Convincing You for an Hour Why You SHOULDN'T Become a NURSE| YourFavNurseB 

I do the same thing driving home and driving to the job. I listen during too.

I’m not a nurse and I pray to Jesus daily because I worship him and he’s my everything

Preach

I get it, you want to be there for people but then you start to realize it’s a reason why they are sick, some people put themselves into a situation to need help then turn around and act entitled to it like something bad just happened to happen to them…nah fam, you did this to yourself, don’t try to use me to make yourself feel better.

​@@yourfavnurseb9699 You are so correct!

Try corrections they are truly great full I love it. I very much feel appreciated on the prison

Nclex test is really frustrating, I can't believe I failed again after studying so much🥺🥺😓😭😭

Yes I feel like male nurses are either super chill or super crazy/a lil weird lol I’ve also come across some that are playas and it’s so weird esp in nursing homes they are known as Community 🍆!!!

@@yourfavnurseb9699 community 🍆🍆?? I’ve only worked with a couple and they were chill…not sure what they did in their personal life. I prob should’ve asked 🤣🤣 I worked with one that was gay and he was worse than the female nurse but still fun as hell to work with!

@@yourfavnurseb9699100 When I worked in psych the men would try to use me as an armchair psychologist and air out their problems to me The flirting etc is also out the roof But yeah I’d rather work where there are some men because working w too many women it’s just to much jealousy and cattiness

the feminine men nurses are just as bad and crazy though 😭😭😭😭

Male nurses are usually lazy

Facts

Right????

Management is concern with charting, CBT and if is a Magnet Facility, they have the nurses' attending committees to agendas that are not improving pt care. I'm glad today nurses are not putting up with it. Even the doctors are waking up and quitting their jobs because of stress not getting adequate sleep. Something needs to change. I respect you for having the courage to discuss what goes on behind the scenes in nursing. You keep thriving! God is taking care of you for stepping to the plate and unmasking what we are dealing in nursing.

Ha, that hilarious. Hey at least you know what to look out for and can work on dodging the BS.

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Hey I def found my dream opportunity with less than a year of experience in travel. Greatness is definitely out there

Congrats, this is just the bedside aspect of nursing, and theres a whole lotoptions as a nurse out there apart from bedside! i found my niche in case management and utilization review and works from home, never been happier without all the bedside drama

This all of this. I'm a paramedic have been for 14 years. I work in the ER as a tech. I have been on this journey to get my nursing for a while and wondered why I kept finding resistance and blocks. Not going to lie I was kind of hard on myself for years. I still love interacting with patients. It's the politics of the hospital I hate. I've come to accept it wasn't rejection just realignment. I would be miserable being a nurse. Especially being neurodivergent and introverted myself. I can get overly stimulated and not act like myself. I recently decided to switch routes try to go to school to be a radiology tech first as a foundation then branch off to CT and MRI. I'm naturally an independent worker, it's still patient care just not as taxing as nursing, minimal interaction with doctors and nurses. Especially with CT the introverted side of me just wants to hide in the room by myself run the test listen to music keeps me calm 😂

Yes. Most of the time it’s the only thing I can do to detach myself from the stress of the job, it can be so overwhelming but to know that there is a bigger power in control helps me to feel at ease. I know that I’m not alone when I take care of my patients.

Omg that’s so said, when I did clinicals on a L&D unit the nurses spent the whole shift talking about a new grad nurse. Of course they try to do it it in a nice nasty way like they are concerned but it’s all just pettiness. L&D is no joke, people should add to the stress by being mean. I hope you find your way back to the specialty, we all know how much diversity lacks in that area

@@yourfavnurseb9699So true. Excellent video

Omg there really is no point in working when that happens, time to switch things up

Some of them really do, I try to help and just not be a burden, it always feels better when we can all just work together.

Thats y I stopped being a tech! I wanted to have some of them nurses meet me outside. I even switched my major. I was aiming for CRNA. I was like nope!!

@@DiGoldSheepwhat are you going for now? I was thinking PTA .. but I also want respect on my field, so I feel nursing will help with that.. unsure..

Wow

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yes it's very tiring, I feel like if we had more help and teamwork it would make a WORLD of a difference. I esp felt burnt out in LTC, it's like NO ONE is doing their job anymore, most places are full of agency, management is nowhere to be found and you have to just struggle to even get basic things done and still not really even get the job done properly.

Go to a clinic or call center. Also try Geriatric Psych

I don’t believe there’s a nursing shortage

Omg I don’t think there’s enough info out there about covid grads, I’m technically one since I started my RN training in 2021, glad I became a LPN years before that though. But for the ones that had to actually deal with not going to clinicals, having all their classes online etc, oh my.

