Coping When You're Depressed And Broke

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Coping When You're Depressed And Broke
In this replay of a live video, Tawra and Jill share strategies for how to cope when you're depressed and broke and don't know what to do. Jill spent many years raising 2 teens alone on $500 a month after becoming permanently chronically ill. Tawra and Jill give several tips to help you through when you're having hard times.
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@LivingOnADime 6 лет назад

Being broke is HARD! Visit our site. We have hundreds or articles, tips and recipes to help motivate and inspire you www.livingonadime.com/store/penny-pinching-mama/

@denisestathatos4147 6 лет назад

Life is 10% what happens and 90% how you react to it.

@denisestathatos4147 5 лет назад

We have choices on how to react to what life throws you! When we moved into our house, we didn't have much disposable income, but I pressed on and helped with the Human Development Committee making sandwiches for the life fortunate and I still do! There are a lot of people worse off than myself.

@katherinemiller9768 8 лет назад

I to have fibro, spinal stenosis, arthritis, and I try not to go into depression. I try to do laundry and dishes everyday, and I walk everyday. I always get dressed, but I don't have money for make up, so I comb my hair.

@maggieandemilysplace8715 7 лет назад

katherine Miller hey there i was just going to see how you are doing? praying for you! :)

@mkj9670 3 года назад

Having a healthy morning routine and evening routine everyday (including being still).

@jessejules2092 6 лет назад

I was laying on the couch enduring depression and looking for some encouragement. Uninspired by my usual interest in listening to sermons I decided to look around to see what else was available to help my mental state. I came across this video and was so blessed by it. I can totally identify with getting dressed and making an effort with makeup even while feeling totally wiped out from depression. Thank you for your inspiration.

@CathAlexandra 8 лет назад

I admire your faith. I do the same, reach beyond self. I'm not Christian, but much of what you say is universal to healing.

@sl4983 8 лет назад

I had faith for my car repair, and it got fixed, AND fuel emission system cleaned, for $135!!! AND I met a new friend while waiting for my car, and you wouldn't believe this, we went and got a pedicure while waiting for my car, my first pedicure ever! It's really amazing what God can do. This girl I met is going to L.A. to pursue a career as red carpet reporter! So I think I'm going to know someone famous LOL! :)

@tammyrobinson1613 7 лет назад

Many days, my skin hurts so bad yoga pants are all I can wear. yoga pants and a loose top. In the summer I wear summer dresses, but nothing tight on my body. Jeans are too scratchy.

@deanaderrick3474 2 года назад

Folks still watching this is 2022. Thank you for this.

@carriemccreery2235 5 лет назад

Recently I was wondering how to supplement my income in order to cover moving expenses. Still in therapy, I have been praying and looking for ways to make a little extra money. This morning an elderly gentleman called me wanting to buy a book that my late husband used to publish. Of course he was on the phone for over an hour, repeating himself, but the result was that he wants to buy more books and literature. It's stuff I wanted to get rid of! Then my brain wheels started turning to come up with more ideas. I can see the Lord's provision in this. I have been so depressed since my accident, and then being financially strapped after purchasing a headstone for my late husband. I am also praying for a healing. My wrist and hand are "locked up" after being in confinement for so long. I just want to feel and be functional again; I don't care so much about the scars.

@craftopiacollective 8 лет назад

Getting dressed, doing your makeup and just showing up in your own kitchen is such a big deal. I have Hashimoto's Hypothyroidism, and homeschool our three children. I have gotten several comfortable and cute dresses, I throw one on and start my day and it really makes me feel more prepared for the day. Great advice!

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Doesn't it make a difference!! I so agree. Even if I just get the cups in the dishwasher I feel like I've accomplished something.

@marycahill546 6 лет назад

All this advice is great. I am a mental health nurse and can say people rely on pills to be the solution too much. We have to take personal responsibility for our health. Walk, get fresh air, eat healthy, create a healthy environment and mindset.

@taniaeitel7623 8 лет назад

Thank you for this video. I love that you are sharing your faith, quite the testimony you have Jill of how God constantly provided. I was moved to tears in many of your videos. We serve an awesome God. I agree with what you said about getting yourself dressed and ready for the day. In business that is called setting yourself up for success.

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Thanks so much!

