Hes so pathetic and annoying. I hate people like him sm. they act like what other people are going thru is nothing and they are just victimizing themselves. he did nothing to help her when she was getting bullied and was tryna stop her from defending herself. i hate when people whose lives r all perfect act like life is so easy and everyone is overreacting.
When she said "i don't know who killed gu sunxiang, but you know who killed me" i lost it. This whole story is very deep, the tongue is sharper than the blade.
it hurts knowing that when she ran she didn’t even take a second to think about jumping . she went in full force because the pain she was having was too great that she wanted to get rid of it all as soon as she could . when gu sunxi was crying next her after jumping in to save her , it really showed how he was the only one who cared about her and he was the only one who made her happy even if it was for a small amount of time . this had me balling balling
Gu Sunxi will always have a special place for in my heart... He was so kind and yet he lost both his sunshine (his sister and Yi Yao) Cry me a sad river? No I cried a lake, sea, ocean..
Qi Ming is white, his sweater is white, and his life is white. But Yi Yao’s life is black, but when he meet Gu Senxi, he wears blue, he wears green, he wears red, and he takes Yi Yao to see the colorful world, and he tells Yi Yao to fight back. Qi Ming's white and Yi Yao's black are intertwined and can only be gray, but there is always a color in Sensi's world that can help Yi Yao beat the black.
1:29:35 ... The fact that they were shocked that she jumped is disgusting.. After all that bullying and humiliation they had the audacity to act shocked that she took her life..
When she said “i donot believe there are pads with scent.I am like an idiot.I smelled it” I broke out into tears seriously after that throughout the whole movie.Very amazing movie♥️👏
@@viinkcii "Most women ignore the real cause of vaginal itching?" "After identification, you can take a picture, and it's recommended to check it, it may be a venereal disease." "Wait a while longer. If you can't, go to a hospital's STD department for checkup. Try not to go to a private hospital, even if it would be cheaper."
Act I didn't understand some part, how gu sunxiang get sms from yiyao and what the sms about? I don't understand Chinese character. The ending is yiyao save right ? Then they live separately. The ending have some information like 2016...what act they said ?
The ending was a cliffhanger but if you look closely to the scenes after the drowning you’ll see the clues that she didn’t make it out alive. 1. The flowers left by Qi Ming has a white ribbon and I read that it signifies mourning due to loss 2. Yi yao’s mother filled with grief and regrets sold the massage table also she was wearing black. 3. Sunxi transferred school 4. No updates with Yi Yao’s recovery just... 5. The final scene Yi Yao (wearing white) was on the pond where Sunxi saved her spitting quotes about grief, and acceptance etc. But what hits me the most was when she saw Sunxi on the other side; she smiled but we never get to see Sunxi’s face. She saw him but he never really saw her. He transferred school but he went back to that very pond to reminisce and grieve about Yi yao since that was their special place.
at the end she didn't see Sunxi she saw her dead father whom was wearing the green hoodie at the begging of the movie, this is the biggest proof that she didnt live
YALL THE FACT THAT GU SUNXI DIDINT HESITATE ON JUMPING AFTER HER HAD ME CRYING SO HARD BECAUSE HE TOLD HER HE WAS HER SAVIOR WHEN SHE WAS TRYING TO GET HER BACKPACK AND HE TRIED TO SAVE HER FROM DROWNING HES A REAL HERO YALL🥺🥺🥺🥺
@@Onneeax this actually isn't the full movie the original is about 2 hours long and no she doesn't there is WAYYY more to the story so I would watch that one
"she's not my wife yet" i started crying none stop that it was a blurry and my phone was wet with tears i fucking hate life bro he's never gonna be with her until he's dead..... It's all the moms fault and she still took a blind eye to it i need a hug...... I'm going to start crying again it really hurt me notice how he didn't even think twice he just ran in to save her i hate the other dude hes a player
Ikr They'll only care about you if you are already in the depths of death. And treat you as a ghost as you exist but when you're going to die they'll say every Words of wisdom they can say
I really love gu sunxi he was the only one who stood up for her and showed her light. It hurts me so much how he lost the 2 people he was the closest to
I have a question why did the pretty girl sunxi's sis go to that dark area? And who were those following her? And what msg did she receive? And who sent it and what was written on the msg, since no subtitles for the text msgs I'm so confused😕🤔 please enlighten me😂
@@michiyatung3019 I think she went because she lost her way and she then ran in there cus she heard ppl following her. I think that message said that the girl fell off and died. I think that evil girl sent those ppl for the girl that was with gu sunxi but they got mistaken. So the ppl that were chasing the girl sent the message
Bro the only one who actually cared about her was the twin brother. He saved her twice, trying to help her fight back but ended up losing people he cared about in a short mass of time
yi yao, after passing away, her spirit is living in that pond. that last scene, she saw Gu Sunxi came to visit the place they properly met. my heart hurts. my eyes are swollen.
