What Walking Away Does to The Person You Left Behind 

True, but this effect goes deeper to why . Try cord cutting on a metaphysical level since alot of invisible energy may be still flowing to them that you may as well consider as energy they have stolen from you. People fail to respectfully value presence cause it's hard to put a price tag on it. That's also why it's harder to keep track of your own energetic balance. At the end of the day it should be you who determines if they get to be high or low on your energies. And usually narcissist... guilt trip you without any care for your side of the story

So so true🎉

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Fuxk them who cares what they think. Their miserable anyways hence why the harrass you and try interfer In your life and happiness 💯

​@@ChiDante Also They will gaslight you further to steal a connection. It's like they're stuck in this infancy stage of their own mental maturity. There are no exceptions and no malice. Forgive people and move on with your life simple.

2 birds in 1 stone sometimes. 😏

Yes, self protection! Sometimes your body can no longer take the stress.

Walking away meet I respect myself, indeed, a self protecting act toward myself, toxic humans are NOT WORTH my loving self.

exactly. it has nothing to do with punishment.

True. While this video does make some valid points, it is really not about self-preservation, but instead, punishing those who have hurt us, or, as is more often the case, someone who we feel has hurt us. If we must end a relationship for our own health, that is one thing; to end a relationship and then gloat over the hurt you think (hope) the other person is feeling is toxic.This video is not about healthy ways to improve our lives, it is about extracting perceived revenge.

The only way to escape and depart "their" control is the Irish Goodbye.

Always love yourself enough to walk away from empty, sour and jealous individuals from the start, they are not worth your precious energies.

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

My boyfriend left me after 20 years, I became disabled and he had found someone not disabled.

i have no issue with extracting anyone from my life.

Absolutely. Best advice you could ever give somebody, sir. Thank you very much and I am fully wholeheartedly agree with you. I've done that a couple of times in my life. And I do not regret it at all. It's given me more peace in of mind and a little smirk.😂

I was “forced” to do this ONCE in my life. I hate to have to do it but that individual was TOXIC AS FK!!!

ive done it many, many, times. 0 regret. @@alicehong7809

Sage advice.

That's exactly what I did and I met the most beautiful soul ❤ after doing do

Some people walk away too quickly, without trying to understand the real issues.

​@@valeriezaitzieff1462if someone cheat on you 3 months after having a baby with you what would you do

Very much this, stay authentic and kind instead of calculating but walk if it's deserved.

Yeah most of the times this is the case

Not the context of this video.

This is the actual reason.

Facts, thats why I had to walk away silently yesterday I had too.

That's not what we're talking about here

Bro take care of that connection cuz nowadays it’s hard asf to find that

How did you meet someone like that

@@greenbean2222 pretty much how he explains it lol…cuz once you let go of one person then the other is able to energetically enter your life

@@SAMCRO21 literally, all these boys are just a copy of one another. They don’t have a sense on how to value or respect one. Let alone understand what “love” is.

Wow congrats to you and your new girlfriend, comrade! I wish you both nothing but the best and Happy New 2024 🎉 Cheers!

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Or woman

Cowardness

@@blacklyfe5543 Ok Tough Guy

@@malone4735 ik I'm tough only a coward walks away from danger a real man stands on his own feet and fight for what he believes in 🤫. It's okay to walk away from certain situations that might jepardize your job or freedom but you should enforce respect among your enemies, there's no place for disrespect in my world.

💯 my experience with walking away. It's the most difficult truth I have had to accept.

Anyone who walks away from a family that doesn't know they're toxic, does not care if they are grieved by that family for their leaving. They have set themselves free.

Yes, I think you are right. Someone walked away from me, with no clue at all, and this person was abusive. The narcissist leaves when you have nothing to give them but your love and kindness. ❤🙏🏽

Thats’s true! Once you get over the pain and confusion,and I don’t use the word lightly,you will SEE THEM. And you will see the gift the gift they gave you.

I walked away from an abusive BPD wife in 2016, best thing Ive ever done. No regrets.

