I'd be like, " Okay, take me to court for full custody." Knowing damn well they are full of shit. They don't want that responsibility lol. Nothing but empty threats
Same conversation, verbatim, that I used to have with my daughter's daddy.. It sounds bad but I have stopped all communication with him so I can heal #triggeringasf
😂😂😂😂 that’s how convos used to sound like with my ex…. Now he say something stupid, I respond “okay. is that all?” Then tell the kids to say “goodbye” before leaving.
This is my ex, he always disappears ended up in jail and tried to come back endless times saying he missed the kids and how much “i was taking them away” from him. He guilt trips me into taking the kids to him or else he wont do anything. its been 4 months since he left and hes in jail again but at this point im about tired lol if he wants to see his kids hes gonna need to try harder cause it gets tiring forcing things and making it happen
I needed to see this today. I was crying because i miscarrjex.but the father only made it seem like he woukd do bare minimum. Maybe this is the hell i woukd have had ti deak with
Sorry about your miscarriage. If he barely supported you through that it's a massive red flag and you should run before it goes any further between you. I had a miscarriage year before last and the narc ex was just complaining the whole time about having to wait in hospital, they were doing tests at the hospital to make sure I wasn't losing too much blood, he took the wrong junction on the motorway which took him 20 mins out of his way on his way back from work (he worked and lived away) which I got the blame for because he wouldn't have been back if it wasn't for that, we got home about 2am, I had to get the kids and me ready for bed before getting back up at 7:30am to get the kids and me ready to be back at the hospital for a check up. There was no emotional support through the whole thing and I think he only drove me so he didn't look bad to everybody else. You really don't want to be dealing with something like that ❤️
@Em.Bem5 oh jm not upset about losing him just th4 baby. I hate him. He doesn't know I miscarried because I changed my number on him. I found out he lied to me and had a wife in his country..(he is an immigrant in Canada)
It’s a blessing in disguise trust me. I doubled back after my miscarriage with the same person a couple years later, had two kids by him worst person ever! I love my kids but it’s so hard dealing with the dad I’d rather not!
Going through divorce now . Hasn’t seen his kids in 3 years and 8 months . Boom court says still have to force my daughter into therapy with dad who claims he wants to see her thankfully the other 3 aged out while he was gone !
True. The going from one hour a month to full custody fantasy… smh or from 20 min at bedtime IF that. Mostly weeks of work schedule off kilter from the children’s schedule so they never really see them, but for a couple hours on the weekend and then it’s in front of a tv together. Or it’s them riding in a stroller while he gets his run in. Smh they don’t know how to have a real relationship. What looking someone in the eye? Talking with them? Listening? They don’t know how.
That is so true Mr Lee you know when they hardly come around but when you ask them to do it it's like you know it's they give you a run-around it happened to me when my family's their father and know he always have a little excuse so at the end of the day you know my family is grown and they on their own
I was living in NY with my son and his donor (who lives in Michigan) actually did go to court and filed full custody. I have had my son this entire time, haven't seen the donor in 10yrs and I pay child support...those "family" courts are a disgusting joke and that's why these deadbeats, like the one I've procreated with, that play court games, sometimes WIN. He's been stalking and harassing me over 15yrs, NEVER even attempts to talk to "his child". I hate it here. *For more context, my son lives with me and always have so yes, I pay cs for a child I solely take care of. The court system in Michigan is trash and it took 2yrs to get joint and I just wanted to get my kid outta high school before I go bk to court, AGAIN, for the 4th time! He's now graduated so, I guess it's time but the energy needed for this narc, I just don't hv*
This is so funny because it's true. My ex threatened me the other day about taking my child if I went after him for child support. But I don't want his money. He needs to stay away if he can't be consistent and loving to our child.
Like my daughter's father - he always wants a full custody but saw her last time at Christmas for 1 h 🙄 I'm so sick of this! He always ask if he can come - pick her but then don't come and don't call - he thinks I would care or run after him. I tried everything, but he never wanted. Crazy I live like he doesn't exist as well
If it is true that Soular is a narcissist, just know YOU CAN’T CO-PARENT WITH A NARCISSIST!!!! I think the sooner that she is able to come to terms with that, the less stress she will have to endure.
They do this circular talking to get on your nerves and validate to themselves that you DESERVE to be driven crazy because you have seen under the mask, and didn't like it and left.
Yo 😭😭😭😭 word yo SMH. Why do I got to say thank you for getting your kids that you ain't seen in 2 months and don't go out of the way to even get them it's so sad I'm a full-time mommy. I deserve to get the full income tax. All year with Mommy once every 2 months with the dad Lol
If I say anything about him dragging me to court, his rebuttal is I have a lawyer he took me to court for full custody we have shared custody, let's just say I have full custody🤣🤣🤣🤣
Both sides are being toxic honestly. Both sides are being narcissistic, but the mom side is adding in being controlling. Sadly this is most coparenting situations.
The, this isn't about me it's about the kids is a gaslighted tactic. And weaponizing your children. It's just sad and pathetic. If you ain't together you do not have a say about what the other person does. The question I have is why do women still try to control the fathers when they usually left the man? And sorry but no parent is doing it 24/7. Kids sleep, go to school, visit friends and family, or babysitters while mom goes out.
They will wants 50 s0 custody when ypu dump th and sue for back child support..then they are at school picking up..helping with homework and parent teacher talks..and parties..they are suddenly involved..
This is nothing to do with narcissistic personality but just probably laziness. My dad lived with my mum and me and my sister. But he had a son first with another woman. Now my brother (half I just don’t call him that) has always been in my life we just didn’t see him that much because he lived not FAR away but my mum and dad didn’t drive so it was harder for us to see him. I’m not 25 my brother is 34. A few years ago he told me he wasn’t speaking to dad anymore because he’s tired of being the one to always put in effort. My dads never made the effort to see him it was always my brother asking him to see him and my dad saying okay. But obviously that’s not my experience with my dad. And although I feel sorry for my brother I’m not going to not talk to my dad because of their relationship. My brother ended up losing his granddad and realised how little time we have with our loved ones and made up with my dad. Just know that not all parents are good parents. Not everyone should be parents. But also the good ones do the best they can wi what they know. And that’s all we can do. My parents fucked up a lot of shit with me and my sister which we probably need therapy for. But they were good parents. Just didn’t get it right all the time.