@@sandrafernandes2988 thegirlsblabla.blogspot.com/2018/11/cry-me-sad-river-film-recap-and-review.html?m=1 read the end of this. It says that she still is alive
@@KK-dd7sk umm sorry but that is wrong my friend who is Chinese told me that she died at the end and at the end they show that if she was still alive they both would come there where they first meet and would have a great time
This movie is a realistic story because it goes to show how many people are still ignorant about disease, illness, mental health, just like ethnicity and races. But it goes to show how someone you barely met or who knows you will stick by you in your toughest moments. I know everyone needs a real friend like Sunxi.
THE ADUCAITY of her so called bestfriend to run after her when she was going to jump. Like bro chill, you didn't even care when she was being bullied infront of you, and didn't even care when she was going through all that pain when she literally opened all her problem to you💀
Tbh I think he let them hold him back, if you look at him, he doesn’t fight to help her he just tries to. And the audacity he had to think she killed that girl 💀
@JustTristan lmao the best friend or the class monitor if you rewatch the part you’ll see he barely tried while the twin brother burst out the crowd to save her and ran after her while the other guy just stood and watched, maybe it was shock, but I just think he didn’t try as much.
He is such a dumbass. Tsk. Not a real friend/bestfriend. After Yiyao open up to him. Still he didnt mind it. Also he think that she get the disease bec. She's doing her moms work. Bruh. What a shame bestfriend.
I know bro. She was his Childhood friend and He just believe all the rumors and didn't believe her "CHILHOOD" friend, He know her for so long and he just chose the path of negative thoughts... F i don't even know what i've write, But I'm saying is that he doesn't deserve her friendship💀
Indeed only the twins show cared for her. How Gu Suxian still chose to stick with Yi Yao even he knows that she got the sick. Gu Suxian did not even judge her nor look down at her. He stood at Yi Yao's innocence even thi her twin sister died. How lucky she is to have a man like him. He even told her to fight back not let anyone to bully her.
beside yi yao, my heart hurts for sunxi too. "i hate to be alone." he said that at 42:43 but he loses both of the people he cherised the most in a short span of time :"
The part where the twin brother saves Yi Yao from the river, he cried, but his childhood friend whom she depended on didn't and that's pretty shitty painful to watch
1:30:45 this part made me cry the most. You can see the pain in Gu Sunxi, knowing that he has lost her. She is not coming back. This is by far one of my most favourite movies 😔
People who die by suicide don’t want to end their lived, they just want to end their pain. For those peoples that suffering, please seek a help. P/s: Good day everyone. Currently I’m battling w my depression. Hope everyone can fight w/out surrender.
I have a question why did the pretty girl, sunxi's sister go to that dark area? And who were those following her? I'm so confused and who sent the msg and what msg because there's no subtitles for the phone msgs. Clueless 🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@michiyatung3019 I couldn't read the replies for the same reason but I guess it was either the plan of the bitch or the killers might have gone for the wrong one.
@@michiyatung3019 the reason sunxi went to the dark alley its because it was a shortcut, And the people who followed her were the people who bulied the other girl. thats my theory
I’m so angry at those students because it is real. It’s so real and so many do that and lead people to the same position. She deserves so much better and I hope her soul will be happy when Sunxi comes to get her.
The movie is so sad it made me cry so much but its meaningful too. The painful events that Yi Yao had gone through does not only affect her, but also Gu Sunxi. Sunxi lost his twin sister, got her girlfriend framed up for something she didn't do and she also killed herself. Yi Yao had experience nothing but pain in her life not until she met Gu Sunxi that gave her life some sunshine for a short period of time. This movie also tells that you can only know if a person is true to you not because of material things that they give but its from the trust and love that you give on that person. Notice how Yi Yao never smiles on Gu Ming and even to other people around her but Gu Sunxi made her smile.