It's not cruel at all. It's self-preservation and self-respect to flee from a toxic friend/lover etc. Most people don't have the guts to do it but they should learn how to do it and free themselves from the negativity.

@@lanebashford3982I believe there’s 2 sides of this. Not everybody are abusers that get abandoned.

I hope he wasn’t me. I regret having blocked someone almost right after doing it and now I regret it deeply I didn’t understand how much damage it caused her either. The worst thing I’ve ever done. I know I killed all attraction, I had never been in a relationship before and I hate having to learn what not to do the hard way, I just hope she’ll accept my new friend request so we at the very least can have some closure

@martinpegeeson4350 Just move on. You started a chain of events that will never stop. Practice self control next time and so not be so impulsive

@@SabrinaDacosta yeah you’re right

Broke it yesterday but I can't even sleep, I liked him but all I was getting was self doubt, breadcrumbs and disrespect. 😢

I finally walked away after trying to break up from him for several years. It has been 12 months now. It has been so hard at times, so painful, however it has also been amazing. I have learnt so much about myself and completely valuing and appreciating who I am. A beautiful, kind and compassionate woman. I gave my love to the wrong man. I won’t do that again. That’s a promise. I totally love and honour myself and deserve the best.

God bless you sister. Maybe you should also consider the type of people your children became, and I do not mean that in any nasty way. Souls incarnate here in this school of life for a purpose and to learn lessons through particular life experiences. Parents and early family are a fundamental part of that lesson, as they are like the bow that shoots the arrow in a particular direction. I was divorced in my late twenties and tried so hard to keep in contact with my young son, while his mother created a new family with a new man and pushed me out in order to do that. Unfortunately, my son grew up to be arrogant and self-centered and showed very little, if any, desire to maintain contact with me, his natural father. For a long time I blamed the divorce and its effect on him, but eventually realised that it was his fundamental basic character and that I was deluding myself. It took the impartial observations of others to make me realize that. He is now into all kinds of perversions and a few years ago I disinherited him. What are the impartial observations of others that knew both you and your situation, as maybe they would give you clues? Peace be with you.

So very sad...

Stay strong sister. You are doing the right thing. May god bless you😇

I feel all your words and read the following reply from markcrocks, you Saud no one knew of the yra of the abuse, you did your bes5 to raise your kids, yet there's some truth in marks words that your kids' characters were formed from what they witnessed from your ex husband's behavior and they inherited some if that lack of empathy towards you that can't be humanily changed by you.. only God's grace can convert hardened hearts. I'll pray with you for this to happen. In the meantime, find confort in your newfound freedom from abuse and in Christ's love. (from someone who's been there too)

Hurt people hurt people. Everyone needs help. Everyone deserves a second chance if they do.

good for you. your always the last to know.

@@lilfairycupcake it’s so true. His entire family knew before me

@@lpsglitterpaws8536its a sick lil game people play to make themselves feel more powerful. would also incorporate 0 contact into your just walking away scenario; it helps hammer home just how lil you care. not caring, properly applied, can be a beautiful thing.

​@@lpsglitterpaws8536 😮wow. Thats crazy.

bow to you

You never count your money When you're sittin' at the table There'll be time enough for countin' When the dealing's done

Omg...I'm in the same boat

Me too!! Said bye bye psycho bish!

Pushycotic? Lol.

Unfortunately my guy you can kiss your money good bye. Didn't seem like a good friend to start with. Good luck hopefully you'll be out of debt soon.

generally they dont. a holes, generally stay a holes.

The Universe IS Relation

Don’t walk away, fly away Eagle 🦅

It’s weak and manipulative

Here’s the But. What if you Ghost someone who has done nothing to you. And it happens more than I care to think about. There are only 2 perhaps 3 reasons to Ghost or Walk Away. If there is abuse,physical,verbal,or mind games. Yes get the hell out of the relationship. Its more like self preservation. But to just Walk Away or Ghost anyone who’s done nothing to you,either a friend a partner or someone your involved with romantically,thats just plain wrong. And there must be some defect in any person who does that to another person. Where’s the Honor,Integrity,or Character In that type of behavior. NONE.

