Even if Larry wasn’t real. All I want is their friendship to come back. I miss that the most:/ (Guys let others have their opinions don’t come here and comment saying “Oh Larries were the ones who ruined them” like yes I get it some were toxic but some weren’t.)
i doubt their friendship will come back, it’s too far gone. the larries that continually tried to out them, send hate to their girlfriends etc. ruined it for them :(
I feel like Larry is a reason their friendship was kinda ruined because if they were friendly towards each other people would just be like “omg Larry being cute they’re so in love” so they had to be so careful it drove them apart
probably because toxic larries made it uncomfortable, like imagine having people write graphic fanfiction about you and your bandmate.. thats so uncomfy.
But still people be like , nothing is there larry is not real . Nothing was there they were joking . Like was your whole life a joke that you are claiming everything to be a joke😂😂
@@landonjohnson4477 ik he has but when they say it publicly im pretty sure theyre joking cos they say it sarcastically i do believe in other larry proof tho and i rlly want them to be real
@@taylorhammond7274 they are real. The way they look at each other, the way they CONSTANTLY flirt with each other. That isn't just best friends. The group knew each other for a very long time and none of them except Louis and Harry act like that.
I've gotta say: you are probably the most respectful dating/charisma expert on RU-vid. I've never once thought you were trying to stir up drama or fish for views. You definitely embody "Treat People With Kindness".
Yes u are very respectful ... thank u for that :-) I also agree with what u said towards the end of the video I want it to be true cause they are cute together but I know it was most probably just a very close friendship which I'm fine with cause as u said it is nice that two guys can be such good friends and so close in the way that they were without it having to be sexual
this is actually a bit refreshing to watch... I'm a larrie but this has made me think about things in a different way, especially towards compilation vids. don't know if this was the best video to get the whole larry theory across to someone who doesn't know about them to begin with but the way he explained things without being disrespectful to people who do believe in it was nice. thank you!
@TheProfessionalWeirdo no...it's a public interview but someone didn't want it to be public. it's not "private". there were other interviews from the same day that were posted. do ur research first lol
@@keylimetea huh? I wasn't replying to you idk why you're asking me that LMAO. the person I replied to was saying that if the interview was private no one should've leaked it. I don't know if the channel that posted the video had the interview, or someone sent it to them, but it wasn't meant to be aired, that's why we didn't know about it for years. oh and fun fact. there were a couple more interviews from the same day that were in fact aired. this was the only was that wasn't public until a couple years ago. hmmm wonder why. and btw, louis and harry weren't allowed to do more interviews together and that should tell you all tbh.
that's different cuz louis and eleanor's relationship is and was more private than harry and louis's relationship. you can watch a lot of videos of h and l interacting but when it comes to e and l there's just videos of them literally walking or just louis saying "eleanor, my girlfriend" in an interview. you should know that if you don't feel like they are a real couple just because of the way they walked near each other or how they reacted when they were surrounded by paparazzi, that doesn't mean anything
Okay, but everyone's ignoring the fact that that same day later, they went to dinner just they two ALONE and leaving the restaurant Harry showed up with a new ring, which he obviously didn't have when they came in. Of course, these are things that 'best friends' do
You know what? you're right because yes, they were close and they were actually best friends and what I'm saying is just one of all the gifts that they gave to each other but you know? That doesn't mean that best friends can not fall in love or that best friends can't be dating too. But dw I know that's something you might not understand
Ofc friends can fall in love!, I'm not saying that. All I'm saying is, stop trying to see "proof" in every detail of their lives that you find. All you see is couple of pictures every now and then, you don't know what's going on in their lives. And no, friends going out for dinner and giving gifts to each other is not a "proof" for your conspiracy. I don't want to get into this "larries vs antis" war, I'm just saying, leave the boys alone, respect their life choices. If they'll want to tell you something important, they will.
What you call 'proof' is just a reminder of what happened that Valentine's Day. And I do respect them, but I also listen to them, something that most don't do, because yes, they will tell us something very important soon just wait and see. stream Only the brave
@@ivanna2828 I mean... I don't know you, but if you call "listening to them" a good thing, then I don't know what to tell you. It's not easy having every movement of your life watched and misunderstood. I don't know, just google "Louis and Eleanor 2021", to see a real relationship, but again, all we see are couple of pics. I hope you have a nice day, keep streaming Walls :)
@@annaparkinson4317 same lmao and my bestfriends are male and one female. It's interesting because me and my female bffs are very hands off but me and my male bffs are very handsy. ... hmm
@@jokeryt7502 can't you just take a joke? I'm seeing in every comments. If "my first real crush was Louis Tomlinson " , "are you and louis dating " H: "yep" are jokes , then it is also a joke take it easy way.
The fact that he said “if they were controlled, management would’ve let the do that” not knowing that management didn’t let this interview be public until Louis bought it
He said that pr would shut it down, but the did! This interview was never puplished, we only found it later and leaked it, so management DID try to shut it down
all the 5 boys in the band didn't give in to toxic masculinity. they hugged and kissed each other on the cheek, they were affectionate just like girl bestfriends would be, and people misunderstood all of it. ruined a good friendship.
I mean if it’s not real..how tf does Walls even exist?! Like if I try really really hard, I can convince myself Sweet Creature is about some girl (ewwww noooo) but the whole fucking Walls album?! Also Harry’s mvs do NOT make sense if it’s not real. Why on earth would he want to pick up a bunch of descriptions from two of the most famous Larry fanfics and use them in his mvs?!
Lol. I do think it is weird that harry and louis have multiple, multiple, coupley tattoos,(half hearts, rose and dagger, eachother's handwriting, etc) while louis and eleanor have matching L and E tattoos that disappear from time to time in their photos. Louis literally posted a picture without the tattoo, then deleted it and reposted a picture with the tattoo. Kinda sus.
I don't think either one of them would take pride in being good liars. It's below both of them. It'll come out when it comes out IF it comes out. They don't owe us confirmation.
As a straight guy I really understand what you said. Me and my friends always make fun when we are around other people we know. Kiss on the cheek, call the other "my love". Sometimes may even seem like we are really attracted to each other, but we're not. We don't do this stuff when we're alone, just in front of other friends to fool around. Great video man, keep up the good work.