I'm so thankful tiktok introduced me to this masterpiece. I didn't know this movie existed. This is the reason why I had to go to work with swollen eyes 😭
Same I have never cried this HARD during a movie and my heart hurts so much like I wanna scream I want to help her but I CANT, this movie in a 9.5/10 on the cry meter😭😭
Sunxi saved her twice, believed her when she said she didn't get the virus through intercourse, stayed by her side when she was being bullied, encouraged her to stand up for herself because the bullies won't stop if she just stands there, and sided with her in her most desperate state so she wouldn't jump. Ming her so called best friend left her side when she was being bullied, tried to talk her down on fighting back when she being obnoxiously bullied, in a twist way believed she caused the disease in a nasty way, and only came to her aid when she finally ran at the end. Though I was kind of mad at Sunxi for like 2 mins when he left Yao side I reminded myself that there was concrete evidence against but as well as that was his twin sister, a family member he would switches places with if he could. But when it came down to when she was going to end it all he sided with her whether she did it or not, he didn't want to lose another important person in his life. Moreover, if I were to meet Ming it would be on sight. Yao was his "best friend" or "someone he grew up with" but he decided to turn his back on her when she needed someone most twice and each time not coming to her aid until the very end. He turned a blind eye to her bullying and even scolded her when she fought back against her bullies. He's a shitty person and he was one of the reasons for her death.
Ive been holding in my tears for the whole movie but the part where she was at the river before she was about to jump and she was talking to the students rlly got me. i cried more than when i cry for my own problems.
I adore Gu Sunxi. He was so kind and generous. He never left Yi Yao's side even he lost the closest girl in his life - his twin sister, Senxiang. This means that he really cares about Yi Yao and he really love her. Salute, Sunxi! My favorite, Yi Yao. She was so good in her acting skills. The way she showed her emotions was so good. But it was so sad that she had to reach the point where she needed to end her life not just to prove that she didn't killed Sunxi's sister (Senxiang) but to flee from everything. To stop the pain. I was so hurt while watching because she suffered too much. But I salute her also, she's great! Qi Ming, Yi Yao's childhood friend is a good one too. I don't know if he had feelings for Yi Yao because he never mentioned it. He was so kind because he even stole from his father's money just to help his childhood friend. Although, he broke down when Senxiang died that made him forget about Yi Yao. He left Yi Yao in her most difficult time but I understand him. He's confused and broken because of what happened. He didn't know whom to trust and to believe because of the rumors - he even didn't believe on Yi Yao. But in the end, he realized that he need to be on his childhood friend's side, especially when Yi Yao is committing suicide. I still salute him! Overall, the story was so great! It made me cry a lot and it really taught us a lesson about bullying. That we should not bully and we should not tolerate violence, especially in schools. Because these are very harmful to anyone's health - mental, emotional and physical. Bullying could make someone suffer a higher level of depression and anxiety that could lead to serious cases, and the worst is, death. So, this movie's message to us is to study and understand why we must stop bullying at all times. Salute to the team!
"It was just a joke" People didn't even know on how painful they think a joke was one word can lead into a deep cut no matter how you put a bandage in it I won't heal that easily it might heal but there's still a scar
This is indeed the best movie about school bullying I love the fact that she fought till the end and when the bullies hit her she hit them back ... also , her face when she went to school after her mom held her hand how she was confident and bright even students were bullying her as always... the way she explained her pain to Qi ming especially when she said " I wanna be one of you" ... Every detail in the film was so touching but the river scene really hits different When she said " you know who killed me " Also their acting is perfect This movie proves that C drama/film can be more than just a stereotype rom-com drama
I'm quite disappointed to Qi Ming they are childhood friends so he must know her personality and believe in her but he just left her and doesn't believe her, i like sunxi even he was hurt about her sister's death he stood up for her and believe her. some people judge people on what they just want to see and not realizing the consequences.
You know what, this movie also have a drama call river flows to you. But, the main couple in the drama is qi ming and yi yao. Btw, the cast is different though.
