the weaponization of c-section vs 'natural birth' by women will always baffle me. It truly makes me believe the women who look down on other women for having c-sections, literally have one personality trait and that is 'i gave birth, and now i'm a mother and have nothing else going for me.'
Agreed! Like shouldn’t you be happy that you even have a child? I’m the oldest and my mom had to have a c-section because of (something) and everyone was so upset about it like? I WOULD HAVE PROPS DIED IF SHE DIDNT??? (Not died maybe but you know what I mean) Like ???😭
@@personincognito3989 … it’s her videos? So of course they’re gonna be about her. Just like drama channels like to dig into peoples lives and monetize off it.
Adam: Fentanyl is a VERY common medication for pain in the hospital. In fact, my 13-year-old daughter was provided fentanyl when she broke her arm in the ER. It was a small dose appropriate for her size/weight. The medication is demonized in the media because it is very dangerous when used without the supervision of medical professionals, but like most medications, it has it's purposes. Fentanyl is always prescribed with Narcan while in the hospital due to the risk of accidental overdose. However, that is not what happens on the street. Plus, on the street, many people do not realize they are receiving fentanyl. It is usually a drug that is laced with fentanyl making it too powerful. Just thought I'd give some insight given your reaction to Trish saying she was given fentanyl after her C-section. P.S. I was completely out of it after my first C-section. It is a serious surgery. People act like it's no big deal, but it is major surgery. I had three C-sections sin total, but my first was the worst. My stomach muscles have never been in the same, and my youngest child is 21 years old!
I was Bout to comment this ! Thank you for the education! It is A VERY PAINFUL EXPERIENCE BELIEVE IT OR NOT LMAO With all the fentanyl hysteria, ppl forget it has its useful place in medicine [Not to say it's not being produced maliciously by cartels tho] & 2 things can be true at once! I'm sure he just didn't know & I'm saying this, as a ex heroin addict And as a mother 😁 I only know from the first hand experience as well! 🖤
I just commented that they gave me fentanyl when I had my youngest in 2019. I had no idea it was a thing they gave in the hospital. It used to be Percocet or Vicodin and in severe cases Morphine or Demerol. They gave me Demerol when I was in labor with my middle child and that was the EASIEST labor ever. So much so I requested it with my youngest but they just laughed and said that's very old school. They don't do that anymore. Lol crazy how the medical field changes so quickly. It was just 7 years between those 2 labors and everything was so different. They used to consider you full term at 36 weeks and wouldn't stop labor if it happened at that point. Now they give medicine to stop labor until 39 weeks. Anything before then is considered preterm labor.
Yeah I was a bit put off by his reaction to that too. It's like people think it's JUST a street drug. I was given it during oral surgery. It not only killed the pain, but it put me in a state where I wasn't very conscious of what was going on (thank god!). I think they must use it because it's safer than being fully anesthetized.
I was on fentanyl immediately after my major operation to have a cantaloupe sized ovarian tumor removed. I've never been happier, so I can understand how people get addicted.
As usual, Adam’s takes never miss. Pro tip for Colleen: if you have to start a sentence with “no offense”, you should probably not say the sentence at all.
I’ve hung out with people like Colleen. The type of people that find any chance to talk about themselves or even interrupt you to keep on talking about themselves. Hate that 😶
Yep, one of my friends is like this 😅 I have SAD and other issues so I have problems with voicing my own opinions/thoughts around others etc. So I guess people enjoy drowning me with their personal issues, because I’ll most likely be too nervous to call them out or get talked over again when I try to add to their story. I try to overlook that part of her and just try to listen and engage with her story, but it can honestly get so exhausting at times.
@@bladesandflannels4665 my brothers girlfriend is the same way. Me and my boyfriend were fighting and she asked to hang out and instead of letting me talk about what was going on she talked about my brother and herself for a full 2 hours when all I wanted to do was cry.
@@7typesofsus That’s so horrible. They just always find a way to bring the conversation back to themselves. It saddens me that you had to deal with that while already feeling upset and when you just needed someone to listen and hear you. I guess at the end of the day, we are just a wall to them. They just want to talk at us instead of having an actual conversation. They just want to hear themselves talk really, lol. I hope that you at least have other friends that actually care about your wellbeing and take an honest interest in you!!
One thing I don’t agree with was the comment on Trisha saying “I didn’t know where my daughter was” I can’t blame her. Her insides were rearranged and placed on a table. I can’t imagine the medication they put people on to deal with that.
No one says Colleen can’t talk about her experience with labour but it’s the taking over the whole conversation to her. She can add things here and there but too much about her.
