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0:00 intro
0:16 Men and women cannot just be friends
5:39 I would date someone I do not find physically attractive
8:25 Cheating is the worst thing my partner could do to me
14:03 Monogamy is overrated
22:05 I would date someone in this room

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@lionoaksimba2154 5 месяцев назад

i HATE the notion of just friends. friendships are so important to me and i think people overvalue sex so much

@_MrsPuff 5 месяцев назад

That is soooo based. Platonic relationships are often downplayed because there always has to be “something more”.

@VoVina111 5 месяцев назад

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 I hate that society treats not having sex as in you love the person less. Friendships can be JUST as strong without the condition of sex

@aaunyea4799 5 месяцев назад

Yesss it's so annoying!

@Nikki-lh1tu 5 месяцев назад

OH MY GOSH SAME 😭

@Random-sk6hm 5 месяцев назад

Fr people are so sex obsessed and can't seem to fathom liking people for who they are platonically. Friends are so important in dealing with life's stresses

@omnium_gatherum 5 месяцев назад

"So you would break up a family because of getting cheated on" is the wildest form of victim blaming. Like, no, the one who cheats is the one who breaks the vow they made to their spouse in order to get married in the first place. The one who cheats is the one who breaks up the family from the inside.

@avalonstout1490 5 месяцев назад

This is exactly how I felt when I heard that. Would she be saying the same thing about other forms of emotional abuse too? I’m guessing she’s saying this because she is a cheater.

@dontwanadisplaynameonutube2951 5 месяцев назад

And an abuser.@@avalonstout1490

@TheCuteSpacePyro 5 месяцев назад

Exactly! I would rather leave a cheating partner and keep the co-parenting. The moment she said that breaking up the family would lead a child “to the pole” made since like… wouldn’t staying in the relationship also teach your children that cheating is okay wtf

@Smokeyjoekys 5 месяцев назад

Sounds to me like she’s a cheater who’s A) already needed to fabricate and use these excuses, or B) has prepared for the day when she WILL need to use them

@stephentyler4352 5 месяцев назад

I don’t think that the woman in the red sparkling dress has thought through her point about “breaking up the family over a one time indiscretion.” Perhaps she’s had her ex partners use this excuse on her in the past. In any event it comes across as victim blaming. I see it as a form of compartmentalization of infidelity used to give the cheater(s) a free pass. Nobody is perfect. She has some room for growth in my opinion.

@kerstinsartory8995 5 месяцев назад

Maren is thoughtful and well-spoken. It made me want to listen to her way more than Janelle, for example, who was just firing strong opinions out there without even considering the standpoints of others.

@kairu5607 5 месяцев назад

💯

@strawbemoji 5 месяцев назад

Agreed! I like that her answers were based on how she feels herself, too, and he wasn't trying to push or force her opinions onto the group.

@coverproject6702 5 месяцев назад

She only made more disclaimers and was more of a relativist, but not surprising

@Jack48766 5 месяцев назад

From my perspective, Janelle did consider the standpoints of others, but decided to stick with her own beliefs, which is perfectly justified.

@chrislive1586 5 месяцев назад

Maren and Asher were my favorites! Down to earth, realistic, and open to others opinions.

@jillsarah7356 5 месяцев назад

Kian is EVERYTHING. Comfortable with vulnerability, respectful of his gf, great sense of humor, great energy!!!

@1000OtherFoxes 5 месяцев назад

Interesting...As a woman he is a complete turn off! Way too much feminine energy.

@draincatYT 5 месяцев назад

He has his heart ripped out 4 months ago to the point where he has to "rebuild from 0 and is incapable of self love" but he's already in a committed relationship? 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

@shamuswiser4941 5 месяцев назад

buddy is definitely gay💀💀

@lukeklo 5 месяцев назад

@@draincatYT no?

@johannliebert2870 5 месяцев назад

@@draincatYTwhat are you yapping about?

@weirdworldsiena 5 месяцев назад

As a female with divorced parents I can confirm I am not on the stripper pole Edit: wait I’m genuinely impressed by how many people truly believe that girls of divorced parents who aren’t in sex work are some kind of anomaly or outlier lol.

@whatrtheodds 5 месяцев назад

As a female with divorced parents I can confirm I was. 😅

@Imnotchay 5 месяцев назад

I think it was so rude of her to imply all kids with divorced parents end up on the pole 😀

@Random-sk6hm 5 месяцев назад

@@Imnotchay According to her logic, 50% of all children would end up becoming strippers 💀

@Random-sk6hm 5 месяцев назад

@FellThrew More likely maybe, but it's not a guarantee of anything the way the woman made it out to be. 50% of all marriages end in divorce and most children end up just fine.

@weirdworldsiena 5 месяцев назад

@FellThrew The implication was clear, but there’s a way she could’ve worded it that would’ve been less crude lol

@joakkim2642 5 месяцев назад

So a bisexual person can't have friends? Just because you might feel like having a friend of the opposite gender doesn't work for you, that does not mean you can dismiss any other such friendship.

@sasori7054 5 месяцев назад

I'm bi and friendships with my own gender is still easier then with the opposite gender. It's probably evolution making us want to appease the opposite gender regardless of sexuality.

@HappyPlace-qq2it 5 месяцев назад

I'm bi but friendships with same sex is definitely easier for me. Evolution is probably the reason for wanting to appease the opposite sex regardless of sexuality.

@shoka_01 5 месяцев назад

@@HappyPlace-qq2itbut I’m bi and friendships with the opposite sex definitely come easier for me! I have many guy friends, but it’s harder to make guy friends than girl friends. Everyone’s experience is different.

@violett874 5 месяцев назад

@@HappyPlace-qq2it Be careful making evolutionary arguments to fit your personal anecdotes, they're usually dead wrong

@tyyt2146 5 месяцев назад

I wouldn't date a bi

@holisticmaya 5 месяцев назад

The guy who talked about being catfished is sooo expressive with his arms 😂😂 I’ve never seen someone not just talk with their hands but lift their whole arms like that 😂 nothing wrong with it I just loved seeing it haha

@facewednesday 5 месяцев назад

My ex told me I move my arms a lot when I speak, and I never realized how much I do until watching this episode 😂, glad you enjoyed it though 🙌🏾

@holisticmaya 5 месяцев назад

@@facewednesday keep being yourself and don’t change it! It makes listening to you even more captivating haha

@facewednesday 5 месяцев назад

@@holisticmaya 🤎♥️

@h3llboyyy407 5 месяцев назад

Ngl bro lowkey adorable for them gestures 😭

@mgs85 5 месяцев назад

Go to Italy. An entire country where people cannot talk without moving their arms at all times.

