . If there is legit. But if there is no legit reason and the wife still asking for divorce she needs to pay the husband.
@bunny9489
@bunny9489 2 года назад
@@aishkaa7087 has to be half mahr only from what I’ve heard. And she shouldn’t give back every single thing the ex husband have given her…
@saharsakri578
@saharsakri578 2 года назад
Sometimes it can be the evil eye or sihr. People forget about these
@bintzuhd
@bintzuhd 3 года назад
AsSalamualikum! How can we seek your counseling InShaAllaah?
@alwiali6545
@alwiali6545 3 года назад
Waaleikum salaam warahmatullahy wabarakatuh check his website on description videos
@JunaidSalehHayat
@JunaidSalehHayat 3 года назад
Jazak'Allah, brother!
@Varshav198
@Varshav198 3 года назад
at 6:54 you said if thers something you don't like about a man can you divorce and you said "not really" that is incorrect. Divorce is obviously not the first option and thats why it is so important for borh parties BEFORE marriage to seek out information and see if any issues is there . Some issues can only be seen after marriage. A woman went to the prophet pbh and said she was not satisifed wit her husband in the bedroom and he offered her the option of divorce. OF COURSE you can divorce your spouse if you see after a marriage a pattern of things you find either unattractive, uncompatable or with domestic abuse cases. You need to think about your videos Gabriel. You need to think about the messaging your coming out with because divorce is not reserved for just worst case marriages, this is a very nuance discussion. This is the person you will be living the rest of your life with. I would rather see videos showing the importance of pre marriage meetings and laying all the cards on the table. That way the room for divorce is low...
@aishkaa7087
@aishkaa7087 3 года назад
I am watching Saudi scholars and he is very specific in his answer. This guy generalizes a lot.
@md.shahadathossain8880
@md.shahadathossain8880 2 года назад
The way you women talk like as if”women are angel"....the guy here is 100% right...nowdays women seek devorce even if thier mood swings....the guy is indicating these type of cases.....don't overthink and find negativity in everything
@farahashique6056
@farahashique6056 3 года назад
Sad days what is the ummah coming to it's the unity and closeness of the families that make strong healthy constructive societies people have no patience or tolerance of each other selfishness has taken over may Allah subhaanahu ta aala protect and guide us life is a test we need to work through these things for the best of the hereafter Aameen 🤲😭🤲💝
@akbarnauabi5437
@akbarnauabi5437 3 года назад
Assalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh Most of them are possessed, bare in mind.
@alwiali6545
@alwiali6545 3 года назад
Waaleikum salaam warahmatullahy wabarakatuh
@nahidahmed3399
@nahidahmed3399 3 года назад
you associate your self with AbuAmerican who has divorced 12 women and has admitted most of these women were divorced in between between 6-8 months. Are you aware of this? if you are, why do you not have a problem with it?
@vibes6255
@vibes6255 3 года назад
Hi 👋🏽 where did u get this info from? I rlly wanna know lol
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
@@vibes6255 Why do you wanna know? Is it even your business?
@cashrash432
@cashrash432 3 года назад
Abuamerican humiliates his wives and women in general all the time, if the men on here don't see anything wrong with him and see no fault in associating with him perhaps they shouldnt be on here complaining about women divorcing men often
@nahidahmed3399
@nahidahmed3399 3 года назад
@najma reply to me asap. He keeps deleting it
@ayeshapyesha7301
@ayeshapyesha7301 3 года назад
@@nahidahmed3399 who is abuamerican??
@mhamdxamax2423
@mhamdxamax2423 3 года назад
Prophet says That the Ibless ابليسHe sends his armies And they return Someone says I have Dispersed Between a couple Or, a man and his wife He tells him You are my son He raises his status among the devil Beware of destroying your family Problems exist in every world and all families That's how life is You must learn to avoid it Divorce is an abomination in Islam But it is Permissible For reasons Here is the last solution Not the first
@hssnov
@hssnov 3 года назад
جزاك الله خيرا
@smuhammad6763
@smuhammad6763 3 года назад
Khula is when wife asks husband for divorce and the husband giving the right to her. Ultimately the husband gives that divorce.
@bunny9489
@bunny9489 2 года назад
And he got no choice but to give it. If he doesn’t -that’s a sin, and imam can break the marriage if the husband is trying to keep his wife hanging.
