@@BeautifulDelights951 Maybe it's because he knew people would hate Godly people. I had a situation where my son would skip school and smoke drug with his girlfriend. I told my wife he shouldn't do that and she pretty much wouldn't say anything to him about it. My wife and his girlfriend got into an argument in my front yard and the boat called the cops on my wife and lied that my wife hit her. Fast forward 3yrs later my wife hangs out with them but I won't have anything to do with her. We are at separate ends of it cuz I detest the girlfriend
@@jukejoint523jordan6 Sorry to hear about your situation. It's a tricky dynamic parents and children. I wonder if we put more emphasis on our marriages, and spouses work together, then maybe parents can handle and guide their children better. The relationship between a mother and her children is always different to that of the father and the children, both are still needed. It's hard, not easy.
Young adults know disrespect there parents and grandparents the more you do for them the more they disrespect you. PRAY 🙏 FOR ME. I agree 100 precent with the pastor.
Praying n Jesus name..It gets better going through alot with grown meth addict son...Its one of the most hurtful evil&stupid you have ever know! Help all Father God remember me & husband n Jesus name..ty praise u
Im going to ask my parents for forgiveness. I had been extremely disrespectful to them and I need to apologize big time for the things I’ve done and said. I know I’ve done wrong to them but I will make amends for all the horrible things that I’ve done. I’m not a Christian nor do I follow any of the Abrahamic faiths but I still agree with this pastor’s message.
It takes a real man to own up to your mistakes,God loves you and He sees the sincerity in your heart. You are loved by God and me. I don't have to know you to love you. Jesus did the exact thing for me,He loved me before i even knew Him. Anil i'm so proud of you,i'm decreeing and declaring totally restoration for you and your family. It was a message you were meant to see. I'm excited for you a healing for your family is taking place!!!
@@charlestine6786 thank you so much, god bless I appreciate it. I’m ready to make amends for all of my wrongs. I’ve been doing good since I’ve repaired my relationship with my parents. Thank you for your kind words, I appreciate it a lot. 🥰🥰🥰
WOW. I’ve been through hell and then some. I’ve been to the point where I seriously doubt myself as a single mother and a provider. When I did all I could do worked 3 jobs and tried my very best to protect them every day. I knew they were blessings to me and I hadn’t done anything to deserve ❤️them. I tried praying 🙏🏾 and I haven’t stopped. My pain is so deep where I’m physically sick when I’m around one of my child. LORD all I desire is peace and my adult child to change their mindset and give there live to Jesus. Because no matter the pain and disrespect I’ve received from my child. It’s time I seriously don’t know if we every feel that motherly love I once had. I’m BROKEN and yet I love and only want the best. Prayers 🙏🏾
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I wish you well and may Jehovah change your story. It's so sad to stay in a home where there is no peace but exchange of swear words. Really wish you well and the God that parted the red sea for the children of israel may He part your sea in Jesus Christ name
I wholeheartedly agree with this message. That’s why I stayed loving and honouring my mother who still abuses me! Who has always abandoned and rejected me. I still care for her health and everything but I’m literally dead inside. I know no other life … I wonder what her punishment will be for doing this to me? What was it the Bible said: Parents Lay Up for Your Children, Parents do not discourage / drive your children to Wrath.
So sorry you were abused Pamela 😢 God is going to bless you big time because you did what he would have done, rather than doing what you wanted to do. Love bears all things, love changes hearts 💕 you keep up the good work and you will reap what you sow ( good seeds and good fruits). Stay strong 💪 ❤
Your life sounds as if you were me I have lived the same life abandoned by my mother raised by my grandmother and have been on my own since as long as I can remember but when I was baptized at age 32 years old the Holy Spirit showed me that demon that had my mother the drugs she was using she was not capable of raising me and my sisters so she gave me to the one that she knew that would love me and raise me until the woman that I am today I do not hate her I love her all the more but I just want to let you know you are a blessed individual God sees your hurt and your pain and by you being honorable to your mother God will bless you as long as you live
My two adult sons ages 20 and 25. He has described them 💯. Don't appreciate nothing or listen. I went through teenage parent trauma. I'm at peace in my home now. I asked them to leave.
@@msleelee2986 also there’s no such thing as teenage parent trauma. Raising your own child isn’t a traumatic event , use words properly and not for your convenience.
Imagine disrespect..to the point of a grown child adult, jumping in you're face..to the point you feel the heat from their breath,🔥. Nothing can compare to this." So trust me ..first hand , I know.🙏"
When we hear this scripture, we always associate it with younger children, teens and even though that pertains to those age groups, I'm glad that someone is telling the truth of the matter. My God, Thank you cause I have a sibling who is disrespectful towards our dad. They just don't know, smh...
I too just thought it applied to young children. I do not understand when adults treat their parents so bad. And if you dont like your parents.. YOU ARE GROWN so you CAN LEAVE your parents alone and move on.
Such a timely message! He’s right that a monumental amount of children have gladly taken all their parents lovingly gave & sacrificed for them, only to be snubbed and lied about and publicly humiliated as these punks now cry on social media to anyone who will listen about how bad their parents were🙄 . It is disgusting and disgraceful and I have no sympathy for them. They have willingly chosen to listen to the lies of Satan, whose goal is to see that they spend eternity in hell. As the Bible puts it, “Thinking themselves wise they became fools . . .” Yep!