@jimenacat 4 месяца назад

The stank eyes that were given to Janelle crack me up 😭😭😭

@noahverstynen8091 5 месяцев назад

The statement “we know that relationships get worse not better” is crazy

@LilReezy_1437 5 месяцев назад

...But true. I think, what she meant by that is: When someone shows you who they are, belive 'em. Like, don't be out here dating a fantasy.

@Random-sk6hm 5 месяцев назад

It was honestly sad to hear. I wonder who hurt her.

@meda_marwein 5 месяцев назад

I think what she meant was the physical attraction one. Relationships that started out from sex, do not really end well. They get worse.

@mariettamay 5 месяцев назад

i think she meant that the more you get to know each other, the more conflicts are going to arise. at first you're in that honeymoon phase ignoring all the red flags but when it comes down to it, your partner has to communicate clearly and that takes a lot of work.

@SHINeeismydrugXP 5 месяцев назад

For me it was the opposite, first year...confusing af, fourth year, just look at each other and understand.

@yuhloic 5 месяцев назад

people who think a boy and girl are dating just cause they’re friends is so childish

@luckirye 5 месяцев назад

Sadly that's a lot of men's motive for being women's friends, so they'll project the way they view it onto others friendships.

@karinaamadu1235 5 месяцев назад

exactly

@mirayoon1992 5 месяцев назад

yeah😒

@Frietoe 5 месяцев назад

They didn’t say that tho

@Dizzydawne 5 месяцев назад

@@yuhloicyou just said it

@janaijackson4455 5 месяцев назад

My mom leaving my disloyal father while having 5 kids was the best thing she could have ever done for our family and very hard for her but now everyone of her children respect her so much and we would do ANYTHING for her. She showed us what self worth really looks like ❤ Relationships are 2 people working on themselves and working hard together, you don’t have that… it all falls apart!

@andrealiu5106 Месяц назад

period!

@k1tty15 19 дней назад

same but just two kids w my mum

@lanaanne7751 8 дней назад

Exactly!! Staying with a cheater shows your children that it’s fine to let your partner disrespect you, which it isn’t.

@GalaxyPanda94 5 месяцев назад

"You'd break up a family because you got cheated on?" WTF that's victim blaming. The cheater ALREADY broke the family. Damage is done. Staying is the worst thing to do and it indirectly teaches your kids that it's OK to cheat and it's OK to stay in a BAD RELATIONSHIP. That leads to so much stress and depression and mental illnesses and bottling up emotions and basically nothing positive.

@olasanya2243 5 месяцев назад

The audacity of Janelle trying to shame stripping while dressed like that is mind blowing

@pwetty4r4 5 месяцев назад

Exactly!!! Wtf??

@haydesofspades9189 5 месяцев назад

FR.

@Albert_YTC 5 месяцев назад

She wasn’t dressed as a stripper tho

@bw2532 5 месяцев назад

@@Albert_YTC She was dressed like many a burlesque stripper. It's on brand for her once you look at her channel.

@Random-sk6hm 5 месяцев назад

FR. Like who's gonna tell her? 😭

@yeahhobbs 5 месяцев назад

This shoulda been a middle ground episode

@AliAlaradi-db4wy 5 месяцев назад

It wouldn't have worked tho, cuz both groups (assuming men and women) have conflicting views within each other

@niya1761 5 месяцев назад

This isn't a controversial topic. Can't be in middle ground

@daniel_kale 5 месяцев назад

@NotVille_My local crackhead is more interesting than your videos.

@user-ku4jr6qj3o 5 месяцев назад

What would the two sides be?

@dan4606 5 месяцев назад

@@user-ku4jr6qj3omen vs women

@sofienummers 5 месяцев назад

"We are just people and people can be friends" Loved that Kian, totally agree

@conforzo 5 месяцев назад

No we are not. That's like saying we are just mammals and mammals can love one another and therefore the tiger won't eat you. We are people, gender, sex, culture, etc, everything here plays in.

@jazminejabbers 5 месяцев назад

agree!

@fidboi2715 5 месяцев назад

Well considering you are pansexual, it explains why you don't understand how this is actually true for the typical person. Someone's sex, at least for the typical heterosexual, is a key part of what they are and it changes a lot. Maybe you don't get it, but all of us heterosexuals know deep down something is very different with someone of the opposite sex.

@sofienummers 5 месяцев назад

Like you said, for me, it's different, so that's why I liked what he said! It might be harder for me to understand the other side bc I am pansexual, but I do get how some heterosexual people might not agree that you can be friends with the opposite sex. Which is a shame to me, but if someone can't, I'll understand and accept that 😊

@fidboi2715 5 месяцев назад

@@sofienummers based response and I agree tbh. Other then colleagues at school I personally feel like I couldn't be friends with a girl, also because I'm very picky with friends. So if a girl meets the boxes to be my friend, it probably also means she has the personality for me to fall in love. In school I can only really do it because I know I don't like them because they have habits that I don't respect or want in a partner, but even then Ican't help but think about what if...

@fa6534 5 месяцев назад

The Christian guy and girl should please send us updates on how their next date went. Basically, update

@ethanbarlukianov5682 Месяц назад

Yesssss

@sedonajones 5 месяцев назад

i miss the "slightly agree" and "slightly disagree" options. I feel it allows for more nuance and personalization/humanity for the discussions

@brfreddy 5 месяцев назад

I bet they did it so people were closer to the camera.

@ava1772 5 месяцев назад

oh wow i didn't even realize they took the slightly agree & disagree away... wonder why they did it

@TazerGames 5 месяцев назад

Well, each one explains it in detail, so, no point in it

@Nooticus 5 месяцев назад

Yes please

@brookekilgore5937 5 месяцев назад

Yes! If I was on there I’d likely use those a lot bc while I tend to lens more one way on these answers I often have at least some exceptions etc

@carlton0124 5 месяцев назад

13:30 there is nothing worse for a child than the mindset of “force yourself to stay together for the child”

@whitedeion598 5 месяцев назад

My niece and nephew got out of control as soon as my sister got divorced. My nephew died at 19, and my niece is 22 and has no semblance of responsibility. I can see how breaking up the family affected them

@Galaxylion_omega 5 месяцев назад

@@whitedeion598do you think it was the break up or the parents only being together cause they birthed you?

