Her 1st. Mistake was being his girlfriend for 10 years at her age. Also,the great Judge Lynn Toler always says " never make a man tell you twice that he doesn't love/want you."
@@FinDom1 Amen. Never let them see you sweat 😅 Or cry. I love your name.... I used to be Neekie, as people in Kentucky had a difficult time with my real name. That was 60 years ago... Have a great day!
He told her he didn’t want her and called the police because the other woman was there. Had she not of been there he probably lets her in. I was young once and I was in a committed relationship but seeing another woman on the side. When the main squeeze showed up and caught me with the side woman I pretended like I had told the main squeeze we were done and that she needs to leave as she had no business here and I was going to call security. Sounds like that’s what the boyfriend was doing. He got caught red handed and he turned on one of them.
@@leir2005 She isn't young. He embarrassed her and left with another woman. She should've left with dignity after he called the cops on her. But instead she decided to destroy his property and the other woman's car windows. She made a damn fool out of herself. There's no excuse she need to move on.
I would love to see how unattractive this guy is at his age still playing the field, and these two beautiful black seasoned women acting like fools over this wrinkled piece of 💩. What kind of example or they setting for the daughters and grand daughters in their families. So sad
The defendant is nuts but what I find odd about the plaintiff is how she continues a relationship with someone immediately after being confronted by a crazy “ex”. If you have a crazy “ex” I’m not dealing with you at all. It’s not worth it! 😳😖 🤷🏾♂️
@@nmmy2boys1108 the issue of the plaintiff is that she didn't use common sense to remove herself from a dramatic and escalating situation. Now she's in court and dealing with a malicious stalker...
This could’ve turned out an entirely different way.. My aunt was killed in a similar situation. People play games with people emotions can be dangerous
I knew the defendant was guilty because of the way she insisted on talking to him "to end this". She already knew everything she needed to know to "end it" herself... no discussion was necessary - she should have just walked away and removed him from her life. People who insist on talking in these kinds of scenarios are angry and don't want to take "no" for an answer. The plaintiff should have dumped him too.
When she kept saying it over and over again like..what do you need to talk about? what do you mean you need to end this?.. is over.. he’s calling the police on u and he’s w/his new woman in here in Underwear..what else do you have to do to end it?
So the plaintiff is dating a man for two and a half years, one day she shows up to his place and a random woman is there claiming to have been dating him for the past ten years. The man gets rid of the ten year girlfriend saying she’s yesterday’s news and the plaintiff just rolls with him for a night out on the town, easy as pie?
There are some desperate women out here, he made plaintiff feel like she WON, knowing the defendant would probably be right back if he says the right words. SMH they in court fighting each other while he somewhere chilling with another woman
Really?? Last time i checked life is life, at any age. & a woman's options decline as her age inclines. But i know, I'm on the magic board where every woman here is a 10 w/ infinite options until death....* yawn*
@@wolfmancool She was addiliated w/ this man for a decade. I don't like the extent she went to. ..But let's examine this W/ sober lenses. She was face to face w/ another lover & ur expectation is for that individual to act completely rational?? Stop it.
Wow....just wow. She tried to fight for a man who had been cheating on her and told her that he didn't want her anymore AND called the police on her because she wouldn't leave. What more evidence did she need to convince her he didn't want her anymore?
This is horrible, how the defendant low rated herself. If after a 10 year string along relationship, she should have held her head up high and walked away. She lost all her pride when she destroyed their property.
@@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 Clearly...u just don't get it. The bulk of you dont. You will eventually though. I'm content to let you all walk in the fog of your delusions.
Young women (and men) pay close attention to this. If you are thinking in this manner or engaging in this type of behavior, STOP NOW! Don't get to this age and still be playing these silly games. REALLY, REALLY LEARN FROM THIS. There are a lot of lessons in the clip.
I agree; wholeheartedly. Why is it that some women; allow men to misuse them, for the sake of having a man? Does self-preservation no longer exist @ self-care? They, now, both, know, he is clearly a cheater and can't be trusted. Self evaluate. Get a good grip on how you feel about yourselves !