@@livefromtheground7274 I did to and I started praying for my Parents as I prayed for myself. Prayed goodness that the Lord clear our minds from haunting thoughts of past hurts. Prayed that the Lord search our hearts and heal the wounded places leaving no place for pain to hide. Prayed when they were feeling sick. Prayed when they leave the house. If A bad thought came to mind Prayed against it with positivity. Quite frankly told the Lorx in complete transparency and he heard my hearts cry IF I have to continue to carry on feeling like this I don't want to be here anymore. The Lord heard me. It took time. He tested the fruits of my lips. And it took time but I learned to speak a little bit gentler. Started shutting down negativity around me and creating a space of peace. Being intentional to engage with my parent and it was awkward coming out of that space I lived in so long but to the Lord be the Glory He laid that path of healing and I walked in it. And when the enemy ( past trauma anger resentment rejection bitterness ) came I spoke against it acknowledged it took two to three years All I can say is be sincere and transparent with the Lord. Complete Honestly. He will walk with you through it to the end.
Yeeees, and that's what it is all about: That lying nasty imp Satan!!!!! Get thee behind me Satan in the name of Yeshua, I fight you in the blood of the lamb!!!!! Good parents, the devil has taken them over; but they WILL pay for disrespecting the Creator and their parents!
@@livefromtheground7274 Me too. It's so painful. No, I was not a perfect mother, but I gave blood, sweat, a n d tears. My son only calls me when he wants something. Now, I'm learning to set boundaries. Now I was physically, emotionally, and abused my my sperm donor. I will NEVER honor him. PERIOD!
thank you im going through this now with a 20 year old son and especially my 23 year old daughter whom I raised alone,because their father passed at the age of 3 and 5
Have things changed with your daughter? My 23 year old daughter is absolutely horrible right now. She even says she wished I didn’t have her because I messed up her life.
@@merrytunes8697 That sounds like manipulation(a very horrible thing to say)...no matter the situation, some things we should not say to our parents or be sorry and apologise after..anything involving the mentioning of death or wishing it is abusive full stop...don't take it on. At 23 your daughter is responsible for her own like life and needs to be more respectful in her communication.
Thank you and God bless you this word is long long long over do,so true 💯🔥 🙏 on everything, wish every pastor could preach this at the same time one Sunday,LOUD AND CLEAR,, everywhere the children are lost,we need to speak it in our homes all so,
I wasn't a perfect parent but my adult daughters especially one turned on me. My dad has too. I don't understand it because im good to everyone. I see so much oain in these comments and i wish this on nobody.God bless you all.
A lot of this is the parents fault... because the parents today are friends with the kids instead of being they parents... smoking weed and drinking 🍸 with the kids...
On one hand yes, you should extend grace to your parents but that does not mean that you can't call them out on their b******t. And, let's be clear about something; the past few years have really shown that many older people are elders in age only. I can't have an intelligent honest conversation with my mother. I have to treat her like a special-needs child now because of her lack of emotional maturity combined with religiosity.
Both of my adult daughters have been very disrespectful to me for years and I ignored it because I didn’t want to loose them. I had my oldest at 16 ( She’s 40 now ) and she’s always been VERY verbally abusive to me and my other daughter ( she’s 32 ) has ALWAYS treated everyone else so much better than she does me and every one thinks that she’s this nice young lady but they have no idea how she treats me. I was married to their covert narcissist dad for 37 years and finally left for good 4 years ago. My younger daughter was diagnosed with breast cancer a year ago at 31 years old long story short we found out that her and my 40 year old daughter carry the gene that causes both breast cancer and ovarian cancer and they inherited it from their father which this is crazy to me because my family has the history of cancer my mom died when she was 59 of ovarian cancer and my grandma had breast cancer my ex husbands family doesn’t have a history of cancer so when I got tested we all thought I was the one that carried the gene ( it doesn’t skip a generation) but it ended up that I don’t have the gene it’s my ex husband that does and what I thought was crazy is that both of my abusive daughters have the gene and so does my abusive ex husband but my son who has never treated me horrible and has always treated me with respect even if he didn’t agree with me tested negative and so did I so part of me wondered if my daughters ended up with this gene because of the way they treat me but I actually felt bad for even thinking that but now I wonder if it’s true after listening to this video. My daughter went through chemotherapy and is in remission ( Thank God ) she ended up getting a double mastectomy and is getting a hysterectomy in the future and my oldest daughter is having surgery but we’re not talking right now so I have no idea what’s going on with that ~ I finally stood up to my daughters and now they’re not talking to me.
PRAY FOR YOUR CHILDREN AS YOU HAVE THE SPIRITUAL AUTHORITY OVER YOUR CHILDREN. LOVE THEM NO MATTER WHAT. ASK THE HOLY SPIRIT TO HELP YOU. SLOWLY BUT SURELY, GOD WILL CHANGE THEM FROM SIN. GOD WANTS US ALL IN HIS KINGDOM. GOD BLESS YOU!!