@shadowstorm5261
@shadowstorm5261 2 года назад
@@bunny9489 yes but if she asked for it without valid reason she won't enter jannah
@thelaymenmuslim4603
@thelaymenmuslim4603 2 года назад
You want a problem solved in marriage 1. Choose women who fears Allah 2. Choose women who doesnt work or at least willing to abandon her current work to be a good housewife. I'm talking from my experience being divorce twice and also reflecting why rasulullah wants women to stay most of their life in home. DO NOT CHOOSE WOMEN WHO ARE WORKING.. THIS WOMEN GAVE YOUR MORE PROBLEMS
@birdyboy6115
@birdyboy6115 2 года назад
Bro, i hear you on this. Absolutely true. contact me.
@lM-zr5vu
@lM-zr5vu 3 года назад
The bottom line is that woman don't want to obey their husband, so when they see that they don't have an obedient husband they want a divorce. Both men and woman need to develop a love for deen, islamic dressing, and islamic character, inshallah. May Allah guide us.
@emma647
@emma647 3 года назад
stupid comment, holding only women responsible for divorce, your aught to fear Allah, many women like men have suffered a lot in marriages and in divorce. I found out my husband had not long been in jail for attempted murder months into my marriage at a time where I was also heavily pregnant, he had stabbed his neighbour 5 times, ( also many other violent convictions on his record) I found out due to the fact that the authorities had gotten involved after the public had called the police on my husband after witnessing him abusing me in the street ( whilst i was pregnant) wasn't the first time, wasn't even the first time the police were called, During my short marriage, I found out my husband smoked cannabis everyday multiple times a day, he didn't provide for me, weeks would go by where there was nothing in the kitchen, his family would bully me and had a key to our flat where they would just let themselves in, even while we were asleep, my husband never defended me rather he blamed all on me, even though by Allah I never said a bad word to his family, my husband had haram relationships with women, and wanted me to mix freely with his friends and his male cousins, I can't remember the amount of times I had to convince him to NOT stab people as he walked around with a pocket knife and would literally turn on randomers in the street if he was in a bad mood and pull his knife on them, he was controlling disrespectful, told me to fuck off three days into our marriage, NEVER PAID ME A MAHR despite agreeing to... I was living with this man for a year, I could write a book at how corrupt and evil he was....I left the marriage, alhamdulliah recently he has come to my city, where i now reside and tried to kick down my mothers front door, my family had to call the police, Yeah i'm getting a divorce and bearing the burden of raising my child alone, don't be so judgemental!!
@lM-zr5vu
@lM-zr5vu 3 года назад
@@emma647 May Allah make everything easy for you. Both men and women need to turn to Allah, develop our character in the light of Islam and develop our trust in Allah. Whatever happens to us is for our own good, Allah knows best what is best for us, and we trust the decree of our Creator. If any difficulty draws us closer to Allah then it is definitely worth it. And we say Alhamdulilah for everything. May our difficulties draw us closer to our Creator, make us more appreciative to Allah and soften us to ask our Creator for Forgiveness. May Allah guide us.
@origraphics2600
@origraphics2600 2 года назад
@@emma647 you didn’t decide to do your due diligence before the marriage ?. Couldn’t you assess the behaviour of the person before hand before jumping into marriage. It’s laughable you had to stop him from stabbing people and yet you stuck by him during that period. Wow. If you had any brain cells you would have left him ages ago. Can I ask what is it with you women and men who simply jump into marriages without taking the time to psychologically vet the person before hand. Marriages are no joke but nowadays people treat it like that. Now your playing the victim card but yet you aloud that crap to happen to you based on your insecure decisions. And unfortunately there many people like you. Hence the high divorce rates
@mohamedimohamedi8933
@mohamedimohamedi8933 3 года назад
Divorce is the legal which Allah hate it
@BasedYeeter42
@BasedYeeter42 3 года назад
Weak Hadith
@soheil527
@soheil527 3 года назад
@@BasedYeeter42 No, divorce is the only allowed sin alowed under certain conditions
@nasimakuji1164
@nasimakuji1164 3 года назад
@@soheil527 weak hadith
@just_janen_1196
@just_janen_1196 2 года назад
I promise you women don't usually ask for divorce very easily, if a woman wants a divorce it's usually for a good reason especially if her husband marries another wife. Personally someone like me I would leave immediately.
@md.shahadathossain8880
@md.shahadathossain8880 2 года назад
yeah,women are angel....
@shadowstorm5261
@shadowstorm5261 2 года назад
That's not a valid reason for divorce. You need a proper case.