That's what I said... What kind of a super loser do you have to be, to still go out to dinner with a man after his girlfriend just caught you at the house?
The plaintiff seems like a sweet person, who did absolutely nothing wrong, other than being in the wrong place at the wrong time. The defendant on the other hand, made herself look like a damn crazy person for damaging the plaintiff's vehicle for no reason other than they were both unknowingly dating the same man. I'll never understand why some women take their anger out on the other woman. The defendant is way too old to be vandalizing someone else's property because she got her feelings hurt!
First off, you knew he didn't want you. I'm pretty sure he wasn't answering your calls. That's why you had your crazy ass at that man's house and wouldn't leave. You didn't need to go to his home to get closure. Crazy women are dangerous.
Closure sometimes mean choosing you over a person or situation. If he didn’t return her phone calls or texts he had closure already and she should’ve moved on as well
Yes it hurts when a person do not want you but the best revenge is to do better. Exercise, dance, socialize, and meditate. Let him see you bless not stressed.
The defendant is ridiculous. He was giving her the " closure" when he told her to leave in front of the other woman. She had no right to question the plaintiff about ANYTHING. And I dayum sure wouldn't have answered her . And to be keying cars and flattening tires is sooo dumb, immature, childish. Especially at her age! Smh
There is no fool like an old fool. Anytime a woman is dumb enough to be with a man for 10 years they are not wrapped too tight. Nothing keep me around that long but finance ( no romance without finance).
The sad thing is he's probably doing to the plaintiff what he did to the defendant. Its good the plaintiff defended herself but she needs to know she is going into an on and off situation herself. She'll be 10 years down trying to get this guy only to find herself running into a younger prettier version of herself. SAD.
If he tells you to leave his property and he has another gf comes then It is DONE. What are you talking about ma’am. You have your answer lol let him go
This is some immature twenty year olds mess! They both need to leave him alone! He’s clearly playing them both! The defendant, 10 years! No ring! When you get older you don’t have those years to give away! You must respect time! Or you will lose it!
Orrrr....he's exercising his abundant options. We know nothi g of these folks' histories & experiences. It's holarious that u think aging women have unlimited opportunities.
@@Mr.Oct___ they don’t! My comment was about time! You can’t allow something or someone to waste your time! You can’t get it back! I don’t care how young or old a woman is , don’t settle for anything or anybody! Know your worth!
It was kinda hard to hear at the end, but the Defendant drives down the Plaintiff's road everyday. She is nuts and Plaintiff can officially get that order of protection for stalking.
she said "our boyfriend " wow lol.. fact is he still have her number in his phone..bpleaee once im done , unless we have a Child or a business together, there is no point of having her number.. block delete period 😒
Her reality was those 10 years! Maybe they both should have whacked him in the b*"+s. He played them both. Probably doing the same with someone else now. Don't get angry with the other woman.
The defendant is the perfect example of why people need to learn how to find closure on their own from a relationship. She dealt with this man for 10 years and it got to the point to where she pretty much knew it was over, but used the excuse of needing closure to have some type of contact with him.
SHAME SHAME SHAME on both of y’all!!!!! This old man don’t want y’all!!! Middle age women fighting for a old man???????? Have some respect for yourself ladies!!!!
She sure fought them hard enough to stand there at the end saying he’s yours. All she had to do was walk away knowing he already cheated on new girlfriend with her. I’d have laughed at her and told them both they deserve one another.
if you get strung along for a whole decade, I don't think there's room to laugh at anyone new 😂😂 that's enough to laugh at yourself while walking away.
@@cmbsr4851 I’m not blind and I don’t lie to myself. And I would laugh at the new gf for thinking she had something special by taking a man that had lied and cheated a 10 year relationship. Says more about him and how stupid the new girl is. 😂
Dating for 10 years? No proposal at all. That was neither of your man. You were just backshots and he schedules you for different days. #SituationShipGoneGhetto
@@greenbooker6520 Interesting take....Is it not equally as weird how many of u goofballs have the same responses? I'm not defending anyone. I am however, challenging ur foolish trival notions and assumptions. ..All you scallywags sound ridiculous up here.