If they were comfortable like this why they changed so much in 2014 and 2015 they can’t make eye contact. If they were joking why they changed when they knew about this theory . None of them made it clear , media and fans ruined their relationship or this unique friendship I feel bad for them
Arthur Vianna they were open expressing their feelings in 2012 and 2013 this interview was in 2012. If you watch their interviews in 2014 and 2015 they are so different . They acted so weird if they were comfortable why they switch when fans began to like them together ? harry styles has song called sweet Creature is about Louis and there is love hashtag in this video in harry channel. Also they are matching tattoos. They are books about this theory which is insane. If they were together or not I believe they have unique and strong connection.
@@reemy8245 I know all about this haha I'm a big fan since 2013. Its sad sometimes when relationships just change like this. You can see how Zouis was cool and then when Zayn left him and Louis arguing on Twitter. Thats sad.
Reem Y i completely agree with the previous comment. It’s because they feel like they can’t act like that in public anymore because people might take their actions too seriously or the wrong way hence the birth of Larry shippers. Never understood how people just didn’t understand that they WERENT in a relationship. My boyfriend acts like that all the time with his best bros, he’s just a charismatic guy like that and their connection is through the roof. But he doesn’t like them like that at all.
I don't care if people ship them or not, you just gotta be respectful. Don't assume their sexuality, don't make disrespectful/sexualised posts. Remember how uncomfortable Louis has said that makes him, whether it's true or not, you should respect that he's said that.
I don’t want to be rude but you said we should not assume their sexuality, but saying they’re straight is assuming their sexuality. Just because being straight is „normal“ for most people it’s still assuming. Just wanted to say that. It’s nothing against you. It’s just I saw many tweets like “stop assuming their sexuality, they are straight” and it really annoys me sometimes
@@josie9193 I never said they were straight though. I would never say someone was anything unless they confirmed it. I never said anything that would involve them not being straight. I simply said people need to stop making sexualised/rude comments that make them uncomfortable.
What about those times when Harry looked like he was about to kiss Louis? Or all the looks ... I don't know there's something that tells me they're more than "best friends"
remember those diaries on the stairs? when liam had to almost lay behind them bc harry was about to kiss louis, another when louis was blindfolded and again harry was about to kiss him. When Louis said “and I’d marry you harry” but then realized how gay and obvious sounded so he added “cause it rhymes” Wellington “oh oh oh oh boyfriend!” the sexual innuendos/tension, etc. There is sooo much more than them looking at each other or one of them looking at the other while talking.
Thank you Larries and Antis! You're a One Direction stan regardless if you're a Larry or not. No bashing/rudeness/fighting in the comments. Please be kind and loving everyone and let's just appreciate the beauty of these two amazing men!
There was a live on instagram of Niall Horan where a fan said “scratch your head if larry is real” and he CLEARLY read it AND reacted to the comment if you want me to find it for you i can
Kiki Garcia they literally only said it bc he was scratching his head a lot at that time. and he didn’t read the comments. bc liam was asking him to join the live and niall never saw that. another stretch from the larries
baby_ honey i was in his lives and like i said, niall does stuff like that a ton and they say that when he’s in the middle of doing it. and he gets a bunch of comments so i doubt he can read every single one
I'm a larrie, and I've been one since 2014, I agree with this video that they could have been really good friends but there are things that I just don't understand when it comes to them and how they were 'just friends' and nothing more. 1- The fact that their management were known to be homophobic and discriminatory, and when louis and harry did anything slightly touchy like or even tried talking to each other they would straight away look to their management as if they aren't allowed to do it or checking if what they were doing is okay. If they were really just friends, their management wouldn't try to deprive the boys of their feelings towards each other and would let them fool around. But they didn't. 2- There is proof that Louis and Harry might of acted sexually towards each other. E.g. the Dallas situation, Harry and Louis boarding a separate plane to the other boys and coming out in a mess, Harry's hand seen on the tour bus window and louis coming out a few minutes later with his back all red. If they were best friends, I don't think they would go that far. I sure wouldn't towards even my closest friend. 3- Them being seen at gay bars, performing at a gay bar which was said to be Louis' idea 4- When they try to defend themselves, saying larry isn't real, they hesitate really badly. They don't give a straight answer. for example when Louis was asked about larry in an interview not too long ago he brought up Iphone conspiracies, instead of giving a hard 'no' he said 'so obviously theres no truth to it, obviously' 'people can believe what they want to believe' . he was hesitating. Same with harry, when harry was asked if Sweet creature (or two ghosts, i dont remember) was about louis he spent half of the time blowing raspberries and hesitating. if it wasnt, wouldnt he just say 'No it isnt haha' ? Last but not least, louis and harry are known to act quite queer and write songs with queer meanings and, especially harry, change these lyrics whilst performing. Theres multiple clips on the internet of harry changing the lyrics to Golden almost all the time, saying 'im hoping, that someday HE could be OPEN, i know that youre scared because im so open' and things similar to that. Louis tomlinsons song Only The Brave is a gay anthem, so is COACOAC and he knows that it is. I believe in larry, and i dont think i will ever stop until they come out and say 'we are not and were not ever together.' So until then i will keep fighting for them.
I don't believe in larry and I won't believe that they are until they say they are, I heard a few times that they weren't. Louis has said it at times and I believe so has harry.
@LemonScones It could be directed towards someone else. He has not stated that its about taylor. plus Style is not about harry styles, Taylor confirmed that it is about Fernando Alonso, she was going to name the song ‘we never go out of style’ but she thought that was too long of a title.