@needtoknow1989 5 лет назад

I’m not big on the need for makeup. But on the clothing part. Making a capsule wardrobe helped. One I save on the amount of clothes. Two everything goes together so I’m not lingering deciding what i want to wear. It gets me out of my room in the morning. Even on my most depressed days. Sitting in the livingroom at my desk encourages me to be productive. Now I don’t have chronic fatigue. So my experience is going to be different with depression. I got a SD for medical alert related to some heart issues. Taking care of her. Is some days the only task I do. But taking her out for a walk. Helps with feeling like there’s a purpose.

@lynncostello7007 3 года назад

We not only like you, we love you! Thank you Jill and Tawra for all you do to help us out here, especially when you're not feeling well yourselves! You're putting so much good information out here. We love watching your family dynamics and we just want to say thank you!

@kathistensland2847 6 лет назад

So thankful I found your channel, between fighting cancer and now arthritis with Lupus symptoms, they feel like I may also have fibromaliga (sp). I make myself get up each day and try to accomplish something, no matter how small. My son is now unemployed and looking for a job, just praying something is found soon before out whole world implodes. But you guys give me encouragement. Hugs and prayers

@tammybrock5366 6 лет назад

You guys are awesome. I have chronic pain and I’m depressed. I love this channel. You are a big help to me. It’s making the first step. I just mope around in my pajamas. Yes my kids need to see me dressed. Your so right. Thank you.

@debratemple2865 6 лет назад

Yes Jill and Tara.. You are using alot of your God given skills and abilities that God gave you.. Also some of us were blessed with being very practical and creative.. Common sense too.. No amount of money can buy those things😇

@beckyfischer7025 8 лет назад

I have been watching your live videos since Monday & I have enjoyed each one very much. I really appreciate your authenticity & your practical advice & tips. I am at a place where I don't see my husband & I getting out of debt. We did not spend money wisely & took out loans on our house. Our mortgage is high enough that my husband can't retire unless God intervenes. He is almost 68. I have thought of selling our home & getting a smaller one, but we owe almost as much on our house as it is worth. Rent is high enough that he still wouldn't be able to retire. We are in the process of paying off a credit card & putting monies into savings so if we have an emergency we can pay cash. We are doing a budget, I meal plan, comparison shop, & recently went back to a store which I use to shop at that has lower prices & I can buy items in bulk which saves money. I already have containers for the bulk foods. I make everything from scratch which saves a lot of money. I just recently inventoried my freezer which saved us from buying meat this month. I buy my cheese by the pound & then slice & grate it. I buy my onions by the 10 lb. bag, chop them up, & freeze them. I also make all the bread we eat. After slicing it I save the crumbs & freeze them for using in recipes. One thing I need to do is to have a different mindset; which to your advice I plan on doing. Thank you for putting in so much effort in doing your videos. I appreciate this so much! Love 💓 in Christ 😘

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Yeah, sometimes it just too much but you do need to keep moving forward if you can. Could you move to a cheaper state or city? If you can then I would do that. Hang in there! It sounds like you're doing well now with trying to get out of debt.

@colleensessentallife2439 8 лет назад

Good information. I so agree with getting dressed at the start of the day. I make my bed when I get up also. I don't put makeup on every day. But what I do is I use some of my pampering skin care items each day and that helps to lift my spirits. So it's the little things and they do help and yes kids do notice.

@deelong9276 2 года назад

Thanks so much for everything, including being real! Many, many blessings to all! I greatly appreciate y’all witnessing about God, how very important getting saved is (most important ever), how to save, your honesty, your generosity to give Bibles to those who need them, encouragement, and sooooooo much more! Your channel is my favorite, and I have learned so much good stuff! Like everyone else, I struggle with issues and a few people, but it is sooooo nice hearing your positivity, especially since you guys are so vocal about GOD, Heaven, Hell, life, your faith, etc. Being around Christians, even online, is a blessing!!!!!!

@elizabethcarver9902 8 лет назад

No pressure BUT I would love one of these inspirational reminders every week.

@brandyannpoorman1529 8 лет назад

So can I just say thank you and Amen!!! fantastic video from start to finish!!! So happy I found this

@juliehfromfl8845 8 лет назад

Thanks for sharing. What a great wake up call this was. I'm so great fun I found you all. You are such a blessing and your videos are so awesome and helpful.

