Can Prayer Change a Narcissist? What does the Bible Say?

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Can Prayer Change a Narcissist? What does the Bible Say?
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Hi! I’m Shaneen Megji. It seems my whole life has prepared me to do the work I am so passionate about today. Let’s just say I had to swim in narcissistic waters for many years, in workplace scenarios, in my previous faith as a Muslim, in friendships, and even in the church. God truly doesn’t waste anything. Each and every experience and all the studies I have done help me in my passion to set people free from the bondage and oppression of narcissistic relationships, to help survivors of such pain regain their authentic selves and their hope in God’s good plans for them, and to re-educate the church around toxic leadership.
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@jmclaughlin3728 10 месяцев назад

Prayer changes US. My experience is that the change happened inside of me and not her. Always pray but don’t think prayer will change someone who refuses to change or cannot see their need. I remember very distinctly praying for her while on my face laying in the gravel, and God told me to get up. He told me she is refusing and now it’s time to man up and take care of myself and my son. It’s not just about praying but also listening. 🙂

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

So good Joel! 😊🙏🏽

@jmclaughlin3728 10 месяцев назад

@@ShaneenMegji thank you Shaneen for another great video! I have this conversation with many believers. I can tell you that I knew God wanted me to stop because it kept me tied to her. I hope one day she changes. But that is for her and God to work out those details.

@michaelpells1440 9 месяцев назад

That’s an excellent insight! I’m going through something very similar.

@jmclaughlin3728 9 месяцев назад

@@michaelpells1440 I’m sorry to hear about that. I know the pain. Prayers and best wishes to you my friend.

@catherineb3159 10 месяцев назад

I prayed fervently for nearly forty years for my narcissistic husband. I Fasted many times. I did not understand what narcissism was until the last few years of the marriage, but I knew I was dealing with something sinister and evil. He had many encounters with the Lord, cried tears of repentance, and could convincingly “talk the talk.” However there was never any real change, it was mostly emotions and talk. The harder I prayed , the worse he got. During my times of fasting all hell would break loose. I finally had to end the marriage to save myself from destruction. Getting out was a whole new level of hell. I still hope that God will change him but I rarely pray for him anymore.

@jennifermoore4246 10 месяцев назад

Wow. You have been through a lot. I pray God will restore "what the locusts have eaten" and then some. 🙏

@rockyp32 10 месяцев назад

I’m sorry…. Watch gene Kim n we shoukdbt duecfircthen when non arcs can get saved

@Allrandom42 10 месяцев назад

One day while praying for my now ex, I clearly heard the Lord ask me to stop. Surprised? I was too but my life now is blissful now and all the health issues I was suffering are all gone since we parted ways.

@kellycampbell6826 10 месяцев назад

Seems God did answer u by letting as u said all he'll break loose the answer was run.

@jesus_is_life_love2932 10 месяцев назад

This is what the magic of narc. You still love him. That's how they are. Good devil's

@aaronkwolfe 10 месяцев назад

One of the most dangerous prayers I’ve recently resumed to is this: “Lord, surprise me.” Many times, I burst into laughter after seeing something only God could pull off. This would fit under that category.

@iononcantomascrivo Месяц назад

You know I think I'm going to try that. I've been doing a lot of praying and meditation while talking to him while I'm out on long walks or driving places. I feel much lighter after my conversation with him is done. Of course, my conversation with him is never truly done. I just have to postpone until next time. Wondering what my purpose is in life, why I'm here, etc. You know all those ponderances of existence. From now on I'm going to pray with intent, as always, but ask God to surprise me.

@aaronkwolfe Месяц назад

@@iononcantomascrivo Oh, I have stories. The beauty of this prayer is that He knows what I need better than I do. It comes down to a matter of trust. I can't wait to hear your stories.

@marsha04053 10 месяцев назад

Only God can change the narcissist.

@aaronkwolfe 10 месяцев назад

That’s Who I pray to….

@eastwood111 10 месяцев назад

@@aaronkwolfe Great response! ❤

@detje1958 10 месяцев назад

If the narcisst wants to repent!!!

@cindyrobinson3882 10 месяцев назад

Amen!! 🙏

@DJH97 10 месяцев назад

IF the narc wants to change.

