Can we talk about this real quick?! 

Whew you said she looks like all her bills are paid!!!!! Say that!!!!!

We love looking regular with the bills paid and a roof over our heads 👌🏽😂

It's giving that after church nap when you wake up and think it's Monday and you missed the school bus.

The standard of beauty goes home to its house 😂😂😂

That's why I want to be rich, but never famous. People are shallow. They act crazy if someone is not in full hair and make-up. If someone grows older, gain weight, lose weight, change their hair, mostly anything triggers them. Just let people be.

“She can’t be ugly at home?!🤨” 😂😂😂 omfg I can’t

I’m sitting here ugly watching this video. Let people live!

"I'm at the House. ...ain't Bothering nobody." 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾☺️

“I dare not take my hat off cause … ima lose some subscribers… “

“I’m working on my ‘femininity’ I’m not going to be a slave to it.” Friend! That’s a Word and I luv this for us! Thank you ☺️ 🙏🏾❤️‍🩹

“Tiny look like all her bills paid” WHEWWWWWW😂😂😂😂😂😂

"Her nap had her in a head lock". Hahahahaha

I'm so tired of gettin' ready. I ain't about to get ready at home.

Home is where my peace resides and my true and unbothered self belongs. 😌

I love the way you satirically told everyone to mind their business accordingly😆 And you're absolutely right about it!

Meanwhile, the same people rushing to the comments on Instagram to trash her probably wake up looking like they got ran over by a Chevy Tahoe. 🙄 The internet and social media has people so out of touch with reality that it’s sickening.

Not clapping cheeks and passed out‼️😭😭😭

Yeah! If you can’t go natural at home, where can you go?🤔

All Imma say is while folks calling her ugly I hope the same people made sure they have tread on their tires, debt is minimal, trips to the dentist are taken, house is in order, and check engine lights are off. Folks are so vain. Calling her ugly does nothing. People can be a lil too invested on the Lord's innanet.

"It looks like the nap had her in a headlock" 🤣 🤣 🤣

You don’t owe ANYONE beauty.

People have to understand that no one is like the song Flawless. There's no such thing as "I woke up like this." You don't look flawless. You wake up looking like the whole ass of Oscar the Grouch and that's fine. As you should. We deserve to look the way we want to at HOME. The home we pay the bills and rent/lease/mortgage on. Even if we're living with our family and don't pay for the latter, we still deserve to look like "who shot Johnny and what for?" It's our God-given right. And I guarantee y'all, half of those people making fun of Tiny looking JUST like her, while dogging her out. The actual audacity. 😭🤦🏿‍♀️

It's always the unannounced friend showing up talking about "why yo hair sticking up everywhere?" I simply reply "I'm at home, get out, and call first the next time you come to visit." Thee audacity!

I look good for work and church. After that, come what may.

These comments are HILARIOUS 😂😂😂😂. Thank you internet cousins for lifting my spirits.

"I dare not take my hat off cause I'm going to lose some subscribers." 😂😂😂😂😂 She has me rolling. Too funny

THIS PART RIGHT HERE: "that standard of beauty also go home to its house" ♥Yass, Ms. EJ. That right there. "full of flava"

"I am working on my femininity, but I won't be a slave to it" please this is the song of my heart!

This is exactly why I don't do FaceTime, Skype or any other video chatting service unless it has been scheduled in advance. If you CALLED me, you wanted to TALK to me, so what you video calling me for??? We don't hear with our eyes!!! If you video call me and it hasn't been scheduled, I ain't answering... nope... not

So many people talk about the plastic surgeries that she's had and then also say how unattractive she is. Aging in the public eye has to be difficult. Heck, it's difficult for me and nobody even really sees me on a daily basis. My definitely don't look like I did when I was 21. Imagine the pressure she's under seeing and hearing all of the ugly things people say about the way she looks. We've got to do better.

I tell my students we all skipped wardrobe, hair, and makeup when they act like we're all supposed to be walking around with filter vision. Tragic how social media warps our body image

Im up here looking like Coolio and ODB done let their braids go somewhere over the rainbow...but I'm at MY house 🤷🏾‍♀️😂

You the goat with these neutral chaotic reactions. I love every second.

Home is for free expressions. Outside is for good impressions. I look like Bigfoot at home, and Angela Bassett on the streets.

lol!! I’m sitting in my bed looking ugly right now. My favorite way to be lol comfy.

