Cleaning a hoarder biohazard kitchen for FREE 

Wendy I know right? + You can hear him some vids musics so loud can't hear people talk

Agree!

Great job. You are very kind to help, and very understanding. Wish the whole world could be this way.

I agree 100%

AMEN!!!

Hope it's going well for you xxx

Every action is a step forward❤

Good for you.

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I hope that you are having a good day today. I'm sending you hugs, all the way from Texas (USA).

My dad was a hoarder, and I'm starting to believe Im going the same way. I lived with my mother most of my life, she has Alzheimers and she's been in a home for almost 3 months now, and she's doing great! Four months ago, I had this same issue: the kitchen was a mess, some maggots here and there (dead and alive)... I paid like $500 to a friend to have the whole house cleaned. It was sparkling like till a month ago, when it started all over again. I have depression. I feel exhausted and anxious. I do visit both psychiatrist and therapist. I exercise regularly (some aerobics at 4:30 am before going to work) but I also have ADHD. I recently asked my sisters, one of them is right now in my house helping me. It's so overwhelming and I'm so scared of keep having this lifestyle. Wish me luck. 😢

@@Gisellenid That’s an interesting coincidence, I have ADHD too! I know it can be super tough to get the motivation to clean, especially once it’s built up, but the best thing you can do is build up a habit of putting things right in the garbage as you make it. Use a big garbage can so you don’t feel demotivated by having to take out the trash so often. You can do it.

It doesn't matter if the house is spotless, you have to fix the root of the problem

@@Gisellenid Some of the drugs that you take may actually be causing your exhaustion. If you can afford it, find a good chiropractor or naturopath who can give you a blood test, or some other kind of test, to find out where you are nutritionally deficient. There are alternative treatments for ADHD besides drugs that do seem to work for some people. In the meantime try to keep on top of things as much as you can. Get help to start, maybe ask someone to come in and help you out once every couple weeks. Perhaps look into changing your diet, e.g. a high sugar diet depletes your body of calcium and magnesium, which can cause exhaustion. Or maybe the exhaustion is caused by something entirely different. I'll pray for you. I know how it feels to want to do nothing at all.

I would have used the dishwasher

Goodness, how would that be to have do many flies hatching on your home 😬 I used to judge people for not keeping a nice home but having lived, & mourned I understand depression now. This is just really Really gross & so sad 😞.

And very efficient hands.

Yeah most of the time I think, "Oh I could clean that up." This one...no way I'd be cleaning that. 😮