@LemonScones Sweet creature is not about louis, it is about Gemma - Harrys’ sister. And yes that could be true, but ‘i would lean towards no’ is not a definite ‘no’ which, to me, screams ‘i cant say, but i dont want to lie’ as leaning towards no can mean theres some truth to it
@LemonScones yeah i messed that up i didnt remember if sweet creature or two ghosts was abt gemma so thats my bad, but yeah you can interpret it in many different ways
I agree that men who aren’t ashamed to show their affection for each other, should be applauded; assuming romantic relationships are happening can be dangerous, unfortunately. I’ve seen the same shipping videos for Zayn Malik & Harry Styles. Later Malik distanced himself from Styles, probably to dispel the relationship rumors. It’s unfortunate men can’t be openly affectionate, without being accused of homosexuality. This video brings up a very important issue in our society. Another great video, Anthony! Thank you🌹
Not to be rude or anything but Zayn knows about this shipping thing with Harry right from start and he isn't bothered with it... It's rumored that they had a fight before he left the band and also yeah pushing people into a non existence relationship or sexuality really ruins everything like it did for Louis and Harry now they can't even socially interact with each other normally as friends
Wow I just made a comment saying he should make a video about them.. Thanks guys I just realized how inconsiderate I've been. I still ship lol I think it'll forever be with me but I hope it could fade away a little. But I feel bad for being part of them distancing eachother. Like my own family is really full of like toxic masculinity and I'm glad that they're able to express themselves it'd be a shame for us to ruin it by making them uncomfortable.
@@zweat_ yeah that's true. It even looks like zayn wants that zarry become more popular. He even used a hat with #ZARRY. I don't say that they were in a realtionship, just saying that he wasn't really bottered about it
I agree with him. I BREATHE FOR LARRY EVERYDAY. but for me, for being a larrie for 5 years, there is some "moments" that isn't actually a larry moment. Like, H wasn't even looking at L. You know. In my opinion, if you wanna be a LARRIE, you should look in every angle. BUT LARRY IS REAL (But I still respect any larries' pov. Just don't be to much, like ended up stalking them and yk, doing unnecessary things)💙💚
Larry may be real. You can’t really say it is because no one knows for sure except Harry and Louis. So considering the fact that they haven’t said a word about it being true y’all can only say it may be true.
This is actually a good video bc he made his research and reacted to this particular video since most asked for it, and he spoke from his professional pov and unbiased. That's good. No matter what everyone believes, it should be respectfully (tho if anyone would ever consider to dislike them or anyone bc of their sexual orientation, that's f-ed up, don't be like that).
Ok but the three larry moments that cant be proven 'just friends' to me are 1.what are your favorite songs of the album and lou says i loved you first 2. The interview where harry is sitting behind louis and starts rubbing his arm and zayn moves to try and hide it from there camera 3. i-is louis on vocal rest too???
Saaaaame, the vocal rest, the way they looked at each other at that red carpet when they were asked about their plans after the awards, they literally ate each other with their gaze. And that one about the arm, the first time I saw that clip I realized that larry was real
@@mochimin4293 The video of all the boys walking down the street with mgmnt and Harry has his arm around Louis and Louis is holding Harry’s hand, holding hands in the van in Ghana, Harry caressing Louis’ cheek and then Louis blowing Harry a kiss in an interview, the Nokia interview happening around the time Louis had started ‘dating’ Eleanor and Harry was starting to see Caroline Flack. How people can see all these moments and dismiss them as joking or ‘that’s what I do with my friends’ is mind boggling.
I do believe that everything that you talked about in this video is true in relation to the interview you watched. A lot of the proofs that people use are about how touchy they are even though it’s normal in a close friendship. However, most Larries rely on more tangible evidence such as lyric changes, jealous remarks and actions, and others. Just watching one interview won’t really show why we believe in Larry
True, remember the time when I started watching them. I was confused at first and didn't see much evidence between them. The more I got into it the more things started to be a little bit off. And now I'm just a clown. Also If we didn't leak it (as always) this interview would've never been released... so it has to mean something tho 🤓
He said he actually did that, he was just having problems finding video's he could play because of copyright. But if you listen he said he looked at a lot of other video's and looked into the lyric claims as well.
I've been a pretty big Larrie for a while, but as a guy, I also realize that a lot of the stuff they do is pretty normal best friend stuff. I do think its really unhealthy that guys aren't able to show friendly affection towards each other, but imo, there's quite a bit of undeniable evidence (Weird stares, jealousy, unnecessary touching.. like not play touching, just toughing in general). I completely respect both Louis and Harry as people and creators, and I love them so much. Together or not, some people need to chill tf out with Larry. Edit: This is 100000% not me saying that pushing the Larry narrative is okay- If the boys are together, they'll come out when they're ready. If they aren't/til then, please dear lord let them live
Yes yes yes this is so true!!! A few weeks ago I read an article where Louis said that him and Harry got further apart bc they were afraid of being shipped if they hung out together :( I’m a very big Larrie myself, but I think it’s so toxic that ppl actually dig into their personal stuff that has nothing to do with this. (But there is some pretty undeniable evidence that Larry exists)
The analysis of this relationship takes me back to living in Korea. I taught English in schools in Korea. In Korea, men are a lot more comfortable being physically close to their male friends. It was quite common to see boys in the classroom hold hands or hug each other. It is the sort of behaviour that boys in Australia (where I am from) would never do because people would assume they were gay, but it didn't have the same connotation there, so boys did it comfortably. It was also common behaviour to see with members of KPop boy bands.
I’m a larrie since the beginning and i wanna say that sometimes im ashamed because of it some larries are really toxic but not all. I think you should react to other videos more like 30 iconic larry moments because thare are more situations, different days you know. If larry isn’t real im totally okay with it and i will support boys all the time. I rally think its real but i respect everyone opinion. Its good to see people who look at them from different perspective💗
I think its about time u give up on ur theory. They are not together. Wishing and hoping they really are together is very distrespectful to louis who time and time again have told larries he has a girlrfriend, eleanor. Why dont u believe him? Respect his privacy. Dont dictate on him coz u r making them uncomfortable and unhappy. The larry fandom is already bordering on obsession and it's not healthy anymore. Have pity on these two boys. I can just imagine how they feel. Give them back their freedom. They are real people just like u and me. Just let them be with whoever they want to be with. Let them be happy with themselves and without the fandom dictating on them who they should be and who they should be with! Just imagine urself being dictated by other people to be the person who u are not. What would u feel? Have pity on harry and louis...
Anna Styles i said that i respect the boys and i will always support them im not a girl who would shout on streets to them that this is real. I just belive and it is my opinion im not hurtin anyone because i dont tell them what should they do or with who they should be it is theirs choice
Anna Styles and its not disrespectful for wishing and hoping that they are together. It is disrespectful for example when you shout on Harry’s concert: LARRY IS REAL but wishing its not bad thing
Anna Styles chill, she’s allowed to have her own opinions. Just because you don’t believe in them doesn’t mean everyone needs to see it in the same way...