If your left eye offend you, pluck it out. If your right hand offend you chop it off. These are actually members of the body. Anybody hindering your walk with God should be dismissed.
I believe he is using the expression simply to describe an adult who is someones child. It is common that a parent in answering the question of whether or not they have children they reply “I have x amount of adult children”. Of course the there are those who simply say “my children are adults”.
Look at God. I was just asking God was I in the wrong with my kids. It's 2:30am and I couldn't sleep because my kids have been so rude to me as if they were right because they are adults. This is God wanting me to know it's my children and not me.
A Message to Parents! God sees your tears and knows your disappointment! He feels your pain and understands and knows the sacrifices you made for your children! He knows how it feels because we disrespected God and dishonored him in our lives, but yet He forgave us…🙌🏽✨🙌🏽 And as heart wrenching as it can be sometimes to listen to their complaints and disrespect… He wants us to continue to pray for them …lay them at the feet of Jesus and forgive them… “For they know not what they do” God forgave us… We must forgive our children! 🙏🏽
Soooo……. We just gonna leave out the part of the Bible that says for parents to not provoke children. That’s why there’s going to be billions of parents pushed into the lake of fire because you think you have a free pass- when the majority of us got here via fornication anyway. Most of you are gonna be surprised that God is no respect of persons as soon as the flames touch your feet
Thank you so much Pastor Creflo Dollar..My name is Lisandra and I am from Papua New Guinea..I always disrespect my old widow mother..your message has changed me completely.. please pray for me coz as of today ..I will honor my mother and take care of her as long as she lives..
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Dear San Lee , ask her for forgiveness on your knees as a sign of RESPECT. Gift her and show her LOVE even if she doesnt return it , do your part according to God. You will live long! This is the only commandment with a promise.
Amen 🙏🏼 this is 💯 on point. Disrespectful children of ANY age will have consequences from God. The Bible says “Honor your Mother and Father” and it will be good for you and you will live a long life. So disrespectful children may think they’re big, bold and bad but the TRUTH is they will LOSE blessings. ESPECIALLY when a child had parents who loved them and sacrificed so much for them. It’s a very hurtful thing and I pray for those children to Repent and give their lives to the Lord before it’s too late.
My dear daddy, a man who truly loved the Lord,his wife and children, passed away when I was in college. My dear mother passed away in my arms. All the love and sacrafices my loving parents made for me. God blessed me to take such care of my mom. She passed away at age 92 in my arms. All is well with me because of how I honored and took care of my mom. Today, I want for nothing and I have a long good life ahead!!!Thank you Jesus...
HONOR IS RECOGNIZING WHO QUALIFIES FOR YOUR UNDIVIDED ATTENTION. HUMILITY IS THE ABSENCE OF SELF. HUMILITY IS THE GARMENT OR CLOAK OF GREATNESS. HUMILITY PRECEDES HONOR.
Amen. This is 2 of my adult children - every day. I lean on God for His direction and strength and have had to pull away from them to save my sanity and self esteem.
Yes, and whose causing it? The same people God told to not provoke their children- y’all will find out when y’all are getting pushed into the lake of fire for disobeying God, because 98% of you all got pregnant by way of fornication, and think God is going to let it slide because you got knocked up during the process.
My husband and I sacrificed and did without to save enough for both daughters to go to college. They both graduated and got great jobs. They have no college debt, and both married and own homes. As each daughter turned 30 they turned their back on us. Now my husband has cancer, and they have abandoned us. I have two grandsons, and the youngest I have never met. It breaks our hearts. Both my husband and I respected and cared for our parents. My Dad called me every morning, and I cherish the memories of those calls. Our girls grew up with all their grandparents in their lives. I see that this is widespread. I lift up those parents whose adult children have turned their backs on them. God Bless them!
I am so sorry you and your husband are going through this. My adult daughters drive past me to go to their dad's. He and I weren't perfect parents by any means but I turned my life around while he steals from them and uses them. I don't understand it. I'm finding too that there's a lot of estrangement in families. Not just families like mine either. I'm terribly sorry. I feel all the pain of these parents reading these comments. I will always love my children but they can hurt you so bad. I pray that your husband is doing better and you have found a way to fill that void in your lives. God bless you and keep you.
They didn’t turn their back on you, theh felt u simply weren’t somebody that was worth having around due to your character & behaviors . People of advanced age playing victim and not taking accountability for why others don’t want to mess with them is sad
My mom is toxic and plays the people in her family against each other. When I was in my 30s I had to pull way back from her and I prayed and studied the word and God showed me how to set boundaries and still be in respectful honoring relationship with her. It has to be very surface and is not a deep rich relationship but I am able to honor her
Your duty is to respect her regardless. One of my nieces parents were strung out on crack. They never disrespected their parents. Same for me and mine discarded me. I didn't want to die young like like my disrespectful dad. You don't answer to your parents, you answer to God. So be careful. Pray and ask God to help you.
This is the teaching that’s needed!! Parents are suffering and being emotionally abused and manipulated by their children who are disrespectful and refuse to see the sacrifices their parents have made!
This goes both ways. Every week you turn on the TV a family has left this earth at the hands of other family members. Also a lot of parents are absent. If something isn't healthy you don't force it.