And is very funny as well

@@karolina-vd9oc Know the lies of this world, and BE NOT DECEIVED! lets analyse the lies which are world wide believed and origin from masons: lie: schools are of use (fact. schools keep slavery alive and stands for dumbing down the population of mankind) lie: moon and mars landings, (fact: even masons know they cannot leave - earth is closed system, unless you want to drown, there is no other place created for us to live in.) lie: news channels share truth (fact: these are for politic propaganda) lie: voting matters (fact: politic propaganda) lie: money has a value of its own (fact: it is just a tool of this world, which value has been agreed upon world wide, it should be not loved, only used as needed.) lie: NASA lies (globe and all....) (fact: NASA stands for TO DECEIVE and 2 members expose their own lies, one is still alive, the other (Wernher Von Braun) place a clear clue on his own gravestone) - you havn´t searched - have you? lie: the lgbtq++++ propaganda (fact: it is a part of masonry depopulation agenda, 500 000 000 souls, thats their goal - Georgia Guidestones! - who said it be worthy to forget?) lie: Evolution and the dinosaurs. (fact: mankind is not hybrid kind) to keep stating that there was an evolution, then we ain´t humans, we aint then mankind, we are then hybrids. Are you a hybrid? Lie: holidays (xmas, Halloween, new year eve and so on) (fact: PAGAN HOLIDAYS, to praise BAAL, the god of this world) lie: U.F.Os (fact: they are demons/evil spirits in high places, against whom we fight daily = spiritual warfare) lie: rules and laws rule the world (fact: signs and symbols of masonry do) lie: believe in being educated (fact: found daily living with the lack of knowledge) lie: religions are ways to heaven (fact: JESUS CHRIST is only way to heaven. Religions, no matter its name = masonic garbage) lie: our dead loved ones stay around to “ghost” (fact: hunting and ghosting is job of demons, not of humans. We, humans, come from GOD and return back to HIM and all the stories of having been seen a ghost - terrifying, scary, dark, cold - again no job of analysing been done here by you- right?) Lie: Humans have no immune system and we need vaccines as these save lives (fact: humans HAVE IMMUNE SYSTEM and vaccines are created for one or two purpose: to kill or to cripple. If you took all their poison shots then later in life comes all kinds of medical diagnoses = vaccines crippled you - remember that) lie: there is no GOD (fact: There is GOD, who redeems sinners and created us directly from the dust of the earth: Psalms 139:14 (KJV) I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.) to keep claiming that there is no GOD and we aint created directly from the dust of the earth, we soon run out logic, regardless to we place “evolution” in our claims or not and our dead, whats happening to them as they sleep in their graves? - they decay away, becoming the dust form which they were taken, if it ain`t so then we are simply reality deniers. lie: 911 was terror attack (fact: 911 was an inside job, meaning the work of your loved government) lie: TV watching is of use (fact: television (TV) = tell a lie vision, a weapon for our minds, keeping it under MK ULTRA) half lie/half truth: earth is a stage where everyone plays rolls (fact: earth is stage, a freemasonry checkerboard, where both side, black and white are masons and humans both in politics and regular souls = the naive public gets daily played) lie: children are government to raise (fact: children are parents to raise, it takes 2 to make them, it takes 2 to raise them). Lie: we live already in the matrix (fact: we live since birth in BABYLON which is to become “matrix” as Man - us, must merge with machine aka take the mark of the beast and then matrix aka false reality becomes to be 100%) lie: humans are not intelligent enough (fact: it is forgotten fact, we all are intelligent, many have suffered the illness from this world, being indoctrinated by masons, cause who give us the school system which we have? masons did, because they need slaves). Lie: love is low standard and = lust (fact love is high standard as love means> John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. Lie> do what thy wilt there is no body who has the right to judge you (fact> GOD SHALL JUDGE YOU AFTER YOU HAVE DEPARTED ON EARTH and Christians are also called to give out righteous judgment, therefore repent * born again * go and sin no more) lie: slavery is over (fact: slavery was never over, it just changes a little as we are no longer buy`d or sold, still prepared through school systems for our future slavery, succumb to our slave lives based on our free will) lie: BIBLE is man written and a fairytale (fact: BIBLE is written by GOD, through man, bible is not fairytale. BIBLE IS: BASIC INFORMATION/instruction BEFORE LEAVING EARTH = BIBLE. A book - yes, book which we all need as it is only one filled with information and instructions we all need for life on earth. Lie: Miss beauty contests around the world is about beauty of FEMALES (fact: these contests are about beauty of MALES IN DRAG) lie: Medical “virus” known as COVID 19 (facts: real VIRUSES are in Hollywood and kept secret: - THE TTM virus = being tare, trans, mason. Lie: There is no truth, no right nor wrong and all is allowed as long as you are happy. (fact: truth is easy to find, search: BIBLE + FREEMASONRY and expose masons in masonry). 28 lies, should i go on? This world ain´t deceived, out there to deceive? Topic we need to know: search in short: BIBLE + FREEMASONRY. Freemasonry and its plans/agendas/projections/ operations: project blue beam project MK ULTRA Operation Paperclip Operation Mockingbird and more….

I would do the same...I seemed to be able to do things if someone was with me or talking to me.Sadly,most of the time there has been noone and I end up feeling paralyzed and unable to do much.

I put on music from my day and that helps me to keep going. We each have to figure out what helps us.

When I have a panic attack I clean, it distracts me enough to pull thru it. I cant imagine how depression feels. I am glad you had good support, I hope you are doing better. Hugs!

Oh, i get that.

