Can You Repair A Marriage After An Affair?

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Can you repair a marriage after an affair? At Marriage Helper, we believe so.
Infidelity is a common issue among married couples in this day and age.
Through the internet and social platforms, people are more accessible than ever before. This level of temptation can place a wedge between you and your spouse, creating mistrust, insecurity, and guilt on both ends. The last thing you want for your marriage is to leave your spouse, but you feel hurt from their actions and have no if you can even come to forgive. If your spouse had an affair and you don't know what to do next, watch this video to learn more about what potentially caused the affair was how to solve your marriage issues.
Have you ever questioned what drove your spouse to have an affair? What was going on in their minds, and why would they do something like that?
In this video, we cover:
-Common reasons why your spouse is pulling away from you
-Standing for your morals and values
-Accountability
-Ways to repair your marriage after an affair
-Ways to rebuild trust in a damaged marriage
At Marriage Helper, we have experienced and helped thousands of couples in crisis after their spouse had an affair. Although we know it's never okay to cheat on your spouse, there is a reason for everything, and understanding what brought your spouse to that point is the first step to healing, strengthening trust, and building back your marriage after an affair.
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@MarriageHelper 2 года назад

Has infidelity affected your marriage? Are you choosing to stand for your marriage? We'd love to hear from you in the comments. ❤️

@Mham1969 2 года назад

I’ve found out about the situation a person can do everything in one’s power but can you convince your mind?I’ve found that more difficult than one can imagine

@quintillajones5060 2 года назад

Yes, infidelity has affected my marriage. Yes, I am choosing to stand for my marriage.

@rachelyates6138 2 года назад

Yes, husband cheated. No, I have no idea what I'm going to do. I don't think I can stand next to, or fight for, a cheater.

@Mham1969 2 года назад

When the spouse does not admit to wrong doing,Shows no remorse you will not find forgiveness,You will not build trust there for I don’t believe that the marriage will last

@MoparMikeMM 2 года назад

My wife has borderline personality disorder and unfortunately it causes people to flip their thoughts and feelings, often hypersexuality is another symptom of it. So yes she's had multiple affairs, and yes I still stand for our marriage. I just want her to want to fix things.

@jeanne5354 2 года назад

Greater opportunity especially social media, internet, both work, there’s less respect for the sanctity of marriage it’s very sad.

@buffuniballer Год назад

The question isn't CAN it be repaired. The question is SHOULD it be repaired. If someone cannot tell you she is unhappy, and she secretly goes out and has an affair, do you really want to be with someone who is unwilling or unable to be honest. If she is not committed to being open and honest, then she's not worth the effort. The person having the affair has to own it and be 100% open and honest. If she's not willing to do this, then why would you want to repair the relationship?

@Diana-kt5gc 2 года назад

This was helpful. I have been doing this for a while and yet these videos always help me feel hopeful and positive.

@donna62016 2 года назад

YES! A thousand times, YES! Even if it happens more than once. Read the Book of Hosea in the Bible. I know several couples that have been in the shoes of Hosea and Gomer, and they turned their lives over to Christ and are thriving. God tells a husband to take his wife back.

@sudeshgaur6059 2 года назад

Maybe a henpecked husband, yes !

@donna62016 2 года назад

@@sudeshgaur6059 No, a man with Godly integrity... a man that loves his wife the way God instructs, like Christ loves the church. God always forgives and takes us back when we repent.

@TomikaKelly 11 месяцев назад

@donnasmith6978 Infidelity is an act of hatred. A man that loves his wife won't cheat on her.

@TomikaKelly 11 месяцев назад

Sis, you sound like a doormat...😬

@donna62016 11 месяцев назад

@@TomikaKelly Have you listened to Dr. Joe and Mary Beam? Their testimony. Have you read the Book of Hosea? Infidelity isn't an act of hatred toward one's spouse. It's more about the issues within oneself (lack of self-esteem, etc.). Can you imagine the healing that would take place within them if they were shown forgiveness, unconditional love, mercy, and grace??? Can you imagine how a repentant sinner feels upon receiving Christ's love, mercy, and forgiveness? In marriage we are to grow in Christ's image and reflect His image to our spouse. We are going to have to go through some tough trials to grow in His image. A trial will either harden our heart, or mold us in the image of Christ; however, it's our choice as to how we will let it shape us. A trial will either grow you in love or harden your heart in hatred and bitterness. I choose love, mercy, grace, and forgiveness.

@ajalahupfront 2 года назад

Yeah infidelity has affected my marriage. I'm not sure I want to work on the marriage to be honest. Like Kimberly said, the affair is a symptom of deeper issues in the marriage.. We both cheated

@iamflay3776 2 года назад

How are you coping

@ajalahupfront 2 года назад

@@iamflay3776 I'm fine. I guess

@iamflay3776 2 года назад

@@ajalahupfront Did y’all let go

@nkirksey0114 2 года назад

How are you doing? Did you end up staying together?

@ajalahupfront 2 года назад

@@nkirksey0114 hey there. Yes. We stayed together and we are working things out. I realize that I prefer to work things out since he was willing to as well. Marriage can be stressful.

@Mham1969 2 года назад

Don’t know if a person could keep it together after an affair

@Mham1969 2 года назад

@Rebecca Saviour say what?who’s in jail

@chasselkyteroyo6935 2 года назад

I 'm on the verge of giving up , its hard because we have children . It's hard to fight when he does't want it anymore

@TomikaKelly 11 месяцев назад

Why are you fighting to keep a cheater in your life?