@shadowstorm5261
@shadowstorm5261 2 года назад
That condition should be in your marriage contract and be made known to the person you are marrying. Otherwise you are committing a major sin
@osmbj1377
@osmbj1377 3 года назад
Jazack Allah khairan
@malikialgeriankabyleswag4200
@malikialgeriankabyleswag4200 3 года назад
A few days 😂😂🤦‍♂️ That's crazy lol
@salamkala14
@salamkala14 3 года назад
Hahahaha 😆 he is dumb if woman says divorce me don’t divorce her easily when u already divorced he she comes to her senses and cry 😢 you really divorced me ?.... 😳 I thought you wanted it !😡☹️
@letsniqab
@letsniqab 3 года назад
We used to hear people say, “Man up!” But really, these days, women have to “women up!” as prescribed by Qur’an and Sunnah. WOMEN: mothers, sisters, aunties! Empower your women don’t baby them. Don’t treat them like they’re still your 6 year old girl at home you literally still have to spoonfeed them. This happens in a lot of (backward) cultures that has nothing to do with Islam. And you show up in the court for her divorce next to her holding a box of Kleenex. No, you didn’t teach her how to do the dishes, you didn’t teach her how to cook, you didn’t teach her how to hold a broom! You supported her in her whims and smilingly followed her on tiktok and instagram liking her make up tutorials and hayah-less selfies! YOU DIDN’T TEACH HER HOW TO BECOME A SUCCESSFUL WIFE AND MOTHER HERSELF. This is a wake up call for the mothers raising daughters, women up! And Allah’s refuge is sought.
@ayeshapyesha7301
@ayeshapyesha7301 3 года назад
Let's also mention education too. Women are not just here to cook and use a broom. We are here to take our rights of ilm and to be protected and honoured by our brothers in Islam. Does that happen a lot of the time? Not really no. Sad, sad times we live in and the faults lie on both sides.
@absolutelynobody3837
@absolutelynobody3837 3 года назад
@@ayeshapyesha7301 What sort of education? PhD in gender studies? Hell no. Minimum Fard knowledge? Duh.
@ColonelFluffles
@ColonelFluffles 3 года назад
@@absolutelynobody3837 Well anything that ends with "studies"... Yeah... Fuck that
@mahboobliaquat8883
@mahboobliaquat8883 3 года назад
I don't know.... Is this happening mostly only in the West?
@ummamanaah5064
@ummamanaah5064 3 года назад
this is happening worldwide. few days ago I read a post that divorce in KSA had never been higher. You can google. what we are used to in the west that the woman works, drives a car, revolts against the man, they are not used in the middle east and africa, which makes them feel that they are married to a man, causing men to divorce their wives Allahu musta3aan ..
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
Nope. It's happening in east, west, north and south..... basically everywhere because of so called women empowerment.
@ColonelFluffles
@ColonelFluffles 3 года назад
@@juxtapositionMS Dajjal spreads the fitnah to women.
@nadiachennal3203
@nadiachennal3203 3 года назад
Did you have instagram?
@aymanus04
@aymanus04 3 года назад
Yes he has instagram
@emporioarmani8386
@emporioarmani8386 3 года назад
A Reminder is benficial for belvrs ..Udh khulooo fi silmi kaaafaa enter in islam completely or enter in islam fully meaning ur inside shud apear outside if laailaha illa Allah is in ur heart then muhammadurasulullah will apear on ur outside dress like nabi s.a.w adress people like how nabi s.a.w did dont do modesty.. there is no modesty in islam and also dont give daawaa when u dress is representing the western life style u have to represent nabi s.a.w dressing the worry the concern for the ummah ..ya ayuhaladhina Amaanu Aminuu kama amanan nas .
@mhamdxamax2423
@mhamdxamax2423 3 года назад
O'Brother Part of the reasons for divorce And this is the most important Hua a demon Take care of yourselves Read al-Kursi vrse Thousands of cases with the same shape And when it is treated It is different , say sister or brother ، That his heart began to hate his wife Or a husband , without reason Do not underestimate this -Demon is using magic And even visions show this Protect yourselves Read immunization , al-Kursi vrse Almoothin You will suffer، without them You are a believer You are being targeted Just fortify yourself
@ibnamanot
@ibnamanot 3 года назад
Lol funny thumbnail. 😆
@thatpakiguy3445
@thatpakiguy3445 2 года назад
All serious practicing Muslims here, do yourself a favour and go to a nice Muslim country and marry a pious sister and live there, listen to azan 5 times a day, go to the masjid which'll be just across the street ofcourse. Youll be 100x happier. And if you choose to ignore my advice and live and marry in the West just blame yourself when you end up divorced and she takes half of your money. Or maybe you dont end up divorcing but your kids are affected by the culture and one day your son comes home smelling like weed or you find out your daughter slept with a guy... just remember my words on that day.
