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Beauty is a subjective experience and no child should grow up rejecting his or her own face. How can we create a society that accepts the beauty of each individual?
Pratyusha is a recent graduate from the School of Natural Sciences at the University of Texas at Austin, and is currently attending the UNT Health Science Center Graduate School of Biomedical Sciences to pursue a Masters in Medical Sciences. She is an alumnus of Alpha Phi Omega and a volunteer with the American Heart Association. She also serves on the Board of Directors of Atlantis Educational Services, Inc.
Colorism is a lesser known social issue describing discrimination purely on the basis of skin tone. She hopes to bring to light the harmful nature of colorism and redefine beauty as a subjective experience. Raising awareness for this issue is the first step in alleviating the damage it causes. Together we can hold the media, cultural standards and society as a whole accountable for placing an undue premium on lighter skin tones. You should never think that you have to change yourself to be beautiful.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@Arela1164
@Arela1164 6 лет назад
She's stunning! Unfortunately, what she is saying is the truth!
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 5 лет назад
@The Truth Stop spamming with your nonsense.
@linksdeath123
@linksdeath123 5 лет назад
@@kylejohnson7986 subjective opinion
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 5 лет назад
@@linksdeath123 She is talking about darker skinned people facing discrimination. This comment is trying to villain-ize the speaker for no reason. Plus it is well known that Indian men actively use skin color as a factor on dating sites. This is a prevalent issue in both sexes from centuries of discrimination. Women are not in a position of power in most societies and face the brunt of the discrimination, but sure, let's screech about men's rights... Why make the victim the perpetrator instead of actually listening and thinking of ways to help?
@linksdeath123
@linksdeath123 5 лет назад
@@kylejohnson7986 disagree is all :)
@manasansiva8878
@manasansiva8878 5 лет назад
That's how evolution works. Weaker/Unpreferred characters will get diminished slowly due to scarcity of mating partners.
@nidhikesarwani4549
@nidhikesarwani4549 5 лет назад
It still happens to me if I am in the northern part of India. Took a long time to accept that I am beautiful with my skin tone. I hope.. a few more years It'll stop.
@semra9176
@semra9176 5 лет назад
Dark skin is Gorgeous
@MrALenCar321
@MrALenCar321 5 лет назад
It all starts from loving ones self as I have done. Like Morgan Freeman once said the best way to stop racism is by not talking about it. India has colorism which is very primitive. It should start with media by portraying dark actresses in main roles and boycotting of fairness creams.
@fazal179
@fazal179 5 лет назад
You are beautiful the way you carry Yourself...see how beautiful this girl is ...🙂
@moonsdonut5188
@moonsdonut5188 5 лет назад
hit me i like dark skin cause im dark skin lol
@truthfinder5515
@truthfinder5515 5 лет назад
Won’t stop. Indian people love the caste system too much. However, you should study melanin and you will get enlightened by god.
@ikhlasskettani8604
@ikhlasskettani8604 7 лет назад
She is very beautiful !!
@p4rt_t1me_g0d
@p4rt_t1me_g0d 6 лет назад
Ikhlass Kettani I felt bad for thinking that during her engagement! It's like blaringly obvious and distracting!
@nayanamol653
@nayanamol653 5 лет назад
Why can't you just concentrate on her words instead of valuing her prettiness,that's what lacks in this comment section.
@yogeshsharon6229
@yogeshsharon6229 4 года назад
Tq,
@TheTruthOfAlQuranIsUndeniable
@TheTruthOfAlQuranIsUndeniable 2 года назад
she's unattractive to me
@xeneidis
@xeneidis 2 года назад
@@TheTruthOfAlQuranIsUndeniable u prob only like lighter skin women
@annruth7213
@annruth7213 7 лет назад
She is Beautiful I'm Black American. I face colorism within my community as well.
@stevenliang3213
@stevenliang3213 6 лет назад
VERY common in other Asian countries too. :-\
@archivez101
@archivez101 5 лет назад
AnnRuth I feel like being dark is a universal issue. All dark skinned people in every race face colorism. It’s like a dark skin struggle. Cuz we are the original people. Adam and Eve were made from dirt. And what is the color of dirt?
