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Mastering The Art Of Communication | Jefferson Fisher

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Ever wondered how to turn a heated argument into productive communication? This episode promises to decode the art of communication with our special guest, Jefferson Fisher, a lawyer, acclaimed for his practical advice on effective communication. From his journey transitioning from law to social media, we uncover the power of dialogue, insightful phrases, and strategies to navigate conversations with not just colleagues, but also children and spouses.
Dive into the world of conflict management, guided by the experiences of our guest, raised amidst a family of attorneys. Discover how a calm demeanor and a lower voice can de-escalate tense situations. The emphasis here is on how communication positively impacts relationships and conflict resolution. As we shift gears, we plunge into the realms of AI, the responsibility of voicing opinions in the social media space, and the art of parenting with effective communication principles.
Each chapter of this conversation is a treasure trove of communication wisdom, from understanding others' perspectives to setting clear goals and boundaries. The episode culminates with three key takeaways for having productive arguments and conversations, and Jefferson Fisher's enlightening inputs on these strategies. This episode isn't just a podcast, it's a masterclass in communication. So, lend us your ears, take notes, and transform your conversations. Remember to share this episode and leave a review to help us grow. Let's dive in!
Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and Relationships
Kimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master's degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.
Website: www.kimberlybeamholmes.com
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20 ноя 2023

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@hennore 8 месяцев назад

Never clicked on a video launch faster in my life 😂 I’m going to use those phrases moving forward: “Maybe so,” “I’ll be better,” “I’ll do better.” 🙏🏾

@COJC1830 11 дней назад

He is an attorney! Not just a lawyer. There is a significant difference. And he is amazing!

@suzanam5872 8 дней назад

What's the difference plz?

@anitajulaniya1959 7 месяцев назад

Doesn’t look like that he ever gets tensed. He is amazing. His short videos are superb. Thanks.

@shellymurray7723 4 месяца назад

He does suffer from panic attacks and attends weekly therapy acc to another podcast. I find him insightful and inspiring.

@dcsalerno 5 месяцев назад

❤🇺🇸I would vote for him for president! Can you imagine?!

@jamiebratton4734 6 дней назад

Unfortunately, a large portion of our nation prefers empty, mindless, overly emotional, hateful, selfish showmanship.

@growing367 15 дней назад

2:15 personal injury 2:55 social media, share communication 3:58 helped his law firm 4:30 opportunities 5:40 cant go on trip

@barbaratapella 6 месяцев назад

I love JF. He is calming and sensible. My body calms down, I listen, I apply. It works! he is a gem

@DxB412 4 месяца назад

It had not occurred to me that improving communication skills could positively impact all areas of my life. It feels like a real-life cheat code.

@oterosocram25 4 месяца назад

and it can negatively affect many others as well. When you grow and learn but those around you don't, you better be ready with patience, if you dont have the patience, you will begin to condescend

@RonnaAliceLayne 7 дней назад

Here for JF. Hoping she's a good interviewer. It's an art.... Here we go

@victoriaani250 5 дней назад

His working/thinking through conversions through a court room lens and it’s very helpful to have a productive results I’m guessing him hearing his father share all those court room stories, plans, and outcomes as a child made it a natural way of thinking/planning on how to resolve a problem

@jeremyrlack 28 дней назад

Kimberly, thank you for doing a recap at the end. Why don’t more hosts do that?

@LittleLippi 7 месяцев назад

I just found this video. I follow both of you and love both of your content. AMAZING to see this collaboration! Appeared just at the right time. Thank you!

@speakingofjo 3 месяца назад

'Don't make that your Alamo." You really spoke to this Texan! This resonates with me. Thank you to you and your dad, Jefferson.

@sandrakavarana6793 28 дней назад

What does Alamo mean?

@denim4821 16 часов назад

@@sandrakavarana6793 Google the reference

@brandyk 5 дней назад

This is very true but don't overlook that aside from a marital relationship most relationships whether friends,coworkers,even family members and certainly bosses, supervisors etc are not always between two people of equal status so one person is often more motivated to resolve the conflict in a mutually beneficial way. Its not to say the other person doesn't care at all but even if they care about you and even claim to love you their ego is far more Important than the relationship so they are far more willing to roll the dice n jeopardize the relationship especially if they think and perhaps if there has been a pattern of one person( lower status person) being tje one initiating recomcilliation.

@serendipity13107 19 дней назад

Such a great topic! I enjoyed listening to Jefferson's calming responses and had a lot of takeaways that I'll be using effectively in my next discussions. Jefferson's tips are of huge benefit as I've been following him for some time now. Thanks!

@dnthegardenful 6 месяцев назад

Great video! Thank you both!

@creyetivemedia 3 месяца назад

You asked such great questions Kimberly. I enjoyed this informative video very much. May you keep growing in success on RU-vid.

@boogiewoogiebobby 7 месяцев назад

Awesome episode! Great questions and responses. Mr. Fischer is the GOAT!

@Learn.practice.repeat 6 месяцев назад

Tuning in while working on my blog. :) Hello Kim and Jeff!

@camoneil9256 2 месяца назад

Mastering the art of communication, this would really help those of us that NEED CLOSED CAPTION… PLEASE

@ejm6122 Месяц назад

Wow 😮 provocative topic! Intriguing responses.