@rajibhossain9918
@rajibhossain9918 3 года назад
Where does it say in the Quran that mahr or ujoor should be returned for khula?
@mahboobliaquat8883
@mahboobliaquat8883 3 года назад
Same place where it says you have to pray 5 times a day!
@rajibhossain9918
@rajibhossain9918 3 года назад
@@mahboobliaquat8883 send me Ayat...it's haram for the man to ask for the mahr or ujoor back
@begobolehsjwjangan2359
@begobolehsjwjangan2359 3 года назад
@@rajibhossain9918 no its not. fuck those blackwidows. literally and metaphorically. these blackwidows trend is rising due to the stupid SJW wahmen empowering bs culture. blackwidows: women who married only to get divorced, alimony, and child support which she would spend all of it on their lavish lifestyle while hunting another man to be divorced again. the child? she probably send her child to a child labor, no need to pay for daycare, she get money instead of losing money.
@realsoulja
@realsoulja 3 года назад
​@@rajibhossain9918 Surah Baqarah 229: Divorce is twice; then either to retain in all fairness, or to release nicely. It is not lawful for you to take back anything from what you have given them, unless both apprehend that they would not be able to maintain the limits set by Allah. Now, if you apprehend that they would not maintain the limits set by Allah, then, there is no sin on them in what she gives up to secure her release. These are the limits set by Allah. Therefore, do not exceed them. Whosoever exceeds the limits set by Allah, then, those are the transgressors.
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
@@rajibhossain9918 You know nothing. Get yourself some more education instead of arguing in YT comment section.
@Freedom_for_Palestina
@Freedom_for_Palestina 2 года назад
Talk about men who are cheating and do not lower their gaze,please. Tell at least your subscribers and veiwer and yourself that it is haram.discuss the solution f the problem ,SINCIRELY. Because you can talk numerous time about bads of women,until you better yourselves for the sake of Allah and your akhira,men , it is useless.
@shadowstorm5261
@shadowstorm5261 2 года назад
he does you idiot
@apexpredator2118
@apexpredator2118 3 года назад
Sheikh, I love you but I really think you need some oil for your beard 🙈🙈
@muhammad3490
@muhammad3490 3 года назад
Doc you didn't go there ... :) He has the natural Musa (AS) look.
@sarahm6267
@sarahm6267 3 года назад
@@muhammad3490 may I ask, what do you mean he has natural Musa ( as ) look ?
@MBounceLikeTigger
@MBounceLikeTigger 3 года назад
Salaam Alikum wa rahmatullah I understand that many women these days mistreat their husbands. I have seen it with my own eyes. As a woman, I have heard other women speak of how they will not give their husband their lawful rights and how they feel clever doing so. I would also like to say that not all women are like that and that I wish you would stop making all your videos about women and their faults 😂😂😂😂 you should understand that speaking in harsh and accusatory tones often instigate more troubles. Women have had their rights taken from them in many cultures and now they are hurting men in return with their newfound freedom. I know this is wrong. To be honest my kids are sleeping and I haven’t listened to you speak yet but I have seen several other videos and please brother just take it easy it would reach more sisters hearts that way.
@sf6510
@sf6510 3 года назад
@@frabgas27 if you come in with that angle, then you are bound to find what you expect. Just go in to marriage correctly (quran and sunnah). Don't listen to women/men hating propaganda.
@ayeshapyesha7301
@ayeshapyesha7301 3 года назад
Yes I agree. I subscribed to this channel as I find the brother speaks truth and I accept as a woman and as a human there are going to be things that are hard for me to hear. However, where's the videos on forced marriage? Forced expectations ie serving/slaving after the in laws at the expense of her own family? Wandering eyes of husbands who look elsewhere when their poor wife is ill or is vulnerable after having just given birth? I think a lot of the videos I have personally watched on here are great, very beneficial mashaallah. But much more needs to be said and touched upon.
@ayeshapyesha7301
@ayeshapyesha7301 3 года назад
Also, when men as a whole, abuse us, take our rights away, deny us certain things, force us to constantly sacrifice everything, you must know that women as a whole will rebel and that things will go very badly. Women are soft creatures and will love and serve and be content when they are treated fairly and kindly. When we are not, we turn on men. And this is the result these days. Women have had enough. And Allah knows best.
