my ig: / itsraylikesunshine I wonder how many of these dating gurus actually are in relationships.... Chapters: 01:37 : Conservative AND Alpha Male Podcaster 07:41 : NonLibTake 10:13 : DateRightStuff
Here's actual dating advice: Find yourself before dating. Be kind, passionate and honest to your partner and yourself. Know what you want out of a relationship before getting into one.
I agree with the comment, but please, do not get stuck in a loop of "wanting to improve" because you'll virtually never get to the best shape ever, be it phisically or mentally, relationships work around complementing each other and accepting each other's flaws as well, it's great to try to be the best version of yourself but do not work yourselves too hard either!
@@SoreniglioI’d say let’s try to be the best company for ourselves then there can be a relationship To enjoy one’s own company before starting to date opens many doors and lets us avoid toxic relationships
and like.... you need to like the other person(and the other person like you), because you probably will spend a lot of time with them (you first need to be friends, heh ;))
Your dog whistling is so subtle, how will my libtard brain ever pick up on it? I got a like on Hinge awhile back from a girl who had a photo of herself with Dennis Prager, so clearly they're not picking up on mine.
Why would a man lying about his political views make him a keeper? He clearly is just looking to sleep with someone or isn't confident in his viewpoints. Both are bad vibes, imo if you think hook up culture is bad.
As a woman i have always loathed this type of alpha "men are superior" content..but after i watched my sister have a baby...to think the pain and paitence their mothers under went to give birth to them and raise them only for them to grow up and disrespect women like this..its astounding
This is gonna make me sound terrible but a big reason I don't want to birth a child is bc I don't want birth a son and because of this exact reason. I don't want to birth some kid that turns on me and other women deciding were not human and not worth humanity. I don't want to birth a male.
@@alexoceanmeowThere are women who honestly have really shifty views of men and call them monsters and I think your one of them and that's sad and honestly good your not having kids because the way your talking already about your future son is truly heartbreaking. Imagine saying this about this about a future daughter. Hey maybe if you raise your kid right he or she won't turn out shitty
@@ChillingTales12 please watch videos of fathers storming out of gender reveals when they find out its a daughter. Go ahead have the day you actually deserve.
@@alexoceanmeow Alright so there are women and men who don't like having either boys or girls what's new? Thought that was some gotcha. Thankfully I'm not like you or those men. Because those men and women are projecting their biases and sexism on their kids. I don't care what gender my kid is because I don't have that toxic mentality of all men are bad or all women are bad.
Lmao Pearls parents are millionaires, her mother and father have a whole bussines. Her mother has her own business and pearl talks about women shouldn't work and vote, let that sink in. Her house is massive! She would NEVER EVER accept a man making 40-50k,NEVER.
I will never assume again. I was in Appalachia and parked texted to this dude at the gas pump. He had a big beat up pick up truck, a long grey beard like one of those dudes from duck dynasty and a stereotypical fisherman baseball cap. Thickest southern accent you ever heard and wearing flannel. He steps out the truck and the bottom half was a very short rainbow kilt with pride flag stuff, thigh high socks with a garter you could see and heels. It was the wildest thing I ever saw. Top half screamed conservative but the bottom half screamed lefty. A true moderate I guess 😂
Some people are moderate because they’re not left or right-leaning. That guy was moderate because he leaned so far in both directions he managed to multi-lane drift his way through the political spectrum! 😂 /j Or, y’know, southern people can be gay leftists, and conservatives don’t have a monopoly on the trucker/outdoorsman style lol /srs
So I am married and we are expecting a child. It’s a very happy marriage at that too. We’ve only been married five years so I don’t feel like I have any magical advice, but what worked for me so far was dating people I would want as friends. I also looked at how they treated everyone around them. I want the person who’s kind to others and goes out of their way to be good.
As someone who grew up rural, lives rural, and works in a place that is in a rural town.... I can tell you that conservatives don't talk in code. They will just assume you are conservative and say the most vile stuff imaginable. I literally had a guy come into work while HOLDING HIS CHILD. And he was talking about how he wanted other children dead. Like. In plain words. Exactly what he said. After the third guy came in sharing that horrible message (all in that same day) my boss had to put up signs about how hate isn't tolerated, and if you couldn't share love, then stay silent.