Those videos really shows a really strong friendship, and boys should be allowed to be touchy and showing sentiments without having their sexuality questioned. But after I saw the videos with the sexual jokes, the lyric changes I wasn't so sure about their friendship lmao
Exactly . But people are like "oh we do this with our friends " like do you f*k your friend and still be like "We are just friends" and if someone is saying that, well that's friends with benefits not a friendship anymore.
Louis has his own management label now, and if he still says he's straight, he's straight and I believe him. Not that I don't like larry or don't believe in them, but if he honestly says he's straight I believe him.
1. He just has the idea of making it, not that it's already a functional company 2. He hasn't said he's straight now that he "is free to do what he wants" so 💀
@@moonfairfox yes, also even IF he was 'free' with his own company or label then he still couldn't talk about it because harry most definitely is not and harry denying it and louis confirming it at the same time would be super confusing
@@mattieearly6792 it's mostly because we feel safe with our fathers and that's what we are looking for in relationship - the feeling of safeness with that person.
I do believe in larry but I also value the good and close friendship that they have. Some larry fans do become very obsessed with larry which kinda sucks... and I feel so bad for louis beard... eleanor gets so much hate and she doesn’t deserve alot of it.. a lot of larry fans are toxic and hate on whoever harry and louis are rumored to be dating
Elounor fans are more toxic like i am not saying Larry fans aren't but i never saw Larries being mean to Elounor fans but i saw so many Elounor fans being mean to Larries they were very rude so it's both not just Larries
This is me a year later and I disagree w what I said lol at the time I didn't know all the awful shit their "girlfriends" did. And also elounors, can't believe they actually exist, are extremely worse than larries. While I find larries that always do shit like touch your hair or do ___ if larry is real comments annoying, I've seen so many homophobic comments from people who believe in stunts.
one important thing, you said most of the fans and shippers of larry are girls- that is because 90% of one direction's fanbase are girls... so idk if that's really applicable
i can safely say that wether or not larry ever existed and wether or not they were romantically involved at all-the larry fanbase should never have existed and definitely should never have became as extreme as it did because it literally ruined the dynamic these two had. not only should it never have become so speculative, but it also should never have continued past the 1D hiatus. it doesn’t matter if they loved eachother, it doesn’t matter if they didn’t-it’s not anyone’s business and it’s repulsive that people can’t comprehend the fact that the reason why their favorites don’t even mention each other in recent time or could barely interact during the theory rose to popularity in the past is because the larries made it that way.
I am a Larry but I’m not one to think everything is Larry related, but with lyric changes, hand holding, starring like into each other’s souls. It’s a little much, yk. Idk if it’s still real, but I know 100% it was.
I'm not a larry nor an anti but I just feel like it's wrong to make assumptions about their sexuality as that Is personal for them if they haven't come out and said it. Also sexualising a friendship can be damaging and can make it difficult for them to act the same way (Like Louis said). Also imagine If they weren't and you guys kept doubting louis' relationship with Eleanor how would that feel? The truth is ,right now, it's none of our business.
Agree 100%. Many do end up sexualising everything they do, and call Eleanor a 'beard' which I do find disrespectful. It's ok to want them to be together, but do respect their privacy and keep an open mind regarding the fact that there might not have been anything sexual/romantic at all. ❤️
I agree. People keep on talking about Eleanor being fake and stuff. It would hurt so much if they weren’t. I honestly think they aren’t but people will always speculate.
Well too late for that, their friendship was completley ruined, never acted like that on public again and everyone could tell things where super akward for many years
ok buttttt hear me out he doesn't know what we know, the whole larry "conspiracy" doesn't JUST have to do with how they act around each other it also has to do with secret looks, leaked interviews, lyric changes, unseen photos, queer coding, and more literally no one should be able to deny that larry was at least a thing at some point in their relationship
Some people just don’t want to see what is right in front of them. Any excuse but admitting they actually could have been in a relationship, and still are.
Just a reminder that this interview is not proof it just has larry momens in it but i as a larry don't think that those cute moments are the proof we have those are just moments and they need to seperated from actual proof
"My first real crush was Louis Tomlinson" - "mutual. We discussed it" - "That's beautiful Harry" Don't tell me Harry was joking. He was at its pure best, a 16 year old Harry in love.
Anthony what did you think of that one video of Harry playing with Louis' chair tapping at it and Louis moving his arm back and Harry stroking his arm incognito ... this video convinced many people it was real. I don't think they're still together but I do think they were once. I think the reason why Louis smiled while talking about his girlfriend is that he's thinking of Harry. They would sometimes use other people as a cover for each other... for example Louis' first meal he made was definitely for Harry. He took the picture and did the hand motions for this story every time. I remember that any time they talked about Susan Boyle it was a metaphor for Harry because of their similar curly hair. They had codes like this and fans think eventually they learned some sign language to communicate to each other on the down low.
i´m a larrie and i totally respect your opinion. Larry for me is a ship, it doesnt need to be real to make me want to ship them. is like a books or tv shows couples. But i also kinda think that some couples behave like friends in public like larry was all the time. Its complicated. I also bond so much of their friendship, maybe i grew up with so much toxic masculinity that seeing Louis and Harry making eachother so happy made me thought about a romance. Who knows? i hope they are still good friends, happy and healthy. Thanks for the video.
I vibe with ur statement. I had fall into this dark hole but I will surely be surprised if they come out because I'm at the point where I'm treating them as fictional character. All the theories, vids, pics, fanfic is so fun. It's like a never ending drama and I'm here for the ride.
@@zulaikazahiri6522 that's the problem, people forgot they're real, it's not like team edward or team jacob. They are real people who have feelings, love ones who also get hurt. I think it's not right and even unwholesome. It actually broke their friendship (they're still friends but not as close as they use to, in public and in private), they said it! Actions get consequences in the real world, and that's what's happened here. So yeah, deep down in my heart, i'm a bit sour toward Larries shipper.
@@cecilelpt5808 I got that.. that's y I don't point Larry stuff on solo vids. Before a Larries, I love Louis first.. so whenever I watch solo vids or 1D vids, I didn't see a Larry at all.. I only see all the interaction in Larry vids after people pointing it out. U probably gonna hate me for this, but I'm in too deep.. it's like a staple diet..