The most painful thing here when nobody believed her and how her best friend turned blind eye the day when she needed him. Just like in our lives, people who just know us were the one will help and protect us , but those people who had been on our side will left us suddenly
@@sharifahariana2910 I think the boy who liked her was still coping with her sisters death so thats why he hesitated when everyone was running to the river, her childhood friend hesitated cause his soon gf died and he thought that she was jealous of her thats why he believed the rumors
The saddest person left in the movie was Sunxi, how then he did nothing wrong but lost two of his loved one. His beloved sister and his girlfriend. Besides, as her debut, Ren Min did play her character outstandingly in this movie👏👏👏👏
Thank you Gu Sinxi for giving our Yao yao the most happiest and beautiful moments in her life even if it was for a short time, thank you for always being by her side no matter what... Now you'll have to live without your 2 beautiful sunshines... I'm crying so much and i don't think i'll ever stop, i'm so glad that Yi yao's mom started being more caring for her daughter before she comitted suicide, this is the reality of life and i will never forget this movie.. *Death isn't painful. Life is*
The fact that she jumped into the ocean just to prove them that she isn't a murder and because she's tired of being bullied is so heartbreaking, and even more because she died, but at least she is happy now.🥺🤧
@@daylenflores7305 she did though, at the end, someone put flowers on her old house. the flowers had a white ribbon, and in Chinese culture, the colour white is to signify a respect for the dead. just like how red and yellow means good luck and prosperity.
@@alisonzhang2191 wait but what does the last scene mean? When she’s sad in the middles of the field and the guy that likes her comes in? Is he imagining it or did it acc happen?
We all have times in life where we feel sad,lonely,hopeless,and afraid but theres always people who will cheer you up, protect you, and comfort you always remember the quote "Sadness flies away on the wings of time" which means You have so many things in your life to be happy about. Appreciate those things, and suddenly your sadness will feel smaller and your happiness will grow larger. This movie made me shed in tears.
Because her daughter didn't know why she got the disease...turns out that it was the mom. Her mom owns a massage place and remember when the man always came for a massage and would take a shower...yeah he used the same towel her daughter used and that is how the disease travelled and her mom realized that when she said that she didn't do anything or use public bathrooms or use dirty towels... Hope that clears things up!
For anyone who's wondering, the message at 1:17:19 said "Qi Ming asked me to bring you something, please come to the back door of the school to pick it up" and the message sent to Tang Xiaomi at 1:20:41 said "If we don't do anything to her, she's going to die. It's none of our business if she falls."
Thank you! I was scrolling through all the comments hoping someone had said it. I was so confused what made her go there cause there wasn't any subtitles for the text messages.
hii, sorry, but can you tell me what was written at the ending of the film and who were those people when they were showing the closing credits and what were they talking about. Thank you in advance 😊
I’ve watched this movie multiple times since 2019 and the scene of Yi Yao and her mom always make me cry. She got sick with a sexually transmitted disease from one of her mom client who uses her towel. And when her mom realized her fault she tried to make up to her. Her bully Tang Xiaomi hired a couple of guys to scare Senxiang but accidentally killed her. Yi Yao died in the end. Her mom sad face sells the massage bed and Qi Ming left flowers on Yi Yao’s house with a white ribbon that symbolizes death. And Sunxi moved to a different school. Still a sad ending.
Life is hard when you got bullied. People always said "move on , it's already passed" but the scars they left in our heart and trauma in our head will never get cured. Everyday the same scenario will always play in the head. It sucks. It's really sucks when we get bully.
I literally am in tears right now. Thinking about Gu Sunxiang who lost her life for no reason and then Gu Sunxi (sorry if I spell wrong) who tried his best to help her but failed and then lost both her and his sister really made me burst into tears. I have watched this movie and taken away a lot especially that people never realize the consequences of there actions until it’s too late
1:30:44 it was this part which made me cry the most. He's just come out of the sea and is laying there too but still turns his head to her and cry's. he loved her so sincerely :(
I feel bad cause when this happens in real life people say “I don’t remember.” “I didn’t know she would feel bad.” “I didn’t know she would be like this.” It’s sad what world we live in that some people think killing themselves is the only way out.
It is but always when I try someone stops me it is annoying and I cry the hole night but whatever that is my reason why I hate the world and all humans !