@@RayLikeSunshine I wish I were kidding. Unfortunately, it's all too common here. Some guy came in wanting a donation for a church - which we will often donate stuff for. Only difference was that this guy started saying so many bigoted things about the people around him. He assumed my boss would agree with him. Guy didn't like it when my boss started reciting passages of the Bible at him. I thought that church had stopped working with us anyway whenever we put up rainbow lights for June and started carrying a small pride collection. But, I guess not.
The "conservatives have secret code" woman was naming off the most obvious stuff as "secret code", but the more annoying aspect is she is probably the same type of person who think that dog whistles are fake.
A partner trying to get you to break off other connections in your life is precursor to domestic abuse. Once you're isolated and reliant on them for all your social life, you've got fewer or no means to resist them.
100%...your friends, especially the singles ones, are the ones who will pull you out of bad situations and be there for you when you finally leave him. He knows exactly what he's doing demanding that women ditch their girlfriends!
Absolutely right. It usually starts with your friends and then they move on to getting you to break off contact with your family (if you have family you were close to to begin with because abusers love targeting people without many close family ties) so when you want out, you instead believe them when they tell you you have no one but them and there's no where for you to go....
Pearl saying 40-50k was actually super interesting. It’s in contradiction with her own worldview. Usually they will bring on unsuspecting women to ask them questions like that then berate them for having any standards. Pearl has to triangulate her fanbase bc they see her as “one of the good ones” without outright contradicting what she usually says about all women being materialistic. She got so uncomfortable and had no way to respond.
I once took medication that made me extremely sensitive to light. I had to wear shades everywhere and people probably thought the same of me but the truth is we don't know what's going on with people and it's really none of our business. Didn't stop people from looking at me weird which I thought was weird. That's when I realized judging someone for wearing shades indoors was the dumbest thing ever.
Many people have to do that for medical reasons, they simply have light sensitivity. You’re being ignorant. That’s like saying you distrust people who walk with a cane. 🤨
It's concerning that this guy suggested women only have coupled friends and getting rid of their single lady friends because it's most likely about preventing people from seeing the red flags in the relationship coming from HIM. It's a control thing.
8:58 Lady. I live rurally. Literally everyone wears that. Do I live in a conservative area, yeah. But nobody wears that because they're a CONSERVATIVE. It's because they like fishing. Hell, I know at least four people with either one of those things that aren't conservative.
I go to college in the Southwest and literally no one wear those things bc they’re conservative. I’ve met so many mostly left leaning ppl who wear bass pro shop stuff just bc they like that aesthetic.
Exactly, it's crazy how much these folks complain about problems in the dating world, but also want to uphold so many of those same issues. They claim women only want to date a certain type of man, but also say men SHOULD be that certain type of man, and if not you aren't a real man.
It's weird, because they posture themselves as if they're these tough guys that don't give a fuck about other peoples opinion of them, especially women's opinions because women are stupid and worthless, amirite? But then, all their content is: "So this is exactly what you need you do and who you need to pretend to be so that women will like you. Don't offer yourself the basic human experiences you deserve, such as expressing a variety of emotions, because enjoying your life is completely worthless if a subset of women don't like you." Like, nothing matters more to them than womens opinions and at the same time, the minds of women bore them to complete death. Podcast Alpha males will say, on a hot mic, *on their podcast which is completely centred around keeping the attention of women* (and gaining the adoration of other "alphas", lets be honest), *gaining validation from women, and making sure everything they do is likeable to women --- and then without irony, say* "I don't have female friends, because women bore me." *!???!?!??!?!*
I thoroughly enjoyed the breakdown of his tiktoks that you did around the 13 minute mark. I was adopted by conservative parents, but always felt at odds with them on my values. They had this steadfast and unshakable belief that only their values were true and just, and all others were immoral and wrong. But when I pressed them, asking why questions, asking for details, they would always pivot. In ways much like your breakdown. I enjoy that you can show such depth of others, in humorous ways!
had to draw a fine line between criticizing the content and not playing into the obvious ragebait lol. You know what they say, if you start wrestling a pig you'll just get muddy and the pig will have fun. Glad you thought that I toed the line well :)
I would ask him "so women have an easy time dating...but they also lose their value as they age. So how would you reconcile that? Wouldn't that make it harder for women as well?" He would probably answer "well there's always gonna be a guy desperate enough to settle for any woman." Which i would then reply "could men not also settle for low value women? Wouldn't that mean they also have an easy time dating?" It's so easy to point out the flaws in their "logic".