Same. I hated beign alone when my husband was at work. I was so depressed fr years and now my home is starting to slowly look better. I don't know if it's the natural not machine rice mexican water called Horchata that is given me the strength to keep going but i find it weird that I started drinking it daily and started noticing this energy and my brain starting to be able to think clearly and not letting me feel how I use to

I love that tradition!

man that sounds pretty nice. we sometimes all need a kick in the butt to clean

9:19 😢😢😢

I so agree. He's so incredibly kind and compassionate to the home owners. He is also very educational, trying to help others understand the context and factors that go into this so that we can ALL be less judgmental towards those who are struggling.

Well, he must get youtube money though, otherwise I fully agree. Cheers

And he loves cleaning.

​​@@foutchiedoutchie9978well, he is paying those clean-ups with his own money so not sure what your comment is supposed to mean

@@sidlerm1Doing things for free is not always coming from good manners or good intentions, it can be a disguise. Just being sceptic. Like the proportions of income out of a youtube video for the free service can be out of proportion (the video can be very lucrative), it's a general thing for youtube. Like don"t be naive. cheers

You read my mind. I used to do this kind of work, and always used PPE.

Yes... Listen to this person now before you say to yourself, I should have.... And now I have this avoidable problem. I also had a fire fighter give me a tip once, don't wear the sneakers you use to clean with in your car or in your home. Make sure to keep those shoes in your car and spray the soles with peroxide.

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Yes, please take care of your health. You're an angel.

Totally agree with the toxic cleaners he is using, especially oven cleaner! I wish he had on gloves and mask right from the start!

You are amazing. Congratulations for getting done what you got done. That takes a certain amount of courage and a lot of grit. Kudos! I know what it is like and I honor and respect you for pushing through... 💯 🤗👍

You are amazing! You will do a bit a time, blessings

Each night, give yourself an "okay" for each bit you cleaned or kept that way. Bit by bit.

@dagoonite--I'm on meds for depression, anxiety, mood swings, and more. Better Homes and Gardens isn't featuring you. Just wash 10 dishes, rinse and stack what you can. Pick up 10 pieces of dirty laundry, and journal. Later on, do a little more. If you have enough dirty laundry, do a load or two if you can. Sweep the kitchen floor, maybe. Pick up papers and trash, if you can. I use small garbage bags. Each one I fill and toss is a triumph. Tina, Al's wife

Congrats! 🎉

Right? I mean he aready had my attention but I that point I was even more excited. I already saw him pop up earlier but now I definitely want to see more and subscribed.

Well said,my friend!

Yes! My 10 year old daughter is autistic. She was just diagnosed last year. Before then I just couldn't understand why some of the most mundane things (like the sound of a dishwasher running ) would set her off. It's nice to know she's not alone 💜

That is a very brave thing to say. Did you have to get the exterminator in.

I'm autistic too and I don't really understand how being autistic impedes you from doing normal things like cleaning. I'm happy you found inspiration don't get me wrong but him being autistic shouldn't matter tbh.

Parabéns pelo seu trabalho de cuidar das pessoas. Tenho um Filho Asperger.

In one of your videos can you show how to take the oven door apart to clean in between the windows

You are awesome, wish you lived around here and could help my mother-in-law. Sounds like you are a very special person.May God bless you in all you do

Well good for you! You didn't allow Asperger's Syndrome to provent you from having a life. Alot of folks would use that as a crutch but not you. In the UK Sarah Harding (1981-2021) of The Group Girls Aloud had ADHD but it didn't stop her. She would do an extra hour of choreography before her bandmates arrived. They really appreciated it.

Bless you! I'm in the opposite situation now. After many years of caring for my disabled husband, he's now in long-term care and COVID affected my heart, almost completely disabling me, so my adult son now takes care of me, despite having serious health challenges of his own. I am SO appreciative of all he does, because I know how difficult it is for him. I've watched several of this man's videos and I think he's *wonderful*! I'm autistic as well, and it's fantastic to see such a positive, productive and compassionate person who is on the spectrum. We're not aliens. We may have unique ways of looking at the world, but many of us have wonderful gifts to share!