Although it was wrong, I don't know what the plaintiff expected, The woman told her it was going to get bad and if I see myself in that kind of situation I'm getting in my car and going home and they can deal with that foolishness. She felt like she Won and walked outside with him to be seen and to flaunt it in another ladies face. she got what she stayed for, I wouldn't have felt comfortable leaving my car there from the jump. They both should be ashamed of themselves, they are both too old to be behaving like Teens.
i’m in my 50’s and i’m yet to meet a woman who refuses to date a man because of what another woman or anybody else tells her about him or what she herself sees him do. Women, especially scorned women don’t really give if a shyyt bout a pos 💩💩 dude treating another woman like a pos💩💩💩. Old defendant just trying to run off her competition. She already bout to go to jail for stalking witnessed by the police. Pure desperately lying CLASSLESS Heffa!
Who raised these old women to act like they have no sense? Is this what women are up to now? What the heck is going on that no one has any basic self respect or Sense?!
This is embarrassing. These women is too old for this mess. I bet the woman who has been with him 10 years believes everything he says. She is probably still with him. SMH
The defendant has no pride. Before the plaintiff drove up when he let me know he didn't want me I would have left. That's would have been my closure. Not really, I would have never gone to his home. When we were going back and forth on the phone I would have terminated the relationship.
@@Mr.Oct___ Speak for yourself. Depends on how much self-awareness and self-esteem you have. My parents taught me to hold my head up high. There's no way I would have gone to his house for 'closure.' What is a closure? If you don't want me today, then I don't want you yesterday. Groveling over a man that doesn't want you. It will never happen. Destroying people's property because someone doesn't want you. That's not how my life as you say plays out. 🤦🏿♀️
@@sharonsmalls6846 Right...ur speaking for yourself from the outside. & we're talking about her. She's been connected to that man for a decade. If it were as simple as "go home", she would have done so. On top of the fact, there was a 2nd woman right in her sight line. That's not easy to release and walk away from. Especially when u are up in age & don't have many prospects for the future. & even if u did, what are u goimg to do as a woman, just perpetually date & let man after man lay on top of you? You aren't thinking in real terms.
@@Mr.Oct___ Yes, I am. I am 67 years of age, and I don't care how long I have been with someone. Again, I would have never lowered myself and gone to his home. She knew he was a cheater if she's been with him for a decade. When you have no standards you accept being treated badly. I didn't deal with drama when I was young and I certainly wouldn't accept it today. Police are being called and destroying people's property over a man. It couldn't and wouldn't be me. I repeat you don't want me today, my response is I didn't want you yesterday. The closure is he doesn't want you. That's fine. Some people react negatively to rejection. Everyone is rejected, it's life, get over it, release, forgive and move on. I have given speeches teaching people about rejection because people spiral out of control. People do not know how to control their thoughts and dwell on thoughts that lead to depression. Because another person has a preference and they become disjointed. He probably was cheating for years and the defendant should have left 9 years or 9 and a half years ago. Again, poor self-esteem and no self-awareness and she stayed in a negative, nonproductive relationship.
@@Mr.Oct___ I was mulling over how I might get you to understand that people operate and conduct themselves differently. You are right, I am speaking of myself, and I began in my first comment. In life some people are spectators and some people are spectacles. I am not a spectacle, it's not in me. The defendant is a spectacle. You are not going to be able to convince me to be a spectacle. If I wasn't a spectacle in my youth, I certainly am not going to begin as I'm approaching my seventies. Perhaps, now you understand why I say this woman has no pride, self-esteem, or self-awareness. If you do not that's fine as well. We are all different.
The plaintiff's large body makes her look older than the defendant, but the defendant's flappy neck makes her look older than the plaintiff. So basically they look the same age. Lol