@axonjogi 6 дней назад

So impressed with Jefferson’s sense of responsibility…..impressive

@crissycobain8361 6 месяцев назад

Jefferson, I totally caught your advice in how to be more believable in this segment. I heard the "right?" saw your head nod and it was great. I love the parts about the kids, your kids that you talked about, it makes me a feel so whole and know your such a good dad! (I know there is greatness in the world, I will forever believe that.) I come to you from an adversity of lymphoma that I had in 2020, I'm all good now however I am since turning over a new leaf. I am empathic, and while I always knew that I carried great communication abilities, what I didn't know was how to assert myself respectfully and own my "how, what, why, my boundaries my values, story". I have learned so much from you, and I can't thank you enough. I envy your upbringing with parents of strong words and diplomacy. I had parents who didn't know how to respond to the emotional needs I needed as a child. They did their best with what they had though, now through learning this it only fuels my curiosity of wisdom in every part of my life. Oh and I definitely related to the bad hair day, which was a most insightful analogy for me. I think of these things all of the time, I have never learned how to put them into words. Thank you again Jefferson, Thank you Kimberly!! I am so glad you got to have the chance to meet with him. How amazing! Thank you both for your time.

@patricebennett1100 10 дней назад

Was great. Leant so much. Thank you to both of you.

@2coryman 10 дней назад

Is also a good choice to not be too demanding but to find a balance, this doesn’t meander a relationship is not wanted, maybe about different life styles

@GodHelpMe369 3 месяца назад

How the actual fuck is this my life at 44? - Forever perpetually alone and single (never ever been in a real relationship) - Never ever had a real friend - Poverty - Diabetic - Lonely and alone - Frumpty-dumpty (everyone thinks I'm so old) - Child-less - No family of my own I'm in hell and there's no escape. I'm drowning in grief and rage. My soul is raped. I am traumatized and paralyzed. I was a child, in so much pain, abused, bullied, minimal to no support, just doing my best. What a miracle to be able to feel such rage and grief. So beautiful. So wild. So gorgeous. So intense. So loving, so kind. So free. PRAYER: Lord, I pray for healing: physically, emotionally, mentally, psychologically, and spiritually, In JESUS' name: break every chain, stronghold, yoke, every generational curse, and all witchcraft, and spell work. Holy Spirit, anoint me: from the top of my head to the soles of my feet. Release me, completely, from every darkness looming around me, in Jesus' name. Shine your light, your healing, your saving grace, and power over me. And FILL me with YOUR AGAPE LOVE and grace. I speak peace over my heart and mind and soul and body, in JESUS' name. So be it. So it is. Praise be to God. Hallelujah! Thank you, God, for Guiding me with your love and light! Thank you, God, for Surrounding me with your love and light! Thank you, God, for Protecting me with your love and light! Thank you, God, for Imbuing me with your love and light! Thank you, God, for Cloaking me with your love and light!

@HappyDudeCustoms 18 дней назад

10:33 this sounds like a good strategy to get opposing counsel all worked up at the beginning with a strategic plan to quickly calm yourself knowing you just got them all worked up and they may stay that way

@Babecca 12 дней назад

Thanks so much for the interview! I’m following for more information.

@lindadelangis5211 2 месяца назад

I’m am incredibly thankful to have stumbled upon this video!! This is incredibly helpful for all families who have been estranged with junk left on the table. On my self help journey, grateful that you are sharing these lessons!!

@rhodabean 19 дней назад

Thanks for the recap

@Eugenia-bq2hz 2 месяца назад

Oh my gosh. His wife is lucky.

@cathymontano569 4 месяца назад

Outstanding!

@rachaelmilne5574 14 дней назад

Loved this!

@AndyLoRusso Месяц назад

Very good communication Grazie

@colt4573 6 месяцев назад

Love this interview.

@matthewblack7533 7 месяцев назад

Kimberly has that same calming voice, she says Jefferson possesses.

@davidpolk421 5 месяцев назад

Just so good !!!!!!

@davidpolk421 5 месяцев назад

Both of you are so helpful thank you!!!€£

@user-me2fr7oe8o 8 месяцев назад

Oh wow! I really liked this episode. I wanted more. I wish it would have went more into how to start and have better/more communication with a reluctant spouse that has left marriage and is avoidant to talk to the standing spouse. Mostly to restart or change old patterns or communicating Just to help start a friendship.

@alexwelts2553 7 дней назад

Wow, looks like the office is at the Louvre 😂

@annegabels6680 8 месяцев назад

Jeff makes sense...very logical. I like his short insta clips! Wondering, thoughts to talk with friends (in their 50s) that use too much weed and now using DMT...is this not an escalation? how to approach them that these substances are not inert and can have serious consequences down the road...how do i bring that up? or do i just distance myself?

@AJJ_Bros 2 месяца назад

Jefferson rules

@Nat_hdataa 5 месяцев назад

I want to start using the phrase 'Do not cross-examine me' more often. However, I'm not sure how to respond when someone continues to ask me questions or becomes abusive during a conversation, even after I've asked them to stop in multiple ways. How can I effectively set my boundaries?

@jlea3032 4 месяца назад

the second show I've seen this same exact question. So sad!

@axonjogi 6 дней назад

Kim’s questions seemed personal as if she was asking for info that would benifits her

@ejm6122 Месяц назад

I love that.. pinch a penny into a dime😅

@angelayaung7417 3 месяца назад

Or how do you reconcile with someone who just never want to start a healthy convo and repentance . I had to always swallow my pride even if I’m the one being mistreated and abused verbally .

@fominaya24 4 месяца назад

Jefferson didn't once mention Frank The Tank

@angelayaung7417 3 месяца назад

How do you reset a spouse who has not connected with you even intimate for 15 years bec they just have to abuse and gaslight you and never have sense of accountability 😊

@jkulikova 3 месяца назад

You don’t. If this is a relationship you’re willing or have to stay in, you just learn how to navigate around it and not get triggered. Otherwise, you run as fast as you can and save the rest of your life.