Crashing into Fatherhood 

Exactly... Kudos sir💕

Yeah, I really liked this guy. Well spoken and accountable

I just wished women could do the same

I pray that he will “continue” to be a DADDY to “his daughter” He is the only dad she’s knows! Regardless…THEY NEED EACH OTHER! Find a productive and accountable way to CoParent. Be the genuine King and Queen to your innocent PRINCESS 🌹

Soon as it started & I heard he stepped up, while knowing the child might not be biologically his, I knew he was a stand up guy.

😂 Black people love using the stupidest terms to sound smart. Just say you are sorry for the unfortunate circumstances.

This is what happens when ppl casual have sex and don’t even use condoms.

@@Price8903 they were in a relationship. She was just nasty

@@Price8903It happens with condom use too. 80/100 women who use only the male condom for BC will have at least 1 pregnancy every 10 years. There’s an interactive chart you can see to show the effectiveness of different forms of BC by searching “NYT How likely is my birth control to fail?” Women are fertile for 30 years. 1-2+ unplanned pregnancies during that time period is completely normal.

Yes, you said that well. Me too. I wish them well especially him.Cool dude!💯🙏🏾

Him not being the father was a blessing..

Well I’m in the middle and you spoiled it🙄😩

@@lattiejohnson1056 You 10 days late reading comments. Maybe watch the video before opening the comments.

@@lattiejohnson1056 🤣🤣🤣

Got damn you fine af... you should remove those butterflies off ya face, let the world see it clear... smfh

The same here. He is a good black man.

He a good dude but he doesn’t represent “our Black community” lol. Cut it out wit that white supremacist idea the all Black ppl are and should be the same.

Maybe you could look him up. 🙏

For some reason I feel like there was a reason he played this game, he didn’t ever have his own place and admittedly not working she must’ve been the main provider just my opinion

I really love his energy. He took accountability and that speaks volumes! People love to play victim these days!

I pray u can find him and offer him those things u desire to help him with.

@@pmgumeebear character means more than things. At the end of the day, you can provide somebody an opportunity or some career training to get on their feet. But his character will sustain opportunities for him. He definitely can go places just off his accountability and integrity alone.

Good point, and she was being shady too

I thought the same. Because he def owes for the car accident

yup i agree.

And that's why I think serious cases shouldn't be brought to JM..if u serious about the issue. While I think he was a great young man and this would be sad news for him...and her and the child...its not a reason to absorb him of his responsibility when it comes to the accident. I do wish them all the best tho. I thought they were mature young ppl.

@@TheQueenrevolutionhe paying child support for a child that’s not his. He not getting that money back

Fr 😢 he seem like a nice guy

Agreed His entire being! Extreme level of consciousness.. 💜

Yep, I noticed that too

Very

I couldn't get past that ring in her nose. *sigh* it was distracting.

Looking like the damn walking dead by the eyes

I was looking for this comment.

He said no matter what it said he would be there and she's still his child. I commend him. ❤

This is why I got DNA test on my kid the minute he was born. He is better than me because no way in hell am I raising another man’s child. I didn’t get the fun to make the kid I shouldn’t have the responsibility to pay for it.

@@jamescash887 well that doesn’t exactly make sense. You DID have the fun, you just didn’t get a kid or else you wouldn’t be questioning paternity. Plus the little girl has been in his life for 7 years now, that’s hard to walk away from, especially if she considers him her daddy. But I do get what you’re saying. That’s why people need to stop being sloppy and having sex with multiple people without birth control. Hell, I have an IUD but I’d still make them wrap it up because you never know where they’ve been lol

@@LissyVee Well said!

I agree with you, but I LOVE this profile picture of yours!

yep jailbird, unprotected s*x, laying up in her house. A GOOD MAN 😊

@@TheSolitary1 I was waiting for someone to say this. I can’t for the life of me wrap my head around how he is a “good guy” 😂

unfortunately u only get bad rewards for being a "good guy"

You can't be a little shady

Lol he does that for a lot of men

As always.

😂

He was still responsible.