Then you have Colleen who makes everything about herself all the time like she’s a queen and she’s literal garbage. Not everything is about you. Her husband has more privacy than her children. I also feel really bad for her husband. Does she ALWAYS make everything about herself? We don’t care girl. Narcissist is the highest older.
Narcissist of the highest order indeed. I’m surprised she didn’t cry in this video. And complaining about hating being pregnant is so frustrating. There are so many people who struggle for years to get pregnant and she takes it for granted. Her husband for sure has more privacy than her kids- such a good point.
@@elizabethavon7922 I’m really shocked she didn’t. I was waiting for it. And me for instance, I didn’t think I could get pregnant and now I have an almost 4 year old son 🥹 I’m a single mom and they’re both lucky to have help. I heard that Trisha hasn’t spent any alone time with her daughter. :( it makes me so sad. And every time Trish tried to speak she made everything about her. My ex is a narcissist of the highest order and my fight or flight triggered lol
I don’t get how posting on your own RU-vid channel and speaking about yourself is narcissistic when everyone who watches her watches to hear about her life and struggles, she’s helped me immensely through tough times and I think you’re all a little harsh, she’s still a human being
@@tayzo31and that's not a healthy mindset to have. many mothers who end up letting motherhood take over their whole life end up depressed and lost because they no longer know who they are without their kids. it's not something that should be promoted.
Colleen represents all the "I know more than you" moms in support groups, on the playground, at the party, at your job, etc. She is doing a great job at it too.
I get colleen is a mom and gave birth twice and once to twins, like that’s crazy but every five seconds she has to talk about it and say “with my pregnancies” every five freaking seconds
Try almost dying through both of your pregnancies, then to have an emergency c section and see your child blue and unresponsive, then tell me you don’t want to talk about it often 👍🏼
6:58 she is such a narcissist. LOL i did watch this and thought “isn’t this suppose to be TRISHAS birth story???” I felt like I was just hearing Colleen’s story AGAIN.
& yet ppl still acting like Trish is a saint just bc she happens to he next to Colleen Glad to see this comment 6 months ago…so what happened with ppl now 😂 did they forget shes a nzi or
Colleen's die hard Stans need to realize that she can act however she wants to the camera, and edit it however she wants. They DON'T know her personally. Colleen created Miranda just to make fun of people, and they're surprised she is a narc irl
Colleen has the “mean girl voice” right now … you know when the mean girl is trying to sound “nice” but they are actually mean and you know they are going to turn around and say mean things.
It’s much more dangerous to have a baby vaginally after a c section and can cause problems for you and the baby. It’s awful for her to talk about her vaginal birth like that after Trish already said she wanted it and she may never be able to have it
@J_L_V I’m a 4th year med student and it is very dangerous in many cases to try vaginal birth after a C section because of the risk of uterine rupture, which can kill you. The trauma sustained to the uterus during a C section is very intense.
colleen is giving jealous girl who puts you down to make themselves feel superior. idk how she can be so painfully not self aware. trisha either gave up or is actually being a good listener.
I felt the same way, Colleen bragged the whole time. She kept comparing herself to Trisha and how she had it worst. She wouldn’t let any of Trisha experiences be about her, Colleen flipped her POV with her own experiences. It felt like Colleen was allowing her to come to colab if Colleen could be the focal point in the videos it doesn’t feel 50/50
Ok I do not support her in any way exploiting her children, but she has adhd and that is something that we do to relate to other people. Sometimes we don’t realise we are even doing it. But yeah she totally needs to get off the internet and stop exploiting her children.
I have 3 kids, all 3 of my pregnancies have been difficult in their own ways and I've almost died in labor twice. Like, i get wanting to talk about your birth experience. But when you're suppose to be talking to your friend about their experience, you shut up and have them talk about it. Like damn, yeah. Ive bled out, gone septic, had stitches fall out, and more complications. But would much prefer hearing my friends talk about their experiences versus just trying to 1 up my friends.
@@TheSuperdari thank you! ❤️ i have been very blessed and fortunate to be able to have 3 wonderful healthy children. They are worth every bit of pain it took to bring them into this world. And im hoping that they'll always know how much i love them and how happy and lucky i am to get to be their mom.
@the show .....googling tokophobia....ah shiiieeet. Yeah. Pregnancy and child birth is not for anyone and it is 10000000% a-okay to not want to experience that. Not to trigger your phobia more, but I found out in my 2nd pregnancy that babies can steal the calcium from your bones and teeth. I needed 4 emergency root canals because of that. Had amazing teeth before my son. Lol At least with all the extra calcium he took from me he's very dense and sturdy??? Strong like ox!!! 🐂 ....sorry, lame joke??