" Show yourself some grace" Thank you, sis❤️🌹, cause i be at home like...😬🤭😹😹😹 #Whoatmydoor!!! #LORDpleasedontletnobodyringmydoor 😅

Happy Black History Month

People need to stop it! Tiny is at home with 'her bills paid" and living her life! 'I'm not going to be a slave to what people think either! I appreciate you EJ for speaking da truth! I'm responding to this video looking 'ugly' in my own house and quite comfortable - yes I'm is!!

I’ve had that same look after taking a nap on the hottest day of summer. No AC, the fan is blowing hot air, fell asleep on the couch and woke up with a lil attitude because its still hot.

Listen we want to be comfortable and at peace at home all that other stuff 24/7 365 ain't gone work

👏👏👏👏 thank you EJ. When I'm at home, I'm free! Don't have to impress nobody but me. I can dress up or dress down to suit me!

“We was clapping 👏 cheeks, and she passed out” 😂😂😂

I'm a dress for the occasion person. Do I need to put on full makeup to go get gas or a carry-out meal? Nope! Do I dress better and put on makeup for a family party or a job interview? Yep! Folks spend way too much time up i other people's business. EJ, thanks for keeping it real, you always keep me hollering 😂😂❤❤

I love when EJ gives a video with no makeup and a hoodie😍. She looks great without it and it makes her seem even more down to earth and relatable. It shows us that we don't have to be made up everytime we are in the public eye. We are enough without the accessories. I feel bad for Tiny. I couldn't imagine constantly being put down and under so much scrutiny daily.

"I dare not take my hat off, I'm gon' lose some subscribers. " 😂😂😂😂😂

Nope!!! She became a great grandmother real quick 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

“Im not gonna be a slave to it” love it EJ❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏

😊I just got home from an art exhibit and beybey if "polar opposite" was a comfortable person... me promptly getting outta my clothes 😂. Home is where "ugly" and disheveled thrive.

E.J. SPEAKS YOU GOT ME CRACKING UP OVER HERE 😂😂😂😂😂

Whoo Chile! Tiny is at her home, not in concert. Folks need to realize these celebrities are human. Realistically..who walks around their house made up all the time?😂

Normalize regular faces🥰

I just had a bad hair week. If her bills are paid and she's happy, I'm happy for her bc this past week..... my bills were paid and I was happy, too🤷🏾‍♀️

Tiny got up like she just finished eating Thanksgiving dinner and took that after the meal nap. That's a different kind of sleep lol 😂😂

Chile…if some of us went straight out after we wake up people wouldn’t even recognize us. Be how you wanna be AT👏🏾YO👏🏾HOUSE👏🏾

It's looking like where are my glasses. It's giving tell them kids to come fix this phone cuz I don't know what I'm doing. It's also giving her man handed her the phone, so if he likes it, I love it.

Hello EJ and everyone.

"Her nap had her in a head lock." 😄

FRIEEEEENNNNNDDD, THANK YOU for normalizing chillin at home, lookin like we alllllllll be lookin……craaaazzzyyy, but guess what, we at HOME!!! 👏👏👏

Tiny is almost 50 yrs old!! She done raised 6 kids or more, dealt with the industry, husband incarceration, untimely death of love ones, and a heck lot more....I SAY SHE DESERVES to look however she looks‼️‼️‼️🥰🥰

Love it. Let’s keep it a buck. Social media done took folk out the real world. You should feel COMFORTABLE at home.

"Passed out": EJ, you are certifiable!

At home or even walking around my neighborhood. I’m going to be comfortable. When me and my husband go out to eat or something special I will dress up. But otherwise I’m all about the comfort.

She brought the world into her house. It's not just at the house anymore. It's public.

EJ gets the shade in with her self depracating humor 😂

“Look at me now, ashy, lips chapped, I dare not take my hat off or imma lose some subscribers!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

💯 Thanks for being real. I'm so tired of Tiny being bullied. It actually makes me sad when I think about how she may feel.

I absolutely appreciate everything that you said. It's good and pleasing to keep your appearance nice and attractive if you have a spouse at home. But it is unrealistic and harmful to not be at peace and comfortable at home whether you are single or married. Home, by definition, should be a place of safety and acceptance of who you are naturally.