@marilynng4337 10 месяцев назад

This video was helpful but sad I prayed for years for my ex After praying for 15 years he had personal encounter with Jesus He stood up and rededicated his life to Christ I was so happy He began to pray with me He became more self aware of his painful behavior This lasted a year He meet a man that he was doing business with Slowly our relationship took turn for the worse and I began to see aggressive narc behavior He eventually left me for that man and porn This video confirms what I went through We are living in the last days We need to definitely stay close to Jesus and read his word If I didn’t have him to help me this devastating ordeal I think my cancer diagnosis would have killed me I did get diagnosed during the discard phase. I am free and doing well God is amazingly faithful

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

@marilynng4337, I'm deeply moved by your journey, and your faith in God's unwavering support despite all the adversity you've been through. I'm glad to hear that you are now free and doing well! Your story is a testament to the power of faith and resilience in the face of adversity. I pray you will continue to find peace, strength, and healing in our Lord. 💪🙏❤️

@bronwynsimons7028 10 месяцев назад

So very sorry to hear your very sad story dear friend.

@marilynng4337 10 месяцев назад

@@ShaneenMegji Thank you Shaneen ❤️❤️❤️

@marilynng4337 10 месяцев назад

@@bronwynsimons7028 Thank you so much for your kind words and concern It’s so hard finding compassionate folks these days even in the church

@sweetpea3153 10 месяцев назад

For years my mother said my (narcissistic) sister had changed, but she had only found different targets. Once she lost these targets she came back to abusing the family. I'm still healing from her abuse which started (after my mothers death) two years ago. If you see this, please pray for the restoration of my health and finances. I really need a miracle.

@GlenPage 10 месяцев назад

Will pray. These narcs look human, but they are NOT. They have been taken over-BIG TIME. They are capable of ANYTHING. No conscience at all, and no REMORSE. Plus they treat you like a terrible person, making false accusations they know are LIES.

@jennifermoore4246 10 месяцев назад

Dear Lord, please help this person establish healthy, impenetrable boundaries within which you may pour out your blessings of health and financial resources. In Jesus' name, Amen.

@peacewithgrace 10 месяцев назад

Praying for you❤

@MegaSinglechick 10 месяцев назад

My experience has been that prayer alone won't change a narcissist. So I changed my prayer to God Change me. I had to choose to see my identity in Christ, I had to start setting and holding boundaries. I had to enforce consequences when they were abusive, manipulative, and disrespectful. When it's your mother, and you're her full-time caregiver, it's extremely challenging. My mothers behaviour towards me changed dramatically in the last year, and there was some healing, but I never trusted her knowing that in the right circumstances, she would go back to making me the punching bag and scapegoat. She's gone now, she died suddenly 7 weeks ago, so now I'm in the restructuring stage, trying to figure out what's next with God's help. I don't regret choosing to care for her, ( and by default be abused ) because I know that I was obedient to The Lord, and I was a powerful testimonial of God's grace.

@AnaSilva-to1sy 9 месяцев назад

l totally agree with the person that said, 'only God can change a narcissist

@gonehome2 10 месяцев назад

I have alot of cognitive dissonance with this very subject. I know as a believer that God can do anything, but yet I know the heart of the narc too!! Thank you for helping sort this out for me. ❣

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

I'm so glad it was helpful! God bless you. 🙏🏽😊

@rickiilatino 10 месяцев назад

It helps me to remember that God does give free will to each person and the narcissist has chosen to reject Christ Jesus because of love for the darkness John 3 🕊

@zaviahopethomas-woundedsou9848 10 месяцев назад

I'm married to one of these narcs, he fools everyone at church and is so cruel at home.

@mariansturtz4788 10 месяцев назад

This is where I am at too.he fools every one.. I hate it but I feel God has not showed me the way out yet

@zaviahopethomas-woundedsou9848 10 месяцев назад

@@mariansturtz4788 I don't see a way out yet either. Disabilities have me financially trapped.

@peggybreaux8973 10 месяцев назад

Pray, ask God to give the person graces to change. Only the person can choose. Free will. We do our part, God does his part. Prayer can neutralize an calm the evil spirit that is attacking the person.

