Mom Gets on Judge's Last Nerve! 

as well as comprehensive in her assessment.

she's a legit social worker and she has all the receipts.

Tough lady. Much respect. 💪🏻

except she sounds like a third grader with her constant up talking crap

💯 we definitely need many more like her. Wherever she received her training, EVERY OTHER CPS worker in the world needs to go to the same place. Then shadow her for proper training, total system overhaul, done.

Poor woman. It’s great that she’s stepping up, but her mother lost custody of her, then she had to watch her mother make and lose even more kids, and now she’s taking care of the newest one. It’s like being her own mother’s mother.

This is exactly the reason why a lot of people are pro-choice. You may be able to force someone to have a baby but you can’t make them be a parent.

​@@mrjones2721 I believe that the "placement sister" (Jaylene) is the child of the dad in this case, not the mom. Although, it actually sounded like the dad's mom has got the other younger sister they were talking about, so he may have also lost custody of Jaylene at some point in her childhood as well.

@HeyLyd Yes she is the father's child. That's why I'm so impressed about her being protective of her and letting them know that her father was outside the visit waiting for the Mom of the lil one that she has placement of. What a hard but mature thing to do!!!!

@@Cannabidragon I agree. Just one brave person like this in a family can break the cycle of violence and secrecy for generations to come.

That got me too!

​@Nerissa Wolf mom definitely needs help, but you cannot help someone that doesn't want it.

@Nerissa Wolf you can disagree, reasonable minds can differ. My comment was from experience. I spent 20 years putting my best friend in and out of rehab, taking her children from cys. Doing everything I could to help her, along with her family. She died of an overdose 6 years ago.

@@poisonousparadox2971,I’m so sorry for your loss.God bless

Heartbreaking

Absolutely!

Absolutely.

Absolutely

I liked her, but she did slip up when she said the mother conducted a meeting. She didn't conduct it, she participated where someone ELSE conducted it.

Yes except for the upspeak

Exactly! And all these people are chasing her around like a bunch of idiots, taking up resources and wasting court time all for a woman that couldn't care less. GIVE IT UP! She's not interested

Why would she keep having kids after losing custody of the other four sounds like cps should of took the 5th child from the hospital as soon as the child was born .It's ashame that it took the mother getting stabbed for cps to step in .I'll say it again some people shouldn't be parents.

@@mrsmrbaker1 good question, but when people get government assistance they try to hold on to those kids as best they can so the checks keep coming in-she’s just one who was unable to do that.

@@mrsmrbaker1in Florida if a child has been taken from the mother/parents and they have another child , they do not go home with a baby once it’s born. Child goes directly to child services .

Sadly this isn't always true. I personally know a mom who lost one to termination, another to custody to the father, then a third case closed with a guardianship through CPS (the Florida equivalent I use cps globally) and got pregnant. She was apparently clean in that pregnancy and baby was born healthy without any drugs in her system thank goodness. CPS did come, they spoke to her and made sure all was good. No intake was done. I hope mom stays clean because it's terrifying with her last case just months past. Not even a oarticipat case..no services no unannounced visits... At minimum she should be monitored but she's not

@@mrsmrbaker1 maybe research it. The information is out there

I agree with the judge

Better yet, prefrontal lobotomy.

And a vasectomy for the father.

​@@Creative-Chaosvasectomy is reversible.

There are probably multiple fathers!! It looks like she'll spread her legs for any guy that wants her to!

@@Creative-ChaosfatherS

I’m a former addict also and my ex took the kids, it was the most horrible experience of my entire life, I was dying without them. I did everything it took to get them back and it was A LOT of work but they are my life, I did it with no argument, been clean for 6 years!

Kudos to you on your sobriety. 🎉 I myself am going on 13yrs of sobriety, and my ex husband abandoned me and the kids during his active addiction. He just up and left without a word. I was speechless, but after going through the homeless shelter and building a career for myself while maintaining stability for our kids, I realized that sometimes the kids are better off in not knowing. They used to ask about him in the beginning, but now they praise me for keeping them safe and not allowing his inconsistency or unsafe behaviors around them. Addiction is such a selfish thing.and until you're clean you don't see how your actions have unwavering consequences.