@NiteDriv3r
@NiteDriv3r 5 лет назад
@@archivez101 white
@archivez101
@archivez101 5 лет назад
Nite Driv3r begone troll
@jonaetra6221
@jonaetra6221 4 года назад
I face colourism in Nepal
@vincentjesus6730
@vincentjesus6730 6 лет назад
Your confidence is ur beauty. Dark skin is always beautiful.
@VincentScales
@VincentScales 6 лет назад
People of color have the power to fight colorism from within! Thank you Pratyusha!
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 6 лет назад
Best comment!
@himabindhu1988
@himabindhu1988 3 года назад
Well said👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@patandersen4271
@patandersen4271 6 лет назад
She is extremely beautiful, it seems to me from what I've observed on Indians, the darker ones are many times better looking.
@stutiswarnkar5147
@stutiswarnkar5147 6 лет назад
India is a place where colour is preferred more than the feature, you will get to know once you will be here.
@roguee529
@roguee529 6 лет назад
I had been thinking the same thing for a while now. I've seen plenty of good looking light skinned Indians, but the darker to medium toned ones have a nice look.
@mamon4807
@mamon4807 5 лет назад
stuti swarnkar yes absolutely
@JordanWilliams-ix2td
@JordanWilliams-ix2td 5 лет назад
Omg I've always said that..
@henryfung9725
@henryfung9725 5 лет назад
but your indian yourself....and whites and blacks hate indians esp the women
@asishaae9240
@asishaae9240 5 лет назад
I am dark skinned..... When i was young, even my frnds refused to touch me bcuz they thought the color would spread😔😔😔😔 i never had a best frnd 😢
@satyamshekhar52
@satyamshekhar52 4 года назад
I m your best friend
@gregd9252
@gregd9252 4 года назад
I’m so sorry. You are loved ❤️❤️
@tulshimalashedmake9041
@tulshimalashedmake9041 3 года назад
This hit me hard
@asishaae9240
@asishaae9240 3 года назад
Thank u so much for all ur kind words... love u all😘😘😘😘😘😘
@sri-xn4hb
@sri-xn4hb 3 года назад
I dont know who you are, where you live or what you do, but keep in mind there are so many people going through this including me, I'm 13 and I dont think people are gonna change for now unless we change the way we look at ourselves
@thetrusfratedarmy
@thetrusfratedarmy 3 года назад
The irony is ... most of the people who are saying " she's pretty " won't like to be dark or won't like to have a dark skinned partner...
@liz5473
@liz5473 3 года назад
But she is pretty
@jamesswim9035
@jamesswim9035 3 года назад
I would want to be with a dark skinned partner I like all types of different colors and culture I do not look at the skin color I do not discriminate as a african american how about you
@vaibhavigirap2845
@vaibhavigirap2845 3 года назад
Well said 👍
@intlvoiceofreason9239
@intlvoiceofreason9239 3 года назад
@@divyaabalachandar1020 totally untrue, my fairer skin father married a darker skinned woman in order to get browner kids (didn't work though).
@medicoinchrist6780
@medicoinchrist6780 3 года назад
Bitter Truth
@IzThatit
@IzThatit 6 лет назад
All the comments talking about her beauty. The message went right over so many people's heads. These message shouldn't be any more or less important due to her beauty. And honestly if you agree with the message her physical appearance is irrelevant.
@Arela1164
@Arela1164 6 лет назад
IzThat it ..You’re absolutely correct.
@booboobunny5655
@booboobunny5655 5 лет назад
That's the wrong message...
@traceyholland9882
@traceyholland9882 5 лет назад
You are correct, but I still have to tell her that she is beautiful and not "you sure are pretty for a dark skin girl", because that was the way colorism was enforced. We could acknowledge your beauty, but they had constantly remind you that you were dark skinned, and that you needed to stay in your place.
@kingsandangels4404
@kingsandangels4404 3 года назад
I agree in a way, but dark skinned people are told they can not be beautiful so these people are saying that she is
@rishab8679
@rishab8679 3 года назад
'she is actually beautiful... u can't deny that......