When he was rushing to save her, I thought 'dont fucking save her when you didnt stood up for her, she deserves peace' Gosh i always re watch it, just to remind myself that this world is a cruel place too. 😭
I seriously dislike her "best friend" QiMing... Absolute wasteman... Never tried to be there for her even when she told him about the bullying and he was so quick to judge and blame her when she found out about the disease... On a side note the look of realization on all her bullies' faces when she does jump is priceless especially after they weren't taking it seriously in the beginning
Exactly .. like how do you claim to be someone’s friend but leave them or turn your back on them without listening to them. Even if the whole world is against them as a genuine friend you should have their back.
I almost cried watching this movie, especially when Yi Yao jumped into the ocean at the end. One of the best movies I have watched so far, it was emotional and moving!
10/10, amazing movie. The emotions, the meaning, the lessons, this movie is so deep. As a person who got bullied before and as someone who has no one to rely on during my hardest times, i can relate to this. I cried.
It was just an idea given to us by the producer that yiyao did finally had her peace and that peace was given to her to the same place where she and Gu sunxi met . It was like she was watching herself in her happy state when she was alive . That at that moment in her life she was happy . 😊
This girl is the most talented actress I have ever seen in my life. I have never cried nor connected to a movie the way I did today..the way she carries her part, I could really feel the emotions that she was portraying..it got me tearing up the entire time😭 I would love to see more of her work.
I've rewatched this probably 10× and the sad/hurtful feeling I've felt watching this for the first time is still the same,it's just heartbreaking for me and always made me teared up💔
this movie especially the ending puts a lot of things into perspective, its message was very straightforward and powerful. people casually mistreat people all the time, and having been on the end of that mistreatment before during the time i spent in school it really makes me wonder if any of them remember their mistreatment because i do. even years later, i do. its very fresh in my mind. it leaves a bitter taste in my mouth that the people who dished out that mistreatment likely don't remember it at all. its sick that people like that are allowed to live believing they havent wronged others like that.
How come her "BestFriend' didn't do ANYTHING! Like wow! Apparently his girlfriend was more IMPORTANT than his childhood friend getting bullied! HE DIDN"T EVEN BELIEVE THAT SHE DIDN"T KILL HER! Qi Ming is messed up. Get a boy like Gu Sunxi over here.
People will appreciate you when your gone. They will remember all the good things you've done. They will say nice words infront of other people. They will see your worth. Life is cruel and unfair😔
Lesson learned: sometimes the person who you grown up with, will never trust you until the end,, you will realize in this world only your self you can lean on,,
I believe there is no one you can put your trust in, cause at the worst times even the most trusted and close people might leave you. You need to be self dependent, at least you would save yourself from experiencing the pain of being betrayed.
She is an awesome actress. To be able to portray those emotions. I could feel the pain while watching the movie. My eyes would not stop shedding tears.
Lynette Torres I really love this actress named Ren Min who plays Yi Yao in Cry Me A Sad River. To be honest, I couldn't stopping crying because Yi Yao's been bullied & it got worse for her.
I know you can make it. It’s just a difficult phase and you must know that bad things will come to an end. I pray for you and may you find your happiness dear stranger 💜
Why no one talk ab that one girl who want to stand up and fight back for yi yao? Well, at least she slapped one of the bully at the river scene. This should have a sequel seriously.
I think that girl represents the by-standers that act after everything goes south. She wanted to help, but never actually did bc of her own fear of getting bullied. She will probably make up for how she ignored the bullying Yi Yao received by never letting them forget of what they did, and I guess if something like that happens again she'll be the first to step up, instead of cowering in fear.
@@Diana-dh6ci I agree because even though she never truly bullied anyone. She just stood there and let it happened which in many ways encouraged, increased, and made things way worse for her. I feel like she’ll definitely try to better herself in the future because she herself edged her to her death just like the others by not helping or telling others of what was happening to her. She’s just as bad as them b/c even if she didn’t do anything like they did She didn’t DO ANYTHING to prevent it.
There were only 3 moments that the sun appeared in her life,the first one when she was with her father and mother in the amusement park,the second when she was with Sunxi and the third when her mother took her hand to go to the hospital! God this film was too heavy and emotional, it's been two days since I saw it and I needed time to recover from this! It's not only abt the bullying but and for the way that some people know only to preach morals when they don't even put themselves in others shoes or are in the same situation with others! She was strong and endured so much,she did well 😢😢😭 I hope that people who saw this movie will learn some value lessons from it.