Former Conservative here and this is hilarious 😂. Actually, my views have changed much just that American Conservatives have lost their minds. I think they have alot of Incel Energy that needs an outlet.
As someone who is currently in love for the first time in my 26 years of life, it is BLATANTLY obvious that all of these people have never had true, unconditional love. It's just sad 😮💨🤦♀️
Yeah now that I'm getting away from that community, I find it crazy that I didn't noticed how much they decrease the value of a person to just money and sex, they make it like you shouldn't find a person that you can connect with to create a life together, they want you to find a person that check every box in your checklist just to brag about having them, ignoring that there is another complex person just like you on the other side.
The Pearl thing is wild. I am a woman who makes fairly good money, and I've dated a couple men who I made way more than or who were unemployed. Honestly, while some women *absolutely* do date men in part for their money, most women (especially those who are doing financially fine) don't. That said, in my experience, women *are* nervous to date men who make less than them - but it's not about the money, it's about that we live in a society that expects men to be the main breadwinner and where many men expect to be the main breadwinner in the relationship - and not all men handle the reversal of income brackets well. I don't give two shits what my partner makes - I make enough for us to both happily live on even if he makes nothing - but I do want a partner - someone who respects me and wants to work with me to build a life. I don't expect a man to be a "stay at home husband" if he works just because he works less - if he likes his job and wants to keep doing that I support it (and that income is still adding to the partnership) - hell, even if it's volunteer - if it's his passion I still support it, so this isn't about "if I am the main breadwinner I want him to be in the kitchen". But around 50% of the time when I date men who make less than me what I get is a partner who doesn't help with the cleaning, cooking, or laundry at all then complains to me about how me making more makes him feel but who has no space to listen to how the situation makes me feel - or who tries to sabotage my job so that I make less or get fired. They still want to talk like they are making $50 mill per year and like I'm some gold-digger (including talking *to me* like that), they still want to sit on the couch drinking beer and not lifting a finger when they come home from work - it's not that they don't give up their own financial independence or passions to be a stay at home husband (I don't want that) it's that they completely refuse to give up an Andrew Tate worldview - but now I'm footing the bill for it. Most women don't want to risk that, and are going to be nervous to date a guy who makes less until they make sure you're not that sort of guy. but Pearl's entire audience *is* that sort of guy, she's a pick me for that sort of guy...so it's fascinating that she set a price point on that. So she's basically saying how much you would need to pay her to listen to Andrew Tate quotes at 3am about how she contributes nothing to the house she paid for. And she only picked 40-50k per year? Damn girl I wouldn't do that for less than 50mil.
This is simply not true. If we see most women marrying up(in every statistics), you've come to the conclusion that's because men do not seem to take being low in anything than a woman well. This simply means majority men are like that. But by that logic, men worrying about getting a gold digger for a spouse means women are gold diggers. You don't see how you've generalised doing exactly what you shame men for. You or most marrying up is just that, you and most women marrying up. If anything it's to do with how women view the worth of a man and nothing to do with how "forced" by the circumstances (created by men, you can never be blamed) you all are to deliberately choose men earning more than you
I think in general no one is like this in real life, most of the red pill guys never try to date, and anytime we see these gurus doing demos with women they seem really awkward and weird
Thank god someone said it. Liberals are strawmanning conservatives onto Redhill guys and then act like we are the problem. Like you know they don't understand the ideology when they equate conservatism to materialism and lust while also being rooted in Christianity
My wife came with debt, not a lot, but a little bit, she had a car, but I had a house (you don’t need a car in London, I just rented a car when I needed one) on the plus side, she was smart, funny, cute and sane and we’ve been married over 30 years. I now give my son one piece of advice when it comes to girls, sanity is an extremely underrated quality. My second hand experience tells me stress and drama, shortens your life and empties your wallet no matter how much you had to start. So sanity first, then smart, funny, cute, money, etc, etc, are bonus qualities. Also, having money is not a quality in a person, because you don’t sleep, cuddle or chat with money, unless there’s something wrong with you.
Also, it helps to not have a girl make out with a Winsor while riding on you, and get stuck with some other guy because of the amount of stuff she did trying to figure you out. I mean seriously we spent 1.5 years running in circles because both of us thought the other would cheat, even though the guy who was actually cheating was seen by everyone as her boyfriend. Oh, and yes I actually do mean a Winsor, just not a legitimate one.
