Celebrating our Stillborn Daughter's 3rd Heavenly Birthday | Vlog  

Oh Stef, I'm so sorry that Kaia is not physically with you. She is watching, with your mom, and is so proud of you and Kameron. I love how you celebrate her and I cry with you every year. Big Nana hugs for all of you. Beautiful video, as usual. ❤🎂 JUST FINISHED VIDEO: your mom was there, with you, helping you with the babies. We have to believe there's some kind of life after this one. It's all a rehearsal here. We will be reunited with our moms and babies. I'm not religious at all, but I feel this.

The ‘River Nile’ emergency during the cake cutting was absolutely hilarious 😂 Happy heavenly birthday, Kaia 💝 What a beautiful celebration

Perhaps Kieron sees her, children do have a gift of seeing people who passed ❤

The celebration of Kaia’s birthday was beautiful! I know your mom would be there with you all. If you ever see lavender jelly, grab some. It’s delicious.

This is a beautiful cake for a beautiful baby girl in heaven.

What a beautiful birthday for your daughter and you did a beautiful job with decorating the cake.You and Kameron are wonderful parents.

What a beautiful celebration for your Mom and Kaia. I believe you do have angels watching over you.

Hi Stefanie. Kaia's cake was beautiful! You are really good at cake decorating! You are multitalented. I bet Kaia and your mom were up there smiling down at you and your sweet earthside family. 🎂🍾🥂🍓🎈

I want to thank you for inviting us to your Kaia’s 3 rd birthday party also moms too and thanks for the tears but how beautiful that cake came out and you made everything so special ❤

I truly believe that babies and toddlers can see spirits and angels. I experienced it with both of my kids. I wish that gift never left us, and we all could see them. Happy Birthday to Kaia and your mom.

Stefanie, I truly believe that both Thora and Kieran saw your mom. The same thing happened with my oldest son when he was a baby. I lost my grandmother on December 21, 1991. I was pregnant with my son, her first great grandchild. My son was born on January 14, 1992. She was so excited to meet her great grandson. She told me that she wasn't gonna leave until she got to see him. My son did what Thora did. He would stare intently over my shoulder and just laugh and smile. My mom, myself, and my ex-husband all believe my grandmother was there, enjoying her only great grandson. That was 33 years ago and to this day I still believe that my grandmother was keeping her promise.

Of course you have...Ms. Kaia has a big job of watching over her family ❤ Ask Kaia to visit you in a dream, Stef

My son is 52 today. Take your green tomatoes and make some fried green tomatoes! Happy heavenly birthday Kia. You are a beautiful angle!❤❤

What a HOT Bartender you have there!!! 😂HA! I need to find myself one! At 70 it may not be so easy for me, though! 😉 You did a beautiful job decorating the cake! I’m glad you shared ALL the “events” going on during the cake cutting! I’ll bet Kiera was laughing in Heaven, too! There along with your mom! 😂😂 I DO believe your mom is watching and helping you from above! My mom has helped me many times, too. My husband and mom have come to me while I was sleeping. Once my husband came to me holding the hands of my 2 grandsons who were born to soon. He came to advise me on a crisis going on with me. But, he did tell me he was caring for my 2 grandsons in Heaven. So, that’s why I feel your mom was probably there with Keira for the birthday party!!! Don’t ever let anyone cause you to doubt it! There is a lot about our world that no one knows! But, I do know our loved ones continue love us FOREVER! ❤️😘

I've celebrated my daughter Olivia Grace heavenly 16th birthday today, me, my eldest son and my ex husband went up to her grave and put some lovely things on with some balloons and then went for some dinner and when my youngest son came home from school I let him blow out the candles on the cake for Olivia, it was lovely and what a lovely heavenly birthday you gave your daughter ❤xx

Stefanie I'm sure your beautiful and sweet angel Kaïa 👼 and your lovely Mom 💜 are with you all the time and they're watching over you from Heaven 💖💖

Kaia and Thora look so much alike!

Your Mom and Kaia will always be with you. ❤

Happy heavenly birthday Kaia! I can't believe that you would have a 3 year old daughter right now!What a beautiful decorated birthday cake that matched perfectly with Kaia's birthday dress?! Maybe you and your son are seeing little angles from your mother!

Happy birthday to your mom in heaven. I bet your mom has been around. What a cool experience❤❤❤ Wish you could see what your kids see, too. I'm glad you've gotten some comfort from seeing your kids experience that❤.

