I used to think the way u think... but when I'm seeing most people treat that haram matter as normal, I started to have doubt about my principles. thank u for shooting this video and thank u for saying "some of us didn't have Takwa of Allah but we most likely have Takwa of our parents" اللهم اهدنا فيمن هديت وثبت قلوبنا على الحق
"i want you to see him as a person who's sick" It never crossed my mind to look at it this way, I GUESS YOU CAN REALLY LEARN FROM SOMEONE YOUNGER THAN YOU. Thank you very mush indeed, THANK YOU.
Its one heck of a video, you've made some great points. But theres so much people would disagree with, I think it all boils down to the lack of patience and how fast we need results now. Thank you for sharing
Thank you. Also, let's remember that those who might disagree with this disagree with what Allah prohibited but we gotta remember at the end of the day it's not our job to force this upon anyone لا إكراه في الدين we can only advise and help guide.
كلام رصين وقول متين واستعراض فاتن، غريب أني تابعت المقطع كاملا وأنا لا ألجُ مواقع التواصل إلا نادرا أو مكرها. شكرا على وقتك وبحثك، أسأل الله أن يحفظك ويبارك فيكِ وفي من ربّاك
I'm always right in my belief that this generation has individuals who will uphold our values and principles. Thank you, Lubna I am a new subscriber now
Wallahi sister as a girl myself , I think you’re absolutely gorgeous, inside and outside Allahumabarik. And your advice is good and real , I definitely agree with you, I hope Allah sends us our naseeb and let us get into a halal barakah relationship soon Amen. Like my comments and I will reply if I’m married yet, im 20 years old now.
You explored this topic in a different prespective from the how scholars usually discuss it in my view. You took me by surprise by how wise you are. May Allah keep you steadfast on the straight path.
This video is much needed for today's generation. May Allah reward you for this and grant hidayah to all of us Muslims. You beautifully stated verses 112-113 of Al-Mu'minun at 9:25. Indeed, this world is just an illusion, as Allah said: "O humanity! Indeed, Allah’s promise is true. So do not let the life of this world deceive you, nor let the Chief Deceiver deceive you about Allah." [Al-Qur'an 35:5]. It is hard to have sabr, but in the end, it will be rewarded greatly, as Allah said: "Whoever does good, whether male or female, and is a believer, We will surely bless them with a good life, and We will certainly reward them according to the best of their deeds." [Al-Qur'an 16:97]. Put your trust in Allah alone, and it will be okay, Insha'Allah.❤🩹
I think the family point is a huge one knowing that if you trust your family and let them help you, its almost like Allah found a way through them. Family SHOULD be the place where you have a sense of comfort and openness and something like your first relationship is not hidden.
بنصح بمشاهدة الدورة التأهيلية للحياة الزوجية للدكتور محمد خير الشعال وخاصة حلقتي اختيار الزوج واختيار الزوجة فيهن عشر نقاط اساسية لتقيم نفسك والطرف الاخر وفق ما يرضى الله به 🌷
Girl you have amazing faith and mindset mashaallah it the first time for me watching your Chanel I always warn my friends about haram relationships and friendship with other gender يارب يثبتنا ويهدي الجميع💞💞
Mash´Allah sister you speak so softly but straightforward at the same time! I really needed this reminder. Thank you so much and may Allah protect you dear
thank you a lot, i cant describe how i was struggling in this topic, to find a meaningful explanation,and Subhan Allah this video camed to my recommendations at the same day i was struggling the most about this topic, i felt its not easy for me to ask my parents about it because i would feel embarrassed, and alhamdulillah who showed me this video, i really can not explain how you helped me, thanks
Nice video. You have clearly pointed out that this shortened life doesn't deserve useless relationships, especially if it's against Islam. The understanding and the true belief of hearafter can create an islamic doctrine in our hearts so we can know exactly what's good and evil, and also to focus on having good deeds.. may Allah bless you, sis.. i like to see more of you
Same thing I'm trying to explain her. She is so emotional. I said to her that we have to stop chatting right now. But she didn't even agree with me. I'm sending this video to her. We have been in relationship last 1 years but this is haram. so i told her that I'm studying. I need one job then I'll marry but she didn't understand me. pray for us.
Allahumma barik sister ❤❤!! Your words are deep and true . Truely an empathetic beautiful soul !! I loved listening to you ! May Allah bless you and your viewers!!
Facts: 1- women want to continue high education (which is fine) 2- women want to continue working 3- women want to wear any type of dresses 4- women want to go out anytime without being asked 5- women want to go to mixed gyms and ride horses 6- women want to get married while they're in another city 7- women want to control the house 8- women don't know how to cook 9- women didn't show any hospitality when i went to their home with gifts in my hands 10, 11, 12, ... etc => In short, they do everything except home related activities This is what i saw when i knocked on doors for marriage, i still believe this is better than haram way , but our generation is unfortunately disappointing i know this comment might hurt some , but it's a reality and it's bitter
Selfawareness is peeking in these gerneration, but I also keep seeing the complette opposite occuring. emotional intelligence an essential skill to have, yet I see ppl breaking up for minor things and don't even want to work to solve a problem. everyone just want to be in their subjective right in order to justefly their behavoirs. And this is more than frustrating.
Let me briefly tell you that in our time, no matter how paradoxical it may sound, more and more lonely people. One of the main reason is the complications of halal marriage for due to poor understanding of religion and high demands of families, the culture and traditions that go against the laws of the Almighty. And the haram relationships have become easier than ever, and many fall into this trap, (I even conducted an experiment where I suggested girls to get married right away and do everything in a halal way, after which I saw their reluctance because many have already had bad experiences or want a relationship before the wedding in order to get to know me better). Although previously people got married easily based on the character, manners and religiosity of a person, not only on material well-being. This is my personal experience and therefore this is a subjective opinion. May Allah protect all brothers and sisters and make life easier for all of us
ماشاءالله كلامك مبني على علم ودين في نفس الوقت وقناتك مفيدة للمسلمين الأجانب وف نفس الوقت للعربي المحتاج يحسن الانجليزيه الانجليزي بتاعك جميل وسهل وبسيط
May Allah bless you sister, absolutely spot on! The dating perspective differs between boys and girls in its broad understanding, and everyone should ask this valid question, how many cases did they end up with marriage? and how many cases out of datings did they end up with adultery? Once we truly answered this question, we would realise why it’s haram in the first place.
if someone stays away from haram relationships Allah will give helal and a beautiful relationship, just need sabr and dua. (I promise u are not gonna regret it.)
May Allah bless you my dear respected sister. You are speaking about a critical topic that needs to be addressed and, allahumabarik, I think you covered every small and big point regarding the concept of free-mixing and dating in general. Keep up the good work my dear respected sister!
Thank you for the great message and may allah guide us all to his path. Love the research I think it would be great to site your sources so as to leave room for other people to find more in depth information.
Create a video about the hijab and how we gain self-confidence without makeup, how we coexist with society in which most girls are not completely committed to the hijab, and how we deal with societal rejection of the idea of the hijab and loneliness because of it because they consider us boring and old.
حلقة جميييييلة، ممتعة و مفيدة ❤، تعرفت عليك في كلمة نور مع امك و اختك 😍، احببتكم جدااااا و الذي اعجبني رغم صغر سنك انت ناضجة و تتحاورين بشكل رائع و مقنع بارك الله فيكن، تحياتي سهام من الجزائر ❤❤❤