The dream is a man that I find attractive, earns as much as I do, isn't lousy with baby mommas, won't cheat & doesn't ghost to avoid emotional confrontation AKA a fucking unicorn.
@@vibhorejaiswal2997and you don't even know her to ask. She said someone that matches her income by the way not a gold digger like the guys who think like yourself seem to think we all are. But I'm pretty sure you only read the parts of her comment that you wanted to and ignored the good parts. Please crawl back under your rock.
I hope you're young cause with each passing year in age the dating market seems to get worse and worse for everyone. Or at least that's what my single friends have told me. Finding a man with no kids past the age of 25 seems to be near impossible these days.
@@vibhorejaiswal2997 ''earns as much a i do'' ''isn't lousy with baby mamas'' she earns her own money, is single and childless, provides everything he does does to the table. my guy over here is blind.
@@Theescapist_87 lies lmao, my guy I know you're trying your best to act like a woman but you aint one, it becomes hard after 30, seen plenty of women in their late 20s with men in their late 20s, late 20s is young, biologically as well as in every other way, no woman in her late 20s is gettin so many less matches she becomes so desperate to go after a used up with kids man, that's women in their 30s. bro thinks he fooling anyone.
5:37 THIS EXACTLY like the whole hipergamy argument talks about how women are the ones who date this guys because they put the standards BUT it is MEN who do that. It os US who say "yeah if you dont have/make x, y and z youre NOT worthy" and thats on us. I use to think that women were always looking for the bad goodlooking guy, but that was when I was in middle and highschool, when I got in uni I realized...it was ME who they didnt like not what I didnt have phisically but personality wise
U mean to say even in this age where most women are proud girl bosses and will not settle for anything less then also they make the most vital decision of getting married according to the qualities which the so called patriarchy has established 😂🤣 U know how u sound right?? And the point remains the fact that most men are single and most women are not is not bcoz every other man has a bad personality but bcoz of the hypergamy as women choose men who are good looking, dominant, assertive (not violent). In fact good looking men many times get free passes even if they're sexist and mysogynist many times. All those coloured flags are for those who are average or not liked by women.
@@chaitanyagupta6668 That is not true tho. I don't wanna know how much time he spends alone with thinking about his skits, setting up the scenes and green screen each time and the editing everything in post production. There are so many people on this platform who simply just react to content but his videos fell like a breath of fresh air tbh. Also I love how he is self aware about his form of content, always credits others and clearly states that it is just his spin on topics that have already been discussed by other great creators (e.g. funkyfrogbait)
Real dating advice: trust your gut, not your trauma response. Love your self first, treat people with respect and kindness, don’t put up with stuff that doesn’t meet your needs, don’t over exert yourself for someone who wouldn’t do the same. Relationships are give and take. Don’t always give and don’t always take. It should be balanced. Someone is falling, you help them back you. You’re falling they help you back up, you’re both falling, you do for each other everything you can. And if it’s not working, don’t stay. It’s not worth it.
Yup. And none of those guys would ever "date" a woman taller than them. They would avoid tall women and only want short, small women who look and act a very specific way.
I feel like people who genuinely acy like this unironically are either one of the following, ir all of them: 1. Have never been in a healthy, mature, stable relationship (or their partners left them because they realised they were little man-children) 2. Have egos far too large and far too fragile for their itty bitty boots 3. Incredily narcissitic and self-absorbed.
Until 2015... I've never given 2 sh!ts whether you have an had an American flag on your house or car or anything. Since trump it makes me cringe to even look at the American flag. The ONE plus to it is being able to weed out the conservatives.
Bro your videos are absolutely banging!! Love the editing and your jokes and everything!!! Keep going BUT also make sure you take care of yourself and don't burn out!!! ❤❤❤
2:38 as an accounting major who just got finished with an “interview” for an MLM company for my first real accounting job…nice. Edit: also, just subbed. Can’t wait to binge your other stuff homie, it looks fire 🔥 Update: I got a job now, with a legit company. Things are pretty nice tbh. Hope y'all are doing well
@LouLouLion I assume you're a gal? Sorry, red pill podcasts have a mandatory "no girls allowed" sign at the gate. I hear if you try and get in, they'll say you have cooties.
Another great vid as always! Also the code is piece of clothing from a bass pro shop? I just cannot wait for this woman to apply her theory in practice.... lol