@whitedeion598 5 месяцев назад

@@Galaxylion_omega having the parents split up gave them freedom to be completely out of control. Within a month my nephew was in trouble with the law and my niece started doing drugs. My sister was so focused on being their friend that she just started making excuses for them

@spacepope87 4 месяца назад

But she also mentioned you need to get to the root of the issue.

@chrishansen8119 4 месяца назад

⁠@@whitedeion598… no, a divorce doesn’t “give kids the freedom to be out of control,” It kind of sounds like they just had bad parents. Divorce can be an incredibly hard thing for a child, but to say it was the divorce that caused your nephew and nieces issues is very clearly over looking a lot of problems both before and after said divorce.

@patrickhodson8715 5 месяцев назад

As a Christian myself, I’m really surprised the Christian said men and women can’t be just friends. Like, are you not friends with women from your church? Your pastor’s wife? The women in your small group? Your wife’s friends? I don’t get it at all. But then I’m also mostly aromantic, so who knows

@coverproject6702 5 месяцев назад

You don't allow yourself to get inappropriately close because you know you are fallible and shouldn't be tempting yourself, same as why you don't stare at their a$zes when they bend over or whatever.

@Yourworstnightmare03 5 месяцев назад

I think it all comes down to what you consider “a friend”. To me, the people are church are not friends but more so family. You don’t date family. But again, just how I see it/how I was raised in the church.

@anthill1510 5 месяцев назад

If somebody says they are not able to be friends with the opposite sex they are basically saying the only value they see in half of the population is their fuckability. Pretty strange thing to be proud of as a christian.

@idkyolox 5 месяцев назад

As a christian aswell men and women can definitely be Friends

@RyanGrenz 5 месяцев назад

You definitely can be “friends” but it’s the “you can’t be alone in a room together”, especially for a longer period of time. I think that’s where that guy was coming from

@emilym.217 5 месяцев назад

I need Luke and Feenix to date asap! It’s also really funny to me that we saw more chemistry on a spectrum episode then on a dating episode 😂

@amlaaaa479 10 дней назад

Luke picks a very differently looking girl for dating on a Nectar episode.

@jeromeanthony7682 5 месяцев назад

I like the dude who kept changing his mind, bro was actually listening to what people were saying and thinking hard on it

@Comeback180 5 месяцев назад

He was hilarious switching back and forth of the sides.

@facewednesday 5 месяцев назад

I'm glad you enjoyed it ! I'm very open minded and I actively think when asked questions, so I try to respond based off my thoughts and experiences in that moment rather than maintain a concrete stance in a subject.

@herroyung857 5 месяцев назад

@@facewednesday I love your mindset. I think no one is entitled to a strong opinion unless they've thought about the topic at length, so I'd be just like you for some of these questions. Most people have egos and hate thinking their opinions are wrong, so it's rare seeing people like you.

@facewednesday 5 месяцев назад

@@herroyung857 I'm a thinker, so I like to look at everything from multiple angles. Long as it makes sense I'll stand my ground, but if something switches up my perspective, I've got no problem adapting either. Glad you enjoyed the episode 🙌🏾

@silverseen8300 5 месяцев назад

@@facewednesdayur amazing dude!!

@chraz44 5 месяцев назад

Jubilee needs to bring back the a slightly agree/disagree line. It added more nuance to the conversation.

@Random-sk6hm 5 месяцев назад

@Stromschlag08 5 месяцев назад

Fr why did they took it of tho?

@StickNik 5 месяцев назад

They add nuance by talking about it after, I think it had the potential to just be more of a cop out than anything.

@Summ1t_0 5 месяцев назад

Agree

@madelinemackie4883 5 месяцев назад

I wanna give Kian a hug, he seems so genuine and sweet, I hope he grows his self love for himself because if I lived in America I'd wanna be friends with him!!!

@Outcaaast 5 месяцев назад

he was the sweetest

@noire9601 4 месяца назад

just friends eh?😒🤥

@Lilfreshy505 4 месяца назад

@@noire9601lol! It’s not impossible 😌😉

@laurenmcgovern2767 3 месяца назад

I totally understand why/see that he has lots of female friends! I wonder if they’ve helped him become a sweet sensitive person or if they just sensed he was that way from the get to :)

@debbyo8562 5 месяцев назад

The girl wearing the red corset and pearl necklace is so beautiful the outfit is gorgeous

@nathanielplacide4119 5 месяцев назад

Jessica Rabbit is kinda confusing, first instance you agree that women and men can't have platonic friendships because there will always be an underlying attraction, doesn't that go against the instance of not dating someone you don't find attractive in the cases if they are platonic friends?

@blossombean1164 5 месяцев назад

STOP NOT JESSICA RABBIT IKEMDKDMEKDKDKDMD

@ShinigamiXL_ 5 месяцев назад

I don't think they picked the best sample of people for this debate...

@nathanielplacide4119 5 месяцев назад

@@ShinigamiXL_ Her arguments always fall apart and no one really challenges them.

@ShinigamiXL_ 5 месяцев назад

@@nathanielplacide4119 problem is with jubilee, is they invite social media influencers to debate on things they clearly don’t have the intellect or argumentative ability for

@equinoxwb1367 5 месяцев назад

they took 3 religious people , obviously they didn't pick the best sample of people lmao@@ShinigamiXL_

@Kpop_Kore 5 месяцев назад

I had a feeling that the 2 religious people would click, I was pleasantly surprised by the final question and their answers! Edit: sentence mistake

@mar-cl2gg 5 месяцев назад

Hey i really have to know if they ended up together!!!!!!!???

@mitchellscheer677 5 месяцев назад

Why can't they bring them to represent the Christians lol

@claff4573 5 месяцев назад

they were cringe

@miltonrubiojr2610 5 месяцев назад

@@claff4573you’re hating 😭

@VoVina111 5 месяцев назад

Same. I could tell when they stood next to each other and smiled at each other in agreement half way through

@shushusworld4952 5 месяцев назад

Aww the 2 Christians were the cutest! It was great to see our beliefs and values represented in a positive way. The last question had me smiling so muchhh 🫶🏽

@fliesinthesugarbowlshooflyshoo 5 месяцев назад

Amen 🙏 ☺️

@armaniselland4691 5 месяцев назад

Me two no lie was shipping them and when the last question popped up my jaw hit the floor😂😂😂

@electric336 5 месяцев назад

I agree. I want to know if they exchanged contact information afterwards.