@Rubester-cl6op 10 месяцев назад

I’d say we just can’t focus on this. God can change anyone but please don’t pray and sit around waiting for a narcissist to change. You can pray they get help but keep that distance and stay no contact as you still deserve more.

@Sojourner-cd8go 10 месяцев назад

At this point I just pray for the discernment to see better and for God to heal, because I never really knew about narcissism until last year, but now I realize how many people have NPD versus narcissistic traits or tendencies. They do a lot of damage. It’s left to their friends, family and co-workers to pick up the pieces of their lives. The robbery is that the reasonable safety you felt before in connecting with people feels like it’s never going to come back - that’s the robbery. That ability to connect with people who will reciprocate good treatment. I’m amazed at how many narcissists are in churches and leadership positions. It shatters something that only God can put back together. They seem to be totally oblivious to the damage.

@John-N797 10 месяцев назад

There are things that God has given man authority over. Everyone has been given free will and only them can decide what to do with it. Prayer may encourage and the Spirit of God may urge but ultimately everyone must make a choice either to reject or genuinely follow God. A narcissist will "follow" God for different motives other than true salvation. They will go through the motions and even deceive the true worshippers but their actions and speech remain very evil and unpredictable which is very confusing to genuine believers. If a narcissist can be changed by prayer, let God change them but remain very far from them.Its not our business to change a narcissist.

@latoriarichardson6754 10 месяцев назад

Well said. From my experiences, God knows my heart as well as theirs. As you said He does not force anyone to change. I DO believe He gives them the opportunity, but since their conscience is seared with a hot iron, they do not surrender to the Lord. Also, from my experiences, prayer has helped to get them to stop harassing me, but again, they do not surrender to Jesus. Instead they go on harassing others continuing in their evil ways. One in particular I remember God told me to stop praying for that person (to give their life to Him and be saved), so I did.

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

Yes, it's true that God gives everyone opportunity for change. The Bible says that He gave Jezebel time to repent. Thank you for sharing!

@Corinna_Schuett_GER 10 месяцев назад

I might add Jeremiah 7:16; 11:14; 14:11 for the latter. Sometimes God tells us where the limit of prayer is. He did with my mother too.

@dl2204 10 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for teaching about narcissism from a biblical perspective. It has been frustrating praying so many years for a narcissistic parent and a narcissistic ex-spouse.

@leonmcnutt2470 10 месяцев назад

I totally agree with you ,about what the bible says in regards to assisting a narcissist with prayer, and they would have to be willing in that process in order to receive Gods blessing, well the only problem with that, is denial, most narcissists are liars, so they have a major problem with telling the truth, and in the bible God says if you choose to believe a lie then he would grant you that , and give you over to a reprobate mind.

@JeanettBarendse 10 месяцев назад

I am living a holy life (still human and do make mistakes). I went to the front of house and I spoke against all spirits behind narcissism and command them not to gointo my house again. It stopped, but what was worse is that God showed me the narcistic trades in myself and I was able to deal with that. I prayed for years for certain problems, but never knew that there were spirits behind it. Thankyou for your insights regarding narcissism. A lot of prayer and believing and hoping did help

@Yellow-Rose 10 месяцев назад

You can't pray for a serial killer to become Mr. Rogers. It would be just like a narcissist to declare, "it's a miracle I've changed!" Don't fall for that. Pray that God protects you and removes the narcissist from your life instead.

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

Thanks for sharing. It is true that transformation doesn't just happen overnight or in an instant. The Bible is clear that there is a process involved in transformation, "Be transformed by the renewing of your minds..." and "Work our your salvation with fear and trembling..." Even the individuals who had an encounter with God in the Bible still had to choose how they would conduct themselves going forward after that encounter.

@PamelaWildman-Williams 9 месяцев назад

I agree

@Sojourner-cd8go 10 месяцев назад

I love your channel ❤ It’s so needed in the online space. It’s nice to see it from a Biblical lens

@AnaSilva-to1sy 9 месяцев назад

l am currently listening to information on narcissistic behavior, and AM convinced that a narcissist is a lost soul that needs the Grace of God, l am also totally convinced that God only sees two type of people: Righteous and wicked.

@angelahafford3658 10 месяцев назад

We can't change a narcissist, but God can give us a peace to deal with them.

