Excellent exposition on adult life-experience of ADHD: going to read your book. Big problem is lack of skilled, trained, effective therapists to work with the number of patients in need and continuity of care. The homework thing doesn't resonate with me, because I worked during college and studying was my reward after work, or a luxurious privilege after class on days I didn't have to work during the week. It's all about reality testing, framing, and internal values and motivations.
Researching adhd is expensive, the money has to come from somewhere and treating adhd is very expensive via a therapist. Fact of life with medical field sadly