@ayeshapyesha7301
@ayeshapyesha7301 3 года назад
@@frabgas27 you need an education and a piece of tape over your mouth judging by other disgusting comments you've made on this channel. May Allah protect the females from you. Ameen.
@gizmanyonis3560
@gizmanyonis3560 3 года назад
@@ayeshapyesha7301 exactly the way the wife treats the husband is a reflection of how he treats her
@ankasomesan1986
@ankasomesan1986 3 года назад
Hé was bed in bed she didn’t want to live like that for a lifetime 😆
@shafiullahnoory2268
@shafiullahnoory2268 2 года назад
have some dignity.
@reezis1619
@reezis1619 2 года назад
@@shafiullahnoory2268 Nah, let her tell the truth. Would you rather want to live in your own bubble? This is how women think nowadays, most of them have multiple s partners before going into marriage and have ton of experience in bed, they can easily differ between an inexperienced man and experienced
@alpharays5768
@alpharays5768 2 года назад
That’s probably because she has tasted all type of men before going into marriage!.
@Aquacrystal78
@Aquacrystal78 3 года назад
I think advicing divorce is on the high,weither friends or counsellors. In addition for polygeny the guy has to be clear, if he wants to practice it or not and the number of polygenous relations he wants. The woman constructs her future life around him and polygeny is not the social norm of society.
@jubairomar2676
@jubairomar2676 3 года назад
Polygyny is Islamic norm. The Muslimah has to know she's marrying a Muslim and that he can take more wives at any point in his lives. That's his God-given right. If you have issues with it, then take it up with Allah SWT.
@cashrash432
@cashrash432 3 года назад
@@jubairomar2676 Polygyny is not a right. And islamically one should adhere to 'urf (social customs). Nowadays people discuss polygyny before marriage and if he swears that he will not take another wife while they're married then he is obligated to stick to that, or if he signs a marriage contract that has a polygyny clause, he should abide by it! Breaching a covenant (the nikkah) is a huge sin.
@jubairomar2676
@jubairomar2676 3 года назад
@@cashrash432 You're a joke!!
@cashrash432
@cashrash432 3 года назад
@@jubairomar2676 thank you for your compliment.
@Aquacrystal78
@Aquacrystal78 3 года назад
@@jubairomar2676 Allah has not Obligated a Muslim man to marry 4 women and has recommended he stick to only One, if he can't do justice.Fear Allah. Don't Say things about Allah which are not true.
@earthynomad7160
@earthynomad7160 3 года назад
This is very common in my country. Women asking for divorce in few months. Karma after years of mistreating women
@jubairomar2676
@jubairomar2676 3 года назад
Are you a disbeliever?Just asking cuz what kind of Muslim uses "karma" in the first place?
@livingjoke3083
@livingjoke3083 3 года назад
"Karma" for what? For what the sahaba and prophets did? For what the Saliheen did? For what the tabi'een did? For what the salaf did? Do you even listen to your weird comment? Wallahi this feminism is more destructive than all the LGBT, Right-wing islamophobia and what not.
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад
so you are a sexist and you don't even know it? hmmm!
@unolowmanta7508
@unolowmanta7508 3 года назад
@@livingjoke3083 there's no record of sahaba or the prophet mistreating their wives. Read properly!
@ColonelFluffles
@ColonelFluffles 3 года назад
"Karma after years of mistreating women" Girl, you need to go to therapy.
@centric145
@centric145 2 года назад
There is always a reason.
@shafiullahnoory2268
@shafiullahnoory2268 2 года назад
No. And other than none, stupidity is the reason of such divorces.
@centric145
@centric145 2 года назад
@@shafiullahnoory2268 indeed,such reasons exists.a man divorced his wife for disobeying him and not closing car door while he ordered her to .A woman divorced her husband on the grounds of lack of manners for not using fork while eating peas.But in both cases,I suppose that was more than they could bear, while for us the outsiders,sounds stupid.
@shafiullahnoory2268
@shafiullahnoory2268 2 года назад
@@centric145 If they couldn't bear such things then they are/were stupid.