LMFAO ! Parents don’t make sacrifices. Hopping in bed then doing what you’re legally required to do isn’t a “sacrifice”. Parents aren’t abused by kids - power dynamics don’t even work like that. You all make spotting the Narc parents so easy . Kudos to your children for not putting up with the BS . Kids don’t need to see what u needed to do as a result of u not using protection
@@Bb-jm6wxyou are clueless! There are a few bad parents but most work hard for their babies & sacrifice everything only to see self entitled children NEVER GROW UP & REMAIN IMMATURE!
@@Solidrock-jq6rp there aren’t a few bad ones, there’s a host of bad ones. I’m not clueless, the ones defending abusers are. The fact that the word “sacrifice” was used is a giveaway of a bad parent , all that was sacrificed was condom use. And bad parents are the emotionally immature ones, by definition. Can’t even take accountability for their actions and behaviors and wonder why nobody wants to deal with them. They don’t work hard for their babies. They treat them like crap and are selfish and do what they want to do and neglect em. Bad Parents are the self entitled ones , parents owe the kids everything & kids don’t owe their parents a thing. The parent effed and brought the kids here, not the other way around .
This has been a painful truth in my life. I wondered what I'd done to cause it, I knew in my heart that I had done my best. God knows, and I know. I don't claim to be perfect but I loved and provided for them. Taught them to have faith in God, wisdom and knowledge. Then they just "turned" on me like I was an enemy! My faith comforts me and I pray God's mercy on them. To abandon a parent in their senior years is heartless. I pray for myself too, that my heart doesn't grow bitter. Thanks for speaking on this sir. It's an epidemic today.
Thank You Pastor Creflo. I had 7 children. I lost my oldest in 2019 from suicide, but my wife and I raised all seven of them together. My 3 oldest were from a ex girlfriend, but we got custody of them when they were really young. Now I will be the first to say that I am not the best, but I tried my best to be a father. I went over 30 years without seeing my father, but I loved him all the same. None of my children have been in trouble with the law. Five have graduated High School. Two have graduated college and 3 in the military. I may have been a little hard, but I know as young black children growing up without a lot of means you have to work harder. Still my oldest adult children can be so disrespectful to me and my wife. It really hurts sometimes, especially knowing how much we've sacrificed and been through to get them where they are
AMEN AMEN, BROTHER, I'M GOING TO THE #SAME THING WITH MY #2 OLDEST DAUGHTER. I HAD THEM #EXTREMELY YOUNG AND I #SACRIFICED MY LIFE 2 #NURTURE AND #RAISE THEM #HOW GOD SAID 2 RAISE THEM UP😇🙏
I understand, that ungrateful, mindless behavior all to well..but God has our back...what they do will cone back to them..As the same for us with are parents. My father died when I was 11,and my mom was what she should have been,and at times its hard to deal with her,but I still respect her,I haven't talk to her in a few months cause I'm done on hard times but I love my mom and will take care of her when she needs me
@@maureenbolden8451 may be, but I was raised in the Church by my grandmother. My dad wasn't around and my mom was not all there. Still I could never distract neither of them. I was taught a disrespectful child's days are numbered. Plus I had a very religious grandmother with a heavy hand. She firmly believed in if you spare the rod you spoil the child. Maybe I should have taken more of her approach, but I did raise my children in the Church. Kids these days are just so uncanny in their life these days
Yes my grown kids turned on me and encouraged their friends to do so as well... they think that because they are grow we are equal! I'm just trusting the Lord at his word!
@Stacy Palmer, if by "equal" you mean they realized they have the same legal rights you do, then they are correct. They ARE equal in that regard. this doesn't mean they shouldn't show you courtesy; without a doubt, they should do that, and should remember to ask themselves how Jesus would perceive (1) what they are saying and (2) how they are saying it. But let's not confuse being entitled to respect and courtesy with being entitled to unquestioned obedience, and let's not forget that just as our children should be courteous and respectful to us, we owe them the same and should be courteous and respectful to them, too, even when we sharply disagree with what they have decided to do with themselves and their time. Being told no by your kids when you are having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that actually, they CAN do things without your permission or approval is one of the hardest things that we parents have to learn to live with once that 18th birthday comes around. Watching them (temporarily in many cases) make decisions that we think are not going to turn out well, or which show rejection of biblical values and acceptance of worldliness, is painful. But ultimately, it is their right to do so, and our responsibility as parents to quietly bind their minds and ours too to the mind of Christ, loosing from both of us any stronghold that cause us to hang onto wrong thoughts, attitudes, desires, and behaviors. It is our responsibility to ask the Lord to remove from our children the effects of mistakes we made in the process of raising them and in the way that we have interacted with them as adults. This is the kind of prayer that too many parents have too much pride to ever utter. Defensiveness rises up and we justify ourselves with, "I was a great mom/dad", "I sacrificed so much for that child", "I did the best I could", etc. The reality is that some days your best may have been superb, but other days, your best wasn't that great or may not at all have been what should have happened at the moment. Letting go of defensiveness and pride, and being willing to pray this kind of a prayer, is liberating and becomes life giving and life changing in troubled relationships. Early on, the words you choose speak volumes to your child about the