@antheasauls692 10 месяцев назад

Being married to a narcissist for 4 years. I prayed everyday to the Holy Spirit to change his heart, for biblically I do not believe in divorce. He never changed and I asked the Holy Spirit for a very long time why. I received the answer after divorce, that my ex-husband did not want to change. Thank you Shaneen as the Holy Spirit use you to put in greater perspective for us as Christian's struggling with some answers about narcissism. I was married to a born again Christian that was so gifted in being a teacher about scripture and being married 4 times that I believed that God could use him in this area of his life to heal others. My Christian phycologist does not believe either for I believed that Jesus can but like you said 'you need to want to' by making that choice. Thank you dearest for the awesome work you do. Be blessed and know you loved!

@detje1958 10 месяцев назад

Most narcissist dont see that they have to repent .. so demonic spirit they think that its normal how they are..

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

Yes, they believe it is everyone else around them who needs to repent.

@detje1958 10 месяцев назад

@@ShaneenMegji yes true they really have so demonic spirits its really evil!

@haadidave 9 месяцев назад

My narc thinks she's God

@gmhtown 10 месяцев назад

I’ve been praying for my wife to recognize and want to change. I’ve prayed for a godly marriage for years. I don’t think I will ever get it. She has to want to change. God can’t change her if her will doesn’t want to change.

@shaeholden1743 10 месяцев назад

In a word, no, prayer does not work for the narcissist. I'm a Christian believer with genuine desire to walk with Christ and have seen answered prayer in my life. I was married to a "Christian" who was a textbook narcissist (I tend to say he WROTE the book) who over the years got WORSE despite much prayer for him - and I finally left with my sanity barely intact. Yes, it's ultimately up to the person being prayed for to respond to God's promptings. My ex ignored all of God's promptings.

@jesus_is_life_love2932 10 месяцев назад

Can we get connected to know about this please?

@Corinna_Schuett_GER 10 месяцев назад

2 Timothy 3:1-5; Hebrews 6:4-6 🙏

@reginathornton7433 10 месяцев назад

They have a Free Will. Have seen narcissists repent for evil on their deathbeds or 1 month or so before they died. But, have seen very wicked narcissists not repent & die or be executed.

@TomClarkSouthLondon 10 месяцев назад

You are so beautiful, I really hope you don’t have any narcissist come anywhere near you ❤️🙏🏽

@shereepfeiffer6356 10 месяцев назад

Yes, it can and has. And James 5:16 is in my message this week for the people at the aged care who can still pray even if they can't walk. encourage encourage encourage.

@bronwynsimons7028 10 месяцев назад

The holy Convicts . But it's all about what we do with that conviction right? God gives us a choice. He doesn't force us to choose life We get to choose between life and death

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

Amen 🙏🏽. That’s right.

@candie5150 10 месяцев назад

Love the outdoor atmosphere of your video and crickets in the background❤️🦗

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

Thank you Candie! I hope you are well. 🙏🏽❤️

@georgegavallos4519 10 месяцев назад

A well known Psychiatrist, Scott M Peck, who believes Narcissism and evil are intertwined. And in his book “People of the Lie” gives an example on this subject. He was asked to be present during two exorcisms as a Doctor and witness. At the conclusion of both of these grueling and exhausting events, he noticed a similarity between the two successful exorcisms: It wasn’t the Exorcists prayers that drove the demon out. It was when the possessed was ready, begged and asked Christ to save and heal him from this possession, is when the Demon(s) left. So, true prayer helps and is a must…… but the person whether a Narcissist or demon possessed, it’s when they ask and want change does change occur. Amen😌

@gladysabalagajarakukeba7890 10 месяцев назад

what is the difference between narcissism and demonize?

@georgegavallos4519 10 месяцев назад

Unfortunately not much. Physical verses spiritual.

@user-ry1vi1jc7o 7 месяцев назад

I read Peck's second book, and he really goes off the deep end. It was many years ago that I read it, but I remember being kind of creeped out by him. As far as the exorcisms, I wonder they were via a Catholic priest? If so, I might doubt that these were real exorcisms. When Jesus cast out demons, the Bible never says that the people themselves cried out to him for deliverance or that he only cast them out of willing people.

