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As a parent to an infant, those 8 tubs of formula HURT to hear. At minimum, that's at least a $200 loss, more if it's advance formula or larger containers
I am not even a car person, but that Impala is older than me (if just by a few months) and it made me very angry. I need to stop watching this video, with each story I get more and more angry.
Good news, there is updates to this one. He won the case against the ex gf and police tracked down the car in the scrapyard and got it back to him. The wreckers who took it got arrested for unlicensed and shady business as well as attempting to obstruct the investigation because they tried to hide the vehicle from police (ex gf tipped them off that police were coming). They couldn't get ALL the parts, but he won enough money to replace them
The story with the disabled brother. He litterally wanted to make his older son a slave to his brother. Denying him a job. Impersonating him. Aiden should run and keep running.
It made no sense at all applying for jobs and hearing absolutely nothing for a year. The dad is halting this boy’s future because he needs help with the disabled son. Why can’t he get him on the home care team?
That "surprise wedding" thing is SO asking for shit to go wrong at your own wedding. It's like the poster example of why communication is important. If you don't speak, nobody can help you. If you don't make it clear that it's a wedding, you cannot be mad about things going wrong for an event people didn't know they were a part of
The whole thing smells like main character syndrome. They sounded like the type of people who gets angry that people walk in front of the camera when they're trying to record a TikTok in a busy street.
Brutal honesty is conflated with candid opinions way to often. You can be as direct, concise, and unapologetic about your thoughts as you want, but brutal honesty implies brutality. You do not need to be unkind to be candid. People just want an excuse to be assholes.
For the seconds story, OP grew up with two dads, why would he even think that it would cause a problem? He didn't think that someone else could have a problem with it.
They're old enough to know homophobia is a thing, and their partner or partners parents have the possibility to be homophobic. It's also common sense to tell them the names of your parents to help make it easier.
With the dad putting the lock on his daughters door, immediate and powerful NTA. Not only is the twins' dad hypocritically calling OP an enabler when he himself is making excuses for his daughters stealing from Zoey, but it is NOT his house, his daughters are thieves, he obviously doesn't understand the concept of borrowing vs stealing considering borrowing requires the PERMISSION of the person who owns the object, and it's suspicious that he's calling her make-up "adult make-up" and referring to it as a "defect". Dude is sounding like a predator. L mother too, she obviously loves her nieces more than her own daughter; only herself to blame when Zoey stops speaking to her altogether. Zoey has officially learned that her father is the only person that's willing to stick up for her
100%. Never in the history of ridiculously pointless acronyms has DIL meant anything but daughter in law. Dads in law (which is not even a term) are FILs.
The father putting a lock on his daughters door is none of his BILs business. After her makeup was used and ruined they would have been told it’s time to for them to move and they’re replacing my daughter’s makeup.
Hell, not even, I'm 24 and I only managed to avoid getting assaulted by a roommate's mother because by luck the day she was stomping around our place and keeping my roommates phone from her to prevent her from texting me, fuming about the fact she just found out I'm gay, I happened to run into a friend last minute and stayed out a few hours longer. People are so trashy
I feel the same way. When you know that you or anyone in your family has an unconventional relationship and you are introducing them to family or vice versa, you need to say something. It doesn't matter that it is normal to you, not everyone sees it the way you do, so it is only fair to give ample warning.
Yeah. Being oblivious is honestly frustrating because it just feels like he is being deliberately dense. Does he realise his Fathers have faced danger because of this issue?
The funniest part of the story with the surgery for the brother in-law and the inheritance is the sister's argument that 'peoples health is more important than education.' I mean, the OP is literally using the inheritance to study to become a doctor. Even by the sister's logic, she still shouldn't give them money as, if she doesn't, then she has the potential to improve more people's health through her education in medicine.