@shushusworld4952 5 месяцев назад

@@electric336 me too! they were so cute 😂

@h3llboyyy407 5 месяцев назад

Ngl christian romance >>>

@KingDeadMan 5 месяцев назад

3:00 Knowing that Kian grew up similarly to myself, as in, being closer with women than other men & still being completely straight is reassuring. I'm not worried about my sexuality or any part of my masculinity, I'm just glad there are people who view things from the same perspective that I do. 😌👍

@nathansharma1667 5 месяцев назад

Janelle is so sex obsessed holy… she treats sex so casually and expects other people to have that same worldview inherently for some reason. Like to argue that a relationship can be maintained following a partner cheating on them because it’s just “giving in to the cardinal flesh” is wild. Cheating is more than just an act. For her argument to have any bearing in reality, then talking about problems in a relationship could not be a viable option before committing the act of cheating. There are more moral options that precede cheating.

@daliam8715 5 месяцев назад

I'm pretty sure she's a sex coach or something like that. She was on Middle Ground before. She's really.. strange. Used odd language that makes men seem like actual animals.

@AnOrginalUser 5 месяцев назад

Yea and look at how she’s objectifying here self

@WildRabiea 5 месяцев назад

I think at some point she was hurt and justified this behavior as something she could control. Cheating partner is something that destroys your self esteem, some build it up understanding that it's not their fault, some blame themselves. But it's okay to see different perspectives, opinions form from experience and surrounding opinions.

@Player-pj9kt 5 месяцев назад

She was another video and I believe she is a human trafficking survivor so maybe that's why

@d2cbro 5 месяцев назад

I feel so sorry for her. It must be so lonely living life like that

@VoVina111 5 месяцев назад

I liked that this group had a wide range of perspectives and weren't afraid of standing alone or having an unpopular opinion. They discussed maturely and respectfully which is rare these days

@anna.owo. 5 месяцев назад

Cheating is not the worst thing a partner can do to you, physically, emotional and economical abuse are far worse.

@amel4382 5 месяцев назад

That’s subjective

@ferretsnax 2 месяца назад

also, cheating CAN be both emotional and finacial abuse

@firsttimeisawjupiter1031 2 месяца назад

@@ferretsnaxBut is not the worst thing. Talk to women and the children of those women who have suffered from domestic abuse, better yet, talk to people who's partner has abused her/his kids. Cheating would be preferable in those situations

@jamesshepard3 5 месяцев назад

People need to be okay with the idea that you can love and be intimate with friends. You can feel deep love and connection to someone without needing/wanting to be in a relationship with them or have sex.

@Mannequeer 5 месяцев назад

The people who agreed that men and women cannot just be friends forgot that not all men and women are heterosexual. Most of my friends are female, I'm not interested in anything but a platonic friendship with them. Also, not all gay men are feminine (just like not all straight men are masculine) so I don't know where Janelle was going with that point.

@MusicFreak61594 5 месяцев назад

I think everyone was thinking about men and women who were attracted to the opposite sex

@Iquren 5 месяцев назад

like imagine what happens to all the bi/pan people? we get no friends because we are attracted to all genders? the logic doesnt hold up

@luckirye 5 месяцев назад

Most of these people who disagree have never had an opportunity to be friends with the opposite gender in the first place.

@kindallnight1615 5 месяцев назад

@MusicFreak61594 still applies I terms of masculine and feminine presenting in both genders, not always aligning

@oliviascarlet123 5 месяцев назад

@@MusicFreak61594are you attracted to every person of the opposite sex you see in public?

@n3llybean 5 месяцев назад

So if you're gay is it impossible to have platonic friendships with the same sex? NO. This pretty much sums up how ridiculous it is that men and women cant be just friends

@luckirye 5 месяцев назад

They're gonna say "but it's different." If you can't possibly be friends with another person for the way they were born YOURE the problem in why that is.

@ShinigamiXL_ 5 месяцев назад

What does being gay have to do with the argument? It has to do with unreciprocated attraction.

@nathanieltrinidad5880 5 месяцев назад

@@ShinigamiXL_bro you could be a whole daddy six pack and a bottom would still be mature to understand + respect boundaries

@ShinigamiXL_ 5 месяцев назад

@@nathanieltrinidad5880 I don't understand what your point is here?

@lildel7698 5 месяцев назад

Nobody cares about gay they’re talking about most relationships

@avalonstout1490 5 месяцев назад

“Relationships get worse not better” is incredibly untrue. I’ve been in a relationship for 6 years and never felt that way. Things are hard sometimes but the more I get to know him the more I have to love, and it’s always getting better over time.

@jessw02 5 месяцев назад

the fact that people genuinely believe that men and women can't just be friends is crazy to me

@Tomodance33 5 месяцев назад

Well it's a nuanced topic, I don't want to go all jordan peterson but it depends on what you really mean by friends and what qualifies as friends

@MalphasMikaelson 3 месяца назад

It's definitely difficult for straight men and women though to be truly friends without expecting or hoping anything else happens. Typically I feel the guy would need to be more attractive than the girl in order to have a better success rate at just being 100% friends. It would be incredibly surprising to me if a guy has a female friend who is attractive that he wouldn't hope in the back of his mind that he gets to sleep with her. Women have a much easier access to sex so they wouldn't really need to rely on their friend to get it.

@crissy4445 2 месяца назад

Seriously, like they’ve only spoken to like 5 people in their whole life lmao

@sto1238 2 месяца назад

Think about this: does your mother have male friends? I’d guess probably no cuz mine doesn’t and my dad doesn’t have any female friends either

@Justin-xu6vo 29 дней назад

I genuinely believe it because that has been my experience my whole life. I've tried, I really have tried to just be friends with women. Every. Single. Time. Either I eventually get attracted to them or they get attracted to me and because of it we stop being friends. This has happened to me over 10 times in my life. I will never be convinced it is possible. Someone ALWAYS has it in the back of their mind, whether they want to admit it or not.