If that's true....they do not need to be leaving there but need to be living somewhere where they can get help and not live in something like this.

I have lived with depression most of my life and would never let my house get this bad. This is just someone being lazy and nasty

@@ghostsamongus3370 Then you haven't lived with depression your whole life. When you are engulfed by depression you fall down exactly like this and you lose all sense of purpose in life which in turn makes the idea of picking trash or doing anything pointless. I know because I was in the same situation after being abused by my religious family

@@universecreator988 still no excuse to live in filth like this. I can understand things to a certain degree, but if someone let's it get this bad they were probably always like this

​@@ghostsamongus3370 I apologize, but it seems like you may be looking at this situation from a rather personal standpoint. It's essential to remember that depression is a highly individual and subjective experience, and it cannot be generalized. The manifestations of depression can vary greatly from person to person. Passing judgment on whether someone's circumstances warrant their struggles is not appropriate. Depression is often accompanied by a complex blend of traumatic experiences from the past and unresolved issues that one may not have been able to cope with effectively. Each person's journey with depression is unique, and it's crucial to approach it with empathy and understanding. Instead of making assumptions, let's focus on supporting each other in our struggles and being compassionate listeners. Remember, mental health is intricate and requires sensitivity when discussing and dealing with these delicate matters.

and she’ll have the cleaned up areas fucked up again in less than two months time. 😅😅😊😊😂😂

Your average RU-vidr doesn't make that much, unfortunately. Though hopefully the referral links help.

Very true!

I love that as well. I rather watch this that negative story stuff on RU-vid

Some people are just too lucky . Imagine you make that big of a mess and someone comes and cleans it all for free

Mental health needs must be addressed, so that the person does not feel attacked. Even when the living conditions are dirty, the person may feel guilt, shame, or even panic, that can be compounded if the "helpful" actions feel too abrupt or disorienting to the person. Moving too quickly can trigger self destructive behavior in the person. Your concern is good, but please proceed with caution and respect, even though the exwife's behavior may not seem rational.

Yes please do contact the agencies that can start to help them. I know there are compassionate people in the UK!!

I'd certainly consider reporting to her local Council's adult social services team. Especially if there's a vulnerable person in the home. It's not just for elderly people. And, if possible, encourage his ex-wife to see her GP to help treat the root cause of the hoarding. X

I have a childhood friend who's house probably looks like this. I can't say for certain because she won't invite me in and actively dissuades me from wanting to visit. She does admit to agoraphobic tendencies. So she's effectively trapped in her hoarded home. It breaks my heart that she still isn't in a place where she can ask for help.

@@dechinta YES, I get that too at work!!! Oof it's so bad sometimes.

I know you clean but do you also cook ?

Me too! ❤️

Thank you for helping her. My dad died from Alzheimer's. He did not want to get help or go to the doctor and it took us quite a while to understand what was happening. It was very, very hard to get help for him or a home. Once he just walked out the door and was found in the suburbs on the other side of the city by some kind soul who just stopped him to ask how he was. I have often wondered about all these people who don't have close family members. Thank you for stepping up and helping, it really is needed.

​@@CainXVIIOh, my God, an unfortunate end. No one wants to die like this. After years of regularity, careselfe and extreme hygiene, you become demented and old. It is something stronger than you. You cannot resist it and you cannot absorb it until you ask for help, poor old woman😢

You did a just awesome job at helping this lady! Everyone should be so lucky to have someone like you around.💛👍

That is just heartbreaking.

Im thankful she passed away in a care home with nursing staff to care for her .

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Real moron is the guy who created all that mess. Sheesh how much of a lazy bastard could you be.

Preach It Boo! I see these houses and when they go from "before" to "after" it's amazing. Sometimes these folks are so depressed and sad they don't know if they are coming or going. Also maybe they were traumatized by their childhood where they may have lived in filth and it's normal. Check out Aurikatarilna, she's amazing as well. Also remember on Roseanne, they had dirty laundry on the steps, and the like. It was supposed to be like that but even on The Conners, they still are living in semi mess.