@jennjames5597 6 лет назад

I am catching up on your older Video's! This one really helped me! Thank you #Tawra & #Jill @LivingOnADime

@paulalamont6000 5 лет назад

So impressed with both of you and all you have accomplished and how you have helped so many with your knowledge and ideas💕

@susiesprowl7069 7 лет назад

You girls are incredible!! Thank You for all the help you offer everyone.

@leanneburbank 8 лет назад

You two are awesome. Thanks for doing this - keep the frugality, fms, and cfs info line flowing.

@madziam7893 6 лет назад

It was for me very moving.I have been struggling with migraine all my life and your words helped me a lot.it is true that we must set example for our kids and do not give up.Hugs

@munchken1978 6 лет назад

I watched this and broke down in tears. Broke or not, depression hits me som hard sometimes.......but, Jill you remind me so much of my mom....and this is the stuff she would have said. It's a beautiful reminder. Tawra, i relate so much to what you were saying too. Thank you for this.

@releasingendorphins232 2 года назад

Thanks Ladies. Your advise is right on target. God will Bless you just for Blessing us. I'm not happy people suffer, but it helps to know I'm not the only one. This Queen is going to have a wonderful atmosphere for her Family this Christmas. Merry Christmas to you all.

@ceeceeb3279 8 лет назад

Thank you for this! I have not been doing this and will try this. Thanks so much!

@lindamendenhall1797 6 лет назад

Tawra & Jill, enjoy you guys so Much! I have fibro, arthritis, disc problems, I'm retired, but working part time due to financial problems, son is living at home, he is working right now(!), I am totally frazzed, you guys are so encouraging.

@Keepingitrealwithapril 8 лет назад

thanks again they were wonderful suggestions I'll try them.

@deborahsamples622 8 лет назад

Thank you Thank you Thank you ladies so much!!! I really needed to hear all of the advice you gave! God Bless! I love your videos!!!💙💙💙

@piakarlson8289 8 лет назад

Thank you for this video!

@tvjusten 8 лет назад

Wise words, thanks for sharing

@ChristiBovee 8 лет назад

Oh my, how this inspires me today! Thank you for pointing me to read "When the Queen Rides By" on your site. I'm really moved by it. I SO appreciate your videos. You both encourage me so much in every one. I have enjoyed the live feed videos immensely! Thank you for sacrificing your time and precious physical energy to make videos in any format. You are a GIFT. Blessings!

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Thanks so much!! We're so glad it helps and you are enjoying them. We really appreciate it the encouragement!

@socorah2 8 лет назад

So helpful....thank you both!!!

@colorsofavon934 6 лет назад

I needed this today. Best wishes

@jacquelynrayunas9056 8 лет назад

Really good video ! thanks

@dc4cgrl 8 лет назад

These videos are really helpful to me as I have been going through depression and some major issues both financially and personally. Plus your family is adorable! Thank you so much for making these.

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Thanks!! I'm so glad we are able to help! Hang in there I know it's hard!

@sarahg7951 8 лет назад

Also Mal Nourishment can deeply affect you immediately and in the future!!

@katherinemiller9768 8 лет назад

Jill and Tawra, You are both blessing, and I have now watched every video, I will put god in my sentences from now on, I also Wish Jill wasn't going back to Kansas, We will all miss you~

@dionne4927 8 лет назад

Appreciate what you are doing, I have CFS now for 5 years and it's tough. You are both very inspiring and I find it encouraging that you are talking about this. Love all your tips. What a lovely family!

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Thanks!

@denisestathatos4147 6 лет назад

Pray for someone who has been affected by the tragedies.

@SweetlyHome 8 лет назад

Love seeing how you interact with your kids. Just so loving. Love it.

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Thanks!

@rough-hewnhomestead4751 8 лет назад

Love the 'queen riding through town in her best' story! You are correct--the parents set the tone for the home. If parents make an effort, hold it together, and try...the kids feel much more settled and secure. When we faced a job loss and tough financial times I decided to draw a line, set my face like flint, and face it with vigor and I believe that my kids would say it made them feel like everything would be ok. And you know what? It was. We tackled it as a family and stayed positive and happy. Great advice!!

