CPS returns kids and Mom is a no show! 

Agreed! I have a big Italian family & my mom told me long ago if i ever mess up she'd take my son in a heartbeat. Period. And its a blessing bc he has 2 moms really. Id have it no other way. If i dont put him 1st, she will. Thats it.

She stated she wanted to be given custody or appointed as a guardian so that she could contact HUD to get a place of her own because she couldn't take them where she was. I will never again allow CPS to place a child in my care without that same paperwork because I was screwed over by CPS in that situation before.

@@shawnforan3148 same with my mom!!!

@@traceymcdonald7949 CPS should never be involved in your or your kid’s lives in the first place

@@CherrrrBear agreed. I cant imagine bringing up my son without my mom there for him. She tells me all the time that she believes she had me so she could have him lol. I was the means to the end in that reguard.

Not only did she leave but she didn’t even take her phone like she’s sitting here waiting on the most important phone calls supposedly of her life but leaves the phone behind to go out of town with a man and then sit here and falls asleep so she’s just terrible and she’s high I just cannot believe this Judge

Exactly!

That needs to change….

I mean, have you not seen the number of kids returned to parent/s by cps who've ended up murdered on the news? It's a mess.

She got no notice. cps did this on purpose so they could claim she is a "bad" mother. the text from the mother said she would be home at 6 PM not 4 PM.

​@@ingloriousbetch4302this judge in particular doesn't care about the situation for the children. she just wants to give the mother her children back. Check out how many children were hurt by this judge's rulings. Yet, she still has a job

And that is the BEST CASE scenario crazy

I agree 💯%...the whole time I'm thinking about those poor kids, probably hoping their mom really loves them and wants to take care of them and turns out to be the same disappintment...my heart breaks for them...and if mom behaves this way in public, what is she like behind closed doors when the kids upset her...just heartbreaking

OMG! I didn't know all of that. Holy shit! If she can't even interact w adults without becoming aggressive & violent why are we returning these children to her. Seems like grandma would be the better option w the mother having supervised visits. But not supervised by the mum, supervised by CPS.

She seems juvenile really... and the lack of emotion is just insane

Well, she's certainly a disorganized and disinterested parent who doesn't plan things, who doesn't make herself understood, who doesn't care if she is messing up the days for half a dozen other people, who doesn't care if she breaks her childrens' hearts by actually not being home to welcome them back!!! With all this disorganization, though, it also makes CPS look inefficient. WHY would the social worker go ahead and pick the children up to bring them home when she didn't have CLEAR understanding of when the mother would be home? After talking and texting the mother many times, it was still a loosey-goosey arrangement "I'm 6 hours away",,,four hours later she was "still six hours away". There was no point at which mother said "I will be home at xx:00". In my opinion, if I was the social worker involved, I would have seen a huge red flag with this mother's attitude and I would have talked to my supervisor and found out what I would have to do to have the return of the children delayed legally until mother was standing in front of me in person. To drive to the mother's home with 2 excited children in the back seat thinking they are "going home", and then find nobody at the house is ridiculous. Why even take them out of their foster home when you have NO clue when or if the mother will be home to receive them? I suspect these kids will be back in the system within weeks, maybe days. Mother is clearly disinterested. Grandmother will put herself in danger if she takes custody. Someone has to give these boys a permanent loving home where they can grow up to be successful adults. It isn't going to happen if they go back to their mother.

This judge is wrong.

Yes, many people do not understand all the back end stuff that social workers. I have worked for both foster children and AFC homes as a case manager..I would not get done until 7 or 8pm Michigan time

Around the 29:15 mark the judge said she just went and took her drug test.

Hat aber kein Ergebnis genannt

Save your $10, I think $1 is enough

She’s probably at a loss bc by law what she did wasn’t illegal. Which sucks. It’s a messed up situation all around the board 🤦🏼‍♀️

​@@HeyItsKayJayBaeLooks like child abandonment to me. She didn't even seem to make an effort to pick them up just excuses. Nor does she seem excited to get her kids back.

The judge knows that. I'm a foster parent and returning the kids when they don't have quite enough to terminate is a awful strategy but one nonetheless. Basically they know she's going to mess up so at that time they will have all the evidence they need to permanently remove. It hard to mess up when they don't have the kids.

Plus it’s obvious violence is involved!

I wonder what steps they had her go through before the judge agreed to return the poor traumatized kids. Thank goodness the kids have each other. This woman is a hot mess who can’t even be responsible enough to take care of herself without blaming others for her stupidity.

This is exactly what I’m thinking. Wonder what all she had to do.

Crying is more than what the mom's doing. I feel so bad for those kids.

Paula Benson, what is IMHO?

@@Virginia_Gurlie In my humble opinion.

The mother's "meh, take it or leave it" attitude is palpable. This judge is fatigued or something.