degree to which you (the parent) submit yourself to Christ and model that submission to Christ. It's so easy, so tempting, and so common to day, "Do it because I said to do it. I'm the parent and I make the rules." Are you the parent? Of course. But compare this statement to, "Do it because the rule in this house is that we live to please Christ. We can see in the book of Ephesians chapter 4 that God tells his people to avoid coarse jesting ad obscenity. We are his people, which means we must avoid those things. We can see in the book of Joshua chapter 7 that sin done in secret by one person has a negative effect on the whole group. Your actions can have a negative effect on the rest of us here. Because God gave me this house, he expects me and those that he placed here to live in agreement with his word. So, thus and so is the rule, and if we want to die in right standing with God, we're going to have to all follow that rule. It's for me just as much as it's for you." God is ALWAYS going to have authority over us. But you're not always going have the legal right to be in authority over your child. If your relationship is based on dominating and exercising your authority, you won't have much of a basis for a relationship once somebody's 18th birthday says you don't have that authority any more. On the other hand, if your model of authority demonstrates an obedience to a God whose authority will never end, then as the child matures, not only are they obedient to you, but you are also discipling them into lifelong obedience to Christ. Does this mean they are guaranteed to never make a stupid decision, rebel, or be disobedient? No. At times, young, middle aged, and older adults make stupid decisions and rebel against God. If you have raised them showing that your own authority is simultaneously an act of submission to Christ, then you will have trained them up in the way they should go, and in those moments of them seeming to have lost their minds, you can continue to speak the word over them that when they are old, they will not depart from the Lord's ways. And again, I call to mind the fact that not even the best parent modeled submission to Christ perfectly 100% of the time; there are times our children saw us do things we shouldn't have, or speak using words we shouldn't have, or heard songs or watched movies or videos that did not glorify the Lord and which made sin look cool, glam, and fun. That is why is is so important to ditch our pride and ask the Lord to remove from our children the effects of mistakes we made.
@@romniejones1004 Actually, the Bible does speak of parents respecting children just as it instructs children to honor their parents. There is an often ignored scripture which reads, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath....".
@@tincredible yea but it doesn’t mention a consequence and one is not always because of the other sometimes parents don’t really do anything wrong and the child is just an ungrateful brat.
Amen! Alleluia 🙏 Yes, i think the disrespect and dishonor that adult children show today to their parents is a sign of their disrespect and lack of love for God.
What is underneath the "disrespect" of parents? Pain? Maybe listen and have empathy. Yes, demand respect but give them the grace to express their pain. Respect does go both ways.
That's not always why these kids in this generation disrespect parents.THEY THINK THEY KNOW MORE,THEY DONT WANT TO FOLLOW RULES,AND GET MAD WHEN TOLD ANYTHING NO MATTER HOW NICE AND RESPECTFUL ITS SAID..THEY TALK SMART,ROLL EYES WHEN TOLD ABOUT HARD WORD INTEGRITY AND GOOD MORALS...SO NO I DONT AGREE WITH YOU BECAUSE IM LIVING IT...AND I REFUSE TO BE DISRESPECTED IN MY HOUSE BY SOMEONE WHO HAS NEVER HAD TO GO THROUGH ANYTHING, HAS BEEN WELL TAKEN CARE OF AND HAD THE BEST...THAT WILL CAUSE A GOOD PARENT TO GO OFF...AND ANYBODY RUNNING THERE MOUTH ABOUT RESPECTING A DUSRESPECTFUL KID OF ANY AGE CAN HAVE SEVERAL SEATS,BECAUSE THAT MINDSET IS APART OF THE PROBLEM!!!
This can be a dangerous type of teaching. Because the LORD knows everyone situation. YES. We are to love, forgive, and respect all even if they did wrong towards us. But the spirit of the LORD have been leading many people to pull away from their parents and family as a whole nowadays for a reason. Yes. God's word never changes for anyone and it rings true forever. However when we teach subjects on this level we are teaching it in away of idolatry almost. No. They shouldn't abuse their parent in any fashion, shape, or form. But that adult child have every right to live a separate life from them altogether if need be. There are many parents that are under the spirits of pride, ego, arrogance, rebellion, witchcraft (which is a form of rebellion), and the Jezebel spirit. And they absolutely REFUSE to acknowledge it, get help or delivered from it, or repent for it. They try to rule and control over their children's life, and make themselves a form of a god. Then try to play the victim to everyone else. But GOD knows the truth. These spirits dominate in families around the world as a whole. And GOD IS SAYING ENOUGH. HE is choosing to put a stop to this, and raising certain people up in families to come up against it. Nothing and no one is supposed to be above GOD or take HIS place period, point, blank. Not self, parents, spouse, child, job, money, pastor, or whatever the case maybe. Absolutely nothing is supposed to get God's glory or praise. And when you come from certain families, you simply have to break free from this altogether. And everyone will understand, and that is absolutely okay. It wasn't meant for them to understand. You have to do what God tell you to do. Go where HE tell you to go, and say what HE tell you to say. And we need to stop being quick to condemn others based off of certain decisions they are making in their lives. This kind of preaching sound like something from the religious spirit, and he's even teaching it with tremendous anger, as if he is directing it to one of his children or something. I pray his strength in the LORD, and that he choose to grow in GOD'S love, grace, mercy, compassion, passion, forgiveness, love, healing, peace, joy. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH.