@@billmiller1868 agreed

@@billmiller1868 but this video is about them doing something wrong to you. My comment is parallel with the message of this video. "Nothing wrong" can be subjective. I also agree with you. If you did nothing wrong and can fully guarantee you did nothing then that person is chicken shit. Usually that's a sign of borderline personality. I got ghosted within a 30 minute window. I was training at a calisthenics park in Florida and met this beautiful Colombian lady. I would even buy her workout equipment as this was during the pandemic when workout equipment was in scarcity. She was my gym companion for about 6 weeks. We would work out together about a couple days a week for CrossFit but I saw her almost every day when I specifically did calisthenics. I saw her in the morning, said hello, kissed her, and handed her a 12 pound workout ball. It was a normal routine as I would always kiss her GM and goodby and she would lean in so I could kiss her. Within 30 minutes my workout was over I went to kiss her goodbye and tell her I was leaving Florida because the roads are opening back up and I won't be required to be quarantined going into Texas. She dodged my kiss. WTF. It definitely messed me up. She got real standoffish. I went to my vehicle with my feelings hurt and confused. There was no sexual chemistry and nothing in any text that showed sexual interest. I could even say I was friendzoned. But during the pandemic I had no one to talk to so being friendzoned was okay because I was lacking human interaction. I even called a friend and explained what happened and even he was baffled. I texted her explaining I was leaving for Texas and thank you for having conversation and training together. It was important to me that she at least knew I wouldn't be training at this specific park because just in case the situation made her uncomfortable she at least could go back to working out knowing I wouldn't be there anymore. But she left me on read. To this day it doesn't bother me but I will never forget the weird disgusted awkward feeling. Can you imagine kissing someone good morning, handing them an exercise ball that you bought, she accepts it just like the jump rope, and the perfect pushups she asked if I could get her, you go back to do your own workout, and then bam she ghosted you 30 minutes later to the point she looks repulsed by you. There would have been no point in asking why she ghosted or reacted like that. It was one of the weirdest confusing situations I have ever encountered.

@billmiller 👏👏👏

This is my experience recently thank you

Uh oh....the plot thickens... your comment adds counterpoint to most of the others. Everybody is strapping on their hiking boots to take this advice but your comment at least advises others to THINK first: Was the person really abusive? What was our own role in allowing the abuse or disregarding it? I am intrigued by your comment because I am in a situation where the other person just wants me for sex but I want more. The song that keeps coming to mind is "I Can't Make You Love Me". I accept responsibility for rationalizing the behavior for over a year now, but I admit I enjoy the sex. I am NOT seeing myself as a victim in this situation, I believe in really looking at my own role in this. This person has been honest from the start as to the potential for romance. I want roses (yes, some men do!), not a perpetuation of booty calls, lol! But alas, I feel there is a difference between overt abuse and someone who is just scared of emotional intimacy and thus "emotionally unavailable". I have indeed walked away from two people in the past, but those people were genuinely abusive and tested my boundaries. I told both before moving in that ANY physical violence will lead to my leaving and I did ! I keep going back to current one because the sex is sizzling. I am thus not ready to walk away, but to instead "compartmentalize" so this person is now relegated to "the sex box" and I am privately resuming my search for a quality person who is not afraid of non-sexual touch and offers the affection I seek. A therapist was not helpful in sorting this out.

Oh wow. 1979…

The fact that they didn't try to get you back tells you that you did the right thing.

@@FriendofDorothy please try a different therapist - they are only human, some good, some not so good. Your situation is more common than you think and CAN be resolved. Have faith in you!

The video says you aren't supposed to explain.

This 100%. I don’t think people complaining about this video understands where it’s coming from. It’s talking about when someone has been cruel and disrespectful (abusive) to you.

Yes it's created a lonely epidemic

You don’t do it for/against them but for yourself. Self love, self respect.

Exactly. Not everyone deserves to be ghosted. Especially if you are a caring person. I am speaking from experience.

Their rejection is your protection.

@@yeswing10 amen 🙏🏽

In your case, that TRASH took itself out.

If your for real. Consider it as an act of God. And run, change your phone number and address. And don't look back. For your OWN well being.