Love how the parents in the ex wife story give 0 suggestion that their parenting might have had something to do with their son's personality or character. 💀
No. Wokeness is gross !!! Who would want to be woke or aware of all the racism that's going on in the world silky liberal 😂(I don't believe this but so many people do 😭☠️)
Sounds like the kid learned that behavior from the dad. My mom was not racist, but my dad is, so my brother and I learned some horrid things from him, which is one of the many reasons mom divorced him. I, thankfully unlearned the racism, but my brother, sadly, did not
@@DoubtingThomasinaexact same situation , except stepdad. It really sucked too, because it lead to so many arguments between me and my brother about how: I'm his brother and should support and agree with him, and I was always like "nah man it's not my job to support your racism."
Damn, my little brother also learned a lot of racist things from my dad. He recently got in trouble for it in school but my dad keeps avoiding responsibility and said we were all over-reacting :,/
Are we all just going to act like the second story didn't happen cause like what the f*ck. When I first met my boyfriend's mom the first thing I said was " It's so nice to meet you, your home is so lovely." the fact that his girlfriend who was supposedly so amazing greets his mom with "Yup your son f*cks me, hi." that would have had her on a first-class ass kick out my mom's house, if it was my mom. Nobody needs that visual.
IKR!? Who says that to someone you are meeting for the first time!? Especially someone you want to make a good impression on. OP was not the ass hole ,it doesn't matter how mom reacted, the girlfriend's comment was inappropriate and the joke was made in very bad taste. They are here to get to know you, not to confirm that their son is having sex with you.
I am pretty sure I heard this story before and the son put the gf up to it. Like she didn't really wanna say it but the son was like no we joke all the time they'll think it is funny. 💀
If my partner asked me to say that as an introduction to their parents, there is a good chance I’d break up with them on the spot. That is a blatant and disgusting lack of respect. It says nothing good about him.
The "what's for dinner" situation is not complex or layered. No woman ever deserves to be treated or called that. Especially someone you love, that has completely blessed you by caring for you. If I ever treat my wife this way, I have completely lost my sense.
The one about the “premature” brother. Definitely not the asshole. My first was born almost 16 weeks (4 months) early and weighed 1lb 8.5oz and was just over 12 inches long. No baby born almost 4 months early would ever weigh 9lbs! His parents are being very hypocritical by shaming him for “living in sin”, yet they were having sex before marriage and got pregnant before they got married. He should keep bringing it up if they keep shaming him.
With the first one, I would've waited until the dad responded to see how he answers. Would he lie? Would he stutter? Would he refer to the son to ask him to answer? It felt like his son was saving him from the question. I would've just waited to see what the response is and stared while he either flat out lied or stuttered and stumbled to respond... maybe he would've pivoted? It would show a lot about how the dad really is with the response he gives.
@2videosilike So totally agree💯.. 🤔 I too woulda waited for his answer, to see what type of man he really is ( as opposed to his self-assessment & assessment of you 😋..) If he was honest then it leaves room to (not rudely ) talk about the issues of why he wouldn't take the money.. But if he lied... Opens the door for COMPLETE honesty 😁☮️🌏
@@joesweatshirt646 IT's too much like typical reddit fan fiction and "main character" drama. What would be the more likely scenario from homophobic parents? 1. This ridiculous story that suggests two rational parents of a teenage girl, are ready and mentally prepared to have a nice dinner with the boyfriend of their daughter and after dropping daughter off and looking for parking, preparing, walking to the home and entering the theshhold, dealing w all that anxiety if a new situation and have your daughter come charging out from the house yelling "GAYS.! THERE ARE GAYS HERE!" and said parents immediately understanding the horror and risk also immediately leave without a word as though in horror? 2. The parents were truly homophobic and uncomfortable an had an icy passive aggressive dinner filled with subtle microaggressions 3. The parents were truly homophobic and uncomfortable but still would have the basic decency of asking their daughter to STFU and chill for a second so they could confirm what exactly was happening and excuse themselves with a stiff apology or derisive comment? I'm guessing it's far likely going to be 2 or 3. Story 1 is too much like fanfiction
I had a friend in the military get married and take his wife's last name because messing with social norms is kinda his whole deal. Always appreciate a good agent of chaos
I just had my second child, and I mentioned in passing to my mom that my daughter doesn't care for formula (she's predominately breastfed, but my husband was trying to formula-feed her so I could nap). My mother replied, "Good, formula is just a scam made up by Nestlé." During my first pregnancy, we had to formula-feed because I had no supply of milk due to stress (it was the start of Covid, among other things), so I reminded her that the only reason she had a Grandson was because of formula. Follow by pointing out that "fed is best," and she should check herself before making shity comments like that because I'm not the only person in her life that has had to use formula to feed their child.