@gamingkillerkroc6682 5 месяцев назад

I love how Asher seems to have strong opinions but moves around every 2 seconds

@facewednesday 5 месяцев назад

I'm a thinker, so I move accordingly 😂

@ninak2346 5 месяцев назад

So relatable actually 😅

@brfreddy 5 месяцев назад

There is the saying that "Strong opinions, loosely held" is a great approach to life. I enjoyed Asher's thought provoking questions/opinions in this video a lot, personally :)

@mercymunoz1408 5 месяцев назад

Also just because you have had friends that you developed that emotional connection with doesn’t mean that you want to date them. It is so weird to me that people think you cant have an emotional connection, and other types of connections outside of dating. And that if you were to develop it, then automatically, you have to date them.

@jesusrivera521 5 месяцев назад

That's everything for some of us. So be careful who you give that to. You'll be a serial heartbreaker that way.

@Kirbystare1992 5 месяцев назад

But it does mean it’s not platonic anymore because the dude likes you.

@Neighbor8773 5 месяцев назад

⁠@@Kirbystare1992I would still consider it platonic if they never expressed their romantic feelings towards their friend, the friendship still remains platonic even if one of them romantically likes the other.

@Kirbystare1992 5 месяцев назад

@@Neighbor8773 no it’s not whether he expresses it or not lol

@Neighbor8773 5 месяцев назад

@@Kirbystare1992 the friendship is still platonic tho because nothing is going on romantically between the two only within oneself. And like the original comment says even if you do develop romantic feelings it doesn’t mean you need to turn that friendship into something romantic.

@Ty-rm2kg 5 месяцев назад

“I would date someone in this room” is crazy lmaooo yall threw that one in there on the spot

@rqura1 5 месяцев назад

I hope Luke and Fennix go out on a date cause they’re so cute:)

@dicitalore605 5 месяцев назад

There are female/male friendships that are like a brother/sister relationship. Many of my friends have been male. Never anything else.

@rocketi05 5 месяцев назад

Don't ask them whether they want to sleep with you, you'll be surprised lol.

@claff4573 5 месяцев назад

@@rocketi05 So your saying men can't possibly be friends with a woman without having an ulterior motive? What exactly does that say about y'all

@marlonflores6808 5 месяцев назад

There friend zoned still believing to have a chance lol

@falz97 5 месяцев назад

@@claff4573 ngl a lot of guys purposefully befriend attractive girls to get to know them. It's rare to see a guy being friends with an unattractive girl. In fact a lot of relationships start from just friends.

@Rico401Prov 5 месяцев назад

@@claff4573it’s not an ulterior motive. It’s actually a man’s psychology

@r3nee336 5 месяцев назад

I feel like there are friendships that start out of mutual love in a friendly way like liking the same things in common but most people end up misunderstanding it as a sexually driven friendship

@kindallnight1615 5 месяцев назад

Exactly

@TeenageDirtbag8 5 месяцев назад

Agree

@pwetty4r4 5 месяцев назад

And sometimes lovers realize they should just be friends

@izzygarnelo 5 месяцев назад

How do you not fall into this misunderstanding? How can you tell you're not actually developing more and/or new feelings that align closer to being in a relationship?

@Narra0002 5 месяцев назад

@@pwetty4r4 that roo

@rita8274 5 месяцев назад

I love Asher in every video I see of him, he's so funny and openly shows when he's not entirely sure on decision. He listens to other people and is still 100% himself.

@nicolegulino 5 месяцев назад

Something doesn't have to be the worst thing ever to warrant a breakup.

@denidale4701 5 месяцев назад

Does anyone else find it weird that people tend to use the end of things to describe something? If you are are friends with somebody for 20 years and then fall in love, to me that is no proof that friendship between men and women is impossible. It is proof that it is possible, it worked for 20 years. It is proof as well that life is not static and we all constantly change. Another angle, how many friends stay friends for 20 years? So by the same logic these were never friendships as it didn't last a lifetime?

@sanriosonderweg 5 месяцев назад

20 years, that's just running out of options lol

@1000OtherFoxes 5 месяцев назад

Or it's that "friend" who remained in the friendzone patiently waiting, and that's actually often the case with many so called guy friends....They are just there to wait for an opportunity and woman tend to think this is "friendship" well...no.

@jessy1982 5 месяцев назад

@@1000OtherFoxesThis is probably the main reason for the "cant be friends" talk. If only guys would stop pretending to be friends when they want something else.

@1000OtherFoxes 5 месяцев назад

@@jessy1982 Well you have to be smart about human nature.

@alishaokeeffe7574 5 месяцев назад

I like this take

@pwetty4r4 5 месяцев назад

I really hope Jessica rabbit isn't a relationship coach because unconditional love should only be reserved for children... Thats the kind of advice that keeps people in abusive relationships

@CutiePatutie_SmookiePookieBear 5 месяцев назад

👍

@brfreddy 5 месяцев назад

I agree with that. I also think that you can unconditionally love someone, but just decide you don't want to be in a romantic relationship with them.

@deezing 5 месяцев назад

jessica rabbit lmao

@yaeli_i_guess 5 месяцев назад

i wish someone asked her if she thinks women cheating is worse than men cheating in marriages. given how much emphasis she put on the "single indiscretion" of the guy. what a pick me.

@Palaecro 5 месяцев назад

I think she is actually lol

@linnflame 5 месяцев назад

Men and women CAN be friends, doesn't mean that they will never be attracted to each other, but you can be friends and aware of attraction without wanting or needing to act on it. But I have never met someone who just wanted to be friends, I guess it depends if both parties are agreeing on remaining friendly

@justawildgengar 4 месяца назад

Nope not to me lmao “Be aware of attraction” nah that’s basically cheating for me. Y’all stay safe though🤣🙏

@bearyxoxoo566 5 месяцев назад

why is janelle wearing a whole prom dress

@gwenrichard7507 5 месяцев назад

The way we define "friends" is important. You can't compare a friend you spend time alone with talking about sensitive and serious topics, comparing that to a person you see once a week in passing.

@zacktreble12 5 месяцев назад

First smart comment

@simonleys6040 5 месяцев назад

true

@varenka1792 5 месяцев назад

THIS. THIS.

@crpticshock 5 месяцев назад

People nowadays have loose definitions of the word friends not realizing the word acquaintance exist

@TheBoss4711 5 месяцев назад

Definitely! Someone who I feel comfortable enough sharing intimate conversations with is going to lead me to feeling comfortable to be intimate in more ways. It takes a very rare set of circumstances for these kind of close friendships to stagnate and continue only as friends and both parties truly happy with the other finding another person to live their life with instead.