I paused your video to clean my kitchen. Bless you young man

@@laminageI don’t know how people live like this?! How can they cook?!

Autism is a superpower not understood by normies.

for real

There's not enough money in the world for me to do this 🤢🤮🤮🤮💀

​@@ayabokti161 ö

$500 that’s an unbelievable amount for all the excellent work you did . Here in Melbourne Australia cleaners charge $90 an hour for just normal domestic cleaning. That amount of cleaning would have been $3000 plus an extra fee for the maggots!

yes more of him. he is a saint. a real act of love.

What steps or actions did he take to help you? I might have to help someone but I am struggling with what the right and most effective methods.

@@PresidentMercury at first he tried to throw everything out but i rebeled so he knew it was futule 🤣 so then he just helped me clean regularly, and eventually i was ashamed if my trashy house when he came by so i started doing it by myself too! Then when we decided to move in together he helped me pack and sort through things and suggested to let go of one or two things at a time that he saw i didn't use and didn't have much attachment to. I still don't let him touch certain things at all, but when i try to buy stuff he will ask me to think about it (can we use something we already have instead, can we lice without that thing at all, just sit on the decision so it's not becomes impulsive purchase) so i think I'm doing better. But also it's important to know that I'm not a very bad case!! ( i don't think i am, i hope I'm not... Haha) I don't know if this will help you, but i hope it helps you find a direction!

Just do a little at a time. I try to work on one room at a time. Sending you a virtual hug.

Hope it's going well xxx

Good plan! Every thing you do, is one thing done... our hero here says break it down into smaller tasks!

Don’t feel that you can’t get a cleaner I have cleaned for people over the years and I would rather be able to see a vast improvement than just move dust around .

Abbey, yeah it doesn’t have to be like this! If they making this house this bad there is nothing wrong to them! For me they just been lazy to clean. If people as they go it won’t be like this bad. There’s solutions for everything.

@@yucibe5663 i can’t tell if you’re agreeing with me or not haha. I don’t think they’re necessarily being “lazy” though. Mental and physical health play a huge role in this, and if theirs isn’t great it can make it very difficult to get the motivation to clean. we need to have empathy in situations like this

@yuicibe , mental illness is no joke. My mom is a hoarder and my daughter just teeny to her house and did just what this man did. Everything was thrown out because it could not be saved . I’m moving to where she lives ( another state) so I can keep an eye on her and keep her surroundings clean and livable. I’m 68 and mom is 86. So please don’t judge without knowing the circumstances.

We are a complex species. As long as we don't endanger innocent lives and that I mean children and animals, then I hope you get the help you need to get your life back on track.

@@lindagatti7796 i 100% agree !

Good to know! What is the difference between sterilizing and disinfecting?

Yes can you please explain

@@susiethomas6909 I wanted to know as well, so I did a web search. I found a site that provided the following information: Disinfecting and sterilizing are both types of decontamination, a process that makes something safe to touch. The purpose is to kill enough germs so the risk of infection is extremely low. Disinfectants can kill most viruses and fungi. While disinfectants can kill bacteria, they may not be able to treat bacterial spores, which lay dormant. Overall, sterilization is the most advanced form of decontamination. Sterilization removes all microorganisms. Methods of sterilization may include: pressurized steam (autoclaving) hydrogen peroxide gas ethylene oxide (EtO) gas ionizing radiation (typically used for medical equipment) dry heat cabinets (for medical instruments) infrared radiation advanced filtration

@@luckylunaloops Explained it perfectly. As for the alcohol concentration, there needs to be a certain amount of water present for the solution to actually pass into bacteria, etc. Turns out ~70% is just about the perfect amount of water to alcohol ratio to pass into bacteria and kill them. Also keep in mind that when you mix 70% isopropyl alcohol with more water, you're diluting it further and making it less effective. I would suggest keeping a spray bottle with nothing but 70%ipa in it to use as a disinfectant. 2-10% bleach is also a very good disinfectant.

Thank you for addressing this in this post.