The judge should have called her out for lying

Just know that a vast majority of society are caring honest people, flaws and all aside. It’s few and far between these cases in the big picture but still heartbreaking nonetheless.

She decided to ride with a man for fun..she didnt go for test herself.she was on joy ride ...kids needs do not matter to her she does not want kids..she isn't a mother... shes a Muther...poor kids. Her Attorney cant stand her...he knows shes a liar she went out of town and its his fault typical druggie..i cant believe Judge sent kids back.

The txts she sent when supposedly on the way home didnt contain any mention of her children. Wouldn't most people say oh im so excited to see them or i hope i can get bk i don't want to let them down or something?!

@nicoledoubleyou So true and it sticks with you. It was 1986 and I remember having to go to this old courthouse in downtown St Pete where my mom requested of the court to relinquish custody of me to my dad by HER choice her new boyfriend had teenagers and my aunt had me in another state when they started dating so when I came “home” I didn’t fit into the equation, she didn’t even tell me why we were going or where we were going but had to bring me so she could just pass me off to my dad and stepmom - I didn’t even realize (I was only 6) she even had trash bags of my clothes in the trunk of her car. Talk about being blindsided. She was given visitation but didn’t use it, but 2 years later she called and talked about how my Aunt and Uncle were coming into town and how much she missed me and they were coming to pick me up for a long weekend, even spoke to my dad and said she’d be there by 4 on a Thursday to pick me up - so my dad and stepmom made plans only to come home at 1:30 in the morning to find me still sitting on the front porch and which I didn’t want to leave just in case she forgot which house and was lost. Not sure if they were more heartbroken for me than I was. Never heard from her or saw her until a year and half later when my dad dropped me off at their front door and left because he got caught having an affair and left my stepmother for her and the lady said her daughter was grown and didn’t want to play mommy again (my dad shared that tidbit)… that shhhTT sticks with you as a child, I’m in my 40’s and it’s still messed me up and our quasi relationship. The pain of rejection is real, I’m so silly I’m crying typing this. Some people are not meant to be parents and are defective, lacking that emotional care and natural true love you should have for your children - I can’t fathom them but their faults leave a lasting effect on their wee ones…. I’m no longer a wee one and still feel that pain of rejection. No child should feel that way, ever!

@@Blueeyedjenn14 I'm so sorry to hear about all that, genuinely. You deserved so much better than that. I hope you're able to talk to someone about all this, it sounds like it would help you a lot to talk through the feelings you've mentioned here so that you can process them instead of being hurt all over again every time you let yourself think about it. I know it's easier said than done, and I hope I'm not being annoying, I just hate to hear that you're still having your heart broken by those losers that didn't deserve your love. Ugh I get so angry hearing about terrible parents, so many people are hurting because they had parents that never should've been having babies. Babies aren't toys that can be thrown away or forgotten about once you're bored of them. I wish I could slap the shit out of your parents, your dad in particular since he let your mom abandon you, then abandoned you himself the second you became a "burden". You weren't a burden, you were a child that deserved the love of your parents and they are genuinely monsters for treating you as disposable. I'm so angry for you!!!

We do not know the whole story. The people taking care of them may not feel like strangers to them. They may be more reliable than their mom.

@@elainemilligan9086 but you still always want your mommy to love you, no matter how close you are to others

@@Blueeyedjenn14 holy crap. I’m so sorry

I'd be beside myself period

I thought that was odd too. How could she text about the CDL test if her brother had her phone? And one text said she couldn’t complete the test but she later said she didn’t even take the test. Something’s not right here

they both needed a nap on the way home??? and she can't get a CDL in Texas to begin with.

Exactly if her brother had her phone how did she message that lady when she was gone saying she was 6 hours away? Also if she doesn't have a phone how the hell are they going to contact her to set a time to give the kids back. I'm all for parents having and getting their kids back, but what mother wouldn't be waiting at home in anticipation for her children to arrive. Doesn't even sound like she really wants them 😢.

God forbid that she gets her CDL ! Can you imagine someone with her disorganization and give-a-shit attitude, and physical violence rages, becoming a driver of a commercial semi? I would HATE to be on the highway with her when she's "tired" and "needs a nap" but has to keep going to meet her schedule. She will be one hell of a road rage driver if she ever gets that license!

Compulsive liar.

Women don't have to take their hats off, unfortunately it's only for men

@tracimghernandez974 that's not true. It depends on the judge if they enforce a dress code, some are less strict about it. It's not a male female thing it's just a thing that depends on the court

Take it from someone who has experienced these excuses.. 100%

but she is going to give your kids back??? what is going on

Moms what’s known as a lot lizard AKA trucker prostitute.