@bunny9489
@bunny9489 2 года назад
Short and clear
@bunny9489
@bunny9489 2 года назад
@@centric145 hilarious 🤣🤣
@bunny9489
@bunny9489 2 года назад
be careful of advising MEN and women.. I agree with what he says, and it’s really both sides for both genders. I don’t wanna say men or women only, bcs it’s BOTH really. And it won’t be only women not allowed into Jannah if they play with men feelings. And what he said about husband marrying to another woman, yes you have full right to ask for divorce and it’s proven with Hadith when the daughter of the prophet didn’t want to be second wife when her husband (Ali) wanted to get one. The prophet told him that you either divorce my daughter and marry, or stay with her only and be happy together
@shadowstorm5261
@shadowstorm5261 2 года назад
what you said at the end was wrong: "And what he said about husband marrying to another woman, yes you have full right to ask for divorce and it’s proven with Hadith when the daughter of the prophet didn’t want to be second wife when her husband (Ali) wanted to get one. The prophet told him that you either divorce my daughter and marry, or stay with her only and be happy together" you are wrong that is not a reason for divorce and asking for it can lead to going to Jahannam since it is asking divorce without valid reason. Asking for divorce in this scenario can only be done if it was stipulated in the marriage contract. If it is not in the contract that is not a valid reason for divorce. you are twisting the hadith and not understanding it correctly. he told him to not marry because the daughter of the enemies of Islam cannot be co-wives. the reason he didn't allow it was because the father was the enemy of Islam. please learn and stop spreading misinformation. "Then after! I married one of my daughters to Abu Al-`As bin Al- Rabi` (the husband of Zainab, the daughter of the Prophet (PBUH) ) before Islam and he proved truthful in whatever he said to me. No doubt, Fatima is a part of me, I hate to see her being troubled. By Allah, the daughter of Allah's Messenger (PBUH) and the daughter of Allah's Enemy cannot be the wives of one man. So `Ali gave up that engagement. 'Al-Miswar further said: I heard the Prophet (PBUH) talking and he mentioned a son-in-law of his belonging to the tribe of Bani `Abd-Shams. He highly praised him concerning that relationship and said (whenever) he spoke to me, he spoke the truth, and whenever he promised me, he fulfilled his promise. I do not make a legal thing illegal, nor do I make an illegal thing legal, but by Allah, the daughter of Allah's Messenger (PBUH) and the daughter of the enemy of Allah, (i.e. Abu Jahl) can never get together (as the wives of one man) " {Related by Bukhari}."
@shadowstorm5261
@shadowstorm5261 2 года назад
please read the hadiths properly before speaking. it is a major sin to spread false information
@bunny9489
@bunny9489 2 года назад
@@shadowstorm5261 🖕take your comment and jump from somewhere 😂I don’t care about your opinion. StupAd
@shadowstorm5261
@shadowstorm5261 2 года назад
@@bunny9489 you are clearly uneducated. It also shows me you are not practicing at all. So disgusting
@9mhdf194
@9mhdf194 3 года назад
First!
@farhiyaa4880
@farhiyaa4880 3 года назад
A women can ask for divorce when husband wants 2nd wife. A muslim man can be polygamous in Islam- but alot of time it's the way it's done. A women has a choice if she wants to participate or not...it cant be forced or manipulated onto the women. Most women hate polygamy= men hate divorce. Polygamy is an option allowed in Islam...not a requirement.
@abuyusuf8188
@abuyusuf8188 3 года назад
It is a requirement and a need for the Ummah.
@shadowstorm5261
@shadowstorm5261 2 года назад
a woman can't divorce unless it's in the marriage contract
@eysanhatun652
@eysanhatun652 3 года назад
mind you own buisiness and don't act like you know what every women wants or knowing the guy. he said she said get a life
@kaz9242
@kaz9242 3 года назад
Every Islamic Video has some trolls in the comment section
@vibes6255
@vibes6255 3 года назад
I’m divorcing my husband if he takes a second wife 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’ll just put the condition in the marriage contract Edit: warning ⚠️ 80% of the men below are incel woman hating half men, read at ur own risk
@abu-bakr9604
@abu-bakr9604 3 года назад
As a man I’ll never sign such document. No man wants to deal with a woman giving ultimatums. Doing or saying something like that further highlights your true character. If the man didn’t force you to sign a document why should you?
@abu-bakr9604
@abu-bakr9604 3 года назад
@@Joseph-qb1es that’s right my Brother. Preach!
@vibes6255
@vibes6255 3 года назад
@@abu-bakr9604 that’s fine for u but I won’t be marrying a man like u no offence. Men make women sign prenups all the time if they are wealthy. And marriage contracts are for both ppl anyway (so he can add something if he wants I’m happy with that) perfectly Islamic and allowed. Better to know up front then to get heart broken down the road right?
@vibes6255
@vibes6255 3 года назад
@@Joseph-qb1es i know lol but it allows me to have divorce as I would have a reason , he could do it but immediate divorce from me.