@georgegavallos4519 7 месяцев назад

@@user-ry1vi1jc7o scary stuff

@kathyme2882 10 месяцев назад

I am so glad I found you. Your wisdom and guidance is much needed.❤❤❤

@jennifermoore4246 10 месяцев назад

I love your channel, Shaneen. ❤

@sherlockhomeless7138 6 месяцев назад

About four or five weeks ago I discovered I'm a covert narcissist. I've told a few people online and they don't believe me. Obviously. 'cause I've been trying to live the way God wants, since I'm a christian. And now I feel like I'm lost. I look too insecure to be a narcissist, so nobody would acknowledge it if I would claim to be a narcissist. The only reason I've behaved 'normal' was because I didn't want others to find out and because I know God is watching. But deep down I can't take criticism and want to be rude when I get criticized, I don't feel thankful, I don't have any remorse, I don't love God, I'm faking empathy and love and I think 95% people are bad and annoying and I'm not interested in them. But the thing that made me realize I'm a narcissist is that I constantly crave for attention. I need validation, confirmation, attention, pity. And I'm very aware of the fact that that is not good, so I've been trying to hide it. I've been controlling it. But I tell each person exactly the thing that gives me what I need. There's no true me. What I mean is... if I meet new people, I wouldn't know how to behave, because I don't know what I can say or do to make them give me what I need. Whether it's admiration, attention, confirmation or attention. It has always been this way, but it has developed very slowly and it wasn't even deliberately. I don't understand myself. I believe God can do the impossible. But it's like there is no real me if God would cut away all the narcissistic traits. This makes it hard to believe God can give me a personality. But I wanna believe that. I don't want to be an empty shell for the rest of my life. I believe Jesus died on the cross for me and rose again on the third day to restore the relationship of us with God. But I've never seen any fruit in my life. Every time I did something good, I did it because I had to or I did it with pride or I did it because I feared the reaction of others. Please pray for me. I don't want to go to hell. And maybe that's even a bad motivation. But I also just want to be able to love God and love other people.

@AmyWaite-nu1lh 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for your channel.❤

@noelineheynsbergh8538 10 месяцев назад

Thank you very much for encouraging and Relevant messages ❤

@tracygibson5151 10 месяцев назад

Wow thank you so much-needed! You have been truly a blessing to me.

@SP-hr8kw 10 месяцев назад

Great teaching!! Thank you!

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

You are so welcome! 🙏🏽

@hestercastlemansa2976 7 месяцев назад

The example of Saul really struck home. The narc I was involved with is on a road of absolute self destruction but still he refuses to change. Astonishing! I tried everything including prayer but eventually had to save myself. With God's help. On my own I would not have been able to leave. I walked out with nothing trusting God on my path of healing and recovery.

@marilynng4337 10 месяцев назад

So excited this is such a timely topic. I can’t wait to listen to the rest of the video. God bless you Shaneen

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

Thank you. God bless you too! 🙏🏽

@sandradarick7209 6 дней назад

Amen. Bless you and your message.❤️😇🙏

@JK0628 5 месяцев назад

For God everything possible. Thank you for this video.

@michaelpells1440 9 месяцев назад

VERY helpful and insightful reflection for those of us who are believers enduring gaslighting and other covert narcissistic behaviors from our spouse. In my case, she left, we’re separated, and I’m growing to accept it and move forward.

@lesabrydson2526 22 дня назад

Praying for yourself first. I prayed for 10 years living with now ex-husband narcissist, it is what made me depleted and sick. The examples you sited in The Bible i use for myself. Tired of praying for demon 😈... Persevering in Prayers Psalms 1-150; Ephesians 1; 3; Colossians 1; 1 Samuel 1:10-11; 1 Samuel 2; 2 Chronicles 6; 2 Samuel 7🙏🇯🇲👑🌹🙌🫅❤️

@JulietSpoto-pn2lx 10 месяцев назад

Of course God can change a narcissist. Never limit The Lord Our God. That's not good.