Lord Almighty I am so happy you are better!! You were in danger with those raccoons!! ❤❤❤

I agree, just getting to the cleaning helps my anxiety 😬 more calming!

He should run the show! He’s amazing!!

Yesssss

You should judge them very harshly because of people like you that they'll keep doing it

I used to watch Hoarders to get me motivated to clean when I was deep deep in a depression.

Sponsorship pays him, so it's not really for free.

@@leeannelincoln3389 whatever he's earning in sponsorships, it's not nearly enough. Amazing dedication and hard work!

What an amazing job! What an amazing man!❤❤❤❤❤

My advice is clean one square foot at a time. Take it one small step at a time. Don’t look at the big picture just one step forward.

How's it going for you?

@@karenashton5053 Thank you I appreciate all advice.

@@nicolab2075 I am doing my best, so far I got 7 bags out and 4 boxes that's half of one room here.

You can do it! Let’s both take one section at a time😊

It's weird having to explain to the world that some people need help but can't cry out or are simply ignored

And their family does not give a f, no help.

I bet it's laziness. Trauma is an excuse for that. All the hoarders and 500lb fatass landwhales say they been molested. I don't believe that.

@@uan9166 I want to speak to your comment as I believe you have not ever had to live or deal with a hoarder, let alone in an ongoing way for what may be years. You likely have no idea how many times the family has helped or tried to and when a professional comes in the hoarder doesn't curse at them, call them names, talk down to them, tell them how they are going to use this, that, and the other, make accusations of the person stealing from them when they lose things in the home, risk their own health repeatedly, and I could go on with things a family member or members of a hoarder have had to endure. Trying to get the person help. Calling adult services. It's the hoarders house and they can tell family member's to get the F out and never come back and as a family member of this person you can sometimes only take that kind of verbal abuse and maybe seeing your parent and childhood home or your sister/brother declining for years and years before you can't take the abuse on yourself anymore and you need to step away for your own mental health and your own life. That is what it is like being a family member of someone who hoards. The accusation this person's family does not give a F, when maybe they have given so much of themselves they have nothing more to give because the person sees nothing wrong with their behavior and doesn't want any help. Until you have lived it and lived the absolute heartbreak every time you go to your family member's home and are not even allowed to help pick up because you will get yelled at or accused of taking something they lost days ago you have no idea what it's like dealing with a hoarder. Maybe it would be 100X worse without the family doing all they could to this point. 99% of the time the state won't have them get treatment. They can refuse and live in unsanitary conditions. It's their place so they can tell any daughter, son, sister, brother, etc. to go F themselves and get off the property and while it hurts and tears the family apart . . . .there is nothing anyone can do. What kills you is when you have tried and tried for so many years to help someone and they don't want help and don't see any issue with living like this and you simply can't do anymore without taking from your own family, your own mental health, w/o risking bringing you kids to see grandma/grandpa living like this, but you can't risk your kids health and the family member blames you for never bringing the kids over bc "you don't want them to have a relationship with the kids" or w/e reason they say, but the blame is always not their issues. You can only do so much as a human being and give so much of yourself before experiencing caregivers fatigue. It kills you inside that your family member lives like this and there is not a dang thing you can do about it. Don't blame the family members for this person's issues as you have no idea what they may have been through with this person for years and years and years. The family members may very well be in therapy themselves from this behavior and the horrible things it can do to a family, not just the one person you see on the screen. You are judging people you don't even know for what took years to become the way it is, not a day. Maybe the family members need empathy and sympathy as they can't help this person with their behaviors either.

in some it is.

When life beats you down, and no-one is there to help, and you're living paycheck to paycheck with no avenue to improvement available, you will be astounded how well you can adjust to a new normal. You don't even realize how much you've acclimated to being... less, until circumstances conspire to improve your living conditions.

Oh trust me, it can get to you, and inhaling all of that without opening any windows will affect your health.

​@@ecyor0nonono, no amount of beating can get you to accept THIS low if you are normal human being, this has to be some kind of mental sickness

At this point surprised she didn't have maggots up her arse

@@xoresgaminghub5412she does have a mental illness. She’s a hoarder.