Fentanyl is 100% normal to give with surgery. It’s good for what it’s intended for. It doesn’t cause amnesia, like propofol. It’s major surgery to have a c-section - so it’s super normal.
@@misstigerbubbles After major abdominal surgery? Fentanyl sometimes doesn’t even touch the pain. Having your skin, fat, muscle, and internal organs cut open is intense.
@@misstigerbubbles unnecessary? Yeah talk to me after you’ve had an ovarian cyst removed. That’s not even as bad as a c section & fentanyl didn’t touch my pain. Unnecessary my ass.
@@misstigerbubbles Well, clearly you’ve never had abdominal surgery before.. I have a and trust me - it’s 100% warranted. And if Trisha is telling the truth - not taking any post op pain meds.. I’d pretty insane.
@@misstigerbubbles So they cut through 7 layers which are fat, rectus sheath (medical term for the coating outside the abs), the rectus (abs, which are split along the grain somewhat more than cut), the parietal peritoneum (first layer surrounding the organs), the loose peritoneum and then the uterus, which is a very thick muscular layer and your bladder and intestines are moved aside but according to you Fentanyl which is a Pain killer is unnecessary, okay then.
So many things to comment but I only feel comfortable sharing this fact: No matter if you did vaginal, c section, adoption, surrogate, Foster, etc, it is the most special and can be painful (physical and emotional) day that you meet your child/bring your child into the world. It is beautiful and miraculous no matter which way a parent took.
Colleen comes across as a super judgy mum. She seems to be doing a good job with the kids (other than the obvious exploitation) but everything Trish says is put down. It’s so sad, women should be raising other women up, not tearing them down.
It bothers me that she tries so hard to be an ally and advocate for other communities yet all she does is complain. She’s a millionaire. She just moved into a six million dollar home and she spends money like crazy… she is privileged and needs to understand that
She does understand she’s privileged if you actually watched her content you’d realise she spends majority of the time worried about people like you ripping everything she says apart
I woke up this morning with a horrible flare up of my chronic illness. I’ve spent my morning writhing in pain in bed and as soon as I heard “HI MUCKERS” it just made me feel so much better. I’m in so much pain today, but your channel offers such great emotional comfort for me. Whenever I’m sick I can count on you to take my mind off of it. Thank you Adam. I hope you have a wonderful 2023 and I can’t wait to see everything you do next year!
i remember watching colleen’s og pregnancy announcement and she said that her videos would be the same (aka NOT baby focused, and we all can see that it was a lie)
fentanyl is a super common drug to use during surgery, births and other medical procedures, I understand there's a lot of negative information about it being used recreationally, but it's not a bad word lol
thank you (& others) for educating me about this, I truly did not know it was used for medical procedures as I had sadly only heard of it in reference to overdoses on the news.
@@hahna77they were still calling their child an it even after she’s already born 💀 like trisha you know what gender your baby is already why are you still calling her an it
Colleen herself is a terrible person. She went from making her own content to switching the camera over to her 3 kids as soon as she had them, making them the money makers. I can't stand mommy youtubers who do nothing more then invade their own kids privacy to make some money instead of giving them protection and making money for their own selves
The comment trisha made about not knowing where her baby was is not an uncommon experience. Labour and birth can be 12-24 hours, could be even more. The adrenaline of just giving birth and sleep deprivation 100% can make you feel delirious and many women have told me a similar feeling. One mother told me after the trauma of birth and lack of sleep, she thought her baby was in her arms then realized the baby was in the bassinet next to her and it freaked her out. Your mind is trying to recover as well as your body. Trisha's reluctance take meds because she did not want it to add to this feeling is 100% valid. Your reaction to this and about the fentanyl comment too shows how little you know about birth. Which makes sense, but if you are going to openly critique two mothers speaking about their traumatic births, maybe research a bit more or be more open minded.
Thank you for this comment! I was a little salty by his reaction to those 2 moments and felt he should've educated himself a bit more if he was going to pause and point out those specific moments.
To help maybe clairfy fentanyl is a common pain medication used in surgery and post-op care. It's one of the reasons most people get constipation after surgery. I have never had a c section and have no children but I know it's a pretty intense operation so it makes sense to me they would have given that to Trisha in the hospital. It also does explain why she felt so out of it right after birth pretty well.
I feel like no one talks about this but I’d like a video from you covering Colleen and her ex Josh and Eric, like the period of time she separated from Josh and got together with Eric. Causeeeee there’s definitely something fishy that went on there lol I’m here for speculation and facts so please deliver this!