As someone who fed formula to a calf... I agree. It's a scam made up by big diary to convince farmers to stop wasting cows milk on the calves. Also, Nestle is a pretty crappy company... sold formula in Africa (through doctors [$$$] there) which forced mothers to use it for over a month... causing the infants get sick due to poor water quality... at which point the mothers had stopped producing milk... trapping the mothers on the Nestle formula... and having the mother watch their infants die from the bacteria in the milk.
Oh boy. Fed is definitely best. My first was mostly breastfed, she ate more than I could produce so we used formula to top her off after a feeding. My second has Down syndrome and for the first month wasn’t strong enough to draw milk at all. We had to use a syringe and I never developed enough of a supply to fully feed him breast milk. I use to sleep only three hours a day because I spent an hour trying to get him to nurse, an hour feeding him just ounces of formula and trying to keep him awake for it, and an hour pumping. He wouldn’t wake up and the alarms couldn’t wake me either so I couldn’t even trust myself to sleep a spare hour at night. While caring for a toddler during the day. He lost a lot of a weight before anyone realized he needed to have a syringe to eat and needed a high calorie diet for like ten months before he was finally at a good enough weight for his age the dietitian felt it was safe to take him off it. He’s over a year old now and only recently had been strong enough to stay sitting up without being supported. People with Down syndrome don’t have a good immune system so he was sick about half his life until he was about ten months old, just colds and stuff but it was still heart breaking. I am unbelievably thankful for formula. He never would have survived without it
My friends Mom was surrounded by breastfeed only nuts. They took her to the doctor she was starving. To this day she has brittle bones. Yeah feed is best.
Fed is definitely best. I do think breastfeeding is ideal when possible. But it's not Holy. It's fine to supplement with formula. A note on the Nestlé thing, though: I had a teacher from Latin America who told us Nestlé would give formula to new mothers that was just enough to last them until their breastmilk dried up. Then they would have to keep buying formula to feed their babies. This caused a lot of economic hardship for these women who were usually very poor. So that's probably where the "Nestlé scam" idea comes from. Although it clearly doesn't apply to your context.
The 2 dads thing--yeah, it matters. Beyond finding out if your gf is homophobic or at least able to address the 2 dads correctly. But if she knew her parents were homophobic, she made the right choice having them leave and probably wouldve cancelled/not allowed the meeting. Its a parents and parents meeting, thats why it matters. No, NTA for it, but situations can get messy, if not dangerous.
@@kellharris2491 idk, if he hadn't been exposed to homophobia much then he wouldn't really expect it. Being aware of discrimination is different to experiencing it. "It doesn't happen here" mentality
I just don't understand how stupid this woman is. If my dad says "Dad did this..." and "Pops did this..." I would ask if Pops was perhaps his grandpa? It sounded like he talked about them and people rarely change the monikers they call their parents. She either didn't listen to his family stories, or didn’t care to keep them straight. He probably assumed she was following they were different people.
I thought the money with stipulations one would be more along the lines of "here's $200 for groceries," not "make him a groom's man for $200." One of those is helpful, the other is manipulation.
Idk why, but that last story reminded me of that video on RU-vid where they make skits about working retail and they try to tell the employees to always smile and if they get stuck to say something like 'well that's fantastic!' Then they encourage the guy to try it, and the customer talks about how she's looking for something for her mother's funeral and it goes downhill from there.
43:30 lmfao so mr "brutally honest" turns into a sniveling little baby the second some of his "brutal honesty" is used on him? 🤣 he deserves to be publically embarrassed all the time until it shames him into keeping his mouth shut. Dude is a prime example of "just because you have the ability to speak, doesn't mean you should."
That "joke" f4om the gf the first time meeting bf's parents was not funny at all....whether its at first meeting OR fown the line. It was tasteless. Period.