@alycer.6471 6 лет назад

Depressed/broke on my only income. I watched this one today 1/18 and I can't begin to tell you how I cried. First with your mom's lawn mower story - and secondly at repeating because" I do not have faith (trust) in God."😢 Turning it around with the help of you both. I am so lucky to have found your channel.

@margarethauff8882 5 лет назад

You got to live what you believe!♡

@Nadehj 7 лет назад

Thank you!

@cruzangel9573 Год назад

I love to see this videos very helpful to love you guys from TN

@amandavuono1992 6 лет назад

As someone who grew up with a chronically ill mother, my mom has emphysema and depression, I can 100% say that you notice those days that the effort was made. It lights up my days even now when I come downstairs and I see my mom up sitting on the couch, dressed and doing something opposed to just laying in her pajamas in bed all day long. I'm not saying I don't understand that there's days when she really does feel bad enough that she can't but most days it's more just the fact that she doesn't feel like because she's essentially just given up on being a person. I also struggle with mental health issues and can say for sure I feel so much better if I push through to get dressed and put on my makeup even on days when I don't feel like it or don't plan to do anything. Such a wonderful tip and a wonderful video

@CookingwithCatLover0330 7 лет назад

I shared this on FB. Thanks Ladies!

@MrsBozoiyo 8 лет назад

Gonna try that Alka Seltzer trick too! Actually, just about any woman can set the tone for her surroundings. If the lady in the room is cranky, it affects everyone lol!

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Yes, try it, it really helps me!

@earthchild8987 5 лет назад

I'm taking this advice to heart. Getting dressed, if that is all I do, always makes me feel better. I'm working on looking put together, putting on makeup, fixing my hair, every day, even when I don't feel good. (Like today. ) Even if I don't go anywhere, you're right, kids notice. My boys looked at me completely differently when they walked in the door today.

@antoniosalcido1129 8 лет назад

Lady's thanks for sharing you are amazing.

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Thanks!

@sdctx17 8 лет назад

Very kind and inspiring words. Thanks :). You both have beautiful hair. :)

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Thanks!

@esther1081 8 лет назад

you are a lovely family. so inspiring.

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Thanks!

@bettysprong9908 6 лет назад

I needed this . I always get dressed but it may be later in the day . but I need to trust God to control my life more

@BlankCanvasArts 8 лет назад

and keep on shinning!

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Thanks!!

@steph4healthedwards963 7 лет назад

Love this God Bless You

@esther1345 8 лет назад

Sons are the best! I have one...cant imagine my world without him :) You talk of your Mom and brother and you being chronically ill. I wonder if that old house you all lived in for so long didnt cause some health problems...?

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

No we came down with the "flu" and then never got better. The do suspects that "flu" turned on a gene defect and caused it to kick in and keep our immune systems suppressed.

@Keepingitrealwithapril 8 лет назад

I often get alot of nausea with my cfs too and can find it hard to eat right to where I do have enough energy to function.

@rupalm8468 8 лет назад

God bless both of you

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Thank you!

@barlowpenny 4 года назад

With my fibro a I ended up with a very sore Bladder from IC and I live in jammies most the time. Do to normal clothes causing pressure, pain, erugncy and frequency. It cause the bladder and body to feel like it is a type three cancer patients. I do my makeup and hair. But live in sweats and jammies. I do have fun with them and fun prints. And cope the best I can.

@sl4983 8 лет назад

PJ's by 6:00, yes!

@peggyghirardello275 6 лет назад

I read magazines clean my house I do crossword puzzles don't drive sixty one me best friend over thirty years go out twice month we yard sale buddies we go out cheap lunch talk we tell each other everything it distresses us both I also visit friends neighborhood and me hubby go out to eat we both babysit our little

@lnbalance425 3 года назад

Jill i wish you were my mom !!! I love you so much

@sl4983 8 лет назад

Jill and Tawra, you guys are amazing, and you're hubby and kids. What a blessing. I haven't been putting my makeup and and that's a big mistake! It is so amazing the difference makeup makes! Thank you for that encouragement! Reaching for my bottle of makeup! :) No one has ever said, put your makeup on every day. Oh, yeah, make bed too! God bless you guys! Also, Satan will try do discourage us (in various ways) but if we always realize God is God, and NO ONE ELSE, that sure helps! Yes, faith in God! Thank you!