Thankyou for your honesty- it's always so helpful and lifts some weight for me.♡. The "self medicating" was one thing for me, I then had to work on all the things that were left in the addictions wake, guilt, self centredness, avoiding things from childhood I had to deal with. It's 7.5 years now, and thank God my daughter is in contact because she wants to be. I would tell any mum in this situation- you're worth it. You may not feel it, but if you are fretting for your beautiful kids and determined to be a mum and have got yourself sober- you have a right to love yourself and to ignore the terrible self talk that may go on. Not even caring for my parents helped some of it- that was my amends- I was left with more guilt. I had to look at what flaws in thinking and self judgement was going on that sabotaged my life and self esteem/progress. Always either over- thinking or not thinking the right way, and the whole time, missing her like breath itself. And sober. Anyway, thankyou for your honesty.. I'm always so grateful to hear from sober mums.

That woman is interested in 1 person, and 1 person only. Herself.

​​@@ayceleijae I wish we heard more stories like yours! You prove that it is possible....you just need to want to change for your children. I don't know you but Im so dang proud of you for stepping up and being the parent those babies need. Congratulations!

I won't bet against you

@@ginamartinez1654 😂😂

That's why she won't talk about the abuse. Hard to do that when your abuser is sitting right there

​@@MrsBees agree; I think he was there aware and present.

She kept looking up and talking to someone. It was probably him.

Yes..their job is to represent parent but they must have been blowing smoke out of both ears trying to do so..2 fools doing squat to help themselves...stabbing one's partner and continuous DV ? Uhg

So to be absolutely honest, you're insulting fools. Fools had legal employment. Fools were the people's voice. They mocked the noblemen (and women) about everything from lavish lifestyles to political views and actions. In my opinion, these humans are unwilling, unable and incapable of being functional parents of the six children they've created.

Yeah, it's a tough gig. I can't imagine anyone taking on these cases voluntarily...

​@@Claudia-lq3nscourt appointment rarely fices a choice for the attorney, and they can not refuse without severe consequences if they can't produce a very serious, legally backed reason why they can't.

Unfortunately I believe they do not care.

Her addiction may be getting the better of her.

If these were your children something tells me you wouldn't be in this situation! 👍 But I get what you're saying.

That’s because you’re a PARENT. It’s obvious that all of these children were simply an inconvenience to their “birth giver”. I also agree that you most likely won’t be in this situation with your family too, but I would also do the same as you regarding attendance and efforts to recovery custody. ❤️

If those were your children, you and they would not be in this situation. ❤

Oh yes, this mom was clearly a victim of a corrupt government 🙄

@@OnTropolis lol I think some personal information should be kept private and not broadcast anywhere. But when you do this like this. The public should be very aware of the danger they are

@@amberstorm1139 I have heard many horror stories about CPS. This court hearing doesn't support them. Quite the opposite. If anything Mom may have an argument of "ineffective council" because even her lawyer seemed to want to keep the child where it currently is.

​@@amberstorm1139 Considering you can't spell 1st grade-level words, forgive me for not putting much stock in your take on this.

Accountable to who?? You? Me? As satisfying as you may find it, I don't think the entertainment factor for us is relevant to anything whatsoever.

Correct

I thought that. Earlier during proceedings she truend and looked like she was communicating with someone. If she really wants her baby back, she should have answered all questions in full. Makes sense she didn't re the DV if the boyfriend was with her.

Sometimes you have to remove all help from a loved one so that hopefully they will reach a rock bottom before they destroy themselves. Enabling is not helping them.

She has lost 5 children...5... and they are questioning number 6? 🙄 She needs to quit having kids.

It truly takes a strong community of people to help save children. Every child deserves that and every unfit parent should be grateful. If only they would work hard to restore themselves to being fit.

The mother is not interested either

Which father?

