0:50 his 1st stickiest situation 2:35 paid witnesses 3:20 **Align ur thoughts on how u want to approach the situation 4:10 *When he does this.. how do I respond? 5:00 **Just be you 5:30 **Allow ppl to be themselves & make them expose themselves6:00 7:10 Ur role as a trial lawyer7:40 court 8:20 **Have an intention & preparation when a situation happens 9:30 cant be a jerk 9:50 civil & criminal cases 10:10 &&now shes talking too much & giving extra 11:10 Once you lost credibility, you cant get it back 12:30 Psychology to get the outcome 12:52 Against, him deposing 14:00 their baggage bad day they spewing 14:30 **Take it outside, Respond not React 15:50 How do you not get defensive 17:30 how he learned, to project, to pace 18:30 Arguments are an opport to create understanding 19:20 1 u didnt have to win it 2 Know when the end goal is 20:25 **Take accountability & responsibility 21:52 2 skills q's marriage trial law 22:15 **Control ur emotions 23:15 23:45 fast arguments 25:00 ** Give em a reason to give it to you 25:39 Whatever you give, you lost 26:25 When you go on a negotiation, **Use tactical empathy & letting them know what they're already thinking 28:22 How do you build confidence in challenging convos same playing field 28:50 **Let your breath be the same word 29:30 Smile, Projecting, Pacing, Tone low, Words slow 30:15 31:15 a lot pressure, they're using vids against him 32:15 not give bad advice 33:15 pressure panic attack, becoming famous 37:10 panic of the thought38:50 39:55 **Know your mindset 40:30 Your Body Keeps the Score book 41:40 **Reach out to close people43:10 42:15 few close ppl, but others see it different 43:55 Ppl have agenda/want something from u 44:45 &&Dont let them down 46:00 &&Dont hold your breath 47:10 if someone attacking you, **Imagine a field bouncing off & Separate ego to self 48:50 **Act like its a different language when theyre shit talking you 49:30 **Imagine a trashcan & throw all their shit talking there 51:30 How do u communicate ur worth/boundary when their digging 52:10 **I'm not interested returning what you just gave 52:20 passive aggresive backhanded comment 52:50 **Call them out 53:15 **I have no interest in talking about ur opinion 54:25 **Use Silence & Say Nothing 55:33 **Acknowledge that it could be.. Maybe so, Maybe you're right 56:25 **Hold off on the Timing 57:25 **Start your Breath, Pause, Choose to be quiet 58:30 **What's the chance we can..? 59:30 stalement way, **Acknowledge them 1:00:15 1:00:45 **Create a Connection then say "Whats the chance we can..?" 1:1:30 panic attack 1:2:30 rise of fame wife family 1:3:00 son 1:3:55 Empathetic, its ok to cry son1:4:45 1:6:35 **Always be authentic who you are 1:7:05 its ok to make mistakes 1:7:38 **Be kind to everybody 1:9:00 **Acknowledge their vulnerability 1:10:15 8 what would friends think 9 1:12:35 Vulnerability builds Connection 1:14:30 body shutting down rise to fame 1:16:15 Cant look back when ur plowing a straight road. **Be present 1:17:00 **Treat ppl how u want to be treated 1:17:30 **Show kindness 1:18:15 Greatness definition.
Our Educational System need to empliment a version of this into our school curriculum. Our inner city school could benefit from these approaches to conflict resolution. ❤
I feel a great spirituality in him. He has a “light” and he has a gentle, Christlike way of being kind, fair and not manipulative or competitive in the harsh, typical way, even though he has to do his best for his client(s). He is unique to my experience and I respect him very much and wish him blessings for having such a fair, “treat others as you want others to treat you” code of ethics.
Amen! May the blessings of Jefferson Fisher and Louis Howes extend wide to elevate our world and return 1000fold to Jefferson and Louis and their families! Thank you Heavenly Father for the infinite blessings of this interview! ❤️✝️🙏✨😇
The way you two speak, and look at eachother, truly shows 2 men with their masculinity and confidence in order! I hope to one day have a human friendship like the one you have!