@ahlinad1221
@ahlinad1221 4 года назад
This girl is nothing but absolute beauty, it is interesting how people don't find her beautiful. Beauty comes in all colours, who said light is beautiful and dark is not? To me this girl is just absolutely gorgeous, and the dark skin unique and compliments her. Social conditioning at its worst, I don't understand the 'relatives and friends' who told her to bleach her skin. Dear lord, why??
@thedrasc1426
@thedrasc1426 2 года назад
If you're white and saying "but you're so beautiful" please stop. Its because of your ancestors that India and other parts of the world even has a colorism problem. You missed her point entirely. She's not saying her dark skin should also be concieved as beautiful, she's saying we should not factor in skin tone in percieved beauty, competence and success.
@suparnajoardar2142
@suparnajoardar2142 3 года назад
As an dark skinned India girl...I came across discrimination so many time...at family , school , even in roads ..I was quite infamous for being called 'kali'...I was in class 9 when some roadside boy's started calling me kali as I was a everyday passerby at that road for my tution and school it continued till class 12 ..I felt so sad I cried many times at my room alone feeling like a sinner...like it was my fault for being dark skinned I tried to protesting against them but they didn't care and continued...one day I cried and told everything to my mother and father they tried to stop them by telling their parents about their behaviour...but those parents never tried to stop those boys ... eventually I just started ignoring....... though I actually grew up with people around me discriminating me ... literally everyone of my family and neighbours too tried giving my mom so many tips use this or that to make her fair or you can say 'marriageable'.... All these people made me so self conscious with low self-esteem like I deserve nothing..... I'm still trying hard to gain my self esteem and love myself ❤️
@chatgpt4135
@chatgpt4135 Год назад
U r already marriageable n good , The words fair skinned and marriageable have no equal connection at all, Marriage is done for togetherness n respect n love not for u becoming a fair immovable toy for some random man and he choosing ur body n selwvtive body features randomly as if u choose by pinpojnting at a tv with electronic features n netflix without asking the TV's will , these way a marriage may last long due to societal pressure but is it a divine marriage even with both ppl love n respect for each other without sexualising or fantasizing someone's (especially girl's )body to decide whether to spend life with them? Make a guy fall in love with u with a Strong, Unresistable, And Very Sweet n Soft spoken personality , believe me don't hurry to find a partner in ur low self esteem state when u urselves don't know ur own worth, plus points and shortcomings cmpltly otherwise u won't understand how a ideal partner must be, this way u will get married to random man who fantasizes fair fair cheeks and fair backs n bellies n fairy female bodies, even kids will be born but as a rigid societal pressure , if u r not strong remember ur nxt gen won't be strong n get into trauma just like u, If u make a change in ur life, ur future kids will live a worthy life without discrimination, cos u will get confidence to teach them against society's discrimination ideas!
@veganbutterfly3652
@veganbutterfly3652 7 месяцев назад
But Kali is a goddess...so why would that be an insult.
@suparnajoardar2142
@suparnajoardar2142 7 месяцев назад
@@chatgpt4135 Thank you for your kind works , I'm quite late to check the comments . Over these years I have come to love and respect myself more than my teenage years . I know my worth and I'm not settling for anyone who doesn't know my worth ...And I'm still improving myself little by little everyday 😊
@Vril927
@Vril927 5 месяцев назад
​@@suparnajoardar2142As a guy I find dark skinned girls more beautiful ❤️
@afz5355
@afz5355 5 лет назад
Our obsession with Eurocentric beauty standards has a lot to do with colonisation of our countries. Fair skin was always associated with a high social status and dark skinned with the opposite. It’s still the same unfortunately
@afz5355
@afz5355 4 года назад
Billy Borgan about time
@babakhanoushii
@babakhanoushii 3 года назад
My hope is that younger generations are beginning to root this stuff out. Most of the young South Asians I know (myself included) don't have the same colorist sentiments our parents did. It's absurd to me that I'd look down on another South Asian for being darker than me. Then again, I had the privilege of growing up in a really diverse setting and it was instilled in me when I was young that colorism is harmful.