@shereepfeiffer6356 10 месяцев назад

i have used prayer and led to learn about grey rock, boundaries (solid like living in my room), if he was a pain i didn't cook. i told him to leave me alone when i was in the kitchen. i was very hard and it was very lonely for over 2 years. Slowly he got used to talking to me nicely or else and both of us to each other. talking just about logistics etc. not deep but better than losing the roof over our heads. Maybe he only had narc behaviours but he seemed nasty as hell to me back then. 17yrs. could say wasted, or could say starting again would have been no better and with my body i don't think i could have done very well single. about 2 years later a friend visited and prayed a black thing would come out of my hubby and not long after he gave up alcohol. I reckon adopt and attitude of 'come at me properly or don't come at me at all' and if it's physical violence don't hesistate to separate. But i also had a friend who got past even that, though it was her who nearly killed him because she hit him over the head when he was being a pain. they had a good last 8 years then he died.

@elizabethdasilva5454 10 месяцев назад

tank you verry much prayers need for my little boy and i tanks gaetan hois dad narcissic heart hard like stone and no fear of the lord GOD

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

You're very welcome. I pray for God's hand of blessing, provision, healing and grace over your little boy in Jesus' name, and that Jesus will guide you through these challenging times. 🙏❤️

@elizabethdasilva5454 10 месяцев назад

tank you verry much really appreciated GOD bless you with agape love @@ShaneenMegji

@cindyrobinson3882 10 месяцев назад

Praying!! 🙏

@aussieallstar66 10 месяцев назад

My recent encounter with a fellow Christian narcissist made me think only an exorcist could help him. But he would never do that. The satanic one who possesses him would never allow him to do that. And there have been vital deficits in his childhood development at the hands of a parent or other caregiver. This narcissist is a practising Christian and plays a prominent role in the liturgy. It is a puzzle to me.

@richyrich4672 9 месяцев назад

I left the Narc in gods hands because mine were chopped off to many times by the Narc. They are hell bent on destroying anything good in their lives and running to the worst things you could imagine and calling it good. I left to save myself from the destruction she love to create.After decades with her I’m numb to any feelings for her.

@calamityjane1581 10 месяцев назад

No wipe the dust from your feet and walk away

@bethshebabenard9798 10 месяцев назад

Yes, since we know that prayer doesn't change unless a person realizes, but in a marriage, living all your life with a narcissist is... I don't understand

@utkalikasharma5122 9 месяцев назад

I need a little bit of understanding in this. Everytime I pray in front of my mother, she tells me "why are you caring crazy" here we go with your craziness again, like she says that I am mentally ill when I do that. And smears me. And says really deeply hurtful and shameful things, deeply shames me, while clearly showing that she knows and understands that I am praying. And it causes so much hurt and I feel afraid to pray before her. What us beneath the surface? And it's the same and ever more harmful when I am found sharing Jesus with anyone. It's freaking me out. I rarely share my faith these days, even if I do, I just stop when my parents come. Like automatically.

@gladysabalagajarakukeba7890 10 месяцев назад

I would like to know 1) if there is a difference between narcissism and demonic 🤔 and if the nrc. is aware that they are being possessed. 2) if deliverance is possible for narcissism. and 3) do they have to agree to be delivered.

@jesus_is_life_love2932 10 месяцев назад

I am confused now about Narcissist because this person i know is a born again believer.he knows right from wrong. And he knows his character needs change. But so what? I got crazy being with him

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

Ultimately they need to choose if they are going to embark on the path to change. It's possible for a person to choose to accept Christ, yet hold on to their narcissism and remain unchanged.

@Corinna_Schuett_GER 10 месяцев назад

@@ShaneenMegjiNo. A genuine born again person just CANNOT remain WITHOUT fruit of the Spirit who dwells inside of them.

@ShaneenMegji 10 месяцев назад

@corinnaschutt4229 - Absolutely, it's crucial to consider both the transformative power of accepting Christ and the role of free will and choice. Just like in the parable of the sower, where the seed falls on different types of soil, individuals who accept Christ may respond differently. Some may embrace the teachings and bear the fruits of the Spirit, while others may choose to resist change and remain unchanged. The parable serves as a powerful reminder that the decision to cultivate spiritual growth ultimately rests with each person.