I have never heard of Jefferson Fisher before this podcast but I just became an instant fan after this episode! He has a very calm even keeled demeanor. Not to mention highly insightful. I definitely picked up on a few things from this episode and can’t wait to hear more from him! Such a great guest. Props to Lewis Howes for having him on! I yearn for episodes like this!
There are just a very few items I have bookmarked on IG and some of them are his posts… so insightful and so helpful in how to communicate better in relationships.
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Lewis and Jefferson! Two smart, relatable real people willing to be honest and upfront. So very refreshing. Grateful to hear you both speak and give us all greatness techniques.
I look forward to Jefferson's updates & he has helped me build so much more confidence in dealing with conflict especially in work in a positive & respectful manner. He is ahead of his time in his wisdom. Sending heartfelt healing to him for his anxious times. He is an earth angel, walking among us, healing & sharing his gift of truth & kindness ❤
This man is on target! His approach is warm and friendly, personable, and appealing. Jefferson offers solid, intelligent, useful advice and information that will self- empower you and allow you to maintain your dignity as well as the dignity of those you interact with. He alerts you to the pitfalls you may come across and explains how to avoid them so your communication/message is clear and stays on track. Brilliant.
Thank you sooooo much for doing this interview with Jefferson! His content is so helpful. It was great to see that he’s also experienced panic attacks. It made him so much more relatable!
Lewis, you are a great interviewer. Jefferson, you have so many gems, I have to listen to your podcasts and interviews twice. Thank you both for helping me to become a better person.
I work at a hotel, assigning room and adjusting rates. If Jefferson or Louis approached me with such a calm demeanor, asking, not demand as many attempt, It would be my pleasure to accommodate them to the fullest of my ability. ❤
What a fun conversation between calm, thoughtful souls. I don't even have an IG account and I still know who Jefferson is. For the record, JF, though I love listening to your easily implemented conversation tips, all of us out here who care about you wouldn't want you to keep doing it if it stopped nourishing your spirit or became a drain. We can't let anyone down if we're being true to our best selves ☺️
He comes across as genuine and kind. Glad to see a lawyer like that. Usually they have a bad reputation. Hope his new sucess brings out even better qualities in him and he can find calm and peace.
Thanks for being so open about your panic attacks! My body responded with vertigo. But it was the same feeling, I thought I was having a stroke or something! It was a terrible feeling. It lasted 3 weeks. I’ve been listening to your podcasts just recently and really am learning a lot. I do have difficulty with certain conversations and it’s so great to learn better strategies.
Mr. Fisher's refreshing and calming style is truly a blessing to me. I only recently came across his video at the perfect time. My chaotic life has been in much need of someone like him to listen to and learn from.
Loved this. I learned how to communicate when I realized that we are not communicating. We just throw out words. Often I may say, "I am not trying to convince you to think how I do, but if I have communicated well my thoughts then I have done my job in this experience. I believe too often we speak to convince others your way is better. True communication is just an exchange of thoughts. That's all. Are you a good communicator is the question to ask yourself. Great video, thank you Lewis!
LEWIS!!! AGAIN…as ALWAYS in ALL WAYS..you have facilitated another engrossing convo w/ a person who’s info & expertise is absolutely applicable in LIFE! Life - the courtroom where judges are not identifiable in their robes & all consider themselves judge & jurors. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Thank YOU Lewis & Jefferson! Please take care of yourselves as well as ya’ll take care of others. ❤✌🏻
Love Jefferson and Lewis so much!!! Two of my favorites❤❤ I love how open and vulnerable Jefferson was on this podcast! He did get big so fast …that would make anybody panic for sure. Thanks for all you both do. I could listen to you both all day.