One of my grandsons is getting married this weekend. He did not invite his mother, me or his great grandmother (my mother) even though for the little my mother gets in social security she gave him a place to sleep, food, and wanted WIFI to use his cell phone, but never contributed a dime even though he worked. He was being spoiled terribly. I did not approve of how he behaved many times. And I challenged him. The bum could have at least helped pay some of the bills he incurred. His mother and great grandmother defended him. And he snubbed them both. I can understand he did not invite me, I would not have gone anyway. But my daughter and my mother do not deserve this. They did so much for him. Their feelings are hurt. They didn't expect this kind of treatment. I was not surprised, I know he's a taker, not a giver, so my feelings were not hurt. I feel bad for his new wife, she doesn't know what's coming. He never introduced her to us for a reason.
This is good. Preach this on 9:00 am show on TV .young people need to hear this , this help parents it terrible these children . Cuss you out, try to fight you
My soon to be 17 year old daughter is extremely disrespectful towards me. She had me go to jail over her false allegations. I promise once she is 18 she is getting out of my house forever.
It's taught behavior. They're teaching our children phrases like "I don't feel safe at home" in schools. I worked in both law and social Services-I tried to warn people about cashing in on our kids, dividing them away from parents back in the 1990s I'm the only white blue-eyed parents in the family, the marriage was based on the wealth I had & taken away and these ungrateful children came back from college calling me "N.az.i." Human brain is not fully formed until 26 years old-I beg you to protect yourself, but do not ban your daughter from your life. She's going to need you more than ever.
Angels stop believing that bs about a damn adult brain not being developed until age of 26. So why was our great grandparents…grandparents and parents married before 20 raisiing a family..working jobs..saving and providing. That’s a bunch of bs and that’s why these fully grown adults take advantage of these silly parents in the good old USA. If your daughter is like that at 17 and no respect put her arze out before we hear about you on the news.
Girl I put my disrespectful kids ass out of my house and then I sold it and bought a small house an hour away that don’t have room for no one but me. I am done with the BS . My life is now so peaceful and quiet and calm . No more bad energy and negative , disrespectful , ungrateful ass brats bringing me down .
@@megalou6567 Honey I salute you for valuing your peace. Doing what you had to do for you. As of now my now 18 year daughter is out of my home. She can't come back. I love her from a distance. I help her from time to time. But I don't put a lot of my time and energy into her. She now has to taste what being an adult is all about!! She has to find her own way. My peace above all else!!!
These words are so true.I have a daughter that fights me and curse me out and I'm letting her and her kids live in my house, because she can't live with none of her so called friends 😮💨😥
The best thing you can do is to get her out of your house as the disrespect will only grow as she will only continue to take advantage of you & disrespect you as long as she is staying there & being taken care of.
OMG! He just described my son. He is the ONLY Human thus Far who Actually is Telling this Truth in the Media. Everyone else is Telling the Parents to Pray, Love, Forgive basically ACCEPT This Unacceptable Behavior from our Children. Please Keep TELLING Mr. Creflo what Society FEFUSE to say and do. I HEAR U. Thank u!
I still love my daughter and I will always pray for her and my grandchildren; however I have given up on wanting a relationship with her. Lord knows I've been through it,but now I'm at peace.
@@goldenhouse1537 yes because you’re 20s is when and where you learn about life and when you learn how you were treated badly the entire time. They realized they were brainwashed their entire childhood. Look in the mirror 🪞!
@@AngJones-di6wgbeing born 😂 no child plays a part, parents of today don’t take accountability for their parenting skills . They sleep around then blame the child
My mother raised us to honor and respect parents and uncles and aunts and grandparents. Today I’m so glad I was obedient and obeyed her. This next generation what a mess. So very sad for them.
I’m trying to give Creflo Dollar the benefit of the doubt and assume he’s coming from a good place (and also to not hold his own parenting history against him), but this clip highlights a big reason many people end up leaving the Church. So often ministers preach “children obey your parents” and how much is owed to a parent but it is VERY rare that they preach about how to be a good parent. In fact as someone who grew up in the church, I’ve only heard one sermon directed at parents. Dollar’s message can very easily be understood as saying that adult children have an obligation to put up with abuse from their parents. Even if that’s not his intention many abusive parents will take it as such and impart that to their kids.
Speaking from experience I strongly feel sometimes to honor and respect your parents you need to cut them off. My mother is so verbal and mental abusive that i can not deal with her regularly. She has put me down, cursed me out and belittled me for years all because the bible says honor your mother. Her favorite lines are the bible says 'honor your parents" and " you only have one mom" . The bible says honor your parents. It does not say your parents have a right to treat you like shit and you have to take it. Crefo is from that generation where they instilled in children no matter what your parents do to you you have to take it. Some Parents especially Mothers feel they can mistreat there children anyway they want because they are the mom. The bible also say Parents dont be quick to anger your children. So I honor my mom by keeping my distant so I want have to be disrespectful.