It's giving comfortable... and that's ok!!❤😂🎉

1st. Congratulations 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🎉 on all your success!

" She just bought some new eyes " 😂😂😂 Stay Blessed and Comfortable EJ ❤

Tiny's only mistake was putting herself on blast by posting herself to social media. Other than that, she's good.

We have a lot of childish adults. Now if someone took their pic and clowned like that on the internet, they wouldn’t be understanding.

I wear a full face of makeup and nice clothes to work but I tell my coworkers if you catch me on the weekend you may not recognize me! I’m relaxing in yoga pants, a tshirt or sweatshirt, no makeup and hair in a bun! It’s MY TIME! 🙌🏽

“We was consummating our marriage”😂😂😂😂😂

Bruh she look like all her bills are paid. I liked that.

My husband looks at me like "who you" when i dress up. I'm almost 40. I'm not gonna get dressed up to lay in my bed. Maybe like once a year 😂

Admittedly, I’m fly as heck when I walk out the door (Well at least I think I am…). But a word of warning-do NOT follow me home. This sense of urgency to be defined as beautiful is frightening. The ONE that created us thinks we’re “lovely” He says so. That’s GREAT enough for me!

My husband calls my at home look, “house sexy”, he explains that I look relaxed, natural, my feet are bare and my curly hair can do what ever, he loves it when its a mess of curls… I’ve been rocking this look for over 20 years, happily with confidence, we are good good ya know? Ms Aretha sang it best…you make me feel like a natural woman 💋

Tiny is not ugly at all. People hate on Tiny out of pure jealousy.

Girl, that's me. If I haven't had my coffee, nothing is going to look good. Tiny is an entertainer she has her time like we all do. Home is the place to unwind and take all the makeup off, and relax. 😊

People are confusing beauty standards of someone who is an Entertainer and does it for their job with beauty standards of regular folks and that's the biggest problem. An Entertainer who does it for their job literally looks beautiful at work and then comes home and looks like whatever they feel like looking. Because they're not at work and no one's paying them. I feel like this is the problem with folks being chronically online. They really think a full beat face is baseline. And by folks I mean kids, because it's really the children who think this way. Anybody who thought she looked ugly needs to go outside and touch grass. Walk through the grocery store and smile and say hi to people. Let someone into your lane when you're driving. Aspire to be a human being.

U can't be ugly at home 💯💯

If you are a reasonable person, chilling at home without guests over, and you look better than that, my question is WHY? All I see is someone being casual at home answering the phone. Celebrity or no, you need to be able to feel free to look the way you naturally look

I am rolling on the floor with large laughter at your truth and mine...you should see me lookin uuggllyy I love it so comfortable but when its time to bring it I AM THERE WITit:-*

Periodttttt EJ🙌🏽 we love you 🥹

Girl I looked at my new passport and wondered who the heck is that woman. I look like my aunty.😥 🤣

I’m watching this in the house looking ugly 😂 and I’m too content rn!

Ok first time watching. You are Fantastic! Im a middle age wte lady and I love you!! Great message too! Keep it up!

So glad you are back ❗️❗️❗️👏👏👏👏💯👍

Beautiful I appreciate this so much. Filled with love and sistren vibes

I love how you respectfully got everyone together on this! I am tired of hearing people talk noise about Tiny, it is sad and soo disrespectful. Thank you Black Queen ❤❤❤

People are so mean and critical these days. Let folks live their life. She’s a momma & wife, a real person and is a celebrity. She looked like somebody’s confused momma. No one looks cute on live or FT when they wake up or laying in the bed. Period.

Beautiful message for our women

😂she bought some more eyes....💀

That bills paid line hit different! You preached a word girl!

She wasn’t her cutest but she at home chillin that’s how she suppose to look.

"I cannot take my hat off because I'ma lose some subscribers" 🤭😆🤣

It’s about total comfort for me at home. I’m thinking shave the mustache,Tiny, just in case you have to go out only because I just shaved my mustache yesterday.

I'm sitting in the house looking ugly too. Debating on if I want another cheeseburger or not.

LOVE THIS! ❤ We all have our "not so cute" moments. My man loves me while having an allergy flare up, with a snotty red nose and runny eyes! TIP CLEARLY loves his wife, that's all that matters. 🤷🏾‍♀️