@@AuntieWolf why did he stab her? Just because she said he stabbed her do we know the circumstances in which it happened? I understand that in DV cases….understand very well…that these women go thru a lot….and men….but I’ve also seen…too many times….that some will lie in order to gain sympathy….not in all cases. But I also know that when you have children involved you do everything you possibly can in order to give the children the life they deserve. Even mom deserves a good life and dad. But when you have the chance to do all you can to improve and you don’t then there’s a huge problem. Missing so many visits and not completing all plans….and if drugs are a problem then you get help…it will be difficult but if you have those who will help you have a good chance. It should not be entirely up to CPS or those working with them to do everything and you do nothing….mom or dad have to take initiative also to find out what they need to do. Start in one place calling and continue to call. So many of these parents sit back and wait for everyone else to bring everything to them. And when you already have other cases with CPS that’s alarming and if you have other children previously removed from your care…that’s disturbing and alarming. And you can tell by moms attitude here she has some issues either understanding or following directions. And I would not be surprised if she wasn’t still involved with him. Her attorney has prepped her well. And she’s missed a lot of drug testing. She’s lost 5 other kids “to these people”…..bull crap about the phone issue and feeling sorry for him…..moms “playing”…..how can you truly be that interested in working your plan when you’ve missed so many things. 5 kids……she can’t even handle herself here with questions….which are painful to her I get. But there comes a time. I’m not saying at all she’s not a victim of DV but I also don’t know her part….at times there’s DV from both sides. Once the attitude that people are trying to “just take your kids away” it may get better. The whole situation is heartbreaking….they all are. When they’re good and you see either mom or dad doing what they need to and improving then that’s a wonderful sight to see.

So because someone loses one child they are unqualified without question to have anymore children? That’s crazy because ppl can change. It’s amazing how you are so quick to place judgement on families solely off of a system that is clearly broken. That’s like saying if someone is convicted of a crime they should never be free again. SMH

Half of the time peoples children are Wrongly removed and they end up being killed by their foster family. The system is broken, and they shouldn’t be allowed to toss kids around to him/her anyone they want. It’s bullshit. Then on top of that, the kids who are REALLY are being abused are not removed at all and end up being killed, or they give the child back to a dangerous parent who ends up killing them shortly after… The whole system needs an overhaul

So should it be the same for a woman that has an abortion for no good reason except to get out of the responsibility of having a kid

Unfortunately women can pop out kids no matter if they can provide a decent home. I do believe in education before procreation.

Oh EXACTLY THIS!!!! I was getting soooo annoyed when his lawyer kept asking over and over again about the contact!I was angrily mumbling at the screen!

💯!!

EXACTLY!! trying to make it seem like she's not doing her job and she sounds like one of the workers who goes above and beyond. Let me just say it's a dam good thing it's not me on the stand I'd probably turn around and ask her if she had done any of those things to find him!!

Why isn’t the lawyer looking for him?? If it’s so important for him to be there and be represented then she can go find him!

I agree. And if between his mom, his lawyer, family...him not calling at all, at what point is it abandonment?

And she’s not gonna “let them win again”, her fight has nothing to do with the love of her child 💔

SHE's a paRENT who should have been sterilized in her juveNILE/LIEN years

She says she ended the relationship with the baby's father - I don't believe her. And the caseworker stated that she has refused a hair follicle test recently. She's still with the baby's dad!! I don't believe that she just let him use her phone "once", because family members have stated that he has used her phone to contact them. How would he use her phone if he wasn't there with her! And she just changed her story because she said previously that she ended the relationship with him in October - now she's saying that she ended it in March! So which is it???

- Because she wants the money she gets from the government for the child!!​@@Delulutrain

Amen

That's what I said. I said I'd be at every visitation an hour early. Just waiting. I would miss my kids so much. It would be like Christmas morning every chance I got to see them.

I am so sorry about your childhood and what you were put through. To not be protected and cared for by our Mothers is unforgivable. I hope you are healing ❤️ My best to you. You deserve it!

@@catbishop27it’s been…a journey, to say the least. Thanks…it all worked out in the end, and I take comfort in knowing that, because of her, her actions, and lack of care, it made me a better person, mother, and human.

