CHIT CHAT GRWM | opening up, losing a partner, how I changed my mindset, why im single + more. 

I agree, changing your mindset WILL shift your entire life. I share this with everyone I love and even strangers bc it really is life changing to be positive.

Your story was so relatable for me. My ex was murdered in 2020 and I felt it happen. I was going to bed and felt a sharp pain in my chest, the next morning his sister texted me that he was killed. I later found out he was shot in the chest.

I feel like you’re really private so this is so refreshing to hear even the most perfect people struggle and I just loved it girl sending you positive energy 🧚🏽‍♀️🧚🏽‍♀️🧚🏽‍♀️

Thank you for sharing your story! I'm so happy you were able to take a horrible situation and become a better version of yourself! but I def recently had a mindset changed which stemmed from something traumatic for me that happened in my life...and when I tell you everything took a 360 turn!! I see everything and everybody so differently now. I wake up everyday feeling positive and grateful and my life is just not the same and I'm just much more happier and been attracting great things that I never knew I would ever have access to before! Being in control of your life and what you want hits different!

videos like this is the reason why you’re my favorite. thank you❤

Girl the curtain bangs really elevated the hair and frame your face beautifully

Aja I love how courageous you are being vulnerable with us !! I love you and admire you as a woman & mother

The most heart felt conversation ever!!!! Thank you for sharing! I think it’s important for everyone to know what you said about mindset and how being negative and positive does affect your everyday life and situations! Related to that so much! I love the make up! Definitely more pinky tone lips I agree with you! I love it though maybe alittle more dramatic lashes but everything else came out bomb! 😍🙌🏼🫶🏻

Aja please you made me cry 😭I lost my first love as well and I never was the same person after that. 7 years later I’m FINALLY starting my grieving. Losing a partner is so hard

You just told me to calm down, shutup and that everything will be okay. I feel as if God was trying to tell me that someone wasn’t meant for me and thus just helped me understand that. Thank you so much for changing my perspective.

Same. I lost my BF to a brain aneurysm suddenly, 10 years ago and it still has an impact on me today. Definitely felt like that was my person but most recently I have felt that I deserve another love of my life because Gods favor isn’t fair. Thanks for sharing! Love your channel ❤❤

I absolutely love when you let your intrusive thoughts win lol this video is such a good vibe. Absolutely lovvvvvve this!

I totally can relate to that mindset !! I used to be so negative and stressed out about things now It’s so much going on in the world that I look at things as completely different and fugue it just wasn’t for me or I was being protected from something. The makeup is giving wedding ready 1000 percent 🙌🏽🥰

💛I loved this from start to finish. & the look, “ready to party”😙 *chefs kiss*

Thanks for sharing Aja. I could definitely relate to your story. In July 2020 my ex boyfriend & first love died of a accidental drug overdose. My life was never the same since the exact moment I found out. Then I found out on IG.. still so traumatic for me. Thank you for always putting out authentic content. I truly appreciate it & felt like someone finally understands how I’ve been feeling for the past 3 years! 💕

Been binge watching your old videos for the last couple days. Good times 😂🥰

I screamed when I seen the notification, I missed you girl hope all is well 🤍

Amen on the I am willing to compromise but I am NOT willing to settle!!!! louder for the girlies in the back!! SIS I felt that one right there!

This is one of the best GRWM I've seen. From the conversation to the makeup. I loved it. You are low key hilarious too!!

You don’t need a makeup artist 🥹 your makeup is always TOP TIER 🙏🏽❤️

Phew controlling my mentality is where am at rn. Battling depression is no joke but I’ll win.

My sons father passed when he was 2 years old they were BEST FRIENDS ! I felt this on another level ❤

So happy to see a video from you this week!

Aja, going through a break up now. Thank you for this video. Trying to shift my mindset from negative to positive. Thank you ❤

MISSED YOUR CONTENT OMG WELCOME BACK 🤞🏽🤞🏽

Aja we need Tiktok Videos from you!! and omg makeup looks so good with the new bangs. Also please tell me what lash brand/style you are wearing! ❤

Yay welcome back you were missed ,coffee Aja is lit 😂 your make up was 🔥

Thank you for this video. You are so real and wise & felt it when you said, “sometimes you just need someone to be like feel me.” Keep shining Aja❤

Couldn’t help but tear up watching this❤loss of a loved one is challenging ❤love your hair and makeup. Keep going strong muma❤

I believe it!! My husband was killed almost 6 years ago. We were together for 23 years. I swear I felt the minute he was killed. Like to my gut. I got nauseous and everything. When he dad called me to say that he was missing I knew he was dead.

The rare beauty joy blush would compliment you well, loved this look!

This gave me chills 🙏🏽 I’ve also lost someone i was dating this same way, felt you on this ❤️

Makeup look is GIVING ! Girl you got me wanting to do this look. Grabs card and run to get these products 🥰♥️ You look gorgeous honey !

The makeup is flawless….. so pretty 😍

Becoming one of my favorite people to watch such a beautiful person!

Makeup giving fresh and i looooooove the hair

Just came across your RU-vid and definitely subscribing ✅ thank you for sharing the story about losing your partner and the way you’ve changed your mindset! Can’t wait to see more videos from you 💓

Me and you are the same skin tone and peachy blushes are *CHEFS KISS* Fav is called hot flush from the Sephora brand!!