The fact that he said it’s a “funny joke” boiled my blood.. I have a 12 year old son and if his girlfriend said ANYTHING close to that when I first met her I would kick her the f out too even if he was an adult… if you can’t respect me or even speak about yourself with respect then you have no place in my home.
Emkay. 29:05 it's daughter in law. Id be worried if I had a DAD inlaw Marrying my son. Mil: mother in law Fil: father in-law Dil: daughter in law Sil : sister inlaw usually
As a car guy that Impala story was painful to listen to. Project cars are a massive money and time sink and the fact your girlfriend sent it to the crusher is insane to me. The sheer amount of disrespect for OP and his Impala Saloon is baffling and I sincerely hope he wins his case and then some. Also that whole bs about "oh it's just some stupid ol' hooptie you'll be fine without it" is so sad to me. To not only end a car's story over something so trivial, but to be so nonchalant about knowing full well how much time and money went into that car is saddening. They don't make 60's Impalas anymore. It's not like OP can just find a new one super easily; it's not like he was working on a Camry. Also if he could somehow finagle a way to receive ownership of her car would be amazing. And if she'd say anything about it, just say "It's just a car, why should you care?"
the second story: OP didn't introduce his girlfriend to his parents before having her parents meet his parents?? They missed a step, and for that he's an asshole.
Back to back stories of people moving in and forgetting their place. It doesn’t matter if she hates the car, it’s not her car or place. OP offered reasonable solutions and instead she decided to violate his trust.
If calling your girlfriend/wife a bitch is what passes for entertainment on Tiktok, I'm glad I don't use the app. Why would you do that shit as a challenge or prank? It's as terrible as those "I broke my bf's Playstation" videos and needs to stop
It doesn't matter if the car Was a stupid piece of junk he put money into that. Aint you just gonna sell it even though he told u to park somewhere else, on 2 acres of land, bruh really
1:04:56 you see OP sounded kinda jealous, but there was no reason for her to bring that up. She decided to not only bring up that OP inherited the house, but mention that she bought hers also and then got mad when OP pointed out that her parents bought her house?! FOH with that hypocrisy! I also agree, that poor salesperson! He is the true victim! But he might have a funny story later. Let’s get his side of it on Reddit! 😂🤣
Some people think it's funny to say shit like "what's for dinner tonight bitch" and some people do not. My wife and I are fine with that and call each other bitches and cunts and whores all the time (which is funny because we're each other's first everything). But many of my friends have terrible associations with that word and I would never ever say that to them, even as a joke. I was friends with my wife and dated her for years before we started calling each other the names we do now, and *after* asking if that's ok (nothing big! Just "hey I call some friends bitch, is that ok with you?" "Yeah, bitch" "ok bitch"). He's absolutely the asshole for doubling down about it being a joke and not apologizing as soon as he realized he hurt her
28:30 DAUGHTER. in law. not dad in law. i don't think this person's son is married to their dad in law and having children with and abusing their dad in law.
Hello to who ever runs this channel. I have been watching for a while and I enjoy this type of content, however. Among your most recent videos it seems to all mainly be reposts. That’s fine but currently I’m not seeing anything new being posted it’s just all the same stuff. Do with this info as you like.