@monacheema738
@monacheema738 3 года назад
India was ruled by the British for approximately 300 years. This influenced and affected the Indian sub-continent in ways of thinking. They were ridiculed by the British. They were told they were uneducated, dark, and mannerless. Which is false. Only those Indians whom had an education thrived. The Indian film industry also thrives on this philosophy. Those Indian women-actress are selected based on “light skinned”. It’s demoralizing, unjust, mannerless. Colorism.. should not exist. We are all Humans! Many brilliant Indians around the world, whom are brown skinned, are intelligent, educated and successful. This should be accepted. We are in 2020.
@afz5355
@afz5355 2 года назад
@THE ZOLDICS girl tf
@jackbrown4120
@jackbrown4120 Год назад
@@monacheema738 as a white skinned English person I can honestly say dark skinned Indian women are absolutely stunning. from what I gather now it's more Indian people that are prejudiced towards it.
@jaimatadi4338
@jaimatadi4338 6 лет назад
She sounds well-spoken, educated, and has a beautiful figure. Now if only this message was brought to India and Indian schools. Only in America would this speech actually go far.
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 6 лет назад
Then help spread it around to Indian people if you are able to! The beauty of the internet is access to the world!
@buh_its_me_yall6217
@buh_its_me_yall6217 6 лет назад
Veena ____ and it’s still a problem in America too
@satyamevjayte8302
@satyamevjayte8302 5 лет назад
There is a skin problem in usa too. There are Many people in india who embrace dark skin
@brianna6134
@brianna6134 4 года назад
Colorism has been a serious issue in the African-American community as well.
@kailashbazala2800
@kailashbazala2800 3 года назад
Its beauty standard and personal choice, not racism
@guillyboo
@guillyboo 5 лет назад
Her melanin is so poppin! Love your deep melanin girl!!! ♥
@bahatifuraha6898
@bahatifuraha6898 4 года назад
@Eros Delorenzi you're totally wrong, not everyone produces melanin because light skinned people can't do that
@Vril927
@Vril927 5 месяцев назад
Melanated girls are most beautiful
@ticheri16
@ticheri16 5 лет назад
She is so pretty😍 I'm not even just saying that she really is.
@itisandhiya
@itisandhiya 3 года назад
You are so pretty🥺
@BluEx22329
@BluEx22329 Месяц назад
Both yall
@lillililli1726
@lillililli1726 6 лет назад
She is SOOOOO beautiful ...
@41yearoldnewdriver
@41yearoldnewdriver 6 лет назад
You're beautiful. I had similar experiences. I know that people think a certain way about dark skin but skin bleaching cream is racism. I know there are advertisements for skin bleaching cream in magazines. I reject that. I am milk chocolate most of the year and dark chocolate in the summer. Color is not everything. All skin tones should be desirable. I got teased a lot about my color as a kid. I know you did too. I feel good about myself now.
@keerthiragyari3143
@keerthiragyari3143 Год назад
Me too!
@nicolaysantangelo5341
@nicolaysantangelo5341 6 лет назад
I hear this break in voice when she say about not passing "bag test" and my hearth just breaks. So much hidden pain in this. Love her so much.
@GBuckne
@GBuckne 7 лет назад
OMG, I have a deeper appreciation for God's creation after this...
@visheshrao5629
@visheshrao5629 4 года назад
She's attractive though, now imagine how unfortunate would be the lives of the individuals who wouldn't be so, with a darker skin tone
@shikhajohn7458
@shikhajohn7458 7 лет назад
Out of a lot of the ted talks I have seen, I can really kind of relate to this one. Awesome job, Pratyusha! You are wondrously beautiful! Everyone is perfect as themselves! This talk was very fluent and understanding. Such an inspiring speech.
@kalilbell
@kalilbell 4 года назад
I've always thought the darker ones were prettier. She's beautiful.
@thedarkyellowpages4016
@thedarkyellowpages4016 3 года назад
Yeah but when we're in a hurry, these are the people we shove aside.
@intermilan9731
@intermilan9731 3 года назад
It's more about having beautiful glowing whyte babies if both parents are fair skin.