G9 Arjela Gega, i'm afriad only people who knows pain, and is able to put oneselves in others shoes will watch this movie... but for once i don't feel all alone. i feel like Yi Yao is a pretty good explained persona of what bullying feels like, and the sun almost never shines.
G9 Arjela Gega this movie is not just about bully . It’s has lots of moral about society, gosh i watched it early this year and i still can’t move on ToT
The pain and sadness in her eyes makes me so sad deeply. I can't imagine how hurt it is. Even his friend didn't trust her. How cruel it is. These movie hurt me so much and break my heart because of what happened to her.
The saddest thing to me is how Tang Xiaomi has experienced the same pain and suffering as Yi Yao. But she feels so defenseless in her own problems that she bullies someone else instead of admitting that is also bullied. She switched schools and changed from being bullied to being a bully. For those of you suffering, find a friend like SunXi and QiMing. Break the cycle, don't make someone's life bad just because you are miserable.
Qi Ming isn’t the right friend to find in this situation... He was suppose to be the one who know her the best. He was helping her with the money but doesn’t even know what she was going through.
@@johnlloydjavier4547 at the end those bullies can not forget how they destroy and kill yiyao. I used to get bullied in school. After 10 years old I still cannot living the normal life and suffer from suicidal thoughts. Those bullies have their best life.
@@elfinneocity590 How are you now? I hope you're well. I hope that you have met good people that treat you sincerely and I hope those bullies will get back what they deserve.
@@joshuaokpoture3266 if someone told me someone had aids and that I can get it from being near them I would be concerned for the person who told me that
@@joshuaokpoture3266 True but I don't think they avoided her because they thought she had a virus I think they avoided her because of the reputation aids has. And they thought she was sleeping around with men. And having a reputation of sleeping with men is a whole other thing especially in China.
So thankful tiktok showed me this master piece, simple words cut deeper and have a heavy meaning especially when there's still face to face classes. Being bullied by someone have been so very difficult, especially when you scream asking for help but no one believes you because you're in the lowrank in society. How sad people only look at the bright side, the one who think they have use of, the one who belongs in the upperclass, poor mindset.
if you’re reading this and you’re not doing well, nothing lasts forever, when something makes you smile, enjoy it, when times get tough, keep getting through it, you’ve already been trying to. ❤️
Thank you ❤️ I cry a lot watch this movie. Watching movie is one of the way I want to healing/distracting myself, I want to forget the real life but sometimes it worse. I'm battling with depression. Quit my study and didn't even tell my family. Acting like I'm okay but actually not. It's hurts. But I know, I'll fight and heal. I'll be better. I hope for better me.
@@Nur-bu9zo i love how willing you are to help yourself ♥️ thank you for being so inspiring, especially when you have so much going on. i wish the best of luck to you🎉♥️
Once her mom took her hand to take her to the hospital, I lost it and couldn't not stop my tears from there possibly being some hope for her, then the last 20min was so upsetting but truly a great movie, very bitter sweet. The sun finally rose in the west for her.
From now on, this is my favorite movie. This is different from others. While watching, it gives me goosebumps and it also made me cry. Hands up to the director of this movie
Bullying people have a reason too we are assholes. I used to participate in the bullying of a classmate because whoever doesn't gets bullied back. I always felt so bad doing what I did back then but I didn't want to be bullied either
@@kpopmabs you feel bad now😑 sorry but not sorry because you guys did destroy some one school happy time make them depression make them lost confident now you are sorry wow...keep you sorry to that person who you bully and don't post like this any page it sound like you still don't feel guilty for what you did😑I am saying this because I know that pain of bully
I actually crying a river dude...it's not fair they did this to her and only cared when she died Ik it's a movie but still this is what people go through daily
@@no9151 same here, it's sad enough she lived a sad life, i will pretend that she went out of the slums and is living a comfortable stress free life in the city 😭😭
I cried out all night 😭 bcz of it and feel blessed that I have loving parents, beautiful siblings and lovable friends around me ❤I cherish my life more after seeing this movie