@user-dp4tz6ud1n 7 лет назад

thank a lot girls every time i don t find motivations for cleaning i put one video .

@VJWLPN1 7 лет назад

I suggest getting the book entitles Feeling Good by David Burns M.D.

@pigoff123 8 лет назад

I wear my work clothes until I go to bed. I never change clothes unless I go outside to garden

@peggyghirardello275 6 лет назад

Grand babies keeps us young we both make bed every day unless I am really sick so I keep bu sd you and I workout my legs stomach every other day to keep me moveing

@t.m.button7229 6 лет назад

Awe i have depression too i understand

@Keepingitrealwithapril 8 лет назад

quite the opposite actually I didn't think about dairy might be making me a bit sicker I was never intolerant in the past bit I couldn't hurt to try cutting back on it a d corn.

@debbies6192 2 года назад

I start my day with prayer; then the makeup, etc.

@beningolili 6 лет назад

I am trying to get grans interested in the operation game ages(11-3yrs any suggestions.

@Keepingitrealwithapril 8 лет назад

great video. do you guys have reccomendation for your diet I find sometimes the things I do and don't eat really affect how I feel. I often feel better when I choose proteins like fish over red meat and making sure I balance my diet with enough protein for long term energy.

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

I've tried all the diets. Gaps, SCD, diabetic, gluten free, diary free, corn free, sugar free, red meat free and none of them worked for me. If I keep my sugars low and just avoid the food that make me worse (cow dairy, gluten, corn) then I seem to do better. Sorry I'm not more help.

@t.m.button7229 6 лет назад

Hello momma and daughter

@debratemple2865 6 лет назад

Amen Jill😁..God is the author of our stops as well as our steps... One day at a time sweet Jesus😁

@jaytee2642 5 лет назад

I don't battle any health conditions, but I definitely notice a difference in my mood and productivity if I don't get dressed and put on makeup and do something with my hair. Look like a slug, Feel like a slug.🐌

@t.m.button7229 6 лет назад

Got it

@beckyfischer7025 8 лет назад

I just read the comments & thought of something. Please watch a channel called The Frey life. They are Christians & she has Cystic Fibrosis. They have a motto "don't forget to laugh every day." They are positive which she says is because of God.

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Yes, laughing always helps!

@brandyannpoorman1529 8 лет назад

I can barely get out of bed most days... I have fybromyalgia and it stinks!!!!!!

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Try and Alka Seltzer, it really helps me.

@brandyannpoorman1529 8 лет назад

What kind? It's extremely depressing and frustrating when you can't function the way you need to my house is paying the price...

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Just regular blue box. You can get the generic brand and that works just fine.

@sl4983 8 лет назад

Your son? How cute is that!!

@Trysmiling 8 лет назад

Wow you two look just alike!

@doracruz5474 6 лет назад

HUG

@margarethauff8882 5 лет назад

I only wear makeup on Halloween.....

@t.m.button7229 6 лет назад

Hi lil man

@debratemple2865 6 лет назад

Trusting God pays off😁

@MrsBozoiyo 8 лет назад

Thumbs up with the wash your face and put on your makeup! I do that because I don't want to look like crap just because I feel like crap.

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

Yep! Me too!

@suewilson3044 8 лет назад

🙌👍

@cherylT321 4 года назад

Did you win the custody battle for your niece?

@Kellydalebob 8 лет назад

When I do get dressed and put make up on my family is like "are you going some were?". lol I guess if I did it more they wouldn't ask that. lol

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

LOL!! Yeah they probably wouldn't!

@denisestathatos4147 5 лет назад

Isn't it a sin to distrust God?

@pigoff123 8 лет назад

your son looks a lot like you

@LivingOnADime 8 лет назад

LOL! Thanks!!

@ssb7850 8 лет назад

takes so long to get to the point with these live feeds. would way rather watch a video. you say what the video is about for what feels like 5 minutes before you get startes.

@juliehfromfl8845 8 лет назад

Thanks for sharing. What a great wake up call this was. I'm so great fun I found you all. You are such a blessing and your videos are so awesome and helpful.