I love you naming hoarding as an illness.

@@suecarbajal1199 I also find hoarding fascinating and have studied it a bit. As best I can understand, having things around them is a form of comfort and protection - it keeps anxiety and depression at bay. Just ripping it all away and cleaning up can make the anxiety worse to the point where they can't take it anymore, and bad things happen.

be care full

If I live in a filthy house my anxiety will go through the roof I could not take that

@Salty Vixen Podcast ,

Same!!!!

True this kind of videos really help my anxiety and sleep

The narrative is awesome. Man has a gorgeous voice. The rest of the guys like me appreciate no nasal which I suffer

I too enjoyed watching with no music

I hate videos with music in the background. Usually not my taste and it is usually so loud it's hard to hear the narrator.

Yes, Haarding and Diogenes Syndrome really destroy lives, families, houses, economies, etc. They consume the mind, time and life of those who suffer from it and those around them.

God Bless you. 🙏

Love your courage 💪

I hope that they can also get counselling for their hoarding. Without their introspection, most hoarders just go back to what they have always done. You are doing a great undertaking by helping them & I hope that they can appreciate what you have done & change.

I've spent my last 3 years (no job, just THIS SHIT caretaking for her 94/dementia) going through my gmas house. She is a CLEAN HOARDER. 70 YEARS OF SHIT. I'm at my wits end. I can't do anymore. The garage is killing me.

Totally agree!!!

👍👍 If you watch Aurikatarina ... you read "pro tip" in her accent 😅🥰

OMG and I think my kitchen is filthy just because I didn’t sweep the floor today. U do a fantastic job.

🙏Bless you for helping another clean their kitchen. Love how much attention you give to doing the very best job here!

@@joanneash3305 Count your blessings.

That's genius

That musta been so tough in top of the grieving process, and everything else you had to do. Did you find it made it harder, or was it a welcome distraction?

Hoarding is considered an OCD disorder and some mental disorders are hereditary. I wonder if it's also a nurture thing? If you grow up like that are you more likely to become one?

Yep. My grandmother and mother are quite hoarders too. Things just don't make it to the trash, but I don't think that having three kids helped at all. Now that I'm on my own, I'm trying to be more of a minimalist. My weakness tends to be furniture. Empty corner? Get a small table. Small table? Get a table lamp. Got a new job? I need a work computer table, a brand new chair, and a cabinet. And in the end, these end up being cluttered because I use them as storage spaces more than what I had originally intended them to be.

Maybe it's not hereditary. Someone linked hoarding with narcissism. Look up NPD and Carol Burnett sketches 'The Family' (as a brake), then Ross Rosenberg interview 'The UGLY Truth About Gaslighting, Brainwashing ...' Narcissist hoarder doesn't want to part with anything because people do leave them but things don't, so they hold on to the, like if their life would depend on it.

I think some hoarders have Aspergers, which is hereditary.

Me too

Amen. Chronic illness + PTSD + depression = hoarding.

Yes, it’s almost always attached to mental illness. People don’t ask to be mentally ill. If they could wave a wand and be rid of it, they would do it in a second. They’re trapped in their own brain.

Also, she had multiple surgeries and is now barely mobile. I wish I did not understand that, but I do. I’m facing my first shoulder replacement in 6-7 weeks (12-14 months total recovery time), I need the other shoulder replaced, as well, then I’m looking at both hips needing replacement, then rods & screws in my lower spine. My husband works almost 7 days/week, and cleaning is not his forte, plus, he says it’s not in our budget to hire a maid service. I do whatever I can-sometimes laundry; I sit on a rolling stool, then pick up clothing items with a toy “grabber” and place them in the washer. Some would judge us by our home, but we do what we can when we can. I cannot begin to describe what a blessing you are to people who find themselves in these situations. Rock on, Punk Cleaner!