complations are always reposts, there are a huge amount of non compliations to watch, just dont click on the 1 hour vers if you dont want to wagch reposts
I'm 22, a guy, was living with my dad (parents split when I was young), and have 2 sisters and a half sister. I'm the youngest in the family, and was the black sheep due to being the only boy, and being left out on a lot of events (sisters were 2+ years older than me.) Family poor, parents had no credit, none of us had the means for college monetarily. In high school, I completed Freshman year no problem, from a good school, in a good neighborhood (we were the broke family, living in the nice area.) My dad worked out of state, my mom and stepdad went homeless, and my dad gave them a place to stay for free. Before this, it was just my and my sisters living in the house, and my dad would come home on weekends. THEN, it was my mom and stepdad, and my sisters and I living in my dad's house, and he'd come home on weekends. I was disenrolled at the end of Freshman year, and put into a mental behavior place for my disobedience and defiance (I had a problem taking orders from my abusive stepdad, and the way he treated my mom. He was a felon, was in and out of jail, and treated everyone poorly. My mom lied to these people to get me in there. You can imagine the shock when I walked in and they asked me if I wanted to hurt anyone or myself.) After a phone call with my sister, she told me what my mom had said to these people (that I had chased someone with a knife.) This angered me and I hung up, told the staff to not let my mom visit or call, and I punched a concrete wall in frustration. In hindsight, this made it harder for me to leave, as I did this in front of the entire staff. My roommate during this time said he had held a knife to his babysitters throat, and would constantly tell me how he'd finish the job when he got out. My dad ended up pulling me out AMA (Against Medical Advice), and I went to live with my dad in another state, in a poorer area. He shut down the house, and my mom, stepdad, and sisters all got a place together. From Sophomore year to the end half of Junior year, I was not in school. I worked with my dad from 8am to 10pm every day. I told my dad I needed to go back and complete high school or get my GED. We moved into a state that offers credit recovery. I was 297lbs. This worked out for my dad better than where we were (monetarily). After this time, I was enrolled at my age group. I was 17, a 2nd semester Junior, had to make up ALL credits for Sophomore year, and ALL credits for 1st semester Junior, keep up with my current classes, and I also played football and ran track. I hung out with the wrong crowd, and we lived in a trailer park, in a small city. I ended up getting all the credits I needed, and later found out that I was enrolled in College Prep classes, instead of General level classes. This made it harder to pass, but I still did, and walked for graduation. I joined the military 2 weeks after graduating high school. Instead of saying my goodbyes for college and enjoying summer, I was doing pushups, situps, running, and getting yelled at. Running track helped me lose weight, and football helped me learn how to gain muscle. This is what got me into bootcamp. I'm since out, and using my GI Bill, 34% done with my bachelor's in an IT degree (started in September, 2 months before this post, with an accelerated degree plan; I actually get PAID ~$1,000/mo to attend), have a girlfriend, own a house, own a car, and have a stable full-time job, and am a Reservist. While I was Active Duty, I competed in Powerlifting, Strongman, and 5k running events to maintain weight and fitness, talked to every Officer on board about college, where they went, degrees, etc. and got set up with a mentor who was a Lieutenant at the time, and is now a VERY young Lieutenant Commander that graduated from Princeton. He helped and encouraged me to write college essays, apply for every college I can, and create a plan before I got out. 2 years into my contract, I took leave and flew to MO to visit my sister for Christmas. This is the ONLY time that my family puts aside their differences and everyone gets together and exchanges small gifts and plays board games, and drinks together. This is my favorite holiday for this reason. My dad asked me if I knew what "Mad Dog 20/20 was", and I said no. I eventually ended up with 2 bottles of Mad Dog taped to my hands, and upon finishing them, got the courage to bring my mom to another room and tell her how I felt about the behavioral institution, why I felt betrayed by her, and why I haven't called, texted, or asked about her since I joined the service. We cried in each others arms, and she apologized after 6 years. This helped me forgive her and mend our relationship. I originally lived in MO, then KY, then OK, then OH, before joining. I'm now back in MO, and still obviously keep in touch with family, as I'm close with 1 of my sisters, and both of my parents, but I hope this goes to show that you really don't need to have people pay for your tuition or support you monetarily on MOST things. It definitely helps, but it is still absolutely possible alone, with the right mindset, and brushing shoulders with the right people. As of today, my mom is a hair stylist and my dad does doordash. The sister I'm close with is in college for a degree in education, and the other sister dropped out of college (she was pursuing Psychology), and constantly asks the family for money. I currently