Well...she had to "earn extra money"

She might have been somewhere getting high that don't even make sense

And the fact that they were texting her and calling her on her phone number, and she was answering them, while she's supposedly 6 hours away with her phone broken at her brother's house makes no sense whatsoever. Nothing she said in those conversations makes sense, and it's a whole different story than what she's telling now. I wouldn't give those kids back period.

​@@yana212 BINGO! Her story is BS.

A lot of times I think they return kids because they turn a blind eye to what’s going on and are very naive about what mommy & or daddy will tell them…done fully believe kids belong with their real parents which would be great if real parents were fit to have them. Feel like some judges can’t see beyond their own nose & if mom or dad sounds sincere they are definitely to be believed. And poor kids pay price.

It takes more than lying to take children from their parents.

Depends on alot of factors. Not all kids in custody are abused. Not all parents are perfect but kids die alot in cps care. Get raped and pregnant as well

I just pray they will be safe.

As someone who works in the legal field, the fact that the judge supported the attorney withdrawing shows what a POS the mom truly is.

She’s made her priorities clear.. unfortunately for those babies 🥺❤️‍🩹

Yes. This.

You don't know this !!

It's a huge ding-ding-ding when the MOTHER of the mom says she is SCARED of her. Imagine what she does to her children. Very, very sad.

She can't drive in her state......????

Exactly!! The chances of a child being abused in any way are like 30x higher with a stranger in the house with them and these parents need to wake tf up. I’ve been single since my second trimester for various reasons.. this being a HUGE one!

Something will happen all right. They'll be traumatized but it will happen in small increments of time over the next 15 to 16 years., eventually when they can no longer bare it and start exhibiting their anti social and violent Behavior.... they will be 18 so therefore and unfortunately it's no one else's fault but there's. It's a sad sad vicious cycle

@@timfahey7127 I agree, I think what the judge is trying to tell her is to not get so upset that you’re sending texts that are hateful and mean. I’m going to assume she has an anger issue and that’s what these kid will learn to do.

You a foster parent? Guardian ad litem? Respite provider? Child or family advocate? If not, sit down and shut it. When you have done 1% of what this judge does on a daily basis you MIGHT have something to say worth listening to.

@@FasterFaster196 have you?

absolutely....Judge is an idiot!

This chick sets the bar LOW

Not for nothing but the bar in these cases tends to be very low.

Just ask your kids and u will know.

Good mothers don’t worry about if they’re good mothers or not 🥹 our babies are lucky to have us!

2:06 but

😢she was nodding out. I'm sure right after her test she used something how was judge chewing her out and her basically sleeping didn't notice🤦‍♀️

She said her brother had her phone that was left at her house when she left for Houston with her friend, Ricky. I assume she used her friend's phone to call the caseworker who didn't answer as she was on the road. Get a speaker phone as nurses who do home care all have as we have to take phone calls regarding our clients. CPS caseworkers have it way too easy imo. It's the redundant documentation we have to make that is time consuming and why I like many home nurses document on our own time. Anyone wonder why nurses are being replaced with paraprofessionals such as med techs. Good luck with that!

Agree 💯

I doubt the judge thinks it will work. I am guessing the state (government) must prove it has done its due diligence in providing mom every opportunity to have her children before they permanently take these children. 😢

She’s a loser mother

@@Mammaj1963 I agree. I am only sad because of the poor children.

Judge didn't look hopeful.

I hope you found yourself somewhere safe ❤

I’m so sorry! I hope you’re healing.

​@@flickrennelsI did. Raised 3 beautiful children, got 9 grand babies and 1 very red headed great grandson. Been married 46 years and took in many of the kids friends too. What it taught me I never want these people in my life.

I was so surprised. She didn't seem ready. It's a monitored return tho I'll be watching for any status updates

Absolutely agree! Judge I think making bad decisions…this mom shows no interest in what’s best to do for kids

She's so immature and has a grandiose sense of entitlement!

Bless you for being a foster parent . I have thought about that for a while . Financially I just can’t , but I would love to .

@@cleobinx Thank you. It was very rewarding but will rip your heart out when they get sent back to bad situations. You're right, the stipend you get doesn't begin to cover all the child's needs. It cost my husband and I a bunch of money to foster but we weren't going to let the foster kids do without while our child had everything.

Agreed

@@rpurdy4821 I guess there’s something that I don’t see and judge does? From what I have seen some kids don’t belong with the mom just because she’s mom….at least not until she works on herself and proves she’s capable……maybe I just don’t get it🤷🏻‍♀️

She probably would of left the kids home alone if they were returned to her. She certainly wasn’t planning on taking a bunch of kids in a 18 wheeler

We don’t even know why they were taken. I don’t think we should be quick to judge. There are many people who have had their kids removed by power hungry women unjustly

Who is going to care for the kids while she is on the road.

Exactly

The foster system sucks. Kids want to be with their parents. It all sucks. There is no winner.