@@marinashear3818 I'm sorry to hear that. If you haven't already, might you strongly consider finding a Functional MD and/or really good naturopathic Dr. to see about naturally approaching healing? Have you ever heard of high quality beef collagen and possibly beef colostrum together for some joint and health benefits? The work and formulations of Dr. Christina Rahm are quite amazing, she's on YT, Instagram, FB, other socials, etc. I'd be open to communicating via email or something, if you're interested in hearing more. Either way, all the best to you and yours! 💐🙏

I hear "I have ocd and.." every single day by at least 2 or more people.

@@Jr-md8fg I say I don’t have it, I just had exacting parents. But OCD is quicker. 😀

@@traveling_bookseller yes it's a colloquialism these days I hearu

@@Jr-md8fg I mean, it’s weird, doctors give me a diagnosis, but 20 years ago they simply call it work ethic.

🤣🤣 You realise people make money of RU-vid yeah? He probably made 5k at minimum from this video. Get educated

@@BigballsTerrence how can someone be so negative

dont think its being negative, it's just the fact he does these jobs for "free" because he makes 5-50x what he would charge in youtube ad revenue. it's a win for him and a win for the person he's cleaning for, putting a link to support him is fine, just not supporting him under the impression that he's not profiting massively from it.@@noobmaster3763

@@noobmaster3763 How is that negative? She clearly implied he makes no money from this as it's free, but he gets thousands in ad revenue. Stating that isn't negative lmao. You're just a m0ron if you think so.

@@noobmaster3763 truly a noob.

I can do the dishes, turn around and there are more. How does that happen?

@@suzieseabee I know right! It's like a living curse lol

So funny.

I laughed too, I think it was the delivery. 😂

I agree! Thank you! You know I should apply your advice to my home. Even thou there only 5 of us. Definitely make it easier on me as a mom

Great idea...I'm 70 and I think I'll do that now 👍.

I agree. I had issues with too many dishes getting piled up so now I have 4 plates, bowls, forks, etc. Making that change helped a Lot.

That's actually good tip!

That need demolished, would not injure my health, hope he has a lot of injections, covid for sure, sick, I've cleaned house but this is contagis

I have found that men (if one can get them to clean) do a thorough job of cleaning, I know my brother did. Home neglect is not always from depression. Catastrophic incidents, being overwhelmed, issues with pain and health, also contribute to home neglect. You are a blessing, Sir. I pray the woman will be okay. I know she must feel extremely grateful and relieved.

Mate those maggots is disgusting. No excuses for that.

No excuses for laziness

​@scriptura8612 it's not an excuse. It's an explanation. If you don't understand it, that's fine. I hope you never do. But it happens. Willingly denying it is just chosing to he ignorant. I'm happy you have never been this low in your life but unfortunately, others have.

Speechless.

you are correct. But also, if you know psychology then this solved her problem for no cost. So why not continue this behaviour?

I was wondering same thing.

Me too, ever thought of doing follow up episodes after a few months or a year? You have such a strong stomach to do this work!

I couldn't even handle the oven cleaner fumes...they're so toxic, I'm surprised he didn't have a proper respirator for that.

@@RS54321 that version isn’t nearly as harsh. It’s the fume free

@@MaryellenDodge Oh, is it? That's good!

Are these people just stinking lazy??

What a kind, loving, selfless, brave!!! man you are to do this task for another human being! A good hearted man you are, sir!! Thank you for what you do!♡♡♡♡♡♡

@@debbiehayward4703 you are right!!! Totally agree!! He’s awesome and so is his cleaning and sense of humor!!!!!!!

Yes.....

Yes, You took the words right Out of my Mouth, I Admire😍💖 people who does this type of work, and he was helping someone who couldn't pay no one, Bless This Person 🙏🏾....

@@77462377 totally admire him, yes!!!!! God bless him and you!!

Сега като каза... Наистина! 😀

Normal people are sooooo lucky! They can't even imagine what it's like to not be able to do the usual day-to-day tasks.

Same! I was just at the beginning of the video and came to see the comments to see if he eventually got gloves on and thanks God he did 😆

@@jillianthorpe7672 I bet an arm and a leg you wouldn't ever be able to do 1% of what he does

My daughter would jump on the couch and cover her ears when she was little.