Kids laugh when parents punish them like that because it's their way of maintaining control in the situation, when they feel like they're not in control of anything else which is just sad
My daughter laughs when I'm starting to lose my cool and it makes me more mad. I discovered very fast though that continuing making her laugh knocks off her bad behavior and we can move on. So now when she's making me mad I make her laugh and we move on.
@BamBabyBrenda you are a good parent continue this because my parents sucked and left me traumatized with the amount of abuse I had to endure like my mother stared choking me and I almost died and honestly I don't know how I am still able to live with her but I have to but it led me to never trusting her so Continue being good so your child will grow up and feel safe with you
Ikr. I would understand if only, say, one out of three kids is misbehaving, maybe something is wrong with that one kid. But when all of your kids are acting like that? Yeah bish, your parenting is the issue.
@@Electrostatic_Fusionnah fr because see, time out chair and talking with the kid about what’s wrong and right = discipline washing a kids mouth with soap = abuse
I don't know how people don't understand that if you want your kids to not hit each other, you shouldn't hit them either, because it teaches them that it's okay to hit people
I mean I’ve been spanked but I do NOT hit others I don’t think that is okay, only in cases like discipline but they def did it wrong Like “your being spanked because you did this, and this is why it’s wrong, please don’t do it again” That’s how my parents did it sooo it worked!
@@humanofthehumanoids Here is the thing. I got whoopings as a kid and I turned out to be angry because of it. As humans our brains are all different and we all respond differently to physical punishments. Lots of kids who does get spanked and got whoopings just grew up to have anger problems just like me. I get the meaning behind whoopings and spankings but some kids will take after what the parents do and copy them or will have mental consequences due to the parents actions.
I agree with that, I think it's more than like JUST the beatings more like where you were brought up, how, the people around you, and that kind of molds how you deal with it all@@dar-ling9036
I would have to disagree bc me and my sister have been spanked b4 and we know not to put our hands on other ppl unless they do it to us first me and my sister came out great but as for my lil siblings they didn't get whoopings, they're not that but they are way less discipline then me and my sister
@ktostam35 I think it's more out of a concern than just pointing out her looks Beacause it's really concerning when a person looks that much older - like they have a though life or smoke too much or something like that
I hate the way the mom acts like she's the victim of the situation, she is hitting, pushing, and forcing soap into her children's mouths and then acting confused when they hate her. Also when Joe was interacting with them they were all calm and polite
Yeah an Ethernet worst thing is that at the end she was like “I feel like I’m a failure and my kids hate me 🥺” OF COURSE YOU HIT THEM AND YOU ALWAYS TREATHEN THEM someone call CPS on those poor kids
The mother doesn't realize is that she was the one to teach the children and raise them. If they're "evil" it's because of her because children can't just be evil out of nowhere
Actually they can, but we teach them how to be a good people by helping and talking to them this things. But in that case, its ALL the parents fault! Poor kids
No i dnt agree with u there my misses her parents are evil and still are till this day too her when was child they hit her bad and she was slave for them she not turned out evil she never layed hand on no one, this mum on show super nanny is bringing her children up wrong yeah but dnt mean the children gonna turn out evil when they grown up coz like I said my misses is prime example they dnt alway turn out evil coz parents abuse them so there u go
I got soap in my mouth once for saying stupid when I was four lol but my parents felt bad and never did it again, probably because it doesn't fix much 🤪
That's what happened with me, my dad didn't force me. I did end up doing it one day and he laughed and I was confused. Stopped swearing as much after. Soap tastes nasty
I used to work at a daycare and everyone couldn’t figure out how I was able to change the children’s bad behaviors. Simple. Remember that EVERYTHING is brand new to them. When is as adults tell them “no”, they need to know WHY!! You can’t just say no and stick them in a corner. where I worked we had what was the equivalent of a “naughty chair”. As per company policy, it was part of my job to put them there when they were acting up. Instead of yelling no at them and putting them in the chair, I would pick them up to carry them over so they would be at my level as to not seem demonstrative over them, and calmly explain why I was placing them in the chair, and tell them WHY so that they had a better understanding of the situation. Worked every time.
