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Cut People Off Silently | Stoicism
Are you struggling with toxic relationships and wondering how to distance yourself without drama? Stoicism teaches the art of indifference and emotional resilience, which can be invaluable in such situations. This video, "Cut People Off Silently | Stoicism," offers a step-by-step guide on how to silently remove negative influences from your life by leveraging stoic principles.
Stoicism, an ancient philosophy, emphasizes control over one's reactions and maintaining tranquility regardless of external circumstances. In this video, we'll explore practical stoic wisdom that helps you cut off relationships silently and effectively, ensuring your peace of mind. You'll learn how to recognize when it's time to step away and how to do so with dignity and inner peace. We'll discuss techniques on maintaining emotional detachment and how to handle confrontations stoically.
By the end of this tutorial, you'll have the tools to protect your emotional well-being and create a healthier social environment around you. Whether it's in personal relationships or professional settings, the stoic way provides a pathway to assertive and calm disengagement.
How to cut people off using stoicism? What are stoic ways to handle toxic relationships? How to maintain peace when cutting ties? How to detach emotionally using stoicism? This video will answer all these questions. Make sure you watch all the way through to not miss any key insights.
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@arjundask1526 4 месяца назад

We are supposed to detach from more than 90% of people we know

@trkstatrksta8410 2 месяца назад

Not practical

@ilovenaps1297 Месяц назад

"supposed to"? Says who and why

@Demulon 3 месяца назад

Half of these comments are people bragging how stoic they are, which goes against stoicism Tip your fedoras, fellas!

@wisequotestimeless 4 месяца назад

If you're reading this comment, I hope you become a billionaire 💸

@ThomasPlummer-iv3me 3 месяца назад

Thankyou

@jimmyb267 3 месяца назад

😁👍

@MuhammadEesaSohail 3 месяца назад

Amen

@FringeWizard2 2 месяца назад

Why wish such a horrid thing on me?

@PhillipStewart-k7f 4 месяца назад

Been doing this all my days for 64 years

@CircumlunarFeasibility 4 месяца назад

sounds cowardly

@elonever.2.071 3 месяца назад

@@CircumlunarFeasibility When you understand that your life is just a temporary experience similar to a movie and you are the director and producer of that experience you realize that giving those important roles over to others is cowardly by not taking the bull by the horns and being solely responsible for the results of your life.

@Rumination_Vertex 3 месяца назад

@@CircumlunarFeasibility Did you listen to the video? You must be one of those toxic people because this guy just said he's been silently detaching which is brave not cowardly. I've tried to reason with people like these energy vampires or narcissists and all it does is make it worse. Especially if you have to tell them not to contact you anymore. It's much less of a headache not even letting them know you're cutting them off. They don't respect you so WHY do they deserve an explanation? Sorry you feel threatened by this, perhaps you should see a psychologist and get some help.

@aimanz202 4 месяца назад

Supreme form of ghosting

@CircumlunarFeasibility 4 месяца назад

yeah its some real chickenshit

@elonever.2.071 3 месяца назад

@@CircumlunarFeasibility Someone isnt mature enough to understand the message in these videos. It isnt for everyone. We all need the NPC's to illustrate how important it is to be responsible and accountable for our life and actions.

@ediboylm123 2 месяца назад

start from good intention, righteousness will follow, harmonize and be sincere, these will level you up to a higher conciousness to understand more of your fellowmen. its contagious.

@BRUCE_the_MOOSE_ 4 месяца назад

I am going to become more stoic in my daily dealings. Right, I'm throwing out the razor and hitting the gym daily.

@cinargey6873 3 месяца назад

All these advices are good but they ignore 1 crucial thing. We all have to work and feed our families. We have to mix with people at work. We can't cut off people or ignore people even though they are horrible to us. Only rich and carefree people can apply these theories.

@hollylight6721 4 месяца назад

Very good, tough to achieve all this at first but with continued practice and application it is definitely worth it!! You achieve a much more peaceful life because you get it from within ❤❤❤

@elonever.2.071 3 месяца назад

There are three levels of emotional and intellectual maturity. The Ego is the lowest form of maturity which is very reactionary having little or no concern for the outcome. Then there is the Intellect which is the next level of maturity where we have learned to think through situations to have the best outcome for all concerned. In this regard the highest level of maturity is the Observer where we are not reactionary to other's expressions toward us. We see that the less than desirable way people treat us is really about them and not us so we do not react to it. Many times it is necessary to limit our exposure or outright walk away from people in this regard. There can be consequences for us in doing so and if we are emotionally and intellectually mature enough we learn to do this with minimal negative effect to us and them.