Right, I see the lil hearts in his eyes

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Yes

at-least she was honest with him about the possibility that it wasn't his kid

I respect all women that are honest about DNA test but there’s a lot of women that lie about DNA test so I believe that there should always be DNA done first for the woman for the child for the man it’s just fair

Yes you are right there is men that lie about paternity and there’s women that lie about it to I think it’s best to do a paternity at birth just for a piece of mine for the man and the woman and the child it’s OK to get a paternity test i’m in a couple of women that lied I had a friend she said it was this guy he pay child support till the kid was 17 then he finally got a paternity test it was never his and she told another guy it was his kid wasn’t his but everybody knew she had slept with the guy that worked at the corner store they had a little affair but she never checked to see if it was his kid she just left it alone after two DNA test that’s wrong I had another friend she was married had four kids with her husband went to Vegas slept with a guy came home raise the kid as if it was her husband one of her kids got sick they did a paternity test and all her kids come to find out the second kid wasn’t even his it was the guy that she slept with in Vegas so do I believe in paternity test yes women do lie men lie and stop all the lying just have a DNA test when the child is born there’s nothing wrong with it it stops all the heartache for the future and it protects the child I am not here to bash a woman I’m not here to bash a man I just believe that everybody should have a DNA test even if you’re married

I did too! ❤

Omg... Likewise me too. And, I'm a man haha. He is so likable! My heart sank at the end with those results 🥹

@@romerobryan4648 He is!! I needs a 1-900 number..."Oh my God, talk reasonably and thoughtfully with well-thought articulation to me"

@@whoisdickieschnabel RIGHT?!?!?! loooool!

It don't take much, huh?

I think he was freeloading he knew it would be an open door situation because he “stepped” up he just putting an act on now

How would child support get him? He didn’t sign her birth certificate and biologically isn’t the father. He likely didn’t get the DNA test because he grew attached to the child.

@@pmgumeebear if he was no good I’m sure she would’ve objected to his testimony and gave her side in court. She nodded along & never disputed what was said about him as a person or father. She also looked sad after the results which speaks to his character and impact as a father to her child. She is likely nervous that her choices may have negative consequence on her child.

@@gigga693 because he playing dad to her child. I never heard that he didn’t sign the birth certificate. Many dudes that ain’t kids fathers end up on child support

Damn, my ex would do that and we’re like 15 years past high school. And as soon I would try to leave (we lived together) he’d prevent it even though he’d simultaneously be screaming GET THE F*CK OUT! Some people are just better off single and I’m not talking about me

Lol.

Lol!! 😆... The defendant is the "Wishing Wel," brotha!! ⚖

@@isiahwarner3087 He is!

💯

😂 riiiight!

How?

Very 😮

No the lying women are weirdos

Hell yeah. He says a whole speech about random stuff and then I'm like ok.... so what are the results?🧐😳🤔🤷🏾‍♀️

@@teneikalaprincess2669 😆 ok that's true

Yesss

And no eye contacts

Well the Gothic look is in for blacks especially women. We would call you a devil worshiper in the 90s if you had that.

@@lakita619 exactly

Doubt it she's handsome asf

Yes, normally I don't agree with these comments but this time?

💯

She attended and bought several admission tickets for Cheeks Clappin' Festival 2013!! Bet 💯%!! 🎟 🎫

@@isiahwarner3087 😆 😆

Exactly! It never makes sense to me. Just raw-dogging with no care in the world about STI's, both curable and incurable such as HIV, herpes...smh

🤣

He has

It will start for him simply by making different decisions. It's called accountability & I think he has learned that now. He should have never messed with this chick knowing she had man. Had he made a different decision on that, 75% of his headache would be gone. He's a good dude. He has what it takes to rebound & excel. I am praying he does well & get himself back on track.

Love this! He needs this energy and opportunities to move forward. Praying for his stability! ❤

😂

Evidently all forms of birth control are unavailable...it's mind blowing...

Nope, we may in inflation but condoms still cheap as hell

@@scottrogue946 like most black women they stay sleeping with multiple dudes without protection... No wonder std rates are so high among the blacks

​@@sheilae.9670abstinence is free. But I know. Folks caaaan't be alone. Just got to haaaaaaave somebody next to them.

She and him

He also knew

How is she nasty?? Both admit knowing there was a possibility of him not being the dad.

I think it’s the color contacts.

Key word: common sense unfortunately she doesn’t use that often. This is sad and I think he always knew the child was not his that’s why it took so long for a test.

If birth control was the answer it would've solved the problem decades ago. It is not, and obviously there is something deeper going on that needs to be corrected. Especially amongst the so called black community.

And use protection🤷🏽‍♀️

there is nothing wrong with fathering or mothering a child that is not your biological seed....we as humans need to do better and just love each other especially children who does not have a choice in being born.

@@mrshappilymarried1 or yall keep your legs closed use your mouth more

He felt bad he wasn’t the father

I saw it coming

@@ayana188 I did too,...but she knew...that's why she at least aint put a name on the baby's paperwork...

You have to prove negligence was he speeding not having a license drinking. She didn't have any thing. Mathis didn't cape this time for her. Most time he would of care this time he didn't care to ask he was done with her😅😅😅😅

I agree, but she seems less bright and less honest.