I used to hate when my mom would say “because I’m the mom and I said so “ when I would ask why? My dad on the other hand told me why . And he spanned me one time bc I was actually a descent kid. He warned me to allow him to pour the gallon milk into my cereal. He said if I spill it he will spank me. 😂 Of course I spilled it and he spanked me. As an adult I messed with him about my spanking , he said he had to because he said he was going to spank me and if he didn’t , I would lose respect for him. Miss you dad 😥
@@chilling_koala Where was the abuse ? In what world of reading and comprehension did u receive that there was abuse!? No where did I say he abused or harmed me in any manner. That’s called raising your children and correcting them in their youth. Abuse would apply if I said he constantly did it and the punishment was harsh and somewhat v(i)olent that’s abuse. That’s why kids nowadays are driving teachers by the THOUSANDS because of kids that are allowed to do anything they want and no consequences. Let’s take father /daughter out of the equation for a second? If you knew someone who always broke their promises would u still respect them? 😒 Of course not , THUS the reason he had to do it which wasn’t excessive. The last thing any parent should want is a child who doesn’t respect and honor them. And that day , had he not fulfilled his promise, that probably would have been the day I take him for granted and do as I please
@@PettyIsMyMiddleName if we take father/daughter out of the equation, hitting someone on the ass only becomes worse. Quit justifying abuse with essays and incoherent sentences
My dad told me to wash my mouth out with soap so many times and one time I did it and he couldn't stop laughing and told me "it's just a saying" and I was dumbfounded
You cracked me up Layze 🤣🤣🤣 On a serious note 🧐 I really felt for the mum & the kids, I hope Super Nanny was able to help the family & bring some peace & happiness...
Dude that mother should have gone to jail for doing that to children. If she did that to another adult she would have gone to jail for at least 6 months
@@kbkb117 🤣 this whole video had me cracking up. It's impressive to me How he sometimes covers such serious topics without crossing the line and still turning that uncomfortable tension into something funny.
This video reminded me when my mom would do that with the soap. She first used a bar of soap and grind it on my teeth (she had to pay for my braces lol) then used liquid soap and I lied and said I liked it and she got mad so she stopped using the soap method 😂 (yea she was abusive Ik she was like extremely bipolar and refused to get help)
Fun fact little kids like toddlers laugh as a nervous reaction because they dont exactly know how to react to nervousness, so when you threaten your kids or when you catch them doing something bad and they laugh its not them doing it on purpose they just dont know how to respond to you yelling
I understand chemicals, but my grandma would use soap that u can digest and would not make us swallow it, she only did it when we said bad words, like wash our potty mouth with soap, but she only did it for taste, she would make us wash it out after
Spanking your kids makes them hate you, not respect you. Thats not how you get them to act better. Have these parents tried I DUNNO TALKING to the kids like fellow humans?? Awesome video bestie killing it as always! 🎉
@@natashasnursesnotes communication is a big part of giving and receiving respect. I have never hit or spanked or otherwise physically “disciplined” either one of my kids. IMO thats not discipline, its abuse, plain and simple. My kids are awesome. They treat people with respect and act correctly, and that’s because I literally just talk to them about things.
No they need spankings, if it's with just your hand or a slipper then it's fine, that's why kids are evil now and don't listen, because they don't get spankings, I was spanked, but it was horrible when my dad did it, now that's bad, that was abuse how he did it
@@CBrown86 as Asian. I think that sometimes physical discipline is necessary. The kids sometimes goes too far but yea hit them once or twice. But my aunt hit her kid continuously and he is always disrespectful and legit screams everywhere and he always push her button cuz he knows the she gonna get angry and chase after him. She complain every time how her son is the reason she is depressed and all. Makes me annoyed really
I mean, you'd be surprised how many people believe having kids (or having more kids) can magically fix a problem or a relationship. I had a friend years ago who thought getting a dog would help her semi-rocky relationship with her boyfriend. It didn't. The relationship began to get slowly worse. She then thought that having a kid with him would help. It didn't. She's now a single mother. Having kids is not a magical fix and I'm unsure why so many people think it will be.
My grandma used to put soap in my mom’s mouth when she misbehaved. My mom told me how that made her feel as a kid and swore she’d never do that to me or my siblings. She never did and I never will do that to mine either
Lowkey my parents made me feel like the devil child growing up and now I have no self-esteem as a near-21-year-old. I don't have any friends because I never got my emotional dysregulation under control and I'm scared I'm going to make them mad at me and then they won't be my friend anymore; it's happened before.
I’m old (50) so I got some old school punishments like getting my ass whacked with a wooden spoon or a fly swatter (whatever my mom had in her hand) and once I had to sit with a bar of soap in my mouth because I said a bad word. My kids didn’t really get spankings, it was more time outs in a chair, losing toys… My oldest got a light spank and a time out in the chair for kicking me in the face when I was trying to take his shoes off and he pitched a tantrum. He caught me right in the nose. He got a god talking to from both of us about that one. My youngest was the biggest problem. He didn’t learn from normal discipline but from old school example learning. He used to bite. He once bit my oldest so bad… I’m surprised he doesn’t still have marks from it today. Nothing had worked up to that point and that was the breaking point. I used my grandmother’s method. I bit him back, not hard but hard enough that it hurt a bit. He yelled and started to cry. I yelled at him and asked if it felt good, he tearfully said no. I asked if he thought it felt good when he did it to his brother, he tearfully said no. I told him never do it again. He stopped after that because he finally got it. This was also the same kid that when we told him not to touch the burner, it was hot, he touched it and burned his hand 🤦🏻♀️ It’s like he never believed what we told him and always had to find out for himself. It was frustrating.