@@Papadoxwife ❤️❤️❤️ Good for you Girl! So glad to hear that! Take good care. ❤️

It’s sounds like you and I have a lot of things happened to us. I had a mom that put all her man before her children and the things they did to my brothers and sister and myself was horrific because my mom helped them to do it to all of us. I don’t think about the past very often I stay in the present it’s nice being here I hope healing and peace you will find blessings be sister

I lost my husband 18 years ago. I have worked 2 full time jobs to see that they are safe and cared for. I do get asked out, but I’ve not dated 1 time in 18 years! My “YOUNG LIFE” has been dedicated to my children and I don’t regret one decision I made as to having a man in my life. I could never choose a man over my children.

Yet another victim where we don't take any responsibility and everything is everyone else's fault. Shame on her. I really hope she gains some personal insight so she can straighten herself out.

And 20 minutes late to a court hearing... I don't get it

​@@Claudia-lq3ns Sadly, people like her never do. She looks to be in her mid to late 40's, and if she hasn't figured it out by now and after losing 5 other children, she almost certainly never will.

Well someone is to blame, what do you want from her? Someone is to blame when five kids get taken…it’s not her fault. Like it isn’t her fault that she’s nearly 30 minutes late, putting on makeup and doing the hair and STILL looks like she got dragged through a hedge backwards.

I have a niece that has had at least 10 kids and the longest any have remained in her was until age 10. She’s a real pos too, supports herself by selling her methadone.

Agreed! She’s good.

They are usually incompetent and incomplete in their investigation.

She sure knows the parents name lol

That's a function of the number of cases each worker has assigned. Don't blame them for that. It's on us.

​@@jamesmason2228 Agree that a lot of social workers are just overburdened with cases. They should have a caseload that is manageable because social workers should be just as invested as this lady right here.

Prayers do nothing. Except create false hopes. Which is cruel.

Everyone deserves counsel...just because she has help they are not going to lie...Mom deserves a chance and kids should be with their mom....if its at all possible..

​@@djsi38t except for when it's clearly apparent that the mothers care is not the safest, most beneficial environment for the child

Bingo! Mom lied through her piehole.

Right? I don't buy that he doesn't know and they aren't in a relationship.

He is aware, both him & the mom are liars

Meth is one hell of a drug. It will make you believe shit you know ain’t true.

Vote for candidates that would raise their funding. Caseworkers are overwhelmed with impossible caseloads and underpaid.

So refreshing to hear a positive story about cps whom I'm sure are mainly hard working and dedicated but only bad cases get reported on so this case is inspiring ❤

99.9% of people who claim CPS are stealing their children have grown so accustomed to their circumstances that they cannot see how their children are being harmed. Like a hoarder can't smell their stench, and a frog won't jump out of slowly warmed water, when people live in harmful / dangerous / unstable environments they get tunnel vision and can't see what harm is happening. You can explain the harm to them in a dozen different ways, but all they hear is busybody noises and criticism.

@@mydogsiouxpay won’t fix it. The burnout rate will remain the same because of the absolute nightmare that the workers deal with in relation to innocent children. Instead of throwing money at the problem the system needs to listen to their workers as to what it’s going to take to fix a broken system. The system is broken and the workers feel like they enduring all of the stress for nothing. The system can be fixed unfortunately in today’s victim mentality few would have the stomach for it even if the children greatly benefited from the changes.

I agree! Like the caseworker has nothing else to do but chase down this deadbeat! If he cared about his child he would be there. Case has been ongoing for months! I hope this baby gets adopted by big sis and mom needs permanent birth control. 5 kids taken good lord!

I think (and could be wrong) that they have to get that clear on the record so the lawyer can be dismissed later. It also prevents malpractice on the lawyer's end. Just showing they have done EVERYTHING to find him.

😂😂😂 Texas doesn't let you get free contraceptives or abortions but yeah, they'll tie her tubes

You know the can come untied right.

The male DNA donor needs to be snipped. He bears the same level of responsibility as the incubator.

@@brandyroseann a modern tubal ligation is 99% effective in preventing pregnancy. The current procedure that is most widely used is to cut each fallopian tube and suture the openings closed to prevent sperm from reaching eggs. Historically, the failure rate was higher when the fallopian tubes were clipped or a band was placed in the tube.