@cindyrobinson3882 10 месяцев назад

Churches are full of narcissists. My ex boyfriend has been a devout Christian for 70 yrs & attends church, has Christian prayers, crosses, etc in his home, but he doesn't read the bible. He is a Christian in name only. I still pray for him & his children. I do believe he & I were brought together by God (long story). He was the third narc relationship. I hadn't grieved the loss of my divorce from a 20 yr marriage that my narc MIL ruined yrs earlier. I have since grieved due to that relationship 20 yrs later. My (prodigal) only child, 38 yr old daughter married a narc. While I endured chemo, radiation & 21 surgeries, my son in law kept my daughter & my grandchildren from seeing me. I was in hospital for 2 1/2 months, no visitors. I remember turning to look out the window, it started snowing (Christmas) & I felt the tears flow. Feeling abandoned & feeling sorry for myself, I felt God speak to my heart, "the Apostle Paul was beaten, chained in a cave, but he still sang praises to Me". I wiped my tears & I have drawn so much closer & stronger in my faith. I believe God allows narcs in our lives for His Will & for His Purpose & for His Glory. 🙏 I believe there are narc pastors, priests & elders.....they are human. At 60 yrs old, I may be single for the rest of my life, but I'm healing from the past & looking forward to what God has planned for me. 😊 Continue to pray for the church. Praying for revival. 🙏 God Bless everyone. 🕊 Stay safe!!

@jesus_is_life_love2932 10 месяцев назад

@@Corinna_Schuett_GER bearing fruit is our duty. It just doesn't come out just because we have fruits of the Spirit. Every born again believer knows that kindness is fruit of Spirit. But then how many use it or let it come out despite knowing what it is and how it must be used or where it must be used and when it must be used ....????

@reggaegigs 10 месяцев назад

The Law of Freewill is the supreme law of the universe. We can pray for removal of negative energies, demons or whatsoever barriers so the ones we pray for, actually operate from a true place of their aunthentic Freewill. Also, realize rach person has their own cross to carry. Our prayers for others, have benefits that necessarily might not be observable to the one/s praying. Ultimately, as Jesus said, one must strictly focus on removing the beam within one's own eye.

@daodejing81 10 месяцев назад

NO Prayer cannot change people. Only the individual is able to change himself.

@fffrfrw 10 месяцев назад

I am sorry, they don't change. For them, kindness is a weakness. They r exploitative cursed devils

@miriam100ful 10 месяцев назад

praying for a narcissist is almost like willing them to change, and that will not happen, unless God wills it. I think neutral prayer and surrender to God's will and judgement is best. When you pray for a narcissist it does bring up feelings of cognitive dissonance, as you have already been traumatised by that relationship.

@jeanne7102 2 месяца назад

What about the reverse? Can a narcissist pray good health and other blessings for you? I hope to get an answer.

@Ron-is5td 10 месяцев назад

Typo. Prov 6:14-15. Not 7:14-15

@TheBasskult 9 месяцев назад

Would you say narcissists even have a divine soul? For my own experience with one narcissist, I would have say she didn't have proper connection with the heart, or soul for this matter.. Not able of empathy, not able of true love. That's what I felt. Also you encounter lots of people relating narcissists (i mean rather perverse narcissist in french, i e psychopath maybe in english) with "person without a soul" or "entity without a soul". Would you treat this topic in one of your video? Thanks

@sherlockhomeless7138 6 месяцев назад

Hey. I recently discovered I'm a covert narcissist and this is exactly how I feel. Empty, not having a soul, 'cause it's like there is no real me. That's why I find it so hard to believe God can change me. 'cause every word and sentence I say is focussed on getting from others what I need emotionally. So these words and sentences depend on the person I meet. So what would be left if God cut out all the narcissistic traits? I'm afraid there is nothing. He would have to give me a new personality, I think. Or maybe something went wrong early in my childhood and He would have to restore it.

@sherlockhomeless7138 6 месяцев назад

@@dogsarespecial42 You said something else a month ago. Something about people not having much of a soul inside...

@peacheedandee 6 месяцев назад

@@sherlockhomeless7138 Could be that applies to "some", but not everyone. If you give a darn, and I can see you do, then that likely doesn't apply to you. There are some people who really don't give a darn though.

@Johnorekunow272 10 месяцев назад

I am well aware from experience that a narcissist is toxic to say the least, but why do so called Christians show no empathy to the narcissist,? After all, something has caused them to be how they are. A narcissist Christian is an unwell Christian, not a reprobate in my opinion