@blkbbw8295
@blkbbw8295 3 года назад
@7:11 “I was achieving because of my skill rather than despite my skin” I love that deep realisation
@perfectnails_diy
@perfectnails_diy 4 года назад
She's so beautiful that it's actually unreal
@ilovelife3328
@ilovelife3328 4 года назад
She looks like Tatyana Ali a bit! Very beautiful!
@detroit1873
@detroit1873 5 лет назад
Dark skinned indian girls are super fine
@matyverona9407
@matyverona9407 4 года назад
She is beautiful, kind and intelligent
@Posttrip
@Posttrip 6 лет назад
She is so naturally LOVELY. I’m so sorry she had endure this. If she could be ‘cloned.’
@daisymaeshybu5624
@daisymaeshybu5624 3 года назад
Everything about this young lady is beautiful and her skin tone is just as beautiful, blessings to you my friend~
@Lusitania1408
@Lusitania1408 3 года назад
I'm European and I think she is extremely beautiful. Beauty is about facial structure and attractive bodies.
@afterwards8233
@afterwards8233 2 года назад
If beauty is about facial structure, can you not see how that is subjective and could be exploited to praise European standards better?
@iamsyd4170
@iamsyd4170 2 года назад
And all those beauty will die down one day. Peace and love should be our ultimate goal. Because our flesh means nothing, our spirit is what needs saving.
@kaylac.4797
@kaylac.4797 3 месяца назад
Amen beauty is fleeting no matter the skin
@ravneetvij8575
@ravneetvij8575 6 лет назад
India is worst country. It couldn't me more worst than this that I am dark skinned and living in North India (Punjab). People here are so discriminating that they haven't left any stone unturned to bring me down. I am still ashamed to use my own picture in my profile.
@doris6206
@doris6206 6 лет назад
I am a brown tone girl from mumbai suburb . I live in a community where I don't face any kind of discrimination
@alightedpathrestored3577
@alightedpathrestored3577 6 лет назад
wow things will get better for you
@sandeepsahu8743
@sandeepsahu8743 6 лет назад
Ravneet Vij it's OK to be darked ..I m also dark skinned it's doesn't matter to me..Pls keep an eye on your future and make it a better place and kill the world by your success😎🔥🔥
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 6 лет назад
The fact that you don't face it doesn't mean others don't either... Why are you trying to take away from the issue at hand?
@seban7601
@seban7601 6 лет назад
You are beautiful just the way you are!!☺
@isprahsingh7678
@isprahsingh7678 5 лет назад
True im from india and I can totally relate to everything she said...
@pi5815
@pi5815 4 года назад
Me too
@shrinivasansubramani5485
@shrinivasansubramani5485 4 года назад
Indians are the most colour conscious people in the world.
@salmanquareshi5131
@salmanquareshi5131 4 года назад
@@pi5815 you are looking beautiful
@kamalkumar7978
@kamalkumar7978 2 года назад
You are fair skinned according to Indian standards. Jabardasti ka relate mat kro.
@nkb5245
@nkb5245 Год назад
@@kamalkumar7978 na its just filters.
@paperandpavement
@paperandpavement 3 года назад
Dark skin is so beautiful. I'm mexican and there's colorism with our culture too. I remember my grandma telling me to put a hat on and sunblock on because she was light skinned and I was a golden brown from working in the sun. It didn't make any sense to me and still doesn't. Being our natural selves is one of the most beautiful things you can experience. Self love is beautiful.
@siobhanbeatrice4813
@siobhanbeatrice4813 4 года назад
The fact she is speaking up makes her attractive... I'm sure she is smart... and a good person... every girl has insecurities... that's why we do our hair, make up and eye make up... the non make up look nowadays looks unusual..
@turquoisestranger7566
@turquoisestranger7566 2 года назад
I wouldn't say that's why.. For many of us, its an art and a hobby or passion.
@southpaw2k1
@southpaw2k1 5 лет назад
OMG, she is so stunning. Someone better marry this lovely woman, before I save enough money to get a ring.
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 7 лет назад
My god you are stunning! And such an amazing speaker! I am blown away by your eloquent delivery and ability to shed light on such an understated topic. Thank you for opening a discussion on this issue, beautiful girl.