@Medietos 4 месяца назад

This can't be Stoicism, - calling other flawed human beings bad names like narcissists and vampires, when they are human beings with trauma, flaws, ill health, toxic from environmental influence and today's poor lifestyle, and with stress, can it? Treating others poorly and cruelly is never all right, you aren't justified or good for doing so!Nothing gets better from it inthe world, exept your own superficial egoism. We are on Earth partly to love and help one another. Giving warning and explanation why they are being difficult, annoying, straining, tiring, doing harm or whatever the problem is, is decent. Just turning your back to them is not. People aren't aware of what they are doing, not fully, and there are different parts of us fighting inside. We have to address the king/queen in one another to help them emerge and rule, because we are not animals with direct help by instincts from their group soul, but have to use our free will and fere choice between good and evil.Since we don't get well brought up learning the right ways and bvalues anymore, it can often be very difficult to have the know.how, soundness, be in touch with one's feelings and with what is right. Being toxic to toxic humans is not OK.Ostracising andturning your back to silently is cruel, because they are unwell and lost and need help to know what they are doing Being wrong etc. It can't be Stoicism.

@alecharper515 4 месяца назад

Valid points; however, in my long years I find that there are some "unredeemables"...those people whose skill at tearing you down little by little (and in such clever and devious ways), are simply not worth my effort to "save" from themselves. In the end I ask, why ought I suffer for others' insecurities? I will try a few times, until I conclude that I am being expertly played and then I see that precious sand has fallen down the hourglass, and it is simply time to move on.

@elonever.2.071 3 месяца назад

There are some people who just need a little guidance and yes you do help them understand their shortcomings. However there are those that have been traumatized beyond your ability to help them if they are not willing to help themselves. These are the people, after seeing which group they are in, that it is in your best interest to avoid.

@trkstatrksta8410 2 месяца назад

Jesus taught us to be long suffering and kind, not to cruelly cut people off

@rainbowflamingo6451 4 месяца назад

Good advice if everyone lived like a Stoic there would be alot less trouble in the world!!!

@mariagabriel9488 4 месяца назад

😢 these days if you are not a rich person or person of influence people do not treat u well... And would u detach from every one?

@alphacipher7986 4 месяца назад

Absolutely!Better to be rich in peace than miserable with money. It’s alright to make money,but this is more about peace,and u don’t need many if not,anyone’s perspective in how important it is to listen to toxicity.

@L6FT 4 месяца назад

If detaching is in principle with ones inner values, then that is the price to pay. Buying others shallow approval unaligned with ones own values, is moral prostitution, the lowest form of treachery.

@elonever.2.071 3 месяца назад

I did! I gave it my best and ultimately decided to detach from family and most 'frienemies'. I moved 900 miles away where I didnt know anyone. During the assimilating process I spent a lot of time alone meditating and doing deep introspection into why the things that bothered me did so. I learned a lot about myself during that time...I am still learning about myself and others. I learned there are three parts to who I am...the Ego, the Intellect & the Observer. The Ego loves drama and conflict. The Intellect finds rational solutions to situations and the Observer is who I truly am when I go through life not being affected by every little thing. If you have confidence and self esteem & dress & act well people will treat you well. It takes time if you are new to the area. I moved to the south and most people treat me well but there are those who are still fighting the Civil War and there is nothing I can do about that except limit my exposure to them.

@mariagabriel9488 3 месяца назад

@@elonever.2.071 doesn't feel so good WHEN u cant find one good soul in an entire community that would have made u to stay back and removing ur self u get rid of the negativity ...but u Also loose a lot of relationships and acquaintance. Good luck amd God bless.

@elonever.2.071 3 месяца назад

@@mariagabriel9488 Thank you. It is hard and requires a lot of work looking at who you really are compared to who you think you are. It was the best thing I have ever done for myself to move away from the toxicity. I lived in the land of the narcissist so there weren't any real good relationships. The only real acquaintances available to people are when you join clubs (cults) where you have to sacrifice a freedom to two to show your dedication.

@granadosable 2 месяца назад

I think Epicureanism is more effective in teaching us how to detach from toxic people and circumstances.

@sharondavid-melly1498 Месяц назад

Yes, agree that detachment can help all concerned while we still love the person.

@windingdriveway 3 месяца назад

Detaching as promoted here is not that practical in life. We cannot always avoid toxic people. Coping with them as best as possible is the Stoic thing to do.

@trkstatrksta8410 2 месяца назад

Exactly. It's unrealistic to detach from people who are part of your life. Just learn not to let them affect you is much more practical and kind

@ernestgreen254 4 месяца назад

💯 FACTS this is a powerful imperative must in life

@WisdomFreak100 4 месяца назад

Absolutely!