Omg, I'm crying. You guys are beautiful. Happy birthday Kaia❤. Happy birthday Stephanie's mom 💕💕

❤ Stefanie~ it hurts my heart to hear you say you have doubts about an afterlife. My dad who was also my best friend passed away 7 years ago and the signs he has sent myself and my sisters’ are absolutely miraculously amazing and so obvious! Your adorable Mom is revealing her spirit presence to you and your children ALL THE TIME! My niece was 5-6 months old when she was lying on a blanket on the floor with her mom and she was looking at a completely blank wall and smiling and giggling and engaging with whomever the spirit was visiting her. It’s all on video and it blew us away. It lasted for a good 15 minutes! My sister kept trying to get her attention and she wasn’t interested. My sister kept looking at this white wall and saying ….sweet girl, who are you talking to. She was amazed. Talk to your mom and give her validation. 😊 she so badly wants you to know she’s there. I love you and your family! Remember this: TO BE ABSENT FROM THE BODY IS TO BE PRESENT WITH THE LORD 🕊️🕊️

Yes Mrs Stephanie that was your mom young children and animals can see spirits of our loved ones who have passed away so never be afraid they will always be around watching over us I'm not scared either I always feel my mom presence. 😊

I'm just crying happy tears for you when you were telling us about your Mom and Thora and also about Kieran too! Yes! I believe your Sweet Mama was there entertaining Thora at your time of need.💖 💜💖💜💖💜 Happy Heavenly Birthday to Kaia and your Mama! I loved Kaia's dress and the beautiful colors matched her cake.💖🎂💖 My Mom loved Margarita's too! 💜

Your tradition of remembering the anniversary of your stillborn daughter's birth is absolutely beautiful and perfectly normal. Jewish tradition calls for the lighting of a special candle on the anniversary of a loved one's death.

The cake is beautiful. You could do it professionally. Happy 3rd birthday Kaia

Bartender hubby is adorable perfecting his craft.

I am so glad you were close to your mom I am sure you do feel her presence!

Thank you for leaving leaving the camera on. 😂😂😂😂 The cake looks beautiful . Happy heavenly birthday to your mom and Kaia. Thora looks like her big sister. ❤❤

Beautiful traditions you do for you loved ones!! You are so beautiful and talented! ! Thanks for sharing!! God Bless your beautiful family🤗

Happy 3rd heavenly birthday beautiful kaia

Happy heavenly birthday to your mom ❤❤❤. She’s definitely with you ❤️❤️❤️. I feel my dad a lot. ❤️❤️❤️.

What a sweet tribute to Kaia for her 3rd Birthday. I totally believe your Mom was visiting the kids and she is holding sweet Kaia close. Hugs! 🥰 Happy Birthday to your Mom in Heaven.

I believe there is a time our loved ones come. Your mother knew you needed her. I had my mom come to me in my dream it was the most comfort place

The colors on that cake, super pretty! Everyone grieves different, so nothing is “weird”. I believe that Thora and Kieran saw your mother. I am a firm believer that they are not truly gone, just with us in another form. Your mother and my mother were birthday twins, down to the day and year. 😢 ((HUGS)) ❤

I enjoyed you guys celebrating Kaia and your mom! What a special way to honor them both. Thanks for sharing. Happy heavenly birthday to them both!

I've already posted twice but I really felt the need to say thank you Stefanie for being so open and willing to share your memories of your mom and your daughter with us as well as being so open with us and including us in you and your beautiful families lives.

Kaia’s birthday party was beautiful and so was your Mom’s Stefanie! What a great way to honour both of them! Kaia and your Mom will always be with you! I’m glad you felt their presence! They will always be there for you! Happy birthday in heaven Kaia and Mom! ❤️❤️

I love that you guys do this and it's an awesome way to remember your sweet girl and your kids to remember her too!! Also the river Nile poop comment I love it. Thanks for leaving that in 😂❤

What a beautiful celebration for Kaia’s 3rd Heavenly Birthday, the cake 🎂 was stunning!! Your Mom has Kaia ♥️by her side and with her 24/7… Also Thora’s dress is gorgeous🥰

Happy Heavenly (belated) Birthday to your sweet Kaia and Momma! And that drink looks awesome. I see Kam knows what he's doing!

Absolutely beautiful.

Just watching you sing happy birthday all dressed up made me cry , then you both band together and laugh at life's on going moments...made me cry also...bless you and your growing family

Happy Heavenly 3rd birthday 🎂 Kaia . I know GD has you in his arms, giving you all the heavenly sweet kisses and blessings you get your 👼🏽 wings today ✨️ 💕HOORAY 🎉now your job is to watch over your little brother and sister.

You have amazing strength. Happy Heavenly Birthday, Kaia.

In 10 days it marks six years since my momma left us. I wish I could feel her presence right now bcuz it’s definitely needed. Sending love and prayers to you! ❤

Such a pretty cake and such an awesome way to honor your beautiful Kaia. It's so awesome that Kieran and Thora will grow up knowing their big sister so well. Happy Heavenly 3rd Birthday sweet Kaia.🎉❤

I do believe those that pass can return when needed. I to have felt my mam s presence when I needed her. So comforting.