@shawn8778 5 месяцев назад

Y'all should do a split decision episode with men and women who are just friends

@facewednesday 5 месяцев назад

There's actually a split decision episode coming out soon with male and female besties; stay tuned !

@rockstarburne 5 месяцев назад

And if one of the did secretly catch feelings, you think theyd just air it out on camera?

@mariitz_ 5 месяцев назад

@@rockstarburnenope

@fbiagent3998 5 месяцев назад

@@rockstarburnethat's inherently saying those who did agree to do it on camera don't have feelings for eachother. Further proving the point it is possible to have platonic friendships between men & women.

@oil_painted_dessert 3 месяца назад

“Relationships get worse, not better.” Speak for yourself 🥰

@AgelessPhoton 2 месяца назад

That was generally speaking, and absolutely correct.

@oil_painted_dessert 2 месяца назад

@@AgelessPhoton It’s not general, it depends on the people and circumstances. There are a lot of healthy relationships out there

@AgelessPhoton 2 месяца назад

@@oil_painted_dessert statistically speaking, relationships get worse, not better. That is true.

@Luis-vx1tx Месяц назад

@@AgelessPhoton I would counter with "relationships require more effort with age"

@AgelessPhoton Месяц назад

@@Luis-vx1tx especially if these are started later in life, yes, absolutely.

@maayancohen8456 4 месяца назад

Honestly weird vibes

@LilyDream35 5 месяцев назад

As a married, monogamous bisexual who has plenty of friends of different genders, the first question was hella weird. Like, I have not had the urge to sleep with all my girl and guy friends. People who really believe this take are weird in my opinion.

@ShinigamiXL_ 5 месяцев назад

People who think women have the same carnal desires as men are weird in my opinion.

@raex3746 5 месяцев назад

yea it’s so weird. i guess if we’re bi we can’t have any friends at all?? idk how people think like this

@mymunmalik3279 5 месяцев назад

@ville__ cap

@GammaRayBill 5 месяцев назад

I didn’t know we were including this🏳️‍🌈

@FreeJidion6969 5 месяцев назад

thats a pretty hot topic tbh

@ElectricPansies 5 месяцев назад

The two people who ended up on the ‘strongly agree’ line at the end omg 🥺

@bananatitan3080 5 месяцев назад

AHHH IK 👀👀

@dhenderson319 Месяц назад

So adorable!!!

@108Jiva 5 месяцев назад

bruh leaving us on that cliff hanger! we need an update on this prospective new couple!

@emmaroberts176 5 месяцев назад

Are we gonna talk about how Luke and Feenix are so compatible ?! They share so many beliefs and similarities and seem like they would work so well together :’)

@astwas 5 месяцев назад

The Christians? She disagreed with him in original question and then switched sides cuz she found the guy attractive lol. Doubt she was suddenly agreeing with him just cuz he was christian.

@jeannie_beanie 5 месяцев назад

Janelle saying that cheating shouldn’t break up a marriage bothered me. It sounds like she just lets her husband, and possibly herself, do whatever. Cheating is not part of a marriage, and it doesn’t allow mean there’s a problem. It’s a CHOICE. You chose to get married, chose to commit to that person, then chose to step out

@jaxsmith1204 5 месяцев назад

She also kept trying to shame them with “so you would break up a family and traumatize the children just over cheating??” When-guess what- she’s a single mom who is no longer with the father of her children. She’s just a hypocritical pick-me clown who will say anything. Not a serious person.

@Bayuuk 5 месяцев назад

She is very odd cause she said “oh it means there is a problem that we can fix” where just earlier she said “Relationships don’t get better they get worse”….so which is it

@anon7684 5 месяцев назад

@@Bayuuk she was talking about how physical attraction usually declines, 2 separate things

@anon7684 5 месяцев назад

It's not always black and white. What if it's a sexless marriage but neither of you believe in divorce

@Dizzydawne 5 месяцев назад

I feel like the first option would’ve been she does it, not her husband does it..but both could be likely

@CaptainBertorelli 5 месяцев назад

If we are questioning and debating whether men and women can be truly friends, then we are failing not just as a society, but we are failing as a species as well.

@lonewaer 5 месяцев назад

Animals mostly aren't "friends". Specifically in the wild. They benefit from living in groups, but when mating season arrives, they're mating. So no that's not failing as a species.

@croissant42-43 5 месяцев назад

⁠@@lonewaerThat’s why humans are distinguished as going against our animalistic nature. That’s what has allowed us to evolve and adapt to the point of where we are now. So it doesn’t matter if men and women not being friends isn’t naturally occurring (which isn’t even the case anyway), because by that logic, TOILETS would be wrong. FORKS would be wrong, just because they aren’t natural

@Dizzydawne 5 месяцев назад

@@lonewaer🤣

@Dozen. 5 месяцев назад

@@lonewaer what did I just read

@charky6683 5 месяцев назад

@@lonewaer🧇

@jennao.3964 Месяц назад

i love Maren shes so thoughtful with her words and overall just kind hearted. LOVE TO SEE IT😊

@jade-chan3291 5 месяцев назад

As a Christian, i strongly disagree that men and women cannot be just friends. Some of my best friends are men and there is no desire to be anything more than friends.

@LukeMelkesian27 5 месяцев назад

I can guarantee it’s not the same for your male friends, especially as a Christian

@Tomodance33 5 месяцев назад

Women saying they can just be friends isn't saying anything because it's easy for women to be friends with men as you don't have sex drives like men do and it also boosts your ego to have men wanting to date you

@luisa6142 19 дней назад

@@Tomodance33umm

@rantingmoron84 19 дней назад

@@luisa6142 nothing to say

@25mrkeys 5 месяцев назад

I understand cheating is bad and all, but people really think it’s the WORST thing you can do?? Just off the top of my head, pretending to be in love with someone for years just to save face after getting married and having children, then later on confessing that you never loved them at all is wayy worse and people literally do that more than cheating 🤦🏽‍♂️

@Truevitz 5 месяцев назад

Or putting hands on you, destroying property, accusations etc..

@truthseeker9249 5 месяцев назад

I agree with you but to a lesser extent. Cheating should be a dealbreaker and people should take it seriously and be extremely upset about it when it happens. And we shouldn't discount it as a bad thing because certain things are worse. It's a violation of trust and it really hurts someone. But some people are now saying cheating is abuse. I don't think that's really true. A lot of abusers cheat on their partners and do it repeatedly. I think in those cases it counts but I don't think it should be thrown into the abuse category.