@maxvie2192
@maxvie2192 5 лет назад
She is very very beautiful and smart! All shades are amazing! ☺️
@ImtithalSaeed
@ImtithalSaeed 5 лет назад
she is so freaking gorgeous
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 6 лет назад
Pratyusha I looked you up and you are doing some amazing things! A pageant winner in medical school! You're an example of someone who overcame discrimination. My daughter is biracial and faces a lot of ridicule and bullying. She has been showing this talk to all of her friends because she finds you inspiring. I'm so happy that she has role models and women like you to look up to. I hope she has the courage to speak out if she faces discrimination too.
@henryfung9725
@henryfung9725 5 лет назад
white men really like chinese women and philipino women....so i am guessing your daughter is part asian?
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 5 лет назад
Why are you so against dark skinned women? White men aren’t obsessed with your race. You are.
@henryfung9725
@henryfung9725 5 лет назад
@@kylejohnson7986 explain to me why you never really see many white men with indian, but tonnes of white men with chinese/thai etc?
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 5 лет назад
@@henryfung9725 Because you're too obsessed with your own race to see them. I know several white men dating South Asian women and far fewer dating Southeast Asians. Your own racism and issues are making you weirdly obsessive. There's no reason to reply to SO MANY comments here about Chinese women when it isn't relevant to the talk.
@MrALenCar321
@MrALenCar321 5 лет назад
@@kylejohnson7986 Don't mind him he is a troll. I have seen him in race related videos.
@marthas.4456
@marthas.4456 5 лет назад
It's sad. Blame Bollywood, the Indian cast system and the perception of the Indians themselves for believing fair skin is better.
@dharanig8214
@dharanig8214 4 года назад
That matrimony thing she spoke is totally relatable !!!!💯
@yosefkweli6365
@yosefkweli6365 6 лет назад
She is very beautiful and intelligent.
@batteryout3905
@batteryout3905 5 лет назад
Her face is shinning with confidence.....👍👍so she is beautiful
@jcrowviral
@jcrowviral 6 лет назад
wow, she is beautiful!
@Infoentertain555
@Infoentertain555 3 года назад
She was so powerful that the end of her speech bought tears in my eyes
@rezzi606
@rezzi606 6 лет назад
Omg this is so sad because you are STUNNING... sigh, this world.
@LonerBecause
@LonerBecause 6 лет назад
Damn she's pretty!
@LonerBecause
@LonerBecause 5 лет назад
@Tammana Arora thank you 💜!
@satyamshekhar52
@satyamshekhar52 4 года назад
Uo
@MontyGumby
@MontyGumby 4 года назад
she's gorgeous
@Ablestreet
@Ablestreet 3 года назад
All I have to say is that this young woman is absolutely beautiful!!
@prabhakarrao4922
@prabhakarrao4922 4 года назад
I was captivated by the power of her speech. A supremely intelligent speaker. Very beautiful young lass as well.
@Buddha98
@Buddha98 2 года назад
So proud of u to talk about this huge problem we are facing. A big thanks
@ananyab4883
@ananyab4883 4 года назад
Such a sister preach moment
@Samuel115s
@Samuel115s 7 лет назад
She is really pretty 😊
@raichal3015
@raichal3015 4 года назад
I love her voice so much and I loved hearing to her beautiful message which is absolutely true!🥰
@SenyaD
@SenyaD 5 лет назад
I may not know her personally but I hope she succeeds for the rest of her life👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@snehamishra5849
@snehamishra5849 3 года назад
I love that on line the most ; when she says: you are beautiful not despite your dark skin but simply because you are beautiful ❤️❤️it touches me so deeply .....🥰🥰
@Vril927
@Vril927 5 месяцев назад
As a guy I find dark skin most beautiful ❤️
@rohinijk4466
@rohinijk4466 5 лет назад
This video is incredible...it seems to me like..she just articulated my thoughts...i have experienced all the things she said in the video..but i could never have put my thoughts into such beautiful words..Thank you Thank you Thank you from the bottom of my heart PRATYUSHA💜
@jannatitoma800
@jannatitoma800 5 лет назад
Oh god!! The way she is presenting, so graceful that now im want to be like her ..