@OromoAkh
@OromoAkh 3 года назад
@@vibes6255 you are talking about marriage when you don’t even have a husband 🤦🏾‍♂️
@OromoAkh
@OromoAkh 3 года назад
If the man cannot hit it good then his wife is looking elsewhere divorce in one week 😱.
@alpharays5768
@alpharays5768 2 года назад
A girl that haven’t tasted it elsewhere won’t have issue learning together with her virgin husband. Just saying
@yasminenazarine1629
@yasminenazarine1629 3 года назад
If men have feeling for another women devorce his wife why not women cant divorce husband 🤔 We don't live in old centurys men work women stays taking care of chiidrens family in-law family 🧐😳 I can't judge divorce marriage but no feelings love can't abuse force sex with spouses 🤔 If men have freedom women samething 🤔 I've seen not good marriage of family but in family way too much no reason to be divorce 🤔
@nacereddinesitouah8780
@nacereddinesitouah8780 3 года назад
first, your english is all over the place secondly no body is saying if a man have feelings for another women, he can't divorce his wife... simply that kind of love is forbidden we are not judging any one, the brother is just giving advice to you and me and other muslims. And if you think men working and women taking care of the house is an out of date way of thinking, you really need to learn more about life and your religion.
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
So you think you live in a better century than the prophet (pbuh) had lived? What you are saying is just those liberal stupid's idea. We as Muslims are different than those men women equality advocates. In our culture women have to stay at home and take care of the children where men have to go outside to earn for his wives and children. It's old but it's correct.
@yasminenazarine1629
@yasminenazarine1629 3 года назад
@@juxtapositionMS that was old days 🧐😳 Today's not many men feed their kids family today's men like women they living on women living or on wailfare living in West in America wether Moslems or none Moslems men is men don't matter what race color country relegions they all same 🧐😳 those live in rich western country some not man no pride no honor 🤔 I don't talk about men time of prophet mohemed 🤗
@yasminenazarine1629
@yasminenazarine1629 3 года назад
@@juxtapositionMS come in West in america see it yourself those loser of every relegions every race color 🤍🖤🤎💜💙💚💛🧡👈
@yasminenazarine1629
@yasminenazarine1629 3 года назад
@Send Newds same as women don't you see women on the street in beach in park everywhere all race color young middle age even old same thing men do women do as well but wheres pride of men not men feed their kids their family 🧐😳 Where honor of women for pleasure of sex 🧐😳🤔 Today's men sex more than many women most of them not men to feed their kids their family 🤔 Men sex hundreds women their family living on wailfars they have no connection of their family they living women pakets wife or girlfriends money house 🧐😳🤔
@iahmed1400
@iahmed1400 3 года назад
The easiest solution is not to get married in the first place. I wont.
@unknowninvisible2519
@unknowninvisible2519 3 года назад
Then what's your solution if you have desires but don't wanna married?
@raghebalkayyali6609
@raghebalkayyali6609 3 года назад
@@unknowninvisible2519Patience better than being slave, in Islam women can't divorce the man, she get divorced or breaking by paying, because the man owns the wife, but in this system there's no guarantee for a man in the relationship, so a better solution is stay single.
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 3 года назад
@@raghebalkayyali6609 except their are billions of people who do it right, the problem can be due to a lack fo faith or bad cluture of selfishness... men are leaders because they maintain safety but arguably women have more rights in detail.
@raghebalkayyali6609
@raghebalkayyali6609 3 года назад
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 I'm not saying there are no good women, there are, but again there is no guarantee for the man. Responsibility without authority is slavery. If I'm responsible then I should get authority, not being under the women mood. And if the system gives authority for the women to divorce the husband whatever she likes, then even if she's a good woman and obeyed me that's out of her goodness not because I have authority. And her obedience should be both, out of man authority and out of goodness, otherwise if she deviates man wouldn't be able to straighten her up. So better to stay single
@ColonelFluffles
@ColonelFluffles 3 года назад
@@raghebalkayyali6609 exactly, she would naturally lose respect for you if you don't have the authority. I'll remember: "Responsibility without authority is slavery".
@rajibhossain9918
@rajibhossain9918 3 года назад
She should have just dated the guy
@rajibhossain9918
@rajibhossain9918 3 года назад
@Black Roses not really...she would be his mulk Al yameen in that case
@mohammedsalmanshaikh4041
@mohammedsalmanshaikh4041 3 года назад
This dating thing i have first time heard...how is it halal...what if fornication takes place..not allowed it seems.