I'm a larry too and i agree with you, like there are also a lot of coincidences with their solo songs and just other things that aren't necessarily about the way they acted towards each other, idk maybe they were just best friends the whole time and us larries are clowning but idk I still kinda believe they were real. I just hope they're happy now together or not
Even if they were in a relationship, everyone putting so much pressure on teenage boys definitely ruined their friendship. They lowkey won't even look at each other anymore because people will over-analyze their every move.
I honestly think it is this video that makes it seem as if they aren’t together, there are plenty of other videos that make it seem obvious that they are dating. There is a video in which Harry literally says “my first crush was Louis Tomlinson “ and when asked about what Louis responded he says “it’s mutual, we’ve discussed it”. And another one where someone asks Harry if he and Louis are dating and he nods and says yeah and Louis is literally behind him so he couldn’t have lied. This is the most toned down Larry content I have ever seen and quite honestly, I would like to see you reaction to actual Larry content..
He says at the end that if their management tried to shut them down they would never talk about each other that way but he doesn't seem to know that this interview was leaked and never officially released and he also doesn't seem to know that over time, they did stop, and gradually, the control put over their relationship was extreme. They were put in separate cars, sat on opposite ends of the couch during interviews, and their public affection stopped almost completely. Most of our big proof from around 2013 2014 and 2015 is either sexual tension or things they didn't know we could hear such as when Louis knew how many push-ups Harry could do or when Harry said Louis was sex appeal at its finest or when Harry's shirt popped open and Louis got very uncomfortable. and those are only a few examples. their public image as friends were destroyed by the time the band split.
Why was Louis uncomfortable if he was with him? Did you consider it was having their every move scrutinised that drove them apart rather than management?
@@allinyourmind8710 did louis ever say he was uncomfortable? harry has confirmed larry twice, and people still ignore it. if they are being closeted, of course they wouldn’t SAY they’re being closeted, because then, THEY WOULDNT BE CLOSETED. if larry wasn’t real harry wouldn’t have said that his first real crush was Louis Tomlinson and that it was mutual and that they’d discussed it. if larry wasn’t real, when a fan asked harry at a signing of him and louis were dating, harry wouldn’t have said yes. (there are videos of both of these). and if louis had been a skinny white girl they would have automatically been pegged as dating. the only reason they weren’t is because of homophobia. it’s not disrespectful to assume someone isn’t straight in a heteronormative society where everyone is assumed to be straight unless proven gay. it’s assuming someones sexuality either way. and by the way, riddle me this, louis has an android, so the one time he got angry at someone for associating him with a gay person, why did he tweet it from an iphone? plus, i wouldn’t put it past their management knowing all the other horrible things they did to the band. for example dying nialls hair until it was crispy, causing zayn to have an eating disorder, giving liam his drinking problem over working them and treating them like objects. there is even a video of simon cowbells pr specialist saying he would put a gay person in a long term relationship with a woman to convince the public they weren’t gay. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-jpO6HkaGd5I.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-t6wH2ngQ2EU.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-YRslKHZxWOI.html
@@allinyourmind8710 just so you know, i play 4 instruments, play varsity basketball and am on a travel soccer team. last year i got 3rd place in a statewide rock climbing competition. i did martial arts for 8 years. i also have straight As. i also have written several papers on other topics such as a 4 page persuasive essay on why lgbtq history should be taught in schools and an 8 page research paper on the minds of serial killers. just because i find something interesting doesn’t mean i don’t have other hobbies. it’s possible to be educated on something and have other interests too. just because i’m a one direction stan and a larrie doesn’t mean i’m disrespectful. i don’t harass them or condone harassing them, and i don’t believe in babygate. while i believe everyone is entitled to their own opinion when others, like you, say things like “get a hobby” or “touch some grass” without any evidence to back up their claims it annoys me because it is clear they are only saying anything to refute other people’s opinions and be hurtful. if you want to have a civilized debate then i’m all for that but think before you post things that could potentially be hurtful.
@@rpennings2053 it’s called joking with friends, it’s annoying I do all this stuff with my mates and you wouldn’t see people saying we are dating. I would be annoyed if I was in their shoes
@@yasmine-nc6ht that’s literally what every Larry in this comment section is saying, it’s like they’re such *MASTER* conspiracy theorists that they are much more knowledgeable than this “”dating coach””!!! He’s being so blind omg!!! 💚💙💚💚💙💚💚💙 (I’m joking)
I typically love all your videos, but this one in particular really hit home for me. When I was younger, so many girls pushed on Larry. I never saw it. Their friendship seemed normal to me . It took me growing up (now in my 20s) to realize I was surrounded (or maybe unconciously surrounded myself) by men who were for the most part balanced in their feminine and masculine nature. Alot of them showed affection to one another similar to how you described your relationship with your friends. It saddens me that men are frowned upon or mislabeled when they do so, and that this show of affection is peculiar to us women as well. There’s something very wrong with two grown men feeling uncomfortable saying I love you (and although it’s unrelated they aren’t encouraged to explore themselves sexually either). I would love to see you do a video diving into masculine and feminine energies and even how maturity in both can play into emotional and social interactions, intelligence, and also shape ones identity, because I very much believe men not allowing one another these expressions have manifested or lashed out into society in other ways.
Very well said. I also had too many men friends and they were always playful with each other, I was so used to it that I didn't see Larry as a relationship. I did stan a Larry a lot but always as a bromance. Of course that there were moments when I saw theories and stuff, all I could think about was, if is real it is very beautiful, and they do deserve a love like that. And I'll support them if it turns out to be true, but and the end of the day I don't really think it is. And it is so bad that some people are actually very rude towards the people around them, and even to other fans.