The cake was beautiful! As is your family. And I am with you in the fact that children can she spirits. And I do believe that your mother was there with your daughter and son!❤❤❤❤

Gorgeous............. My favorite was the Kameron Saying O..M...G & you Kackling Stephanie..... Seeing your Laughter🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

She never left ya momma ❤

Kaia’s cake was so pretty!❤

I love that your memories make you smile more than cry. I think our loved ones would never want us to be sad, but instead, celebrating their lives as often as we can. Your mom and baby are together being silly and loving each other so much ❤

I just left another comment, but I will also comment here. I have had a near death experience & know for 100% that your mom & Kaia are both with you, all of the time. My father passed when my youngest son was just 5 years old. The experiences he had with my father after he passed were incredible. For instance, he asked me to turn his nightlight off 2 weeks after my dad died. When I asked him if he was sure (he was very afraid of the dark), he said “yes, because when papa visits in the night time, heavens colors are so pretty & I can’t see them with my nightlight on”. He knew things about my dad I had never told him. He even told me that his gg (great grandma) would visit with his Papa & that her name was Francis. I had never met this grandmother because she died years before I was born. I had never told my son her name, in fact, he didn’t even know she existed. I had so many experiences with my youngest son when he came to deceased relatives. When I asked him how he knew so much about the people in heaven, he said because kids don’t forget & that they could still see heaven & God. You are most definitely not alone, Stefanie. ❤

Happy Birthday to your precious little girl and your beautiful mother ❤️

Big hugs. My younger daughter (whose middle name is also Olivia!) turned 2 Friday, and I remember watching your videos through my pregnancy with her. It's beautiful that you remember your eldest daughter and make such positive memories surrounding her, for both yourselves and her younger siblings. I wish you joy and comfort.

❤ Happy 3rd heavenly birthday to Kaia ❤ I think it's beautiful how you celebrate her each year! Kieran and his squeaky shoes, lol 😂

Also Happy Heavenly Birthday to your Mom.

I really love how you and Kameron celebrate Kaia's birthday in heaven. The dress and cake are absolutely beautiful!! I cry watching the celebration. I found your channel after your loss, I have been loving it since. I'm sorry that you have the loss of your mom now too. Sending you gentle hugs. ❤❤

My heart breaks for your loss and the hurt you must feel. She will always be with you in your heart. 💓

Happy Birthday to your momma❤

Happy 3rd Heavenly Birthday Kaia ... may you tiny wings allow you to visit your incredible mommy and daddy and your new siblings - Leave them a little feather so they know you was close xxx Gentle hugs Stefanie and Kameron x

Happy Birthday baby girl. Her dress and cake were beautiful. Your helper is the best

My twins were born shortly after my dad passed. They would stare off in the room often and giggle. I know my dad was there. Trust your gut. Your mom is with you and your family.❤

The River Nile!!!! Hilarious! I love it! 😅

I am sure Kaia is always with you watching on her sibling! Sending both of you love!

Absolutely beautiful cake.

Your younger daughter looks like her older sister.

Happy birthday baby girl🎉🎉❤

Lol dying laughing at the 💩 explosion lol 😂😂😂 too funny ❤ Happy Birthday Kaia 😇 🙏 🌸

Happy 3rd Heavenly Birthday to Kaia 🎉❤🎉 sweet baby girl. I know she’s still with her earthly family and smiling all around you all. The preparation of the cake and seeing the icing licker plus the family shot was beautiful. Thank you for sharing. At 3:10 I LOST IT 😂😂😂 Thank you for NEVER forgetting Kaia and always incorporating her as your 1st 🥇 while never leaving out her little brother and sister. I don’t know if it’s the detail you bring to every single video or the laughter most of the time you give me when I watch but I THANK YOU for giving me beauty, empathy and laughter with your vlogs. ❤❤❤❤

It's so nice when we can remember our lost loved ones with smiles instead of just with tears. I believe your mom is with you, and that your babies see her and know that they belong to her. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Kaia and your Mama have and always will be with you. Happy Birthday to both of them 😊

Kaia and your mom are definitely showing signs of being around. Kids are a lot more perceptive, they aren’t jaded adults yet ☺️♥️ I lost my son 2 1/2 years ago, he has paid me many visits, occurances too weird to not be him! Happy birthday Kaia and your mom, I just had mine on the 12th ☺️

😂😂😂 Cameron says.. "Are you pooping everywhere" "are you exploding" "please help"😂😂😂 I'm crying laughing by myself over here.. oh my gosh that was priceless, I'm so happy the camera was still recording and caught that.. I wasnt sure if I heard that right at first.. oh my gosh too funny😅