I think people should stop doing this as a punishment the soap can be toxic and i think there are better ways to punish a child or just talk to them/scold them with wise words.
I cursed once when I was little. My mom made me hold a bar of soap in my mouth for 30 seconds. I hated it and never cursed again. It taught me my lesson. But my mom also calmly explained WHAT I did wrong, WHY it was wrong, WHY I was getting punished this way, and WHAT would happen if I did this in the future. This mom just yells at her kids and uses the same punishment which is obviously ineffective on them. *edit*: I also was not fed the soap, I just had to hold it in my mouth. I didn’t swallow anything
The soap used to be a punishment for swearing to "wash their mouth out" but now, since soap doesn't taste bad like it used to, it's not such a deterrent as a harmless punishment anymore.
My mom and her 4 siblings would always get their mouth rubbed with soap whenever they would do/ something bad. My mom and her siblings had an abusive dad. And the worst part is that they didn’t know any better.
Words are more clear than violence. I dont believe in using violence to teach children. With the way i grew up, i learned that my parent used words as weapons. So verbal abuse is also worse than physical abuse. I swear children are way too misunderstood.
It’s actually possible to put a child’s life at risk by using soap to wash out their mouth…allergic reactions, throat swells up, can’t breathe, intestinal issues…I also read a child went blind due to this being done by their parent, really sad story.
Omg I had to eat SO much soap as a kid in the 80s sometimes just for being in the same room as my Mother when she was pissed off. My mother HATED kids and there were 3 of us. ALL the soaps, I can tell you the flavor profile 😂
"DO YOU WANT MORE?" "Yes. yes i do" "THEN ILL GIVE IT TO YOU" "i dare you, the camera is recording all of this babes they gonna call cps on you and ill be laughing at you getting arrested"
I’m a gen x’s raised in 70’s. I ate soap constantly. My brother and I compared flavors. Dial was the worst! Redkin was ok and Lava… really cleaned out our tongues. I never grew up with a desire to eat soap. So then I progressed to cussing… mom progressed to coating my tongue with cream of tarter. 🤮. We were never ever at this level.
As children, me and my sisters got a lot. Yeah, child services were probably notified. You gotta laugh. Or else, you will cry😝 Thank God I do not have kids, I love them, but no! Thank you for your content!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻
Nowadays kids are more bratty and spoiled because the parents won’t teach them or discipline them correctly. Soap is usually for those who curse at a young age. When I was a child I was taught and spanked with a belt after that my mom put me in a corner or in my room and told me to rethink wat I did wrong. It worked I didn’t do anything stupid or bad after that.
As a kid who was punished in all of those ways because of behaviors i exhibited that are now very clearlg apart of my neurological disorders, i can guarantee all those did was fuck me up more and make me feel like everything i did was a mistake, no matter how hard i tried to be normal. I got the soap, hit, a babysitter put hotsauce on my fingers cause i was chewing them. Guess what, i had cuts on my fingers so that was fun/sar When i was screaming and crying cause i missed my mom, they'd put duct tape on my mouth to shut me up while i sat in time out ((they claim that never happened, but i remember it clearly)) I remember being hit with a belt once I was definitely spanked, and usually for dumb things such as not changing the channel to something my guardian wanted to watch because he didnt want to watch "Lego bullshit", even though i was home sick and he was just coming up from the basement to eat. I was always unsupervised.
This is literally close to how my parents act. Even to the point she yells at the top of her lungs, (we weren't even that bad of kids) now she wonders why we're always so quiet when she walks into the room with us, we got yelled at for everything we did pretty much, even smacked us with anything she had in her hand, she once threatened to smack me with the stirry thing she was cooking food with. And she wonders why her kids don't like her/talk to her lol!
Love how the nanny her self was like why tf are u feeding them soap , a story I wanted to share , so after a flood we needed to leave the area and took shelter in a neighbor's house , then we met another neighbor and her kid , aka the troubled kid (in her mom's eyes a demon ) but ! , in our view a troubled kid , she was repeating her mom's ur a filthy dog to her .... don't blame the kid ! , we came and actually spoke to the kid and whenever she ask a question we answered and talked to her like an actual human being ( why can't I touch that , aka the trash and ext ) ofc babysitting her and all ,, she was calling me and my mom the real mommy and big sis.... was heart breaking she was venting to my mom ab " why mommy calls me a a filthy dog , I'm not " she was only 4 , good ending is that she's her dad's girl and he's a wonderful dad to the kid , yes mom talk to her ab her parenting the moral of the story " hey treat others as u would like to be treated , kind and caring yk " and ab the flood everyone was ok