@williamjowens9748 2 месяца назад

❤

@CatherineCrawford-h8j 4 месяца назад

There's not many genuine people about these days, there's no trust or much concern for one another, there's so many ways to look at a subject your involved with, getting rid of them or it, is the ONLY way!♡

@L6FT 4 месяца назад

100% Live by principle, this in my mind includes virtue, Truth being the highest, honesty towards oneself and others. Lead by example. Treat others, including oneself, the way one wants to be treated.

@woldebazizew9385 4 месяца назад

Don't cut people off is my advice

@Antonio_Todd 4 месяца назад

Why?

@woldebazizew9385 4 месяца назад

@@Antonio_Todd you can't beat your enemies with your own

@vanessamccarthy7807 Месяц назад

**on** your own(?) I kind of agree with you too. I, also, feel we have a duty to uplift and support those who can't necessarily support themselves, children,/teens, elderly, infirm etc... plus we need to Foster good ŕelationship and support networks as we never know when we, ourselves, might need support off others. It's also good to have people who may see things differently to us so we can learn from each other, guide each other, not get stuck in an echo chamber of people who only ever agree with us and to learn tolerance of our differences. So long as its done respectfully and from a place of love on both sides, I see it as a good thing. However, I don't think this video is referencing the normal, flawed individuals we have relationships with but those who undermine us, tell lies to us or about us, steal our items or even our inner peace, physically, mentally or spiritual harm us, use us with no intentions of matching our energy or helping us or even others in return. Those types of people would never have our backs in 'battle' anyway. Cut them loose. As the video said at one or two points, once you've told them your boundaries and possibly even reminded them, if they continue to cross them and it causes us physical or mental harm or if they continue to put us even at risk of some type of harm then they've got to go from our lives. Plus letting them go opens up a vacancy for good people to be part of our little army. @@woldebazizew9385

@Lexthebarbarian 4 месяца назад

As an observing and thinking man, I find many people who choose to stay in mean, pointless and superficial relationships rather than be alone. As a Stoic, I feel both contempt and compassion for these people. But I try to keep these feelings under control. But true friendship is a rarity. As a stoic, I choose life as a lone wolf where the light of self-respect illuminates my existence. I never give it up. Thoughtful people with a depth and pathos and code of honor. I love them .

@terrymcdermott8320 4 месяца назад

Remember you are number one ❤

@globe2555 4 месяца назад

@terrymcdermott8320 Just rest in yourself.

@labib3x Месяц назад

BTW does being aloof count as being stoic, LOL

@trkstatrksta8410 2 месяца назад

It's ridiculous to say someone who advises you not to start a business is being negative. Maybe the business idea is bad and this will save them from wasting their money. A lot of people have ideas that don't turn out well

@DebSherr 3 месяца назад

💯

@helenlauer9545 25 дней назад

this is very valuable, thank you.

@traceybella9610 4 месяца назад

Thanks ❤

@Luckystoic 4 месяца назад

You're focused on yourself while this masculine is focused on you

@terencehennegan1439 4 месяца назад

Excellent video. Thank you for sharing 👌

@HistoricalWisdomSimplified 4 месяца назад

Thanks for visiting

@WisdomFreak100 4 месяца назад

💯percent indeed!

@demivydE Месяц назад

" high value people" is BS.

@dayriderschat 4 месяца назад

Watching and learning about common sense in our daily lives....

@stoicphilospher374 Месяц назад

Great video 👍

@jerryharanczyk 4 месяца назад

100% and reminder for me🏋‍♀

@elainebraindrain3174 4 месяца назад

We are interdrpendant, i disagree with this

@elonever.2.071 3 месяца назад

We are interdependent with healthy people. We are codependent with traumatized or toxic people.

@trkstatrksta8410 2 месяца назад

Yes, I disagree too. Too harsh and unforgiving. Detaching doesn't mean you will be happy

@McNabbula 4 месяца назад

100 percent

@rickmccall4715 4 месяца назад

Sounds alot like separation and division. Sounds about like demonic to me. I do realize that you need to be cautious with certain individuals. I get that. So this must mean I am perfect and nobody measures up to me. Wow ,sounds like a pretty lonely existence. 🙏

@rsviews2167 4 месяца назад

Lonely, but PEACEFUL. To each his own. If I get in the mood for drama, I watch a TV show. I've had enough useless drama in my life. I'm good. Thank you.

@trkstatrksta8410 2 месяца назад

I agree with Rick. You can identify problem people and don't let them affect you but try to help them