@Bambim8 5 месяцев назад

@@truthseeker9249 Why shouldn't it be thrown in next to all the other kinds of abuse? Cheating can have long term negative impact on its victims just as easily.

@truthseeker9249 5 месяцев назад

@@Bambim8 perhaps. But that's why I think only extreme cases of cheating should count. Cheating on your partner with their own friend or family member aka someone they know, someone they trust. Or being a repeat offender. Cheating on them multiple times.

@captainmostafa8089 5 месяцев назад

But the argument was more is it very bad to cheat or is it not one of the top things, I think I remember one of the people even said there probably is something worse but…

@VoVina111 5 месяцев назад

The way they all shipped the Christians at the end was super cute 😂❤️

@Roseypose17 5 месяцев назад

Samee ..Imagine finding your soul mate on jubilee ❤😂

@VoVina111 5 месяцев назад

@@Roseypose17 that'd be awesome 😂 imagine telling the story to the kids or showing them the video!

@Roseypose17 5 месяцев назад

That would be amazing 😅I hope we get an update on them. @@VoVina111

@MusicalJackknife 5 месяцев назад

I was shocked that jubilee actually had not one but two people presenting a Christian viewpoint competently. Usually the kinds of people they get make us look really bad or crazy lol

@Sbisyxbfkbehs 4 месяца назад

i came looking for this comment. i was giggling and kicking my feet at the end when they both went to strongly agree.

@thatsHOUDINl 5 месяцев назад

ENDING was so wholesome. Black shirt and green top, i definitely thought they were compatible 😭❤️

@Venusienne_ 5 месяцев назад

I loved this group of people, they were all very energetic and funny. Also, they seemed to respectful of others' opinions.

@ashleytisdalesbrokenheel 5 месяцев назад

This crowd of people had so much chemistry this was honestly one of my fave jubilee videos

@facewednesday 5 месяцев назад

We had WAAAYYYY too much fun filming this episode, to the point that y'all barely see a fraction of the chemistry we had on set, but that's editing for you. None the less I hope everyone enjoys this segment, and hopefully y'all don't flame me too much for the next one that comes out 👀

@daviannahamilton9275 5 месяцев назад

you were amazing! loved the energy you presented

@facewednesday 5 месяцев назад

@@daviannahamilton9275glad you enjoyed my presence, and hopefully you next episode that comes out as well 🙏🏾

@dragoncatapult 5 месяцев назад

u were my favorite

@perrobachichagordosalchicha 5 месяцев назад

you were pretty annoying in this episode tbh

@conormurphy4328 5 месяцев назад

lol sure you did

@clark5426 5 месяцев назад

I had a classmate who I became close acquaintance/friends with because we were in the same class section for 5 years straight from middle school to high school years so we became really close and casual. People took notice of this and heavily shiptease us because we're a 'boy and girl' who are close with one another, that only made things awkward for awhile and I almost gaslight myself for thinking I had feelings for my friend during my confusion and self reflection.

@meh4062 5 месяцев назад

I hope they have more episodes of these. I could watch this for hours

@4DChess 5 месяцев назад

The 💃 lady always had the wildest takes

@_Yombo 5 месяцев назад

💃💃💃

@claff4573 5 месяцев назад

Why isn't she dressing modest if she's conservative.

@lisib4835 5 месяцев назад

👁👁.....not the cha cha emoji 👄

@anissapichnanun 5 месяцев назад

@@claff4573ok but if she were skinny and had smaller 🍒 u wouldnt be saying that

@haileyj6902 5 месяцев назад

@@anissapichnanunshe’s anti-feminist and talks about how women need to submit to men and respect their bodies’. yet she is not dressing modestly. it’s not about her being not skinny (she is skinny anyways) but you can always cover up your chest. even when you have like DD+. i’m not saying she should cover up but it’s kinda hypocritical

@MandosCulture 5 месяцев назад

cheating being the worst thing someone could do is a bit crazy. There are MANY crimes that can be committed that would not only go against your trust, but unequivocally disrupt your life. Cheating sucks, yes, but I could never say that was the absolute worst thing possible.

@charlotteru4634 5 месяцев назад

They should’ve reworded it to “is cheating a dealbreaker?”

@MandosCulture 5 месяцев назад

@@charlotteru4634 I absolutely agree. I think the way they present it, it is easy to say "of course it's the worst"

@coletrainhetrick 5 месяцев назад

And no one answered as if that's what was asked because I doubt anyone takes that as the literal.

@xxmemestar69xx82 5 месяцев назад

No need to be a pedantic sad sack

@MandosCulture 5 месяцев назад

@@coletrainhetrick the question is literal?

@anissapichnanun 5 месяцев назад

jenna’s face every time janelle started talking 😭

@camshea 5 месяцев назад

i love seeing people with differing beliefs be respectful and kind to each other regardless.

@mercymunoz1408 5 месяцев назад

Something made me deeply uncomfortable about “if you’re lonely, and your friend was throwing it out at you?” You do realize that there are people who don’t want or need sex and do not like to have sex with just anyone. (Some terms, demisexual, asexual, or simply a person who doesn’t need to have constant sex, its ok with not having any.)

@MsDudette21 5 месяцев назад

he's so simple minded. not everyone wants sex all the time even if they are lonely.

@aaunyea4799 5 месяцев назад

As an aroace I literally have to interest in sex or romance. Even I find a person attractive and/or nice, my mind can't go further than hoping we can be cool friends😅 my mind just isn't wired that way, and sometimes i just can't see why everyone else can't make it as easy, but I'm not on the other side so I try to step back

@jastro. 5 месяцев назад

Same, I’m aroace and it bugs me so much dude

@nevermind1904 5 месяцев назад

She made it sound like men are animals. A human being can choose to not let a fleeting thought dictate their actions, especially if they are capable of commitments and conscious decisions. There are people who choose to be celibate. And lot of these participants also say they wouldn't date someone they don't find physically attractive. I find it as silly as glazing over the fact that marriage vows include you being faithful to your partner. Cheating and breaking your partner's trust is already breaking that vow. People who dismiss it as an unavoidable carnal action probably aren't suited or ready for marriage, as they have commitment issues. I agree with communicating the problems in a relationship to solve them but both people should commit and make efforts to nurture the relationship. Cheating is already against that.

@Random-sk6hm 5 месяцев назад

Exactly, do they not realise that people also have self control? Not to mention the fact that some people regard their friendships as way more important.

