That’s what I believed for a wholesome chunk of my life. I believed my thoughts about people, things and situations as reality but in fact reality is not our thoughts. Rather It’s based on the facts.
behavior rather than label... exactly what to take note of, Studying one's behavior through at least one interaction will give much info on how to approach them. combining it with other factors such as letting the other side do the talking in order to learn more about them while making them feel they're in control is actually easy, It's easy to read people i guess.
They don't put up obstacles _unless_ they've been manipulated, ignored and betrayed repeatedly by those supposedly sent to help - for years - to the point where they don't trust you at first glance. Unique situations must be taken into consideration.