@ElimEx1 9 месяцев назад

23:50: Which is more important, your marriage or your job? Our MC asked that question and I said my job unfortunately. As a sole income household, in the middle of a pandemic in a field where it would be hard to get something with as much money (which we badly needed), I chose my job while I started looking for a new one. I got laid off at some point and was able to find another job within a couple months only because I had started the process. But sometimes, it's easier said than done. Some people would say not to have an affair in the first place (which I agree with) but it's as much a mental health issue as depression is. When an entire family depends on a sole income provider, there needs to be some give and take.

@AverageAufa 3 месяца назад

when the person who cheated actually opens up and admits it, then shows remorse VERSUS the partner caught them cheating… is so different

@stevemines6870 2 года назад

My sister and brother inlaw attended a weekend loved it .

@1010aure Год назад

It can if he is totally transparent and really shows a change. I am going thru this right now . My husband has apologized 1000 times telling me how much he loves me, has made some changes, but still wants his privacy he gave me his pho e password he has changed it since that he has a pay pal account which I asked to see the statements. He claims he doesn't know how to get it them. Is really hard to believe words when actions do not match

@carol-em2gv Год назад

Dont trust again. He has lost your trust. Do not believe him anymore. Keep an eye open. Leave if u fing one more cheating. I was once told that a cheater will never stop cheating. He will be more careful or hide it better, but he wont stop. Take my word.

@TomikaKelly 11 месяцев назад

Why would you still be married to someone that you have to check their PayPal statements?

@WhiteAngelLovesEarth 2 года назад

Next...!

@improvisedsurvival5967 2 года назад

This is silly affairs are betrayal. That is the ultimate disrespect. I’m not saying hold a grudge forever but it’s over for sure.

@kimberlybarry8357 11 месяцев назад

Yeah

@jennifermayer2708 2 года назад

It depends on how remorseful the cheater is and how severe the details of the affair is.

@TomikaKelly 11 месяцев назад

Remorse and details don't matter. Infidelity is an act of hatred towards a partner. You cannot be married to someone who hates you

@SafetyTrainer 11 месяцев назад

Rebuilt is a better way of looking at it I think. It will not be what it was.

@TomikaKelly 11 месяцев назад

It's best to rebuild a marriage with a fresh new partner

@stevemines6870 2 года назад

Pulls sound a lot like selfishness to me why stay in a relationship like that even if you still love them wont it. Happen again (trying to understand)

@debashishmandalpsysk544 Год назад

After the affairs husband should divorce wife. It's a true fact and relationship should be finished.

@MarriageHelper Год назад

Hey Debashish Mandal psysk, thank you for your comment. However, we disagree. We believe there is ALWAYS hope for a marriage no matter what. If you have had a bad experience in the past that has caused you to feel this way, we understand wholeheartedly. But there is always hope. If you change your mind and decide you would like to seek help for your marriage, we would love to talk to you and will always remain a safe place for you. You can call us directly at 1 866 903 0990 if you'd like to chat. Blessings,

@miekesiauw3805 2 года назад

Affair dgn siapa..mahluk Dari kubur..pikirr..ITU mahluk Dari kubur gentayangan bukan.pikir!

@jed7976 2 года назад

Can it be fixed even if I'm the only one wants to save our marriage? My husband is still not over his mistress and he got her pregnant. 😭

@eileenfuentes6975 2 года назад

Absolutely. Look up a video on this channel about pies. I did.

@gracelady6874 2 года назад

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@gracelady6874 2 года назад

W h a t s p p H i m f o r h e l p

@gracelady6874 2 года назад

✝15104600269⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ I can't believe am with my love again

@charlieroseline8692 2 года назад

Dont worry I know of some one who can help you Mr favour helped me manifested my ex husband back to me within 48 hours he can also help you out too..........

@dennispalmer6007 11 месяцев назад

Can you save a marriage during an emotional affair

@TomikaKelly 11 месяцев назад

Why would you even want to?

@NavyDave219 Год назад

Any level of infidelity is a betrayal that is unforgivable. Infidelity is a choice.

@lucylucy2171 Год назад

Any sin is forgivable. Doesn't mean you have to stay, but forgiveness is good. Especially for the one that's been hurt

@homeoffavours Год назад

And a mean people or someone who does not provide for his family and is able is worse than an infidel

@xozoey1744 2 года назад

Its easier when both parties cheated

@christodekoker9447 2 года назад

How?

@brendancreaven9452 Год назад

might as well become swingers

@danharms4237 5 месяцев назад

@brendancreaven9452 Год назад

No, a marriage cannot be repaired after an affair.

@lucylucy2171 Год назад

Yes, it can. It's happened many times before

@homeoffavours Год назад

@@lucylucy2171 i am in a mess , an affair has cost me my everything coz my spouse decided to publicize it everywhere even before he got the truth, become very abusive and litterally mal treated me to apoint i felt enough is enough

@lucylucy2171 Год назад

@@homeoffavours when there is abuse, then I wouldn't want anyone to stay in such a terrible state. I'm sorry that has happened to you. I do pray yoy find strength and peace

@homeoffavours Год назад

@@lucylucy2171 I have healed but remember his intention was to taint my name everywhere so that have nobody to talk to or listen me

@lucylucy2171 Год назад

@@homeoffavours well, that is definitely malice. Knowing you're the innocent one and the person isn't taking responsibility for their actions is cruel