Good morning all happy Tuesday morning and this was amazing video I enjoy your channel and you all amazing supporter

He was playing with Grandma!!!😮😊

Kia knows you and Kam love her…your mom as well. This is not the end. Kieran and Thora are growing! Sweet family time!🩷🙏🏻🩵🙏🏻🩷

I love that you celebrate Kaia's birthday! I'm so sorry she is not physically here with you but I am sure she is there with you all 💗💗 her party is absolutely beautiful!! I feel my Mom near me also 💗

The cake was beautiful and the party just right as Goldilocks would say 🙂👍🏻👌🏻🫶🏻. Yes there is life after death. There is a saying that goes like this; “ We are spiritual beings here having mortal experiences, not mortal beings having spiritual experiences!” So if you think on those terms our soul still exists and resides in our spirit world. Your mom and Kaia are closer than you think but not so far that you can’t feel them. Such love and joy in these special days 💖. Thanks for sharing with us. 🥳

Stefanie, if you study reincarnation enough you will learn that young children are open to visits from the departed, in fact imaginary friends are thought to be visits from the departed. They also often can remember previous lives and even speak in a foreign language. My grandson (little AG) saw my dad when he was 2 while playing hide and seek with his mom. He came running back to her from another room & said he had seen my dad and then went and pointed out a photo of him to her. “Little AG” was born just 9 hours BEFORE my dad died. My dad (Big AG) had been holding out waiting to hear that Little AG had been born and was doing OK, because the little guy was being named after him. I was taking care of my dad at our home at that time while he was in Hospice. Once I told my dad the baby had been born and was doing well, my dad gave up and passed away with minutes. So, your thoughts about Thora and Kieran acting like they might be seeing your mom is quite possible. Little kids are much more open to those type of interactions while young.

Happy 3rd Heavenly Birthday🙏🏼 May God give you strength to cope with your loss on your sad days. Grief will never go away we just learn how to cope with it 😭 God bless you and your family 🌹

I stated crying a second after you guys started singing happy birthday. Happy birthday little angel ❤

Happy Birthday Mom 😊 Happy Birthday Kaia 😊 Love y’all bunches 💙🩷🩷💙🩷🐱

I use to be a cake decorator and baker. Here’s a tip, add simple syrup to your cake before filling it, it makes a huge difference in taste and moisture. 2cups sugar 1 cup water and a splash of vanilla.

Kaia's cake came out adorable! She may not be here on Earth but Kaia will always be with you guys. The cutting of the cake commentary from Kameron I just died. Man I needed that laugh today.

You have lots of good fun memories of your mom. I’m sure you had a hard week hugs!

Stefanie you are so amazing. Your mom and Kia ( sorry if misspelled) are definitely watching from heaven. This was so beautiful celebrating her 3rd heavenly birthday. Sending you all hugs and prayers ❤❤❤.

Angels she was seeing ANGELS.💖💖

Super jelly of your awesome drinks! Gorgeous cake decorating skills too btw!

Happy Birthday 🎂 her cake was amazing. The drinks...awsome!

I love your videos your babies are adoreable

When you said happy birthday mom I without thought or second guessing it immediately came out of my mouth, I told your mom happy birthday like she was my own, anyways I hope you’re doing wonderful mama, wishing Kaia girl a beautiful 3rd birthday as well

WOW Steph, you’re so loving with your babies! In my day we were taught to let our babies cry it out. We were told it was good for them………I believe your Mom & Kia is with you regularly. Ask them about visits when they’re old enough to talk

The birthday parties were both lovely, i'm sure your mum is around ❤❤ The river Nile part was so funny 😂😂

Ahh this was beautiful. Happy heavenly birthday to Kaia❤ Blessings to you all❤

My dad wanted nothing more than for a great grandson from my sons. My son did gave a son 2 months before my dad passed and he was able to meet him! When Levi was only 5-6 months old, he would stare at a pic of my dad on the fridge. As he got older he would look at the pic and babble at it. When he was old enough to point , I asked who he was taking to and staring at. He turned his sweet little head and pointed right at my dad’s pic. Hes almost 6 now and still acts and talks like he talks to my dad occasionally. It both makes me happy and sad.

Your baby girl, Kaia and your Mom are safe and you will be with them again. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Best story time ever! I thoroughly enjoyed. Keep being your authentic self❤ The kids look so much alike to me. From one Washington to girl to another…xoxo Whidbey Island mama

Beautiful video Stefanie, you’re excellent in making wholesome videos. I also believe babies see angels and the spirit of loved ones from time to time😂. Happy birthday Kaia and grandma🎉.