​@@kerrythurlow8037 Though 99%, they still come untied. My God daughter was born from tied tubes 😂 I got mine clipped, tied, and burned over 12 years ago, which they've held up. However, my bff had her tubes done the same way and she got pregnant 9 years after the tubal ligation.

I was thinking the same thing about ms. Garza line of questioning. I wish it would have been proper to say " Ms. Garza you being here today and being retained is proof your client is aware of the case. ".

Exactly! Counselors shouldn't be required to track these low lifes down, it is their job to stay up on their child! Been in this same custody situation and I couldn't believe what CPS & caregiver has to go through to protect these children, just sad!

I agree. If he was interested he would have engaged a long time ago.

I just posted who hired his attorney for this meeting if he didn’t know about it?

Drugs too!

Sometimes people have the camera flipped, so it's hard to know for sure. But I think you're correct

She’s tweaking

My two girls are the exact same age as yours❤

@@brinalea7778 it’s a great age ❤️

@@brinalea7778 it’s a great age for daughters ❤️

You know what I was a young mom on my own I was raising my little beloved girl she is now 40 years old and happy has a lovely life with her family and friends now I have two more daughters one is 26 years old and her sister is 24 years old they have finished school have their own family and friends I have six grandchildren and I’m a better grandma then I was as a mom but I’m very glad to be alive and enjoying living my life and them all so very much thank you your an amazing incredible person blessings to you and your family

@@kathydavenport4422 and to you as well….you are an incredible Mom and Grandma ❤️❤️🥰🥰🙏🏻🙏🏻

She’s high

She also has a black heart & 1/2 a brain.

@@PrissyTxTomboy 😂

@@PrissyTxTomboy I’m in Tx too!

@@kadenhiggins9338 whereabouts? I'm in the Hill Country about an hour NW of S.A.!

@@PrissyTxTomboy me too! I’m in DFW, home of the Texas Rangers!

Nothing she did said she was on drugs....great job making assumptions...a child belongs with its mother and assumptions can prevent that from happening..

The car is clearly moving.

She may not be the driver.

I don’t think she is driving either.

Her eyes are moving as though she's driving, or at least in a moving car. Several times, she clearly tracks something she's moving past. But she does seem to have parked at some point.

She was smoking and didn’t want the judge to see her in contempt.

It’s also another case of a man recklessly “popping out” sperm that he takes zero responsibility for.

She's probably drug dealing , moving a little meth....

I think he was in the room with her.

Yes! It drives me crazy too!!

💯 the father is there with her. She keeps looking up at something, like she's talking to two different parties. And she's obviously lying in most of her testimony.

When someone starts using drugs and has active addiction or is drinking alcoholicly they cease to grow, they😮 just become stuck in time, they do not mature, people these days seem to confuse entitled and immature, granted it's not a big difference, kind of a chicken or the egg situation, many, many drug users, abusers, alcoholics were raised in broken or single parent homes, additionally the parent or parents raising them used and abused drugs, you cannot pass on to someone that which you don't possess yourself, the parent is immature, uneducated, disenfranchised, under served in the community raising children who, too often end up exactly the same way, it's a pattern, an ugly legacy that self perpetuates, it's difficult to break this pattern, the mother here is probably doing exactly what she saw growing up, is most likely a high school drop out, not involved in her children's education, providing classroom support or support in extra curricular activities, she probably doesn't even understand the importance, she doesn't need the children she's had returned, she needs to be sterilized, harsh, but I've seen too much horrific outcomes from females popping out children they don't want, won't lovingly raise, go on to abuse and neglect, they've lost their right to bring life into the world in my view

It's a contest to her. An affront, not about the kids. She lost her kids "to these people". Without children, she doesn't get all that good government assistance! (welfare, huge tax check, food stamps etc) and sympathy for being "a single mom".

@@shotforshot5983 ding...ding...ding...ding.........exactly! Breeders.....for dollars

@@bethewalt7385 under served? How? All kinds of handouts and chances. You’ve listed many excuses, none of which matter when it comes to the best interests of the children. And I agree, if any or all of these things are true, you shouldn’t be having kids!

Pretty much. Plus I think the dad/bf was in the room with her. She's such a liar and a sick ticket.