@shruthirajkumar3480
@shruthirajkumar3480 5 лет назад
I am a victim too....she spoke for millions like me! Thank yoi
@intermilan9731
@intermilan9731 3 года назад
Did you try fair and lovely creams, baby?
@shruthirajkumar3480
@shruthirajkumar3480 3 года назад
@@intermilan9731 never bothered to. I love myself
@sanjanag3202
@sanjanag3202 6 лет назад
She's stunning!
@prabirpatra7926
@prabirpatra7926 3 года назад
Didi your speech was awesome. Your way of speaking is amazing. I learned a lot. Thank you. You have pain in your heart cause you have faced the BS. But Your heart is pure, you are innocent and amazing. You are such an inspiration. Thank you very much. God is always blessing you.
@rohinijk4466
@rohinijk4466 5 лет назад
I love each and every word of hers
@kurookami8601
@kurookami8601 6 лет назад
Mad respect to you miss! And FYI, you do look really attractive! I hope all Indians change their mindset based on your video! Thank you for making this one! 😀
@Kristisha.
@Kristisha. 3 года назад
She is gorgeous!! Her skin so beautiful!
@exposinghiddentruth5815
@exposinghiddentruth5815 5 лет назад
She is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen in my life, seriously. Yes, there are so many beautiful dark skin women in the world.
@exposinghiddentruth5815
@exposinghiddentruth5815 5 лет назад
@bye girl - Thats ok. Because white men are not the only men in the world. There are so many men of another races that is not stuck on white skin. As a matter of fact, a lot of men of other races would chose her over a white women.
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 5 лет назад
@bye girl Why are you spamming this talk? None of the actual white men commenting agree. Stop trying to speak for us. Just because YOU are obsessed with your own race doesn't mean we are.
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 5 лет назад
@bye girl No one would pick a basic girl over this beauty. Sorry, no one is going for basic Chinese girls like you
@kylejohnson7986
@kylejohnson7986 5 лет назад
@bye girl *you're Sorry that you're insecure about looking like a basic chinese lady. No white man would pick you over this beauty
@reshmithramesh7110
@reshmithramesh7110 4 года назад
I feel you. I am 24 years old and I know better now. But I am still fighting the insecurity which was put in me by my loved ones and society.
@TheBobWood
@TheBobWood 3 года назад
I can't imagine why anyone would not find this lady very beautiful. Her skin tone is more than perfect.
@sanskritigupta9719
@sanskritigupta9719 5 лет назад
I have faced it many many times in my life.. till I start believing I am beautiful. I will get nothing from public appreciation and I started appreciating myself.
@Vril927
@Vril927 5 месяцев назад
As a guy i find dark girls more beautiful ❤
@Youtube_Enthusiast_
@Youtube_Enthusiast_ 3 года назад
Such a needed discussion-love this
@yosbudi5708
@yosbudi5708 2 года назад
I love your skin shilpa really sweet. Where you from lady🤓🇺🇸💝🌼🌼
@a.r.tavares1322
@a.r.tavares1322 3 года назад
Wow, she covered the topic so thoroughly! Plus she is magnificent. Beauty and brains.
@sumaiyamarzook940
@sumaiyamarzook940 2 года назад
First of all you are so pretty. @5.57 I thought the same. Now it takes a great amount of effort to rewrite my believes. Iwanted to be more accomplished in my career to make up for my darkness. Girl you made me cry. I've never heard anything like this before which put my problems so accurately in to words.
@nostalgicgirrl6053
@nostalgicgirrl6053 2 года назад
What a beautiful speech! So well written and presented 👍 kudos to this girl :)
@bogusmcbogus2637
@bogusmcbogus2637 3 года назад
Strong presentation. Brava! Yes, everyone here knows this Indian woman, clearly, is very beautiful. That is beside the point. Even a woman *as beautiful as she* is looked down on. Her story is one of overcoming the habits of self-loathing induced by her society. It's a journey of bravery, discovery, and ultimately love that she is on. She deserves our admiration.