@mathewharris5865 5 месяцев назад

Honestly don't understand why people think men and women can't just be friends. I have a lot of platonic friendships with girls. Do I find some attractive physically? Of course, but some people you just don't connect with on a romantic level and that's okay. Meanwhile I have my fair share of romantic relationships. I make it clear from the start that I have female friends. If she has an issue with that, that's her issue to resolve.

@FerretCuddles 5 месяцев назад

Really puffing yourself up, aren't you redditor?

@J_Harris99 5 месяцев назад

Just for consistencies sake. You're fine with your girlfriend telling you she had male friends who she found physically attractive too.

@MA-gu2up 5 месяцев назад

The effect of opposite sex friendships are more negative than positive on romantic relationships, especially if they aren't mutual friends (the effect of those is nearly all negative).

@mathewharris5865 5 месяцев назад

@@J_Harris99 Yes. I don't have trust issues nor do i believe it's my place to tell my girlfriends who they should and should not be friends with.

@cxjar5890 5 месяцев назад

It all comes from 'When Harry met Sally'.

@abbybrown3791 5 месяцев назад

Maren is so eloquently spoken!!

@museenergy 5 месяцев назад

What a fun and diverse group!! Refreshing to watch.

@hopperelec 5 месяцев назад

Usually a lot of Jubilee's videos are very argumentative which is fun and interesting to watch but I did also really enjoy this video because of how much banter there was, it's cool that they seemed to all have a fun discussion about this! Usually I get a bit angry at the people in the videos I disagree with but this time I was able to laugh along even with those I disagreed with

@SpencilPen 5 месяцев назад

Yeah that’s why I like the spectrum videos better than the middle ground ones because while there is still discourse, it feels more lighthearted and people can actually find agreement on something

@ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063 5 месяцев назад

I totally get what u mean. I feel like ppl are able to fimd a minddle ground here (somewhat), than compared to the actual middle ground set up. The actual one feels so serious and i get that its supposed to be but ppl come in ready to argue where as this spectrum style set up feels like its just a discussion not a debate.

@mikepictor 5 месяцев назад

oh that last bit was sweet. The question was asked, and he took it at face value, and she was over on that side of the room.

@NUF_Liana 5 месяцев назад

Someone pls update me when Feenix and Luke get married… I felt their chemistry from the start 🫢

@kylaarmstrong1439 2 месяца назад

I'm sorry but I grew up in a super chaotic, turbulent household because my parents tried to stay together after cheating. It was absolutely awful and traumatizing. Them separating was the best thing they could done. And yes, love is absolutely conditional.

@nijerikagreen8033 5 месяцев назад

“Relationships get worse not better”??? That’s a terrible narrative surrounding a bond that you share with someone you claim to love. If you and your partner can’t grow your relationship in a positive trajectory (not discounting tough times/hardships) y’all just shouldn’t be together 😅…

@MsDudette21 5 месяцев назад

shes projecting hard and acting like she's an expert on relationships cuz she thinks she understands men. yeah...incel men

@vathrz 5 месяцев назад

If cheating was the worst thing a partner could do the world would be a paradise. I can think of dozens of things that are worse.

@archaic1 5 месяцев назад

i like how everyone in this video were so resectful of eachother its was wholesome

@CalNoseBest 5 месяцев назад

Love is unconditional however a relationship is conditional. Once the trust of our relationship has been broken by cheating then 9/10 that's the end of the relationship. Doesn't mean that the love I have for that person isn't there anymore.

@potatoes3731 5 месяцев назад

Wow this group of people were very positive and refreshing

@TeenageDirtbag8 5 месяцев назад

Exactly

@MsDudette21 5 месяцев назад

it also helps this topic is mostly lighthearted. if it was something political, i think itd be heated.

@violet_rush 5 месяцев назад

I like that they disagreed on a lot of things but didn’t scream at eachother for it.

@jerryyy6527 5 месяцев назад

i am dying every time jenna makes a face when janelle was talking 😭😭😭

@user-mq4ps1hn1m 4 месяца назад

As she should because 😅😅😅

@Omniryu 5 месяцев назад

It's funny because, just looking at the open clip and the brief look at the people, I already correctly pointed out the ones that wouldn't think men and women could only be friends.

@annieyesiam2758 5 месяцев назад

that was a great group of ppl i enjoyed them!

@falz97 5 месяцев назад

Men and women can definitely be just friends. I have this female friend I am nowhere near attracted to but she's funny and she used to help me with chemistry and math. Also have some female friends from high school and some from uni

@Random-sk6hm 5 месяцев назад

Fr I have some friends that I lived with in uni (we were a flat of 8) and they're like family to me.

@leroyrodgers6089 5 месяцев назад

You just explained the biggest caveat. You are not attracted to her....

@jackholt6860 5 месяцев назад

I think when people are asked this question they imagine an attractive guy and attractive girl that are friends having a drink together at a party or something... Like in that scenario it's way less likely they can just be friends

@Random-sk6hm 5 месяцев назад

@@leroyrodgers6089 But that's the point. The question asks if men and women can just be friends. Of course they can if they're not attracted to each other. Also even if one or both were attracted, they may choose to remain friends instead if they value their friendship too much.

@anthill1510 5 месяцев назад

@@leroyrodgers6089 Yes, of course most people are only able to be friends with someone they are not attracted to. Why does this always come up in comments about this topic like it`s a revelation? The definition of a friend is basically "Person I like to spent time with, but are not attracted to".

@mercymunoz1408 5 месяцев назад

Surprising that so many disagreed on the second question but claimed that women and men cannot just be friends. If you think about it, they both go hand and hand, you would not date someone who you don’t find physically attractive which that includes your friend.

@quackinator1609 5 месяцев назад

My thoughts exactly. I have female friends that I wouldn't date because I don't find them physically attractive.

@landen2482 5 месяцев назад

Asher and Janelle need their own show, they really made this episode fun and enjoyable for me 🤣

@sketchbook10 5 месяцев назад

That last question was crazy, junilee ya real crafty.

@rezmis 5 месяцев назад

Jubilee, these videos have lowered in quality tremendously since this series (and others) have started. Cutting conversations (and even prompts) behind paywalls to make even more money? When did you become a corporation? Please release series like Spectrum and Middle Ground with the conversations that these people have, regardless of how it makes them look. We watch these videos to understand more about humans and their thought processes, we need the whole story. Please consider.