make a stable living from my job, make a good chunk per month from college, and make some fun/spending money from the Reserves, with a VA claim on the way (tinnitus, shoulder tear, etc. payments for life after claim is settled.) Instead of being told that I was going to be kicked out of the house, and that I needed to find a job and move out, I'm now going to be giving those same people a place to crash for the holidays. (I was told how my dad talked to the rest of my family about me, and how he wanted to kick me out since I wasn't employed during high school. The extra classes and sports didn't make this feasible.) I'm not going to hold this against him, as I understand where he was coming from, but you can bet when he's 70 he won't be living in my 3bed 2bath. My biggest tip is to know your resources, make a plan and stick to it, and give important things your 110%. At the younger years of my life, I was struggling in school, obese at 13 years old, playing videogames 24/7, lived with a single dad, made friends with the wrong people (I was frequently hanging out in the trap house), and not close to any of my family. You can completely flip your cards around if you stay consistent, work towards bettering yourself, and putting the B.S. down. I've since gone on to achieve more than anyone I know personally. I've lead teams in response to fires/gas leak casualties, assembled and disassembled mines, flown in helicopters (as well as given hand signals to land and launch them to pilots), been a security force team leader (leading a team to search spaces, people, make reports/arrests, etc.), been out to sea countless times, dropped anchors, lived in San Diego, helped other units in Seattle, and more. Long story short, civilian life is a peace of cake compared to military life. You might be stressed out or tired sometimes throughout the week, but mainly your biggest worry is "Am I going to get to work on time", or "God, this guy is so annoying, I wish he'd stop knocking on my office door", versus "I'm running on an hour of sleep. I hope this container I'm controlling with a crane doesn't smash into my teammates and crush them to death." or "I hope this tugboat doesn't pull my body through this chock and mince me". I say THIS, because from my personal experience and tribulations, civilian life hasn't been nearly as stressful or testing. I wish I had this mindset BEFORE joining. Now, if I'm stressed out in civilian life, I just say to myself, "people are getting shot at right now." Somehow this works. I also take a step back and DEEPLY analyze family events and things that are said. The whole point of this post is to encourage people to really try their best to accomplish their goals, as I'm literally living proof of a 180 degree turn, and was NOT supposed to be where I am. I was destined for a heart attack and death at age 16, or poverty for life, considering I was 297lbs at 13 years old, and was hanging out with drug dealers at 16, and have completely turned my life around and will be more successful than anyone I personally know. Drown out the "noise" and get to it. Nothing else matters. I hope this gives anyone reading this encouragement. I hope you realize that even if you're stuck in a rut, or think you're destined for less than you really are, that you can still make it out and be happier, wealthier, and more successful than you think. If anyone has serious questions, or needs guidance or support, reply, and I'll give what I can.
28:57 i'm pretty sure it's "daughter in law" and not "dad in law", but thar got some good laughs out of me when i realized it 49:58 the moment i heard LoL, i said nope
Without hearing more, def NTA. People who are “brutally honest” or “blunt” or who just “say it how it is” just use it as an excuse to be a jerk. And it’s funny how they can usually dish it, but can never take it. How long should OP have taken it for? All night? FOH! I agree that the sister shouldn’t have volunteered OPs personal information.
9:00 this directly contradicts that they get along fine. They cannot get along fine if there’s no respect . And why does Sammy have a say in a lock being Zoey’s door? Why does Sammy have an opinion on what makeup Zoey has? Sir, you are a _guest!_ Dude is getting way too comfortable and is beyond overstepping! The wife and Sammy is TA. Why isn’t she on her daughter’s side?
41:14 spoiled by not falling for financial manipulation and wanting to do things their own way. I also disagree, they didn’t have to be nicer. They weren’t even mean, they just clarified that they were confusing a “gift” for a bribe.
1:02:12 And where was the wife with this perfect comeback? Cuz OP didn’t need to say what he said, but why didn’t the wife speak up and stop Kathy? Why was she okay with her son being creeped on like that?
The story about the car... I have no idea how you could be involved with someone who is a car person and be like that. I'm hoping to one day be able to surprise my husband with something like that and here's this chick just... Casually getting rid of something that clearly means so much to the guy like he doesn't even matter. I doubt she'd appreciate it if he'd done similar to her. Absolutely awful.
I think I think that the first woman is definitely a soft NTA because no matter how far down the line your kids get in a relationship you would never, ever, want to picture that! I'm pretty sure even after their kids have kids they won't want to think about the implications that has or try not to. AND THE FIRST IMPRESSION!? Definitely NTA.