I'm bad about "second thought" messages 🤣 I'll hit send then almost immediately I'll think of some I forgot to say, lol. I only text my family and two good friends though. Not random people. Random messages from random people do get annoying, lol.

Agree!

When I text people questions I only ask two. If I text Three questions they only answer two lol.

Mo

I agree. I can’t even imagine the pain of the children. What kind of mother does that to her children!!!?Not a good one! 😢

it doesn't seem like she wants them

It sounds to me like you would never find yourself in her shoes to begin with. 🩷 Kudos to the great moms out there. I never had one of those.

@@getmeouttatennessee4473 I didn’t either, but I learned a valuable lesson from her… my children know they are loved and always will be. They were always taken care of and put first as they should be. I’m sorry for the hurt you had to endure. 😪

I just know if my kid was taken from me and a judge said he was coming home... I'd be looking out that window until he showed. She didn't even call them, just made weekend plans. I was disgusted

@@OnTropolis I agree with you 100 % on that one

@@OnTropolis yeah I would do anything this is so sad but I appreciate you showing these cases. Thanks

Nah she had no problem blowing up all these people's phones but the moment it was time for her to be an actual mother, she didn't reach out to ask for a day and time they would be returning the kids?

I don’t know…. She was probably used to dealing with these people and expected to have to wait and wait and then the judge even told her “these people have other things to do”

Sterilization

I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks that

Too many CPS workers think they're above the law and over the judges too. They also return children to bad homes Many do or don't do whatever they want with many families children, even if judge ordered them not to.

We just don’t know. It DOES seem that foster home was the most stability those kids EVER experienced. They were cleaned up, they were readied, you know they ate, they were cared for - heard no evidence of the same pertaining to mom. Kids who learn to love their abuser will usually love abusers because they spend their childhoods trying to justify and give excuses for their parent abusers. The lil boy already justified why they were alone and the reasons why. Going back to foster home is very very sad and I’m sure they were sad but hopefully the example of the nuture home will stick in their heads for years n years to come. Truly sad and mom did not deserve those kids, those kids deserve an actual caregiver

Even homeless, poor women who want and have hope and try all they can to NOT be separated from their children. These children are at risk period

I don’t think it’s fair to judge the grandmother if she’s afraid of her daughter. If she has the kids, she’s forced to have to interact with her daughter who has apparently been violent and aggressive with her before. People have to protect themselves at some point. I’m not finished with the video just yet but so far I haven’t heard anything that grandma did wrong.

The grandmother was willing to take them but ONLY if they gave her placement & the daughter couldn’t kick in her door to take them. I’ve been through it with a family member & I tried with all my power but eventually I knew the kids would never stand a chance bc their mother was never going to leave them along so sometimes it’s better for the kids to be in a placement outside of family bc it’s the only way to protect them. This woman even had issues with all the workers & her attorney to the point he had to quit!!’ Bc he couldn’t deal with her!!!

Thanks for the feedback! I am definitely slowing those down I didn't realize how fast they were until I read comments. Hopefully it will be better with the next few!

@@LadyWarrior4JC it's broadcast as a public stream by the court. I didn't sneak a recording device into a call

@@donmichaelromanombaba3647 It should be. I hope the Children involved here Never have an opportunity to view these videos. The damage it will Inflict will be Devastating & Unrepairable.

@@LadyWarrior4JC why are you watching?

@@lindamckay4414 Why are you watching? For Your own personal enjoyment?

Right wake him up

She's not entitled to notice for her kids. They're her responsibility and as of Thursday they were legally back in her custody. Her job was to inform them if she was gonna take a road trip.

She has mental issues

This “mother” is violent against her own mother.

Absolutely. She also was full of it...she wanted to ride along with her "buddy" there was no test no job no nothing, in my opinion.

​@@OnTropolisAgreed

But she won’t get the job as a long haul truck driver because she can’t get her license

Yes, a perfect example of emotional abuse by the mother. Everything else in her life is more important than her children. Sad.

If your heart is in it, I say go for it! It’s not easy but as a former foster mom I can say it felt really good to help give a safe and stable place to kiddos even if it were just a little bit. There are so many people with negative stereotypes of foster parents but I have found there is a much larger group of good people than those that are often portrayed.

It would have gone a long way if she had!

I was wishing the judge asked why she was able to text the CPS worker if her brother broke her phone while she was gone. She lied so much, IMO

Email security can be set so if you try to log in from a different device you are prompted to enter a code that is texted to your registered phone. If your phone is non functional you can't get that code. Therefore you are locked out of your email. CPS should not have started moving the until they had firm plans with MOM.

@@nestpeeper Yes that very situation happened to me when I lost my phone. It was a terrible catch-22 and I couldn't get into any of my accounts!

She doesn't have a CDL yet.