Wonderfully said! I remember as an eighth grader when 1D blew up back in 2012 I was mostly drawn to 1D because I never seen boys around my age bracket be able to socialize with each other the way girls do if it wasn't being rough with each other, bullying or being gross, or calling everything under the sun "gay". It was so refreshing to see male relationships be so carefree, affectionate, and idk normal? Idk I pretty much stayed away from boys all throughout my time in school because they low key kind of scared me and I hadn't realized I was gay yet (I'm a bi girl, but I rarely am attracted to men tbh) and 1D was my weird way in relating to the opposite gender and seeing that they were also human and... it was weirdly beneficial to my adolescent years for being a healthy representation of what male friendships could look like so all of the intense shipping drama really bothered me and I made an effort to not get obsessed with strangers sexualities online, esp since I was struggling with my own (within maybe 3 months of joining 1d's fandom I realized avoiding "Larry" was the best thing to do for my enjoyment bc everything in their land was Extra, and uncomfortable to me. It was fun to joke that the boys were in love etc but Larries were obsessed and didn't know what boundaries were), and made me appreciate what was in front of me I think for as long as it was going to last (I already knew the shelf life of boyband so I was just excited to be experiencing the boyband of my generation and wasn't surprised or upset when zayn left since it was obvious him or harry would be the first to go). Also, it made me learn pretty early on how to curate my online activity with people (who were older than me w/ more experience in fandom) that just made fandom experience light and fun and made an effort to provide a distinct line between fiction and reality.
Honestly, I think he should have reacted to one of the video diaries, especially the one where Louis is blindfolded. Let's see if he'll be still able to say "there's no chance they're dating"
i looked at the comments and it seems like everyone is saying “watch another video of them and you will get a better picture of their relationship” and like i disagree. Also he has said he has watched a lot of different interviews. i feel like most of those videos recommended to him are like edited slowed down videos that make things seem differently than they are. He has probably watched multiple interviews and just doesn’t see about larry and it is ok.
@Abigail Fullon ok coming from someone who was a larrie and then grew up and realized that most of the proof is a reach. the princess park is one of the biggest reaches imo. the truth is all of the boys lived at princess park together. zayn lived with his friend in princess park and nobody assumed they were dating. But yeah all the boys lived in princess park together yes harry lived with louis in his apartment bc he was a minor and obviously they were really close and louis was an adult so he became his guardian to live with him (i personally don’t think it was romantic but it could have been) but exactly when he turned 18 he moved out and lived on his own until he got lonely and lived with ben winston. Then he lived with ed sheeran for a while. harry gets very lonely and likes to live with people so he has done that with a lot of his friends. which is why i don’t think louis and harry living together is proof of some secret relationship bc harry is just a social guy who likes to live with his friends. like he quarantined with mitch and sarah for a little while. and he lived with james corden for a bit, he just enjoys being around people and living with his friends. i also don’t think the “princess park” line has a lot of significance because even louis has said that the song “habit” isn’t referring to just a relationship but also how he’s evolved as a person and how living there with the boys early on vs where he is now. so yeah i’m sorry but personally i think the princess park line is a reach but believe what u want but if u want proof that harry likes to live with his friends even when he has his own house here www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/6958286/harry-styles-lived-attic-sitcom-happy-together/ www.pressparty.com/pg/newsdesk/EdSheeran/view/66906/?isworld=y and here’s them talking about how they all live in princess park together lol ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-qNGeDGmyBf4.html
@@shhhreyyaaaa he says well ‘I’m gay it’s pretty unfortunate isn’t it Eleanor’ n someone else from the band or management goes ‘can’t believe you’ve just said that’ they’re like nexto a lift surrounded by the crew. You’ll probs find a video of it
This is such a well done video. You were so respectful and kind about analyzing their interaction and very insightful with your take on their friendship. You brought me back to middle/high school watching my brother and his friends joke around with each other. I totally agree with your points. Also, I would love to bottle the charm that Harry Styles has and be a fly on the wall of his world. He seems like a really special person. Kind of like Paul McCartney or David Bowie charisma.
Louis is still with her which is crazy to think about tbh and I loved Louis and Harry’s friendship so much I hate that we all took it a little too far and it basically ruined how they interact in public and probably in private too
The fandom didnt ruin them, management did, modest did. Simon Cowell did. It was never us. Harry and Louis both said that the rumors never annoyed them. Harry said he liked them.
they played a lot like this until the rumors got big. then they stopped. thats why people think they were told not to show it to the world, you know? they spent more than a year totally fine with the shipping, and then they started to be separated in interviews, stopped interacting on social media and in concerts (would even try not to look at each other), articles would be published saying they werent friends anymore - when we could see by small actions they still were close. that is the "label trying to cover" thing. they would say in written interviews and in tweets larry bothered them, and then proceeded to gesture "okay" to larry signs. i'd love for you to react to videos of them denying larry.
when the rumors got big it started to actually impact their love lives and relationships though. it got completely disrespectful. even if you believe in larry, trying to out to people is never okay. continually labelling two people as in a relationship creates an incredibly awkward dynamic so obviously they wouldnt be spending as much time together because they dont want to fuel the rumours etc.
I think they just stopped being friends ,to me that is just pretty obvious And it most likely was because of larry and all the rumors They couldn't act like before because people created this narrative that whatever they did eluded to the fact they were together,they couldn't even look at each other without rumors starting and that affected their friendship After that nothing was the same It was awkward for them and weird and i think especially Louis had a problem with it
yes exactly. and when they were asked outright in audio/video interviews, they sort of dodged the question. but I'm fine with people believing or not believing. I'm not going to push larry on anyone and I hope that people who don't ship it will be respectful of my thoughts on it. I haven't commented about it on anyone's videos, because I don't want to be disrespectful. I only talk about it with my friends, who are larries. so I'm not forcing it, at least I don't think.
The thing is with Larry, it is not just body language. There are so many coincidences that aren’t explainable. There are so many separate things that add up to Larry. I do find that some Larry proofs are a stretch and don’t make a lot of sense, but I think there is so much that makes it a possibility.