@arunsubramony4316
@arunsubramony4316 4 года назад
Message so compelling, so powerful, so inspiring, so positive.....Proud of you Ms. Pilla. I sincerely wish you the very best of happiness, health and success.....You will....you will be "Significant beyond Success". Best, Arun
@matzz6075
@matzz6075 3 года назад
Most intelligent 🧠,talented people in India are in one state ,kerala....where majority are either dark or brown,or medium.....highest literacy, hospitality,medical facilities...were same dark & brown tonned people's in kerala....
@dollardv
@dollardv 3 года назад
Wow just the way I like it. Tall dark and gorgeous. All praises two the Most High for his creation.
@blairfamily9685
@blairfamily9685 2 года назад
She is absolutely right and it's so sad and painful. Sister, you are beautiful. 😊
@FanGurl4TY
@FanGurl4TY 4 года назад
Tbh I think she's rlly pretty I don't know what those people are talking about
@natrajswamy6896
@natrajswamy6896 3 года назад
She is extremely beautiful both externally and internally💖
@listontheodore2705
@listontheodore2705 4 года назад
I'm in love with her really she is beautiful young lady.
@mmalavika5646
@mmalavika5646 5 лет назад
I can feel your words. Thank you for motivating me.
@Karen19820
@Karen19820 6 лет назад
Wow. I had no idea this was an issue in the world. Growing up in Louisiana, U.S.A. my friends wanted to be tanned, not fair. I was not happy with my fair skin, either, but was unable to get darker. I am sorry to hear there is discrimination due to darker skin and is so prevalent among Indian culture. Maybe we can learn to be thankful for the variety in skin color. 🌈
@ravikantharajuvangal4601
@ravikantharajuvangal4601 3 года назад
I have been victim from light people colour, you did amazing job on raising the voice 👌
@arnaktuli6698
@arnaktuli6698 5 лет назад
She is beautiful 💙
@tanujakhatun9149
@tanujakhatun9149 3 года назад
She is just like a doll 😍
@vishnuvardhanam4174
@vishnuvardhanam4174 4 года назад
Dude she is so beautiful and stunning. Her eyes are so mesmerizing..I still cud understand what she wud have went thro and that's why she is on the dias explaining it. I support her and anyone on against any kinda discrimination.
@adeolaitan9892
@adeolaitan9892 6 лет назад
This girl is very pretty and I like her skin tone
@mickymouse2445
@mickymouse2445 4 года назад
OMG she is so pretty! Is she a model?
@TheReddances
@TheReddances 6 лет назад
What a beauty! And so charming.
@sandeeprachabathuni2658
@sandeeprachabathuni2658 2 года назад
I didn't expect a speech on this subject from a girl this beautiful!
@trishaagarwal3648
@trishaagarwal3648 3 года назад
She is so beautiful, now that's what we call a stunning Indian personality!!
@171_indranildutta6
@171_indranildutta6 Год назад
haha what a joke
@hawaiianBombshell
@hawaiianBombshell 4 года назад
Wow! She's so beautiful 💖
@myra8317
@myra8317 3 года назад
This is girl sooooooo pretty. Im looking at her skin like who could ever say she isn't gorg
@fkkawlni
@fkkawlni 4 года назад
shes soo beautiful 😭😭😭..
@rahulreddy2219
@rahulreddy2219 3 года назад
Majority of North Indians tend to be fair skinned while many South Indians have brown skin. This is due to ancestral genes as well as the climate in these regions. Being brown or dark skinned in south india is very common and isn’t looked down upon. The speaker is from a South Indian Family.
@gmnboss
@gmnboss 5 лет назад
Definition of beauty!!
@anuchandran3676
@anuchandran3676 6 лет назад
Thank-you soo much dear.. You opened my eyes and changed my view.. Your are very beautiful.. May God bless you..
@47_susanthikadevis87
@47_susanthikadevis87 4 года назад
Really inspiring thank you so much for this wonderful speech 💗💓💞
@dr.bayanakedareswari2433
@dr.bayanakedareswari2433 6 лет назад
It's a great talk👏it was really inspiring Tedx.. and u beautiful princess of Pilla (my far cousin) u really a gave a powerful speech👌👌Lovely Pratyusha 🤗😗
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