Always remember you’re mostly encountering people on the worst days of their life!!😢❤But I’m same!! Don’t want to look at ANY OTHER HUMAN BEING on my days off!!!😢

❤❤The amount of shifts (12hrs) that I didn’t get to eat, drink enough water or even use the restroom!! SING IT!!! The responsibility vs the pay!😢Its all going to fall on you!!!😢🤬

OMG yes, they know they can't act helpless with the men, they have to put on a front with them, I didn't even think of that.

why is all the money in bedside nursing though?!?! I gotta stop chasing the paper and just step away and try non bedside nursing....i think

🤣 keep going for what you want, there are a bunch of pros to nursing too

Yup, thought I was tripping

@@ladytosha15 It's true... but we must be resilient as well. Especially now, lay offs are everywhere... Not much layoffs in healthcare but people might surge in that industry

Yes, they always keep a job, people are scared to say anything to them.

lol, thank you.i was only like 2 when my great grandmother died but my mom said she used to pinch/shape my nose all the time when i was a baby…I guess it worked

You do really have a cute button nose. ❤️ Nice personality too!

Thanks for appreciating it, some people think you should only talk about the positive and create an illusion but there's some great parts to nursing and some bad, nothing wrong with being real. I feel like if you know both sides and still want to do it then you know it's really for you.

Oh no! Are you completely retired from working or are you in a different field?

@@yourfavnurseb9699 retired. I am trying to get into a different field.

Thanks so much for watching

Agreed. Find a specialty work your 3 days and go

Yep, I completely see why people are untrustworthy.

lol yall are fresh meat in nursing homes. Some of the men sleep their way through LTC, and some are just used and abused. It’s tough because we do need more of you all to round out the profession.

@@yourfavnurseb9699 the ugliest women ( not trying to be mean) are the most bold and unprofessional daily. Some staff would sit certain residents behind me just to yell and flirt while I would try to chart. They would flirt and carry on. Then would tell me certain residents want me to come see them to flirt ,, as if that’s my job to stop working hard so they can flirt . I say no they actually told me don’t be like that they don’t good looking men often. As if my BSN was given cuz I’m good looking. Then upper management acted like I owed them some penis cuz they gave me the job. On the flip side I found some to be Jealous I was a nurse . And women in this field are big catty high schoolers , some just straight bullies. If I put them in there place and not go along then I’m the problem ! My DON started acting like she in a damn soap opera it just got crazy I had to leave ,, And I feel like if I had sex with some of the CNAs or med techs that could potential be law suit or problem. I had to catch myself a lot. I only did 3 different nursing homes in few months before I realized it not for me, and too much to type all . But can’t forget the racism

I do think that nurses can find better job settings or specialties that may fit us better which is a great thing bc in other careers they just don’t have as many options as we do, even just the fact that we can work at anytime of the day really is a bonus.

Noooo! Lol check out the pros video I have it linked in the comment at the top.

Doesn't everything start with a thought? If you really feel drawn to it, I say do some more research and get started. Even starting off as a PCT will give you a better idea if this field is for you and it won't take that long to do the schooling. Now depending on what you do now it may be a pay cut but like I stated, it's a quick/entry level way to get in the field and see what it's like. Good luck, check out my pros to nursing vid that goes with this one.

Thanks for getting back to me, I was looking into a CNA program as a springboard to getting into a nursing program. Is PCT a better starting point?

I dont, email me and I'll send you the ones I have. yourfavnurseb @ gmail .com

Naw that’s a restraint in most places and people can still get up and out of a bed even with the bed rails up.

HA! Those first few years are ROUGH!!!! But the beauty of it all is that you really can find what fits you in nursing...or at least that's what they say. But seriously, there are so many job settings and specialties in nursing that you can fall in love with it all over again....at least that's what I'm hoping for!!!

LOL, when you've been doing it for 9+ years that amount really does seem low. But it really isn't something to scoff at in most fields. But post COVID you just know that these facilities can and will pay a lot more, so you better go for it.

I just looked that up, I guess it doesn’t make sense just to old on to something just because of the time you put in if you are still going to be unhappy. That’s what people do when they stay in marriages just bc they’ve been together for too long!!

Are you serious?

What the hell is a “CNA/LPN” mentality?!

@@reddrobynne5108 the exact way you just expressed your comment with “what the hell.” It is encompassed by low emotional intelligence and lack of advanced knowledge.

Nah, this career is still hard. Nothing wrong with exposing the hardships of nursing. And if someone doesn't like it, they shouldn't leave they should try to change the field so that less people feel this way cause she is not the only one

@@brightlight4212 well who said that it would be easy, or that it’s supposed to be easy?