I agree completely with everything you've said but as a larrie of almost 2 years I'd like to point some things out: 1. Louis about haylor: " they're good friends (if that)" 2. Sexual innuendos ( there are a lot but one is when harry says he's good at wood tech and Louis's like " really good " and Liam's knowing smile afterwards) 3. The way harry possessively rested his hand on Louis's thigh after the interviewer was being a bitch( every larrie knows about it I swear) 4. Louis : " I'm gay its pretty unfortunate isn't it, eleanor? " Management: "would you like to be quiet? " Liam: " I can't believe you said that " 5. Int: " how many of you have got girlfriends or boyfriends idk " . Harry: " Louis's..Louis's boyfriend " Management: " take that bit out " 6. That time when harry said Caroline flack was really hot and Louis frowned... harry immediately turned around and said " Louis too " 7. Zayn to Louis:" you're so comically- " Harry to zayn: " don't say it " Zayn: " what? " Harry : " He's gay " Zayn: " I was calling him a genius " 8. Fans to Ed sheeran: " marry harry" Ed : guys he's taken Fan : by Louis Ed : Innit ( Ed sheeran was really close to the 1d boys especially with harry) 9. Louis's most romantic dish and harry's tweet Please share your opinions about all these points. I genuinely want to know your view because yours is unbiased. Also these are just a few points. There are loads of other reasons why larries believe that they're in a relationship or at least were.... Thank you so much :)
10. *Harry tells an extremely bad joke* Louis: "Baby, you tried, but you failed" 11. The Mario Kart interview 12. Dallas 13. That one where they're in like a huge crowd or something and Louis yells "BOYFRIEND" 14. The baby cakes tweets 15. Louis' concern at the awards when Harry is missing 16. The interview where Harry says he would try to "snog" Adele and then turns to Louis and whispers "Sorry" 17. Harry to Louis: "Where do you want to sit?" Louis: "Next to you" Management: "You can't sit together" 18. That interview when someone asked Louis about Larry and he started talking about iPhones 19. Louis' reaction when Harry's shirt comes unbuttoned
@@cataelvander6066 the way I remember( I can perfectly see every moment in my mind honestly)every point you mentioned but can't even remember the name of the 1st chapter of my chemistry book says something....
I completely agree with you. The guy who made this video showed one of the least obvious Larry moments and acted as though there was zero chance they are in a relationship. Yes two guys who are close may act this way but not the way they act in many of their other videos.
You forgot the most important and obvious proof: The rose and the dagger The ship and the compass The "Hi" and the "oops" the 17BLACK and the reindeer the heart on Harrys left shoulder It can't be a coincidence 💙💚
The thing is the older Larry got the more strict management became. You can clearly see that in interviews such as this one, they were really flirty and interacted a lot with each other because there wasn’t too much interference from management. But over the years as they got older, they started to interact a lot less. Management basically forced them to hide any display of affection for each other in public. Eventually it even got to the point where some fans actually believed that they “hated” each other and were “mortal enemies”
listen, I was a one direction fan when they first popped up and when this first came out. and you guys have no IDEA. I mean NO IDEA, how rude, disrespectful, harassing, aggressive, and just plain nasty a lot of these Larry shippers were. they insisted that these two were in a relationship. when Louis and Harry both asked everyone to stop focusing on it and exploiting it because it began affecting their personal lives as well. It's one thing to support people and ship people, but it's another to harass and insist two are in a relationship non-stop... I mean it was really bad you guys.
Yes, if the shippers really care about them, they should stop because this hurt them so much, it was super toxic it was not okay before it's not okay now that we're grown
I agree that some larry shippers were toxic, but that doesn't represent the majority. And if it made them so uncomfortable, why would harry follow around 10 larry twitter accounts in a row last year?
Tom Edward 1. i don’t think harry has 100% control of his social media accounts. 2. it is possible for ppl to change their usernames on twitter. 3. they could have just had a larry username and post abt 1D as a whole. or just harry. many RATIONAL possibilities .
They did stop talking about Larry tho... this interview was in the very beginning stages and the video actually got taken down and rebought by fans I think, so their team did try to shut Larry down and then the two of them gradually grew apart over the years and couldn’t sit next to each other and stuff:( I’m not really a Larry but just saying
Yeah weren't they signed with $imons company. Or sum, I just seen what happened to Louis how he had to change his personality , then I just read an article on how zyan it's actually really sad all of them are/were damaged when they left , Louis actually had to find him self again
LOUIS HAS A GIRLFRIEND THE MOTHER OF HIS CHILD WHO HE LOVES YOU LARRY SHIPPERS ARE DELUSIONAL AND RUINED THEIR FRIENDSHIP THEY DON'T TALK ANYMORE CUZ Y'ALL HARASS THE PEOPLE WHO THEY ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH
@@johannagrace5575 hhahhaha first of all we don’t shipp larry, we believe in it, it has a difference! second of all, he isn’t even ‘dating’ the mother of ‘his child’, he is in a stunt relationship with Eleanor for a long time, but it isn’t difficult to se that they don’t even support and like each other... And sorry but if they were this uncomfortable with larries they would’ve denied it at least once. if you want i will put a link to a master post: www.google.com.br/amp/s/goldenxstylinson.tumblr.com/post/621117368431738880/complete-larry-masterpost/amp
@@johannagrace5575 please👊✋get ur facts straight. Louis isn't dating the mother of his child and the one he is dating right now is not even engaged with him.
@@johannagrace5575 might be might not be who are u and I to judge lol? Let them do whatever they want y do u care. Just support so that they wont feel disappointed in whatever they choose
I'm appalled by some of the comments. Instead of like actually listening to what the guy is saying (he even said he has watched more than this video) but more importantly read his description under the video: ""I can only give my opinion based on my 15 years experience in social and relationships skills. I'm a huge supporter of the LGBTQ+ community and to judge someone's sexuality when they've expressly stated their own sexuality I believe is harmful to the progress of gay, bi, trans, and non-binary people everywhere."" Some of the Larries keep repeating the mantra of: 1 Nope, he watched the wrong video duh 2 I don't care what he said I still believe, cause we got all the proof! lol This guy. 3 Contracts!!! Like. OMG. You're missing the point here. The point is your behaviour is harmful. You are not supporting the LGBTQ+ community even if that is one of your main reasons for justifying you forcing a sexuality on someone. You are not being a supporting fan of the boys as they have clearly stated they don't like it. Also. Contracts don't work the way you seem to think regarding closeting artists. Thank you for putting this up again Anthony. I know you deleted/took it down due to harassment before. That's this "wonderful" fandom for you. They can't stand someone pointing out their wrong doings. I wish more people would show how harmful it can be to do what the "Larry Community" has done. I mean, it didn't seem to help when Lauren from 5th Harmony told of her anxiety and mental health issues caused by fans shipping her with Camilla so... Awareness needs to be spread. Fans needs to realize that their "innocent fun" can have long lasting consequences. I don't understand why they want to cause harm to people they say they love/idolize.