Hes so centered and relaxed. Loved watching this episode, I just came across Jefferson about a month ago. And of course my boy Lewis got the interview ready! Love to see it! So many takeaways
Amen! May the blessings of Jefferson Fisher and Louis Howes extend wide to elevate our world and return 1000fold to Jefferson and Louis and their families! Thank you Heavenly Father for the infinite blessings of this interview! ❤️✝️🙏✨😇
Jefferson has some great tips! I'd bet his nervous system's & body were brewing symptoms that he didn't know were connected to his panic years earlier. He even spoke of the expectation as a kid. People ignore, don't recognize or know what to do when the subtler "symptoms" tell us something is out of balance energetically.
@lewishowes I love how you are so engaging! Your presence really displays excitement in the conversation. Such a beautiful gift to your guests & us as the audience. I’m sure I speak for many people when I say that your questions and interest in your guest keeps me interested as well. I always wish the conversations lasted longer! 😂 Thank you for your continued service! 🙌❤
What an amazing conversation. Listened on my walk and I “walked away” with so many nuggets that my ❤ and mind needed desperately. My headspace shifted from victim to conviction. I now have some phrases to initiate a calm conversation Much gratitude to you both🙏🏻
Jefferson is a very intelligent , talented and beautiful human being, his tips are very relevant and helpful- great stuff to share with others that need it!
I found you and listened to what you were saying and I have learned so much from you. Thank you for being here. Please don't stress over your success. It's helping so many of us. If we all behaved the Jefferson way we would all be happier human beings.
I love this. I've followed Jefferson on tik tok for a while, his perspective has helped me immensely as I've been promoted into higher stress jobs over the past year. Thank you both!
Jefferson Fisher, Congrats! I’ve been following you for only a few months, but I am happy for you to be on such a big show like Lewis Howe’s The School of Greatness. Your advice has helped a lot, and I’m glad more people will get these tips.
It is no small thing to have so many eyes on you suddenly... the internet has created such overwhelming connectivity and to have so many people suddenly have access to your soul so to speak, is not normal, for sure. Great interview, love both of these guys, great character and integrity and great rolemodels... and remember that great role models are sensitive just like everyone else and need protection too. 😊 Thanks for the insights.
This is a real and raw emotion that Jefferson was sharing. It reminds us to always stay in touch with our inner sense of being human. Thank you both, Lewis and Jefferson, for this video. I watched both of your guys' videos and always found something useful. Peace and love to all.
Wow - congrats JF! I follow him on IG b/c of his great, clear advice. Surprised--and delighted--to see him on your show, Lewis. It's wild to see you both in this interview - both likeable, thoughtful men, of similar age & physicality, dressed similarly, and w/a similarly light energy, bouncing back n forth. I haven't seen you in such an interview, so this was interesting and fun. :)
What a wonderful episode/conversation! 😊 I enjoyed it so much. What a gorgeous human being your guest is. And the questions were awesome. Thank you to Lewis Howes and to Jefferson Fisher who I did not know. I learned so much. Sending everyone health, joy, love, and inner peace.. and kindness. ❤
Agree with what he is saying . And understand it. To me, he is expressing that he understands human psychology and how he uses the knowledge of that understanding as a tool in life. Which I also agree with Would like to add my opinion on the discussion about how him and his wife handle arguements. . I'm doing so for others who may read this. He is describing a healthy adult functioning relationship. Where they are both mature to recognize their own faults and be accountable for themselves
Every time someone describes their first anxiety/panic attack and say they believed it was a heart attack, I think of Bedros Keuilian's story. Jefferson has some really great insight, he shares really great knowledge. I hope neuroscientists and other researchers study him and share their findings with the world with credit to him.
It's called stress. At a period in my life my throat was tightening up and could not swallow food well. Had heart tests done and finally told my heart was fine and doctor told me I had to get my stress under control. So I did everything I could do to be less stressed. Breathing techniques for one. Anyway over time I have gotten better. Take care.🙏
What a wonderful interview. I just discovered Jackson Lewis and happened to find this interview. Jackson has a wisdom beyond his years and the gift of putting that wisdom into simple language. I had never seen or heard of Lewis Howes. I’m his newest fan.🤯My goodness, he knows how to ask such interesting questions that dig deep. His questions are so thought provoking. And he’s so kind and respectful. Loved this interview! A new subscriber!