I swear u r so hilarious watching this had me rolling love ur energy definitely a beautiful person inside & out love ur content!!! 🫶🏾🥰

One thing about your make-up its gonna slayyy😍 And I love all the topics you touched on❤️

I paid close attention to the way you applied your makeup and ima try doing mine the same bc I have hooded eyes too. I like the cloud paint “dawn” blush by glossier. It’s beautiful on dark skin

Yes, the makeup looks beautiful and yes I would say add more pink to the lips! And thank you for sharing so much. You’re Inspiring ❤. Also not me cackling about the ick about the fly landing on someone 😅😂

im usually this type of airy positive person but ive been down lately & this was just a reminder to pick myself back up, thanks girly 🫶🏽 good luck to you & your continued growth

your makeup looks amazing!

Bruh the part about the fly landing on your date and you were like outta everybody why you 😂😂 I’m dying! Other than that I loved the chat in this video. My YT feed is full of just real good vibes today 😁

wow aja i needed this, thank you

Same happened to me last year he was killed in a car accident…..literally not a day goes by where I don’t think abt him

there she isssss ❤

Loved the video Aja 😊❤

The makeup is awesome and the lip is very pretty on you. I think you should were your hair in an updo. I love it!!

The vulnerability 🥹 whew! Appreciate you taking the time girl. I be watching and learning/unlocking new levels every time. Working on the power of positive thinking myself and it’s such an intentional action. Try to give myself grace feel my feelings but allow them to pass. Love these types of videos. Just sitting down like we on FaceTime catching up. We low key besties in my head but I’m older live in a different country and we’ve never met hehe lol. Nobody can do your makeup the way you can! LOVE IT! It’s giving seductive and fresh tropical vibes but not typical heavy over the top wedding makeup. Aja be stepping when it’s time to STEP. Don’t play wit it!! ♥️🫶🏽

Right on time❤ Thank you for this 🙏🏻

The bangs look good

Hey Girl Hey! Loving the layers AND the curtain bangs☺️!!!

Perfect timing, thank you for sharing 😊

Thank you for your transparency❤

I think a solid background is best (Aja’s corner vibe)The black and white wall contrast was throwing me off. As a supporter, with love. ❤🥂

Base is flawless ❤ Keep playing with your blush I think that would set it offf for your look !!

I love this look!!

My ex passed away (bike accident) and I literally always felt in my heart that he was going to pass away. It was creepy so when I got the call I wasn’t surprised and he wasn’t even into anything but it was like a eerie feeling 😫

I missed you!!!!

Love all of your your content and this video🥺🤗

You should try the under eye lash extension technique for your lashes..they last like 2 weeks

the fly landing on you at the restaurant literally has me dead 😂😂😂 you're too funny

Holonholonholon *me otp when I’m notified Aja posted lol*

girl…why did I do the exact same thing out of pure boredom!!!!! cutting my own curtain bangs lol idk what I was thinking 😂

Love this video. I can so relate.

commenting before I even watch the video cause I got on RU-vid hoping to see a video from you! I be over here acting like we besties irl lmaooo ❤

Love this ❤🫶🏽🤞🏽

Omg I’m the same way!! I don’t get the point of the Charlotte tilbury flawless filter thingy

idc how low the videos are im watching ❤

The skin ❤❤

I feel the same about dating. Definitely going to take my time

Death of a significant person in your life will really open your eyes and shift your focus to what’s most important and make you learn not to dwell on the negatives for sure

Whew, I missed you!

You should read many lives many masters… life changing book for me has helped me deal wit grief, trauma etc and also was very enlightening as far as my purpose in life and in other peoples lives.

love this cause I did my own makeup for my wedding. professional MUA's always make me look like a a dragqueen 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I really enjoyed this video, you are hilarious 😂 Makeup is bomb, so soft and pretty. I think you should go a little deeper in color with the lip liner and smoke out the bottom lash a little more. But regardless, super beautiful ❤

Appreciate the vulnerability ❤

Can you please let us know what lashes you used ?

You are so right! I had to stop thinking negatively as well and when I say instant switch! And I’m always kind that’s what we need as humans. Just be kind ❤

Also, I’m dying because I definitely saved that Salmon grilled cheese recipe the other day. 😮‍💨

Where can we watch this episode?

[Notification that Aja posts a new video] Me: * 26:02 *

Lmao @ 3rd wheeling "can I go our to eat with you guys"?

This happened to me too. I started talking to someone but it was toxic and I didnt take it seriously but one day we had a fight and he died the following night. I was like 19 but devastated. Didnt go to the funeral and regret it but I was young and learned a lot from that.

Definitely in my ick phase

“what in the wolverine did i give birth to” 😭🤣

Hey Friend. ❤❤ sending love and light

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why are we the same person the comment about men and fly LMAOOOOOO

i love the makeup it matches your neck lol but i agree you should go pinky on the lip. not tooo much & girl you funny asab lol

what is your ethnicity?

This video had no sound😔

First!?

Are you proud of your ex Hakim ziyech ❤️?!!!

Did you really have a relationship with a Moroccan in 2018?

I really like your videos, but it has been hard to make it through since you started the whispering. And this could just be a ME thing but when people whisper in videos it annoys me. I liked your videos when you spoke clearly without whispering all the time. Maybe I’ll make it through the next one.