@lloveharrystyles From the beginning the band was set up as super close friends. From the beginning it was them, their team, that styled them and let them behave as they wanted. From the beginning they provided fan service based on what fans liked. The boys were all touchy feely and in each others personal space. Fans liked Harry and Louis? That’s why they put Harry and Louis together in this interview for example. It’s called Fan service. Also, This clip was hidden… But here it is. And what did they do? Nothing that screams they are in a relationship. *lol* yeah maybe it wasn’t released because it wasn’t a very intetesting interview? It was the boys themselves, Louis and Harry, that felt they couldn’t act normal around each other because of what people like you did. You made them awkward around each other. They felt they had to distance themselves in order to try to make you stop. But sure, blame it on Simon. Louis and Harry will continue to live their lives with their chosen partners regardless. But I suppose you believe Simon is controlling that too even after 6 years since 1D broke up and he has zero claims anymore and he will continue to rule their lives forever. Larries = Conspiracy Theory 101.
this is why mostly girls are the ones shipping larry stylinson. In reality, this is normal behavior of young teen boys. most boys who see larry edits are like eh, that's nothing, we act and do way more than that. To me, shipping within the fandom community is fine but to cross the line and interact/spamming the boys' family, friends, and partners (who are practically strangers to us) about this ship for years is very rude imo.
Theres a difference between us - larries and them - bluegreeners. We respects boys, support them, not make everything about them, respect Eleanor danielle freddie taylor etc, not ask their families about it. Meanwhile bluegreeners...
honestly, ive been binge watching zarry edits and it's the same behaviour if not even more intense behaviour than larry edits are. But obviously they are not dating. they are normal boys with close relationship with each other, comfortable enough to do any kinds of acts together. so larry is not so special to me, harry has this dynamic with any other boys.
Yes. The thing is most boys don’t see Larry videos. And most girls don’t know how teen boys act. I acted like this all the time w BEST friends as a kid. Not with everyone, but my best friends who shared the same personality as me. Though, I don’t care if people believe me or not. I’m happy to have Larries continue what they’re doing! I just want everyone to be kind and respect boundaries.
That’s why we say larries are way completely different then bluegreeners larries just ship them and think they’re adorable like we do with niam and nouis and narry and all that stuff but bluegreeners push it way more
Bromances are great but this was a romance. It’s not a bromance when one of them gets a boner multiple times just by looking at the other, the jealousy, touching each other when they thought no one could see, blowing ‘hidden’ kisses, caressing the others arm or face. I think it’s great when boys can be affectionate and comfortable with each other but this was different.
louis didn’t smile for the fact of having a girlfriend, they LAUGHED because just before the interview starts they both were making fun of having to say they were single and all the other things they were employed to say
He didn't really analyse that video, if he had he would have noticed all the obvious things in the video. I am no larrie but geez, i am not blind either....
I agree, close friends can jokingly pretend that they're in a relationship, I do that with my straight friends. However, I think it was real because of all the other proof. One of the biggest things for me is their music, like Harry's Adore You music video sharing very similar frames with the book "Louis the Fish" and Louis' song Habit which references the time when he and Harry were living together in Princess Park. Also, Harry tweeted about Louis cooking a meal for the first time and Louis referenced cooking that meal as the most romantic thing he ever did for a partner in many interviews after that, even after one direction broke up. Whenever it was brought up in interviews, he never mentioned Harry so that couldn't be him joking around about being in a relationship with him. That's just a couple reasons of many why I think Larry is real, but I totally respect your opinion :)
@k Yeah, I've seen that video of Dave Meyers talking about the music video idea. However, I still think it's strange that the Adore You official promo twitter account (verified and run by Harry's team) literally liked a post about the book Louis the Fish for Adore You anniversary. And also interacted with loads of larries. Here's the post: twitter.com/louis28donny/status/1335646089249230848
@@katie2555 I wouldn’t look too much into that. Official accounts are usually required to interact with loads of posts, it boosts the amount of people talking about it. It doesn’t necessarily confirm or deny anything. Besides, I doubt the people behind the accounts truly know anything.
Hear me out I don't hate people who ship them i'm not a shipper because I feel like people taking it too far obviously Louis doesn't like it. You guys generally think they have a serious relationhip. Not hating but thinks if you wanted them to be happy you would calm it done.
But Larry shippers don't really love them. They love a fantasy version of them. They turn on them when they don't get their way. And they fetish on them.
You did say that jolivia is just friends but here we are after months getting a really good heart break song...so idk how much of ur analysis is accurate 👀👀
I think Harry would be open about this relationship if it were real. He's famous enough to push his management aside if he wanted to and just come forward. I don't think Louis would still be with Eleanor if she was just a fake girlfriend to keep rumors at bay. I think after 10 years they would have made it public by now. Also, no one in their lives have ever come forward and said it was real. They have been surrounded by so many people for 10 years but no one has come forward and said yes this was real. People can't keep secrets that well. Tabloids would have paid a fortune for definitive proof. Harry is just a playful and affectionate person which is why there is Larry, Zarry, and Narry. I love him and wish everyone in the world were as kind and affectionate as him.
Girl I don't want to hate on you I respect your opinion. But have you watched louis' stephfather posting a tiktok of Harry yesterday. Have you seen the videos about their parents talking about their Future son in law in a post on Instagram (it got deleted after 4 minutes). I just think there is too much little things that happened. Also have you ever heard Louis of Harry denying Larry immediately without them stuttering and looking for a way to turn this answer?
And did you see al the tattoos and songs they wrote for each other? And the most romantic thing Louis has ever done was the first time he cooked. Harry posted it on twitter it was for him!
exactly!! i act like this with my best friends. in middle school me and my best friend were so flirty n some of our teachers ACTUALLY thought we were together lmao. everyone’s a little gay with their best friends
but what about "my first crush was louis tomlinson" - harry styles or fan: " are you and louis dating?" harry: *nods* fan: "are you?" harry: *quietly* yep... you should totally watch one of those videos there you can rlly see that he's being serious
as he said in the video, management wouldn't let those jokes fly and i don't think harry would say that if he knew he "wasn't supposed to" it makes sense that they joke around as if they're dating sometimes like many friends do :)