Yes

I think a lot of people in the comments don’t understand this! Obviously walking away from anyone in this manner over willy nilly issues is cruel and immature. They must not know what this video is talking about- when someone takes advantage of you in a disrespectful manner, this is the only way to handle it. To send a strong message and to retrieve your integrity again. To do anything but is actually wrong. Those that do wrong (and you know they know they did wrong) do not deserve the respect and kindness. It would be placating them in their sickness not to send a strong message.

Of course you have to walk away from narcs they'll rat you out to the po for your drugs lol

You are such a 🤡 clown bro. Don't take every bullshit that sounds legit on the internet. People change.. we've all done stupid things that we ended up regretting about. Yes walk away, but if that person you walking way realizes her mistake, it is worth to give her a chance to prove she has changed. Moral of the story, how many people are you going to walk away if they make a mistake?

Nah fuck that

True. I dont think ghosting people is very mature or respectful. If everybody just walks away from a person without saying why we do so they will never know what causes it in case they wanna work on it.

Go back to your korean drama bullcrap my guy

​@@zion367most times people walk away after having tolerated disrespect so many times, addressed the situation several time, observed possible changes and your last tired is tired. Most times the aggressor knows very well what they are doing. So ghosting is normally not ghosting because you will have followed the above to remedy the situation.

@@WNdaba I still think we can let them know we are done with their crap.

Get away & stay away my friend 👍

@markuzzz266I don't think I'm capable of being an emotional tampon for any woman ever again it's been 15 months and I did the same thing as far as leaving complete no contact.Right before XMAS she tried to contact me. Some people are to emotionally damaged and entitled to have a healthy relationship and they don't have or refuse to acknowledge self-awareness to heal there baggage. My mental, emotional, physical, spiritual health is healing and my confidence is coming back. Fulfillment in life comes from within !

Poor behavior on your part. You tell someone why you are leaving. You act in respectful manner to them and to yourself. Had you done it the proper way, you may still be in your son's life.

I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

Really? How do i find one?

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

I lied, yes you can walk away. But, it doesn’t mean you have to let them know.

Yes, it's easy to walk away when they treat you like dirt but it's sooo hurtful to walk away when they're nice to you but it just hurts to be in touch with them but can't be involved with them

And women because both lose when it comes to divorce

@@poppytaylor765 If women lost so much they wouldn't be divorcing their husbands 2/3rds of the time. There is just no way "all" those men are the problem (many are). Add in the divorce industry fleecing the couple for as much as they can get and you can see why marriage has been going down for a couple of generations now. Your remark that women lose in divorce is the indication of their reliance on husbands to sustain their standards of living. But who am I kidding poppytaylor765, accountability to women is like Kryptonite to Superman.

@@Snarge22 I take accountability don’t worry and I’m self aware so personally think I’d make a good wife. I don’t speak for other women I speak for myself

Man can't trust your virtue@@poppytaylor765 as most all marriages are thought to be lifelong when the vows are given. ...until they're not. You need to ask yourself the question from a man's point of view, "What does marriage provide that I can't already get without it?" I'll help you with that answer in regards to men. The answer is; absolutely nothing! In fact it's much worse than that. Men still are held to their obligations, being accountable and responsible. Yet today in marriage they have no authority as that's been usurped by the state, its laws, and the divorce industry. Men can get sex outside of marriage (not guaranteed in marriage) and they can have children. Being able to get these makes a State marriage license utterly pointless to men who are aware of the legal dynamic. When men are in a long term relationship and not a State legal marriage, well that exit is never fully shut, and the women know this! It alters their behavior knowing their man isn't fully locked down. Good luck to you Poppy Taylor, but if you run across men reluctant to marry, you'll know why.

@@Snarge22can we not turn everything into a battle of the sexes? bad men AND women exist-no one’s got the monopoly.

So don't do it. My father abandoned my mother, my little brother and me when I was eleven years old. It is impossible for me to overstate the damage that did. If the relationship with their mother fails, okay, but to walk away from one's children is utterly reprehensible. A spouse can be divorced but your children are always, always, always your children.

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