I know so many women like Colleen. So self centered and can't have any compassion or sympathy for anyone. They will never see their actions or words as the problem and always blame others.
I’m still so in awe of how Colleen can continually dodge backlash. She is so loved, and for what?? She’s snobby, narcissistic, and not even funny anymore.
It’s hard to listen to women with money and privilege not get education regarding their own bodies. The amount of misinformation they both share throughout the conversation is concerning. A good birth class could fix so many problems
Look, I have had four births, and Colleen saying that she prefers one kind over another is idiotic. If, and when she has another child, she would realize that no birth is the same. She could have a horrendous experience next time she’s transvaginal. She needs to shut up and let Trisha have her moment.
the entire time i watched colleen & trisha's collab I was so confused why she made the title with just trisha's birth story, bc ALL SHE DID WAS TALK ABOUT HERSELF. she hardly even asked trisha any questions. & they fact they both acted like it was - insane - to comment that you can make money from having a baby **if you post about the poor thing online** which they conveniently forgot to mention. EVEN THO it's their entire personalities now. god I hate how they're so clearly conginititvely dissonent from the exploitation of THEIR OWN CHILDREN; they fr laughed in the face of the mere idea. also it was gross that colleen was bragging about how easy it was for her to get pregnant "we weren't even trying" etc. knowing trisha struggled w infertility. they're both narcissistic, exploitative mothers, but damn at least trisha has some couth or charm or something idk I guess more awareness in how shes perceived ???
And having kids in the nicu must be hard but she is rich. She knew they would be okay, she could afford whatever treatments and whatever hospital bills were thrown her way. She could be at the hospital all the time because she doesn’t work a 9-5 with shitty insurance. She acted like something much worse was happening
I think she's just so neurotic that she works herself into a frenzy over everything. I started watching her around the time of her first marriage, and I was interested because I love watching successful, driven women who make their own way in the world. But over the years I've noticed a marked decline in her mental health. I guess she picks her skin, she doesn't seem to sleep and gets super skinny ever time she's stressed out. It's really sad to watch. She really needs to chill and learn to just life happen. Not everything has to be a crisis.
@@idellekell I’m not doubting that she actually has struggles but I just wish she understood that she has it better than so many other people and her complaining comes off as asking for a pitty party.
@Tori Palacios i 100% agree. That woman needs to start being thankful for her support system (friends, fans, family) and her bank account. I think she needs to go to inpatient care for mental health for a long while. And maybe stop taking those adhd meds... they're making her skinny and manic beyond belief
I thought it was so rude Colleen brought up frenemies! And said they might feud if they start a podcast. Way to bring up someone’s uncomfortable past like it’s nothing
Thank you for talking about this. Towards the end of the muckbang, Colleen also brings up what she thinks about people who say that she had kids for views and money. If you end up talking about it in another video, I think you should react to that. Also, I think you skipped the part where Trisha told Colleen that she “snapped back” after pregnancy which Colleen has ranted about people saying that constantly. I agree with another person that commented saying that Colleen also said that people who had babies through IVF were “broken” so it is not surprising that she said that to Trisha about how great vaginal birth is compared to c-section. Also, her Miranda character is meant to be her making fun of people who are overly cocky and egotistical… do other people see the irony?
colleen talks as if her experience is the only experience, she does this to her husband all the time on their podcast. it’s very frustrating to listen to someone constantly talk over everyone else and invalidating them. colleen is so self centered like other people have things to say and have great experiences..
Colleen loves to hear herself talk. That's her whole personality and it's no wonder at all that she has zero actual friends. It's gotten worse and worse because she doesn't have anyone holding her accountable to care about things beyond her vapid self.
Lmfao when Amazon assistant said "you're about to run out of noodles, you usually order a metric fuckton of noodles, would you like to order that astronomical amount of carbohydrates and sodium right now, freak?"
I’m not sorry - Colleen and Trisha deserve each other, lmao. It is so goddamn entertaining seeing two self-obsessed, awful people interacting with each other!
Haven’t even barely started watching this but I already know Adam about to spit facts. I feel embarrassed that I actually used to love Colleen and I thought she was a beautiful person. But ever since she started using her kids as content I just don’t see Colleen the same at all anymore. Tbh I’ve been in denial that Colleen isn’t the best person, but now I see it so clearly. I think the topic of children’s privacy on the internet needs to be talked about so much more. Thank you Adam for helping people try to understand that this is wrong.