@ummerfarooq5383
@ummerfarooq5383 3 года назад
"O men! the unbelievers indulge in tampering with the calendar in order to make permissible that which Allah forbade, and to prohibit what Allah has made permissible. With Allah the months are twelve in number. Four of them are holy, there are sucessive and one occurs singly between the months of Jumada and Shaban." "Beware of Satan, for the safety of your religion. He has lost all hope that he will be able to lead you astray in big things so beware of following him in small things." The Last Sermon Of Prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) This sermon was delivered on the Ninth day of Dhul-Hijjah, 10 A.H. ( 623AD) in the Uranah valley of Mount Arafat in Mecca. It was the occasion of annual rites of Haj. It is also known as the Farewell Pilgrimage. After praising and thanking Allah the Prophet (p.b.u.h.) began with the words: "O People! Lend me an attentive ear, for I know not whether after this year I shall ever be amongst you again. Therefore, listen carefully to what I am saying and take these words to those who could not be present here today." "O People! just as you regard this month, this day ,this city as sacred ,so regard the life and property of every Muslim a sacred trust. Return the goods entrusted to you to their rightful owners. Hurt no one so that no one may hurt you. Remember that you will indeed meet your Lord, and that he will indeed reckon your deeds." "Allah has forbidden you to take usury, therefore all interest obligation shall henceforth be waived. Your capital is yours to keep .You will neither inflict nor suffer any inequality. Allah has judged that there shall be no interest and that all interest due to Abbas Ibn 'Aal-Muttalib be waived." "Every right arising out of homicide in pre-Islamic days is henceforth waived and the first such right that I waive is that arising from the murder of Rabiah ibni al-Harithiah." "O men! the unbelievers indulge in tampering with the calendar in order to make permissible that which Allah forbade, and to prohibit what Allah has made permissible. With Allah the months are twelve in number. Four of them are holy, there are sucessive and one occurs singly between the months of Jumada and Shaban." "Beware of Satan, for the safety of your religion. He has lost all hope that he will be able to lead you astray in big things so beware of following him in small things." "O People it is true that you have certain rights with regard to your women but they also have rights over you. Remember that you have taken them as your wives only under Allah's trust and with His permission. If they abide by your right then to them belongs the right to be fed and clothed in kindness. Do treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers. And it is your right that they do not make friends with any one of whom you do not approve, as well never to be unchaste." "O People! listen to me in earnest, worship Allah, say your five daily prayers, fast during month of Ramadan, and give your wealth in Zakat .Perform Haj if you can afford it." "All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; also a White has no superiority over a Black nor a Black has any superiority over a White except by piety and good action. Learn that every Muslim is a brother to every Muslim and that the Muslims constitute one brotherhood. Nothing shall be legitimate to a Muslim which belongs to a fellow Muslim unless it was given freely and willingly." "Do not therefore do injustice to yourselves. Remember one day you will meet Allah and answer your deeds. So beware, do not astray from the path of righteousness after I am gone." "O People! No Prophet or apostle will come after me and no new faith will be born. Reason well, therefore O People! and understand words that I convey to you. I leave behind me two things, the Quran and the Sunnah and if you follow these you will never go astray." "All those who listen to me shall pass on my words to others and those to others again; and may the last ones understand my words better than those who listen to me directly." "O Allah, be my witness, that I have conveyed your message to Your people." As part of this sermon, the prophet recited to them a revelation from Allah, which he had just received, and which completed the Quran, for it was the last passage to be revealed: This day the disbeliever's despair of prevailing against your religion, so fear them not, but fear Me (Allah)! This day have I perfected for you, your religion and fulfilled My favor unto you, and it hath been My good pleasure to choose Islam for you as your religion. (Surah 5, Ayah 3) The sermon was repeated sentence by sentence by Safwan's brother Rabiah (RA), who had powerful voice, at the request of the Prophet and he faithfully, proclaimed to over ten thousand gathered on the occasion. Towards the end of his sermon, the Prophet asked "O people, have I faithfully delivered unto you my message?" A powerful murmur of assents "O Allah! yes!"arose from thousands of pilgrims and the vibrant words "Allahumma Na'm," rolled like thunder throughout the valley. The Prophet raised his forefinger and said: "O Allah bear witness that I have conveyed your message to your people."
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
@@rajibhossain9918 Who the hell are you? Are you even a Muslim?? saying all the weird stuff that go against the ruling of Islam.
@rajibhossain9918
@rajibhossain9918 3 года назад
@@juxtapositionMS if she dated him the guy wouldn't have been in this mess
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