How come nobody preach about this verse which comes right after honoring your mother and father?Eph 6:4 4 PARENTS do not provoke your children to anger; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. Sooo here we go!!! There was a time in my life growing up that I was terrified of my mom...even thought she would eventually beat me to death some day...I was an honor student...I was in honor band etc...I thought I was a good kid...even so... She called me bitch whore and slut EVERY day of my life...I am now 42 yrs old... I'm at work...she's blowing my phone up bcuz my kids were laughing too loud...(fr)...I left work early AGAIN...came home...she was in an uproar...she picked up the phone and called the police on me... I remember grabbing the house phone out of her hands...as I raised my hand in the air to hit her in there face ...I stopped in mid air and slung the phone into the kitchen...cops show up...she put me and my kids out with no where to go...I was paying her rent, watever she wanted for groceries, she didn't drive...I took her everywhere she needed to go...we kept the house clean...I remember getting into my car with my kids...I get down the street and had to pull over...bcuz everything evil she ever said or did to me came out with sooo much rage and violence...my steering wheel took the full brunt of wat I wanted to do to my mom...I'm crying...screaming...punching the steering wheel...I cried uncontrollably...wen I finally came back from insanity....I looked at my kids looking at me having a complete breakdown... It was at that moment that I decided that my mother has always hated me from birth...there was nothing that I could do to make her love me...I ran away from home at 43 yrs old and never looked back...my mom called me 1 night...AND ASKED ME TO FORGIVE HER BEFORE SHE PASSED AWAY...of course I forgave her...but her damages to me was done like burnt stale toast...
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Sometimes the fault is not really the children. Some parents are just never meant to be parents. Some don't even deserve respect. I have read some horrible stories in my life of what fathers and mothers do to their kids. We can only give it to God. Some things are just too big for this place we call earth!!!
Regardless to what a parent did it’s best to just not have them in your life rather than disrespect them and get I. Trouble with God. Remember our parents wasn’t always our parents. They had trauma in their lives before we was were born. Forgiveness on both sides is the key!
When I was 12 years old I saw my aunt disrespect my grandmother on numerous occasions, I resented her for it. I’m 57 and it’s still fresh in my mind. My grandmother was a wonderful person in my eyes, I don’t care what mistakes she may have made. My aunt had no right to mis treat her.
She probably did have a right to treat her like that. And every action isn’t a mistake . I can already see the low accountability in this comment . A “mistake” is something done on accident. The definition of “mistake” doesn’t apply to bad things someone does on purpose , so stop misusing the word that way
Thank you Pastor for the Word of encouragement...my husband and I are looking after my mom and my mother in law...I can truly say it is an honor looking and caring for them...sometimes it's not that easy..but is the right thing to do...God is just amazing
What about parents that lie and manipulate their children? There have been movies made about these things and everything. Including Mommie Dearest. Do anyone remember that?
I stop watching Pastor Dollar a long time ago, but I’m going through exactly what he’s talking about here & a friend of mine who knows my situation sent me this message & I was blown away. Pastors don’t talk/preach about this enough in this era & children are going crazy, not good. Thank you Pastor Dollar for this was a explosive WORD 💣
He is definitely telling the truth. Amen Amen. My 45 yr old son needs to listen to this. I haven't seen him in 12-13 yrs. He holding something against me and I have ask what is it? He always say I am not holding anything against you. I call him more than he calls me. I put him in the hands of YAHWEH. I have apologized for any wrong doing if I did anything etc. He text pictures but that's not the same as in real person. I love my son and always will be here for him if he needs me. All Praises to YAH in the name of YASHUA HAMASHIACH.
Thank you pastor these messages are not preached anymore children are just on rampage. So rude and disrespectful even 13years old talking back wanting to do as they please and expect you not to ask questions but still buy things for them andvery demanding. Oh the tik tok sexual dances they dance😭
I’m learning that if you had Narcissistic, ungrateful and unloving parents. More than likely your children more than likely will mirror the same things to you as well as your spouse. I learned to not take it personally but to value yourself more and love yourself more and go live your life. Don’t even bother. Let them go and let this miss your presence.
Thank you Pastor Dollar for this message. My mom poisoned me with antifreeze and I still love and honor her. I'm still in pain from what she did, both emotional and physical pain, but I know that God is consoling me. My children disrespect me, because of what my mom did to me, and one of my children said that they don't care what she did to me. I'm not worried though. Some children will say anything when they just naturally don't like authority. I'm just glad God is Omnipotent, Omniscient and Omnipresent, because he's my witness.
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@thetruehustler my statement was clearly not referring to a context of extreme abuse. I am fully aware of all that you mentioned. I’m referring to this culture of disrespect of elders. If someone has separated fellowship due to abuse, it can still be done without disrespect, selfishness, & self righteous. Again, the commandment to honor your parents is NOT conditional. I’ve done this myself. I’ve been abused & mistreated by my parents and loved them from a distance and with prayer. Despite what I suffered I still did not have the right to be disrespectful.