Happy almost 2023, Mucker. I’m excited to watch what you have in store for next year. You have some of my absolute fav content on YT. Thanks for being you & for making me feel like I have a friend on the other end of the screen. 🖤🖤🖤
I dont know how I feel about this whole thing; But Trisha, with all due respect, will never be as "pure mommy" as she thinks she is. Also, may I add, the exploitation of the children is incredibly disrespected by the mom community, as much as they never wanted to be "family vloggers", they are. That is NOT the same as documenting your life. As a 30 something, my home videos were different, and more often, filmed by us, the children. Who consented to picking up the huge video film set to record our fun moments. Taking pictures and videos during special moments. Instead, "I dress my child up for halloween and have them sit there for an hour while I talk and eat". How will you or the children here look back at these videos and feel anything when they weren't involved in the first place? Again, some people just really anger you into commenting...
Adam, yes! Colleen’s inability to put attention on someone other than herself was striking in this video. You have made an AUDIENCE, Adam. So happy you’re using these videos to call attention to the ADULT who manipulated and exploited teenage you.
so I was also given fentanyl through my epidural during my emergency birth at 32 weeks. it is the type of pain fentanyl is ACTUALLY meant for. please make sure you have proper information before you judge mothers in labour! no hate
Colleen, a person who said people who do IVF are “broken”, doing a podcast with Trisha, who has insulted every community on RU-vid…that’s a dumpster fire waiting to happen. They’re both self centered people who exploit their kids. I’m not even the biggest fan of Colleen, and it would be such a dumb career move. And Fentanyl is a common medication used for pregnancy (just an FYI 😁)
Anybody who truly believes Trisha has changed needs to revisit the Frenemies era, when we all gave her the benefit of the doubt and thought she had changed and then remember how THAT went. This happens like every other year.
Honnestly this video feels really off adam, i feel a bit uncomfortable with a man telling two women that theyre exposing their pregnancys for veiws, i dont really think its your place to have an opinion on, it obviously is something that comforts them sharing their experience and for other women to have a space to openly talk about pregnancy and the trials and tribulations that comes with it. i honnetsly think people are readsing way to far into this, just seems like and excited catch up between two friends. no hate just this veido didnt sit right with me
Hey, have you watched her pregnancy story? Sie was suffering from severe mental health issues additionally to really painful symptoms in her entire body. She loves Flynn but her pregnancy with him was incredibly hard. I hope I don’t sound mean or anything cause that’s certainly not my intention.
Well.. if you knew how her pregnancy went.. then you’d understand. She loves Flynn a lot, but her pregnancy was AWFUL. She suffered a lot. And really, it’s common to hate your pregnancy. Hating your pregnancy does NOT mean you hate your kid. Lots of women hated being pregnant. Pregnancy is no joke for some women. No hate but I’m just saying.
Fentanyl is often given to pregnant women because it has a super short half-life, meaning it acts quickly and the effects also wear off quickly. It won’t hurt the baby but also relieves pain for the mother!
Loving the longer videos. Trish has a whole new bunch of followers from tiktok and now she’s a mum. She’s going to have a huge wave of people hating all over again once they realise she’s not as drama free as they think
Fentanyl in the epi is not at all uncommon! Idk if anyone was surprised but its pretty common, fentanyl is however NEVER given afterwards even less for home prescriptions! Also fentanyl from the streets and the fentanyl in the epi is not the same!!
I know we only hear the "crazy stories" about Fentanyl, but it's a commonly used prescription pain-reliever during labour. For a short term procedure it's a useful medication- it can be used safely or it can be abused just like anything else. My mom had it during her labour- way before it became a popular street dr*g.
I wanted to inform you that I do not know much of these pain medications besides what they used on me. One was Fentanyl. We asked what it was and made sure it was just offering me relief and not getting the baby high. It was not! So know these pain meds are safe and it is just for moms comfort! They can have beneficial uses.
It's like early RU-vidr friendships. Like "Oh yea we're friends because we collabed. But if you have to get ahold of me talk to my agent because I'm not going to reply to you or hang out. Unless it's too film a video."
I think some women can feel powerful or whatever even having a C-section. No matter which way the baby is delivered, you still brought a tiny human into the world.
You gotta wonder "who" Trisha really is... She's so fake can you really know who she is without a camera? Frightening to think about. BTW LOVE YOU so much Adam!
Besides all the obvious reason this vlog was ridiculous, I can honestly say I was disappointed to not be able to hear Trisha's complete labor & birth experience in a cohesive way. I watched it originally because that was the title & as a mom of 3 who had very different pregnancy, labor & delivery experiences, I enjoy birth stories.