As an autistic person, I have to say Aiden's dad is a PoS... My siblings should never be made responsible for my care, and never to the point of wrecking their lives by denying them a career and/or family!
Jeez, way too many of the stories in this compilation are "I got angry because they stole/tried to steal from me. But am I the AH?" The car, the cousins, the inheritance money, the baby fomula. And I'm only 39 minutes in the video. It's sad how manipulative people can step over someone so much that they start thinking they are the problem for setting boundaries
26:46 isn’t the relationship already damaged by the way the BIL acts? And they both got an inheritance and the sister used hers now that it’s time for OP to use their inheritance, it’s unfair? FOH!
35:54 and was Brenda not mocking OP for being a bad wife? Brenda should’ve stfu! And OP took a min before finally lashing out and then Brenda got butt hurt.
20:40 and how disgusting &!embarrassing is it to have to face racism? The punishment more than for the crime and I see where the kid might’ve learned the racist “jokes” from. ETA: stop getting ideas from TikTok! ETA: OPs response was perfect. And let’s remember that OP was helping him by coming over to cook and he responded with a TikTok trend.
That OP acting like their dad is NTA. The DID try different ways to convince him that his behavior is bad and they didn't work. Talking can only do so much. It was either this or a video compilation of every argument that OP's parents have because of their father's behavior posted on social media or something. There are definitely worse options for OP to have gotten the message across
My two gay dads... i think the reason she left was that because she felt ambushed rather than inherently being homophobic. Not to say that it couldnt be part of it, but id be pretty annoyed if we were dating and you only told me that seconds before my parents walked in.
Im curious if Bella ever explains herself. Just because its possible shes trying to circumvent her own parents blowing up. Since the meeting of the parents was her parents idea, and they invited themselves over for dinner, making them sound controlling
The story about the girl who installed a lock 🔒 on her door to stop her entitled cousin entering and abusing her cosmetics was deserving. Boundaries should be in place even in families. Then the one who threw out the baby formula was simply out of order. How dare she throw it out without permission and is unable to replace it. Then case of the 2 sisters who inherited money from their dad after his passing, the other sister was financially irresponsible overspending her money on unnecessary expensive goods knowing her husband wasn’t well. All of a sudden the sick husband needed surgery, she’s spent her inheritance while her sister saved hers. Now she wants to dig into her sisters money 💴 and calling her mean and wants to hold her responsible if he dies. I’m sorry it’s not her sisters fault she overspent. Instead of being entitled to someone else’s money 💴 she should be selling the material goods she bought. In many of these stories there is a lack of boundary setting and moral clarity.
46:00 the wife does indeed need to understand why her husband did what he did: pure selfishness. Which makes him also TA for projecting his own behaviour on his oldest son.
Ok the pregnant wife story pulling tricks she might actually be going crazy. Pregnancy Psychosis is a real thing I would have her talk to a doctor if she is this paranoid.
19:16 How is that racist? They said the cat likes to get into the food, and the guy was delivering Chinese food. Was he not just saying 'Chinese guy' like how most people say 'pizza guy'? The mother should have just explained to the guy, at the door, that the cat likes to get into the food, and that should have been the end of it.
Eh, depends on how the kid said it. You can hear intent usually and I'm willing to take OP's word that it wasn't a warning about the cat but rather a "warning" for the cat. We can't know cause we're internet strangers, but I feel like the kid would have explained it wasn't even a joke before having to write a whole essay on it.
@@theflyingspagetyeah. Since it’s a text post tone can’t be discerned without either tone indicators or a description of how someone said it. The only way we can assume how it was said is by other text surrounding it or how other people are described reacting to it. If the delivery guy was upset then that’s can give the impression that the som said it in a tone that indicates more of a racist approach to the joke than ‘the cat likes to get in the food’. And based off of the essays the son was made to write we can assume the son had at least some understanding of the ideas the essays were about, which doesn’t make the joke better at all and certainly not for the son claiming he did no wrongdoing. We can make inferences but can’t be for sure.
I know this is a 1 month old video, but TAKE a 5 second break whenever there's a period at the end of a sentence, otherwise it just becomes too much at once