I'm agree with the message. I pretty sure the sermon was longer than 6 minutes, but they is what I have to base it off of. I hope that the rest of the message also included not provoking your kids to anger. Parents have to ask themselves why their adult children no longer visits them and why they don't bring the grandkids around. Gen. X was told to bottle up their pains and frustrations and my generation have no problem expressing it. It's really difficult honoring parents who don't show honor....BUT WE HONOR THEM ANYWAY. That not an easy road to walk on.
MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY. When are people going to stop teaching on one scripture and not the other? They are near each other, and both are very important scriptures and valid. Why? Because GOD knew that some parents would be toxic and abusive towards their children. And take advantage of that, and do their children any kind of way, and demand respect. And that is just not how that work.
I finally found a message that really hits home! I have a daughter 37 a son 31 who I have adored and spent every dime they ask for, only to be called vile names. My daughters seen her mother disrespect me. She now has 3 granddaughter she has lied to and now they said I hate my paw paw .She stood in my face and lied with accusations that were not true. My son is a police officer who has called me such vile names that I do not dare repeat. How can he respect the public when he can't respect his own father? Yet their mother my ex-wife has drilled it in their heads that I am no good other than an ATM machine. I know in my heart and every fiber of my body I was a great dad and father. This all started when I turned my life over to my Savior Jesus Christ. This is the work of satan himself. God knows my pain; He knows the truth!
AMERICAN PATRIOT the enemy are not your children or ex wife. They are being used by demons to destroy the family unit. I would advise you first to ask the Holy Spirit to help you forgive them ALL totally first so God can help you. GOD can not forgive us or listen to our prayers with unforgiveness. Also pray for your children and Ex wife. They are under the enemies bondage and are being used to destroy the family you have. Please take this seriously and watch God Bless you and change your family. He will do it once you seek HIM and remember as a believer you have spiritual authority over your seed. That is GOD given PRAY for them daily. Spend time with God in prayer daily and watch the Almighty move! Your pain will be turned to joy. I have the DEVIL passionately !!
It's o.k. brother ! . . Your "NOT" alone ! . The truth "ALWAYS" wins ! In this world or the next the truth will come out for everyone to hear ! . . . ✝️
7/10/22: I stopped watching Creflo years ago, but this caught my attention. It is so on point and needed, he is speaking truth about dishonoring parents.
I always wish there was a moral law/Bible verse towards shiddy parents that abused physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically abuse you and didn't love you.....So do you really have to honor them when you become an adult? I wanna know fr. Please be respectful in your responses or I will not respond to you😮💨
God handles parents who have been abusive to his children. Children are parent's gifts, God's children, we are all required to go back to him one day. I watched a man abuse his children when I was a child. It seems he has it all, a good job, money, cars, clothes, women you name it he had it. But one day he got dementia he got so bad he went into the nursing home. All of his money was taken by the nursing home. His cars given away, no use for the fine clothes, his wife left him and moved out of town, his 12 children never visited him except 1. He died broke and alone. God does not allow parents to just get away with that abuse but the children are not the ones to do the punishing.
There IS a verse about it but for some reason a good number of parents don't mention OR live by it... Do not provoke your child to anger, Ephesians 6:4. I haven't watched Creflo Dollar regularly in about 20 years. I used to. I agree with him on this. I also agree with Ephesians 6:4. A person does not get to just mess over their children either!
People born during this 1990ish 2000ish generation really wasn’t raised right, and now it’s coming back to bite the parents. A lot of children born during that time had parents who spoiled them and gave them what wanted, because they wanted their children to have what they didn’t have growing up, which made these kids grow up to feel entitled. Which made them unable to except no for and answer. A lot of parents wanted to be their child’s friend and not be a parent.
@@Proverbspsalms Train wreck is so true. I’m dealing with my 19 year old stepson that is so entitled because his mom treated him like he’s a king,that’s her only child. My husband is laid back on correcting his behavior but I’m the bad guy.
@@anatachasimeon2529 that’s crazy. Hope he gets it together. And creflo has got to be the cause of his own arrest when that situation happened with his daughter. These people preach a false gospel- so i can’t even say they don’t practice what they preach.
@@anatachasimeon2529 that’s crazy. Hope he gets it together. And creflo has got to be the cause of his own arrest when that situation happened with his daughter. These people preach a false gospel- so i can’t even say they don’t practice what they preach.
My parents are toxic and trying to destroy me literally , practicing evil and witchcraft against me and my children but calling themselves"christians" alot of people are in bondage because of how "church"people misuse this scripture and take it out of context. Father I pray that you send us real genuine blood bought prophets that speak your word and bring about YOUR will deliver us from these Polluted Wells ,and carnal men in the name of your son Jesus Christ Amen.
I made PEACE with my father for my Soul 3years ago. My oldest son has disrespected me twice in the last 6 years. First time I didn't worry because I knew something was going to happen and it did. He apologized and forgave him and allowed him to be in my space again. 6 months later He was disrespectful Again but I knew it was going to happen. I am no longer speaking with him because according to him myself and my oldest sister are dead to him. I'm doing just fine. Him not so much
Let Let- Be encouraged! I know exactly how you feel. When you know that you did your best raising them- & even sometimes messed up- at some point you have to forgive yourself and as the other writer said- “keep rowing “! Again Forgive yourself, and keep it moving. It hurts but we will make it!
